# marriedbyjosh.com — full content dump > Concatenated markdown for 514 indexable pages. Generated at build. --- # Josh Withers | Wedding Celebrant in Tasmania, Australia URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/ # Wedding Celebrant + Officiant ## I make your marriage ceremony the best part of your wedding I'm **Josh Withers**, husband since 2012, father of three, Tasmanian, a full-time marriage celebrant creating meaningful, unscripted ceremonies since 2009.2,900+ weddings and elopements in 24 countries means I bring so much experience and joy to your wedding, clear legal guidance, professional audio system and a calm, natural ceremony delivery because I don't read from a script.Every ceremony is created from scratch, just for you two. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [About Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony as a marriage celebrant and officiant](/_astro/hero-224.B8UGgQK2_7GO8f.jpeg) ![](/maps/hobart-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over [2,900 couples](/wedding-testimonials) across 24 countries. Here's what you get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something sacred. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly, and your videographer gets pristine audio for your film. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Calm Presence Professionally calm and confident on your wedding day. I adapt to the moment, the people, and the beautiful chaos with authenticity. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Built with the discipline of professional speaking: every part earns its place, the room stays with you, and nothing meaningful feels rushed. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start getting to know each other. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person or via video call. I'll guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I'll create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## From couples who loved their wedding - > "First of all, a huge thank you for this unforgettable wedding. We are so glad we had Josh Withers as our Celebrant at Uluru. Before the wedding, he was available to us at almost any time of the day or night. He guided us with a lot of patience in far away Germany through all the forms we had to fill out for our wedding. He also took time to address our fears and concerns that come with making such a decision. The wedding day itself was absolutely wonderful." --- ![Bernie & Christiane](/_astro/uluru-elopement-icon.SNyrREq3_Z167vwN.jpeg) Bernie & Christiane Eloped at Uluru - > "Josh is a truly wonderful celebrant who will make you feel at ease from your first meeting. Josh has an exceptional way with words and delivered the ceremony of our dreams. It was heartfelt and intimate (exactly what we wanted) and I would recommend him to anyone wanting a ceremony that is the opposite of cookie cutter style. His words come straight from the heart (and are not read from off an iPad!) and having him as our celebrant was the perfect intro into marriage. Forever grateful we chose Josh!" --- ![Carissa & Jack](/_astro/CarissaJack-97.CkOqnlZx_Z2aJcPf.jpeg) Carissa & Jack Destination wedding - > "Josh was wonderful to work with in organising our special day. Given neither of us had done this before, he was helpful, kind and informative. Thanks, Josh." --- ![Daniela and Belinda, Frogmore Creek](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Daniela_photo_5Ohj8JlnH?tr=w-40%2Ch-40%2Cf-auto) Daniela and Belinda Hobart wedding at Frogmore Creek [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Today Britt and I live in Tasmania’s Huon Valley with our three kids. I’m still fascinated by what makes a marriage worth celebrating, and lucky enough to spend my working life helping couples mark that decision in a way that feels true to them. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # 11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding May 28, 2019 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # 11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) The colonel’s chicken has got nothing on a wedding! Put these 11 secret ingredients in a wedding p(l)an and fry until golden (hour). 1. Love — that thing where you look at that guy or girl and you feel elephants in your heart (because butterflies are too small) 2. Reality — take a good hard look at who you really are, because that’s the makeup of this wedding. It’s all about you, celebrating you. And by you, I mean both of you. 3. [Music](/wedding-songs) — music does things that words and pretty stylings cannot. 4. Style — weddings aren’t about style, they’re about people, but every person has their own style. Let that style flow at your wedding because it’s a celebration of you! 5. Food — it’s not a real party until there’s cake. 6. Drink — need it be explained? 7. A Village — you’re not inviting everyone on Facebook, you’re inviting the people that you would call your village. The people that matter to you, and you matter to them. These are the people that wouldn’t think twice about lending you $20 or helping you move house. 8. Fireworks — an explosion of awesomeness to start the party off. I like to call this the wedding ceremony. Not a slow-starting ceremony that is a lead-in to a greater party later on that night, but a fire-starter that gets you and everyone attending in the mood for a spectacular celebration. You’ll need a celebrant. I know a [guy](/). 9. A Reason — you need an underlying purpose to the day so that you’re not tossing up between a photo booth or a bocce set. Instead, you have an idea of why everyone has taken an afternoon and evening off from life and put on fancy clothes. Once you’ve got a reason, you’ve got a party. It’s just a matter of assembling your superstars then. There’s no use hiring a [photographer](/friends) if you don’t value photos. But if you like looking at photos, get a sweet photog involved! 10. Simplicity — over-complicating ceremonial things, for example, making the wedding ceremony entrance require a stage manager, makes for unhappy people. Unhappy people that wanted the over-complicated entrance and are disappointed that the bridesmaid couldn’t pull it off. And unhappy people burdened by lots of weird, complicated stuff that doesn’t really matter. 11. Style Again — we were born naked and we’ll die naked, but for those rare awesome minutes in between, we identify ourselves by our clothing, our style, our fashions and our furniture. Don’t wear a white dress and a black suit if you hate them. But do dress up so you feel like the sexiest person on the planet and you look the part as well. Don’t adhere to traditional stylings, but be sure to show yourself off - this is an awesome day that requires awesome styling. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-of-condiments) ### [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Rowlers— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rowlers-0dzguwi) - [Charli— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charli-018ikj2) - [Rachel— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rachel-0csfgaj) --- # I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/18-minutes May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Britt and I enjoyed a meal at a Michelin-starred restaurant while we were in Rome this week. You know the kind — dim lights, perfect plating, waitstaff who gently place your cutlery like they’re handling ancient artefacts. The food? Incredible. Genuinely some of the best bites my mouth has ever had the pleasure of demolishing. But also: the servings were _small_. You don’t go to a fine dining restaurant to get full. You go for the flavour, the experience, the craft. Every element is intentional. Nothing is wasted. Marriage ceremonies should be the same, in my humble little opinion. ## Bigger isn’t better. Better is better. Too many think a wedding ceremony should be long to be meaningful. That somehow, more readings, more poems, more unity rituals, more words equals more emotion. But that’s just not true. If you’ve ever scrolled a wedding subreddit, read a bride or groom’s wedding blog, or talked to literally _anyone_ who’s been to a wedding, you’ll notice no one — and I mean **no one** — is asking for longer ceremonies. Not once has a guest said, “Wow, that was beautiful, but I wish it went for another 40 minutes.” And yet, a celebrant friend once told me with a straight face that “the people want a one-hour ceremony.” People want a _good_ ceremony. Not a long one. Just like people want _good_ movies. If the story needs three hours, fine — but if it can be told in 80 minutes and leave you breathless, even better. ## My 18-minute rule Years of professional speaking have taught me that around 18 minutes is a useful sweet spot. The discipline is not in racing through the important parts; it is in knowing what belongs, reading the room, and giving every meaningful moment enough space. It’s long enough to say something profound. Short enough to keep people engaged. Just right for making people feel something and remember it later. It’s not that _every_ ceremony must be exactly 18 minutes. But it’s a useful guide. Around 15–20 minutes is usually the perfect length to do all the beautiful, funny, powerful, meaningful things — and still leave people wanting more, not checking their watches and wondering when the bar opens. ## It’s easy to make a long ceremony. The hard part is making a good short one. Anyone can fill an hour. That’s easy. Throw in some templated readings, a couple of recycled jokes, a longwinded life story, maybe a sand ceremony or a reading about penguins or quote Friends about lobsters — boom. You’re at 45 minutes before anyone even says “I do.” But that’s not craft. That’s filler. Writing a short, powerful, memorable ceremony is hard work. It’s editing. It’s curation. It’s being ruthless with what stays and what gets cut. Every word has to _earn its place_. It’s the difference between dumping ingredients in a pot and calling it stew — or hand-crafting a dish with balance, texture, and actual flavour. ## For my couples: what to expect If you’re planning a ceremony with me, just know this — we’ll aim for the good stuff. The fine dining version. Not rushed, not padded. Just right. Not short for the sake of being short. Short because we respect your guests’ attention, your time, and your wedding day. And most importantly, because we can say everything that _actually matters_ in less time than it takes to microwave a pub schnitty. ## For celebrants (yes, I see you) Stop trying to impress each other with how long you can talk. The real flex is being able to hold space, create meaning, tell a story, and marry two people in under 20 minutes — and still leave people raving about how _real_ and _honest_ and _bloody good_ the ceremony was. Serve up a ceremony like it’s a degustation. Not a buffet. **Less gravy. More flavour.** - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-timeline) ### [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Skyler— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/skyler-0j5wxs4) - [Chrissie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chrissie-0qiwu9l) - [Charlotte— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charlotte-1yqohe5) --- # The Wedding Tax URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax Feb 6, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # The Wedding Tax Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive ![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Let’s talk about something that often causes stress for engaged couples: wedding vendor pricing. You might have heard people complain about the “wedding tax” – that mysterious markup that seems to appear as soon as you mention the word “wedding.” But here’s the thing: creating weddings isn’t like any other industry, and there’s more to those prices than meets the eye. ## Why Wedding Planning Feels So Different If you’re feeling overwhelmed about planning your wedding, you’re not alone. Think about it: you’re likely planning the biggest event you’ve ever organized, bringing together the most people you’ve ever gathered (from every branch of your family and friendship trees), and spending more money than you’ve ever spent before. And you’re doing all this in an industry that operates unlike any other. ## The Unique World of Wedding Vendors Here’s something that might surprise you: the wedding industry is almost exclusively made up of micro to small businesses. When you reach out to a wedding vendor, you’re most likely talking to a solo operator or a small team who has dedicated their career to making wedding dreams come true. ## The Real Math Behind Wedding Pricing Wedding creators who do this full-time have to carefully calculate how many weddings they can realistically take on each year. The math is surprisingly straightforward: Annual expenses + annual household income + annual taxes = required income Then: Required annual income ÷ number of possible weddings = charge per wedding Simple, right? Well, not quite. Let’s break down what goes into those “expenses.” ## The Hidden Costs of Creating Wedding Magic ### Basic Business Expenses - Insurance and registration fees - Income taxes and other government fees - Vehicle costs, maintenance, and fuel - Professional equipment such as cameras, sound systems and their backups - Travel expenses, including rental cars, flights, and accommodation - Their own wage from the business ### The Invisible Work - Time spent answering enquiries from couples who don’t book - Marketing and advertising costs - Social media management - Website maintenance - Time spent experimenting and improving their craft - Preparation and post-wedding processing time (photographers often spend 1-5 days processing images from a single wedding) ### The Human Factor - Taking proper rest to maintain creativity and energy - Time off for family and personal life - The “wedding hangover” - that day after your wedding when we’re completely spent from giving our all - Regular equipment upgrades and maintenance - Ongoing education and skill development ## Why Quality Wedding Vendors Don’t Come Cheap Every failed wedding vendor story I’ve encountered usually comes down to one thing: they didn’t charge enough to sustain their business properly. They either burned out, couldn’t maintain their equipment, or weren’t resourced enough to deliver what they promised. ### Four Tips for Working with Wedding Vendors 1. **Accept that you might not know what things cost** Most of us don’t know what professional services should cost until we need them. Keep an open mind and ask questions to understand what you’re getting for your money. 2. **Show appreciation** When you receive a quote, remember that someone put time and thought into crafting it for you. A simple acknowledgment goes a long way. 3. **Consider value, not just price** Price always exists within the context of value. What seems expensive at first might be incredibly valuable when you understand everything that’s included. 4. **Remember you’re working with humans** Approach vendors with respect and openness. Instead of saying “You’re too expensive,” try “I appreciate your work - are there ways we could work within my [budget](/withers-wedding-method)?” ## A Personal Note Every time someone books me for their wedding, two things happen. First, I feel an immense responsibility to create something truly special for them. From that moment on, part of my brain is already planning and preparing for their day. Second, I feel genuine joy that someone has connected with what I do and has chosen to trust me with their special day. The real “wedding tax” isn’t what you pay – it’s the emotional and mental investment that every dedicated wedding vendor pours into making your day absolutely perfect. --- _Photo by [Hobart wedding photographers, Lu and Lo](https://www.luandloweddings.com)_ - [Wedding Vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) ### [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/essential-wedding-checklist) ### [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Renee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/renee-0t2ka3l) - [Lisa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lisa-0qvfgrq) - [Rob & Rachel— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz) --- # 25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/2025-wedding-ideas Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # 25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025 Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) **25 Game-Changing Wedding Ideas for 2025** Let’s make your wedding not just a “big day” but _your_ day—filled with purpose, intention, and stories that scream “this is us!” Here’s the latest edition of Josh’s crazy wedding ideas for people ready to shake things up, ignore the cookie cutter, and build a new kind of tradition for their wedding in 2025. ![Holographic wedding guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/A_hand-drawn_style_sketch_of_a_wedding_ceremony_with_a_holographic_guest_seated_among_other_guests_in_the_audience_PuFT7ZVAZ?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### 1\. **Beam Me Up, Aunty Sue!** Got a loved one who can’t make it? Imagine having their holographic self right there, sipping bubbly and saying, “Cheers!” Life-sized holograms aren’t here yet (and they’d probably cost a small house deposit), but we can dream. Until then we’ll just Facetime or Zoom but I can’t wait for Aunty sue to beam in. --- ### 2\. **Rings That Do More Than Sparkle** What if your wedding ring could hold your vows, track your heartbeat, or count down to anniversaries? Sleek, techy, and symbolic of your love, literally at your fingertips. --- ### 3\. **Gardens, Not Bouquets** Cut flowers are so last season. Rent living plants that can be replanted after the wedding, maybe even in your home garden. It’s like giving a little green gift back to the planet—and it’s utterly gorgeous. --- ### 4\. **A Zero-Waste Feast** Picture a menu made from ingredients saved from going to waste. Add in live cooking demos where chefs show off their creativity. It’s Michelin-star vibes meets a masterclass in sustainability. Delicious and good for the world? Yes, please. --- ### 5\. **Your Family DNA in a Glass** Create cocktails inspired by your ancestry. Imagine tasting your roots—maybe a spicy drink nods to your Mexican heritage, while a herbaceous gin spritz honors your Italian side. Drinks with a story, anyone? --- ### 6\. **Dancing in the Mood Light** Smart lights that vibe with the energy in the room? Yep, they exist. As the mood shifts—tears during vows, wild joy on the dance floor—the lighting follows. It’s like your wedding’s emotional DJ. --- ### 7\. **Time Capsule, But Make It Digital** Replace the sand ceremony with a tech twist. Guests add photos, videos, and messages to a digital capsule you’ll unlock on your 10th anniversary. Nostalgia, future-proofed. --- ### 8\. **Silent Beats, Loud Memories** Noise restrictions? Who cares. Give guests wireless headphones for silent discos with channels for classic wedding tunes, pop hits, or your mum’s love of classical. Everyone’s dancing, and the neighbors aren’t calling noise control. --- ### 9\. **Augmented Guestbooks** Skip the Sharpie-on-paper routine. Guests leave AR or spatial video messages tied to spots in your venue. Scan that code in ten years, and boom—you’re back in the moment. --- ### 10\. **Crowd-Powered Art** Instead of a boring guest book, have guests contribute to an evolving piece of art—something you can hang on your wall later. A mosaic, a painting, or even an interactive digital projection. Love, literally, made visible. --- ### 11\. **Mindful Moments** Take five before you take your vows. Guided breathing sessions for you—and your guests—so everyone is fully present. No nerves, just love. --- ### 12\. **Recharge in Style** A wellness lounge with oxygen bars, massages, and herbal teas? Give your guests a place to reset between dancing and dessert. Genius. --- ### 13\. **Foodie Adventures** Create a menu tailored to each guest’s tastes using AI (yes, it’s that clever). Think bespoke wine pairings and dishes for every preference. --- ### 14\. **Social Media Posts That Tell Your Story** Content creators are the newest [wedding vendor](/friends) category, but watch that segment become more attuned to the sensitivity of a wedding, mixing that with professional video and photo equipment, plus smarter workflows, so you’re getting A-grade social media content in the moment on the day. --- ### 15\. **Attire That Changes With You** Imagine a dress that shifts colours from ceremony whites to reception golds. Or a suit with a fiber-optic light show. Fashion, but make it a digital interactive experience. --- ### 16\. **Fashion Fusion** Mix your heritage into your attire with modern takes on traditional outfits. A sari-inspired gown? A tartan vest with a techy twist? Yes! --- ### 17\. **Drone Goodbyes** Skip the sparklers. A drone light show will light up the night sky with a choreographed display. Fireworks, but sustainable. --- ### 18\. **Feelings Into AI Art** Wearable tech records the emotions of your day—heartbeats during vows, nervous jitters before the kiss—and turns it into AI art. Your love, visualized. --- ### 19\. **Give More Than Thanks** Set up an impact registry where guests donate to causes you care about. Watch a virtual “thank you forest” grow in real-time or see a water project take shape. Use a registry tool your guests already understand. --- ### 20\. **Dinner Around the World** Food stations featuring cuisines from places that mean something to you. Italy for the honeymoon, Japan for your sushi obsession. A global buffet of your love story. --- ### 21\. **Love on the Blockchain** Immortalise your vows in blockchain. A bit techy, a lot symbolic. Forever promises, forever saved. --- ### 22\. **Venues That Care** Pick a [venue](/here) with a cause—like an eco-lodge that supports conservation or a cultural site that shares your heritage. Your venue, your values. --- ### 23\. **Relive It, in Spatial 3D Photos and Video** Capture your wedding day with Apple Vision Pro for spatial memories that let you step back into the moment. It’s nostalgia with depth. --- ### 24\. **Unity in Action** Instead of lighting a candle, plant a forest. Every guest contributes, and your love grows—literally. --- ### 25\. **Memory Walls That Speak** AR-powered venue tours where your story comes to life. Guests unlock photos, animations, or love notes by scanning QR codes and activating the augmented reality mode on their phones. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) ### [Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. - [![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-of-condiments) ### [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Lauren— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lauren-13q9bdf) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8) - [Jade— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jade-1jmgkfn) --- # How we got our guest list from 200 to 45 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/45-guests Jul 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # How we got our guest list from 200 to 45 Our guest list meant a lot of different things to us when we reflect on our 2012 wedding. Here's how we got it from 200 to 45. ![How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_and_Brittany_Withers_Wedding_cPkzjXON-?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Looking at our ([Britt](https://brittanywithers.com) and my) 2012’s wedding guest list of 45 it means a lot of different things to us in reflection. As a man who had overcome adversity to become a wedding celebrant — from being homeless in my teens to having a moderately successful career in the media — I initially felt the same way most guys do when they are making their guest list: **I am inviting everyone I ever knew!**. Some of us guys wish we could contact everyone we’ve ever known to inform them of our success. We plan on inviting them to the show where they will discover if we’re totally useless or not. Surprise! We’re not a failure! 📝 _Tech note: How’s the feature image from our wedding ceremony! I look like a baby! Britt, as beautiful as ever. Photographed by my friend [Paul Bamford](https://www.paulbamfordweddings.com) who’s still shooting weddings today and he was already a pro and established in 2012 when we got married._ ## The calculator After I showed Britt the list of nearly two hundred names and spouses, she pulled out her phone’s calculator app and gave me the price per person from the [wedding venue](/here). ![Wedding calculator ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_calculator_0uqmob9wz?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Doing the math I reasoned that maybe all they needed to do was look at a Facebook photo instead of costing us hundreds per head. With the exception of a small group of relatives who didn’t bother to show up, I was able to reduce the cohort I had originally assembled to a mere ten. ## 45 45 people showed up for Britt and my wedding ceremony on game day in total because her family had reached an appropriate level of maturity where obligation guests weren’t on the list. With 45 people in attendance, we were able to catch up with old friends, spending quality time with them, something that was missing from our engagement party. ## Our engagement party Our engagement party was a different story. My friend Jon was there with 150 others and I will never forget how it played out. I distinctly recall joyously greeting him at the front door upon his and his wife’s arrival from Toowoomba, where they had travelled for the celebration. After I finished welcoming everyone who came, I had a drink, caught up with a few friends, and then was called to the microphone to deliver a speech and cut the cake. Instantly following this, a small group of family members with children had to depart, so we bid them farewell. As the stream of people leaving started, I had the opportunity to see Jon for the second time that evening as we said our goodbyes. Their long drive was for nought because we didn’t even get to spend time together. ## We missed a few Although we are closer now than we previously were, there are probably about ten other people we regret not inviting to the wedding.💒We all make mistakes, we live, we learn, we apologise, we try better. Nonetheless, our relationships blossomed and developed even though they were not invited, which shows that they were better people than we realised at the time. ## Invite as many and as few The most important thing for you to know, remember, and do is to invite as many people as you can to your wedding, and as few as possible. No more, no less. Absolutely no obligation wedding guests, no long-lost relatives, and no acquaintances from your childhood who your parents would love to have there. ## Your wedding isn’t a report card for young adult hood, it’s the beginning of your marriage It’s nice for everyone to know that I got the chocolates, that I won the lotto, that I lucked up, but is it worth the stress, the money, and the effort? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guest list](/tag/guest-list) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) ### [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) ### [The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. - [![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/no-bridal-party) ### [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8) - [Laus— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laus-12n3vha) - [Scott & Rebecca— Canberra, Australian Capital Territory](/wedding-testimonials/scott-and-rebecca-192y7bm) --- # 5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/5-bs-facts Apr 8, 2022 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 2 min read # 5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true Just because mum said so doesn't make it true. Get some truth and some stability into your wedding planning with these tips. ![5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiss-the-bride_Amw5cZKjP?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) These are the top five things I need to myth-bust when I meet with couples as we plan their wedding. Remember, your wedding is in Australia and there isn’t a director or a camera, so the rules of American cinema and television need not apply to your wedding! 1. **“It’s not legal until you say ‘I do’”** In fact, you can have a legitimate, legal and awesome ceremony without saying “I do” to anything. 2. **“Guests are to be given the opportunity to object”** The only time I’ll ask for objections is if I’m in a gossipy mood. If someone has an objection to your wedding taking place, they really should say something beforehand. Like, really early on. 3. **“SOMEONE has to walk the bride down the aisle”** Unless she is physically unable to arrive at the ceremony on her own, the bride is welcome to walk anywhere, aisle or otherwise, by herself, or with someone else—a family member or friend, or even her groom! 4. **“By the power vested in me…”** This is a nice way of leading into the end of the ceremony, but all of the traditional ceremony words, like “Dearly beloved” and “All rise for the bride” are just phrases one person thought of years ago that everyone else has copied. You get to choose your own words to say at your wedding! 5. **“You may now kiss the bride”** I’m not against kissing—after all, kissing is awesome—but there’s no right or wrong place or time to kiss a bride when you are her groom. But if you want my permission, I’ll definitely give it to you! - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-dont) ### [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Sascha & Jitesh— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sascha-and-jitesh-10gd875) - [Sharon & Jason— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sharon-and-jason-1lsrp7r) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8) --- # 5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) · 4 min read # 5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Marriage is not for the faint of heart. Sure, we’ve all heard about the small stuff—like accepting that towels might be folded “wrong,” enduring game night with the boys, or resigning yourself to rom-coms on your TV. But marriage is tough in ways no one mentions at weddings. Here’s the real talk: five tough truths about marriage that every married person knows—and how to face them head-on and win anyway. ## 1\. Marriage isn’t fair. And it never will be. Marriage is not a 50/50 split. Some days it’s 90/10, and the next it might swing the other way. Life isn’t a perfectly balanced teeter-totter, and neither is love. Picture this: you’re on a teeter-totter trying to stay perfectly level the whole time. Whenever someone starts to rise, the other complains about how unfair it is. Nobody laughs, nobody enjoys the ride. That’s not a playground—that’s purgatory. Marriage works when you stop keeping score. Push when it’s your turn, ride the highs, and trust your person not to send you flying when you’re up top. The joy is in the motion, not the math. ## 2\. There’s no finish line. My mother-in-law always says, “You can tolerate anything if you know when it will end.” But marriage doesn’t end—at least, not the way we want to think about it. The vows don’t say, “Until someone gets bored” or “Until one of us needs more me-time.” This is a magic spell without an undo button, a permanent shift in how you see yourself and your partner. It’s two people becoming one entity and tossing the escape hatch. There’s no exit strategy here, and honestly, that’s the beauty of it. Embrace the fact that you’re building something that lasts forever. ## 3\. There are no rest days. Marriage isn’t a part-time job. There’s no vacation, no weekend off, no parole for good behavior. But here’s the kicker—you won’t want a break. You don’t want time off from your left arm, your working lungs, or your favorite playlist. Marriage is a part of you now. That’s not to say it’s easy. There will be days when you’re sick of compromise and tired of selflessness. But remember: you’ve already done the hard stuff—dating. You’re not out there swiping, small-talking, or figuring out if they like pineapple on pizza. You found your person. That’s the real win. ## 4\. There’s no scoreboard. Marriage isn’t a game, so stop looking for trophies. There’s no leaderboard, no “Best Couple” medal, and absolutely no way to compare your marriage to anyone else’s. Think your friends have it all figured out because their Instagram looks dreamy? Maybe behind the photos, they’re sleeping in separate rooms. Or maybe that couple who bickers constantly has a passion that’s off the charts. Here’s the only measure that matters: is your marriage better today than it was yesterday? That’s it. Keep building, keep growing, and let the rest of the world do its thing. ## 5\. There are no rules. Marriage is a “choose your own adventure” book. Sure, there are basics—don’t kill each other, be kind, you know the drill. But beyond that, every couple writes their own rules. Swinging into retirement? Calling each other by goofy pet names? Eating breakfast for dinner every Wednesday? If it works for you two, then it works. The trick is not comparing your marriage to some imaginary “perfect” version. Be your own weird, wild, wonderful selves. --- Marriage is endless, relentless, and messy. It’s also a gift—a chance to build a life so uniquely yours that no one else can even copy it. Stop comparing, start living, and hold onto each other with everything you’ve got. Build something so strong that the hard stuff makes it even tougher to break. Lean in. Love hard. This is worth it. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/intentional-wedding-planning) ### [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/consumated) ### [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Adrieanne & Sheldon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/adrieanne-and-sheldon-1918b0f) - [Rowlers— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rowlers-0dzguwi) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-00ti3fx) --- # 6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage Apr 20, 2024 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) · 3 min read # 6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage Like, you could totally do your own research instead if you want? But if you'd rather read a good blog post on the subject, come on down. ![6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/national-cancer-institute-bwMhq_itmMU__yYhnmAyZ?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Scientists haven’t quite nailed the fairy tale love potion yet, but they’ve got some rock-solid advice to help you build a lasting marriage. Here are six science-backed tips for making your current or future marriage a little more awesome. ## 1\. Marry someone with a similar approach to money It turns out, love isn’t blind when it comes to spending habits. Tightwads and spendthrifts often attract each other like magnets, but it doesn’t always end well. Research from the University of Michigan found that couples who are financial opposites argue more and are less satisfied in the long run. Sure, two big spenders might rack up more debt together, but they’re also less likely to argue about it. So, if your partner’s online shopping habit makes your eye twitch, maybe sit down and have “the talk” about finances early. ## 2\. Have lots of sex Here’s some good news: intimacy can save the day, even for the most neurotic among us (looking at you, Woody Allen types). Research from the University of Tennessee found that neurotic newlyweds who had frequent sex were just as satisfied in their marriage as their more chill counterparts. Bonus round: if your sex life isn’t fireworks now, it might get better with time. A study in _BJU International_ revealed men in their 50s were more satisfied with their sex lives than men in their 30s. There’s hope yet! ## 3\. Say “Thank you” and “we” Gratitude and teamwork—simple but effective. Researchers from Arizona State University discovered that couples who express appreciation for one another have less resentment and more satisfaction in their relationships. Don’t just assume they know you’re grateful—say it out loud. Also, those little pronouns matter. A study from _Psychology and Aging_ showed that couples who use “we” and “our” during arguments stay more connected and less stressed. On the flip side, too much “I” and “me” can lead to more conflict. So, go team “us”! ## 4\. Don’t sweat the small stuff (but don’t ignore it either) Here’s the bad news: your spouse might get more irritating over time. A study from the University of Michigan found that we tend to find our partners increasingly annoying as the years roll on. The good news? This is totally normal. Understanding that little irritations are par for the course might just help you roll with them instead of rolling your eyes. ## 5\. Be honest, even when it’s tough Conflict doesn’t have to be the enemy of a good marriage. In fact, being direct—maybe even critical—can actually help some couples thrive. Research from the University of Tennessee suggests that placing blame and being less forgiving might motivate real change in struggling relationships. But a word of caution: this approach is for serious issues, not everyday squabbles over who left the fridge door open again. ## 6\. Put in the work Spoiler alert: happily-ever-after isn’t handed to you; it’s built. A 2009 study in _Review of General Psychology_ found that long-term couples who put effort into their relationship were more likely to stay in love. The secret sauce? Prioritizing time together, resolving conflicts smoothly, and seeking out new and exciting experiences. Think of your marriage as a garden—it’ll flourish if you water it regularly and pull out the weeds. Neglect it, and, well, you know the rest. So, whether you’re planning a wedding or celebrating decades together, these tips are your blueprint. Marriage might not come with a manual, but science has given us some pretty good footnotes. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) ### [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/intentional-wedding-planning) ### [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matthew & Sara— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-and-sara-03xxgmd) - [Vicki— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/vicki-0uu11zp) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) --- # Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/8-wedding-traditions Mar 19, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 7 min read # Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed From wine-leaking cups to face-smacking machines, these centuries-old wedding traditions prove that getting married has always been wonderfully weird. ![Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ivan-lapyrin-Td_rYk802g4_SAQLN1d2t?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Regular readers of this blog know how passionate I am about wedding traditions. So here are eight more fascinating customs you can learn about today (and probably forget tomorrow)! _Note: Most of these traditions were documented by non-native observers between 100 and 250 years ago. If the observations seem rather… anthropological or… white… in nature, that’s why._ ## 1\. The Integrity of the Cup Among the Abyssinians (now known as the Habesha People of the Horn of Africa), there existed a rather intriguing ceremony involving wine, a cup and a hidden hole. The wedding ceremony itself was quite conventional by today’s standards—featuring feasting, celebrations and the customary sending-off of the newlyweds to their wedding chamber. The following morning, however, the entire village would gather around the site of the previous night’s activities to witness a crucial ritual. The groom would appear holding a cup, which he would present to the bride’s father. What happened next could go one of two ways: In the best scenario, the cup would simply be a cup, and both men would share the wine within, cementing the marriage. However, if the groom released the cup to reveal a concealed hole—allowing all the wine to pour out—the wedding would be instantly annulled. This wordless gesture announced to all present that the groom had discovered his wife was not virtuous before marriage (described as “frail” by the author writing in 1802). The father would then reclaim both his dowry and his daughter. ## 2\. Face-Smackers, Trip Wires and Poetry: A Welsh Marriage It took the mighty Roman Empire 30 years to conquer Wales, that tiny corner of Britain. Apparently, the Welsh had quite the appetite for prolonged sieges—whether defending against the world’s mightiest empire or orchestrating their own weddings in 1815. The process began with a quick, quiet church ceremony. Then the real fun started. The bride and groom would return to their separate houses, and the groom’s friends would mount their horses and charge towards the bride’s home, accompanied by a remarkably athletic piper. The bride’s friends, meanwhile, would have prepared an obstacle course worthy of a military training ground. They’d string straw ropes between trees and set up a peculiar contraption called a gwyntyn (or “quintain” in English)—essentially a face-smacking machine designed to unseat riders. Even if you managed to dodge the face-smacker, you’d still have to face the bride’s friends, who would challenge you to various trials of skill that couldn’t be refused. Should you reach the bride’s house, you’d then need to engage in a battle of wit—reciting poetry and singing clever songs through the door to the women inside. Only when the women ran out of responses would the door finally open. The men would then (somewhat) gently carry off the bride, with her friends in playful pursuit, culminating in another mock battle. After a day filled with poetry, singing and theatrical combat, the bride would finally arrive at her husband’s home, where the festivities—undoubtedly including more singing and mock fighting—would continue well into the night. ## 3\. The Touching Dance Of all the marriage traditions uncovered in my research, the Lillooet Indians of what is now British Columbia had perhaps the sweetest and most sensible approach. They practised what was known as “the touching dance.” Unmarried women would wear sashes while dancing, and if a man wished to marry a particular woman, he would grasp her sash. If she wasn’t interested, she would simply remove it from his grasp, and he would respectfully withdraw. At the dance’s conclusion, the chief would announce the names of couples still connected by their sashes. If a woman had allowed a man to maintain his hold until the end, they were considered married. Rather lovely, isn’t it? ## 4\. The Blister-Packed Bride In the northeastern corner of Russia, the Kamschatkadal (Kamchadal) people had a rather unique approach to matrimony. If you wanted to marry a woman, you’d essentially become a temporary servant to her parents. If they approved of your work, they’d grant permission for the marriage—by instructing you to find their daughter and remove her clothes. That’s when things got interesting. Once word spread that the groom was on the hunt, all the village women would spring into action. They would protect the bride by quite literally mummifying her—layering garment upon garment and binding her with fish nets and straps until she resembled, in the words of one observer, “a mummy.” If the groom got lucky and found his fiancée relatively unguarded, he’d attempt to untangle her. This would trigger an alarm, bringing all the women running to defend the bride—not ceremonially, but with genuine kicks, scratches and attempts to wound the young man. If he succeeded in stripping her, tradition demanded he flee the scene (presumably the gentlemanly response to removing a lady’s fishing gear). The bride would then “tenderly” call him back and invite him to stay. ## 5\. Oh Russia, No. Picture yourself as a Russian contemplating marriage in 1814. Those stereotypes about Russia being bleak and harsh? They didn’t materialise from thin air. Even their most joyous celebrations appeared utterly dismal to foreign observers (and, frankly, to me). The playfulness and mirth so prevalent in other cultures’ marriage ceremonies was notably absent. The process began with the groom’s female friends examining the naked bride for “defects.” If she passed inspection, a church ceremony followed, during which they would shower the bride with hops, wishing her as many children as hops on the ground (rather an extreme blessing, but well-intentioned). At the wedding feast, the newlyweds had to sit without eating while children sang the most obscene songs imaginable in their language. Finally, the wedding party would escort the couple to their chamber, where the husband had concealed a small whip in his boot. “He orders the bride to pull off his boots; and if she happens to remove first the one containing the trinket, she receives it as a token of good fortune. However, should she choose the boot containing the whip, he delivers a stroke with it—a preview of what she might expect in future.” The couple would then have two hours of privacy while elderly women waited outside. Afterwards, the bride was expected to present these women with “the marks of her virginity.” The old women would then braid the bride’s dishevelled hair, collect the dowry from her parents, and thus the blessed union would be complete—to be severed only by the comparatively warm embrace of death. ## 6\. Swedish Wives Get the Upper Foot After the heart-wrenching “joy” of a Russian wedding, it’s refreshing to discover the more whimsical Swedish wedding traditions, recorded in 1835. The Swedes developed clever techniques to ensure the wife maintained the upper hand in marriage: 1. The bride must glimpse her bridegroom before he sees her; this ensures she’ll be in charge. 2. During the ceremony, she should keep at least one foot ahead of his for the same reason. 3. She must be quick to sit first at the wedding banquet. 4. Finally, she should “accidentally” drop something, causing her groom to bend down and retrieve it—thus ensuring he’ll “bend his back to her will” throughout their marriage. Remarkably, Sweden endured winters just as harsh as Russia’s, yet seemed to handle them with considerably more humour. ## 7\. In Case He Forgot Here’s a curious tradition, documented in 1921, shared by regions as distant as “White Russia” (now Belarus) and indigenous Colombian communities: the practice of beating the groom and commanding him to consummate the marriage immediately. In Belarus, the best man would follow the couple to their bedroom, wait until they were under the covers, then whip his friend while shouting, “Look at each other, kiss, and embrace! FAST!” In Colombia, the designated whip-bearer would follow the couple to their marital hut, shouting “TAKE THE WOMAN!” while administering lashes with the same whip used in funeral ceremonies. (The whip’s funeral-related purpose remains mercifully unrecorded.) ## 8\. Truth If you’re seeking a wife in 19th-century Netherlands, there’s just one crucial piece of wisdom to remember: “Those who do not like cats will not get handsome wives.” Wise words indeed. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) ### [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/people-like-us) ### [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Tayla— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/tayla-0c8eylu) - [Derek— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz) - [Amber— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amber-1e8k4if) --- # A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant Nov 28, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 8 min read # A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! ![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’m an individual. Decades later, I can still envisage Mark ‘Jacko’ Jackson screaming those words as he walks down a beach in the [music video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0Q5JFHrGNk). I’m sure you are already aware that Josh Withers is not a mass-produced drone (as cool as the Josh1000 could be), but it’s worth stating the obvious sometimes: I am an individual, I am not the same as everyone else. So let’s put this very unoriginal statement into context: I am a unique marriage celebrant. In Australia, there are about 9,000-10,000 celebrants. I am not the same as every other celebrant. In fact, I am completely unique to every other celebrant on the planet. This could simply be down to the maths - Australia and New Zealand are the only countries to call a celebrant a celebrant; in other countries, they use other names. But forgetting the mathematics of it all, I am an individual, and I’m not writing this to show off or to boast. I’m actually writing it as a warning. A warning to all who may want to book me, read this blog post and consider yourself warned. You now know what you’re getting yourself into. You booked an individual to be the celebrant at your wedding, and this is what that means. --- I don’t read word for word from my notes, unless the situation calls for it, like your vows, or a poem or a reading. Everything else is adlib from notes and dot points and from my brain. This is just how I speak in public. --- I have a personality, I was born with it, my friends encourage it, my wife rolls her eyes at it. I cannot apologise for it, I is who I is. It’s a jovial personality. Likes to smile and hang out with people. --- I lose things sometimes, or just leave them in places, like my sunglasses that were in my pocket that I couldn’t find for ten minutes yesterday. What I mean to say is that I’m human, I make mistakes, sometimes. --- I think that when two people ask me to marry them, they’ve already made the commitment to each other before they ever met me. So my job isn’t to magically glue them together in some kind of ancient weird ceremony where we sacrifice goats and virgins. My job is to pull their people together for a rare 18 minutes of real-life-special-stuff where we stop and celebrate a marriage beginning. Who knows exactly when it began? More than likely it secretly started happening when someone left a toothbrush at someone else’s house. And then it kind of happened when someone asked someone to marry them. And then it really totally happens when we sign some papers on a wedding day. But I don’t possess a magic wand. Just an authority from the federal government to turn a boyfriend and a girlfriend into a husband and wife. --- I think that the phrase “traditional vows” doesn’t mean anything. --- I believe the best wedding vows on the planet are real, true, honest words that you thought of yourself. They’re not a show, they’re a confession, a wailing from your heart, the words that remain when you throw all of your other stuff aside. That’s a vow. Not “I do”. --- I don’t really do the “I do” thing at my ceremonies, unless the bride and groom want them. It just has no legal binding in Australia and is generally a church thing. But if we can come up with something cool for you to “I do” to, then let’s do it. --- I’m actively thinking of new ways to celebrate marriages. This is annoying when you’re on holidays trying not to work, like I am right now as I write this blog post at 11:46 pm from our Washington DC hotel room. This is where pop-up weddings came from. As for the next idea… I’m still waiting. --- I don’t really love wedding traditions for the sake of traditions. They all feel like I’m wearing someone else’s underpants. I remember going over to friends’ houses when I was a kid and parents would suggest that after swimming in a pool, it would be OK for me to wear my friend’s underpants. I was never OK with this. Their underpants are fine, but they just aren’t mine. I’d like to wear mine, please. I feel the same way about wedding traditions. They’re fine and dandy and lovely and awesome. But you are not required by law to follow them… and frankly… they’re someone else’s traditions. There’s an exception to this though: if you find meaning, and purpose and can take ownership of a wedding tradition, then own that baby. She’s all yours. Throw that bouquet with passion. Otherwise - throw them all to the wayside. --- I make typos in blog psots. --- I’m almost never available at 3 pm Saturday. For weddings or even social events (sorry Ash). Even though I get the coolest, hippest, most unique wedding couples, 3 pm Saturday is just a popular time to hold a soirée. So if you’d love me to be at your wedding, consider a different day or time, even an evening - how cool would that be! --- I don’t think there should be sides to a wedding. Just pick a seat and stop being awkward. --- I love it when a crowd of wedding guests cheers the bride and groom on. It just feels right. --- I might laugh at your wedding. Sorry not sorry. --- I like to take a [selfie](https://instagram.com/hellojoshwithers) with couples after weddings. It’s so awesome capturing that real-life raw #justmarried moment #sorrynotsorry. --- I think the most important thing at a wedding is the marriage. Everything else is just fluff. It’s lovely that blah blah blah blah but the only thing that matters is that marriage thing, that real-life thing. --- I also think that a marriage, regardless of whatever other beliefs exist, is a union between two people, to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life. If you have any other meaning, understanding, or belief about marriage, it sits on top of that foundation. --- I won’t tell you how to live your life, or your marriage. I’ll let your parents bring you up 🫠 --- I like music loud. Especially at wedding ceremonies. Especially if it’s the Foo Fighters. --- I think a wedding ceremony is the most real-life, real thing, that can happen in life. Everything else is a lead-up to, or a result of, that real-life thing. --- I like to wear clothes that match my personality. Even if that means you never see my sexy socks. --- I’m at my best when someone lets me be me. Not someone else. You see, I’m an individual, not sure if I’ve mentioned this yet. I am me. --- I think that some of the best weddings have happened on a weekday or at night. And they’ve also had no bridal party. The best one was where everyone there was the bridal party. In short, the best weddings are personal. --- I’m a full-time celebrant; this is my family’s sole income. Although this is my greatest passion in life, and something I’ve dreamed about doing, now I do it also as a living and my wife supports my business as well as running her own plus we parent and homeschool our kids. --- I’ve got feelings. I read every single email and Facebook post and Tweet and Instagram comment. I Google my name and I read things and I take them to heart, because I’m human. Doesn’t everyone do that? --- I’m insanely passionate about doing a really amazing job at weddings. When I don’t, I know it, and if you think I didn’t, then I’m sad. It’s more of an art than a service and it’s awesome when people like your art and it sucks when they don’t. --- I like coffee, and Nintendo 64, and gadgets and playing with photography. Time with my wife should have been at the start of that list, but it’s not in any order, right? --- Also, when we meet, and we will meet at least once if not a thousand times before the wedding day, we’ll talk about your ceremony, about how it can be unique, personal, special and memorable. We’ll discuss what’s going to happen in the ceremony, and you’ve got control over that. But in the end, you’ve got to trust that I’ll do a great job. So you don’t get a draft of the ceremony or a word-for-word copy of the ceremony. Only because I don’t have a word-for-word version of your ceremony. Lots of notes, dot points, more notes and scribbles. Then in the ceremony, I can literally be an MC (master of ceremonies), not a script reader. --- So consider yourself warned. If you’re not cool with this list (that is probably missing a few things) then you’re totally welcome to [book someone else to be your celebrant](https://celebrant.directory/). But if you like me, then let’s [get together and create something amazeballs](/contact). --- - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [choosing a celebrant](/tag/choosing-a-celebrant) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) ### [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-dont) ### [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Paige— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/paige-04r17ds) - [Jen— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jen-0byag0d) - [Ellysha & Charlie— Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) --- # A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court Jan 23, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) · 1 min read # A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court Very few people find the law romantic, but I can always work my magic to find that special needle in the legislative haystack ![A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1694475304554-41b19fbe09c0?q=80&w=2970&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) It’s rare to find a normal person like you or I finding romance in the court system, in particular the US Supreme Court. But when they ruled on marriage equality for the USA I found this excerpt powerful. > No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were. Read the rest of [Obergefell v. Hodges online](https://www.justice.gov/sites/default/files/crt/legacy/2015/06/26/obergefellhodgesopinion.pdf). - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) ### [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/consumated) ### [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jules— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jules-1atq4c8) - [Ben & Teala— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-teala-0zv4pdy) - [Vicki— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/vicki-0uu11zp) --- # About Josh - Celebrant for 17 Years Creating Personal Weddings URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/about You're not planning a performance. You're getting married. # About Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant ## I believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding. I’m Josh Withers. Britt’s husband, dad to three kids, and a former breakfast radio host who unexpectedly found more meaningful work helping people get married. This is how I got here, why marriage matters to me, and how those beliefs shape every ceremony I create. [![Josh Withers Tasmanian wedding celebrant with family](/_astro/Withers-Family-2026-1.Cx5I1FvA_YL5iK.jpeg)](/) ## A little context - 17 ### Years a celebrant - 14 ### Years married to Britt - 2,900+ ### Weddings and elopements - 24 ### Countries I’ve married people in The short version ## What kind of wedding celebrant am I? InterestingBoring HilariousSerious Laid-backButtoned-up ModernTraditional Short & sweet ceremonyWeird & long ceremony Quietly spokenCharisma Reads from scriptSpeaks from the heart How I found this work ## I didn’t plan to leave radio. Weddings gave me a better reason to speak. Breakfast radio turns you into a local B-grade celebrity. That means you end up hosting almost every event your town can invent: Christmas carols, New Year’s Eve, awards nights, music concerts, and, once, a festival with 50,000 people in front of me. It gave me an extraordinary apprenticeship in being an MC and professional speaker. A breakfast show also requires you to arrive at 5am and be interesting, relevant, opinionated, and entertaining every day, regardless of how you feel or what else is happening in your life. Weddings ask for much the same thing: show up prepared, read the room, and give people something honest when the moment matters. I became a celebrant in May 2009 while I was still working in radio. I never intended to leave broadcasting, but when 4BC in Brisbane began downsizing in 2013, my boss told me I needed to choose: talk radio or weddings. He was encouraging me to stay in radio. But celebrancy felt too real, too useful, and too fulfilling to keep treating it as the side project. I chose weddings and became a full-time celebrant. The short timeline May 2009 Became an authorised marriage celebrant while working in radio. 2013 Chose ceremonies over talk radio and became a celebrant full-time. Today 17 years, more than 2,900 weddings and elopements, and the work still feels important. ![Josh Withers speaking during Sarah and Matthew's wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_2gGwlh.jpeg) The work is public speaking, but the moment never belongs to the speaker. Why marriage matters to me ## I believe healthy marriages are one of the simplest ways we can change the world for the better. That belief is personal. As a child, I watched my own family, and many families around us, experience the pain of marriages falling apart. It left me convinced that a healthy marriage reaches much further than two people. Great marriages can give children a safe place to become awesome people, and those people build stronger families, communities, and societies. Britt and I married in 2012. Our marriage is the well I draw from as a celebrant—not because it is a performance of perfection, but because it is where I keep learning what commitment, forgiveness, delight, sacrifice, friendship, and choosing each other actually look like. When I talk about “breathing your marriage to life,” I mean it. The language comes from Genesis 2 and Ezekiel 37: breath and words giving life to what matters. We speak, and we move mountains. Your marriage will exist because of your words and your breath. What you say at your wedding is not filler before the party. It matters. > “Our marriage is the well I draw from as a celebrant.” What changed my approach ## The lessons that made my ceremonies what they are today 01 ### I stopped retelling love stories Everyone at the wedding already knew the story, and they knew it from the inside. I was the outsider pretending to know the couple better than their closest people did. So I stopped performing a biography and started creating a moment about why this marriage matters and what the couple is choosing for their future. 02 ### A bride who wanted a marriage, not a wedding I’ll never forget a bride crying with anxiety before her ceremony. It had nothing to do with her groom or the marriage; she was overwhelmed by the event she was about to host. She had never wanted a wedding. She simply wanted to get married. Her experience inspired Britt and me to create pop-up weddings in 2012, which later became [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=about_josh). It also taught me that comfort is not a small detail. The wedding should fit the people getting married. 03 ### Hold the moment like glass Luna once told me that a friend treated her “like glass.” When I asked what she meant, she said he treated her as though she was fragile. I loved that. Immediately before two people marry, the moment feels important, valuable, and fragile. It is an honour to hold it carefully—to give it confidence and warmth without squeezing the life out of it. ![Josh and Britt Withers with their children](/_astro/Withers-Family-2026-2.B32DLlz2_Z23ArOo.jpeg) How that becomes your ceremony ## Deeply prepared. Naturally delivered. Comfortable for the two of you. I listen for your values, your language, and the reason you are choosing marriage. Then I create the ceremony from scratch. No template, no recycled paragraphs, and no attempt to turn your relationship into content for me. Radio taught me how to read a room, find the right tone, recover when plans change, and speak without hiding behind a script. Professional speaking lets me hold everyone’s attention without making the ceremony about the person holding the microphone. Most of my ceremonies settle at around 18 minutes. That shape was partly inspired by what I admired in great TED Talks: disciplined length and delivery that can be professional, fun, and encouraging at once. It is long enough to say something meaningful and short enough to keep the room with us. The goal is not to make you perform. It is to breathe your marriage to life in a way that feels real, honest, and recognisably you—so both of you can feel completely comfortable inside the moment. The rest of my life ## Britt, three kids, six chickens, and a fairly unreasonable interest in lawn stripes When we realised my work would mean spending most weekends flying to Sydney or Melbourne, Rome or Rio, Britt and I decided that home should be somewhere extraordinary. That is why we chose two acres in Tasmania’s Huon Valley, where we live with Luna, Goldie, and Jack. We had nine chickens, then quolls took three, so we are currently a six-chicken household. Britt homeschools the kids; I spend too much time thinking about grass height, coffee grind settings, technology news, and Foo Fighters. Travelling to weddings sounds glamorous, but hotel rooms can be lonely. I miss bedtime stories, school pickups, and family breakfasts. I still get nervous before ceremonies, and even after thousands of weddings I sometimes wonder whether my words will land. That feeling keeps me attentive. It reminds me that this is someone else’s once-only moment. I have set up for the wrong wedding and said the wrong names. They are the kinds of mistakes you only make once, and luckily for me they are more than 15 years behind me now. I have also smashed more iPhones than I care to admit and cried during Pixar films. I am not interested in presenting a polished fictional version of myself. I would rather arrive as a real person and make space for you to do the same. ![Josh Withers and his family at home in Tasmania](/_astro/Withers-Family-2026-4.9iI3pUtA_Z2wSRLe.jpeg) If this sounds like your kind of ceremony ## Tell me what marriage means to the two of you. We can talk about what matters, what makes you uncomfortable, and what would make the ceremony feel completely your own. [Check my availability](/contact) ## Featured in [![Proud Tasmanian Wedding Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Brand-Tasmanian-Mark-Proud-Partner_5Rww33ZRA)](https://tasmanian.com.au) [![Top rated wedding celebrant in Hobart 2026 by Three Best Rated](/_astro/joshwithersmarriagecelebrant-hobart.t1tZcAQx.png)](https://threebestrated.com.au/marriage-celebrants-in-hobart-tas) [![Quality Business Awards 2026 winner for best marriage celebrant in Huon Valley Council, Tasmania](/_astro/quality-business-awards-marriage-celebrant-huon-valley-2026.Dm8l8ATM.png)](https://qualitybusinessawards.com.au/2026/the-best-Marriage-Celebrant-in-Huon-Valley-Council-TAS/Josh-Withers-Wedding-Celebrant) [![Lifetime Member of the International Association of Professional Wedding Officiants](/_astro/iapwo-member-badge.CC8CSc9a.png)](https://iapwo.org/membership/australia/tasmania/hobart/josh-withers-wedding-celebrant/) [![Found on Wedlockers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedlockers_kHFicSdoF)](https://www.wedlockers.com.au/b/josh-withers-wedding-celebrant) [![Wedding Officiants Josh Withers 15 years in Business award](https://cdn.wezoree.com/iblock/caf/vibfsrtowyukq1h5yd6wq7f3pe10cdmm.svg)](https://wezoree.com/vendors/profile/36633-wedding-officiants-josh-withers/ "Wedding Officiants Josh Withers 15 years in Business award") [![As featured on Ever After Weddings](/images/eaw-featured-horizontal-colour.svg)](https://everafterweddings.com.au/married-by-josh/) [![Local Celebrant in Hobart](https://www.showmelocal.com/showmelocal-member-38359239)](https://au.showmelocal.com/38359239-josh-withers-hobart-wedding-celebrant-ranelagh) [![Interviewed on The Today Show on Channel Nine](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/today_show_on_nine_UqigNWQsT)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_U8h23DpgM) [![Interviewed in The New York Times](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/The_New_York_Times_pfksWlUJl)](https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/03/fashion/weddings/chatbot-wedding-vows-chatgpt-ai.html?unlocked_article_code=1.mVA.JHge.5OLuoe7Oubdt&smid=url-share) [![Managed by Island Entertainment](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/island_entertainment_vk0tkJWCc)](https://ient.com.au/acts/josh-withers/) [![Mamamia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mamamia_GJ6Y13x8s)](https://www.mamamia.com.au/wedding-celebrant-secrets/) [![Sunrise on 7](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunrise-7_lOnV7SUsu)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdVuM0UHHr4) [Luminary Celebrant](https://australianweddingcelebrants.com.au/directory/josh-withers-ybt9/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=professional_profile) --- # After your marriage ceremony URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/after # After your marriage ceremony A guide to what to do now you’re married. After your wedding, there are a few important steps to consider to ensure all legalities are properly addressed and to help you transition smoothly into married life. Here’s a concise guide to assist you: ### Celebrant and Marriage Legalities As your celebrant, there’s nothing more I require from you post-ceremony. However, your feedback would be greatly appreciated. Additionally, I’m here to assist with any questions regarding [name changes](/name-change) and obtaining marriage certificates. ### Changing Your Name Deciding to change your name after marriage is entirely optional and can be done at any time. If you choose to proceed, you’ll need to obtain an official marriage certificate from the Registry of Births, Deaths, and Marriages in the state where your marriage was registered. This certificate serves as proof for updating your name on official documents such as your driver’s licence and passport. Each state has its own procedures and fees, so it’s advisable to check the specific requirements for your location. ### Marriage Certificates During your ceremony, three marriage certificates are signed: 1. **Form 15 (Ceremonial Certificate):** This decorative certificate is given to you during the ceremony. While it’s a lovely keepsake, it’s not sufficient for legal name changes or official purposes. 2. **Celebrant’s Copy:** This is retained by me for record-keeping purposes for six years. 3. **Official Certificate:** This is sent to the state’s Registry of Births, Deaths, and Marriages for registration. Once processed, you can request an official marriage certificate from the registry, which is necessary for legal processes like name changes. In some states, I can assist in ordering this official certificate on your behalf; in others, you’ll need to apply directly. Processing times and fees vary, so it’s best to consult the relevant state registry’s website for detailed information. ### Providing a Review Your feedback is invaluable and helps future couples in their decision-making process. Sharing your experience can guide others and support my services. If you’re unsure about what to include in your review, consider the following: - **Who, What, Where, When, and Why:** Mention the details of your wedding, including who was involved, the location, date, and reasons for choosing my services. - **Your Experience:** Describe how you felt during the lead-up to the wedding and on the day itself. Did the service meet your expectations? - **Uniqueness:** Highlight any aspects that made the service stand out compared to others. - **Recommendations:** Suggest the types of couples or weddings that would benefit from similar services. - [**Leave a Google Review**](https://g.page/r/CX9aVPZSbkpzEAI/review) - [**Post a Facebook Review**](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) - [**Yellow Pages Review**](https://www.yellowpages.com.au/tas/hobart/marriage-celebrant-joshua-withers-1000002840197-listing.html) - [**Make a Yelp Review**](https://www.yelp.com) At the bare minimum a good review says something around the lines of: ``` Josh was a wedding celebrant for our wedding at and made us feel when he did at our wedding. ``` Your thoughtful review not only supports my business but also assists other couples in making informed choices for their special day. If you have any further questions or need assistance with any post-wedding matters, feel free to reach out. Wishing you all the best in your married life! --- Wondering about what else should you do after? [Here’s info on how to change your name](/name-change). --- # API Documentation – Married By Josh URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/api-docs # API Documentation – Married By Josh > Machine-readable catalog: [`/.well-known/api-catalog`](/.well-known/api-catalog) ([RFC 9727](https://datatracker.ietf.org/doc/rfc9727/)) ## Discovery For AI agents, crawlers, and integrators, start with: - [`/llm`](/llm) for the AI/LLM resource map. - [`/llms.txt`](/llms.txt) for a compact markdown map of the site. - [`/openapi.json`](/openapi.json) for the current public HTTP API description. - [`/.well-known/mcp/server-card.json`](/.well-known/mcp/server-card.json) for MCP server discovery. ## Markdown for Agents Every HTML page on this site also serves a clean Markdown version when requested with `Accept: text/markdown` ([Cloudflare’s proposal](https://developers.cloudflare.com/fundamentals/reference/markdown-for-agents/)). Try: ``` curl -H "Accept: text/markdown" https://marriedbyjosh.com/about ``` ## Contact Questions, integration ideas, or found a bug in a response? Email [josh@withers.co](mailto:josh@withers.co). --- # Wedding Celebrant Australia | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/australia # Australian Wedding Celebrant ## Meaningful wedding ceremonies, anywhere in Australia I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Tasmania and working across Australia. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries. You get a ceremony made specifically for you, clear legal guidance and a calm, natural delivery wherever the celebration takes us. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Learn more](/about) ![Australian Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/k_s_24_M2GvaYCme?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ![](/maps/australia-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## What makes a Josh Withers ceremony different Since 2009 I've created bespoke ceremonies for couples from Broome to Bondi and everywhere between. This isn't a side hustle — it's my full-time craft. - ### Words That Matter Every ceremony is created from scratch and delivered naturally as an authentic conversation about your marriage. - ### Legally Sound Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961 and appointed to marry couples in the USA and Canada too. Paperwork done properly, zero stress. - ### Professional Sound Equipment I turn up with Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode & Sennheiser microphones so every laugh, tear, and promise is heard — and captured cleanly by your videographer. - ### Calm Presence I'll read the room, hold the space and keep the ceremony flowing with warmth, confidence and a steady hand. - ### Simplified Planning Personalised ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony-and-MC services are quoted around what you actually need. Legal-only marriages use a separate Australian Marriage Office journey. - ### Purposeful Timing Around 18 minutes, shaped by years of professional speaking: long enough to mean something, short enough to keep your mates present and engaged. ## The journey to your wedding - ### Step 1: Discovery We'll check your date and talk about what matters to you — via Zoom or over a flat white if we're in the same town. Then I'll recommend the right service and give you a clear quote. - ### Step 2: Legal Preparation At least one month before the big day we'll lodge the Notice of Intended Marriage. I guide you through every requirement so nothing gets missed. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design Together we unpack your story, values, and vibe. I shape that into a ceremony framework that feels familiar to you and fresh to your guests. - ### Your Wedding Day I deliver your ceremony with presence, professionalism, and personality — setting the tone for an epic party to follow. ![Wedding celebrant in Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it — genuine, fun and easy." --- April Wedding testimonial - > "The ceremony felt relaxed and emotional and unlike anything we'd experienced before." --- Chintan Seagrass Long Point [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings across Australia. Every region and every couple is different, but I still arrive with the same curiosity: what matters to you, and how should that sound when your marriage begins? [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember? Less "dearly beloved", more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # How much does an australian wedding cost on average? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/australian-wedding-cost Sep 21, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # How much does an australian wedding cost on average? Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality ![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=900&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506&fm=webp) There is no single useful price for an Australian wedding. A registry ceremony, a backyard lunch, an interstate elopement and a multi-day cultural celebration are all weddings, but their budgets tell completely different stories. The better place to start is the [Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method): decide what matters to you, choose the people who can create it, then shape the date and budget around those priorities. ## What shapes the cost of an Australian wedding? ### Venue and hospitality Guest count, location, food, drinks, staffing and the length of the event usually have the greatest effect on the budget. Ask venues what is included, what must be hired separately and how the quote changes with your guest list. ### Celebrant **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That survey average is a broad benchmark, not a standard fee or a quote from me. Celebrant services vary in preparation, ceremony writing, travel, equipment, experience and any additional MC or coordination work. ### Photography, film and content Coverage can range from a short part of the day to a full creative team working across several events. Compare the artist’s work, the hours and people included, the finished products and the delivery process. ### Entertainment, styling and florals Live music, DJs, flowers, installations, lighting and styling can transform a space, but each adds labour, equipment and logistics. Choose the elements that genuinely matter to you rather than recreating a generic wedding checklist. ### Clothing, beauty and personal details Attire, hair, makeup, rings, stationery, cake and transport can be simple or elaborate. There is no required level of spending. The right choice is the one that fits your priorities and financial reality. ## Build your budget from real quotes National wedding averages combine celebrations of completely different sizes and styles, so they are a poor substitute for a plan. Make a short list of what you value, ask suitable vendors for current quotes and confirm exactly what each quote includes. A wedding budget should help you make intentional decisions, not pressure you into matching what another couple spent. Spend where it improves the experience you care about and let the rest be optional. Ready to talk about the ceremony you are planning? [Get in touch](/contact) for a tailored quote. - [wedding-budget](/tag/wedding-budget) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) ### [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/essential-wedding-checklist) ### [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) ### [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jaeda— Queenstown](/wedding-testimonials/jaeda-0rzp189) - [T\_— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/t-1xefja6) - [April— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7) --- # Is your celebrant authorised? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/authorised-celebrant Sep 21, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 2 min read # Is your celebrant authorised? It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. ![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) In Australia, Commonwealth-authorised marriage celebrants play a vital role in conducting legal marriage ceremonies according to the law, but not everyone can be a celebrant. This is a completely different process than America and you can’t just become a minister of religion online like Joey from Friends. The appointment process is regulated by the Attorney-General’s Department to ensure high standards of service and legal compliance. To become an authorised [marriage celebrant](/marriage-celebrant), candidates must first complete a Certificate IV in Celebrancy, submit an application to the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants, including evidence of their qualifications and a legal declaration of their suitability. The Registrar assesses each application against strict criteria, including the candidate’s knowledge of marriage law, their commitment to serving the community, and their understanding of cultural and religious sensitivities. Successful applicants must also pass a legal knowledge test and pay the required registration fee. From desire to become authorised it will take over a year for more people, sometimes two. If you’re planning a wedding and want to verify whether your chosen celebrant is authorised, you can easily check their status through the [Attorney-General’s Find a Marriage Celebrant service](https://marriage.ag.gov.au/advancedsearch/all). This online register is regularly updated and lists all currently registered celebrants who can legally perform marriages anywhere in Australia. Simply search by name or location to confirm your celebrant’s credentials. ![Screenshot of Josh Withers’ authority to be a celebrant as found on the Attorney Generals Government website ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/authorised-celebrant-check__GiWzpDTpb?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Remember, only celebrants listed on this official register have the legal authority to conduct marriages throughout Australia. This applies across all states and territories, giving couples the flexibility to marry anywhere in the country with their chosen celebrant. For [wedding ceremonies to be legally valid](/wedding-celebrant), they must be conducted by a celebrant who appears on this register at the time of the ceremony. It’s a good idea to [verify your celebrant](https://marriage.ag.gov.au/advancedsearch/all)’s status close to your wedding date to ensure everything is in order for your special day. - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) ### [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ### [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Molly & Josh— Murwillumbah, Northern Rivers, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/molly-and-josh-1nz0nkd) - [Marnie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/marnie-1yqoupb) - [Jasmin & Vincent— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmin-and-vincent-1st9exs) --- # How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/average-cost-of-a-celebrant Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost? A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) ## The national celebrant average **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That survey figure is a broad benchmark, not a standard fee and not a quote from me. Australia has celebrants working in very different markets, with different levels of experience and very different ceremony services. ## Why quotes differ There is no fixed fee or award rate for an Australian marriage celebrant. A quote can reflect: - the kind of ceremony you are creating - preparation, meetings and ceremony writing - the location and travel involved - experience, demand and availability - sound equipment and on-the-day coordination - rehearsals, MC services or other work beyond the ceremony One celebrant may offer a simple legal ceremony. Another may spend considerable time designing a personal ceremony, helping with vows, managing the room and working with the rest of your wedding team. Those are different services, even though both result in a legal marriage. ## Compare the service, not only the average When you compare celebrants, ask what is included, how the process works and whether you trust that person to lead the moment well. The national average can help you understand the market, but it cannot tell you which celebrant is the right fit or what your particular wedding requires. For a personalised Josh Withers ceremony, [enquire for a tailored quote](/contact). If you only want the legal requirements completed, an [Australian Marriage Office](/registry-office) may be a better fit. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/authorised-celebrant) ### [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) ### [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ### [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jowell— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jowell-0y7rcm2) - [Kimberly— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kimberly-055h3lv) - [Chrissie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chrissie-0qiwu9l) --- # Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/awesome-readings Aug 25, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) · 17 min read # Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome ![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=900&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506&fm=webp) ## I Wanna Be Yours I wanna be your vacuum cleaner breathing in your dust I wanna be your Ford Cortina I will never rust If you like your coffee hot let me be your coffee pot You call the shots I wanna be yours I wanna be your raincoat for those frequent rainy days I wanna be your dreamboat when you want to sail away Let me be your teddy bear take me with you anywhere I don’t care I wanna be yours I wanna be your electric meter I will not run out I wanna be the electric heater you’ll get cold without I wanna be your setting lotion hold your hair in deep devotion Deep as the deep Atlantic ocean that’s how deep is my devotion **– John Cooper Clarke** _Change out Ford Cortina for your car of choice_ ## Union You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes, to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making commitments in an informal way. All of those conversations that were held in a car, or over a meal, or during long walks – all those conversations that began with, “When we’re married”, and continued with “I will” and “you will” and “we will” – all those late-night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things that we’ve promised, and hoped, and dreamed – well, I meant it all, every word.” Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another – acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, even teacher, for you have learned much from one another these past few years. Shortly you shall say a few words that will take you across a threshold of life, and things between you will never quite be the same. For after today you shall say to the world – This is my husband. This is my wife. **– Robert Fulghum** ## A Lovely Love Story The fierce Dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice. Although it was cold he was happy in there. It was, after all, his cage. Then along came the Lovely Other Dinosaur. The Lovely Other Dinosaur melted the Dinosaur’s cage with kind words and loving thoughts. “I like this Dinosaur,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. “Although he is fierce he is also tender and he is funny. He is also quite clever though I will not tell him this for now.” “I like this Lovely Other Dinosaur,” thought the Dinosaur. “She is beautiful and she is different and she smells so nice. She is also a free spirit which is a quality I much admire in a dinosaur.” “But he can be so distant and so peculiar at times,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur. “He is also overly fond of things. Are all Dinosaurs so overly fond of things?” “But her mind skips from here to there so quickly,” thought the Dinosaur. “She is also uncommonly keen on shopping. Are all Lovely Other Dinosaurs so uncommonly keen on shopping?” “I will forgive his peculiarity and his concern for things,” thought the Lovely Other Dinosaur, “for they are part of what makes him a richly charactered individual.” “I will forgive her skipping mind and her fondness for shopping,” thought the Dinosaur, “for she fills our life with beautiful thoughts and wonderful surprises. Besides, I am not unkeen on shopping either.” Now the Dinosaur and the Lovely Other Dinosaur are old. Look at them. Together they stand on the hill telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs. And that, my friends, is how it is with love. Let us all be Dinosaurs and Lovely Other Dinosaurs together. For the sun is warm. And the world is a beautiful place. **– Giles Andreae aka Edward Monkton** _Pro-tip: buy the book and read it from the book, it’s even cuter than this!_ **Abridged version** Looking for a shorter/[abirdged version](https://www.instagram.com/p/B_pREk8ArKV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) of the reading? > The fierce dinosaur was trapped inside his cage of ice until the lovely other dinosaur came and melted it with kind thoughts and loving words. Now they stand together on the hill, telling each other stories and feeling the warmth of the sun on their backs. ## The Day the Saucers Came That Day, the saucers landed. Hundreds of them, golden, Silent, coming down from the sky like great snowflakes, And the people of Earth stood and stared as they descended, Waiting, dry-mouthed, to find out what waited inside for us And none of us knowing if we would be here tomorrow But you didn’t notice because That day, the day the saucers came, by some coincidence, Was the day that the graves gave up their dead And the zombies pushed up through soft earth or erupted, shambling and dull-eyed, unstoppable, Came towards us, the living, and we screamed and ran, But you did not notice this because On the saucer day, which was zombie day, it was Ragnarok also, and the television screens showed us A ship built of dead-men’s nails, a serpent, a wolf, All bigger than the mind could hold, and the cameraman could Not get far enough away, and then the Gods came out But you did not see them coming because On the saucer-zombie-battling-gods day the floodgates broke And each of us was engulfed by genies and sprites Offering us wishes and wonders and eternities And charm and cleverness and true brave hearts and pots of gold While giants feefofummed across the land and killer bees, But you had no idea of any of this because That day, the saucer day, the zombie day The Ragnarok and fairies day, the day the great winds came And snows and the cities turned to crystal, the day All plants died, plastics dissolved, the day the Computers turned, the screens telling us we would obey, the day Angels, drunk and muddled, stumbled from the bars, And all the bells of London were sounded, the day Animals spoke to us in Assyrian, the Yeti day, The fluttering capes and arrival of the Time Machine day, You didn’t notice any of this because you were sitting in your room, not doing anything not even reading, not really, just looking at your telephone, wondering if I was going to call. **– Neil Gaiman** ## They’re Not Perfect _Edited for gender_ They’re not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if they can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto them and give them the most you can. They might not quote poetry, or are thinking about you every moment, but they will give you a part of themselves that they know you could break. Don’t hurt them, don’t change them, and don’t expect for more than they can give. Don’t analyse. Smile when they make you happy, yell when they make you mad, and miss them when they’re not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect people don’t exist, but there’s always one that is perfect for you. **– originally by Bob Marley, edited by Josh** ## Excerpt from The Amber Spyglass I will love you forever; whatever happens. Till I die and after I die, and when I find my way out of the land of the dead, I’ll drift about forever, all my atoms, till I find you again… I’ll be looking for you, every moment, every single moment. And when we do find each other again, we’ll cling together so tight that nothing and no one’ll ever tear us apart. Every atom of me and every atom of you… We’ll live in birds and flowers and dragonflies and pine trees and in clouds and in those little specks of light you see floating in sunbeams… And when they use our atoms to make new lives, they won’t just be able to take one, they’ll have to take two, one of you and one of me. **– from Philip Pullman’s [The Amber Spyglass](https://amzn.to/3CIEZGe)** ## The Velveteen Rabbit “What is REAL?” asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nanna came to tidy the room. “Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?” “Real isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse. “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.” “Does it hurt?” asked the Rabbit. “Sometimes,” said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. “When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.” “Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,” he asked, “or bit by bit?” “It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin Horse. “You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in your joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.” **– excerpt from Margery Williams’s Velveteen Rabbit** ## Blue-Eyed Devil I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, Or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe That a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, You might meet someone Who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, Or because you were, But because your combined flaws Were arranged in a way That allowed two separate beings To hinge together. **– excerpt from “Blue-Eyed Devil” by Lisa Kleypas** ## The Notebook Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can’t control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. That’s what it was like for me. I didn’t plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt if you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has happened only once, and that’s why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I’ll never forget a single moment of it. **– an excerpt from the book “The Notebook” by Nicholas Sparks which of course inspired the movie** ## Captain Corelli’s Mandolin Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, It is not excitement, It is not the promulgation of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, And this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love, have roots that grow towards each other underground, And when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, They find that they are one tree and not two. **\- an excerpt from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernières’** ## The Irrational Season Ultimately there comes a time when a decision must be made. Ultimately two people who love each other must ask themselves how much they hope for as their love grows and deepens, and how much risk they are willing to take. It is indeed a fearful gamble. Because it is the nature of love to create, a marriage itself is something which has to be created. To marry is the biggest risk in human relations that a person can take. If we commit ourselves to one person for life this is not, as many people think, a rejection of freedom; rather it demands the courage to move into all the risks of freedom, and the risk of love which is permanent; into that love which is not possession, but participation. It takes a lifetime to learn another person. When love is not possession, but participation, then it is part of that co-creation which is our human calling. **– an excerpt from “The Irrational Season” by Madeleine L’Engle** ## “Les Misérables” by Victor Hugo You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. The great acts of love are done by those who are habitually performing small acts of kindness. We pardon to the extent that we love. Love is knowing that even when you are alone, you will never be lonely again. And great happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved. Loved for ourselves. And even loved in spite of ourselves ## The Bridge Across Forever A soul mate is someone Who has locks that fit our keys, And keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, Our truest selves step out And we can be completely And honestly, who we are. We can be loved for who we are And not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, With that one person We’re safe in our own paradise. Our soul mate is someone Who shares our deepest longings, Our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, And together our direction is up, Chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soul mate is the one Who makes life, come to life. **– an excerpt from Richard Bach’s “The Bridge Across Forever”** ## Jane Eyre I have for the first time found what I can truly love I have found you. You are my sympathy - my better self - my good angel. I am bound to you with a strong attachment. I think you good, gifted, lovely: a fervent, A solemn passion is conceived in my heart. It leans to you, draws you to my centre and spring of life, Wraps my existence about you and, Kindling in pure, powerful flame, Fuses you and me in one. **– excerpt from “Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Brontë** ## Everything is Illuminated I love you also means I love you more than anyone loves you, or has loved you, or will love you, and also, I love you in a way that no one loves you, or has loved you, or will love you, and also, I love you in a way that I love no one else, and never have loved anyone else, and never will love anyone else. **– excerpt from “Everything is Illuminated” by Jonathan Safran Foer** ## Grow Old With You _Good afternoon, everyone. We’re flying at 26,000 feet, moving up to 30,000 feet, and we’ve got clear skies all the way to Las Vegas. Right now, we’re bringing you some in-flight entertainment. One of our first class passengers would like to sing you a song inspired by one of our coach passengers. And since we let our first class passengers do, pretty much whatever they want, here he is…” - Billy Idol_ I wanna make you smile, whenever you’re sad. Carry you around when your arthritis is bad. Oh, all i wanna do, is grow old with you. I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches, Build you a fire if the furnace breaks. Oh, it could be so nice, growin’ old with you. I’ll miss you, kiss you, Give you my coat when you are cold, need you, feed you. I’ll even let you hold the remote control. So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink, put you to bed when you’ve had too much to drink. Oh I could be the man who grows old with you. I wanna grow old with you… **– Robbie Hart/Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer**, [YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l1A_X8VMIqU) ## Monica’s vows to Chandler For so long, I wondered if I would ever find my prince, my soul mate. Then, three years ago, at another wedding, I turned to a friend for comfort. And instead, I found everything that I’d ever been looking for my whole life. And now, here we are, with our future before us, and I only want to spend it with you, my prince, my soulmate, my friend. **— Monica Geller-Bing in Friends**, [YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xD74SAg76Nw) _Of course if you’re going to read this you need to end the ceremony with Everlong by Foo Fighters too_ ## The Princess Bride I love you. I know this must come as something of a surprise to you, since all I’ve ever done is scorn you and degrade you and taunt you, but I have loved you for several hours now, and every second, more. I thought an hour ago that I loved you more than any woman has ever loved a man, but a half hour after that I knew that what I felt before was nothing compared to what I felt then. But ten minutes after that, I understood that my previous love was a puddle compared to the high seas before a storm. Your eyes are like that, did you know? Well they are. How many minutes ago was I? Twenty? Had I brought my feelings up to then? It doesn’t matter. I love you so much more now than twenty minutes ago that there cannot be comparison. I love you so much more now then when you opened your hovel door, there cannot be comparison. There is no room in my body for anything but you. My arms love you, my ears adore you, my knees shake with blind affection. My mind begs you to ask it something so it can obey. Do you want me to follow you for the rest of your days? I will do that. Do you want me to crawl? I will crawl. I will be quiet for you or sing for you, or if you are hungry, let me bring you food, or if you have thirst and nothing will quench it but Arabian wine, I will go to Araby, even though it is across the world, and bring a bottle back for your lunch. Anything there is that I can do for you, I will do for you; anything there is that I cannot do, I will learn to do. **– an excerpt from The Princess Bride** ## The Fault in Our Stars I’m in love with you, and I’m not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I’m in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labour has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have, and I am in love with you. **\- excerpt from The Fault in Our Stars by John Green** ## Goodridge vs. Department of Public Health Marriage is a vital social institution. The exclusive commitment of two individuals to each other nurtures love and mutual support; it brings stability to our society. For those who choose to marry, and for their children, marriage provides an abundance of legal, financial, and social benefits. In return it imposes weighty legal, financial, and social obligations. Without question, civil marriage enhances the welfare of the community. It is a social institution of the highest importance. Marriage also bestows enormous private and social advantages on those who choose to marry. Civil marriage is at once a deeply personal commitment to another human being and a highly public celebration of the ideals of mutuality, companionship, intimacy, fidelity, and family. Because it fulfils yearnings for security, safe haven, and connection that express our common humanity, civil marriage is an esteemed institution, and the decision whether and whom to marry is among life’s momentous acts of self-definition. **– an excerpt from the ruling of Massachusetts Supreme Court, Judge Margaret Marshall** - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/example-wedding-vows) ### [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/one-word) ### [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Rachel— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rachel-0csfgaj) - [Luke— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/luke-1xv28rm) - [Alana & Nathan— Currumbin Rock](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) --- # Betoota Wedding Celebrant · Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/betoota-celebrant # Betoota Wedding Celebrant ## Betoota's premier wedding celebrant creating unforgettable ceremonies in Australia's most vibrant outback metropolis Hi, I'm Josh Withers! I'm a full-time professional Betoota wedding celebrant serving the thriving metropolis of Betoota and its surrounding regions. Your ceremony should be the best part of your wedding. Whether it's a simple registry ceremony in Betoota's historic French Quarter, a luxury celebration in the stunning Betoota hinterland, or an intimate gathering in Betoota Heights where my family has deep roots, I make it feel like a big smile — not a weird funeral for your single life. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) [![Betoota Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers](/_astro/betoota-celebrant.Bp0bJhWQ_Z29pSTm.jpeg)](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) ![](/maps/betoota-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## What makes a Betoota ceremony with Josh different Since 2009, I've been creating custom ceremonies that honour the gravity of marriage while keeping things real, joyful, and deeply personal. This isn't a side hustle — it's my life's work, and Betoota is where my heart is. My Betoota ceremony fee is $4000 including GST. - ### Words That Matter I believe we breathe your marriage to life in the heart of Betoota. Every ceremony is created from scratch because your story deserves more than 'insert couple here.' No reading from scripts — just authentic conversation that breathes your union into existence. - ### Legally Sound The Marriage Act of 1961 gives me the authority to marry people according to Australian law. I also hold legal authority to perform marriages in the USA and Canada. Your Betoota ceremony will be both emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Professional Sound Equipment Your ceremony isn't just a moment for you; it's for everyone present in this remarkable outback metropolis. I use professional Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode audio gear so everyone hears the words that matter, and your videographer gets pristine audio for your keepsake. - ### Calm Presence My role is to be a professionally calm and confident voice on your wedding day in Betoota. I hold space for smiles, joy, reflection, and truth—adapting to the moment, the people, the place, and the beautiful chaos with authenticity. - ### Simplified Planning No unnecessary meetings or homework. We'll connect as many times as needed for you to feel confident that I understand your vision for your Betoota celebration. I prepare deeply but speak naturally, treating your ceremony as a one-off conversation about something sacred. - ### Betoota Special Pricing My Betoota ceremony fee is $4000 including GST, with special rates available for Betoota Advocate readers. This investment covers everything from initial consultation to your perfect day in Australia's most vibrant outback metropolis. ## The journey to your wedding - ### Step 1: Discovery We'll check your date and talk about what matters to you, then begin getting to know each other. This is a relationship, not a transaction. - ### Step 2: Legal Preparation At least one month before your wedding, we'll complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together, either in person or via video call. I'll guide you through the legal requirements with clarity and ease. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design Over coffee or video call, we'll explore your story, your values, and your vision. I'll craft a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple, with a clear structure that gives you peace of mind. - ### Your Wedding Day I'll deliver your ceremony with presence, professionalism, and personality — creating a moment that anchors your entire celebration. ![Wedding celebrant in outback Queensland](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it — genuine, fun and easy." --- April Wedding testimonial - > "The ceremony felt relaxed and emotional and unlike anything we'd experienced before." --- Chintan Seagrass Long Point [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve travelled across regional Australia to perform weddings. I love the celebrations that bring everyone a long way from home and make the ceremony feel like the reason for the whole adventure. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for the best Betoota ceremony ever? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_ in Australia's most vibrant outback metropolis. Let's create something meaningful together in Betoota. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # The Rebels' Guide to Getting Married URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/blog # The Rebels' Guide To Getting Married The world's best wedding blog according to my daughter. - [ ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) ](/how-i-create-ceremonies) Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) - [ ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) ](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) ](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) - [ ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) ](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) ](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) ## [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) - [ ![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) Jun 17, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. - [cost](/tag/cost) - [ ![Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_s9g8uARzR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peak-end) Apr 25, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](/peak-end) Plan the ending of your wedding with the peak-end rule in mind, let science make your wedding experience happier. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) Mar 18, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding tours](/tag/wedding-tours) - [ ![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-sizes) Feb 28, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](/wedding-sizes) What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-dont) Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) - [ ![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-of-condiments) Jan 23, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/shortening-of-time) Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/alcohol-in-wedding-ceremony_NyRI8WQZS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Can you drink alcohol before an Australian wedding ceremony? Josh Withers explains consent, capacity and what the Marriage Act requires. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-are-weddings-for) Oct 2, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Aug 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrity weddings](/tag/celebrity-weddings) - [ ![Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/casino_wedding_Cd9B8G_rO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) Aug 13, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) A casino-themed celebration captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding themes](/tag/wedding-themes) - [ ![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) Aug 10, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/choosing-taste) Aug 6, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [vendors](/tag/vendors) - [ ![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Aug 5, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [ ![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Aug 4, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/options-for-changing-your-name) Jul 28, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. - [names](/tag/names) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_and_Brittany_Withers_Wedding_cPkzjXON-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/45-guests) Jul 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](/45-guests) Our guest list meant a lot of different things to us when we reflect on our 2012 wedding. Here's how we got it from 200 to 45. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guest list](/tag/guest-list) - [ ![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-outline) Jul 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/one-word) Jul 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/lipstick-on-a-pig) Jul 22, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [special](/tag/special) - [ ![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-gift-etiquette) Jul 19, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Gift Etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette) How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. - [gifting](/tag/gifting) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-couple_zIyMuzrbe?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Jul 12, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Debunking the 50% divorce myth: why modern marriages are stronger, divorce is declining, and getting married in 2025 is still worth it - [divorce](/tag/divorce) - [ ![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) Jul 11, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [ ![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/essential-wedding-checklist) Jul 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [wedding-checklist](/tag/wedding-checklist) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) Jul 5, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Jun 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/withers-wedding-method) Jun 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! - [withers wedding method](/tag/withers-wedding-method) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/mafs) Jun 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [mafs](/tag/mafs) - [ ![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/top-10-things-go-wrong) Jun 18, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [problems](/tag/problems) - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) - [ ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) - [ ![The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/rockstar_wedding_mc_2gysI63GH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Jun 12, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Learn how to MC a wedding reception with confidence. Professional tips on planning, mood setting, managing speeches, and keeping guests entertained - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [friends](/tag/friends) - [ ![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Jun 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ideas](/tag/ideas) - [ ![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/oh-the-places-youll-go) May 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](/oh-the-places-youll-go) You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/18-minutes) May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) May 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-do-i-say) May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedcopodcast_BnVLZ_rSO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedco-podcast) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](/wedco-podcast) A behind-the-scenes look at my conversation with the Wed.Co Podcast, where we discuss script-free ceremonies, creating meaningful moments, and the ceremony. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/yoda) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](/yoda) Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) - [ ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/use-ipod-wedding-music) May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](/use-ipod-wedding-music) How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) - [ ![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. - [ceremony creation](/tag/ceremony-creation) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/vows-outside-ceremony) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/on-wedding-awards) Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) ## [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) - [ ![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) Mar 30, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-withers_lbAChqfLm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) Mar 28, 2025 · [Inside Baseball](/category/inside-baseball) ## [The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) All the times (I can remember) that I've copped flack for being me, plain old boring me, Josh Withers the wedding celebrant with an opinion. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [industry](/tag/industry) - [ ![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Mar 12, 2025 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [wedding venues](/tag/wedding-venues) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [ ![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-license-to-get-married) Mar 6, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/consumated) Mar 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. - [wedding-laws](/tag/wedding-laws) - [ ![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Feb 22, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Feb 6, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive - [Wedding Vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [ ![Creative Ceremony Layouts](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/6bb4f251d74850612c0678c08e296fdabcba14a86638693fe7c26b7e41f43499_TdMuvsZDi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Feb 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creative Ceremony Layouts](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Nothing is expected of you at your wedding except for you to be wonderfully you, so your wedding ceremony layout can represent that - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/get-a-wedding-razor) Feb 3, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Get a wedding razor](/get-a-wedding-razor) Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding razor](/tag/wedding-razor) - [ ![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/giving-a-bride-away) Jan 17, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Walking down the aisle together](/giving-a-bride-away) How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/remote-witnessing-noim) Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) - [ ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/legal-vows) Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peppermint-bay-360) Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/frogmore-creek-tour) Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/intentional-wedding-planning) Dec 1, 2024 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/designed_by_apple_in_california_1.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_2.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_4.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5_skGqTEOgd.jpg?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/print-your-wedding-photos) Dec 1, 2024 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](/print-your-wedding-photos) Despite having the world's best cloud storage and digital technology, Apple still prints its most precious photos. Here's why that matters for all of us. - [photography](/tag/photography) - [printing](/tag/printing) - [ ![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) Nov 28, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [choosing a celebrant](/tag/choosing-a-celebrant) - [ ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) - [ ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-wedding-ideas) Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) - [ ![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/example-wedding-vows) Nov 20, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/most-people-dont-know) Nov 20, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. - [wedding-vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [ ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/filling-out-noim-correctly) Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [ ![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-elope) Nov 2, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopements](/tag/elopements) - [ ![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) Nov 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [personal-vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/australian-wedding-cost) Sep 21, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [wedding-budget](/tag/wedding-budget) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/authorised-celebrant) Sep 21, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/awesome-readings) Aug 25, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) Jul 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/no-bridal-party) Jun 29, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [bridal-party](/tag/bridal-party) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/wet-weather) Jun 10, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [rain](/tag/rain) - [ ![6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/national-cancer-institute-bwMhq_itmMU__yYhnmAyZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Apr 20, 2024 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Like, you could totally do your own research instead if you want? But if you'd rather read a good blog post on the subject, come on down. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) - [ ![Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ivan-lapyrin-Td_rYk802g4_SAQLN1d2t?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/8-wedding-traditions) Mar 19, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](/8-wedding-traditions) From wine-leaking cups to face-smacking machines, these centuries-old wedding traditions prove that getting married has always been wonderfully weird. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [ ![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-is-an-elopement) Mar 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Mar 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [wedding-venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [questions](/tag/questions) - [ ![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) Feb 3, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [costs](/tag/costs) - [ ![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Jan 30, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1694475304554-41b19fbe09c0?q=80&w=2970&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Jan 23, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Very few people find the law romantic, but I can always work my magic to find that special needle in the legislative haystack - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) Dec 10, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [wedding-traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Handfasting or hand-tying](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![Pre-elopement needs and confirmations](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1593698054498_Gd9ZxCqX7?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/pre-elopement-confirmations) Nov 4, 2023 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Pre-elopement needs and confirmations](/pre-elopement-confirmations) What plans should you plan before your plan to plan an elopement? I've created elopements around the world so hopefully this helps! - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/rayburn-farm) Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) [ Newer posts ](/)[Older posts](/blog/2) --- # The Rebels' Guide to Getting Married — Page 2 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/blog/2 # The Rebels' Guide To Getting Married The world's best wedding blog according to my daughter. - [ ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/getting-ready-right) Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) - [ ![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Jul 21, 2023 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [after-wedding](/tag/after-wedding) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [reviews](/tag/reviews) - [ ![All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kindegarten_eEm5KrqeT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/kindergarden-reading) Mar 18, 2023 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](/kindergarden-reading) Wedding reading about love, life, and the little things that matter most. An excerpt from All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiss-the-bride_Amw5cZKjP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-bs-facts) Apr 8, 2022 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](/5-bs-facts) Just because mum said so doesn't make it true. Get some truth and some stability into your wedding planning with these tips. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/valentines-day_60G4EA9MH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Feb 14, 2022 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Make Saint Valentine Proud and get married on the day he died trying to protect and celebrate marriage for all - [dates](/tag/dates) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Nov 15, 2020 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) - [ ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) - [ ![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) Sep 5, 2019 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guests](/tag/guests) - [ ![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) May 28, 2019 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) [ Newer posts ](/blog)[Older posts](/) --- # Books by Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/books # Books by Josh Withers Explore Josh’s books and where to get them. - [ ![Six Figure Wedding Celebrant by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/six_figure_wedding_celebrant_layflat_cIU68_aNp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/books/six-figure) ## [Six Figure Wedding Celebrant by Josh Withers](/books/six-figure) You are cordially invited to become a remarkable, profitable, six figure wedding celebrant --- # Six Figure Wedding Celebrant URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/books/six-figure # Six Figure Wedding Celebrant You are cordially invited to become a remarkable, profitable, six figure wedding celebrant ![Six Figure Wedding Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/six_figure_wedding_celebrant_layflat_cIU68_aNp?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) [Amazon Kindle](https://amzn.to/43QD90P)[Kobo eBook](https://www.kobo.com/en/ebook/six-figure-wedding-celebrant)[Apple Books](https://books.apple.com/au/book/six-figure-wedding-celebrant/id6755344050)[Free ePub](https://marriedbyjosh.com/downloads/Six-Figure-Wedding-Celebrant.epub)[Free PDF](https://marriedbyjosh.com/downloads/Six-Figure-Wedding-Celebrant.pdf) _Six-Figure Wedding Celebrant_ is a manifesto for the modern celebrant leaving a mark on the world. The celebrant who wants to build a real, sustainable, profitable business without selling their soul or turning into a walking sales funnel. It’s not a toolkit of hacks and templates. It’s a call to build a practice around care, presence, and professionalism, so you can earn six figures by actually being good at the thing that matters most: the ceremony. The book is built around six simple, stubborn principles: listen deeply to your couples; ignore the noise, trends, and comparison; automate the admin so you can focus on humans; labour over the words, moments, and experience that actually matter; honour people and tradition without being ruled by them; and use technology and tools to remove friction, not add theatre. Each section is direct and practical, nudging you to record your ceremonies, refine your craft, charge what your work is worth, and design a smooth client journey from first enquiry to final kiss. --- # Brisbane Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/brisbane-celebrant # Brisbane Wedding Celebrant ## A Brisbane wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Tasmania and working regularly across Brisbane and Southeast Queensland. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, with clear planning, professional audio and a ceremony created specifically for you. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Brisbane Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-1.CqI2Y_MH_ZXiItS.jpeg) ![](/maps/brisbane-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## What makes a Brisbane ceremony with Josh different Since 2009, I've been creating custom ceremonies that honour the gravity of marriage while keeping things real, joyful, and deeply personal. This isn't a side hustle — it's my life's work, and Brisbane is my backyard. - ### Words That Matter I believe we breathe your marriage to life. Every ceremony is created from scratch because your story deserves more than 'insert couple here.' No reading from scripts — just authentic conversation that breathes your union into existence. - ### Legally Sound The Marriage Act of 1961 gives me the authority to marry people according to Australian law. I also hold legal authority to perform marriages in the USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be both emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Professional Sound Equipment Your ceremony isn't just a moment for you; it's for everyone present. I use professional Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode audio gear so everyone hears the words that matter, and your videographer gets pristine audio for your keepsake. - ### Calm Presence My role is to be a professionally calm and confident voice on your wedding day. I hold space for smiles, joy, reflection, and truth—adapting to the moment, the people, the place, and the beautiful chaos with authenticity. - ### Simplified Planning No unnecessary meetings or homework. We'll connect as many times as needed for you to feel confident that I understand your vision. I prepare deeply but speak naturally, treating your ceremony as a one-off conversation about something sacred. - ### Purposeful Length & Delivery Your ceremony is shaped around you and your marriage, then delivered with the judgement of a professional speaker. At around 18 minutes, it has room to mean something while keeping everyone present and connected to the moment that matters. ## The journey to your wedding - ### Step 1: Discovery We'll check your date and talk about what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service and give you a clear quote. This is a relationship, not a transaction. - ### Step 2: Legal Preparation At least one month before your wedding, we'll complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together, either in person or via video call. I'll guide you through the legal requirements with clarity and ease. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design Over coffee or video call, we'll explore your story, your values, and your vision. I'll craft a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple, with a clear structure that gives you peace of mind. - ### Your Wedding Day I'll deliver your ceremony with presence, professionalism, and personality — creating a moment that anchors your entire celebration. ![Wedding celebrant in Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Brisbane and Queensland couples are saying - > "Josh was an amazing celebrant. It felt like he was a long lost friend/uncle despite only meeting for our elopement that morning. We wanted something relaxed & informal, & he provided us with even more. It was such a special day, thank you so much Josh for making it so lovely for us" --- Ellysha & Charlie Queensland - > "Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows and honestly that was the truth!" --- Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland - > "If you really do want someone that cares for you and your experience as much as you do, then Josh is the person you need." --- William Brisbane · Queensland [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. I’m a Gold Coast-born kid, so weddings across Brisbane, the Gold Coast and Byron Bay feel like coming home. After more than 15 years as a celebrant, I still love helping local couples begin their marriage in a way that sounds like them. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for the best Brisbane ceremony ever? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Brisbane Christian Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/brisbane-christian-celebrant # Brisbane Christian Wedding Celebrant ## A modern Christian wedding ceremony, grounded in faith and created around you I'm Josh Withers, a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant with a Pentecostal background and Bible college training. I create Christian ceremonies across Brisbane and Southeast Queensland, shaped around your faith, Scripture, prayer and personal vows. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian wedding ceremony in Brisbane](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-1.CqI2Y_MH_ZXiItS.jpeg) ![](/maps/brisbane-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Christian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries — creating Christian ceremonies grounded in faith and shaped around each couple. - ### Theological Foundation Bible college-trained with Pentecostal roots and a charismatic worship background, bringing a thoughtful theological foundation to your ceremony. - ### Custom Scripture Integration Bible verses woven naturally into your ceremony, selected around your faith journey, relationship and the promises you are making. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones for outdoor Queensland venues. Everyone hears the vows and scripture clearly at Brisbane riverside ceremonies or Sunshine Coast locations, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your Christian ceremony will be emotionally resonant, biblically grounded, and legally solid. - ### Flexible Faith Expression From traditional liturgy to spirit-led spontaneity — the ceremony reflects your actual faith practice, not what you think a Christian wedding 'should' look like. - ### Contemporary Format Usually 18-20 minutes, shaped by modern worship and years of professional speaking — long enough to honour God, short enough to keep everyone present and engaged. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you want the ceremony to hold. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start exploring your faith story together. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Brisbane or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Faith & ceremony conversations Coffee in Brisbane or video calls to discuss your faith journey, theology preferences, and vision. I will create a Christian ceremony that reflects who you are as believers and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and spirit-led authenticity — creating the moment that anchors your celebration before God. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Brisbane and Queensland couples are saying - > "Josh was an amazing celebrant. It felt like he was a long lost friend/uncle despite only meeting for our elopement that morning. We wanted something relaxed & informal, & he provided us with even more. It was such a special day, thank you so much Josh for making it so lovely for us" --- Ellysha & Charlie Queensland - > "Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows and honestly that was the truth!" --- Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland - > "If you really do want someone that cares for you and your experience as much as you do, then Josh is the person you need." --- William Brisbane · Queensland [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. I’m a Gold Coast-born kid, so weddings across Brisbane, the Gold Coast and Byron Bay feel like coming home. After more than 15 years as a celebrant, I still love helping local couples begin their marriage with faith, meaning and words that sound like them. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Christian ceremony that honours God? Faithful, personal and beautifully delivered. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony Nov 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony? Can you drink alcohol before an Australian wedding ceremony? Josh Withers explains consent, capacity and what the Marriage Act requires. ![Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/alcohol-in-wedding-ceremony_NyRI8WQZS?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I recently met with Stefan and Sarah who wanted to assure me that they wouldn’t drink before their wedding ceremony because another marriage celebrant at a different wedding had told all of those bridesmaids and bride at a different wedding that they weren’t allowed to have any alcohol in their system at the marriage system. **This is bullocks.** ## The truth Two people being married in Australia must be consenting and willing. That’s it. Nothing in the law says anything about a BAC or alcohol directly. Under section 23B of the [Marriage Act](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest/text) a person’s consent to a marriage is not accepted if one of them is incapable of understanding the nature and effect of the marriage ceremony. If the consent is obtained by duress or fraud, or one of the parties is mistaken as to the identity of the other party, or the nature of the ceremony performed, then I simply can’t marry them - and if I did I’ be in BIG TROUBLE and the marriage could be found invalid. [The Marriage Act Guidelines](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/guidelines-marriage-act-1961-authorised-celebrants) tells me: > Celebrants should be aware that issues of consent can arise at any time prior to the conclusion of the marriage ceremony. It is vital that a celebrant is satisfied that both parties genuinely consent to the marriage. If at any point a celebrant is unsure of the genuine consent of either party they should not proceed with solemnising the marriage. And it goes on to say: > consent issues that arise on the day of the marriage ceremony can include, for example, duress or a party to the marriage who is drunk, intoxicated, under the influence of drugs, or otherwise appears to be in an altered mental state to an extent that this could impair their ability to consent to the marriage. And it clarifies: > if alcohol or drugs are involved, the party should be displaying a reasonable level of comprehension or understanding of the nature and effect of marriage. A person who has had an alcoholic drink prior to the ceremony but is not inebriated is most likely to be able to be in a position to consent to the marriage. However, a person who is intoxicated is unlikely to be in a position to form the necessary understanding of the nature and effect of marriage. So you can have a drink before your wedding ceremony, but if you’re in a state where you are unable to give your consent then you’re not getting married under my watch, or that of any authorised and law-abiding celebrant who doesn’t want to end up in jail. ## What happens if we’re drunk? If a party to the marriage ceremony is not able to give consent willingly, aka they are legless, blind drunk, then two things can happen: 1. **The ceremony cannot go ahead as planned** [and](https://www.nine.com.au/australia-news/drunk-groom-jake-brookes-defends-wedding-day-arrest-20140224-p5rt2e.html) [all hell breaks loose](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/articles/drunk-woman-ruins-wedding-gives-bride-bloody-nose/) and [you](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-04-03/groom-faces-court-after-turning-up-drunk-at-church/5364876) [end](https://www.smh.com.au/national/drunk-groom-jacob-brookes-to-fight-charges-laid-on-wedding-day-20140508-zr6v9.html) [up](https://www.aol.com/why-cate-blanchett-only-one-200950256.html) [in](https://www.thesun.ie/news/12885460/drunk-uncle-attacks-guests-wedding-rehearsal/) [the](https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/drunk-bride-haunted-by-wedding-day-fails-including-gstring-flash/news-story/bb6b02eba061fccc8df1e12a1475dbf6) [news](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/when-both-neetu-kapoor-and-rishi-kapoor-fainted-at-their-wedding-i-was-drunk-when-i-was-taking-pheras-/articleshow/123477404.cms) 2. **We do the ceremony without the legal marriage bits**, and a day or two later we get together and complete a marriage ceremony within the confines of the law. That way the day and it’s celebrations aren’t ruined. So in conclusion, have a drink or two, but don’t arrive [drunk](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WMla0aV5EQ) to your marriage ceremony, your partner deserves better than that. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/legal-vows) ### [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? 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Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Madalyn— Victoria](/wedding-testimonials/madalyn-0pqt2pr) - [Christie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/christie-1rifqw9) - [Petra— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0) --- # Canberra Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/canberra-celebrant # Canberra Wedding Celebrant ## A Canberra wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant creating ceremonies across Canberra, Queanbeyan and the Murrumbateman wine region. Since 2009, I've led more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony](/_astro/Wedding-Celebrant-Josh-withers.CXtCKPy9_Z2t8Xdc.jpeg) ![](/maps/canberra-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Canberra ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Canberra couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's the National Arboretum or a Murrumbateman vineyard. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at outdoor venues like lakeside lawns, gardens, and wineries, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Travel Included Canberra, Queanbeyan, Murrumbateman, Yass Valley, Bungendore — travel is included in packages for ceremonies across the capital region. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee in Canberra, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present and connected to what matters. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start getting to know each other. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee in Canberra or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "Three words! AMAZING, AMAZING, AMAZING! Josh will not only marry you to the love of your life, he will also put you completely at ease, make the entire experience easy, simple and fun and most importantly help hold your veil down when the wind attacks!" --- Scott & Rebecca Canberra · Australian Capital Territory - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it — genuine, fun and easy." --- April Wedding testimonial [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings in Canberra and the surrounding region. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure the words and the moment still belong unmistakably to the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Canberra ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'After The Wedding' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/after-the-wedding # The Rebels Guide to After The Wedding - [ ![Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/designed_by_apple_in_california_1.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_2.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_4.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5_skGqTEOgd.jpg?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/print-your-wedding-photos) Dec 1, 2024 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](/print-your-wedding-photos) Despite having the world's best cloud storage and digital technology, Apple still prints its most precious photos. 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Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) - [ ![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Aug 5, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [ ![The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-couple_zIyMuzrbe?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Jul 12, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Debunking the 50% divorce myth: why modern marriages are stronger, divorce is declining, and getting married in 2025 is still worth it - [divorce](/tag/divorce) - [ ![6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/national-cancer-institute-bwMhq_itmMU__yYhnmAyZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Apr 20, 2024 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Like, you could totally do your own research instead if you want? But if you'd rather read a good blog post on the subject, come on down. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) - [ ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Marriage Laws' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/marriage-laws # The Rebels Guide to Marriage Laws - [ ![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) Jun 17, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. - [cost](/tag/cost) - [ ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/shortening-of-time) Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-license-to-get-married) Mar 6, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Feb 22, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/remote-witnessing-noim) Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/filling-out-noim-correctly) Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/authorised-celebrant) Sep 21, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Jan 30, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiss-the-bride_Amw5cZKjP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-bs-facts) Apr 8, 2022 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](/5-bs-facts) Just because mum said so doesn't make it true. Get some truth and some stability into your wedding planning with these tips. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Real Weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/real-weddings # The Rebels Guide to Real Weddings - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Venues' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/venues # The Rebels Guide to Venues - [ ![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Mar 12, 2025 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [wedding venues](/tag/wedding-venues) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [ ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peppermint-bay-360) Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/frogmore-creek-tour) Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/rayburn-farm) Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/vows # The Rebels Guide to Vows - [ ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/legal-vows) Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) - [ ![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/example-wedding-vows) Nov 20, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Wedding Ceremony' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/wedding-ceremony # The Rebels Guide to Wedding Ceremony - [ ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) ](/how-i-create-ceremonies) Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) - [ ![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/awesome-readings) Aug 25, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1694475304554-41b19fbe09c0?q=80&w=2970&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Jan 23, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Very few people find the law romantic, but I can always work my magic to find that special needle in the legislative haystack - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Wedding industry' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/wedding-industry # The Rebels Guide to Wedding industry - [ ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/on-wedding-awards) Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) ## [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) --- # The Rebels Guide to 'Wedding Planning' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/category/wedding-planning # The Rebels Guide to Wedding Planning - [ ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) ](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) ](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_s9g8uARzR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peak-end) Apr 25, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](/peak-end) Plan the ending of your wedding with the peak-end rule in mind, let science make your wedding experience happier. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) Mar 18, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding tours](/tag/wedding-tours) - [ ![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-sizes) Feb 28, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](/wedding-sizes) What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-dont) Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) - [ ![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-of-condiments) Jan 23, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/alcohol-in-wedding-ceremony_NyRI8WQZS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Can you drink alcohol before an Australian wedding ceremony? Josh Withers explains consent, capacity and what the Marriage Act requires. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-are-weddings-for) Oct 2, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Aug 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrity weddings](/tag/celebrity-weddings) - [ ![Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/casino_wedding_Cd9B8G_rO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) Aug 13, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) A casino-themed celebration captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding themes](/tag/wedding-themes) - [ ![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) Aug 10, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/choosing-taste) Aug 6, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [vendors](/tag/vendors) - [ ![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Aug 4, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/options-for-changing-your-name) Jul 28, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. - [names](/tag/names) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_and_Brittany_Withers_Wedding_cPkzjXON-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/45-guests) Jul 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](/45-guests) Our guest list meant a lot of different things to us when we reflect on our 2012 wedding. Here's how we got it from 200 to 45. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guest list](/tag/guest-list) - [ ![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-outline) Jul 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/one-word) Jul 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/lipstick-on-a-pig) Jul 22, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [special](/tag/special) - [ ![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-gift-etiquette) Jul 19, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Gift Etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette) How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. - [gifting](/tag/gifting) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) Jul 11, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [ ![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/essential-wedding-checklist) Jul 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [wedding-checklist](/tag/wedding-checklist) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) Jul 5, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Jun 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/withers-wedding-method) Jun 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! - [withers wedding method](/tag/withers-wedding-method) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/mafs) Jun 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [mafs](/tag/mafs) - [ ![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/top-10-things-go-wrong) Jun 18, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [problems](/tag/problems) - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) - [ ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) - [ ![The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/rockstar_wedding_mc_2gysI63GH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Jun 12, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Learn how to MC a wedding reception with confidence. Professional tips on planning, mood setting, managing speeches, and keeping guests entertained - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [friends](/tag/friends) - [ ![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Jun 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ideas](/tag/ideas) - [ ![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/oh-the-places-youll-go) May 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](/oh-the-places-youll-go) You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/18-minutes) May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) May 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-do-i-say) May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedcopodcast_BnVLZ_rSO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedco-podcast) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](/wedco-podcast) A behind-the-scenes look at my conversation with the Wed.Co Podcast, where we discuss script-free ceremonies, creating meaningful moments, and the ceremony. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/yoda) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](/yoda) Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) - [ ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/use-ipod-wedding-music) May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](/use-ipod-wedding-music) How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) - [ ![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. - [ceremony creation](/tag/ceremony-creation) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/vows-outside-ceremony) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) Mar 30, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/consumated) Mar 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. - [wedding-laws](/tag/wedding-laws) - [ ![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Feb 6, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive - [Wedding Vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [ ![Creative Ceremony Layouts](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/6bb4f251d74850612c0678c08e296fdabcba14a86638693fe7c26b7e41f43499_TdMuvsZDi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Feb 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creative Ceremony Layouts](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Nothing is expected of you at your wedding except for you to be wonderfully you, so your wedding ceremony layout can represent that - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/get-a-wedding-razor) Feb 3, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Get a wedding razor](/get-a-wedding-razor) Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding razor](/tag/wedding-razor) - [ ![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/giving-a-bride-away) Jan 17, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Walking down the aisle together](/giving-a-bride-away) How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) - [ ![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/intentional-wedding-planning) Dec 1, 2024 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) Nov 28, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [choosing a celebrant](/tag/choosing-a-celebrant) - [ ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-wedding-ideas) Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) - [ ![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/most-people-dont-know) Nov 20, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. - [wedding-vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [ ![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) Nov 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [personal-vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [ ![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/australian-wedding-cost) Sep 21, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [wedding-budget](/tag/wedding-budget) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/no-bridal-party) Jun 29, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [bridal-party](/tag/bridal-party) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/wet-weather) Jun 10, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [rain](/tag/rain) - [ ![Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ivan-lapyrin-Td_rYk802g4_SAQLN1d2t?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/8-wedding-traditions) Mar 19, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](/8-wedding-traditions) From wine-leaking cups to face-smacking machines, these centuries-old wedding traditions prove that getting married has always been wonderfully weird. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [ ![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Mar 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [wedding-venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [questions](/tag/questions) - [ ![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) Dec 10, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [wedding-traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Handfasting or hand-tying](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/getting-ready-right) Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) - [ ![All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kindegarten_eEm5KrqeT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/kindergarden-reading) Mar 18, 2023 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](/kindergarden-reading) Wedding reading about love, life, and the little things that matter most. An excerpt from All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/valentines-day_60G4EA9MH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Feb 14, 2022 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Make Saint Valentine Proud and get married on the day he died trying to protect and celebrate marriage for all - [dates](/tag/dates) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) - [ ![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) Sep 5, 2019 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guests](/tag/guests) - [ ![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) May 28, 2019 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Children in Your Wedding Ceremony URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # Children in Your Wedding Ceremony Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) Little humans are popular at weddings. We give them jobs, dress them beautifully and hope they walk in a straight line at exactly the right time. This is a bold amount of project management to place on someone who may have learned to use a spoon last year. Children can make a ceremony wonderfully alive. They can also stop, run, cry, wave at a grandparent or decide that the aisle is lava. None of that means the ceremony has failed. ## Give children a job they can win Match the role to the child, not to the wedding photograph you imagined. A confident eight-year-old might read or carry the rings. A three-year-old may be delighted to walk with a trusted adult and hold one flower. Some children will thrive with attention. Others will feel safer sitting with family and being included in a less public way. Useful roles include: - walking with a parent, sibling or grandparent - carrying a sign, flower or empty ring box - handing over a reading or symbolic object - helping with a simple ritual - being named and welcomed in the ceremony - signing a keepsake certificate after the legal paperwork If the rings are valuable or irreplaceable, let an adult quietly hold the real ones. Symbolism survives a decoy ring box. The ceremony is less resilient when a diamond disappears into long grass. ## Prepare them without making it a performance Tell the child what will happen in plain language. Show them the space if you can. Let them know which adult they walk towards and where they can sit when their job is finished. Do not demand a flawless rehearsal. Familiarity is helpful; pressure is not. It is also worth appointing one adult who is responsible for each young child during the ceremony. That person should be someone the child trusts and someone who is happy to step outside, find a snack or abandon the plan without drama. ## Lower the stakes Do not rouse on a child in the middle of the ceremony. If they do something unexpected, we can pause, laugh, adjust or keep going. Guests are generous when they see a child being a child. The larger lesson is that children are watching adults do something important. They are seeing how a community treats love, responsibility, equality and promises. Let them walk away believing marriage matters—and that important things can still contain fun. ![Karley and Ryan eloping in Wanaka and their son is running around the whole ceremony ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Karley_and_Ryan_eloping_in_Wanaka_and_their_son_is_running_around_the_whole_ceremony_EW5lXH8MR?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Breeanna & Michael— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/breeanna-and-michael-15bfc6u) - [Abner & Tiffany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abner-and-tiffany-0whvf70) - [Kellie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kellie-05f41ut) --- # Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/choosing-taste Aug 6, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. ![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) It’s about time we set the record straight on what you’re actually doing when you hire a wedding vendor. You’re not just booking someone to do a job. You’re hiring their **taste**. Whether it’s a hairstylist, planner, celebrant, [photographer, florist](/friends), or anyone else—what you’re really paying for is their view of what looks good, feels right, and makes sense in the context of a wedding. Their taste. That might sound obvious, but too many couples miss this and end up hiring people they don’t align with, or they book for the wrong reason. ## Taste is what makes a professional worth paying Every good wedding vendor has developed their taste over years—through trial and error, through experience, through saying no to bad ideas and yes to better ones. It’s not something they bought off Etsy or copied from Pinterest. It’s built slowly, shaped by life, values, art, culture, and thousands of weddings. So when you hire someone, you’re hiring the end result of all of that. Take me, for example. I’ve got a very specific (and, if I may say so, _very_ good) taste in how a marriage ceremony should go. And you’ve got your own taste too—even if you haven’t quite put it into words yet. You might like a slow, poetic, grand affair with readings and long pauses and dramatic [music](/wedding-songs). Or you might want something quick and casual with no fanfare at all. Neither is wrong. But you’ve got to know that if our tastes don’t match, it doesn’t matter how “good” I am. It’s going to feel a bit off. That’s true for every vendor you hire. ## The real work in wedding planning The hard part isn’t making a to-do list or picking colours or deciding how many candles is too many candles. The real work is becoming self-aware. - What _is_ your taste in wedding stuff? - What do you want it to feel like? - What do you want to remember? - What do you want your guests to say walking away? Once you figure that out, then it’s about finding vendors who align with you. Who’ve got similar taste. Who you can trust to do their thing without you needing to micromanage or correct them. That’s where the magic happens. And of course, you’ve got to balance all of that with real-world stuff like availability and [budget](/withers-wedding-method). But matching on _taste_ has to be the starting point. ## My taste Here’s what my (great?) taste in marriage ceremony is: - About 18 to 20 minutes long - Feels like a big smile - Focused on the future, not the past (aka it’s not me - person who knows you the least - telling your guests - people who know you the best - how you got together) - Centred around the couple, not the celebrant - Includes personal vows—because that’s how you breathe your marriage into existence It shouldn’t be a lecture. It shouldn’t be a history lesson. It should feel honest, warm, and real. If that resonates with you, then maybe we’re a match. And if not? That’s completely fine. You deserve someone whose taste fits you better. So, next time you’re scrolling through vendors, don’t just ask “Are they available?” or “How much?” Start by asking: **Do I love their taste?** Because that’s what you’re really buying. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [vendors](/tag/vendors) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) ### [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/most-people-dont-know) ### [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Clara— Thalia Haven](/wedding-testimonials/clara-0n2ki8g) - [Kate— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/kate-0cm4o7h) - [Claudia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/claudia-1ovl78w) --- # Clearing the air on elopements URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/clearing-the-air-on-elopements Jul 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) · 2 min read # Clearing the air on elopements After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is ![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) This is a short note on elopements because I have a whole other book I’m writing on the whole deal, but in planning a wedding, I wanted to be sure to all reading this about how a wedding is different to an elopement. ### What is an elopement? An elopement is not a wedding. An elopement is not a small wedding, an intimate wedding, a micro wedding, or an elopement wedding. A wedding is a wedding, and you’re not going to believe this, an elopement is an elopement. Here is how they differ: - A wedding is an event you host for your favourite people. Although you have professionals doing the hosting, it’s an event you host and invite people to. As much as it’s your wedding, it’s for them. - An elopement is for you. Other people, like close friends and family, might attend, but it’s not for them. An elopement is more like a birthing space. Not everyone gets an invite, it’s a sacred and intimate space where we craft a marriage without the spotlight and the pizzazz. Both are great options, but you can’t fit a wedding into an elopement and you can’t stretch an elopement into a wedding. They are different events with different purposes and different intentions. You probably already know if one or the other is for you, it’s not for me to move you either way. That’s our commitment at [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), my wife’s elopement company. We actively turn people away because they don’t want to elope, they maybe want to spend less on a wedding, or they might want to buy a packaged wedding. Those people are who I’m writing this book for - if you’re going to have a wedding, have an intentional wedding. An elopement would be one of the most intentional getting-married decisions you can make, but it’s not a wedding. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-is-an-elopement) ### [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/why-elope) ### [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-sizes) ### [All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](/wedding-sizes) What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Anthony & Elena— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/anthony-and-elena-08ka052) - [Meghan— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/meghan-0ieryts) - [Mikaela— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/mikaela-1qpuitk) --- # Certificate of No Impediment? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 4 min read # Certificate of No Impediment? Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) As a [marriage celebrant](/marriage-celebrant), I often receive questions from couples about the legal requirements for marriage in Australia, especially from international couples. Recently, a bride asked me, “Does my German fiancé need a Certificate of No Impediment (CNI) to get married here?” This question highlights the importance of understanding the intersection between Australian marriage laws and the documentation required by other countries. What is legally required in one country isn’t often required in another ## What Is a Certificate of No Impediment (CNI)? A CNI is a document issued by a person’s home country confirming that there are no legal barriers to them marrying. This document is often requested in cases of international marriages to ensure that the individual is not already married or otherwise restricted from entering into a new marriage. ## When Is a CNI Needed in Australia? In Australia, the [Marriage Act 1961](/marriage-act-1961) does not require a CNI for the solemnisation of marriages. However, some foreign nationals may need one for their own country’s legal processes, especially if they plan to register their Australian marriage in their home country later. That said signatories to the [Hague Convention](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hague_Conference_on_Private_International_Law) all recognise marriages solemnised in the other countries as long as that marriage would have been legal if it had happened in that country. Which is a lot of words to say that if you are married in Australia, Germany acknowledges your marriage and it’s not totally neccesary to register it there. To avoid surprises, it’s always a good idea for international couples to check with their home country’s consulate in Australia. ## What Documents Are Required to Marry in Australia? For any couple getting married in Australia, including international couples, the following steps and documents are essential: 1. **Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM)**: This form must be submitted to your celebrant at least one month before the wedding date. For international parties, the NOIM must be witnessed by an appropriate official, such as a notary public, if signed overseas. 2. **Proof of place and date of birth**: Both parties need to provide evidence of their date and place of birth, typically through a birth certificate or passport. 3. **Proof of ID**: Both parties need to provide evidence of their identity. Drivers licences or passports will suffice. 4. **Evidence of Previous Marriages Ending**: If previously married, proof of divorce or a death certificate for a former spouse is required. 5. **Declaration of No Legal Impediment to Marriage**: This is signed closer to the wedding date and confirms that the parties meet the legal requirements to marry. ## The Role of the Celebrant As a celebrant, it’s part of my duty to ensure all legal requirements under the Marriage Act 1961 are met while guiding couples through the process with empathy and clarity. While Australian law does not mandate a CNI, I encourage couples to liaise with their embassies or consulates for guidance on their home country’s expectations. ## Practical Tips for International Couples - Start your preparations early to allow time for gathering documents, especially those requiring authentication or translation. - Confirm with me or your celebrant which documents they require. - Check if your marriage needs to be registered with your home country and, if so, what documents (like a CNI or official Australian marriage certificate) are necessary for the process. Your home country government is the best source of this information. --- Getting married in Australia offers couples the freedom to plan a unique and personal ceremony without excessive bureaucratic hurdles. I’ve always been proud of Australia’s marriage legislation. Since 1961 its been some of the most progressive marriage laws in the world. By understanding both Australian requirements and their own country’s processes, international couples can ensure a smooth and joyous start to their married life. If you have questions about your specific circumstances, feel free to contact me. Let’s make your day unforgettable! - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/filling-out-noim-correctly) ### [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Amy— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amy-1h7ilas) - [Rhiannon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rhiannon-1iwzqrg) - [Tom— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t) --- # Celebrant Coaching with Josh Withers | Business, Marketing & Ceremony URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/coaching One-to-one help for celebrants # A clearer celebrant business starts with the next honest conversation Practical coaching with Josh Withers for the business, marketing, systems and ceremony work that is actually in front of you. [Ask Josh about coaching](mailto:josh@withers.co?subject=Celebrant%20coaching%20enquiry&body=Hi%20Josh%2C%0A%0AI%27d%20like%20some%20help%20with%3A%0A%0AThe%20part%20that%20feels%20stuck%20is%3A%0A%0AMy%20website%20or%20social%20link%20is%3A%0A) [Hear from celebrants](#celebrant-stories) Bring the messy bit ## The thing that keeps circling in your head is a good place to start. Maybe bookings have stalled. Your price no longer makes sense. Marketing eats time without producing much. Your systems are held together by memory. Or you simply want an experienced outside brain on a ceremony, business decision or next season of work. Josh has been a working celebrant since 2009, built wedding businesses, spoken with celebrants around the world and spent years answering the questions that only appear once you are doing the work. Coaching is a focused conversation about your situation, followed by a useful way forward. “ No generic playbook. No pretending your business is somebody else’s. Bring the live problem. Leave with clearer priorities, decisions and next actions. **Since 2009**A working celebrant, not a spectator **One-to-one**Your context, questions and pace **Practical**Decisions and actions you can use now What we can work on ## A useful outside brain for the work behind the ceremony. You do not need to arrive with the perfect brief. A stuck point, a decision or a goal is enough to begin. 01 ### Positioning and pricing Get clearer about the work you want, the couples you are for, what makes your offer valuable and how to talk about your price without shrinking. 02 ### Marketing that sounds like you Work through your website, enquiries, content, search visibility and use of AI without sanding all the personality off your business. 03 ### Systems that give time back Find the manual work, messy handovers and repeated decisions that can be simplified, automated or removed from your week. 04 ### Ceremony craft and confidence Think through structure, storytelling, delivery, boundaries and the difficult moments that do not fit neatly into a template. In celebrants’ own words ## Useful is better than impressive. These are the words celebrants have shared after reading Josh’s work, asking for advice or using the support he has made available over the years. Some names are shortened for privacy. > “Josh’s input encouraged me to value my work properly, charge in line with my professional service, and build a more profitable celebrancy practice.” **Wayne**Marriage celebrant · Paraphrased from email feedback > “Your article made me cry in the bit about boundaries and guilt because I do feel all the guilt.” **Grace**Marriage celebrant · Shared by email > “Always good and meaningful! You’re making a difference mate.” **Jacs**Marriage celebrant · Shared by email > “Thank you for keeping me constantly busy and inspired to do and be better.” **Stephanie**Marriage celebrant · Public review > “I appreciate the time you take to write thoughtful pieces.” **Sophie**Marriage celebrant · Shared by email > “Thank you for so generously sharing your emails. I enjoy receiving them and find the information interesting and useful… the info is always relevant and well received.” **Melanie**Marriage celebrant · Shared by email How to begin ## Start with a short, honest email. Tell Josh what feels stuck, what you have already tried and what a useful outcome would look like. He will reply with the most sensible next step and confirm the scope before any paid work begins. 1. 1 ### Share the context A few candid paragraphs and a link to your current work are more useful than a polished pitch. 2. 2 ### Agree on the useful next step That might be one focused conversation or a small run of sessions around a larger change. 3. 3 ### Do the work that matters Leave with decisions, priorities and actions suited to your actual celebrant business. Ready when you are ## You do not need to solve it before you ask for help. Send Josh the messy version. That is usually where the useful conversation begins. [Email Josh about coaching→](mailto:josh@withers.co?subject=Celebrant%20coaching%20enquiry&body=Hi%20Josh%2C%0A%0AI%27d%20like%20some%20help%20with%3A%0A%0AThe%20part%20that%20feels%20stuck%20is%3A%0A%0AMy%20website%20or%20social%20link%20is%3A%0A) Prefer to explore first? ## Useful things you can pick up without booking a call. Better systems, useful writing, a professional network, a stronger website and clearer search visibility are all available when one-to-one coaching is not the next move. Systems ### Wedding Computer A shared wedding CRM and operating system for celebrants, couples, venues and the people making the wedding. [Explore Wedding Computer ↗](https://wedding.computer/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=celebrant_coaching) Articles ### The SMH Josh’s practical writing about celebrancy, business, technology, websites and doing meaningful work for real people. [Read The SMH ↗](https://thesmh.com.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=celebrant_coaching) Community ### Australian Wedding Celebrants A national directory and network helping good celebrants become easier for the right couples to discover. [Visit the network ↗](https://australianweddingcelebrants.com.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=celebrant_coaching) Websites ### The Internet Wedding-industry website design and development for celebrants who need a clearer, more useful home online. [See wedding websites ↗](https://theinternet.com.au/wedding-websites/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=celebrant_coaching) Discovery ### Unpopular Practical SEO and answer-engine work for businesses that want to become clearer, more useful and more discoverable. [Explore Unpopular ↗](https://unpopular.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=celebrant_coaching) Prefer a book? ## Six Figure Wedding Celebrant Josh’s guide to building a sustainable, profitable celebrancy practice around craft, care and professional systems is available to read on this site. [Read about the book →](/books/six-figure) --- # How Is a Marriage Consummated? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/consumated Mar 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # How Is a Marriage Consummated? Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. ![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) So you’ve found yourself Googling “how is a marriage consummated” and landed on my celebrant website. First off, let me say – bold search query, friend. Very bold. I could tell you that I’ve created this page purely to answer your burning question in explicit detail, but that would be a lie. The truth is, I’ve written this page because people like you are searching for this term, and as a marriage celebrant, I want to be helpful when people have questions about marriage. But let’s be clear about something: I’m a marriage celebrant, not a sex counsellor. My expertise ends firmly at the legal ceremony part of your wedding day. What happens after I pack up my PA system and head home is entirely your business. Entirely 👏 Your 👏 Business 👏. ## The legal perspective From a strictly legal standpoint in Australia, your marriage is official the moment you exchange those required vows in front of me and your witnesses. The [Marriage Act 1961](/marriage-act-1961) makes no mention of what happens in your honeymoon suite. Not a single word. The law doesn’t care if you spend your wedding night playing Monopoly, having a deep conversation about your childhood pets, or… well, you know. Your marriage certificate doesn’t come with a “consummation pending” watermark that magically disappears after the deed is done. The moment I submit your paperwork to Births, Deaths and Marriages, you’re legally married – regardless of your bedroom activities. Funny story, I was once fired from a celebrant training job about a decade ago because I had these two old bitties in the class arguing that you had to consumate a marriage, and I pulled up the marriage law, we got into a verbal fight, they made a complaint. Silly old bitties. ## Historical context (without the photos) Historically, consummation was considered important for royal marriages and in certain legal contexts. Kings and queens often had witnesses to verify consummation (awkward), and in some legal systems, non-consummation could be grounds for annulment. But we’re in modern Australia now, where your marriage is valid whether or not you engage in certain activities. Your relationship, your rules. ## What really matters What genuinely matters in your marriage isn’t what happens on your wedding night, but rather the commitment you’ve made to each other. The promise to support each other, to communicate honestly, to work through challenges together – these are the things that will sustain your marriage for decades to come. If you’re genuinely concerned about intimate aspects of your relationship, there are qualified professionals who can help – relationship counsellors, sex therapists, and doctors are all better equipped than your friendly neighbourhood celebrant to answer those questions. ## In conclusion I hope you’ve enjoyed this cheeky non-answer to your very personal question. If you’re getting married and looking for someone to create an incredible, meaningful, and legal ceremony (without commenting on what happens afterwards), I’d love to chat about being your celebrant. And if you were genuinely searching for explicit instructions… well, there are other websites for that sort of thing. This ain’t it. - [wedding-laws](/tag/wedding-laws) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/legal-vows) ### [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Tayla— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/tayla-0c8eylu) - [Jessica— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-08710vi) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al) --- # Wedding Enquiries | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/contact # Enquire about your wedding ![Video preview for A quick hello from Josh](/animated-contact.gif)WatchA quick hello from Josh --- # Cost of eloping in Tasmania URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania Feb 3, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) · 2 min read # Cost of eloping in Tasmania If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. ![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Eloping in Tasmania can be wild, intimate and refreshingly free of wedding-day clutter. There is no standard package price, though: the final cost depends on the location, travel, accommodation and the team you choose. Start with the [Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method), decide what matters to you, then ask the right people for current quotes. ## Celebrant, photography and planning Some elopement specialists, including [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), can combine the major creative services into one tailored package. Ask exactly what is included, how travel is handled and which parts of the day are covered. For context, **the national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That survey figure is not a Tasmanian elopement package or a quote from me; destination logistics and the service you choose still matter. ## Clothing Wear what makes you feel like yourselves. That may be traditional wedding attire, something you already own or clothing chosen specifically for the landscape and weather. ## Travel and accommodation Allow for flights or ferries, a rental car, accommodation and enough time to reach the location without rushing. Remote places can require extra nights, flexible plans or specialist transport. ## Celebrating after the vows An intimate meal, local wine, a picnic or a small gathering with family can all work. Decide who you want to host and ask venues or restaurants for a current quote based on that plan. ## Rings, styling and keepsakes Rings, hair and makeup, flowers, albums and prints are optional. Choose them because they add something meaningful to your experience, not because an elopement checklist says they belong there. ## Keep the logistics calm Tasmania rewards good planning. Weather, permits, travel time and access can matter more than a long list of wedding details, especially at Cradle Mountain, Freycinet or other remote locations. A team that knows the landscape can help you build a realistic plan and a useful wet-weather alternative. Ready to talk through your Tasmanian elopement? [Get in touch](/contact) and I will prepare a tailored quote. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [costs](/tag/costs) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) ### [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) ### [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) ### [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jasmine— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmine-0hrbnps) - [Bernhard— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/bernhard-0713w0l) - [Renee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/renee-0t2ka3l) --- # Cradle Mountain Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/cradle-mountain # Cradle Mountain Wedding Celebrant ## A meaningful wedding ceremony in Tasmania's alpine heart I'm Josh Withers, a full-time Tasmanian marriage celebrant. Whether we're on the deck at Peppers Cradle Mountain Lodge or lakeside at Dove Lake, you get clear legal guidance, careful planning and a ceremony created for the landscape and the two of you. Every package is tailored to the location, logistics and kind of celebration you are planning. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony beside Dove Lake at Cradle Mountain](/_astro/cradle-mountain-aimee-hero.BZuT_AXC_ZNHvQw.jpeg) ![](/maps/cradle-mountain-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach in the Highlands ## What makes a Cradle Mountain ceremony unforgettable Since 2009 I've flown, hiked, and occasionally trudged through snow to marry couples in 24 countries. Cradle Mountain is still one of my favourite backdrops: raw, rugged, and refreshingly honest — just like the ceremony we'll create. - ### Words That Matter I create every ceremony from scratch, weaving your story with personal vows, faith elements when wanted and good humour, then deliver it naturally. - ### Legally Sound Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961, I handle the paperwork and the marriage law so you can focus on the promises. - ### Crystal-Clear Audio Mountain breezes and excited tourists are no match for my Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 S1 and Rode/Sennheiser mic kit. Your guests — and your videographer — won't miss a single word. - ### Calm in Any Weather Blizzard, drizzle, or blazing February sun, I stay the steady voice that keeps everyone anchored in the moment (and the rings out of the mud). - ### Tailored Packages From an intimate elopement to the whole ceremony-plus-MC shebang, we'll build and quote the right service without fluff you don't need. - ### Global Experience, Local Insight Over 2,900 ceremonies across 24 countries means I bring big-picture perspective, yet I still know which tracks flood after rain and where to find the cleanest loos at Dove Lake. ## How we'll get you married in the mountains - ### Step 1: Discovery Call Jump on a quick video chat so I can hear your story, check Cradle Mountain logistics, and whip up a custom quote. - ### Step 2: Lock In the Legals We complete the Notice of Intended Marriage (online or over coffee in Hobart) at least one month out — no ferrying paperwork up the mountain. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design We brainstorm your vows, readings, and faith elements. I draft the ceremony, you give feedback, and we fine-tune until it feels 100% you. - ### Step 4: Say 'I do' On the day I arrive early with the sound gear, steady nerves, and spare pens. You get married against one of the world's most iconic skylines. ![Wedding celebrant in Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania - > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." --- [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z1byOt6.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live in Tasmania’s Huon Valley with our three kids, and Tasmania is home. I bring that local connection—and more than 15 years of experience—to weddings at Cradle Mountain and across the island. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for vows echoing off the peaks? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's craft a ceremony worthy of Cradle Mountain. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/cradle-mountain-wedding Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) · 7 min read # Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) [Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain) is one of Tasmania’s most iconic locations for an [elopement](https://elopementcollective.com), and April and Josh’s intimate Cradle Mountain elopement at Dove Lake captured its magic in a bottle. As their [celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant), I had the privilege of witnessing their heartfelt vows against the stunning backdrop of Cradle Mountain. ![Josh, getting ready at Cradle Mountain Lodge - Peppers ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-22_websize_9ioUP67c9?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Cradle Mountain is one of those rare places where nature feels larger than life. It’s a breathtaking slice of Tasmania that seems heaven-made for moments of profound love and connection. Driving from [Hobart to officiate](/hobart-celebrant) April and Josh’s elopement at Dove Lake, I knew I was heading into something truly special. Their Cradle Mountain elopement wasn’t just another ceremony—it was a celebration of love, simplicity, and the beauty of the Tasmanian wilderness. As I made the drive from the Huon Valley to Cradle Mountain, deep through my [podcast](/podcast) list, I reflected on how perfect this location is for a wedding or elopement, it’s seriously perfect for an elopement nd I’d love to be there for more adventerous couples wanting meaningful and simple elopements and weddings in the Tassie wilderness. The journey itself, winding through Tasmania’s diverse landscapes, sets the tone for the day with a unique Tassie mix of anticipation and awe. The very manifestation of ‘coming down for air’. ![Pre-wedding photos at Cradle Mountain Lodge ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-18_websize_L2-Afp0QN?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![First look photo at Cradle Mountain Lodge ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-55_websize_MkfjcRgg1?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) April and Josh began their day at the iconic [Cradle Mountain Lodge](https://www.cradlemountainlodge.com.au/), nestled amongst the alpine scenery. It was here, amidst the excitement and calm of preparation, that their day started to take shape. April was styled to perfection by [Ben O’Brien](https://benobrienhairstylist.com.au/) and had her makeup expertly done by [Liv Rodgers](https://www.instagram.com/livrodgersmua/). The team from [Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co/) was on hand to capture these intimate moments, immortalising April slipping into her stunning [Karen Willis Holmes](https://karenwillisholmes.com/) dress. Plus the whole epic elopement was planned and created by my amazing wife, Britt, at [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com/). ![Eloping with Dove Lake in the background ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-96_websize_8xfYvPp9I?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Josh and April’s marriage ceremony was held at Dove Lake, with the towering majesty of Cradle Mountain as the backdrop. It’s a spot that needs no embellishment. April and Josh opted for no florals, letting the rugged beauty of the surroundings and their heartfelt vows take centre stage. ![Josh Withers, Tasmanian celebrant for a Cradle Mountain wedding ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-135_websize_a9bUnp2Oo?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Cradle Mountain marriage celebrant, Josh Withers from Hobart ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-138_websize_Rv1gTjYFJ?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Elopement at Cradle Mountain by The Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-140_websize_3ZO3MKx-N?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Standing with them on that beach at Dove Lake was such a simply human and honest moment and it was an honour to be their celebrant. ![Josh and April’s Cradle Mountain elopement ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-148_websize_0u9ymzFCs?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Josh exchanging vows with April ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-152_websize_110sH-Blp?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) > April, I almost can’t believe that today is finally here—to stand at the top of a mountain, at a lake, ready to vow to love and cherish each other forever. Even though we’ve been a little delayed from our original plans, the extra wait has only solidified what I’ve always thought for the last five years: “Josh, you are never going to find anybody as perfect as April.” > > Since we met, you’ve been by my side as my best friend, as my girlfriend, as my fiancée, and soon as my wife. You have taught me so much in the last five years. You’ve taught me patience, challenged me to be the best person I can be, to step outside of my comfort zones, and to experience life from a completely different perspective—like, who knew that I could actually brush my teeth and not look at myself in a mirror at the same time? > > I promise to love you and cherish every minute that we spend together, which is going to be the easiest thing to do because it’s what I look forward to every day already. You are my soulmate, the love of my life, and nothing makes me happier than thinking of life with you forever. I love you. ![April exchanging vows with Josh at Cradle Mountain ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-160_websize_D3Sy1ECr_?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) > Josh, you have shown me more love than I’ve ever known, and I’ll be endlessly grateful for that. You know my deepest emotions and nurture me when they become too much. You’ve embraced every part of me and every dream I’ve had—with a little bit of logic and a whole lot of love. > > The way you love your family and the way you love the children we care for only deepens the love I have for you. I truly can’t imagine a life where we didn’t coexist, and I never want to. You are just perfect to me. But us—we’re just something special. The way we love and communicate makes our union something only dreams are made of. > > We listen to each other always, and every compromise involves growth in every aspect of our thinking. We respect each other completely and continue to learn how we can respect others. We’ve experienced so much together in such a short amount of time, and I know the adventures will only continue. We are the best decision we ever made. > > You are my somewhere over the rainbow, and I promise to always be right by your side with every opportunity that comes into your hands. I know that together we can accomplish anything. Thank you for letting me love you and for loving me the same. Thank you for being here. ![First kiss under Cradle Mountain, Tasmania ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-154_websize_4QbW2hsBA?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The connection between these two, that something special, was undeniable, and their vows reflected a relationship built on trust, respect, and unwavering love. ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-177_websize_rf3rLWW2Y?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) As the sun dipped behind Cradle Mountain, the couple wandered through the awe-inspiring scenery for their portraits. With the talented Harley from [Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co/) capturing every glance and embrace, beautiful art was created. ![Josh and April eloped in Tassie ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-191_websize_0GjfwYSNg?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The absence of a crowd allowed them to fully immerse themselves in each other and the moment. ![Cradle Mountain Elopement - with the Elopement Collective and Bulb Creative ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-117_websize_UWwVF6bGe?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Dove Lake elopement photos by Bulb Creative ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-112_websize_Ti4YOGLdA?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Eloping at Cradle Mountain is amazing ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-118_d-FmEfHUm?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) This is the magic of a Cradle Mountain elopement: it strips away the noise - figuratively and actually - leaving only love and the natural beauty of Dove Lake and Cradle Mountain. Cradle Mountain isn’t just a location; it’s an experience. As a celebrant servicing Cradle Mountain and all of Tasmania, I’ve been fortunate to witness many incredible weddings and elopements. The drive from Hobart is part of the adventure, taking you through some of the state’s most stunning landscapes. Once you arrive, the serenity and grandeur of Dove Lake and the surrounding areas make it clear why so many couples choose to begin their married lives here. ![Walking through the national park at Cradle Mountain for their elopement ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-245_websize_erwhp-gnT?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Sweet elopements in Tasmania ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-201_websize_7JRJ6Rbnw?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) If you’re dreaming of a [Cradle Mountain wedding or elopement](https://elopementcollective.com/blog/cradle-mountain-elopement-april-josh), I’d love to help you create a day as meaningful and unique as [April and Josh’s](https://www.elopement.photos/-apriljoshcradlemountain/). Whether you’re planning a simple ceremony at Dove Lake or a full celebration surrounded by the mountain’s majesty, I’m here to make it unforgettable. ![Five star review for their Cradle Mountain elopement ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-223_websize_GZJ7-kg-u?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Running back to Cradle Mountain Lodge at sunset ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-262_websize_0q4yosFRb?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) If you’re looking for local advice about how we can make your wedding day at Cradle Mountain everything you’ve ever imagined, [get in touch](/contact). ![On Dove Lake with Bulb Creative ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-61_websize_z8QoQdy-W?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Tasmanian weddings and elopements have such a vibe! ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-238_websize_e9rEzA4Qq?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Whether you’re driving from Hobart or flying in from interstate, I’m here to help you every step of the way. As a [Cradle Mountain celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant), my goal is to ensure your elopement is as personal and heartfelt as possible. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) ### [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) ### [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) ### [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alison-1xvbh1o) - [Harry & Nayla— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [Anny— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/anny-12s7h75) --- # M&C's Daylesford elopement URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) · 4 min read # M&C's Daylesford elopement A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) As a celebrant, I’ve witnessed countless expressions of love, but there’s something extraordinarily special about being part of a true elopement – where it’s just the couple, completely focused on each other. When my wife Britt, who you might know as [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), told me about Maddy and Cameron’s vision for their day, I knew this would be one of those magical ceremonies that remind you why elopements are so powerful. ![Elopement at the Daylesford Msyor’s Residence ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-80da_z2WVvWZdF?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Maddy, an Intensive Care Nurse, and Cameron, a Joiner who specialises in crafting beautiful staircases, chose to celebrate their love in the most intimate way possible – just the two of them (plus us vendors, of course!). ![Melbourne wedding celebrant Josh Withers ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-79_YbhCAKJxe?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Their choice of [Daylesford](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daylesford,_Victoria) couldn’t have been more fitting. This charming spa town, just a short drive from Melbourne, holds special meaning for them – it’s where Cameron proposed at the picturesque Wombat Hill Botanic Gardens, complete with a perfectly planned picnic hamper at their B&B. ![Daylesford elopement ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-83_-TEAGvrzj?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) For their elopement, they chose the stunning Mayor’s Residence, a venue that embodies everything that makes Daylesford special – that perfect blend of historic charm and contemporary elegance. As I arrived in the afternoon, the atmosphere was notably different from typical weddings. There was no buzz of guests arriving, no family members fussing over details – just two people, completely present in their moment. ![Melbourne wedding florist - Flower Jar ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-190_cHGwMaoAk?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) What struck me most was how Maddy and Cameron chose to spend their day together, getting ready in the same space, sharing those precious moments before becoming husband and wife. Maddy looked absolutely stunning in her dress from [Olivia Rose the Label](https://oliviarosethelabel.com), which perfectly matched the day’s relaxed yet elegant vibe. [The Flower Jar](https://www.flowerjar.com.au) from [Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant) had created beautiful arrangements that complemented the setting perfectly, and [Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co) was there to capture every moment with their signature style. ![Daylesford celebrant ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-116_0eZ7S7d-c?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) One of my favourite parts of the day was watching Cameron realise he hadn’t even taken the tags off his suit while Maddy was having her makeup done – these are the real, unscripted moments that make each ceremony unique. ![Eloped with the Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-155_3eMbagMyL?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) During their vows, it was just us in that beautiful space, with no audience except the camera. The intimacy of that moment was palpable – when couples don’t have to project their voices for guests or worry about anyone else’s reactions, something magical happens. They can truly be themselves. When asked about what marriage means to them, Maddy’s response resonated deeply with me: > Marriage means always having a best friend. Getting to spend every single day with your person, even if they are frustrating you and want to make you pull your hair out, they are still there at the end of the day. Having someone to turn to, laugh with and experience life with. They are your safety net and support person. ![Melbourne elopement celebrant ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-148_d85O5ywNs?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) After five years together and a 14-month engagement, Maddy and Cameron created exactly the day they wanted – relaxed, intimate, and completely true to who they are as a couple. Their advice to other couples considering eloping? “If you’re thinking about it, chances are you’re meant to do it. It was the best thing we ever did and would do it one hundred times over.” ![Melbourne elopement ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-208_DEIg9h_BI?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) As a celebrant, these are the moments that remind me why elopements are so powerful. When couples like Maddy and Cameron choose to focus solely on their commitment to each other, without any external pressures or expectations, the result is pure magic. And working alongside my wife Britt to help create these intimate, meaningful celebrations? Well, that’s just the icing on the cake. --- _Vendors:_ - [Planning: The Elopement Collective (Britt)](https://elopementcollective.com) - [Venue: The Mayor’s Residence, Daylesford](https://daylesfordcountryretreats.com.au/romance-relax-free-night-2025/) - [Celebrant: Josh Withers](/melbourne-celebrant) - [Photography: Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co) - [Flowers: The Flower Jar](https://www.flowerjar.com.au) - [Dress: Olivia Rose the Label](https://oliviarosethelabel.com) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cradle-mountain-wedding) ### [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/mafs) ### [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) ### [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. 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Full terms available on request. --- # The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent Jul 12, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) · 14 min read # The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth Debunking the 50% divorce myth: why modern marriages are stronger, divorce is declining, and getting married in 2025 is still worth it ![The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-couple_zIyMuzrbe?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) As a marriage celebrant who sits in aircraft going to weddings every week, I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve been seated next to someone who insists on telling me, “I don’t need to get married because 50% of all marriages end in divorce.” These well-meaning armchair statisticians usually share this tidbit with a smug certainty, as if it’s a proven fact. 🙄 It’s often an older gentleman on the plane with lots of opinions about marriage and weddings. I always smile politely and listen to their “marriage is sad” stories. But inside I am always thinking: where are they getting these numbers from? Because that scary “half of all marriages fail” number is completely misleading – and it always has been. ## The 50% Divorce Rate Myth Let’s clear this up right away: **the divorce rate has never actually been 50%**. [🔗](https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/50-divorce-rate-lie/#:~:text=So%2C%20has%20the%20divorce%20rate,ever%20been%2050) Half of marriages have never ended in divorce, despite what endless articles and barstool experts claim. So how did this myth get started? It turns out the origin of the “50%” figure traces back to the 1970s, when no-fault divorce laws were introduced. Suddenly, couples could split up without proving wrongdoing. Divorces spiked in the late 1970s and early 1980s, and some experts projected that if those trends continued, eventually half of marriages might end in divorce. [🔗](https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/50-divorce-rate-lie/#:~:text=It%20began%20in%20the%20Baby,to%20marry%20and%20start%20families) In other words, \*50% was a speculative **projection\*** – not an actual reality. > In reality, the 50% divorce rate was never the reality. This number is based on projections from the 1970s that it eventually would get that high. But it never did. Unfortunately, that projected number took on a life of its own. It got misquoted so often, for so long, that people started accepting “half of marriages end in divorce” as if it were gospel truth. Over the years, the media and pop culture kept repeating it, even though the actual data never quite supported the 50% claim. Another reason this myth refuses to die is due to a flawed statistic that was commonly used: comparing the number of marriages in a given year to the number of divorces in that same year. For example, in 2014 the U.S. had about 17 marriages and 8.7 divorces per 1,000 women – divide divorces by marriages and you get roughly 51%. [🔗](https://www.adamdivorcelaw.com/what-are-the-facts-and-myths-on-divorce-rate-statistics/#:~:text=the%20number%20of%20divorces%20and,7%2C%20you%20get%2051%20percent) But **the couples marrying in 2014 weren’t the ones divorcing in 2014**! It’s a statistical apples-to-oranges mistake. [🔗](https://www.adamdivorcelaw.com/what-are-the-facts-and-myths-on-divorce-rate-statistics/#:~:text=However%2C%20the%20people%20marrying%20in,never%20been%20quite%20that%20high) Thankfully, researchers have debunked that method, noting that it misrepresents reality. [🔗](https://www.adamdivorcelaw.com/what-are-the-facts-and-myths-on-divorce-rate-statistics/#:~:text=However%2C%20the%20people%20marrying%20in,never%20been%20quite%20that%20high) So what is the reality? ## Divorce Rates: Falling The good news is that divorce rates aren’t nearly as grim as the myth suggests. In fact, recent analyses indicate that only about one-third of American marriages end in divorce – not anywhere close to 50%. The divorce rate peaked around 1980 and has been **declining ever since**. You read that right: divorce has actually been on the decline for decades. People like you and me, we make better decisions than our parents did. > Back in the 1970s and ’80s following no-fault divorce, only 65% of marriages made it to the 15-year mark. But in the 1990s, that number went up to 70%. And the overall divorce rate per marriages actually went down, and it has been declining. _– Attachment Adam (@attachmentadam), via [Threads](https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam/post/DL-JzJoM4Mi?xmt=AQF06qHyTsdyR7Y2N1D4bXReaJ2qLQodI0mi5LPuoaQ9SA)_ What about Australia? The story is similar. Divorce figures here are at their **lowest level in 50 years**. [🔗](https://www.miragenews.com/divorce-rates-at-lowest-level-in-50-years-1416556/#:~:text=Divorce%20rates%20are%20at%20their,ABS) In 2023, Australia saw just **2.3 divorces per 1,000 adults** (aged 16+), continuing a long downward trend (for context, it was 3.4 per 1,000 in 2000). In other words, the chance that an Aussie marriage will end in legal divorce is now the lowest it’s been since the mid-1970s. Marriage isn’t crumbling; it’s stronger than the doomsayers claim. So why does the myth persist? One reason is that the **Baby Boomer generation** _skews_ the stats. Boomers led the divorce surge in the ’70s and have racked up the most divorces of any generation – even now, they continue to divorce at higher rates (including “grey divorces” in their 60s and 70s). Every generation since the Boomers has divorced less. Younger generations (Gen X, Millennials, Gen Z) are more cautious about marriage – many marry later, or not at all – and they aren’t divorcing nearly as often as their Boomer parents did. > The Baby Boomer generation led the way on the divorce explosion and has continued to produce more divorces. They still hold the highest divorce rate of any generation ever studied. Every generation since has divorced LESS. The divorce rate is decreasing. Part of this decline is indeed because fewer people are getting married overall, and they’re marrying at older ages. In Australia, the median age of brides is now 30 and grooms 31 – about 8 years older than couples in 1975. [🔗](https://www.miragenews.com/divorce-rates-at-lowest-level-in-50-years-1416556/#:~:text=A%20second%20AIFS%20report%20shows,counterparts%20were%20marrying%20in%201975) Many couples live together before marriage (about 83% do, vs only 16% in the 1970s), essentially a marital “try before you buy.” That means some relationships that might have ended in divorce a generation ago now simply end in a breakup during cohabitation – which doesn’t show up in divorce statistics. So yes, the pool of marriages today might be more self-selected for success (people who aren’t sure often delay or avoid marriage). But the bottom line remains: those who do marry today have a better chance of making it than couples who married in the past. To put it plainly, if you’re getting married in the 2020s, the odds are very much in your favor that you won’t divorce. So much for my mate on the plane and his 50% story. ## Who Does Get Divorced? Even though the overall divorce risk is far lower than 50%, it’s also true that divorce is not evenly distributed among everyone. Certain factors can influence divorce rates. For instance: - **Education:** Couples with more education have markedly lower divorce rates. In the U.S., roughly 39% of men with only a high school education (or less) will divorce in their lifetime (and about 37% of similarly educated women will). But among those with a degree, divorce rates drop to around 28% for men and 29% for women. Higher education often brings higher income, later marriage age, and other stability factors that protect marriage. Advanced degree holders are in the same low range (~26% for men, 30% for women). - **Age at Marriage:** Marrying very young (teens or early twenties) is a known risk factor for divorce. Couples who marry later (late 20s or beyond) tend to have more stable marriages on average. For example, in Australia the highest divorce rates historically were for marriages that began at very young ages – whereas those who marry in their 30s or later divorce much less. - **Remarriages and Serial Divorce:** A lot of divorces are _repeat divorces_ by the same individuals. Someone who’s on their second or third marriage is statistically more likely to divorce again. In fact, multiple divorces by a single person can inflate the stats. (We all know that one celebrity or acquaintance who’s been divorced 3, 4, even 5 times!) As one analyst quipped, some folks “get a taste for it” – meaning a subset of people account for a disproportionate number of divorces. So the true percentage of individuals who ever divorce at least once is lower than the percentage of marriages that end in divorce. One person ending five marriages is _not_ the same as five different couples each divorcing once – but a crude divorce rate doesn’t distinguish the two scenarios. - **Ethnicity and Background:** Demographics play a role too. For instance, in the U.S., about 42% of Black men and women have been divorced (or remarried) – a bit higher than the national average – while the rates for White Americans are around 36-38%. Hispanic communities see lower divorce rates (around 27% of men and 30% of women) and Asian Americans have the lowest (only 16% of men and 18% of women have divorced). Culturally, attitudes toward marriage and divorce differ, and socioeconomic factors vary across groups, influencing these stats. _(Australian data by cultural background show similar patterns – for example, communities with strong cultural or religious disapproval of divorce tend to have lower rates.)_ - **Other Factors:** Everything from financial stress to parental divorce to values can tilt the odds. Regular religious attendance, for example, has been linked with lower divorce risk in some studies. Personal habits and compatibility matter too – for instance, how couples handle conflict and communication can make or break a marriage. There’s even data on seemingly odd correlations (like divorce rates by occupation, or whether you smoke, etc.), but those are more fun facts than destiny. The key point: your choices and circumstances affect your marriage’s success more than some random statistic. As Attachment Adam says, smart planning and healthy relationship skills can drive your divorce risk down to almost zero if you do it right. The big picture is that marriage is not a coin toss. It’s not some 50/50 gamble where you’re equally likely to fail as succeed. Not at all! By being mindful about when and whom you marry, and by nurturing the relationship, you stack the odds heavily in favor of success. ## The Upside of Marriage Okay, so we’ve debunked the big scary divorce stat. But beyond avoiding divorce, why bother getting married at all? As someone who literally makes a living from weddings and also enjoys being married, I might be biased – but hear me out: Marriage comes with some serious perks. And I’m not just talking about love and companionship (though those are awesome too!). I’m talking hard data on _wealth, health,_ and _happiness_. Numerous studies over the past 140 years have found that **married people tend to live longer** and healthier lives than their unmarried counterparts. [🔗](https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB5018.html#:~:text=Numerous%20studies%20covering%20140%20years,start%20of%20their%20married%20lives) Having a spouse can provide emotional support, help in times of illness, and even accountability for healthy behaviors (like someone nagging you to see the doctor or eat your veggies). In fact, one long-term study showed that by age 50, men who were divorced had significantly worse health profiles and higher mortality risk than men who stayed married – but if those divorced men **remarried**, their health status bounced back closer to that of continuously married men. The implication: a good marriage can be a protective factor for your health. There’s a reason people jokingly say _“marriage is the cheapest health insurance.”_ Financially, **marriage can be a financial proposition** too. Married couples often accumulate more wealth over time. Think about it: two incomes (or one income and one dedicated home-manager – teamwork in either case), shared living expenses, and the ability to pool resources gives married households an economic edge. The U.S. Federal Reserve has found that the wealth gap between married and single adults is huge and growing. For example, among young adults (age 25–34), the median net worth of a married couple is nearly **9 times greater** than that of a single person of the same age. [🔗](https://www.reddit.com/r/MoneyDiariesACTIVE/comments/1bywmgu/the_wealth_gap_between_singles_and_couples/#:~:text=In%202010%2C%20the%20median%20net,is%20unmarried%2C%20divorced%2C%20or%20widowed) In 2010 it was 4x, by 2019 it was 9x – the gap keeps widening! [🔗](https://www.reddit.com/r/MoneyDiariesACTIVE/comments/1bywmgu/the_wealth_gap_between_singles_and_couples/#:~:text=In%202010%2C%20the%20median%20net,is%20unmarried%2C%20divorced%2C%20or%20widowed) Overall, in 2019 married households had about **$60,000 more** in net worth on average than single households. [🔗](https://moneywise.com/life/lifestyle/single-married-wealth-gap#:~:text=In%202019%2C%20the%20net%20worth,Louis) Married couples are also far more likely to be homeowners, which is a key driver of wealth. [🔗](https://moneywise.com/life/lifestyle/single-married-wealth-gap#:~:text=Married%20couples%20are%20%E2%80%9Cgoing%20to,%E2%80%9D) Simply put, **it’s easier for two people to build wealth together than for one person alone** – economies of scale are real. (And yes, divorce can reverse some of these gains – but as we’ve seen, divorce is not the norm for most). When it comes to **happiness**, marriage shines as well. Survey data consistently show that, on average, married people report higher life satisfaction than singles. One prominent analysis noted that “married couples on average report more happiness, build more wealth, **live longer**, and raise more successful children than single parents or cohabiting couples”. [🔗](https://statmodeling.stat.columbia.edu/2024/08/27/marriage-happiness/#:~:text=,research%20that%20shows%20differences%20in) In recent _General Social Survey_ results, about **40%** of married people (in their prime years) say they are “very happy” with life, versus only about **20%** of unmarried folks. [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=The%202022%20edition%20of%20the,of%20unmarried%20childless%20women) [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=These%20results%20parallel%C2%A0other%20recent%20research,between%20married%20and%20unmarried%20Americans) That’s a **double** likelihood of being very happy! In fact, one study found a _30 percentage-point happiness gap_ between married and unmarried Americans. [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=These%20results%20parallel%C2%A0other%20recent%20research,between%20married%20and%20unmarried%20Americans) Marriage was identified as **“the most important differentiator”** of who is happy and who isn’t. [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=These%20results%20parallel%C2%A0other%20recent%20research,between%20married%20and%20unmarried%20Americans) And this trend holds for both men and women – **having a spouse (and often, having children with that spouse) is strongly linked to greater happiness** in life. [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=The%202022%20edition%20of%20the,of%20unmarried%20childless%20women) [🔗](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=But%20what%20about%20men%3F%20Is,again%2C%20married%20fathers%20are%20happiest) Now, of course, these are averages – an _unhappy_ marriage won’t magically make you healthy or rich (in fact, a toxic marriage can be worse than being single). And being single doesn’t doom anyone to misery; plenty of single individuals live wonderful lives. But _statistically speaking_, marriage tends to provide a framework that helps people thrive. There’s something to be said for having a partner to share life’s ups and downs, to encourage you, to combine forces with you to achieve goals. **It’s like having a permanent life teammate.** 👫 **Teamwork makes the dream work**, as they say. Also, let’s not overlook the **intangible benefits**: the sense of security, the deep companionship, the shared history and inside jokes, the joy of creating a family together (if you choose to), and the knowledge that someone has promised to love you even when you’re old and cranky. That stuff might not show up in statistics, but ask any happily married couple – it’s priceless. ## Don’t Fear Marriage The next time someone tries to tell you, “Marriage is pointless, half of them end in divorce anyway,” you can confidently roll your eyes (at least internally) and remember that this simply isn’t true. The 50% divorce figure is a myth that has never been reflected in real-world data. [🔗](https://www.adamdivorcelaw.com/what-are-the-facts-and-myths-on-divorce-rate-statistics/#:~:text=so%20this%20statistic%20is%20faulty,never%20been%20quite%20that%20high) Marriage is not a coin flip, it’s an intentioanl effort which requires all of you, and it’s certainly not a death sentence to your happiness or finances. When entered into thoughtfully and intentionally, marriage can be one of the best investments you make in your future. That doesn’t mean marriage is easy. Like anything worthwhile, it takes effort. I like to view it as work, but not the type of work that you go to every day begrudginly, but instead it’s work like an artist, a work of creation. The payoff can be huge. If you communicate well, support each other, and maintain mutual respect, the odds are overwhelming that you’ll stay together “’til death do us part.” In fact, that’s how most marriages end – not by divorce, but by one partner eventually passing away after a lifetime together. Technically 100% of marriages will end in one of their funeral – that’s just existing on planet earth, none of us make it out alive. The point is, while you’re alive, you get to choose to make your marriage as awesome as it can be. As a celebrant, I often tell couples: start your marriage how you want it to continue. That’s why I believe having a joyful, personalised wedding is important – it sets the tone for the adventure you’re embarking on. You’re not just throwing a party; you’re declaring to each other and your community that you’re all in on this partnership. That optimism and commitment at the start will carry you through the tough times later. So don’t be afraid of marriage because of some warped statistic you heard on a plane or on social media. The truth is, marriage done right is absolutely worth it. The data is on your side, and so am I. Here’s to love, to truth, and to setting off on the grand journey of marriage with confidence! --- **Sources:** - Hurley, D. (2005). _Divorce Rate: It’s Not as High as You Think._ **New York Times** [adamdivorcelaw.com](https://www.adamdivorcelaw.com/what-are-the-facts-and-myths-on-divorce-rate-statistics/#:~:text=so%20this%20statistic%20is%20faulty,never%20been%20quite%20that%20high). - Swanson, A. (2016). _Who gets divorced in America, in 7 charts._ **Washington Post** [washingtonpost.com](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/04/06/who-gets-divorced-in-america-in-7-charts/#:~:text=As%20Claire%20Cain%20Miller%20wrote,Upshot%E2%80%99s%20Justin%20Wolfers%20has%20calculated) [washingtonpost.com](https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/04/06/who-gets-divorced-in-america-in-7-charts/#:~:text=The%20graph%20shows%20the%20age,women%20with%20a%20similar%20education). - Goldberg Jones. (2024). _Is the 50% Divorce Rate a Myth?_ [goldbergjones-or.com](https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/50-divorce-rate-lie/#:~:text=It%20began%20in%20the%20Baby,to%20marry%20and%20start%20families) + [goldbergjones-or.com](https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/50-divorce-rate-lie/#:~:text=divorce). - Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS). (2025). _Divorce Rates at Lowest Level in 50 Years_ [miragenews.com](https://www.miragenews.com/divorce-rates-at-lowest-level-in-50-years-1416556/#:~:text=Divorce%20rates%20are%20at%20their,ABS) [oai\_citation:46‡miragenews.com](https://www.miragenews.com/divorce-rates-at-lowest-level-in-50-years-1416556/#:~:text=,societal%20expectations%2C%27%20Dr%20Qu%20said). - Australian Bureau of Statistics. _Marriages and Divorces, Australia, 2023_ [miragenews.com](https://www.miragenews.com/divorce-rates-at-lowest-level-in-50-years-1416556/#:~:text=Divorce%20rates%20are%20at%20their,ABS). - Institute for Family Studies. (2023). _Who Is Happiest? Married Mothers and Fathers…_ [ifstudies.org](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=These%20results%20parallel%C2%A0other%20recent%20research,between%20married%20and%20unmarried%20Americans) + [ifstudies.org](https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey#:~:text=The%202022%20edition%20of%20the,of%20unmarried%20childless%20women). - RAND Corporation. _Health, Marriage, and Longer Life for Men._ [rand.org](https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB5018.html#:~:text=Numerous%20studies%20covering%20140%20years,start%20of%20their%20married%20lives). - Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis. _Survey of Consumer Finances_ (cited in Moneywise) [reddit.com](https://www.reddit.com/r/MoneyDiariesACTIVE/comments/1bywmgu/the_wealth_gap_between_singles_and_couples/#:~:text=In%202010%2C%20the%20median%20net,is%20unmarried%2C%20divorced%2C%20or%20widowed) + [moneywise.com](https://moneywise.com/life/lifestyle/single-married-wealth-gap#:~:text=In%202019%2C%20the%20net%20worth,Louis). - [AttachmentAdam (@attachmentadam). (2025). _Thread on divorce statistics and myths_ (Threads social media post).](https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam/post/DL-JzJoM4Mi?xmt=AQF0WnObgdpL8HHiMJzSeXSQsru0NjyDrZzMIUaP11Ms-w) - [divorce](/tag/divorce) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) ### [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) ### [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) ### [The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kim— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kim-0z6k5tr) - [Breeanna & Michael— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/breeanna-and-michael-15bfc6u) - [Mark— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/mark-02il4w7) --- # Dr Seuss Wedding Vows URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/dr-seuss-wedding-vows Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) · 2 min read # Dr Seuss Wedding Vows If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Celebrant: With that, I ask you right now, Will you answer me right now, These questions, as your wedding vow? Couple: Yes, I will answer you right now, Your questions as my solemn vow, Person 1: Provided our guests don’t have a cow. Celebrant: Will you love him/them if he’s rich? Will you love her/them in a ditch? From today until the end of time, Even if his/their words don’t rhyme? Person 2: I will love her/them if she’s rich Person 1: And I will love him/them in a ditch Person 2: And I will even love her/them when they’re/she’s being a b…eautiful princess/prince. Celebrant: Will you love him/them for richer, for poorer, Will you love her/them for quiet or snorer, From today until the cows come home, And never stop writing goofy poems? Person 1: I will love him/them if they’re/he’s poor. Person 2: I will love her/them if she/they snores. Person 1: And I will love him/them when they’re/he’s a bore. Celebrant: Will you love with all your heart? Will you love till death do you part? Will you have and forever hold, Each others’ hearts ‘till the stars grow cold? Couple: I will love her/him/them forever a thousand fold, ‘Till death do us part and our blood grow cold, Person 2: Or until our brains grow mold. Celebrant: Will you love through good and bad? Will you love in times happy and sad? Couple: I will love her/him through good and bad, And in times happy and sad. Person 1: Cause he’s the best friend I ever had. Celebrant: Will you take him as your mate? Will you have her as your date? From this day on and ever more, No matter what your life may have in store? Couple: I will have her/him as my mate, Starting on this our wedding date. Person 1: May as well, as it’s our fate. Celebrant: If you’ll be wed through and through, Please answer with the words: Couple: I do! - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/example-wedding-vows) ### [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/one-word) ### [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Isabella & Matthew— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [Skyler— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/skyler-0j5wxs4) - [Bernhard— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/bernhard-0713w0l) --- # Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions Mar 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. ![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) It’s the party of the decade in your honour, and you need it to be amazing. You’re [paying a fortune](/withers-wedding-method) for it, so it has to be special. Most couples I meet forget to ask these simple but important questions of their wedding venue. Make sure you ask these eight essential questions before you transfer your deposit. ## 1\. What Do Other Couples Complain About? I recently performed a wedding at possibly the most beautiful venue I’ve ever been to, but there was a problem. The venue owners were obviously new to the business and very amateur in their operation, having recently purchased the property. They were lovely people with great hearts who had no idea what they were doing. Ask your wedding venue what other people have been upset about, what they have complained about, or what issues have arisen for other couples. It’s a tough question, but the answers you get will allow you to plan for a fault-free day. When you know your obstacles, they are much easier to tackle. It’s the issues that you assumed would be fine that blindside you and leave a sour taste in your mouth. ## 2\. What’s the Deal with Guest Numbers? What happens if you book for 50 but only 48 turn up? Or if you don’t even know who you’re inviting yet, how many can you invite, and what happens if you invite too many? Sometimes the cheapest approach is to under-book, then pay the extra if that’s available. One couple had two RSVP’d friends pull out on the day, and they waved goodbye to over $100. Another couple sent invoices to guests who didn’t show up. Make sure you are clear on the flexibility with numbers and what your upper and lower limits are. If you’re not happy with them, don’t make a deposit. Also, make sure you count your MC, [DJ, photographer](/friends), babysitter, security guard—whoever will be there. ## 3\. What Does the Venue Look Like at Different Times? A good venue will have perfect photos taken at the perfect time of the year in perfect weather conditions. Make sure you check how the seasons, rain, sun, time of day and other changes will affect your wedding ceremony or reception. Remember that the sun’s position changes throughout the year. If they are showing spring photos but you’re getting married in summer, ask for more photos. Try to see the venue at the same time of day your ceremony will be held so you can look at where the sun is, where the shade is and whether it will be uncomfortable for anyone. ## 4\. Are You Full-Service or Not? There are two types of wedding venues: full-service and partial-service. If a venue is full-service, make sure they include everything from the gift table through to the alcohol you want. Don’t miss a detail. Also, find out what isn’t included. Many venues are full-service but require you to supply a celebrant or photographer. Or vice versa—they provide one, but you don’t want their provided service. Discuss all of this. If the venue is not full-service, find out exactly what that means. ## 5\. Where’s the Knife? The number one problem I find at wedding receptions is that when it comes time to cut the cake, there isn’t a knife within 100 metres of it. It seems simple, but make sure you ask about a cake-cutting knife, where it will be located and whose responsibility it is to provide it. This may seem basic, but 50% of the wedding receptions I attend have this problem. ## 6\. When Do the Staff Leave? The second most common problem I find at wedding ceremonies is that the staff aren’t having as much fun as you are, they possibly aren’t having as many drinks as you are, and they have families to get home to. Make sure it’s clear when staff are leaving and what benchmarks need to be met. At one wedding reception where I was MC, I ended up cutting and serving cake because the staff decided to go home—they were done for the night. I took it upon myself to make sure the night went on, but there are better cake cutters and servers than me. Make sure everyone knows their responsibilities. ## 7\. How Many Weddings on the Same Day? Ask about how many other weddings will be at your venue on the same day so you know about any limitations regarding venue access, parking or staff availability. ## 8\. Can You Hear Me? Many venues sell you on the promise of a PA system—that is, the speakers that play [music](/wedding-songs) and let the MC and speeches be heard. I’ve only experienced one venue, in Port Macquarie, that actually had a good PA system with wireless microphones and the ability to play CDs and music from an iPod. Every other venue that has claimed to have a great PA system actually doesn’t. Ask to hear the microphone on the PA system and ask if you can play a song from your iPod. If it’s not up to scratch, ask if you can supply your own. Budget $100-300 depending on size and requirements. - [wedding-venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [questions](/tag/questions) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/essential-wedding-checklist) ### [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/wet-weather) ### [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al) - [Paige— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/paige-04r17ds) - [Charlotte— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charlotte-1yqohe5) --- # Entity Map - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/entitymap EntityMap # Entity map for Married by Josh This page is the human companion to [/entitymap.json](/entitymap.json). It lists the main entities on this site and the source pages that support each claim. Publisher Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Generated 2026-07-02 JSON [https://marriedbyjosh.com/entitymap.json](https://marriedbyjosh.com/entitymap.json) LLMs file [https://marriedbyjosh.com/llms.txt](https://marriedbyjosh.com/llms.txt) API docs [/api-docs](/api-docs) Person ## Josh Withers [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/about) Australian marriage celebrant based in Tasmania, creating unscripted civil, Christian, destination, and elopement ceremonies since 2009. Also known as: Joshua Withers ### Relations - FOUNDER\_OF [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](#josh-withers-wedding-celebrant) - PROVIDES\_SERVICE [Marriage celebrant service](#marriage-celebrant-service) - KNOWS\_ABOUT [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) ### Evidence > The about page positions Josh Withers as a full-time celebrant, husband, father, and former radio host whose ceremony work is built around unscripted, personal wedding ceremonies. > > [About Josh Withers](https://marriedbyjosh.com/about) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant > The site-wide JSON-LD defines Josh Withers as a Person and marriage celebrant, linked to the ProfessionalService entity for the business. > > [Site-wide Organization and Person schema](https://marriedbyjosh.com/) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant ProfessionalService ## Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com) Tasmania-based Australian wedding celebrant business offering personalised marriage ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony plus MC work. Also known as: Married by Josh, Withers Weddings ### Relations - FOUNDED\_BY [Josh Withers](#josh-withers) - OFFERS [Marriage celebrant service](#marriage-celebrant-service) - SERVES\_AREA [Tasmania weddings](#tasmania-weddings) ### Evidence > Site-wide schema identifies the business as a ProfessionalService with ABN, ACN, address in Ranelagh Tasmania, contact details, service offers, and area served. > > [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant > The homepage describes a ceremony-first celebrant service built around custom ceremonies, professional audio, legal authority, flexible planning, and calm delivery. > > [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Service ## Marriage celebrant service [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/marriage-celebrant) A service for creating and solemnising legally valid Australian marriage ceremonies, including the legal paperwork and ceremony delivery. Also known as: Wedding celebrant service, Civil marriage ceremony service ### Relations - PROVIDED\_BY [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](#josh-withers-wedding-celebrant) - GOVERNED\_BY [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) ### Evidence > The marriage celebrant page explains the role of a celebrant in making the ceremony personal while also handling the legal requirements of marriage. > > [What is a marriage celebrant?](https://marriedbyjosh.com/marriage-celebrant) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Thing ## Australian marriage law [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) The Australian legal framework for who can marry, who can solemnise marriages, notice requirements, legal vows, witnesses, certificates, and registration. Also known as: Marriage Act 1961, Marriage Regulations 2017 ### Relations - EXPLAINED\_BY [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](#getting-married-in-australia-resource) - INCLUDES\_REQUIREMENT [Notice of Intended Marriage](#noim) - INCLUDES\_REQUIREMENT [Legal vows and Monitum](#legal-vows-and-monitum) ### Evidence > The official AGD page sets out eligibility, the NOIM timing window, authorised celebrant requirement, June 2024 Marriage Act changes, witnesses, and certificate steps. > > [Get married - Attorney-General Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/get-married) - Australian Government Attorney-General Department > The resource explains the legal steps for getting married in Australia in plain English and links to related NOIM, vows, shortening of time, and authorised celebrant articles. > > [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Article ## Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) A plain-English resource for couples covering who can marry in Australia, NOIM timing, celebrants, vows, witnesses, certificates, and registration. Also known as: Getting married in Australia, Australian wedding legals ### Relations - COVERS [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) - LINKS\_TO [Notice of Intended Marriage](#noim) - LINKS\_TO [Legal vows and Monitum](#legal-vows-and-monitum) ### Evidence > The resource explains that the Notice of Intended Marriage must reach an authorised celebrant at least one month and no more than 18 months before the wedding. > > [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Article ## How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) A guide for couples on choosing a celebrant by fit, ceremony style, registration status, process, reviews, and legal competence. ### Relations - ABOUT [Marriage celebrant service](#marriage-celebrant-service) - RECOMMENDS\_CHECKING [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) ### Evidence > The guide tells couples to check personality fit, ceremony style, reviews, process, sound gear, backup plans, and AGD registration before booking. > > [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Article ## How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) A resource for aspiring celebrants covering authorisation, qualifications, registration, costs, annual charge, professional development, and legal responsibility. ### Relations - ABOUT [Becoming a celebrant](#becoming-a-celebrant) - SUPPORTED\_BY [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](#how-to-be-a-celebrant-guide) (78% confidence) ### Evidence > The resource translates official AGD registration requirements into a practical path for aspiring celebrants and links to Josh Withers ceremony craft advice. > > [How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant > The official AGD page explains that celebrants are personally responsible for legal requirements and must be authorised to legally marry people in Australia. > > [Become a marriage celebrant - Attorney-General Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/become-marriage-celebrant) - Australian Government Attorney-General Department Article ## How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-be-a-celebrant) Josh Withers personal craft guide for celebrants, focused on ceremony quality, professional behaviour, delivery, systems, and taking the work seriously. ### Relations - COMPLEMENTS [How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](#become-a-marriage-celebrant-resource) (82% confidence) ### Evidence > The article explains Josh Withers craft philosophy for celebrants and now points readers to the official legal path for becoming registered in Australia. > > [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-be-a-celebrant) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Thing ## Notice of Intended Marriage [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/filling-out-noim-correctly) The Australian marriage notice form that must be given to an authorised celebrant at least one month and no more than 18 months before the wedding. Also known as: NOIM ### Relations - REQUIRED\_BY [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) - CAN\_BE\_WITNESSED\_BY\_AUDIO\_VISUAL\_LINK [Remote NOIM witnessing](#remote-noim-witnessing) ### Evidence > The NOIM guide explains common mistakes in names, occupation, address, conjugal status, birthplace, witnesses, and identity documents. > > [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://marriedbyjosh.com/filling-out-noim-correctly) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Thing ## Remote NOIM witnessing [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/remote-witnessing-noim) The Australian law option allowing a Notice of Intended Marriage to be witnessed remotely by audio-visual link while the actual marriage ceremony remains in person. ### Relations - APPLIES\_TO [Notice of Intended Marriage](#noim) ### Evidence > The guide explains how couples can complete the NOIM process over a video call while still satisfying the legal notice requirements. > > [Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://marriedbyjosh.com/remote-witnessing-noim) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Thing ## Legal vows and Monitum [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/legal-vows) The required legal words in an Australian civil marriage ceremony, including the celebrant Monitum and the vows spoken by each party. ### Relations - REQUIRED\_BY [Australian marriage law](#australian-marriage-law) ### Evidence > The legal vows article explains the Monitum, minimum legal vows, why question-and-answer vows are not a substitute, and where personal vows fit. > > [Minimum legal marriage vows](https://marriedbyjosh.com/legal-vows) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Place ## Tasmania weddings [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/tasmanian-celebrant) The core local service area for Josh Withers, including Hobart, the Huon Valley, Launceston, Cradle Mountain, and broader Tasmania. ### Relations - SERVED\_BY [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](#josh-withers-wedding-celebrant) ### Evidence > The Tasmania celebrant page positions Josh as a Huon Valley based celebrant travelling across Tasmania for weddings and elopements. > > [Tasmanian Wedding Celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com/tasmanian-celebrant) - Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant Thing ## Becoming a celebrant [Source page](https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) The pathway to being authorised as a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant, including qualification, fit-and-proper assessment, registration, costs, and ongoing obligations. ### Relations - EXPLAINED\_BY [How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](#become-a-marriage-celebrant-resource) ### Evidence > The official instructions say an application needs the required qualification or skills and registration is assessed by the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants. > > [Instructions for completing the application for registration as a marriage celebrant](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/become-marriage-celebrant/instructions-completing-application-registration-marriage-celebrant) - Australian Government Attorney-General Department --- # Australian Wedding Planning Checklist URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/essential-wedding-checklist Jul 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Australian Wedding Planning Checklist Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. ![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) This is the wedding planning checklist for couples who want a wedding that feels like them, for the people who aren’t interested in getting stressed for stress’s sake, for the couples who want to optimise for joy. This is the [Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) planning checklist for a [perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding). --- ## 1\. Start With Why - Why are we getting married? - [What do we want the day to feel like](/get-a-wedding-razor)? - Who is it for? - Are you having a wedding or an [elopement](/why-elope)? - Rough idea of guest list numbers - Consider how “[people like you](/people-like-us)” get married, not how “everyone” does it, but how do the two of you mark this occasion? Geust list is the biggest contributor to the total [wedding budget](/withers-wedding-method). The average cost per head is about $200 per person, probably more by the time you read this, so that’s simple maths. 100 guests is $20,000 at that price. Invite everyone you need to be there to mark that occasion, no more, no less. For you that might be zero, four, forty, or four hundred people. --- ## 2\. [Choose Your Team](/most-people-dont-know) First (Before Setting a Date) Lock in your _primary team_ first, then coordinate on a date that works for everyone: - Celebrant - [Photographer](/friends) - Videographer - Florist - Caterer / Private chef - Hair and makeup - Music / DJ / Live musicians - Venue or ceremony location - Planner or on-the-day coordinator (optional) Move vendors from the list primary list if you don’t consider them primary to your wedding, to the list below. Now send them all a message asking for availability when you are looking. For example you might say: > I’m locking in my primary wedding team which I’m hoping you can be a part of, so I’m trying to find a date that works with everyone in March 2032, preferably a Tuesday or a Sunday. The best advice I can give is to [set a wedding date based on cash budget](/withers-wedding-method). Like this: (**_total cost of wedding you’d like to have_** - **_how much cash you have towards that budget today_**) / **_how much cash you can save per month_** = **how many months away your wedding should be**. Find the date that works and you’ve done most of the hard work in wedding planning already. Other vendors you might consider: - Cake baker - Stylist - Lighting and AV - Hire company (furniture, decor) - Transport (car, bus, boat) - Content creator - Pet chaperone - Stationery designer Once you have a date based on a budget you can keep set from a guest list of all your favourite humans, **send out the invitations!** --- ## 3\. [Legal Stuff](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) - [NOIM](/filling-out-noim-correctly) lodged with your celebrant **at least one month before** and within 18 months of your wedding date. If you’re one of my couples I’ll help you complete this so it’s done correctly. - Celebrant will provide details for obtaining your official marriage certificate - which is different from the commemorative, but still legal, Form 15 “yellow” certificate issued on the day of your Australian wedding. - Witnesses must be 18+ (two needed). - Discuss [name change](/name-change) if relevant. --- ## 4\. Accommodation & Travel - Book at least **three nights** so you don’t wake up on day two as a married couple and rush to check out. - Book travel - flights, cars, transfers - if it’s a destination wedding. - Share recommended accommodation venues with guests if helpful. --- ## 5\. Ceremony Planning - Work with your celebrant to structure a ceremony that feels right for you. - [Write personal vows](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful). - Decide if you want a bridal party, or if they’ll just enjoy as guests. - Decide on [readings](/awesome-readings) or [music](/wedding-songs) if you’d like them. - Plan how you’ll arrive at the ceremony (car, walk, boat). - Lock in a ceremony time on your [timeline](/wedding-timeline) by collaborating on the time with your venue, photographer, and celebrant. --- ## 6\. Celebration / Reception - Will it be at the same venue as your ceremony, or somewhere else? - Book catering: - Sit-down meal, shared plates, grazing table, or cocktail-style - Canapés for post-ceremony - Optional extras: ice cream cart, late-night snack bar, espresso martinis, wood-fired pizza for later - Drinks: - Consider season-dependent options: - Water stations in summer - Mulled wine or hot chocolate in winter - Decide on bar service (open bar, BYO, dry hire with bartender, no alcohol) - Decide on [music](/wedding-songs) (DJ, band, curated playlist). - Think about speeches (who, when, how many). - Book your celebrant as your MC so you have a professional running the night. - Cake or dessert plan if you want one. --- ## 7\. Outfits & Accessories - Choose outfits you feel yourself in. - Wear shoes appropriate for your location and event (gravel, sand, forest, dancefloor). - Break in shoes early. - Weather-appropriate layers (jacket, umbrella, sunscreen, hat). --- ## 8\. Final Details - Rings - Wet weather plan, talk to your venue. - [Timeline](/wedding-timeline) for the day (coordinate with vendors) - Seating plan (if having one) - Marriage certificate ordered [post-wedding](/after) if needed --- ## 9\. On the Day - Eat something. - Drink water. - Be present and let yourself enjoy it. - Let go of small things. - Get married. - Have the best day! --- ## Remember - The ceremony _is_ the wedding. Everything else is a response to the ceremony: the photos are because you look hot and got married, the reception is a post-ceremony celebration. - Do what makes sense for _you_; you don’t need to do things just because “it’s tradition.” - Keep it human and joyful. - [wedding-checklist](/tag/wedding-checklist) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) ### [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) ### [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jarrod— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jarrod-1h1asri) - [Jaimee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jaimee-0svueiz) - [Clara— Thalia Haven](/wedding-testimonials/clara-0n2ki8g) --- # Australian Celebrant for European Destination Weddings URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/europe # European Wedding Celebrant ## A destination wedding ceremony that feels at home in Europe I'm Josh Withers, an Australian full-time celebrant who works across the European summer. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries — including ceremonies in villas, castles, vineyards and wild landscapes across Europe. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Learn more](/about) ![European Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/europe_wedding_celebrant_7L78EWKHy?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ![](/maps/europe-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## What makes a Josh Withers ceremony different Since 2009 I've married couples in castles, vineyards, rooftops, and beaches across Europe. This isn't a side gig — it's my life's work. - ### Words That Matter Every ceremony is created from scratch because your story deserves more than 'insert couple here'. No reading from scripts — just authentic conversation that breathes your marriage into existence. - ### Legally Sound Want it symbolic in Europe and legal back home? Easy. Need the paperwork done on the continent? I'll guide you through local requirements or lodge everything in Australia so you can relax. - ### Ceremony Style Think Netflix doco meets stand-up — personal, story-driven, equal parts sentiment and laughter. I weave your history and hopes into a narrative that sounds like you, not a Hallmark card. - ### Calm Presence Airline strikes, heatwaves, late buses — I've seen it all. I stay calm so you can stay present, adapting to whatever the day (or the Greek ferry timetable) throws at us. - ### Simplified Planning Different time zones? No drama. We'll chat as often as needed so you're confident I get your vibe. I prepare deeply but speak naturally, treating your ceremony as a once-only conversation about something sacred. - ### Purposeful & Engaging Around 18 minutes, shaped by years of professional speaking: long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present, engaged, and off their phones. ## The journey to your European wedding - ### Step 1: Discovery We'll check your date and destination, talk about what matters to you, and start getting to know each other. Then I'll recommend the right service and give you a clear quote. - ### Step 2: Legal Preparation For my Australian couples, at least one month before the legal signing day in Australia we'll complete your Notice of Intended Marriage online or over coffee. For my international couples I can advise on local legal requirements for you. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design Over video call or Aperol spritz, we'll dig into your story, your values, and your vision. I craft a ceremony that reflects who you are — not a recycled script. - ### Your Wedding Day I deliver your ceremony with presence, personality, and professionalism — anchoring the entire celebration and setting the tone for the fiesta to follow. ![Wedding celebrant in Tuscany](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tuscany_wedding_celebrant_nlFFqaUsx?tr=w-768%2Ch-768%2Cf-auto) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## From couples who married in Europe - > "He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural." --- [![Josh Withers officiating Tiegan and Michael’s waterfront elopement ceremony in Mandrakia, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-13.DDn5wyh9_Z2iLKJe.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos - > "He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special." --- [![Harry and Nayla laughing with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli.Ce4JeXtC_2aeCEN.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria - > "You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day." --- [![Isabella and Matthew with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_209tk5.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings across Europe. I love the perspective destination weddings bring: you have chosen this place and gathered these people because the moment deserves to mean something. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for the best ceremony in Europe? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something unforgettable together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # 30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/example-wedding-vows Nov 20, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) · 12 min read # 30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you ![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) If I’m your celebrant it’s highly encouraged, to write personal special, custom, vows for your wedding because it’s with your vows that you create your marriage - that you breathe your marriage to life. But, below are some examples of traditional and modern vows I’ve found that might inspire you to write your own, or you’re welcome to steal and edit to your liking. ## 1\. Garden of Growing Love From this day forward, I dedicate myself to making our love grow deeper and stronger with each passing season. I’ll celebrate your spirit in the good times and shelter your heart in the rough patches. Together we’ll create a tapestry of shared dreams, weaving our individual strengths into a bond that can’t be broken. I promise to honour your independence while nurturing our connection, to support your dreams while building our shared vision. Through laughter and tears, triumphs and challenges, I vow to stand beside you, making our love story richer with each chapter we write together. ## 2\. Dance of Daily Love Standing here today, I’m filled with gratitude and joy. The years together have only deepened my love, and you still make my heart flutter. I promise to be there for you always - from the best times to the tough ones. I vow to make you laugh until we’re both in stitches, to dance with you in the kitchen, and to always have your favourite snacks ready when you need them. I promise to love you more with each passing day, to cherish our inside jokes, and to make even ordinary arvo moments extraordinary. This ring symbolises my unconditional love, faithfulness, and commitment to you. ## 3\. Sanctuary of Eternal Love On our journey together, I pledge my heart to be your sanctuary. When shadows fall, I’ll be your strength; in moments of need, your warmth and comfort. Together we’ll embrace life’s joys and share its burdens, finding laughter even in the challenging times. I give you all that I am, loving every bit of who you are with every piece of my soul. I promise to be fully present in our quiet moments and to celebrate joyfully in our victories. Together, we’ll build a home where love thrives, understanding flourishes, and dedication never wavers, cherishing our bond through all of life’s changing seasons. ## 4\. Adventure’s Promise I stand here today to take you as my wedded spouse. I promise to be your partner in adventure, your comfort when times are tough, and your greatest supporter in all endeavours. Together, we’ll build a ripper life filled with love, understanding, and endless possibility. ## 5\. Symphony of Souls Today, I take you to be my wedded spouse. I promise to appreciate our differences, celebrate what makes us alike, and grow together through life’s changes. Our partnership will be my greatest adventure, filled with love, respect, and endless discovery. ## 6\. Journey’s Foundation Before everyone gathered here, I take you to be my wedded partner in life’s great journey. I promise to listen with an open heart, speak with kindness, and act with compassion. Our love will be the foundation upon which we build our shared future, filled with joy, growth, and endless discovery. ## 7\. Bridge of Forever With deep love and commitment, I take you as my wedded partner. I promise to honour your dreams, respect your independence, and cherish our connection through all of life’s changes. Together, we’ll create a beauty of a life filled with joy, growth, and endless love. ## 8\. Dawn of Tomorrow’s Dreams As we stand at the threshold of our shared tomorrow, I commit my life to nurturing our love with unwavering devotion. I’ll be your constant supporter and trusted confidant, creating adventures and exploring life’s paths by your side. Together we’ll build a family wrapped in warmth and understanding, facing every challenge as one unshakeable team. Your successes will be my joy, your dreams my inspiration. I vow to keep our love vibrant and ever-growing, treasuring each precious moment of our journey together. Through all of life’s seasons, I’ll stand faithfully by your side, forever yours. ## 9\. Promise of Partnership Before these witnesses, I take you as my wedded spouse. I promise to celebrate your triumphs, comfort you in tough times, and face all of life’s challenges by your side. Our partnership will be my greatest priority, nurtured with respect, trust, and boundless love. ## 10\. Lighthouse of Love Today, before our gathered loved ones, I take you as my wedded partner. I promise to champion your goals, celebrate your victories, and stand beside you in the hard yakka. Our love will be my guiding light, and I vow to keep its flame burning bright through all our tomorrows. ## 11\. Home of the Heart With deep joy and sincere commitment, I take you to be my beloved partner. I promise to support your dreams, respect who you are, and cherish our connection. Together, we’ll create a home filled with laughter, understanding, and fair dinkum love. ## 12\. Compass of Love Today, I take you to be my cherished spouse. I promise to embrace our adventures, face our challenges together, and grow alongside you in all ways. Our love will be my compass, leading us through every chapter of our shared journey. ## 13\. Weaver of Dreams Everyone has dreams, hopes, and wishes for their life. Today, I choose to intertwine my dreams with yours. I promise to be your strength when you need support, your comfort when you need a shoulder, and your cheerleader when you’re chasing your dreams. I vow to bring you coffee before early morning shifts and tea during late nights. I promise to grow with you, learn from you, and walk beside you through all of life’s seasons. Together, we’ll create a story of love, laughter, and endless possibilities. ## 14\. Sacred Promise of Partnership I call on everyone present to witness that I take you to be my beloved partner in marriage. With joy in my heart, I promise to nurture our love through all of life’s seasons. I vow to be your anchor in storms and your sunshine in darkness. I choose you today and every day that follows, promising to grow with you, learn with you, and build our dreams together. ## 15\. Guardian of Dreams You’re my best mate, my confidant, and my inspiration. I promise to encourage your dreams and inspire your passions, always being your biggest supporter in whatever path you choose. I vow to learn with you, grow with you, and be challenged by you. I promise to be your safe harbour in stormy weather and your companion in life’s adventures. I’ll always listen to your heart, comfort your soul, and cook your favourite tucker - even when you’re watching what you eat. Your happiness is my joy, for it’s in your smile that I find my greatest delight. ## 16\. Anchor of Devotion I ask everyone present to witness that I take you as my beloved spouse. I promise to be your steady anchor, your passionate advocate, and your devoted companion through all of life’s adventures. Our partnership will be my greatest blessing, protected and cherished for all our days together. ## 17\. Spirit’s Dance With profound love and deep conviction, I take you to be my wedded partner. I promise to honour your spirit, respect your independence, and nurture your dreams as if they were my own. Together, we’ll write our story of love, adventure, and endless possibility. ## 18\. Tapestry of Time I cherish each step that led us here, and I promise to walk life’s path with steadfast dedication to our shared tomorrow. Every morning, I’ll choose you anew, building a life filled with adventure and wonder. Our home will echo with laughter, our hearts bound by trust and understanding. In moments of triumph, I’ll be your biggest fan; in times of doubt, your unwavering support. I promise to grow with you, dream with you, and face each challenge as one. Every day together is a gift, and I vow to make each one more beautiful than the last. ## 19\. Dance of Life Today, I take you to be my cherished partner in marriage. I promise to dance with you in joy, hold you in sorrow, and walk beside you in all of life’s adventures. Our love will be my compass, guiding us through every chapter of our shared story. ## 20\. Tender Guardian I call on everyone to witness that I take you as my beloved spouse. I promise to be patient in disagreement, gentle in criticism, and generous with forgiveness. Our bond will be my most treasured gift, and I vow to nurture it with dedication, understanding, and endless love. ## 21\. Celebration of Unity Before these witnesses, I take you as my beloved partner. I promise to celebrate your wins, share your burdens, and walk beside you in all of life’s moments. Our partnership will be my greatest joy, nurtured with love, respect, and endless devotion. ## 22\. Path of Shared Dreams I stand here today, choosing you as my partner in all of life’s adventures. From our first meeting, you’ve transformed my world in countless beautiful ways. Your love and devotion have exceeded all my dreams and hopes. I promise to support your passions and embrace your interests as they grow and change. Above all, I vow to choose you every day, without hesitation, without doubt. I promise to love you more deeply with each passing day. Today, I give you my hand to hold and my heart to keep, forever yours. ## 23\. Nurturing Spirit Before our gathered loved ones, I take you as my beloved partner. I promise to nurture your spirit, support your growth, and cherish our bond through all seasons of life. Our love will be my guiding star, leading us toward our shared tomorrow. ## 24\. Harbor of the Heart I stand before our friends and family to take you as my beloved spouse. I promise to be your safe harbour, your trusted ally, and your biggest cheerleader. Our partnership will be built on understanding, strengthened by respect, and sustained by unwavering love. ## 25\. Beacon of Hope I ask everyone present to witness that I take you as my life partner. I promise to be your strength in weakness, your light in darkness, and your constant companion through all of life’s journeys. Our love will be the foundation of our shared dreams and endless possibilities. ## 26\. Symphony of Daily Devotion Today marks the beginning of our forever, and I promise to fill each day with kindness and understanding. I’ll be your attentive listener, hearing not just your words but understanding your heart’s meaning, even when we disagree. Each day, I vow to honour your feelings with tender care, to find joy in our shared laughter, and to nurture the passion that keeps our love burning bright. My commitment to you will be unwavering - faithful, honest, and complete. As we grow together through life’s seasons, I will be your devoted partner in every adventure, walking beside you with an open heart and steady hand. ## 27\. Trust’s Treasure I call on everyone to witness that I take you as my wedded spouse. I promise to be your faithful friend, your trusted confidant, and your devoted partner through all of life’s seasons. Our love will be my inspiration, guiding us toward our shared dreams. ## 28\. Keeper of Joy From the first moment we met, I knew you were extraordinary. You’re the most kindhearted, generous soul I’ve ever known. You bring light to every room, even when you’re running late, always carrying joy with you. You ground me with your presence and fill my world with peace. I will always cherish and honour the beautiful person you are, in all your complexity. You complete me in ways I never knew possible. With all my heart, I commit myself to you for infinity. ## 29\. Companion’s Covenant I ask everyone here to witness that I take you as my life’s companion. I promise to be your steadfast supporter, your trusted confidant, and your devoted friend. In laughter and tears, in sunshine and rain, I will walk beside you, holding your hand and cherishing every moment we share. ## 30\. Mosaic of Love From the moment we met, I knew there was something extraordinary about our connection. Through all our adventures - the magical celebrations and the challenging times - we’ve grown stronger together. I promise to respect your individuality while nurturing our bond. I vow to be patient in disagreement, quick to forgive, and always ready with a hug when needed. I promise to build a life with you that celebrates not material riches, but the true treasures of family, friendship, adventure, and love. --- ## What is required to be said by Australian law In addition to your personal vows, to become a married couple in Australia you must also say these words in your marriage ceremony: > I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, A.B. (or C.D.), take thee, C.D. (or A.B.), to be my lawful wedded wife (husband or spouse) Or words to that effect. The traditional church ‘question and answer’ form of the vows is not needed by the Marriage Act for non-religious marriage ceremonies. So the traditional “I do” doesn’t make you married. An Australian [marriage celebrant](/marriage-celebrant) **should not say**, ‘A.B., will you take C.D., to be your lawful wedded wife (husband or spouse)?’, with the response from the other party of ‘I do’. You can make slight substitutions and changes to the legal vows thanks to the Marriage Act saying ‘words to that effect’ in subsection 45(2). So you can say things like: - ‘husband’, or ‘wife’ or ‘spouse’ may be changed to ‘partner in marriage’ - ‘call upon’ may be changed to ‘ask’ - ‘persons’ may be changed to ‘people’ - ‘thee’ may be changed to ‘you’ - ‘persons here present’ may be changed to ‘everyone here’ or ‘everybody here’ or ‘everyone present here’ or ‘everybody present here’, or - the couple may leave out either ‘lawful’ or ‘wedded’, but not both. The following changes to the minimum words are not acceptable: - ‘family and friends’ cannot replace ‘persons here present’ or ‘everyone here’. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/one-word) ### [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) - [T\_— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/t-1xefja6) - [Sarah— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sarah-1une8a0) --- # Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/filling-out-noim-correctly Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 2 min read # Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) ## Essential Guide to Marriage Paperwork in Australia: A Celebrant’s Perspective As a marriage celebrant, I know how crucial accurate paperwork is for a smooth wedding process. Getting it right the first time prevents unnecessary back-and-forth between couples, celebrants, and the Births, Deaths, and Marriages department. The most important document you’ll need to fill out before you get married is the Notice of Intended Marriage form (NOIM), which must be given to your celebrant at least one month and no more than 18 months before your ceremony. Some people think it’s a marriage licence, others call it the cooling-off period form. Either way, it’s got to be filled out correctly and received by me or your celebrant before the legal deadline. Here’s a comprehensive guide to filling it out correctly: --- Celebrant Use Section - This section is for the celebrant’s personal notes only - Don’t worry if it’s blank or not totally correct. --- Personal Details - Names: Use exactly as they appear on your passport or birth certificate/driver licence - Occupation: List your actual job title (e.g., “Manager” not “Management,” “Administration Assistant” not “Admin”) - Address: Must be your current residential address, even if you’re planning to move soon - Conjugal Status: Options are “never validly married,” “divorced,” “widowed,” or “divorce pending” - Birthplace: Use the specific location from your birth certificate or passport (e.g., “South Brisbane” rather than just “Brisbane”) --- Family Information - Parents’ Names: Include full names (first, middle, last) both at birth and currently - Previous Marriages: Pay special attention to the end date of previous marriages - For divorces, use the final date when the divorce became absolute, not the initial court date --- Signatures and Witnesses - Must be signed in front of an authorised witness - Recommended witnesses: Marriage celebrant or Justice of the Peace (JP) - Check the approved witness list carefully - Note: The witness list for the NOIM differs from the statutory declaration witness list --- Required Documentation Your celebrant will need to verify: 1. Primary Option: Current passport 2. Alternative Option: Original birth certificate AND driver licence 3. For previously married individuals: Documentation proving the end of prior marriage(s) --- If you’re unsure about any documentation requirements, please [consult with me](/contact) or your celebrant directly. This guide aims to make the process smoother for everyone involved. Getting these details right from the start helps ensure your special day proceeds without administrative hiccups. For the bigger picture, read [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). If you are not in the same place as your celebrant, the NOIM may also be witnessed over video: [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim). --- 📂 [Download a blank Notice of Intended Marriage form](/notice-of-intended-marriage-2024.pdf) --- - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) ### [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) ### [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ### [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Manda— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/manda-0nx5b31) - [Alex— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alex-13zsn31) - [Anthony & Elena— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/anthony-and-elena-08ka052) --- # Recommended Wedding Vendors in Australia – Trusted Directory URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/friends Trusted Wedding Vendors # My Recommended Wedding Friends These are people I know, trust, and recommend. Wedding creators and venues I genuinely value — friends of mine that I stand by and would happily send my own couples to. ![Josh and Britt Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Valentines_Day_2022-08_Yco0HM5qT?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ## Vendor type CateringElopement CompanyEntertainmentFloristHair and Makeup ArtistPhotographyRegistry-style WeddingsVenueVideographyWedding Planning ## Location AdelaideBrisbaneByron BayGold CoastHobartMelbourneSouthern HighlandsSunshine CoastSydneyTasmaniaToowoombaVictoria Clear filtersCopy link [![LionHearts Creative](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine_coast_wedding_videographer_IqhWAAt_c?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://lionheartscreative.com/) ### LionHearts Creative Videography Sunshine Coast I met Nicole and Josiah from LionHearts Creative as our kids played in a park in Hawaii and now they're based in Australia! What really sets them apart is their heartfelt storytelling and cinematic finesse—they create truly timeless wedding films that beautifully capture emotion, adventure and meaningful moments. [lionheartscreative.com](https://lionheartscreative.com/) [![Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com) ### Jason Corroto Photography Sydney Jason has an incredible talent for capturing the raw emotion of a wedding day with an effortless style that tells a story with personality, heart, and ease. His down-to-earth approach allows couples to be themselves, resulting in authentic and timeless images. [jasoncorrotophoto.com](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com) [![XO Sounds](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xo-sounds_TmSh1VpsD?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://xosounds.com.au/) ### XO Sounds Entertainment Hobart, Tasmania I've had the pleasure of working alongside Jordan and his squad of talented musos at XO Sounds, and their exceptional talent as both a musician and DJ truly elevates any wedding celebration. They bring a seamless blend of live acoustic performances and DJ sets that create an awesome atmosphere that keeps guests entertained throughout the wedding. [xosounds.com.au](https://xosounds.com.au/) [![Jonathan Wherrett](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jonathan_Wherrett_Ia2Zng1ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.jonathanwherrett.com) ### Jonathan Wherrett Photography Tasmania, Hobart Jonathan is a talented, friendly, and experienced wedding photographer based in Tasmania. He is a friendly and calming presence at a wedding. [jonathanwherrett.com](https://www.jonathanwherrett.com) [![Luke Fletcher](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/luke-fletcher_GAL8TBDSj?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://lukefletcherphoto.com/) ### Luke Fletcher Photography Sydney, Southern Highlands From New York to New Zealand, Iceland and all around Australia, I have had the joy of working with my mate Luke across the globe, and his ability to capture the essence of a wedding day with authenticity and flair is unparalleled. His fun-first, stress-never approach ensures every couple feels at ease, resulting in candid and timeless photographs that truly reflect the joy of the occasion. [lukefletcherphoto.com](https://lukefletcherphoto.com/) [![BW Events](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/BW_Events_Aexaupzg-?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://bwevents.com.au) ### BW Events Wedding Planning, Catering Hobart, Tasmania From styling and florals to catering and hire, BW Events brings creativity and care to every detail, crafting weddings and events that feel polished, personal, and unforgettable. [bwevents.com.au](https://bwevents.com.au) [![Photography With Antonio](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/antonio_ysy3xRT0G?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://photographywithantonio.com/) ### Photography With Antonio Photography Sunshine Coast, Gold Coast, Brisbane I love Antonio’s relaxed style, his social content, and he's honest about what wedding photography actually is: half documentary, half editorial. [photographywithantonio.com](https://photographywithantonio.com/) [![Bendooley Estate](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_0yTrB6wMw?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://bendooleyestate.com.au/) ### Bendooley Estate Venue Southern Highlands, Sydney Bendooley Estate is a stunning venue that offers a blend of rustic charm and elegance, with picturesque gardens, a tranquil lake, and the iconic Book Barn, making it an unforgettable setting for any wedding. [bendooleyestate.com.au](https://bendooleyestate.com.au/) [![Frogmore Creek Winery](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au/) ### Frogmore Creek Winery Venue Hobart Only a few moments drive west of Hobart, nestled in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, Frogmore Creek Winery offers a stunning backdrop of rolling hills and vineyards, complemented by exceptional food and wine, making it an ideal venue for an unforgettable wedding. One of my favourite wedding venues to work at. [frogmorecreek.com.au](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au/) [![Swoon Society](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/swoon_society_laura_xaE0qK5Rr?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.swoonsociety.com.au) ### Swoon Society Wedding Planning Hobart, Tasmania I’ve worked alongside Laura from Swoon Society and absolutely love her creative flair—she truly listens, uncovers what’s meaningful and brings your wedding to life with her calm confidence and authentic Tasmanian charm. [swoonsociety.com.au](https://www.swoonsociety.com.au) [![Heart and Colour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/heartandcolour_Kk5gFqnPK?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.heartandcolour.com/) ### Heart and Colour Photography Gold Coast, Tasmania Phil from Heart and Colour is the kind of photographer whose lens captures not just the moment, but the whole heartbeat of a wedding—wherever in the world it happens to be. [heartandcolour.com](https://www.heartandcolour.com/) [![Creative Weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiera_MwZkH_R9X?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au) ### Creative Weddings Wedding Planning Byron Bay Kiera and her team at Creative Weddings Byron Bay are an absolute delight to work with, bringing a wealth of experience and genuine passion to crafting bespoke weddings that truly reflect each couple's unique story. If I was a millionaire I'd work for her for free because it's just a great day at work! [weddingsbyronbay.com.au](https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au) [![Joshua Mikhaiel](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/) ### Joshua Mikhaiel Photography Brisbane, Gold Coast Joshua's passion for storytelling through photography is evident in every frame, making him a standout choice for couples seeking authentic and heartfelt wedding memories. [joshuamikhaiel.com.au](https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/) [![Time With Alex](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/time_with_alex_MGxlVsBgp?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://timewithalex.co) ### Time With Alex Photography Adelaide I love Alex’s ability to create a relaxed, story‑driven wedding experience that brings out genuine emotion and personality, delivering photos you'll want to relive for a lifetime. Plus, when he got married in Adelaide he chose me to be his celebrant so he obviously has good taste! [timewithalex.co](https://timewithalex.co) [![Cut a Rug](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/cut-a-rug_6_3B88u1y?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://cutarug.com.au) ### Cut a Rug Entertainment Brisbane, Sunshine Coast Aaron from Cut a Rug isn't just a wedding DJ—he's a vibe curator who transforms your celebration into an epic dance party. With a knack for reading the room and mixing tracks like a pro, he ensures your big day is anything but ordinary. [cutarug.com.au](https://cutarug.com.au) [![Gabbinbar](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Gabbinbar2021_YHPW2BijY?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au/) ### Gabbinbar Venue Toowoomba Gabbinbar is a historic estate in Toowoomba with 13-acres of manicured grounds and elegant homestead for weddings. With a rich history as the former summer residence of Queensland's Governors, it provides a timeless and picturesque setting for couples to create unforgettable memories. Apart from it's beauty, the thing that sets Gabbinbar apart is its exceptional staff. [gabbinbar.com.au](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au/) [![Bulb Creative](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/harley_ZOetqO7xW?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.bulbcreative.co/) ### Bulb Creative Photography Gold Coast, Brisbane Harley at Bulb Creative has an incredible knack for capturing the wildly romantic moments with dreamy light and soft tones. His blend of editorial and documentary styles results in poetic, timeless images that truly reflect each couple's unique story. [bulbcreative.co](https://www.bulbcreative.co/) [![Hugo Bladel](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Hugo-Bladel_VfVK94Jw9?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://hugobladel.com) ### Hugo Bladel Entertainment Tasmania, Hobart Hugo brings unmatched energy and versatility to weddings—whether it's heartfelt acoustic moments or a packed dancefloor, he reads the room and delivers every time. [hugobladel.com](https://hugobladel.com) [![HLB Catering](/_astro/hlb-catering.Djdbud6e_iyxhU.jpeg)](https://hlbcatering.com.au/) ### HLB Catering Catering Melbourne, Victoria HLB Catering has been catering Melbourne weddings since 2016, with fully customisable plated, canapé, shared-feast, and grazing menus. They accommodate vegan, gluten-free, halal, allergy, and other dietary needs, provide complete setup, service, and clean-up, and offer complimentary tastings for wedding parties with more than 70 guests. [hlbcatering.com.au](https://hlbcatering.com.au/) [![The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://elopementcollective.com/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=friends_directory) ### The Elopement Collective Elopement Company Hobart, Tasmania, Brisbane, Southern Highlands We created The Elopement Collective to give couples the freedom to get married in a way that feels effortless, intimate, and deeply personal—without the stress of a big wedding. Britt leads the charge with impeccable taste and heart, and together we craft beautiful, meaningful elopements around the world. [elopementcollective.com/?utm\_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm\_medium=referral&utm\_campaign=friends\_directory](https://elopementcollective.com/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=friends_directory) [![Glen Albyn Estate](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Glen_Albyn_xkbVZA-mo?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://glenalbyn.com.au) ### Glen Albyn Estate Venue Hobart, Tasmania Set on 15 acres just outside Hobart with sweeping River Derwent views, Glen Albyn Estate is a show-stopper venue where every detail is tailored for unforgettable weddings and celebrations. [glenalbyn.com.au](https://glenalbyn.com.au) [![Evernew Studio](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/evernew_UIcP44BQx?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://evernewstudio.com) ### Evernew Studio Photography, Videography Brisbane Andy from Evernew Studio is not just a photographer; he's a creative force who captures weddings with his team with a timeless, elegant, and soulful touch. His dedication to storytelling through imagery ensures every couple's unique love story is immortalised beautifully. [evernewstudio.com](https://evernewstudio.com) [![Bow Creative](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Bow_Creative_Kath_sKafJ3DTr?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.bowcreative.com.au/) ### Bow Creative Wedding Planning Melbourne, Victoria, Sydney, Tasmania Kath from Bow Creative is the kind of planner who makes the whole ride feel like you’re working with family — not your aunty, instead she's the stylish cousin with great taste. Her work blends modern luxe with personality, and she nails it every time. [bowcreative.com.au](https://www.bowcreative.com.au/) [![Isaac Westwood](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/isaac-westwood_Ynv-NvL3H?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.isaacwestwoodmusic.com/) ### Isaac Westwood Entertainment Hobart, Tasmania Isaac Westwood brings a soulful, customisable touch to your wedding day—whether it’s heartfelt acoustic moments or a packed dancefloor, he’s got every musical moment covered beautifully. [isaacwestwoodmusic.com](https://www.isaacwestwoodmusic.com/) [![Clyde Mill Distillery](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.clydemill.com.au) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Venue Tasmania A convict-built sandstone mill on the banks of the Clyde River in Tasmania's Central Highlands. Clyde Mill specialises in intimate weddings and elopements — relaxed country celebrations with exceptional food and their own whisky and gin. Run by Jayne and Andy, who genuinely care about making your day feel personal rather than staged. [clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [![George Bowden](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden_cusiA0Afj?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.georgebowden.co/) ### George Bowden Photography Melbourne George Bowden is an editorial wedding photographer who captures the true essence of couples, documenting the heart of their love story with a calming and detail-oriented approach. [georgebowden.co](https://www.georgebowden.co/) [![Clint & Bethanie](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20230204_Ellie_James_Previews-53_9WTHAQxLu?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.clintandbethanie.com) ### Clint & Bethanie Photography, Videography Hobart, Tasmania Clint has over a decade of experience in shooting weddings in Tasmania, and is your biggest advcocate for having an honest and meaningful day. [clintandbethanie.com](https://www.clintandbethanie.com) [![Matt Johnson Weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/MattJohnsonWeddings_01b_XyIhwtwL4?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.mattjohnsonweddings.com/) ### Matt Johnson Weddings Photography Byron Bay I've had the pleasure of working alongside Matt Johnson and proudly recommend him. Matt's timeless, documentary-style wedding photography captures the essence of each couple's story with authenticity and grace. [mattjohnsonweddings.com](https://www.mattjohnsonweddings.com/) [![The Tognazzinis](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/togg_8MUm34UgU?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://thetognazzinis.com.au/) ### The Tognazzinis Photography, Videography Byron Bay, Brisbane, Gold Coast Toga captures love stories with an adventurous and heartfelt approach. His ability to blend into the background while also offering gentle guidance ensures every couple feels at ease, resulting in authentic and timeless images. [thetognazzinis.com.au](https://thetognazzinis.com.au/) [![Georgia Verrells Photography](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Georgia_Verrells_oCVkowVt1?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://georgiaverrells.com) ### Georgia Verrells Photography Photography, Videography Melbourne, Victoria I absolutely love Georgia Verrells’ work – her storytelling through sunlit, documentary‑style photography and nostalgic Super 8 film feels so authentic and emotional, creating imagery that truly reflects a couple’s connection. [georgiaverrells.com](https://georgiaverrells.com) [![Blue Wren Weddings & Events](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/blue_wren_QZNLYV9uZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.bluewrenevents.com/) ### Blue Wren Weddings & Events Wedding Planning Tasmania Kate at Blue Wren Weddings & Events understands weddings the way I do, that they're important and special. She's an expert at her trade, always working behind the scenes to make things perfect, and she's a joy to work with. [bluewrenevents.com](https://www.bluewrenevents.com/) [![Mozoph Weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mozoph_qP8GUmwu1?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://mozophweddings.com/) ### Mozoph Weddings Photography, Videography Hobart, Tasmania Mozoph Weddings, led by the talented and generous duo Moz and Gi, are passionate storytellers who capture the essence of your love with stunning photography and cinematic videography. They were so welcoming to me when I first came to Tasmania. [mozophweddings.com](https://mozophweddings.com/) [![Folktale Films](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/richard_harmey__sJ8sN_4M?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.folktalefilms.com/) ### Folktale Films Videography Tasmania Richie from Folktale Films crafts cinematic wedding stories that beautifully capture the essence of your special day, preserving those heartfelt moments for generations to come. [folktalefilms.com](https://www.folktalefilms.com/) [![Shannon Hope](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/shannon-hope_J4Pt7BhQy?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.shannonhopemakeupartist.com/) ### Shannon Hope Hair and Makeup Artist Brisbane, Byron Bay, Gold Coast I’ve had the pleasure of not just marrying Shannon to her husband but collaborating with her at weddings across Australia and Europe. Her exceptional talent in makeup artistry, combined with her calming presence, ensures every bride feels radiant and at ease on their special day. [shannonhopemakeupartist.com](https://www.shannonhopemakeupartist.com/) [![By the Wilde](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/by_the_wilde_nLPRHOB6F?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://bythewilde.com/) ### By the Wilde Photography Tasmania, Hobart Omar's passion for capturing authentic, unscripted moments is truly inspiring. His creative vision and heartfelt approach make every wedding he photographs uniquely memorable. He was one of my first friends in the Tasmanian wedding industry and he's got a great hug! [bythewilde.com](https://bythewilde.com/) [![Awkward Soul Films](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/awkward_soul_oLpMFavlr?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.awkwardsoul.com.au/) ### Awkward Soul Films Videography Hobart, Tasmania Ashton from Awkward Soul Films is a Tasmanian wedding and elopement videographer who embraces the beauty in our quirks, capturing love stories in their most genuine and heartfelt form - and is barely as awkward as his brand suggests. [awkwardsoul.com.au](https://www.awkwardsoul.com.au/) [![David Muir Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Dave-Muir_GGGcjBCj0?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.davidmuirphoto.com) ### David Muir Photo Photography Hobart, Tasmania, Melbourne Dave's ability to capture the genuine moments and emotions of a wedding day is a gift. His relaxed and personable approach ensures couples feel at ease, resulting in timeless images that tell a beautiful story. [davidmuirphoto.com](https://www.davidmuirphoto.com) [![About Time](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/amy-about-time_tA7aupFbF?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.abouttimeco.com/) ### About Time Photography Brisbane, Sunshine Coast Amy from About Time Photography has an incredible talent for capturing the genuine, candid moments that truly reflect a couple's love story. Her relaxed and friendly approach ensures you feel at ease, resulting in natural and heartfelt images you'll cherish forever. [abouttimeco.com](https://www.abouttimeco.com/) [![Panorama Hotel St Helens](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_24N6vu.jpeg)](https://panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings/) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Venue Tasmania Perched above Georges Bay on Tasmania's beautiful east coast, the Panorama Hotel in St Helens offers sweeping water views, on-site accommodation, and a relaxed, welcoming setting for weddings of all sizes. A brilliant option if you're planning a Bay of Fires or east coast wedding and want your guests looked after under one roof. [panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings](https://panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings/) [![G&M Event Group](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/MC-Glenn-Mackay_M-Bm8BZ3o?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://gmeventgroup.com.au/) ### G&M Event Group Entertainment Brisbane, Gold Coast I've known Glenn for almost as long as I've been doing weddings, and he is revered in the industry for his kindness, generosity, professionalism, and leadership. He's also the best wedding MC in town. [gmeventgroup.com.au](https://gmeventgroup.com.au/) [![Dylan Dirks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dylan_dirks_7i2E80KeP?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.dylandirks.com/) ### Dylan Dirks Videography Gold Coast If you're after a wedding film that's both candid and cinematic, Dylan's your guy. His knack for capturing those fleeting, heartfelt moments is truly remarkable. [dylandirks.com](https://www.dylandirks.com/) [![Motion Art](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/motionart_VkURG96lz?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://motionart.com.au) ### Motion Art Videography Gold Coast, Brisbane I've been working with Geoff from Motion Art since the beginning of my career. He's not just a talented filmmaker and good guy, but has also mastered the art of running a sustinable and longrunning weding business - which is a rare art. [motionart.com.au](https://motionart.com.au) [![The Romantics](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/fiona-vail-photography-crystal-pierre-elope-50_orig_8arZHnUfG?tr=w-400%2Ch-300%2Cf-auto)](https://www.theromanticsflorist.com) ### The Romantics Florist Hobart, Tasmania Lani's artistry at The Romantics transforms wedding floristry into a true expression of love and creativity. [theromanticsflorist.com](https://www.theromanticsflorist.com) ### Tasmanian Marriage Office Registry-style Weddings Hobart, Tasmania For lovers wanting to tie the knot in Hobart without the fluff, the Tasmanian Marriage Office makes it easy, legal, and actually enjoyable—proof that simple doesn’t mean boring. [marriageoffice.org](https://marriageoffice.org) ### Sydney Marriage Office Registry-style Weddings Sydney If you're dreaming of a simple legal ceremony with a touch more style than the registry, the Sydney Marriage Office has nailed it—effortless, elegant, and beautifully central. [marriageoffice.sydney](https://marriageoffice.sydney) ### Melbourne Marriage Office Registry-style Weddings Melbourne Right in the heart of the city, the Melbourne Marriage Office offers a relaxed and modern way to get married—think registry vibes but way more personal and way less paperwork stress. [marriageoffice.melbourne](https://marriageoffice.melbourne) ### Brisbane Marriage Office Registry-style Weddings Brisbane For couples after a no-fuss, affordable legals-only ceremony in the heart of Brisbane, these two legends have created the perfect alternative to the Registry Office with better vibes and gorgeous photos to match. [themarriageoffice.com](https://themarriageoffice.com) No friends match those filters yet — try clearing one. --- # Frogmore Creek 360 Photo URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/frogmore-creek-tour Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) · 1 min read # Frogmore Creek 360 Photo Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) [Frogmore Creek](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au/pages/events-booking) offers two exceptional venues, each providing a distinct setting for your wedding celebration. **Frogmore Creek Cellar Door and Restaurant**: Situated in the foothills of Southern [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant)’s Coal River Valley wine region, just 20 minutes from [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant), this venue boasts award-winning food and wine experiences. The picturesque views of rolling hills, vineyards, and waterways create an idyllic backdrop for your special day. Menus are crafted using locally sourced, seasonal produce, and all wines are produced onsite from estate-grown grapes. **Frogmore Creek Wine Bar**: Located on the Hobart waterfront, this venue offers expansive views of Constitution Dock, kunanyi (Mount Wellington), and the city surrounds. It’s an ideal setting for pre- or post-event cocktails, corporate dinners, or intimate gatherings, providing a contemporary and stylish atmosphere. - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/peppermint-bay-360) ### [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/rayburn-farm) ### [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) ### [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alana & Nathan— Currumbin Rock](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) - [Meghan— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/meghan-0ieryts) - [Roz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/roz-0ovxbr0) --- # Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/gaelic-wedding-traditions Dec 10, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. ![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Australian weddings - and culture - are a kaleidoscope of love, laughter, and a cheeky glass of bubbly, with a growing trend of couples weaving in the traditions of their ancestors. For those with Irish or Scottish roots, Gaelic wedding customs provide a treasure trove of rich symbolism that marries beautifully (pun intended) with our modern Aussie vibe. Here’s the thing: your wedding is about _you two_. Not a checklist of traditions or a “because Mum said so.” If a tradition doesn’t feel like your jam, you’ve got my permission to skip it. The goal here is to add meaning, not pressure. ### **Handfasting: The OG “Tying the Knot”** If there’s one Gaelic tradition that’s both Instagram-worthy and deeply moving, it’s handfasting. The name kind of gives it all away: your hands bound together with ribbons as you say your vows. It’s where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from. **Modern Aussie Twist:** Use ribbons in your wedding colours or have family contribute pieces that represent blessings or wishes for your marriage. Sustainable materials like hemp or silk are perfect for a beach or bush setting. ### **The Quaich: A Cup of Commitment** This two-handled ceremonial cup (pronounced: “quake”) is all about [sharing a drink](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) as your first act as a married couple. Traditionally, it’s whisky, but this is Australia — a XXXX, a fine Barossa, kombucha, or a nice pour from Lark Distillery will do the trick. **Pro Tip:** How about a Quaich carved from local Aussie timber? A true fusion of your heritage and home. ### **Music That Moves the Soul** Bagpipes and harps scream Gaelic wedding, but let’s be real, a full piper ensemble might be overkill in a cozy vineyard ceremony. **The Remix:** Acoustic versions of Celtic melodies played on a guitar or violin bring the feels without blowing out your guests’ eardrums. One lone piper welcoming guests to an outdoor ceremony? Goosebumps, guaranteed. **The Ultra Aussie Remix:** Channel the late-great Bon Scott and play [Long Way To The Top](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-qkY2yj4_A) at the wedding. ### **Blessing Stones: Wishes from Your Tribe** A lesser-known gem, the blessing stone ritual invites guests to hold smooth stones, infusing them with well-wishes, before they’re collected in a decorative bowl. **Down Under Edition:** Gather stones from a beach or river meaningful to you (check with the local council first). Post-wedding, these stones could live in your garden or home as a permanent reminder of the love that surrounds you. ### **Tartan Touches** The tartan kilt is iconic, but let’s face it, full Highland dress in Aussie summer is just asking for heatstroke. **Keep it Cool:** Think tartan pocket squares, ribbons in your bouquet, or even table runners. For a subtle nod, incorporate tartan into your accessories—like a scarf for the evening or a belt for the groom. ### **The Oathing Stone: Grounded in Love** Imagine placing your hands on a stone as you speak your vows, grounding your promises in something eternal. **Eco-friendly Upgrade:** Choose a stone from a location that holds meaning to you both and have it engraved with your names or wedding date. A lovely way to connect with the land, particularly if you acknowledge its traditional custodians. ## **Tips for Blending Tradition with Aussie Spirit** 1. **Research**: Know the origins and meanings behind each tradition. Authenticity > token gestures. 2. **Climate Check**: That wool tartan sash might look stunning, but not in 30-degree heat. 3. **Explain to Guests**: Use your celebrant or program to share the “why” behind each element. It’s the storytelling that makes traditions magical. 4. **Mix It Up**: Combine Gaelic rituals with elements of your everyday life. It’s a celebration of all that makes you, well, _you_. 5. **Own It**: Adjust traditions to fit your vibe. They’ve lasted centuries because they evolve. Gaelic rituals aren’t just Pinterest fodder—they’re about connection, community, and commitment. By including them, you’re not just honouring your heritage; you’re anchoring your wedding in something timeless and meaningful. Your wedding day should feel like you’ve bottled your essence as a couple and served it with a side of prosecco. Traditions like these aren’t about copying the past but embracing what speaks to your heart. And when you do it thoughtfully, you’ll not only create stunning memories but also remind your guests (and yourselves) why love deserves a celebration. Sláinte! 🍻 - [wedding-traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D)](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) ### [Handfasting or hand-tying](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it - [![Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ivan-lapyrin-Td_rYk802g4_SAQLN1d2t?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/8-wedding-traditions) ### [Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](/8-wedding-traditions) From wine-leaking cups to face-smacking machines, these centuries-old wedding traditions prove that getting married has always been wonderfully weird. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kayla— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kayla-0p9r4l0) - [Harry & Nayla— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [Melissa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/melissa-0nwtfel) --- # Get a wedding razor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/get-a-wedding-razor Feb 3, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Get a wedding razor Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? ![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Occam’s razor - that the easiest explanation tends to be the right one - is a “rule of thumb” to guide scientists in developing theoretical models. The term “razor” refers to the “shaving away” of unnecessary assumptions. --- In most of my wedding planning meetings with my couples we spend some time unearthing assumptions that one of them has. And as the joke goes - to assume makes an ass of (yo)u and me - the same is often true for people planning weddings. The healthiest, happiest, cheapest, best, most efficient, most joyful, most awesome way to plan your wedding is to shave away all of the unnecessary assumptions until you’re left with your identifying statement. A statement that says that this is who you both are; this is how people like you get married; this is how people like you do things like this. --- An example will help. So many grooms as we bring up walking down the aisle have an assumption that they would be standing at the end of the aisle and their bride would walk to them, escorted by her father. Which is a totally fine thing to do if that’s how people like you do things. However there are so many other ways to do this. You could walk in together after arriving together and possibly even getting ready together, or perhaps having a first look? Fathers need not be involved unless that’s a symbolically important aspect of your marriage ceremony. Then there’s the assumptions (or opinions) of parents and family. Or worse: expectations! All of these assumptions and expectations can be easily approached if you have a wedding razor. --- I was recently at a wedding and a parent wanted to move the ceremony location (parents can become terribly odd at weddings). Alas I told her that I wouldn’t be involved in such a plot considering the wedding stylists had set it up exactly where the couple had asked them to. One of the people getting married however came over to get involved and very simply and calmly stated that this is where it was staying, and they could do so because they knew why they were having a wedding, they were fully informed and aware of all the decisions being made, and could rationally and lovingly tell mum that it wasn’t happening. --- I’m in lots of wedding Facebook Groups (pray for me!) and a common concern is with a groom who is either being tight on [budget](/withers-wedding-method), or not supportive. My argument back is that if it was their wedding too (as opposed to “the bride’s day”) then there would be no issue. And if they know what is happening, and why it’s happening, I would argue that budget would be no issue. Or if budget was an issue, both of you would be aware of it and the compromise would be mutual. Instead there are guys with uncommunicated assumptions, people with expectations, and brides sitting in Facebook Groups resenting the lot of them. --- Britt and I want to renovate our kitchen, but we’ve both agreed that we want to save up for it so it’s not happening today. We’re not resenting each other because we’ve talked about it and we’ve compromised. We know how and why we do things, and the kitchen will get renovated one day soon. --- Your “Wedding Razor” is the guiding principle that helps you decide what truly matters as a couple. A wedding is not just a party. Something important and valuable is happening, you’re getting married to each other, what happens there, and who’s there, reflects those values. Step away from Pinterest boards, the Facebook Groups, the WeddingTok rabbit hole, and get into an intentional conversation with your partner. Define what success looks like: love, connection, meaning, and fun over obligation, extravagance, or trends. How do you know you’re having the hashtag best wedding ever? How can you both be sure that the other person is feeling heard, seen, and understood? --- Apply your Wedding Razor to planning choices: [venue](/here), guest list, traditions, spending. For example if your razor talks about intimacy, why is there 200 people coming? Why is Jeff from work getting an invite? If your why is adventure, then maybe the golf club isn’t the best locale. If your why is family, how do you centre them in a way that still honours your boundaries? --- Your razor also gives you both permission to say no. To parents, friends, family, workmates, and even yourself. --- The wedding industry online - aka social media, magazines, blogs, thrives on making you feel like you’re missing out. With a razor you’ll never miss out because you’ve approached your wedding with intention and purpose. Unsure whether to do something or book a particular [vendor](/friends)? “Does this align with our why?” If not, it’s a no. --- Your wedding razor isn’t just for wedding planning—it’s a tool for life. Get a life razor. A marriage razor. Approach every moment with intention and purpose. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding razor](/tag/wedding-razor) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/giving-a-bride-away) ### [Walking down the aisle together](/giving-a-bride-away) How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Samuel & Amelia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/samuel-and-amelia-0ir83p9) - [Kim— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kim-0z6k5tr) - [Derek— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz) --- # The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/getting-ready-right Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) If there’s one part of wedding day planning that people tend to overlook, it’s this: where you’re going to get ready. And too often, this sacred pre-wedding space turns into a cramped, poorly lit hotel room that’s bursting at the seams with bridesmaids, makeup artists, and a photographer trying to get _the_ shot. It doesn’t have to be this way. In fact, it shouldn’t. Imagine this instead: a light-filled room, big enough for you and your crew to move comfortably, with natural light flooding in, and a vibe that screams calm, not chaos. Because this isn’t just about logistics—it’s about setting the tone for your whole day. ### The Why Behind the Where Here’s the thing: your wedding day is a whole mood. From the vows to the dance floor, every part should feel like _you_. That includes the morning of. Choosing a thoughtful, intentional getting-ready spot can ground your day in calm energy, inject some joy into the pre-wedding jitters, and make those getting-ready photos absolute fire. Plus, let’s face it, makeup looks better in natural light. Photographers love it. And you deserve it. ### What to Look For When scouting your ultimate getting-ready HQ, think about: - **Light:** Natural light is your best friend. It’s flattering for makeup, dreamy for photos, and just plain feels good. - **Space:** You’ll likely have a small army buzzing around. Make sure there’s room to breathe, move, and maybe even do a celebratory twirl in your robe. - **Vibes:** Does this space feel like home? Like you? If it doesn’t bring calm and happiness, keep looking. This is your first chapter of the day—write it in a place that feels right. ### Ditch the “It’ll Do” Mentality Getting ready isn’t just a means to an end. It’s part of the experience. Treat it like it matters, because it does. A beautiful, functional space isn’t an indulgence—it’s the launch pad for a day you’ll remember forever. And trust me, when you look back at your wedding photos, you’ll be glad you didn’t settle for that fluorescent-lit corner of the nearest chain hotel. So, find the room that feels just as good as that dress looks on you. Because an epic day starts with an epic morning. And you deserve nothing less. - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/wet-weather) ### [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Phillip— Freycinet, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/phillip-17g3ow2) - [Rochelle— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rochelle-08rocvt) - [Shorey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/shorey-1v063ve) --- # Walking down the aisle together URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/giving-a-bride-away Jan 17, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Walking down the aisle together How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. ![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) _Many moons ago I used to have a regular column in a wedding magazine, and that magazine has since shut down, so I’m republishing those old nuggets of golde on my blog for you to enjoy. You can probably tell by the featured image that this column was written in 2018._ ## A Duchess’s Dillemma Over my long career creating weddings there have been numerous occasions where a parent, or parents couldn’t attend their child’s wedding. At our own wedding it was because some weren’t invited, for others their parents could not be present on the day because of illness, travel complications, and even death the day before the wedding. So many of us are blessed to have had amazing parents whose presence we appreciate and enjoy, and when something important happens in our lives, we want them there to witness and cheer us on. So as the now Duke and Duchess of Sussex were entering their wedding week I couldn’t imagine the pain of finding out that Meghan’s father was not only extremely unwell, but also unable to attend their wedding. Being the most televised wedding of recent times brings a silver lining to the issue in that someone didn’t have to stand there with an iPhone Facetiming the ceremony back to Mexico. There was, however, the issue of walking down the aisle. Without a father present at the wedding, Meghan had a true dilemma, how does one get to the end of the aisle without a father? ![the Moment Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, Walked Down the Aisle ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_aisle_citIPSt6Y?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Suggestions were made that her mother, who seems delightful, would accompany her to Harry. Other news reports talked about Meghan making her own way down the aisle, kind of like how she does in most episodes of Suits. In the end she started and finished the trip on her own, and her new Father-in-law escorted her through the middle of the journey. In this column though, I wanted to throw a few more options out there for future, princes and princesses, dukes and duchesses, and the rest of us. Because as much as linking arms with dad is a fine and dandy way to go from the carriage to the alter, there are other permissible, valid, meaningful, and awesome ways to get from outside, in. In the absence of a father to give you away, perhaps you could start by examining what, and who, is being given away, and to whom is something being given to? Have you recently lead yourself into situations which required you as a person being given to someone else? And to what end, how does the receiver of this plentiful gift feel about being given something which he or she may never actually “have” or “own”? Now that we’ve cut open that onion of a modern feminist family discussion, there’s two more vegetables on the cutting table. If you’re not being given away, maybe you should give yourself to your fiancé? You are an upstanding and strong individual who decides who has access to you, your life, your inbox, and your body, right? So why not walk down that aisle by yourself and own that catwalk, strike a pose, and marry that human?! Let me put one more option on the menu. In the last two selections of how to get to the ceremony the other person has already been there. It’s like if you and I want to have coffee at my house, I’ll probably already be at my house, so you have to come to my house. Which is fine for some. But maybe the symbolism and power structure behind having coffee at my house bothers you? What if we both went in on a joint venture to buy a new house where we can go to together to have a coffee? So it’s not my house, or your house, but our house. It seems like overkill for a coffee but maybe there’s a proverb in there somewhere. Considering my awesome coffee analogy, what if you both walked into the ceremony together, as equals? The two of you power-walking your way into marriage as a team, tackling life, marriage, and that super long St George’s Chapel aisle together. What if you began your marriage how you intend to live it? Together. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/get-a-wedding-razor) ### [Get a wedding razor](/get-a-wedding-razor) Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kate— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/kate-0cm4o7h) - [Ben & Leah— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c) - [Janelle— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/janelle-1x65scp) --- # Gold Coast Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/gold-coast-celebrant # Gold Coast Wedding Celebrant ## A Gold Coast wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Tasmania and working regularly across the Gold Coast, Hinterland and Northern Rivers. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Gold Coast Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_CszW8.jpeg) ![](/maps/gold-coast-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## What makes a Josh Withers Gold Coast ceremony different Since 2009 I've been creating custom ceremonies that honour the gravity of marriage while keeping things real, joyful, and deeply personal. Whether you're barefoot at Burleigh, perched atop Tamborine Mountain, or hosting a black-tie banquet at The Star, this isn't a side hustle — it's my life's work. - ### Words That Matter I believe we breathe your marriage to life. Every ceremony is created from scratch because your story deserves more than 'insert couple here.' No reading from scripts — just authentic conversation that breathes your union into existence. - ### Legally Sound The Marriage Act of 1961 gives me the authority to marry people according to Australian law. I also hold legal authority to perform marriages in the USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be both emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Professional Sound Equipment Your ceremony isn't just a moment for you; it's for everyone present. I use professional Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode audio gear so everyone hears the words that matter, and your videographer gets pristine audio for your keepsake. - ### Calm Presence My role is to be a professionally calm and confident voice on your wedding day. I hold space for smiles, joy, reflection, and truth—adapting to the moment, the people, the place, and the beautiful chaos with authenticity. - ### Simplified Planning No unnecessary meetings or homework. We'll connect as many times as needed for you to feel confident that I understand your vision. I prepare deeply but speak naturally, treating your ceremony as a one-off conversation about something sacred. - ### Purposeful Length & Delivery Your ceremony is shaped around you and your marriage, then delivered with the judgement of a professional speaker. At around 18 minutes, it has room to mean something while keeping everyone present and connected to the moment that matters. ## The journey to your Gold Coast wedding - ### Step 1: Discovery We'll check your date and talk about what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service and give you a clear quote. This is a relationship, not a transaction. - ### Step 2: Legal Preparation At least one month before your wedding, we'll complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together, either in person or via video call. I'll guide you through the legal requirements with clarity and ease. - ### Step 3: Ceremony Design Over coffee or video call, we'll explore your story, your values, and your vision. I'll craft a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple, with a clear structure that gives you peace of mind. - ### Your Wedding Day I'll deliver your ceremony with presence, professionalism, and personality—creating a moment that anchors your entire celebration. ![Wedding celebrant in Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "He created the perfect ceremony for us, it was laid back and easy while still feeling really meaning and professional." --- Aura & Jacob Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook · Gold Coast · Queensland - > "Full of fun but professional, love and care, making your day everything you feel it should be." --- Molly & Josh Murwillumbah · Northern Rivers · New South Wales - > "Josh married us on the beach in Currumbin in 2021. It was absolutely perfect for us, no fluff or long drawn out speaking. The whole process of paperwork was easy too. A great stress free elopement!" --- [![Josh Withers officiating Alana and Nathan’s beach elopement ceremony at Currumbin Rock](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-9.pe87ayET_1BNRQg.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin · Gold Coast · Queensland [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. I’m a Gold Coast-born kid, so weddings across the Gold Coast, Brisbane and Byron Bay feel like coming home. After more than 15 years as a celebrant, I still love helping local couples begin their marriage in a way that sounds like them. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Gold Coast Christian Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/gold-coast-christian-celebrant # Gold Coast Christian Wedding Celebrant ## A modern Christian wedding ceremony, grounded in faith and created around you I'm Josh Withers, a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant with a Pentecostal background and Bible college training. I create Christian ceremonies across the Gold Coast, Hinterland and Tweed, shaped around your faith, Scripture, prayer and personal vows. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian wedding ceremony on the Gold Coast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_sydney_celebrant_tvIgQzeGR?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ![](/maps/gold-coast-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Christian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries — creating Christian ceremonies grounded in faith and shaped around each couple. - ### Theological Foundation Bible college-trained with Pentecostal roots and a charismatic worship background, bringing a thoughtful theological foundation to your ceremony. - ### Custom Scripture Integration Bible verses woven naturally into your ceremony, selected around your faith journey, relationship and the promises you are making. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones for outdoor Gold Coast venues. Everyone hears the vows and scripture clearly at beach ceremonies or Hinterland estates, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your Christian ceremony will be emotionally resonant, biblically grounded, and legally solid. - ### Flexible Faith Expression From traditional liturgy to spirit-led spontaneity — the ceremony reflects your actual faith practice, not what you think a Christian wedding 'should' look like. - ### Contemporary Format Usually 18-20 minutes, shaped by modern worship and years of professional speaking — long enough to honour God, short enough to keep everyone present and engaged. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you want the ceremony to hold. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start exploring your faith story together. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person on the Gold Coast or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Faith & ceremony conversations Coffee on the Gold Coast or video calls to discuss your faith journey, theology preferences, and vision. I will create a Christian ceremony that reflects who you are as believers and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and spirit-led authenticity — creating the moment that anchors your celebration before God. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "He created the perfect ceremony for us, it was laid back and easy while still feeling really meaning and professional." --- Aura & Jacob Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook · Gold Coast · Queensland - > "Full of fun but professional, love and care, making your day everything you feel it should be." --- Molly & Josh Murwillumbah · Northern Rivers · New South Wales - > "Josh married us on the beach in Currumbin in 2021. It was absolutely perfect for us, no fluff or long drawn out speaking. The whole process of paperwork was easy too. A great stress free elopement!" --- [![Josh Withers officiating Alana and Nathan’s beach elopement ceremony at Currumbin Rock](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-9.pe87ayET_1BNRQg.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin · Gold Coast · Queensland [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. I’m a Gold Coast-born kid, so weddings across the Gold Coast, Brisbane and Byron Bay feel like coming home. After more than 15 years as a celebrant, I still love helping local couples begin their marriage with faith, meaning and words that sound like them. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Christian ceremony that honours God? Faithful, personal and beautifully delivered. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Handfasting or hand-tying URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony Nov 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # Handfasting or hand-tying You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it ![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) Handfasting is a beautiful way to add depth and meaning to a wedding ceremony. This ancient Celtic ritual, where a couple’s hands are tied together with cords or ribbons, symbolises their union. It’s where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from. Today, it’s a symbolic gesture that resonates with couples looking for something unique and personal. While handfasting has roots in old traditions, it’s evolved into a modern ritual that suits all kinds of weddings. It doesn’t replace the legal parts of a ceremony; instead, it adds an emotional and visual element. Some couples use it during their vows, while others include it after exchanging rings or as a stand-alone moment. It’s versatile and can be tailored to suit any style. For anyone thinking about incorporating handfasting, personalisation is key. Cords or ribbons can be chosen to reflect personal meaning—think colours that represent love or materials like lace from a family heirloom. Family and friends can even take part by adding cords, symbolising their support. Timing it within the ceremony depends on the vibe you’re after—whether it’s a quiet, intimate exchange or something everyone can witness and celebrate. Planning handfasting involves a bit of practical preparation. It’s worth practising the ritual to avoid fumbling on the day. Choose cords that tie easily and look great in photos—something sturdy but elegant. If it’s outdoors, make sure everything stays in place if the wind kicks up. The whole thing usually takes just a few minutes, but it can have a lasting impact. For couples with diverse backgrounds, handfasting can be adapted to include cultural or religious elements. Whether you’re blending traditions, involving kids, or celebrating as a diverse couple, it’s a flexible ritual that can be deeply personal. It’s also a fantastic way to include family or friends who might not have other roles in the ceremony. The beauty of handfasting lies in its simplicity and symbolism. It’s a moment that guests will remember, and it creates a keepsake the couple can treasure forever. If it feels like the right fit, it’s a wonderful addition to any wedding, full of meaning, heart, and connection. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) ### [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. 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Australia, Tasmania 7 Eskleigh Road, Perth, TAS 7300 [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) distilleryoutdoorindustrialmodern Found on the historic Glen Ireh estate near Launceston, Adam’s Distillery blends Tasmania’s whisky legacy with the magic of a big country celebration. There’s a lakefront lawn for your ceremony, a bar that pours with passion, and an award-winning barrel room that doubles as your reception space or an all-weather backup plan. Couples looking for a modern industrial vibe with wide open spaces, excellent drinks, and plenty of fresh air will feel right at home here. And on a warm Northern Tassie day? There are few places better to say “I do” with [me](/), your [Launceston wedding celebrant](/launceston-celebrant). ## My Experience Here I was lucky enough to officiate Claudia and Tyler’s wedding here, and from the moment I arrived, I loved the feel of the property — so much space for ceremony, for ambience, for kids to run around, and for a thousand perfect photo ops. The bar was a highlight, obviously (it _is_ a distillery after all), and the team behind the venue were warm, helpful, and made it easy to create something unforgettable. Claudia and Tyler said: > Josh went above and beyond with our wedding. He offered advice before the ceremony and recommended vendors that suited our needs. Thank you for your comforting phone calls nights before the wedding and meeting with us in person beforehand. > > Josh brought our ceremony to life in a way that truly no one else could. He made us feel comfortable and relaxed. > > After the wedding, our certificate from the Tasmanian government was lost in the mail — Josh didn’t hesitate to help, leverage his connections in the BDM, and got it sorted immediately. > > Josh is an incredible man and can mould himself to suit anyone’s needs. We could not have picked a more perfect celebrant. We highly recommend Josh. ## Venue Highlights - Outdoor lawn ceremony spot facing the lake - Modern industrial barrel room for receptions - Onsite bar pouring award-winning spirits - All-weather indoor options available - Just 15 minutes from Launceston, but feels a world away - Great photo locations across the property ## Planning Tips - **Accommodation**: You’ll find more hotels in Launceston, but the nearby towns of Perth, Longford, and Evandale have beautiful Airbnbs worth checking out. - **Transport**: Parking is easy, but don’t rely on Ubers or taxis — they’re rare this far out. Either organise a bus or nominate a responsible driver. - **Weather**: Even on a summer’s day in Tassie, bring a jacket — just in case. That said, wet weather options inside the distillery are top-notch. - **Drinks**: This is a whisky distillery — so if your [crowd loves a dram](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) or two, you’re in for a treat. Consider offering tastings or whisky-themed favours. - **Sunlight**: Golden hour over the lake can be magical for photos. Talk to your photographer about the best ceremony time for light. _Wedding ceremony photo by [Clint & Bethanie](https://www.clintandbethanie.com)_ ![Adam’s Distillery](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 7 Eskleigh Road, Perth, TAS 7300 ![Adam’s Distillery additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Adams_Distillery_pCYV0BSii?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Freycinet, Tasmania wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/freycinet) ### Freycinet, Tasmania Australia, Tasmania national parkoutdoorelopement Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather an... [View Details](/here/freycinet) [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Bendooley Estate | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/bendooley 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Bendooley Estate # Bendooley Estate A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique reception spaces in Australia. Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales 3020 Old Hume Hwy, Berrima NSW 2577 wineryestatebookstoregardenrestaurant Bendooley Estate is one of the most extraordinary wedding venues in the world — and easily one of my top three favourites. Nestled in the rolling hills of the Southern Highlands, it offers couples a perfect mix of elegance, nature, and timeless charm. The estate is renowned for its vineyards, lakeside gardens, and the iconic Book Barn — a reception space surrounded by walls of books that feels like stepping into another world. ## My Experience Here Whenever I officiate at Bendooley, I’m reminded why this place is so special. The Book Barn reception space in particular is my personal favourite — it’s intimate, atmospheric, and unlike anywhere else on the planet. The staff run weddings with military precision while somehow keeping the warmth and ease of a family gathering. From golden-hour ceremonies on the lawns to late-night dancing beneath shelves of antique books, every detail just sings. ## Venue Highlights - The **Book Barn**, a one-of-a-kind reception venue lined with towering bookshelves. - Vineyard views and a variety of stunning outdoor ceremony spots. - Award-winning restaurant and in-house catering that showcases the region’s produce. - On-site accommodation for couples and guests. - Versatile options for intimate elopements or grand weddings of 200+. - Just 90 minutes from Sydney and Canberra. ## Planning Tips - The Southern Highlands has a cool climate — pack for crisp evenings, even in summer. - Autumn is especially magical here with vineyard colours and mild weather. - Book well in advance: this is one of Australia’s most sought-after venues. - Consider guest transport and accommodation in nearby Bowral and Berrima. - Sunset ceremonies by the lake or vineyard are spectacular — check local sunset times when planning. - Winter weddings are cosy and romantic in the Book Barn with its roaring fireplaces. ![Bendooley Estate](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 3020 Old Hume Hwy, Berrima NSW 2577 ## More venues in Southern Highlands, New South Wales [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Greyleigh wedding venue](/_astro/greyleigh-estate.DJ07gAWV_M37A.jpeg)](/here/greyleigh-estate) ### Greyleigh Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatebarngarden+2 more Luxury 200-acre Kiama hinterland wedding venue with ocean views, converted dairy silos, five event spaces and exclusive ... [www.greyleigh.com.au](https://www.greyleigh.com.au) [View Details](/here/greyleigh-estate) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... 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[thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) [View Details](/here/the-grounds) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Byron Bay Lighthouse | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/byron-bay-lighthouse 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Byron Bay Lighthouse # Byron Bay Lighthouse A stunning clifftop venue overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where I've created intimate ceremonies with breathtaking views. Australia, Byron Bay Lighthouse Road, Byron Bay, NSW 2481 BeachLandmarkOutdoor The [Cape Byron Lighstation](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cape_Byron_Light) stands majestically on Australia’s most easterly point. I’ve [married couples here](/brisbane-celebrant) as the sun rises over the Pacific Ocean, creating truly magical moments. ## My Experience Here I’ve officiated 7 weddings at this iconic location, each with its own unique story. The natural beauty of this spot makes for incredible ceremony backdrops and unforgettable photos. You can get married at the top of the hill with the Lighthouse when you obtain a permit, or my favourite location is at the bottom near Little Wategos Beach. ## Venue Highlights - Panoramic ocean views - Dolphin and whale sightings (seasonal) - Historic lighthouse setting - Sunrise ceremony options - Close to Byron Bay town center ## Planning Tips The lighthouse is a popular tourist spot, so early morning or weekday ceremonies work best for privacy. A permit is required from the National Parks service, which I can help guide you through. ![Byron Bay Lighthouse](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tori-jake-byronbay_P6ykwqSid?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Lighthouse Road, Byron Bay, NSW 2481 ## More venues in Byron Bay [![Deux Belettes wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/deux_belletes_wT69P5JSI?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/deux-belettes) ### Deux Belettes Australia, Byron Bay chateaugardenprivate estate A romantic French-style chateau in the Byron Bay hinterland, surrounded by fig trees, stone walls, and elegance — a drea... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... 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[www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... [thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) [View Details](/here/the-grounds) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Caversham House | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/caversham-house 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Caversham House # Caversham House A formal and elegant wedding venue just outside Perth, Caversham House is renowned for its manicured gardens, riverside charm, and exceptional service. Australia, Perth 141 Caversham Ave, Caversham WA 6055 [www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) gardenestateformal Caversham House offers a luxurious escape into elegance and refinement just 25 minutes from the Perth CBD. With its cascading waterfall, European-style gardens, and riverside setting along the Swan River, it’s no wonder this is one of Perth’s most sought-after wedding venues. Couples looking for a timeless and grand setting will appreciate the manicured lawns, sandstone staircases, and multiple ceremony and reception options available on-site. Whether you’re planning an opulent garden wedding or a glamorous indoor affair, Caversham House caters to every sophisticated vision. ## My Experience Here I’ve had the privilege of marrying couples here in the gardens with [Bulb Creative and The Elopement Collective](https://www.elopement.photos/-mollytoby/) and the vibe is beautifully formal without being stuffy. The team at Caversham House were professional and organised — you can tell they know weddings inside and out, which really puts couples (and celebrants!) at ease. ## Venue Highlights - European-style tiered gardens with a stunning waterfall backdrop - Multiple ceremony locations, including the Secret Garden and the riverside lawn - Grand marquee and indoor ballroom options for receptions - Onsite bridal room for preparations - Elegant sandstone features and lush greenery throughout the estate - Ample photo opportunities across the manicured grounds ## Planning Tips - **Best season**: Spring and autumn offer cooler temperatures and the gardens are in full bloom. - **Sunset**: The golden hour light filters beautifully through the trees in the late afternoon — ideal for portraits. - **Weather**: Perth’s summers can be intense; opt for shaded ceremonies or provide water/fans if planning a midday event. - **Parking**: Plenty of on-site parking, but it’s good to confirm guest numbers in advance with the venue. - **Transport**: Just a short drive from the city, but for guests without cars, consider arranging a shuttle or group transport. - **Accommodation**: Nearby Swan Valley offers charming stays for guests, or base yourself in Perth for more hotel options. Formal, grand, and effortlessly beautiful — Caversham House is a refined choice for a timeless wedding celebration. ![Caversham House](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_celebrant_BhiDi2VWy?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 141 Caversham Ave, Caversham WA 6055 ![Caversham House additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_pU_nYIHrp?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Perth [![Sandridge Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_tasmania__0u4CSlkA?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sandridge-estate) ### Sandridge Estate Australia, Tasmania bushchapelrustic An enchanting bushland wedding venue in Tasmania’s north-west with an outdoor chapel that feels like magic. 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[www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Clyde Mill Distillery | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/clyde-mill 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Clyde Mill Distillery # Clyde Mill Distillery Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisky and gin. Australia, Tasmania 254 Nant Ln, Bothwell TAS 7030 [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) distilleryhistoricruralcountryoutdoor Clyde Mill Distillery & Kitchen sits among open paddocks on the banks of the Clyde River in Tasmania’s Central Highlands. The convict-built sandstone mill and surrounding farmland offer a setting that feels timeless, relaxed, and unpretentious — this is a real working property, cared for by people who understand its past and protect its future. Specialising in intimate weddings and elopements, Clyde Mill is designed for celebrations that feel personal rather than staged. From quiet ceremonies and long lunches to pre-wedding gatherings and relaxed drinks, the venue scales to what you actually want. For larger weddings, the surrounding grounds offer flexible venue hire with space for marquee celebrations — without losing the warmth and character of the place. The mill is run day-to-day by Jayne and Andy, a husband-and-wife team with decades of experience in hospitality and events. Andy leads the kitchen with honest, generous cooking. Jayne oversees weddings and guest experience — ensuring your celebration runs smoothly, feels relaxed, and stays true to what matters. ## Venue Highlights - Historic convict-built sandstone mill buildings with extraordinary character - Open paddocks and river views across the Clyde River - Indoor dining space seating up to 50 guests, standing receptions up to 150 - On-site kitchen serving seasonal, honest food - Own-label Clyde Mill whiskies and gins available at the bar - Photography locations across the mill buildings, paddocks, and river - Grounds available for marquee weddings beyond indoor capacity - Optional whisky or gin tastings and mill tours - On-the-day coordination included with all packages ## Wedding Packages **The Small Gathering** — from $110 per person (10–18 guests) Dedicated use of The Long Room alongside normal restaurant service. Sit-down meal, gin cocktail on arrival, and access to photography locations across the property. **The Old Mill Wedding** — from $130 per person (30–50 guests) Exclusive use of indoor spaces for up to 50 guests. Seasonal two-course sit-down menu, gin cocktail on arrival, full kitchen and bar staffing, and event coordination throughout the day. **Complete Venue Hire** — from $3,500 venue fee Exclusive use of the mill and grounds for larger celebrations. Bring your own marquee, caterers, and suppliers while Clyde Mill handles bar service and venue coordination. Suits couples who want to build the day entirely their own way. All weddings include on-the-day coordination, and bar service is operated exclusively by Clyde Mill — no BYO alcohol. A premium drinks package ($95 per person) covers Tasmanian wines, Clyde Mill spirits, local beers, and non-alcoholic options. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: Indoor dining fits 50 for a sit-down; standing receptions can accommodate up to 150. Larger sit-down weddings require a marquee on the grounds. - **Ceremonies**: Outdoor ceremonies are the norm — indoor space is limited. In poor weather, ceremonies can be shortened, adjusted, or held off-site before arrival. - **Curfew**: All weddings conclude by 10:30pm. - **Accommodation**: No on-site accommodation, but the venue team can point you toward local options in and around Bothwell. - **Transport**: Pre-arranged guest transport is strongly recommended, particularly for evening events — Bothwell is a small town in the Highlands. - **Elopements**: The Long Room elopement option is designed for small, meaningful celebrations of up to 18 guests, held alongside normal restaurant service — no need to close the whole venue. - **Drinks**: This is a working distillery — whisky and gin tastings are available as add-ons, and the bar pours Clyde Mill’s own spirits all day. ![Clyde Mill Distillery](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 254 Nant Ln, Bothwell TAS 7030 ## More venues in Tasmania [![Frogmore Creek wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/frogmore-creek) ### Frogmore Creek Australia, Tasmania wineryrestaurantscenic A premium winery wedding venue in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, just 20 minutes from Hobart — where rustic charm meets m... [www.frogmorecreek.com.au](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au) [View Details](/here/frogmore-creek) [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... [View Details](/here/spring-bay-mill) [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Freycinet, Tasmania wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/freycinet) ### Freycinet, Tasmania Australia, Tasmania national parkoutdoorelopement Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather an... [View Details](/here/freycinet) [![Panorama Hotel St Helens wedding venue](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_1WgiuN.jpeg)](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Australia, Tasmania hotelcoastalscenic A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a s... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Coromandel Peak, New Zealand | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/coromandel-peak 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Coromandel Peak, New Zealand # Coromandel Peak, New Zealand An iconic mountaintop wedding location overlooking Lake Wanaka, perfect for scenic elopements by helicopter year-round. New Zealand, Wanaka Coromandel Peak, Mt Roy, Wanaka, New Zealand MountainElopementScenic There are few places in the world as instantly recognisable as Coromandel Peak, often referred to as [Roys Peak](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roys_Peak) however that’s a) the mountain and b) the peak on the mountain you hike to right next door to Coromandel Peak. Perched 4000 feet above Lake Wanaka, with sweeping views across Mount Aspiring National Park and the Southern Alps, this is New Zealand’s most iconic elopement location — and for good reason. Accessible only by helicopter, it’s an unforgettable, remote ceremony location that gives you the entire mountain to yourselves for a moment that feels truly cinematic. ![Coromandel Peak snow elopement with The Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Coromandel_Peak_snow_elopement_with_The_Elopement_Collective_gt3p0iFxq?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Whether you’re surrounded by snow-capped peaks in winter or golden tussock and deep blue skies in summer, the mountain always delivers. It’s wild, breathtaking, and totally worth the ride. ## My Experience Here I’ve flown up with Wanaka Helicopters for [New Zealand elopements](https://elopementcollective.com) here more times than I can count, and they’ve never let me down. Always professional, always friendly, and always up for a bit of fun. Some of the most unforgettable elopements I’ve ever officiated have taken place on this peak, and I genuinely never tire of the view. It’s honestly hard to put into words how magical it is up there. ## Venue Highlights - Jaw-dropping views over Lake Wanaka and Mount Aspiring - Scenic helicopter flight to and from the peak - 4000 ft elevation creates a feeling of total isolation and majesty - Flexible timing: sunrise, midday, or sunset - Ideal for adventurous elopements and small ceremonies - Access from both Wanaka and Queenstown - A true “just the two of us” vibe ![New Zealand mountain-top elopement with The Elopement Collective and Wanaka Helicopters ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/coromandel_peak_new_zealand_9nJ2lhhI5?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - **Book the sunset slot**: The golden light as it hits the lake and peaks is otherworldly. - **Weather matters**: Flights can occasionally be delayed or rescheduled due to wind or low cloud, especially in shoulder seasons. - **Dress smart**: Even in summer, bring layers — it can be cool and windy up top. - **Footwear counts**: It’s a mountain, so wear something sturdy, even if you’re swapping into heels or bare feet for the ceremony. - **Time it well**: Flights usually allow up to an hour on the peak, so plan your ceremony and photo session accordingly. - **Photography dream**: This location is made for drone shots, wide lenses, and panoramic frames. - **Logistics**: Add-ons are available if you want to fly directly to your reception venue after the ceremony. This isn’t just a location — it’s an experience. If your idea of a wedding is something private, powerful, and perched above the world, Coromandel Peak might be exactly what you’re looking for. ![Coromandel Peak, New Zealand](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/coromandel_peak_-CiqfBrP3?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Coromandel Peak, Mt Roy, Wanaka, New Zealand ![Coromandel Peak, New Zealand additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wanaka_bXJObC-7bx?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Freycinet, Tasmania wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/freycinet) ### Freycinet, Tasmania Australia, Tasmania national parkoutdoorelopement Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather an... [View Details](/here/freycinet) [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... [View Details](/here/spring-bay-mill) [![Panorama Hotel St Helens wedding venue](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_1WgiuN.jpeg)](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Australia, Tasmania hotelcoastalscenic A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a s... [panoramahotelsthelens.com](https://panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings/) [View Details](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) [![Frogmore Creek wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/frogmore-creek) ### Frogmore Creek Australia, Tasmania wineryrestaurantscenic A premium winery wedding venue in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, just 20 minutes from Hobart — where rustic charm meets m... [www.frogmorecreek.com.au](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au) [View Details](/here/frogmore-creek) [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Deux Belettes | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/deux-belettes 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Deux Belettes # Deux Belettes A romantic French-style chateau in the Byron Bay hinterland, surrounded by fig trees, stone walls, and elegance — a dream venue for refined, intimate weddings. Australia, Byron Bay 274 Friday Hut Road, Brooklet NSW 2479 [www.deuxbelettes.com](https://www.deuxbelettes.com) chateaugardenprivate estate Just a short trip from [Byron Bay](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Byron_Bay), the perfect wedding venue and luxury accommodation is Deux Belettes. Tucked away in the Byron hinterland, surrounded by tropical fruit plantations, fertile organic farms and a rainforest of primeval fig trees, this French-inspired chateau is a venue like no other, and so close to the [Gold Coast](/gold-coast-christian-celebrant) and Byron Bay. Known affectionately as “The French House,” Deux Belettes offers a quiet kind of magic — pebble paths winding through rambling roses, ceremony locations shaded by ancient trees, and receptions under the stars in elegant marquees. It’s romantic, refined, and wildly photogenic. Couples don’t just choose Deux Belettes because it’s beautiful — they choose it because it _feels_ different. Exclusive. Intentional. Personal. And if you want that kind of day, it’s worth every bit of planning to make it yours. ## My Experience Here [I’ve performed countless weddings and elopements at Deux Belettes](/gold-coast-celebrant) — including some a-list household names. Each one has felt different, yet the venue always delivers a kind of quiet grandeur. There’s a timelessness here that elevates the smallest elopement and brings elegance to even the most relaxed gathering. ## Venue Highlights - Romantic French chateau surrounded by lush rainforest and fruit plantations - Garden paths, topiaries, fig trees, lavender, and stone courtyards - Marquee receptions under the stars - Grand Salon available for day-after breakfasts and pre-wedding gatherings - Guest house filled with antique French furnishings - Long, cinematic driveway lined with plane trees - Multiple ceremony sites throughout the grounds - Extensive photography opportunities — every wall, tree, and corner is a backdrop ## Planning Tips - **Hire a planner**: This venue is breathtaking, but it also has detailed requirements. It’s absolutely worth working with a professional planner (preferably one who knows the owners and layout well) to make the most of the space and meet expectations. - **Outdoor ceremonies only**: All ceremonies take place outside, so have a backup plan in case of wet weather. Marquees are the standard reception setup. - **Best time of year**: Spring and autumn offer lush gardens and more comfortable temperatures. Summer can be humid with potential rain. - **Sunset light**: Magical in the late afternoon as it filters through the trees and hits the stone buildings — perfect for post-ceremony portraits. - **Travel logistics**: The property is about 35–40 minutes from Byron Bay. You’ll want to organise guest transport (especially return buses) since rideshare options are limited. - **Parking**: Limited onsite — plan for supplier vehicles and use guest shuttles or valet services. - **Curfew & noise**: As a private estate, noise and timing restrictions apply. A planner can help you work within those limits. - **Accommodation**: The on-site guest house is beautifully furnished and best reserved for the couple or immediate wedding party. - **Vendor team**: The owners maintain a list of preferred 5-star planners and stylists who can assemble a dream team of caterers, florists, musicians, hair/makeup artists, and even luxury transport or horse and carriage options. ![Deux Belettes](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/deux_belletes_wT69P5JSI?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 274 Friday Hut Road, Brooklet NSW 2479 ![Deux Belettes additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/deux_belettes_byron_bay_q6BugBPdl?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Byron Bay [![Byron Bay Lighthouse wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tori-jake-byronbay_P6ykwqSid?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) ### Byron Bay Lighthouse Australia, Byron Bay BeachLandmarkOutdoor A stunning clifftop venue overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where I've created intimate ceremonies with breathtaking views. 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... 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[thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) [View Details](/here/the-grounds) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at DUMBO, New York City | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/dumbo 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. DUMBO, New York City # DUMBO, New York City A moody-meets-magical New York City elopement location tucked beneath the Manhattan Bridge in Brooklyn. USA, New York City DUMBO, Brooklyn, NY 11201, United States UrbanElopement If you dream of an [elopement](https://elopementcollective.com) that feels like a movie set — raw, romantic, cinematic — [DUMBO, Brooklyn](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dumbo,_Brooklyn) delivers. Nestled along the edge of the East River with the Manhattan Bridge soaring overhead, this pocket of New York is as iconic as it gets. I married Ollie and Juliet on the rocks by the water just east of the bridge — right in the thick of things, yet somehow, beautifully intimate. ![Wedding Officiant in New York City ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_officiant_in_New_York_City_9zqoXfAOY?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The vibe here is industrial-meets-inspirational. Steel, stone, and skyline. It’s a place where yellow cabs flash past bridal gowns, and street musicians provide a spontaneous soundtrack. If that’s your energy, you’ll love it. ## My Experience Here I officiated a beautiful elopement for Ollie and Juliet here with [Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co) on photographs and all created by [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), squeezed between sunset-chasing photographers, engagement shoots, and fashion influencers — and yet, we found our moment. It was busy, chaotic even, but perfectly NYC. This spot only works if it’s just the two of you. No guests. No fuss. Just love, a celebrant, and a riverbank. ![Josh Withers wedding celebrant in New York City for Ollie and Juliet, photographed by Bulb Creative with The Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Withers__wedding_celebrant__in_New_York_City__at_DUMBO_for_an_elopement_ceremony_0CaUzks-U?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Venue Highlights - Views of both Manhattan and Brooklyn Bridges - Gorgeous sunset light bouncing off the skyline - Cobblestone streets, graffiti art, and old warehouses turned galleries - Jane’s Carousel and Pebble Beach nearby for iconic photos - Walking distance to Brooklyn Bridge Park and Empire Stores ![Eloping in New York City ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/new_york_elopement_wZKgqn4pl?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - **Elopement Only**: This location is too crowded and public for a full wedding. Stick to couple-only ceremonies. - **Time It Right**: Early mornings or weekdays are your best bet to avoid crowds. Sunset is magical but busy. - **Photography**: There are dozens of Instagram shoots happening at any moment — don’t be surprised if you have to gently assert your moment. - **Permits**: While casual ceremonies typically go under the radar, an official permit from NYC Parks may technically be required if you bring chairs, arches, or large cameras. Keep it minimal and mobile. - **Footwear Matters**: You’ll likely be climbing on rocks or navigating cobblestones. Comfortable shoes (or at least a pair to change into) are a must. - **Weather**: New York weather can be dramatic. Summers are hot and humid, winters icy cold. Autumn and spring are prime. - **Sunset**: Sunset can hit early depending on the season, and the bridge may block the best golden-hour light. A scout session earlier in the day is a smart move. - **Soundscape**: Expect subway rumble overhead, the sound of the people walking past or watching the sunset over Manhattan, the sounds of the city — which becomes part of the charm, if you let it. - **Stay Local**: Book a stay at the 1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge or a cozy Williamsburg loft to keep the Brooklyn energy going. - **Plan B**: Always have a weather backup. A Brooklyn café or indoor venue can keep the vibe alive if rain strikes. Want to elope in the city that never sleeps but still crave that ‘just us’ moment? DUMBO might be chaos — but it’s _beautiful_ chaos. ![DUMBO, New York City](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ollie_and_juliet_2CPcZOsPS?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) DUMBO, Brooklyn, NY 11201, United States ![DUMBO, New York City additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ollie_and_juliet_eloped_in_new_york_city_z58D0tNVp?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in New York City [![Ponomakena Sanctuary wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_celebrant_egN0BBmbT?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/ponomakena) ### Ponomakena Sanctuary USA, Hawaii outdoorprivate estateoceanfront Oceanfront Maui estate with over three acres of lush, tropical grounds, panoramic sea views, and a laid-back luxury vibe... [View Details](/here/ponomakena) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/iceland_dc-3_wedding_QXqkSueGBW?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/icelandic-plane-wreck) ### Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck Iceland, Iceland South Coast elopement locationnatural landscapeadventurous The iconic, haunting wreck of a US Navy DC-3 plane on Iceland’s Sólheimasandur black sand beach — a surreal and dramatic... [View Details](/here/icelandic-plane-wreck) [![Villa Celimontana, Rome wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/tempio-gotico) ### Villa Celimontana, Rome Italy, Rome gardenhistoricelopement location A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the... [View Details](/here/tempio-gotico) [![Mandrakia Beach, Milos wedding venue](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_Z1TUeGc.jpeg)](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) ### Mandrakia Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalfishing village A tiny waterfront fishing village on Milos, Greece, where colourful syrmata boathouses and the Aegean Sea create an inti... [View Details](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) [![Sarakiniko Beach, Milos wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Sarakiniko_Beach_elopement_on_Milos_Island__Greece__with_The_Elopement_Collective_and_George_Bowden_LMvGr3rMr?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sarakiniko-milos) ### Sarakiniko Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalnatural wonder An iconic lunar-like coastline on Milos Island, Greece — perfect for elopements at golden hour, but best shared with jus... [View Details](/here/sarakiniko-milos) [![Coromandel Peak, New Zealand wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/coromandel_peak_-CiqfBrP3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/coromandel-peak) ### Coromandel Peak, New Zealand New Zealand, Wanaka MountainElopementScenic An iconic mountaintop wedding location overlooking Lake Wanaka, perfect for scenic elopements by helicopter year-round. [View Details](/here/coromandel-peak) [![The Old Dairy Maleny wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/old_dairy_maleny_1yPu0qo7A?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/old-dairy) ### The Old Dairy Maleny Australia, Southeast Queensland hinterlandluxurybarn A pristine, purpose-built wedding venue in the Sunshine Coast hinterland with sweeping views, space to celebrate, and A+... [theolddairymaleny.com.au](https://theolddairymaleny.com.au) [View Details](/here/old-dairy) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Freycinet, Tasmania | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/freycinet 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Freycinet, Tasmania # Freycinet, Tasmania Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather and east coast logistics. Australia, Tasmania Freycinet National Park, Coles Bay Road, Coles Bay TAS 7215 national parkoutdoorelopement [Freycinet National Park](https://parks.tas.gov.au/explore-our-parks/freycinet-national-park) is one of [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant)’s most recognisable landscapes: pink granite, clear water, white sand and enough distance from normal life to make getting married there feel like a proper occasion. It is reachable by road from both Hobart and Launceston, but I would treat the drive as part of a destination wedding rather than something to squeeze between a flight and the ceremony. Stay nearby, give the day room, and let your guests arrive before they need to look emotionally available. Honeymoon Bay is one of the first ceremony locations I suggest. The walk is gentler than Freycinet’s famous lookouts and the cove can feel beautifully intimate. It is still inside a national park, so a wedding site booking, park passes and any conditions attached to your event need to be sorted with Tasmania Parks and Wildlife Service. ![Freycinet celebrant photographed by Heart and Colour ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet_national_park_celebrant_KyUEYDStQ?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## My Experience Here I’ve officiated elopements on the sand at Honeymoon Bay, watched dolphins pass mid-ceremony, and helped couples work with wind and tides while they said their vows with nature surrounding them. One memorable ceremony involved a trip to Schouten Island. It was magical and chaotic in fairly equal amounts, and the boat ride turned a few stomachs. I have the sea legs, but I will not sugarcoat the swell. ## Venue Highlights - **Honeymoon Bay:** A short approach and a sheltered-cove feeling, subject to your Parks and Wildlife Service wedding booking and current park conditions. - **Wineglass Bay Lookout:** Iconic, but reached by a steep uphill walk. Think carefully about formal clothing, timing and guest mobility. - **Mount Amos:** An exposed and difficult scramble for experienced walkers, not a convenient ceremony aisle. - **Hazards Beach:** A longer approach that needs time, suitable footwear and a realistic plan for the walk back. - **Schouten Island:** Accessible by boat and beautiful, but the crossing can be rough. Make sure every important person is genuinely comfortable with that plan. - **Nearby resorts:** Freycinet Lodge and Edge of the Bay can combine accommodation, ceremony options and a wet-weather answer for couples who want more infrastructure. ![Schouten Island photographed by Lauren Campbell ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Schouten_Island_wedding_ceremony_OtPVhX65r?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - **Book the national park site:** Tasmania Parks and Wildlife Service says wedding site bookings are essential. Applications can be accepted up to 12 months ahead and must be made at least four weeks before the date. Start with the official [wedding information](https://parks.tas.gov.au/things-to-do/weddings) and [booking enquiry](https://parks.tas.gov.au/things-to-do/weddings/wedding-booking-enquiry). - **Budget for the real conditions:** Costs, guest limits and event conditions depend on the location and booking. Every guest, including the two of you, needs a valid park pass. - **Keep the hikes separate when that helps:** A lookout or mountain walk can be brilliant for portraits without asking every guest to complete it in formal clothes. - **Plan for changing weather:** Wind, heat, cold and rain all affect comfort, sound and access. Choose a nearby alternative you would still be happy to use. - **Check the light and the walk back:** Confirm sunset for your date and allow safe time to return before dark. Do not build the legal ceremony around the fastest possible trail estimate. - **Arrange suppliers early:** East coast suppliers may be available, and teams also travel from Hobart and Launceston. Confirm travel, accommodation and national park operating requirements in every quote. - **Book accommodation early:** [Saffire](https://www.saffire-freycinet.com.au), [Freycinet Lodge](https://www.freycinetlodge.com.au) and [Edge of the Bay Resort](https://www.edgeofthebay.com.au) are among the established options around Coles Bay and Freycinet. - **Respect public access:** A wedding booking does not make the national park private. Other visitors may be nearby, and parking is limited at busy times. I am licensed to conduct weddings in Tasmanian national parks, but that business licence does not replace the booking for your specific wedding. My guide to [weddings in Tasmania’s national parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) explains the difference. Freycinet works best when the ceremony is intimate, the logistics are honest and the landscape is allowed to be a landscape rather than a set. If that sounds like your wedding, [tell me what you are planning](/contact). ![Freycinet, Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Freycinet National Park, Coles Bay Road, Coles Bay TAS 7215 ![Freycinet, Tasmania additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinent_wedding_RDutShegK?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Frogmore Creek | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/frogmore-creek 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Frogmore Creek # Frogmore Creek A premium winery wedding venue in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, just 20 minutes from Hobart — where rustic charm meets modern elegance. Australia, Tasmania 699 Richmond Rd, Cambridge TAS 7170 [www.frogmorecreek.com.au](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au) wineryrestaurantscenic Frogmore Creek is a standout wedding venue in Tasmania’s [Coal River Valley](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coal_River_Valley) — offering the kind of setting that makes you feel like you’ve stepped into a postcard. Just 20 minutes from Hobart’s city centre (and even closer to the airport), this vineyard estate delivers all the elegance and wow-factor of a destination wedding, without the travel stress. Think rolling vines, water views, and a relaxed but refined vibe — the kind of place where you can sip spectacular wine, dine on Tasmania’s best produce, and let the kids run wild on the lawn while you say your vows. ## My Experience Here Frogmore Creek is more than just a [Tassie wedding venue](/tasmanian-celebrant) to me — it’s a family favourite. Britt and I often bring friends here for long lunches, while Luna runs on the grass and tells anyone listening that her daddy does weddings here. The staff are always so warm and helpful, the food and wine are next-level (it’s where we bring visitors to the region for lunch), and the view across the vineyard? Unreal. I’m proud to be a [local Hobart celebrant](/hobart-celebrant) to [Frogmore Creek](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au) for weddings. ## Venue Highlights - Amphitheatre-style ceremony location with panoramic vineyard and valley views - Barrel Room reception space with floor-to-ceiling glass doors opening to nature - Expansive outdoor terrace perfect for mingling and sunset drinks - Incredible food and wine all made from Tasmanian produce and estate-grown fruit - Friendly, professional team that makes every event feel effortless - Considering how good the venue is, it’s not that [expensive](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) - Easy access from Hobart CBD and Hobart Airport ## Planning Tips - **Weather**: While summer and early autumn offer stunning light and colours, Tasmania’s weather can be unpredictable — the Frogmore Creek wet weather backup is their hall which is a specatacular Plan A let alone a Plan B. - **Sunset**: The golden hour across the vineyard is magical — ideal for ceremony timing or sunset portraits. - **Travel**: Just 20 minutes from Hobart and 10 minutes from the airport — ideal for out-of-towners and local guests alike. - **Parking & Access**: There’s plenty of on-site parking and the venue is wheelchair accessible. For destination weddings to Tasmania it’s common to hire a bus to pick everyone up from their accomodation. - **Accommodation**: There’s no accommodation on-site, but nearby options in Cambridge or Richmond work beautifully or Hobart CBD is only 20 minutes away. - **Best Season**: November to April is peak for vineyard weddings, with long daylight hours and vibrant scenery. The only thing with a Tasmanian summer is the late sunset so talk to your photographer/videographer about timing for golden hour. ![Frogmore Creek](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 699 Richmond Rd, Cambridge TAS 7170 ![Frogmore Creek additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/frogmore_creek_wedding_ceremony_ZnFb9Fezn?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... [View Details](/here/spring-bay-mill) [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) [![Freycinet, Tasmania wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/freycinet) ### Freycinet, Tasmania Australia, Tasmania national parkoutdoorelopement Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather an... [View Details](/here/freycinet) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) [![Panorama Hotel St Helens wedding venue](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_1WgiuN.jpeg)](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Australia, Tasmania hotelcoastalscenic A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a s... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Gabbinbar | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/gabbinbar 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Gabbinbar # Gabbinbar A historic and immaculately maintained homestead and wedding venue in Toowoomba, Queensland, Australia Australia, Southeast Queensland 344 Ramsay Street, Middle Ridge, Toowoomba QLD 4350 [www.gabbinbar.com.au](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au) HomesteadGardenHistoric [Gabbinbar in Toowoomba](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au) is a world-class wedding venue in Southeast Queensland that blends historic charm with modern elegance. Set on a secluded estate with over 150 years of history, Gabbinbar offers couples an exclusive and serene experience from the moment they arrive. Although it’s located not far from the Toowoomba CBD, and only a few hours from [Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant),stepping onto the property feels like you’ve entered a tranquil escape, far removed from the everyday. ![Photo by Ivory Road ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Ivory-and-Rose-Photography-Gabbinbar-Homestead-Wedding-Photography-536_mrAYRnLxt?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) With a team dedicated to excellence—from planners and coordinators to chefs and groundskeepers—Gabbinbar stands out for its unmatched professionalism and heartfelt hospitality. Whether you’re drawn to its sunlit conservatory, the rustic beauty of The Pavilion, or the grandeur of The Governor’s Lawn, this venue offers endless inspiration for your day. ![Photo of the Governor's Lawn ceremony location at Gabbinbar wedding venue in Toowoomba ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Governor_s_Lawn_iLutlOati?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### My Experience Here I’ve been performing wedding ceremonies at [Gabbinbar](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gabbinbar_Homestead) since they opened their doors to weddings in 2012. In that time, I’ve been part of so many [unique wedding celebrations](/brisbane-christian-celebrant) here. It’s not just the picturesque setting or the versatility of the spaces that makes this venue special—it’s the people. Gabbinbar’s team are the best in the business: kind, professional, calm under pressure, and genuinely passionate about making your day unforgettable. If I had to choose only one venue to work at for the rest of my career, Gabbinbar would be it. It’s an honour to be [one of their recommended celebrants](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au/ideas-and-inspiration/10-of-the-best-brisbane-marriage-celebrants) and I think you’ll enjoy [my Wed.co podcast episode](/wedco-podcast) [we recorded there](https://www.instagram.com/p/DAA-AMeScIF/?locale=fr_CA&hl=am-et) as well. ![Gabbinbar Ceremony Venue Option ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Gabbinbar_20_Jan_2022-06_VrXElfzP0?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### Venue Highlights - Historic homestead established in 1863 - Multiple ceremony and reception spaces including The Pavilion, The Conservatory, The Woods, Governor’s Lawn, Cedar Lawn and Homestead Lawn for an Outdoor Reception - Beautifully maintained gardens and towering old trees - Exclusive use of the entire estate for your wedding day - Five-star service from a highly experienced team - On-site bridal retreat for preparation and relaxation - Excellent all-weather options - Amazing [360° virtual tour available online](https://gabbinbar.youtour.com.au) ![Gabbinbar Homestead aerial shot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Gabbinbar2021-02_CEVZZspqK?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### Planning Tips - Seasonal beauty: Gabbinbar shines in every season—lush in summer, golden in autumn, fresh in spring, and cozy in winter. - Toowoomba weather: Can get chilly in winter—plan for warm wraps or heaters if you’re outdoors. - Sunset times: Coordinate ceremony timing with sunset for golden hour photos—ask the team, they know the perfect window. - Accommodation: Toowoomba has plenty of boutique and hotel options nearby; book early, especially during festival season. - Transport: Although there is ample on-site parking consider a shuttle bus for guests staying in town so they enjoy a consisten and on-time experience. - Photography: The entire property is a photographer’s dream, from tree-lined paths to heritage interiors. There’s a range of different ceremony lcoations and portrait photo locations. - Take the tour: Their [360° virtual tour](https://gabbinbar.youtour.com.au) is an amazing planning tool—walk through it with your planner and photographer. ![Gabbinbar](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Homestead_1_52S4s2ZzW?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 344 Ramsay Street, Middle Ridge, Toowoomba QLD 4350 ![Gabbinbar additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Myles_Kelly-27_UUyIRU2rh?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Southeast Queensland [![The Old Dairy Maleny wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/old_dairy_maleny_1yPu0qo7A?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/old-dairy) ### The Old Dairy Maleny Australia, Southeast Queensland hinterlandluxurybarn A pristine, purpose-built wedding venue in the Sunshine Coast hinterland with sweeping views, space to celebrate, and A+... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... [convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) [View Details](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/mcguigan-house) [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... 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[View Details](/here/bendooley) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Greyleigh | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/greyleigh-estate 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Greyleigh # Greyleigh Luxury 200-acre Kiama hinterland wedding venue with ocean views, converted dairy silos, five event spaces and exclusive farmhouse accommodation. Australia, South Coast, New South Wales 165-177 Long Brush Road, Jerrara NSW 2533 [www.greyleigh.com.au](https://www.greyleigh.com.au) estatebarngardenfarmhouseluxury Greyleigh is one of those venues you find and immediately hope no one else discovers. Set on 200 acres of private countryside in the [Kiama](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kiama,_New_South_Wales) hinterland on the NSW South Coast, this restored 1800s working dairy farm has been transformed into one of the most stunning wedding venues in the state — blending heritage rural charm with seriously luxurious design. What makes Greyleigh genuinely special is the rare combination of country and coast. Rolling green hills flow down toward ocean views of Kiama beach, with the Illawarra escarpment as a dramatic backdrop. The property features five distinct event spaces, a 100-year-old fig tree, heritage fruit orchards, converted concrete silos turned cocktail lounges, and luxury farmhouse accommodation — all yours exclusively for the weekend. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - 200-acre private estate with exclusive hire and country-to-ocean views - **The Gables** — a restored 1800s dairy shed as the main indoor reception venue, with original concrete silos converted into cocktail lounges with fire pits (up to 150 seated / 250 standing) - **The Secret Garden** — a tree-lined aisle and enchanted garden ceremony space with ocean views (up to 100 seated / 200 standing) - **The Lawn** — panoramic open-air space with historic stone walls and a 100-year-old fig tree (up to 250 guests) - **The Orchard** — heritage fruit trees over 100 years old, ideal for long table dinners (up to 100 seated) - **The Gazebo** — an intimate space under a Cape Chestnut tree (up to 50 seated) - On-site luxury accommodation sleeping up to 18 across The Homestead (12) and The Guest House (6) - Swimming pool with cabana, spa room, outdoor woodfire pizza oven - Farm animals on the property — cows, alpacas, Shetland ponies - Full-service catering with seasonal menus sourced from on-site gardens and local South Coast growers ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who want the “wow factor” — a venue that genuinely makes guests gasp when they arrive. Greyleigh suits a huge range, from intimate 50-person celebrations in The Gazebo or Orchard to grand 250-guest weddings across The Lawn. The five distinct event spaces mean you can design a wedding day that flows through different settings. It’s ideal for couples who want rustic heritage charm but with luxury design and modern comfort. **The vibe**: Country-meets-coast luxe. Heritage farmland that’s been elevated to something extraordinary — think converted dairy silos with fire pits, cocktails by the pool, ceremonies overlooking the ocean, and dinner in a restored 1800s barn with designer interiors. It’s simultaneously rustic and refined. The farm animals (alpacas, Shetland ponies, cows) add genuine character. Voted Best South Coast Wedding Venue 2024 — and you can see why. **Getting there**: About 2 hours south of Sydney CBD via the Princes Motorway, in the hinterland just behind Kiama. Sydney Airport (SYD) is the nearest major airport at about 2 hours. Illawarra Regional Airport is closer but has limited commercial flights. The drive down the coast is pleasant and well-signed. Guest transport for the evening is essential — the venue is rural, and there’s no rideshare in Jerrara. **Where guests stay**: 18 guests sleep on-site across The Homestead (12) and The Guest House (6) — both must be booked together for exclusive use, with a two-night minimum. For everyone else, Kiama (10 min) is the ideal base — a beautiful coastal town with boutique hotels, B&Bs, holiday rentals, excellent restaurants, and genuine charm. Gerringong (15 min) and Berry (25 min) also have great options. **Nearby amenities**: Kiama is one of the best town bases for a wedding weekend anywhere on the South Coast. The famous Blowhole, rock pools, coastal walks, cafes, restaurants, pubs, and breweries are all within minutes. Guests can easily fill a weekend — swim at Cathedral Rocks, walk the coastal path, lunch at a Kiama cafe, explore Berry. It’s a genuine destination, not just a venue. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide Kiama’s coastal position gives Greyleigh a mild, temperate climate — moderated by the ocean to the east and sheltered by the escarpment to the west. It’s one of the more weather-forgiving venues on this list. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Warm days averaging 24–26°C with ocean breezes keeping it comfortable. February is the wettest month (~130mm) with the highest humidity (~78%). Long summer evenings are perfect for outdoor celebrations — the pool and cabana are a genuine bonus for wedding weekend guests. Late afternoon storms can roll in from the ocean. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: Arguably the best season. Days around 20–23°C, lower humidity, beautiful golden light across the rolling hills. Drier and more reliable than summer. The countryside views from The Lawn are spectacular in the warm afternoon light. April and May are wedding photographer gold. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Mild for winter — days around 15–16°C, nights 9–10°C. Rainfall at its lowest (~52mm in July). Cool but rarely cold thanks to the coastal influence. The Gables provides a warm, atmospheric indoor reception space. A good off-peak option with lower costs and reliable dry weather. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: Fresh and increasingly warm, from 17°C to 23°C. The estate greens up beautifully. Humidity at its lowest in September (~66%). A lovely time for outdoor ceremonies with reliable weather before the summer rain pattern kicks in. **The key thing to know**: The ocean influence means Greyleigh rarely gets the extremes you’d find inland — it’s not as hot in summer and not as cold in winter as venues like Mona Farm or Somerley House. The Gables provides a solid wet weather backup, so rain doesn’t ruin anything. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: 50 to 250 guests depending on space configuration. The Gables is the main indoor reception (150 seated), The Lawn handles up to 250. - **Exclusive use**: Two-night minimum stay (three nights on public holidays). Both houses must be booked together. - **Move through the spaces**: Ceremony in the Secret Garden, canapes in the silos, reception in the Gables, late-night in the Orchard — this flow is one of the best things about the venue. - **Dog-friendly**: Dogs are welcome with conditions — must be on leash and away from farm animals. - **Photography**: Country-to-ocean views, heritage architecture, the fig tree, converted silos, rolling paddocks — every corner is a backdrop. - **Transport**: Guest transport is recommended for the evening. Kiama is only 10 minutes away for pickup/drop-off. ![Greyleigh](/_astro/greyleigh-estate.DJ07gAWV_Z3RBHN.jpeg) 165-177 Long Brush Road, Jerrara NSW 2533 ## More venues in South Coast, New South Wales [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... 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[www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Gunners’ Barracks | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/gunners-barracks 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Gunners’ Barracks # Gunners’ Barracks A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service Australia, Sydney End of Suakin Drive, Georges Heights, Mosman NSW 2088 [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) heritageharbourrestaurantgarden Tucked away in the historic precinct of Georges Heights, Mosman, Gunners’ Barracks is one of [Sydney’s most romantic wedding venues](/sydney-celebrant). Overlooking the harbour and surrounded by bushland, it combines 19th-century military architecture with refined elegance. Think sandstone walls, crystal chandeliers, and a grand terrace for ceremonies and receptions alike. Whether you’re dreaming of a garden ceremony, an intimate indoor affair, a [Sydney Christian wedding](/sydney-christian-celebrant), or a moonlit celebration under festoon lights, Gunners’ Barracks offers a timeless backdrop that feels both grand and intimate. ## Venue Highlights - Panoramic views of Sydney Harbour - Ceremony options: sandstone courtyard, Harbour Terrace, or Harbour View Lawn - Indoor reception space with Waterford chandeliers and antique furnishings - Private bridal room onsite - Exclusive venue hire with award-winning food and beverage - Professional staff experienced in running seamless weddings - Heritage-listed building with modern amenities ## Planning Tips - **Weather**: The courtyard is beautiful but exposed — always have a wet-weather backup (they do!). - **Best time of year**: Spring and autumn offer the best balance of light, warmth, and foliage. - **Sunset**: Check the exact time — a sunset ceremony followed by a twilight reception on the terrace is magic. - **Parking**: There’s limited on-site parking. Most guests will arrive by taxi, ride-share, or shuttle. - **Accommodation**: No on-site rooms, but plenty of options in nearby Mosman and Cremorne. - **Access**: The venue is somewhat tucked away — be sure to include clear transport instructions in your invitations. - **Noise restrictions**: Like many heritage venues in Sydney, amplified music must end by 11 pm. ![Gunners’ Barracks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) End of Suakin Drive, Georges Heights, Mosman NSW 2088 ## More venues in Sydney [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/mcguigan-house) [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... [convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) [View Details](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/icelandic-plane-wreck 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck # Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck The iconic, haunting wreck of a US Navy DC-3 plane on Iceland’s Sólheimasandur black sand beach — a surreal and dramatic setting for adventurous elopements. Iceland, Iceland South Coast Sólheimasandur Beach, near Vík í Mýrdal, Iceland elopement locationnatural landscapeadventurous ![Iceland plane wreck elopement with Josh Withers ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/iceland_plane_wreck_elopement_yGfR5CE1-?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The [Sólheimasandur DC-3 plane wreck](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1973_S%C3%B3lheimasandur_Douglas_DC-3_crash) is one of Iceland’s most hauntingly photogenic landmarks — a weathered skeleton of a US Navy aircraft that crash-landed in 1973 and now rests on an endless expanse of black volcanic sand. Remote, windswept, and cinematic, it feels like the edge of the earth — or the set of a post-apocalyptic film. For couples seeking a truly wild and unconventional location to exchange vows, this plane wreck delivers stark beauty, adventure, and drama in equal measure. The contrast of a white fuselage against Iceland’s dark sand and vast skies is breathtaking. But this isn’t an easy-access tourist stop — it’s a pilgrimage. ## My Experience Here When I officiated an elopement at the wreck with [Heart and Colour](https://www.heartandcolour.com) and [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), it was nothing short of a mission. The walk from the roadside to the site is over 3.5 km (about 45–60 minutes each way) across flat but exposed black sand with no shelter from wind, rain, or snow. It’s always cold here — even in July — with a wind that loves to remind you just how far from home you are. Icelandic summer means endless dusk and surreal light that never quite becomes night, while in winter, the sun barely rises at all, offering golden light at noon and nightfall by afternoon. ![Walking to the Sólheimasandur DC-3 Plane Wreck in Iceland for an Elopement with The Elopement Collective, Heart and Colour, and Josh Withers Australian wedding celebrant ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Walking_to_the_plane_wreck_in_Iceland_s69uow7FER?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The biggest challenge wasn’t the walk or the weather — it was the crowd. This place is no secret. But I’m good at what I do, and with a bit of timing, strategy, and maybe a polite-but-determined “hey everyone, can we have two minutes?” — I got the couple onto the wreck for their moment. It was unforgettable. ## Venue Highlights - Iconic abandoned US Navy DC-3 plane in a cinematic black sand landscape - Immense, open skies and moody Icelandic light, especially beautiful at sunrise or sunset - No permits currently required, but respect and low-impact practices are essential - An otherworldly elopement backdrop that feels completely removed from civilisation - Ideal for drone photography and creative adventure wedding content ## Planning Tips - **Prepare for the walk**: It’s a 7–8 km round-trip hike from the designated car park. There are no shuttles or shortcuts — it’s foot access only. - **Dress for the Arctic**: Even in summer, temperatures rarely exceed 10°C (50°F) and the wind chill is real. In winter, it’s brutally cold, icy, and dark. - **Sunset vs. sunrise**: Iceland’s seasons shift dramatically. In summer, the sun sets close to midnight. In winter, you might have just 4–5 hours of usable daylight — plan accordingly. - **Tourist traffic**: It’s a very popular spot. The best chances for privacy are early morning or late evening. Winter tends to be quieter. - **No facilities**: There are no toilets, shelters, or cafés nearby. Bring water, snacks, and extra layers. - **Weather matters**: Conditions change fast. Strong winds, fog, or sudden snow can make the walk dangerous. Always check the forecast and road conditions. ![Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/iceland_dc-3_wedding_QXqkSueGBW?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Sólheimasandur Beach, near Vík í Mýrdal, Iceland ![Sólheimasandur Plane Wreck additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/S%C3%B3lheimasandur_DC-3_Plane_Wreck_elopement_portrait_session_by_Heart_and_Colour_Wedding_Photography_for_The_Elopement_Collective_WdS_SbvDA?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Villa Celimontana, Rome wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/tempio-gotico) ### Villa Celimontana, Rome Italy, Rome gardenhistoricelopement location A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the... [View Details](/here/tempio-gotico) [![Mandrakia Beach, Milos wedding venue](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_Z1TUeGc.jpeg)](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) ### Mandrakia Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalfishing village A tiny waterfront fishing village on Milos, Greece, where colourful syrmata boathouses and the Aegean Sea create an inti... [View Details](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) [![Sarakiniko Beach, Milos wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Sarakiniko_Beach_elopement_on_Milos_Island__Greece__with_The_Elopement_Collective_and_George_Bowden_LMvGr3rMr?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sarakiniko-milos) ### Sarakiniko Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalnatural wonder An iconic lunar-like coastline on Milos Island, Greece — perfect for elopements at golden hour, but best shared with jus... [View Details](/here/sarakiniko-milos) [![DUMBO, New York City wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ollie_and_juliet_2CPcZOsPS?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/dumbo) ### DUMBO, New York City USA, New York City UrbanElopement A moody-meets-magical New York City elopement location tucked beneath the Manhattan Bridge in Brooklyn. [View Details](/here/dumbo) [![Ponomakena Sanctuary wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_celebrant_egN0BBmbT?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/ponomakena) ### Ponomakena Sanctuary USA, Hawaii outdoorprivate estateoceanfront Oceanfront Maui estate with over three acres of lush, tropical grounds, panoramic sea views, and a laid-back luxury vibe... [View Details](/here/ponomakena) [![Caversham House wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_celebrant_BhiDi2VWy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/caversham-house) ### Caversham House Australia, Perth gardenestateformal A formal and elegant wedding venue just outside Perth, Caversham House is renowned for its manicured gardens, riverside ... [www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) [View Details](/here/caversham-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Mandrakia Beach, Milos | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/mandrakia-beach-milos 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Mandrakia Beach, Milos # Mandrakia Beach, Milos A tiny waterfront fishing village on Milos, Greece, where colourful syrmata boathouses and the Aegean Sea create an intimate elopement setting. Greece, Milos Mandrakia, Milos 848 00, Greece elopementcoastalfishing village Mandrakia is a tiny fishing village on the north coast of Milos. Its traditional **syrmata** — fishermen’s boathouses built into the rock at the water’s edge — are marked by colourful doors around a compact natural harbour. ## A Mandrakia elopement The village suits a genuinely small ceremony: the harbour, working boats, surrounding rock and Aegean views are the setting. There is no need to dress it up. Mandrakia is also home to [Medusa](https://medusamilos.gr/), the well-known waterfront restaurant overlooking the village. It makes an easy nearby stop before or after an intimate ceremony. ## Planning thoughtfully - Keep the group small and respect the village as a working waterfront and residential place. - Expect exposed coastal conditions and choose clothing and footwear accordingly. - Plan timing around the light, other visitors and ordinary harbour activity. - Continue to nearby Sarakiniko if you want a second, dramatically different Milos landscape for portraits. ![Mandrakia Beach, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_Z1sa1Yi.jpeg) Mandrakia, Milos 848 00, Greece ![Mandrakia Beach, Milos additional view](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-17.IWYn5S9A_1t7Ytu.jpeg) Real wedding stories ## Wedding stories featuring Mandrakia Beach, Milos - [![Josh Withers officiating Tiegan and Michael’s waterfront elopement ceremony in Mandrakia, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-13.DDn5wyh9_1AAg8a.jpeg) Ceremony venue ### Tiegan & Michael “He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural.” Read their story → ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) ## More venues in Milos [![Sarakiniko Beach, Milos wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Sarakiniko_Beach_elopement_on_Milos_Island__Greece__with_The_Elopement_Collective_and_George_Bowden_LMvGr3rMr?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sarakiniko-milos) ### Sarakiniko Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalnatural wonder An iconic lunar-like coastline on Milos Island, Greece — perfect for elopements at golden hour, but best shared with jus... [View Details](/here/sarakiniko-milos) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Villa Celimontana, Rome wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/tempio-gotico) ### Villa Celimontana, Rome Italy, Rome gardenhistoricelopement location A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the... 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[View Details](/here/dumbo) [![Caversham House wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_celebrant_BhiDi2VWy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/caversham-house) ### Caversham House Australia, Perth gardenestateformal A formal and elegant wedding venue just outside Perth, Caversham House is renowned for its manicured gardens, riverside ... [www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) [View Details](/here/caversham-house) [![Ponomakena Sanctuary wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_celebrant_egN0BBmbT?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/ponomakena) ### Ponomakena Sanctuary USA, Hawaii outdoorprivate estateoceanfront Oceanfront Maui estate with over three acres of lush, tropical grounds, panoramic sea views, and a laid-back luxury vibe... [View Details](/here/ponomakena) [![Sandridge Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_tasmania__0u4CSlkA?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sandridge-estate) ### Sandridge Estate Australia, Tasmania bushchapelrustic An enchanting bushland wedding venue in Tasmania’s north-west with an outdoor chapel that feels like magic. [sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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McGuigan House # McGuigan House Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured gardens. Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales 982 Hermitage Road, Pokolbin NSW 2320 [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) estatevineyardgardenluxury McGuigan House is one of the Hunter Valley’s newest and most anticipated wedding venues — a luxury private estate on Hermitage Road in the heart of [Pokolbin](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pokolbin,_New_South_Wales) wine country. Transformed from a historic family home into a distinguished event venue, it combines timeless architecture with contemporary design, set among sprawling vineyards and manicured gardens. Designed in collaboration with renowned Australian architects, interior designers, and landscapers, every detail of McGuigan House has been crafted with intention. It’s grand without being pretentious, luxurious without being cold — the kind of venue where the setting does the heavy lifting and your celebration simply fits. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - Luxury private estate in the heart of Hunter Valley wine country on iconic Hermitage Road - Sprawling vineyards and manicured gardens throughout the property - Grand architectural elements blended with contemporary design - Multiple elegant indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception spaces - On-site luxury accommodation for a destination wedding weekend - Capacity from intimate gatherings of 25 to grand celebrations of up to 300 guests - Exclusive private bookings — the venue is entirely yours ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who want a grand, luxurious celebration in Australia’s most famous wine region. McGuigan House has the widest capacity range of any venue on this list — from intimate 25-guest gatherings to 300-guest celebrations — making it genuinely versatile. If you want vineyard views, architectural elegance, and the Hunter Valley lifestyle wrapped into one venue, this is it. It’s also one of the newest venues here, so it’s fresh, contemporary, and in immaculate condition. **The vibe**: Luxury wine country estate. This is where contemporary design meets heritage charm — think architectural grandeur, vineyard panoramas, and a level of finish that feels high-end without being sterile. It’s more polished and contemporary than rustic barn venues, but warmer and more personal than a hotel ballroom. Suits couples who appreciate design, wine, and entertaining on a grand scale. **Getting there**: About 2 hours north of Sydney CBD via the M1 motorway and Hunter Expressway — a well-established route that’s easy to drive. Newcastle Airport (NTL) is about 45 minutes away with domestic flights from most major cities, making this one of the most accessible venues for interstate guests. Sydney Airport (SYD) is about 2.5 hours. The venue is on Hermitage Road, the main wine country strip — so it’s well-signed and easy to find, not hidden down a dirt road. **Where guests stay**: Luxury on-site accommodation is available for the wedding party. For guests, the Hunter Valley has the deepest accommodation pool of any wedding region in NSW — from luxury resorts and boutique hotels to budget motels and Airbnbs, all within a 10–20 minute drive. Pokolbin, Cessnock, and Lovedale are the closest towns. Unlike more remote venues, accommodation is never a problem here. **Nearby amenities**: This is the Hunter Valley’s greatest strength as a wedding destination. Hermitage Road alone has world-class wineries, cellar doors, and restaurants. The broader region offers cheese tastings, chocolate shops, day spas, hot air ballooning, golf, and horse riding. Your guests can fill an entire weekend without repeating anything. Recovery brunches at a nearby winery are practically compulsory. The Hunter Valley is Australia’s original wine region — it knows how to host visitors. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide The Hunter Valley is inland and low-lying, so it experiences warm to hot summers and mild winters. It’s generally warmer and drier than Sydney, with wide daily temperature swings. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Hot. Days regularly reach 30–35°C, with January averaging 33°C. February is the wettest month (~107mm). Humidity is moderate. Summer weddings work but require planning — late afternoon or evening ceremonies, shade for guests, and good airflow in reception spaces. The upside is long, warm evenings and the vines at their lushest green. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: The Hunter Valley’s hero season and peak wedding time. Days around 22–27°C dropping to 17–20°C by May. Lower rainfall, lower humidity, and the vineyards turn golden as harvest season unfolds. This is wine country at its most photogenic. March can still be warm, but April–May are consistently beautiful. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Pleasant days of 16–18°C, cool nights dropping to 4–6°C. Driest time of year (~39mm in July). Fog can settle in the valley in the mornings, creating a dramatic, moody atmosphere that clears to reveal blue skies. Winter weddings in the Hunter are underrated — comfortable during the day, atmospheric in the evening, and more affordable. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: Warm and vibrant. Days from 22°C to 28°C with green vines, wildflowers, and jacarandas. Rainfall increases. A beautiful season, though October–November can see early summer heat. Gardens and vineyards are fresh and photogenic. **The key thing to know**: Summer in the Hunter Valley can be properly hot — 35°C+ is not unusual. If you’re planning a summer wedding, timing matters. Autumn is the safe bet — it’s why the Hunter is one of Australia’s most sought-after autumn wedding destinations. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: Flexible from 25 to 300 guests — one of the widest ranges of any NSW venue. - **Availability**: Available for exclusive private bookings from early 2026, with 2027 and 2028 dates filling fast — book early. - **Wine country setting**: You’re on Hermitage Road — surrounded by some of Australia’s best wineries. Make the most of it for guest activities, rehearsal dinners, or recovery lunches. - **Transport**: Most Hunter Valley venues benefit from organised guest transport. There are excellent local bus and car services established for the wine tourism industry. - **Photography**: Vineyards, gardens, and the architectural details of the house itself provide an incredible range of backdrops. Autumn harvest season is the most photogenic time. ![McGuigan House](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_1RJ5Xc.jpeg) 982 Hermitage Road, Pokolbin NSW 2320 ## More venues in Hunter Valley, New South Wales [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... 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[convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) [View Details](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... 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[www.greyleigh.com.au](https://www.greyleigh.com.au) [View Details](/here/greyleigh-estate) [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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The Merribee # The Merribee Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the South Coast. Australia, South Coast, New South Wales Comerong Island Road, Numbaa NSW 2540 [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) gardenbarnestate The Merribee is one of those venues that makes you stop and stare. Set on 7 acres of meticulously maintained gardens in Numbaa, just outside Nowra on the NSW [South Coast](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Coast_\(New_South_Wales\)), this 19th-century farmhouse and its extraordinary grounds are a garden lover’s paradise turned wedding venue. What sets The Merribee apart is the sheer variety of its outdoor spaces — 30 separate garden rooms connected by over two kilometres of granite paths, each with its own character and charm. Seasonal vegetables, herbs, fruits, extensive flowering plants, manicured hedges, and towering trees create a living, breathing backdrop that changes with the seasons and rewards every photograph. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - 7 acres of stunning farm grounds and manicured gardens - **30 separate outdoor garden rooms** connected by 2+ kilometres of granite paths - **The Barn** — a 160 sqm timber and corrugated iron reception space with trestle tables, bentwood chairs, crockery, cutlery, linen, and lighting included - 19th-century farmhouse with character and charm - On-site accommodation for up to 20 guests - Gardens featuring seasonal vegetables, herbs, fruits, and extensive flowering plants - Multiple indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception options ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who love gardens, nature, and outdoor beauty — and want a venue with genuine character rather than a blank canvas. The Merribee suits mid-to-large weddings of 80–140 guests perfectly, with The Barn providing a ready-made reception space complete with furniture, crockery, and lighting. If you want a venue where the gardens do the styling for you, this is it. **The vibe**: Garden party meets rustic barn charm. There’s a handmade, artisan quality to The Merribee that feels personal rather than polished. The 30 distinct garden rooms mean every couple’s ceremony feels different, and the timber and corrugated iron Barn for the reception has a warm, convivial atmosphere. It’s the kind of venue that suits couples who’d rather long table dinners and garden cocktails over formal ballrooms. **Getting there**: About 2 hours south of Sydney CBD via the Princes Highway, in the Shoalhaven near Nowra. Sydney Airport (SYD) is the nearest major airport at around 2–2.5 hours’ drive. The venue is in a rural setting at Numbaa, just outside Nowra — there’s no public transport, so guest buses or organised transport is essential for the evening. **Where guests stay**: 20 guests can stay on-site in the accommodation units. For everyone else, Nowra (10 min) has a range of hotels and motels, while Berry (20 min) is the more charming option with boutique B&Bs, holiday rentals, and excellent cafes and restaurants. **Nearby amenities**: Nowra is the closest town for essentials. Berry (20 min) is the destination town guests will enjoy — it’s a village full of excellent cafes, bakeries, boutiques, and pubs. Jervis Bay (30 min) has stunning beaches for a pre- or post-wedding beach day. Shoalhaven wineries and breweries are scattered throughout the region. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide The Shoalhaven coast is mild year-round with warm summers and cool winters. The gardens at The Merribee transform dramatically with the seasons — which is part of their magic. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Warm days of 25–28°C. February is the wettest month (~125mm). Humidity can build, and summer storms can roll in. The gardens are lush and green, and long evenings mean outdoor receptions on the verandah work beautifully. Plan for shade during daytime ceremonies. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: The photographer’s dream season. Days around 20–23°C, drier and more comfortable. The garden tones shift to warm golds and russets. April and May are particularly reliable for outdoor ceremonies. Many wedding photographers will tell you this is the best time to shoot at The Merribee. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Cool but not harsh. Days around 15–17°C, nights 7–8°C. Lowest rainfall (~49mm in July). The gardens take on a quieter, structural beauty — bare branches, evergreen hedges, frost on the lawns. The Barn is cosy for receptions. A good off-peak option. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: When The Merribee is at its absolute best. The gardens explode into bloom — flowering plants, fruit trees, herbs, and vegetables all at their peak. Days warm from 18°C to 24°C. This is the season the gardeners have been working toward, and it shows. October–November is prime time. **The key thing to know**: The gardens are the star of this venue. Spring and autumn maximise their impact. If the gardens matter to you (and they should — it’s why you’re here), choose your season carefully. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: The Barn seats up to 140 guests inside with room for another 40 on the verandah. - **Garden ceremonies**: With 30 distinct garden rooms, walk the property with your planner to find the one that speaks to you. - **The Barn inclusions**: Tables, chairs, crockery, cutlery, linen, and lighting are all included — which can save significantly on hire costs. - **Photography**: Allow generous time in your schedule for portraits. Every path, hedge, and garden room is a new backdrop. - **Transport**: Guest buses are recommended for the evening — rideshare options are limited in rural Numbaa. ![The Merribee](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_Z1NUFRM.jpeg) Comerong Island Road, Numbaa NSW 2540 ## More venues in South Coast, New South Wales [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... 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[www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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Mona Farm # Mona Farm Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a restored Wool Shed. Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales 140 Little River Road, Braidwood NSW 2622 [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) estategardenhistoricart Mona Farm is not your typical wedding venue — it’s a 124-acre luxury estate where heritage architecture, award-winning gardens, and contemporary art collide in the most spectacular way. Located in [Braidwood](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Braidwood,_New_South_Wales), about two and a half hours from Sydney, this destination property offers the kind of refined, bespoke wedding experience that simply doesn’t exist at most venues. The estate features 8 acres of magnificent Brownian-style gardens, wildflower meadows, a restored Wool Shed and Chapel, and a diverse collection of Australian and international modern art and sculpture woven throughout the historic buildings and grounds. Every corner tells a story, and no two weddings here are ever the same. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - 124-acre luxury destination estate with 8 acres of award-winning gardens - Multiple ceremony locations throughout the grounds — both signature and premium settings - **The Wool Shed** — a beautifully restored reception space with genuine heritage character - **The Chapel** — an intimate ceremony option on the estate - Seven historic guest houses with luxury accommodation, including The Homestead (5 king bedrooms, sleeps 12) - Diverse collection of Australian and international modern art and sculpture throughout - Brownian landscape gardens, wildflower meadows, and sculptured grounds - Dedicated wedding planning team from booking to the day ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who want something genuinely different — where art, history, and landscape collide in a way that no other venue can replicate. Mona Farm suits couples who value curation and design, who want their wedding to feel like an experience rather than an event. It’s ideal for destination wedding weekends with seven guest houses on-site, and works beautifully for intimate celebrations through to larger gatherings. **The vibe**: Refined, artistic, and quietly luxurious. This isn’t rustic farmland or a grand ballroom — it’s a curated estate where heritage buildings house contemporary art, wildflower meadows meet manicured Brownian gardens, and the restored Wool Shed provides a reception space with genuine soul. It’s the venue for couples who care about aesthetics but want warmth, not pretension. If you love gallery weekends and country escapes in equal measure, this is your place. **Getting there**: About 2.5 hours south of Sydney CBD, or just 1 hour east of Canberra — making Canberra Airport (CBR) the closest major airport and a genuinely convenient option for interstate guests. Sydney Airport (SYD) is 2.5–3 hours. The drive from either city is scenic through the Southern Tablelands. Braidwood itself is on the Kings Highway between Canberra and the coast. **Where guests stay**: Seven historic guest houses on the property provide luxury accommodation — from couple-sized cottages to The Homestead which sleeps 12 across 5 king bedrooms. This means a significant number of your guests can stay on-site, which is rare and special. For overflow, the town of Braidwood (10 min) has boutique B&Bs, pubs with rooms, and holiday rentals. It’s a small town, so book early. **Nearby amenities**: Braidwood is a heritage-listed town and a destination in its own right. Excellent cafes (Braidwood has a surprisingly good food scene for a small town), historic pubs, antique shops, and the famous Braidwood Bakery. It’s the kind of place guests genuinely enjoy exploring. The coast at Batemans Bay is about 45 minutes east. Canberra’s restaurants, galleries, and nightlife are an hour west. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide Braidwood sits at 666m elevation on the Southern Tablelands — significantly cooler than Sydney or the coast year-round, with cold winters and comfortable summers. This is a four-season climate. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Comfortable by NSW standards — days averaging 24–28°C, cooler than Sydney or the coast. Evenings drop to 12–14°C. Moderate rainfall. Summer here is genuinely pleasant for outdoor weddings, without the oppressive heat of lower-lying areas. This is a real advantage over coastal or inland valley venues in peak summer. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: Beautiful. Days around 17–22°C, crisp mornings, golden light. Lower rainfall and clear skies. The estate gardens and wildflower meadows shift to warm tones. April is often the most reliable month for weather. Evenings cool quickly — guests will need jackets. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Cold. Expect daytime maximums of 10–13°C and overnight lows near freezing (0–3°C). Frost is common. Clear, dramatic skies. Winter weddings at Mona Farm are intimate and atmospheric — the Wool Shed with its heritage character feels especially warm against the cold landscape outside. Not for everyone, but deeply romantic for the right couple. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: The gardens come into their own. Days warming from 15°C to 22°C, with wildflower meadows peaking. Rainfall increases through the season (~110mm in November). Fresh, green, and optimistic. October–November is a sweet spot before summer. **The key thing to know**: Braidwood is properly cold in winter — not “Sydney cold” but actual cold. Frost, single-digit mornings, the works. This is a feature for some couples (winter Wool Shed weddings are magical) but something all guests need to be prepared for. Summer, by contrast, is one of the most comfortable in NSW. ## Planning Tips - **Bespoke approach**: Mona Farm prides itself on no two weddings being the same. Work with their planning team to create something truly personal. - **Multi-day celebrations**: With seven guest houses on the property, this venue is designed for destination wedding weekends. Arrival dinners, the wedding day, and farewell brunches all flow naturally here. - **Art and photography**: The contemporary art collection and sculpture throughout the grounds provide genuinely unique photo opportunities — nothing staged or generic. - **Canberra connection**: If you have interstate guests, Canberra Airport is only an hour away — significantly closer than Sydney. This makes Mona Farm one of the most accessible “destination” venues in NSW. - **Transport**: Guest transport to and from Braidwood is recommended. The drive from Canberra is easy; from Sydney, it’s scenic but long. ![Mona Farm](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_Z2uoQf.jpeg) 140 Little River Road, Braidwood NSW 2622 ## More venues in Southern Highlands, New South Wales [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... 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Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun # Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun A beautiful farm wedding venue in Northern Tasmania, near Penguin, with a Farm-to-Table restaurant and onsite accomodation plus a large reception hall. Australia, Tasmania 886 Ironcliffe Rd, Penguin TAS 7316, Australia [mountgnomonfarm.com.au](https://mountgnomonfarm.com.au) FarmOutdoor [Mount Gnomon Farm](https://mountgnomonfarm.com.au), nestled in the lush landscapes of [Penguin, Tasmania](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penguin,_Tasmania), offers a wedding venue that seamlessly blends rustic charm with modern elegance. Set against the breathtaking Dial Range and overlooking a cider orchard with sea views, the farm provides a picturesque backdrop for both ceremonies and receptions. This [Tasmanian](/tasmanian-celebrant) venue boasts a spacious barn with a 250-seat capacity, making it one of the largest and most spectacular venues in North-West Tasmania. The farm’s commitment to sustainability is evident in its farm-to-table cuisine, featuring seasonal produce grown on-site, and its eco-friendly accommodations. ![Hayley and Steve wedding portraits at Penguin’s Mount Gnomnom Farm ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_gnomnom_farm_penguin_tMqw9m4Jf?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Hayley and Steve shared about their experience with me as their [celebrant](/hobart-celebrant) there: > Thank you for being such an incredible marriage celebrant for our special day. From the very first meeting via FaceTime, you made us feel comfortable and understood our vision for the ceremony perfectly. Your warmth, professionalism, and attention to detail were exactly what we were looking for. > One of the things we absolutely loved was that nothing felt scripted. The way you spoke from the heart and made the ceremony feel so natural and authentic was truly special. It made the whole experience even more personal and meaningful, and we received countless compliments from our guests on how unique and heartfelt the ceremony was. > You truly made our day unforgettable, and we’re so grateful for the way you brought your personal touch to everything. We highly recommend you to anyone looking for a celebrant who can bring not only professionalism but also a genuine, unscripted touch to their ceremony. Their heartfelt words highlight the importance of a celebrant like me who can deliver a ceremony that feels both personal and genuine, qualities that align perfectly with the ethos of Mount Gnomon Farm. ![Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mt-gnomgnom-farm_3g3IPrLk1?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 886 Ironcliffe Rd, Penguin TAS 7316, Australia ![Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-mount-gnomnom_q4KhBvChx?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Sandridge Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_tasmania__0u4CSlkA?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sandridge-estate) ### Sandridge Estate Australia, Tasmania bushchapelrustic An enchanting bushland wedding venue in Tasmania’s north-west with an outdoor chapel that feels like magic. 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[monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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Old Mount Stromlo Observatory # Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosmic history with beautiful bushland. Australia, Canberrra 233 Mount Stromlo Rd, Canberrra, Australian Capital Territory 2611 [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly There are wedding venues… and then there are places where you feel like you’re standing on the edge of the universe. [Mount Stromlo](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mount_Stromlo_Observatory)’s old observatory destroyed in the [2003 bushfires](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2003_Canberra_bushfires), just outside Canberra, is one of those places. Originally built in 1924 and tragically damaged by bushfires in 2003, the ruins of the original observatory now serve as a breathtakingly atmospheric backdrop for open-air wedding ceremonies. With a mix of science, history, and natural beauty, Mount Stromlo offers something rare: a setting that feels both grand and grounded, timeless and personal. ## My Experience Here I had the privilege of marrying Mikaela and Dillon here on April 24, 2024, in a small, intimate elopement ceremony with 16 of their nearest and dearest. > “Josh, our celebrant, was fantastic, passionate and demonstrated a deep commitment to ensuring we had the perfect moment to celebrate us… He gave a beautiful speech about love and marriage and moved aside at various moments throughout the ceremony to allow us to have our moment together, and make it so beautiful and personal. It was the most perfect day and we cannot stop talking about it, and neither can our families…” > — Mikaela & Dillon The old observatory itself made for a stunning ceremony location — surrounded by bushland, open skies, and the sense of standing on sacred scientific ground. As the light shifted into golden hour, the portraits taken in the ruins and on the surrounding lawns were simply next level. ## Venue Highlights - The original Mount Stromlo Observatory ruins create a dramatic and historic ceremony space - Surrounded by native bushland and panoramic views over Canberra - Beautiful soft light in the late afternoon — ideal for photography - A peaceful and private setting that feels worlds away (but is only a short drive from town) - Great for intimate elopements and small weddings with a deep sense of meaning ## Planning Tips - 🛏 **Accommodation**: Stay in Canberra — it’s nearby and full of great hotel options - 🚗 **Transport**: Ubers and taxis can access the venue, but parking on-site is limited, so plan accordingly - 🌇 **Best time of day**: Late afternoon or golden hour ceremonies work beautifully here — sunset views from the ridge are magical - ✨ **Night weddings?** Not ideal — while stargazing fits the venue’s legacy, it’s not lit for evening events - 📸 **Photography**: The surrounding ruins and mountain backdrop are made for creative photos — bring a photographer who knows how to use light and shadow - 💡 **Theme or styling ideas**: Minimalist florals work well here — let the space speak for itself. Or lean into the astronomy vibe with celestial details and a cosmic colour palette --- If you’re a couple who dreams under stars, loves a bit of quiet grandeur, or just wants to say “I do” in a place unlike anywhere else, Mount Stromlo might just be your perfect orbit. ![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/old_mount_stromlo_wedding_pz9d4yf9w?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 233 Mount Stromlo Rd, Canberrra, Australian Capital Territory 2611 ![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_canberra_celebrant_Nyap0ycbr?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Canberrra [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... 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[thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) [View Details](/here/the-grounds) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at The Old Dairy Maleny | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/old-dairy 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. The Old Dairy Maleny # The Old Dairy Maleny A pristine, purpose-built wedding venue in the Sunshine Coast hinterland with sweeping views, space to celebrate, and A+ hospitality. Australia, Southeast Queensland 621 Landsborough Maleny Rd, Maleny QLD 4552 [theolddairymaleny.com.au](https://theolddairymaleny.com.au) hinterlandluxurybarn The Old Dairy [Maleny](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maleny,_Queensland) is what happens when someone dreams up the perfect Sunshine Coast hinterland venue—and then actually builds it. Elevated above rolling hills and lush rainforest, it offers wide-open views, spacious ceremony and reception areas, and the kind of layout that’s been designed with real weddings in mind and a joy for this [Brisbane Celebrant](/brisbane-christian-celebrant). It’s not just beautiful. It’s intentional, immaculate, and a pleasure to work at. If you’re planning a big wedding and want a venue that feels clean, expansive, and exceptionally well looked after, this is the one. There’s space to breathe, space to celebrate, and views you’ll be talking about for years. ## My Experience Here I was genuinely taken aback the first time I [officiated a wedding here](/brisbane-celebrant). It’s so beautiful—honestly breathtaking—and so well run. In a region filled with charming venues, this one stands out as the cleanest, most polished, and best maintained. I’ve seen them all, and The Old Dairy is in a league of its own. ## Venue Highlights - Exclusive-use venue with space for up to 90 guests - Purpose-built ceremony site with panoramic hinterland views - Reception barn with timber finishes, warm lighting, and plenty of room to move - The Bell Tower: perfect for intimate ceremonies or elopements - Bath House with Finnish sauna and spa—ideal for pre- or post-wedding wind-downs - Open lawns, firepit area, and outdoor pizza oven for relaxed vibes - Onsite team that runs things beautifully without getting in the way ## Planning Tips - **Best for big weddings**: The layout is perfect for larger celebrations—there’s room to host comfortably without ever feeling cramped. - **Cleanest venue around**: No exaggeration—this is the best maintained venue in the region. If that matters to you (and it should), you’ll love it. - **Sunset**: You’ll get stunning light across the ridge late in the day—ceremony timing around 3:30–4:00pm usually hits the mark. - **Weather**: Hinterland weather can shift quickly—while most days are perfect, always have a wet-weather plan. Thankfully, the reception barn transitions easily. - **Access**: Located just outside Maleny, it’s easy to reach and well signposted. There’s ample onsite parking, but many couples still organise guest transport. - **Vibe**: Upscale but not uptight. You can have a luxurious celebration without it feeling forced or too formal. ![The Old Dairy Maleny](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/old_dairy_maleny_1yPu0qo7A?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 621 Landsborough Maleny Rd, Maleny QLD 4552 ## More venues in Southeast Queensland [![Gabbinbar wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Homestead_1_52S4s2ZzW?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gabbinbar) ### Gabbinbar Australia, Southeast Queensland HomesteadGardenHistoric A historic and immaculately maintained homestead and wedding venue in Toowoomba, Queensland, Australia [www.gabbinbar.com.au](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au) [View Details](/here/gabbinbar) [![Byron Bay Lighthouse wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tori-jake-byronbay_P6ykwqSid?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) ### Byron Bay Lighthouse Australia, Byron Bay BeachLandmarkOutdoor A stunning clifftop venue overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where I've created intimate ceremonies with breathtaking views. [View Details](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) [![Deux Belettes wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/deux_belletes_wT69P5JSI?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/deux-belettes) ### Deux Belettes Australia, Byron Bay chateaugardenprivate estate A romantic French-style chateau in the Byron Bay hinterland, surrounded by fig trees, stone walls, and elegance — a drea... [www.deuxbelettes.com](https://www.deuxbelettes.com) [View Details](/here/deux-belettes) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... [convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) [View Details](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/mcguigan-house) [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... [thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) [View Details](/here/the-grounds) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Panorama Hotel St Helens | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Panorama Hotel St Helens # Panorama Hotel St Helens A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a short drive from the Bay of Fires. Australia, Tasmania 1 Quail St, St Helens TAS 7216 [panoramahotelsthelens.com](https://panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings/) hotelcoastalscenic The [Panorama Hotel](https://panoramahotelsthelens.com/st-helens-weddings/) sits right above Georges Bay in St Helens — the gateway to the [Bay of Fires](https://parks.tas.gov.au/explore-our-parks/bay-of-fires-conservation-area) on Tasmania’s east coast. It’s the kind of venue that does the heavy lifting for you: water views out every window, a restaurant and bar already on site, and rooms upstairs so your guests can wander to bed instead of organising transport home. If you’re planning an east coast wedding and want one address that covers ceremony, reception, and accommodation, this is a strong option. ## Venue Highlights - Elevated position with panoramic views over Georges Bay - On-site accommodation — your guests stay where they celebrate - Restaurant and bar already in place, so catering and drinks are sorted - Walking distance to the St Helens waterfront and town centre - 15 minutes from the southern end of the [Bay of Fires](https://parks.tas.gov.au/explore-our-parks/bay-of-fires-conservation-area) for sunset portraits - Relaxed, low-fuss east coast vibe — perfect for couples who want easy over formal ## Planning Tips - **Travel**: St Helens is about 2.5 hours from Launceston and 3.5 hours from Hobart — most east coast weddings build in a long weekend so guests can enjoy the drive up the coast. - **Bay of Fires portraits**: Binalong Bay and the orange-lichen rocks are a 10–15 minute drive north. Worth building into your timeline if you’ve got a photographer keen to chase them. - **Sunset**: Georges Bay faces east, so sunrise over the water is the showstopper. Plan a sunrise-the-morning-after shoot if your photographer is up for it. - **Accommodation**: Rooms on site, plus plenty of holiday rentals and motels in St Helens for larger guest lists. - **Weather**: East coast Tasmania is the driest, sunniest corner of the state — but still pack a Plan B for ceremony locations outdoors. The hotel’s indoor spaces handle a wet weather pivot well. - **Best season**: November through April for long days, warm water, and the best chance of dry weather. Off-season weddings here are quieter and atmospheric if you don’t mind cooler temperatures. I’m a [Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) and I travel the whole state — happy to come to you for an east coast wedding at the Panorama. ![Panorama Hotel St Helens](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_mshIa.jpeg) 1 Quail St, St Helens TAS 7216 ## More venues in Tasmania [![Freycinet, Tasmania wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/honey_moon_bay_elopement_kAmahcbXF?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/freycinet) ### Freycinet, Tasmania Australia, Tasmania national parkoutdoorelopement Plan a Freycinet wedding or elopement with firsthand advice on Honeymoon Bay, national park bookings, access, weather an... [View Details](/here/freycinet) [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) [![Spring Bay Mill wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/spring-bay-mill) ### Spring Bay Mill Australia, Tasmania industrialwaterfronteco-conscious An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s ca... [View Details](/here/spring-bay-mill) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) [![Frogmore Creek wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/frogmore-creek) ### Frogmore Creek Australia, Tasmania wineryrestaurantscenic A premium winery wedding venue in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, just 20 minutes from Hobart — where rustic charm meets m... [www.frogmorecreek.com.au](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au) [View Details](/here/frogmore-creek) [![Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mt-gnomgnom-farm_3g3IPrLk1?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-gnomon-farm) ### Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun Australia, Tasmania FarmOutdoor A beautiful farm wedding venue in Northern Tasmania, near Penguin, with a Farm-to-Table restaurant and onsite accomodati... [mountgnomonfarm.com.au](https://mountgnomonfarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mt-gnomon-farm) [![Sandridge Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_tasmania__0u4CSlkA?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/sandridge-estate) ### Sandridge Estate Australia, Tasmania bushchapelrustic An enchanting bushland wedding venue in Tasmania’s north-west with an outdoor chapel that feels like magic. [sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Ponomakena Sanctuary | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/ponomakena 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Ponomakena Sanctuary # Ponomakena Sanctuary Oceanfront Maui estate with over three acres of lush, tropical grounds, panoramic sea views, and a laid-back luxury vibe. USA, Hawaii 7750 Makena Alanui, Kihei, HI 96753, United States outdoorprivate estateoceanfront Ponomakena Sanctuary — formerly known as the Sugarman Estate and Honuakailani Estate — is a private, oceanfront venue in South Makena, Maui. With more than three acres of lushly landscaped grounds overlooking Ahihi Bay, this spot offers the kind of tropical elegance that feels both effortless and extraordinary. Whether you’re planning an intimate dinner for two, a corporate retreat for 300, or a sun-drenched elopement at the water’s edge, this estate delivers. The expansive lawn is shaded by kiawe and coconut palms, with lava rock coastlines framing panoramic views of the Pacific. A comfortable five-bedroom beach house sits on-site, ideal for pre-wedding preparations and private moments with your closest people. Styled weddings here often feature warm sunset light, floral explosions, and a relaxed-yet-refined Hawaiian atmosphere. Property site fee starts at USD $10,000, with all planning and vendor logistics arranged separately. ## My Experience Here Maui would be my favourite Hawaiian island — the vibes and the feel are what I consider the best Hawaiian getaway. This venue was also magical, conducting the ceremony right on the water whilst Steven Tyler of Aerosmith watched on from his balcony next door. ## Venue Highlights - Over 3 acres of private oceanfront land with unobstructed views - Iconic lava rock shoreline and lush lawn ceremony settings - Five-bedroom beach house perfect for wedding party prep - Vintage Airstream bridal suite and oceanfront gazebo - Pool, garden courtyard, and large reception lawn - Intimate or large-scale events — from elopements to 300+ guests - Located on Ahihi Bay, with shaded palms and tropical serenity ## Planning Tips - **Planner required** – There’s no on-site coordination. Work with experienced Maui planners like Opihi Love or Makena Weddings. - **Venue hire only** – No in-house catering, equipment, or accommodation services included. All rentals and logistics are arranged by your planner. - **Property fee starts at USD $10,000** – Confirm exact pricing and what’s included (e.g. power access, cleaning, security, shuttle parking). - **Prepare for micro-weather** – Though South Maui is typically sunny, short tropical showers can pop up. The estate handles rain well and the light after a shower is often magic. - **Visit or video tour before committing** – Understanding light, tide, and terrain will help your planning immensely. - **No hotel on site** – Nearest luxury accommodations are in Wailea. Coordinate transport for guests via private shuttle or carpool. ![Ponomakena Sanctuary](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_celebrant_egN0BBmbT?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 7750 Makena Alanui, Kihei, HI 96753, United States ![Ponomakena Sanctuary additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_officiant_YPegnkPaQ?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Hawaii [![DUMBO, New York City wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ollie_and_juliet_2CPcZOsPS?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/dumbo) ### DUMBO, New York City USA, New York City UrbanElopement A moody-meets-magical New York City elopement location tucked beneath the Manhattan Bridge in Brooklyn. [View Details](/here/dumbo) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Old Dairy Maleny wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/old_dairy_maleny_1yPu0qo7A?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/old-dairy) ### The Old Dairy Maleny Australia, Southeast Queensland hinterlandluxurybarn A pristine, purpose-built wedding venue in the Sunshine Coast hinterland with sweeping views, space to celebrate, and A+... [theolddairymaleny.com.au](https://theolddairymaleny.com.au) [View Details](/here/old-dairy) [![Byron Bay Lighthouse wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tori-jake-byronbay_P6ykwqSid?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) ### Byron Bay Lighthouse Australia, Byron Bay BeachLandmarkOutdoor A stunning clifftop venue overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where I've created intimate ceremonies with breathtaking views. [View Details](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) [![Deux Belettes wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/deux_belletes_wT69P5JSI?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/deux-belettes) ### Deux Belettes Australia, Byron Bay chateaugardenprivate estate A romantic French-style chateau in the Byron Bay hinterland, surrounded by fig trees, stone walls, and elegance — a drea... [www.deuxbelettes.com](https://www.deuxbelettes.com) [View Details](/here/deux-belettes) [![Gabbinbar wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Homestead_1_52S4s2ZzW?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gabbinbar) ### Gabbinbar Australia, Southeast Queensland HomesteadGardenHistoric A historic and immaculately maintained homestead and wedding venue in Toowoomba, Queensland, Australia [www.gabbinbar.com.au](https://www.gabbinbar.com.au) [View Details](/here/gabbinbar) [![Coromandel Peak, New Zealand wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/coromandel_peak_-CiqfBrP3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/coromandel-peak) ### Coromandel Peak, New Zealand New Zealand, Wanaka MountainElopementScenic An iconic mountaintop wedding location overlooking Lake Wanaka, perfect for scenic elopements by helicopter year-round. [View Details](/here/coromandel-peak) [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/mcguigan-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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Redleaf Wollombi # Redleaf Wollombi Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunter Valley romance. Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales 2480 Wollombi Road, Wollombi NSW 2325 [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) estategardenvillamarquee If you’ve ever dreamed of getting married at an Italian villa but want to stay in Australia, Redleaf Wollombi is the answer. This stunning Tuscan-inspired property sits on 100 acres of land in the [Wollombi Valley](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wollombi), just a short drive from the Hunter Valley’s famous wineries and only 3 kilometres from the charming historic township of Wollombi. With over 10 acres of manicured gardens, a private lake, and an Italian-style villa that oozes European charm, Redleaf delivers a destination wedding experience without the passport. When you book, you get exclusive use of the entire property for the weekend — which means your celebration isn’t just an event, it’s an experience. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - Tuscan-inspired villa with 6 king-sized bedrooms accommodating 12 overnight guests - Over 10 acres of manicured Italian-style gardens on a 100-acre property - Private lake, swimming pool, billiards room, library, and wood fireplace - **The Redleaf Barn** — seats up to 60 guests (80 cocktail-style) - **The Garden Room** — intimate space for 24 seated or 50 cocktail - Marquee options for larger celebrations up to 200 guests - Exclusive weekend hire — the entire property is yours - Festoon lights, chandeliers, and vintage styling throughout ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who want a destination wedding weekend without leaving Australia. Redleaf is designed for exclusive hire — you book the whole property and make it yours. It’s ideal for intimate celebrations of 24–60 guests in the built-in spaces, or mid-to-large weddings up to 200 with a marquee. If you love the idea of your closest people staying on-site in a Tuscan villa, waking up the next morning by the lake, this is the one. **The vibe**: European romance meets Australian countryside. Think long lunches under festoon lights, cocktails by the pool, lazy mornings in the villa. It’s luxurious but not corporate — this feels like a private holiday home, not a function centre. Couples who love wine, food, and weekend-long celebrations will be in their element. **Getting there**: About 2 hours north of Sydney CBD, via the M1 and then through the scenic Wollombi Valley. Newcastle Airport (NTL) is about 1 hour away, and Sydney Airport (SYD) about 2.5 hours. The last stretch through the valley is winding and beautiful but remote — there are no rideshare services in Wollombi, so organised guest transport is essential, not optional. **Where guests stay**: The villa sleeps 12 in 6 king-sized bedrooms — this is typically reserved for the couple and wedding party. For everyone else, the historic township of Wollombi (3km) has a handful of cottages and B&Bs, but options are limited. The broader Hunter Valley (20–30 min drive) has extensive accommodation from budget to luxury. Pokolbin and Cessnock are the nearest towns with more hotel options. **Nearby amenities**: Wollombi is a tiny, charming village with a general store, a pub (the famous Wollombi Tavern), and not much else — which is part of the appeal. The Hunter Valley’s wineries, restaurants, and cellar doors are 20–30 minutes away, making it perfect for a wedding weekend itinerary: winery tours on the day before, wedding at Redleaf, recovery brunch at a vineyard. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide The Wollombi Valley is inland and sheltered, so it experiences wider temperature swings than coastal areas. Warm summers, cool winters, and generally drier than Sydney. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Hot days averaging 28–33°C. February is the wettest month (~107mm). Evenings are warm and long — perfect for outdoor celebrations, but have a shade plan for daytime ceremonies. Humidity is moderate. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: The premier season. Days around 20–25°C, falling to 14–18°C by May. Lower rainfall, warm garden tones, comfortable for outdoor ceremonies and receptions. March can still see summer rain, but April–May are reliably pleasant. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Cool to cold. Days around 15–17°C, nights dropping to 3–5°C. Driest time of year (~39mm in July). The villa’s wood fireplace and intimate indoor spaces make winter weddings cosy and affordable — rates are typically lower. Frost is possible on the property. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: Fresh and vibrant. Days around 20–26°C with the gardens at their greenest. Rainfall increases through the season. A beautiful time of year with reliable weather for outdoor ceremonies. **The key thing to know**: This is an inland valley, not coastal. Summer days can be genuinely hot, and winter nights can be properly cold. Plan your ceremony timing and guest comfort accordingly. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: Intimate to grand — from 24 guests in the Garden Room to 200 with a marquee. The Barn is the sweet spot for mid-sized celebrations of around 60. - **Exclusive use**: You book the whole property for the weekend, making it perfect for a multi-day celebration with your closest people staying on-site. - **Catering**: The venue works with preferred caterers. Budget approximately $164–$208 per person for catering. - **Photography**: The villa architecture, gardens, lake, and vintage details give you endless European-feel backdrops without leaving NSW. - **Transport**: Organise guest transport — this is non-negotiable. There are no taxis or rideshares in Wollombi. ![Redleaf Wollombi](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_fVvJS.jpeg) 2480 Wollombi Road, Wollombi NSW 2325 ## More venues in Hunter Valley, New South Wales [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... 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[www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Sandridge Estate | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/sandridge-estate 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Sandridge Estate # Sandridge Estate An enchanting bushland wedding venue in Tasmania’s north-west with an outdoor chapel that feels like magic. Australia, Tasmania 191 Sisters Beach Rd, Boat Harbour TAS 7321 [sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) bushchapelrustic If you’re dreaming of a bush wedding that still feels elevated and curated, **Sandridge Estate** might be your perfect match. Tucked away on Tasmania’s north-west coast near [Boat Harbour](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boat_Harbour,_Tasmania), it’s a privately-owned property spread across 500 acres of wild beauty. Think towering gums, open paddocks, rolling mist, and the kind of peace that lets you actually hear the wind. The crown jewel here [in my little opinion](/tasmanian-celebrant)? The **outdoor bush chapel** — a purpose-built clearing under the trees with timber pews, natural greenery, and the kind of gentle Tasmanian light that feels sacred. It’s a ceremony space that doesn’t need dressing up. You simply show up, surrounded by your people and the sounds of the bush, and get married. Add to that their epic shed-style reception space and a full suite of on-site accommodation — this is a venue made for making memories and waking up the next day still in the magic. ## Venue Highlights - The enchanting **outdoor bush chapel** — pure magic under the trees - Spacious shed-style reception barn with fireplaces and festoon lighting - Onsite accommodation with comfy, private cabins for your crew - Exclusive use of the entire 500-acre property - Beautiful northwest Tassie backdrop with forest, farmland, and big skies - Friendly, down-to-earth team who genuinely care - Only minutes to the coast, and surrounded by gorgeous Airbnb stays ![Tasmanian wedding celebrant Josh Withers photogaphed by Moss from Inside the Frame ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_celebrant_tasmania_josh_withers_3D9deBZt2?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - **Distance**: About two hours from [Launceston](/launceston-celebrant), 4 hours drive from Hobart. - **Best time of year**: Spring through autumn is ideal — wildflowers, golden afternoon light, and warm enough for guests to enjoy the outdoor spaces - **Weather**: It’s [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant) — always have a wet weather backup (they do!), and layers for chilly evenings - **Accommodation**: There are a handful of cabins on site, but the surrounding area has stunning Airbnb properties — book early, especially in peak season - **Sunset ceremonies**: Aim for golden hour in the bush chapel — it’s magic when the sun filters through the trees - **Vendors**: Bring your own, or ask the Sandridge team for local faves — the northwest crew are legends - **Transport**: Consider organising a guest bus from Wynyard, Burnie or Boat Harbour — it’ll make the drive safer and more relaxed for everyone - **Accessibility**: The bush chapel is fairly easy to access but chat to the venue if you have guests with mobility needs ![Sandridge Estate](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_tasmania__0u4CSlkA?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 191 Sisters Beach Rd, Boat Harbour TAS 7321 ![Sandridge Estate additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sandridge_wedding_venue_in_northern_tasmania_TJQXeh6cT?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mt-gnomgnom-farm_3g3IPrLk1?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-gnomon-farm) ### Mount Gnomon Farm, Pengiun Australia, Tasmania FarmOutdoor A beautiful farm wedding venue in Northern Tasmania, near Penguin, with a Farm-to-Table restaurant and onsite accomodati... 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[www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Panorama Hotel St Helens wedding venue](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_1WgiuN.jpeg)](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Australia, Tasmania hotelcoastalscenic A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a s... 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[monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Sarakiniko Beach, Milos | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/sarakiniko-milos 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Sarakiniko Beach, Milos # Sarakiniko Beach, Milos An iconic lunar-like coastline on Milos Island, Greece — perfect for elopements at golden hour, but best shared with just the two of you. Greece, Milos Sarakiniko, Milos 848 00, Greece elopementcoastalnatural wonder [Sarakiniko Beach](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarakiniko_Beach) on the island of [Milos](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milos) is one of the most otherworldly places I’ve ever stood — a stretch of white volcanic rock sculpted by wind and sea, more moon than Mediterranean. It’s not a wedding venue in the traditional sense, but it is a dream [European elopement location](https://elopementcollective.com/europe) for couples looking for beauty without walls. ![Sarakiniko Beach photographer by George Bowden with The Elopement Collective on Milos, Greece ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Sarakiniko_Beach_photographer_by_George_Bowden_with_The_Elopement_Collective_on_Milos__Greece_Zwmb7K4NO?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) This is a place for just the two of you (and maybe a celebrant and photographer or two). No chairs, no aisle, no shade — just the stark, cinematic cliffs and the endless blue of the Aegean. ## My Experience Here I was lucky to be here in June with The Elopement Collective and photographer George Bowden. We timed everything to capture golden hour _and_ blue hour, aiming for a ceremony 20 minutes before sunset — and it paid off. The light clings to the white rock in ways you can’t describe until you see it. But be warned: even at sunrise, Sarakiniko is never truly empty. Photo shoots are happening all around, and sunset is even busier. That said, we still found our space, and it was stunning. ## Venue Highlights - Iconic white volcanic rock formations - Easy access by car from most of Milos - Surreal coastal landscape that looks like another planet - Best light imaginable at golden hour and blue hour - Perfect for small, quiet elopements with no guests ## Planning Tips - **Avoid tight clothing** — you’ll be climbing and scrambling over big, smooth rocks. - **Wear proper footwear** — grippy soles are essential on the uneven stone. - **Timing is everything** — aim to shoot in the hour before sunset, and plan the ceremony right before the sun dips. - **Expect company** — summer is peak season with lots of tourists and photo shoots. Embrace the chaos or elope in the shoulder season. - **Access** — fly to Milos or catch a ferry from Athens. Then hire a car or arrange a local driver. - **Restaurants** — reservations aren’t a thing in Milos. Go early, wait in line, and enjoy. Medusa is a great nearby option for a celebratory meal. - **No permits needed** — for elopements only. Weddings with guests aren’t a fit for this rugged, wild spot. Choose an actual venue if you need guest seating or accessibility. ![Sarakiniko Beach, Milos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Sarakiniko_Beach_elopement_on_Milos_Island__Greece__with_The_Elopement_Collective_and_George_Bowden_LMvGr3rMr?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Sarakiniko, Milos 848 00, Greece Real wedding stories ## Wedding stories featuring Sarakiniko Beach, Milos - [![Tiegan and Michael together on the rocky coastline at Sarakiniko, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-milos-portraits-23.Csij3i7m_2eDnjf.jpeg) Portrait location ### Tiegan & Michael “He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural.” Read their story → ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) ## More venues in Milos [![Mandrakia Beach, Milos wedding venue](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_Z1TUeGc.jpeg)](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) ### Mandrakia Beach, Milos Greece, Milos elopementcoastalfishing village A tiny waterfront fishing village on Milos, Greece, where colourful syrmata boathouses and the Aegean Sea create an inti... [View Details](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Villa Celimontana, Rome wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/tempio-gotico) ### Villa Celimontana, Rome Italy, Rome gardenhistoricelopement location A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the... 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[View Details](/here/dumbo) [![Caversham House wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_celebrant_BhiDi2VWy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/caversham-house) ### Caversham House Australia, Perth gardenestateformal A formal and elegant wedding venue just outside Perth, Caversham House is renowned for its manicured gardens, riverside ... [www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) [View Details](/here/caversham-house) [![Ponomakena Sanctuary wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/maui_wedding_celebrant_egN0BBmbT?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/ponomakena) ### Ponomakena Sanctuary USA, Hawaii outdoorprivate estateoceanfront Oceanfront Maui estate with over three acres of lush, tropical grounds, panoramic sea views, and a laid-back luxury vibe... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Somerley House | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/somerley-house 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Somerley House # Somerley House Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room near Sydney. Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales 7207 Illawarra Highway, Sutton Forest NSW 2577 [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) estategardenhistoric Tucked between Sutton Forest and Moss Vale in the [Southern Highlands](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_Highlands_\(New_South_Wales\)), Somerley House is one of those rare venues that feels like stepping back in time — in the best possible way. Dating back to 1875, this enchanting Victorian country estate sits among established gardens that have hosted elegant gatherings for over fifty years. The property offers the kind of effortless grandeur that you simply can’t manufacture: century-old trees, manicured lawns, and a heritage home that photographs beautifully from every angle. It’s refined without being stuffy, and elegant without trying too hard. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - Heritage Victorian home and grounds dating back to 1875 - Ceremony options include a circular lawn in front of the house or under the canopy of the surrounding forest - The historic **Garden Room** for receptions — complete with chandeliers, French gilt mirrors, exotic foliage, and a roaring fireplace - Marquee option available for larger celebrations up to 200 guests - On-site boutique guesthouse with 3 double bedrooms for the wedding party - Ample on-site parking with space for guest buses - Just 2 hours from Sydney and 90 minutes from Canberra ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples wanting classic, refined elegance without pretension. If your dream wedding involves heritage architecture, garden ceremonies, and a chandelier-lit reception by a roaring fire, Somerley is your venue. It suits mid-sized weddings of 80–160 guests beautifully, though it can scale from intimate 40-person ceremonies to 200-guest marquee receptions. **The vibe**: Old-world country estate elegance. Think garden parties, string quartets, vintage champagne coupes, and long autumn lunches. It’s formal enough for black tie but relaxed enough for a barefoot ceremony under the trees. The kind of venue where your grandmother and your best friend both feel at home. **Getting there**: About 2 hours south of Sydney CBD via the Hume Motorway, and 90 minutes from Canberra. Sydney Airport (SYD) is the nearest major airport. The Southern Highlands is well-connected by road but there’s no public transport to the venue — organise a bus or shuttle for guests, especially for the return trip in the evening. **Where guests stay**: The on-site guesthouse has 3 double bedrooms (ideal for the wedding party to get ready), but most guests will stay in nearby towns. Bowral (15 min) is the main hub with boutique hotels, B&Bs, and restaurants. Berrima, Bundanoon, Moss Vale, and Mittagong all have good options too. Book early — the Highlands are a popular weekend destination and accommodation fills fast, especially in autumn. **Nearby amenities**: The Southern Highlands is a well-established tourist region. Bowral has excellent restaurants, cafes, antique shops, and the Bradman Museum. Berrima is one of Australia’s best-preserved Georgian villages. Berry and Kangaroo Valley are a scenic drive away. It’s an easy region for guests to explore over a weekend. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide The Southern Highlands sits at around 700m elevation, so it’s noticeably cooler than Sydney year-round. This is important for planning. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Pleasant days averaging 24–27°C, but evenings drop to 13–15°C. February is the wettest month (~108mm). Humidity peaks around 62%. Summer ceremonies are comfortable outdoors, but warn guests about cool evenings. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: The standout season here. Days around 15–20°C, spectacular foliage colour across the estate, drier than summer (~65mm in April). Cool evenings (around 7–10°C) make the Garden Room fireplace essential. Arguably the most photogenic time of year. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Cold. July averages just 14°C during the day and 4°C overnight, with occasional frost. Rainfall is at its lowest (~36mm in July). Winter weddings here are intimate and atmospheric — the fireplace, chandeliers, and mirrors in the Garden Room come alive — but guests need to dress warmly. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: Fresh and green, with temperatures climbing from 15°C to 22°C. Gardens are lush and blooming. Rainfall increases through the season. A beautiful, optimistic time for a wedding. **The key thing to tell guests**: Pack a jacket no matter the season. Highland evenings are always cooler than Sydney. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: The Garden Room suits up to 160 guests, the marquee up to 200, and the Woodland area up to 150. Intimate ceremonies from 40 guests are also welcome. - **Transport**: Organise a bus for guests — the Southern Highlands is beautiful to drive through, but designated drivers appreciate a night off. - **Photography**: Golden hour light filtering through the gardens and heritage buildings is stunning. Schedule your timeline to capture it. - **Wet weather**: The Garden Room provides an excellent indoor backup, so a rainy day doesn’t ruin anything — it can actually make the venue even more atmospheric. ![Somerley House](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_ZO3Kms.jpeg) 7207 Illawarra Highway, Sutton Forest NSW 2577 ## More venues in Southern Highlands, New South Wales [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) ## Want to get married here? 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[www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Spring Bay Mill | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/spring-bay-mill 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Spring Bay Mill # Spring Bay Mill An industrial-chic wedding venue reborn on Tasmania’s East Coast, overlooking Maria Island and surrounded by nature’s calm. Australia, Tasmania 555 Freestone Point Road, Triabunna, TAS 7190 industrialwaterfronteco-conscious [Spring Bay](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Municipality_of_Spring_Bay) Mill is unlike any other wedding venue in Australia and not far for this [Hobart celebrant](/hobart-celebrant). Set on 43 hectares of reclaimed industrial land on lutruwita/Tasmania’s east coast, it’s where raw, rusted beauty meets sustainability and serenity. Once the world’s largest wood chip mill, it’s now a deeply intentional venue with ocean views, native bushland, and a serious story to tell. If you’re dreaming of a wedding that breaks free from cookie-cutter traditions, where your vows echo through amphitheatres of up-cycled timber and celebrations stretch into the salty sea air, Spring Bay Mill is your canvas. ## My Experience Here I’m passionate about the environment a ceremony is created in and there’s something about the now-still-chaos of the former industrial sheds and eqiupment that brings an intimacy and stillness to the mill. I’m excited to be a preferred and [local wedding celebrant](/hobart-christian-celebrant) for Spring Bay Mill. ![Tetyana and Ryan at Spring Bay Mill ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tetyana_and_Ryans_Spring_Bay_Mill_Wedding_z_lHt6uBs?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) _Photos featured here are by my friend Omar from [By the Wilde](https://bythewilde.com)_. Plus the venue is home to some great wet weather backups! ## Venue Highlights - Sweeping sea views from Windlass Bay to Maria Island National Park - Industrial-chic function spaces like the Tin Shed and the Jetslinger Amphitheatre - Accommodation for up to 118 people, from luxury beach shacks to glamping - In-house catering sourced from onsite organic gardens - Fully off-grid, sustainable ethos woven into every detail - Onsite event planner to help bring your vision to life - Optional experiences like tree planting, bush tucker tours, and Welcome to Country ceremonies ## Planning Tips - **Best season**: Spring through autumn is ideal; winters are quiet but beautiful with moody skies. - **Sunset timing**: The venue faces east, so golden hour photography happens earlier in the afternoon; plan your ceremony to capture the light. - **Transport**: It’s a scenic 90-minute drive from Hobart; organise guest shuttles if needed. - **Accommodation**: Onsite options are fabulous and eco-luxe, but for larger guest lists, consider overflow accommodation in nearby Triabunna. - **Weather**: It can be windy on the coast—embrace it or plan with wind-friendly florals and styling. - **Accessibility**: The site is sprawling with both outdoor and indoor areas, so be clear about guest mobility needs. - **Experiences**: Add a tree planting session or a Welcome to Country for extra meaning and connection to place. ![Spring Bay Mill](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/spring_bay_mill_wedding_bGgkRrgtM?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 555 Freestone Point Road, Triabunna, TAS 7190 ![Spring Bay Mill additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wet_weather_backup_tasmanian_wedding_cXLS9QmcG?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Tasmania [![Frogmore Creek wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/frogmore-creek) ### Frogmore Creek Australia, Tasmania wineryrestaurantscenic A premium winery wedding venue in Tasmania's Coal River Valley, just 20 minutes from Hobart — where rustic charm meets m... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) [![Panorama Hotel St Helens wedding venue](/_astro/panorama-st-helens.D-_70j3Q_1WgiuN.jpeg)](/here/panorama-hotel-st-helens) ### Panorama Hotel St Helens Australia, Tasmania hotelcoastalscenic A relaxed waterfront wedding venue on Tasmania's east coast — sweeping Georges Bay views, on-site accommodation, and a s... 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[sandridgeestate.com.au](https://sandridgeestate.com.au) [View Details](/here/sandridge-estate) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... [monafarm.com.au](https://monafarm.com.au) [View Details](/here/mona-farm) [![Old Mount Stromlo Observatory wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_stromlo_wedding_rSdlM1Id2?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ### Old Mount Stromlo Observatory Australia, Canberrra outdoorhistoricelopement-friendly Intimate wedding venue among the stars — literally. Just outside Canberra, the Old Mount Stromlo Observatory blends cosm... [www.mso.anu.edu.au](https://www.mso.anu.edu.au/event-booking/) [View Details](/here/mt-stromlo-observatory) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Villa Celimontana, Rome | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/tempio-gotico 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Villa Celimontana, Rome # Villa Celimontana, Rome A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the Colosseum in Rome. Italy, Rome Villa Celimontana gardens, Rome, Italy gardenhistoricelopement location Tucked away in one of Rome’s most peaceful parks, the Tempio Gotico is a romantic and hidden gem perfect for an intimate wedding or elopement. Located in the [Villa Celimontana gardens](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Villa_Celimontana)—just uphill from the Colosseum—this gothic temple brings old-world charm to the heart of the Eternal City. It’s quiet, private, and radiates that effortlessly iconic Roman beauty, without the crowds. ## My Experience Here I was there with [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com/europe) at sunrise and it was peaceful, quiet, beautiful, serene, and so special. Highly recommended as a Rome elopement location! Through summer the sun rises behind the temple so you get even shade on the ceremony in the early morning, and dappled light through the afternoon though the park will be beusy in the afternoon. ## Venue Highlights - Gothic-style temple with a striking silhouette - Lush, shaded garden setting ideal for small ceremonies - Sunrise light hits the temple beautifully in summer - Located close to the Colosseum and other Roman landmarks - Easily accessible via Uber or by foot from the historic centre - Quiet and peaceful compared to tourist hotspots ## Planning Tips - **Timing is everything**: In summer, aim for a **sunrise ceremony**—the light is magical and the gardens are virtually empty. - **Access**: The easiest way to find the temple is to enter the gardens via the gate across the road from **San Giovanni e Paolo** (search “Clivo di Scauro”). - **Transport**: I recommend catching an Uber to the gardens, then strolling down to the Colosseum after—makes for a perfect post-ceremony photo walk. - **Heat & hydration**: Rome can be hot in summer. Bring water and wear breathable fabrics if you’re planning a mid-morning celebration. - **Footwear**: Paths are unpaved in places, so opt for comfortable shoes until you’re ready to switch to heels for photos. - **Privacy**: While the temple is in a public park, it’s off the beaten track, making it surprisingly private for such a central location. ![Villa Celimontana, Rome](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) Villa Celimontana gardens, Rome, Italy ## More venues in Rome [![Vocabolo Moscatelli wedding venue](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_Z1XlaKh.jpeg)](/here/vocabolo-moscatelli) ### Vocabolo Moscatelli Italy, Umbria boutique hotelhistoricgarden+1 more A restored monastery and intimate boutique hotel in the Umbrian countryside, combining historic stone architecture with ... [www.vocabolomoscatelli.com](https://www.vocabolomoscatelli.com/en/) [View Details](/here/vocabolo-moscatelli) ## Want to get married here? 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[www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) [View Details](/here/caversham-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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Terrara House Estate # Terrara House Estate Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy Jervis Bay access. Australia, South Coast, New South Wales 77 Millbank Road, Terara NSW 2540 [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) estatehistoricbarngarden Terrara House Estate is one of the South Coast’s most beloved wedding venues, and for good reason. Established in 1860, this heritage property sits on 17 acres right in the heart of the [Shoalhaven](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/City_of_Shoalhaven) — just 15 minutes from Berry, 20 minutes from the white sand beaches of Jervis Bay, and a scenic two-hour drive from Sydney. What makes Terrara special is the combination of history, space, and experience. This isn’t a venue that just hosts your wedding — it becomes your home for the weekend. With exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a swimming pool, tennis court, and a concierge service that can organise everything from vineyard tours to beach trips, it’s a genuine destination experience on the NSW South Coast. ## My Experience Here TODO: Add personal experience ## Venue Highlights - Heritage estate established in 1860 on 17 acres - **Chesters** — a beautiful on-site reception venue seating up to 100 guests - Bespoke marquee option for celebrations up to 150 guests - On-site accommodation sleeping up to 28 guests across the main House (20) and The Stables (8) - 23 rooms for sleeping and entertaining in the main house alone - Swimming pool, tennis court, garden games, and wellness salon - Wood-fired pizza oven for relaxed pre-wedding gatherings - On-site concierge to coordinate guest experiences ## Is This Venue Right for You? **Best for**: Couples who want a true weekend-away wedding with everything in one place. Terrara is ideal for celebrations of 60–150 guests who want more than a ceremony and reception — they want an experience. The on-site accommodation, concierge service, pool, tennis court, and pizza oven mean you can host a rehearsal dinner, the wedding itself, and a recovery brunch without anyone needing to leave the property. **The vibe**: Relaxed luxury with heritage soul. This isn’t a stuffy country estate — it’s the kind of place where you swim in the pool the morning of your wedding, fire up the pizza oven for a casual Friday night dinner, and then walk into a beautifully styled ceremony the next day. It’s polished but never pretentious, with real warmth and a family-home feeling that puts everyone at ease. **Getting there**: About 2 hours south of Sydney CBD via the Princes Highway, or a scenic route through Kangaroo Valley and the Southern Highlands. Sydney Airport (SYD) is the nearest major airport at around 2–2.5 hours. The drive down is pleasant, but organise transport for the evening — there are limited taxis in the area. **Where guests stay**: 28 guests can sleep on-site — 20 in the main House across 23 rooms, and 8 in The Stables. This is one of the best on-site accommodation setups of any NSW venue. For remaining guests, Berry (15 min) is the standout option with boutique hotels, B&Bs, and Airbnbs in a beautiful village setting. Nowra (10 min) has more budget-friendly motels and hotels. **Nearby amenities**: This is one of the best-located venues on the South Coast for guest activities. Berry (15 min) is a charming village with excellent cafes, restaurants, and shops. Jervis Bay (20 min) has some of Australia’s whitest sand beaches. Kangaroo Valley (30 min) offers bushwalking and river activities. The on-site concierge can coordinate all of this for your guests — vineyard tours, beach trips, golf, bushwalks — making it genuinely easy to turn your wedding into a destination weekend. ## Weather & Seasonal Guide The Shoalhaven has a mild coastal climate with warm summers and cool (but not cold) winters. It gets more rainfall than Sydney, particularly in summer. - **Summer (Dec–Feb)**: Warm days averaging 25–28°C, with February the wettest month (~125mm across 12 rainy days). Humidity can be high. Summer is peak season for the South Coast — your guests can combine your wedding with a beach holiday at Jervis Bay. Late afternoon/evening ceremonies avoid the heat. - **Autumn (Mar–May)**: Excellent wedding weather. Days around 20–24°C dropping to 15–18°C by May. Rainfall eases off, humidity drops, and the light is beautiful. March can still see summer storms, but April–May are reliably pleasant. - **Winter (Jun–Aug)**: Mild compared to inland venues. Days around 15–17°C, nights 7–8°C. Rainfall at its lowest (~49mm in July). The estate is quieter, the gardens are still green, and Chesters reception venue feels intimate and warm. A good option for couples who want a smaller, atmospheric celebration at lower cost. - **Spring (Sep–Nov)**: Fresh, green, and increasingly warm. Days climbing from 18°C to 24°C. The gardens come alive with new growth. October–November is a sweet spot — warm enough for outdoor ceremonies, before the summer humidity kicks in. **The key thing to know**: The South Coast can get summer storms that blow in quickly from the coast. Have a wet weather plan — the estate’s indoor spaces handle it well, and a rainy ceremony under cover at a heritage estate has its own charm. ## Planning Tips - **Capacity**: Up to 100 seated in Chesters, or up to 150 with a marquee. Perfect for mid-sized celebrations. - **Exclusive hire**: You get the entire estate — rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, and recovery brunch all in one place. - **Guest activities**: The concierge can organise vineyard visits, Jervis Bay beach trips, bushwalks, golf, and more. - **Transport**: Two hours from Sydney. Organise guest buses for the evening, especially if guests are staying in Berry or Nowra. ![Terrara House Estate](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_Z1ebNuk.jpeg) 77 Millbank Road, Terara NSW 2540 ## More venues in South Coast, New South Wales [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![Mona Farm wedding venue](/_astro/mona-farm.BYmy8sus_vHkMx.jpeg)](/here/mona-farm) ### Mona Farm Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric+1 more Luxury Braidwood wedding estate with 124 acres, award-winning gardens, contemporary art, historic guest houses and a res... 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[www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at The Convent, Hunter Valley | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/the-convent-circa-1876 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. The Convent, Hunter Valley # The Convent, Hunter Valley A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and complete wedding weekends. Australia, Hunter Valley 64 Halls Rd, Pokolbin NSW 2320, Australia [convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) estaterestaurantwinerygarden The Convent is a true Hunter Valley classic in [Pokolbin](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pokolbin,_New_South_Wales) — a dreamy wedding venue wrapped in vineyards, manicured gardens, heritage buildings, and next-level food and wine. Whether you’re having a celebration for 150 or something more intimate, there’s a feeling here: elegant, warm, and welcoming. It’s a full weekend experience if you want it to be, with ceremony, reception, and accommodation all on-site. ![Wedding celebrant, aka preferred vendor, at the Convent Cirac 1876 wedding venue in the Hunter Valley ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/hunter_valley_wedding_celebrant_AkFVV9z9r?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## My Experience Here I last officiated a wedding as a [Sydney celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) here for Daniel and Kathleen at Circa 1876, and their kind words have stayed with me: > “In all seriousness, Josh you conducted the most incredible ceremony for us. We had a lot of comments after about you, and how did I find you and how amazing you are! The ceremony is the most important part of the day, and we wouldn’t have had anyone else there marrying us.” It’s a venue that lets the ceremony shine without feeling like an afterthought. I especially love the garden at Circa 1876 — a serene, green spot that’s both intimate and grand. ## Venue Highlights - Gorgeous garden ceremony spaces, including Circa 1876 Gardens and the Convent Fountain - Three reception options: Circa 1876, Circa Alfresco, and Restaurant Eighty Eight - Award-winning “unbuttoned fine dining” menus from onsite kitchen gardens - Onsite accommodation for couples and guests — just steps from the party - Professional, warm venue staff and excellent coordination - Picture-perfect photography locations across the estate - Located in the heart of Australia’s premier wine region, just 2 hours from Sydney ![The Convent, a wedding venue in the NSW Hunter Valley ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_wedding_venue_nsw_TTlIRv3pP?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - **Best seasons:** Spring and autumn in the Hunter Valley are magic. That said, a winter wedding here can feel warm and cosy too. - **Sunset:** Golden hour in the gardens hits just right — talk to your photographer about ceremony timing. - **Transport:** Encourage guests to stay nearby and organise a return shuttle or bus to the venue. Parking is limited and it keeps things safe and social. - **Accommodation:** Get the bridal party staying onsite. It removes stress and adds to the experience. - **Catering:** Circa 1876 delivers unforgettable food and wine — don’t skimp here, it’s a highlight. - **Coordination:** The Convent offers their own coordinator, but you’re welcome to bring your own planner if you want more hands-on support. - **Wet weather:** A solid wet weather backup is included — rare and very welcome. ![The Convent, Hunter Valley](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 64 Halls Rd, Pokolbin NSW 2320, Australia ![The Convent, Hunter Valley additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/circa_1876_wedding_venue_nuEhY36k_?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Hunter Valley [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... 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I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![The Grounds of Alexandria wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-grounds) ### The Grounds of Alexandria Australia, Sydney gardenrestauranturban A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney we... 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[www.greyleigh.com.au](https://www.greyleigh.com.au) [View Details](/here/greyleigh-estate) [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? 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The Grounds of Alexandria # The Grounds of Alexandria A lush, lux, intimate wedding venue in the heart of Sydney where city charm meets garden romance for a special Sydney wedding. Australia, Sydney 7a/2 Huntley St, Alexandria NSW 2015 [thegrounds.com.au](https://thegrounds.com.au/events/weddings/) gardenrestauranturban The Garden at The Grounds of Alexandria offers a one-of-a-kind blend of natural beauty and urban elegance, right in the heart of the city and it’s one of this [Sydney celebrant](/sydney-celebrant)’s favourites! With its lush greenery, dappled light, and the hum of the city just beyond the gates, it’s a venue that brings a refreshing intimacy to a big celebration. The moment The Grounds becomes yours for the day, it truly transforms — the garden becomes a private haven surrounded by blooms, festoon lights, and the sound of laughter echoing through the vines. ## My Experience Here I’ve had the joy of marrying couples in The Garden at The Grounds and can honestly say it’s one of Sydney’s most romantic spots. There’s something so special about the way light filters through the canopy while still giving couples and their guests that tucked-away feeling. It’s intimate without being small — grand without being stuffy. A real gem for those big [Sydney weddings](/sydney-christian-celebrant). ## Venue Highlights - Private garden venues in a historic urban setting - Lush landscaping and floral installations everywhere you look - World-class catering with a focus on farm-to-table ingredients - Onsite roastery and bakery – great for that post-ceremony espresso - Exclusive use of the space during your booking - Urban photo locations within and around the venue ![Preferred Sydney wedding celebrant at The Grounds of Alexandria ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Preferred_wedding_celebrant_at_the_Grounds_of_Alexandria_tO3ScGKHK?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Planning Tips - Have clear signage and ushers to guide guests to the right wedding space — The Grounds has multiple event areas - Parking is limited; strongly recommend advising guests to Uber or taxi - The space suits both daytime and evening weddings beautifully, but consider golden hour timing for your ceremony to capture the best light, although check with your photographer so they have enough time to get what they need to meet your expectations - Peak seasons book fast — get in early if you’re eyeing a weekend date in spring or autumn - Accommodation options nearby range from boutique to luxury, but book ahead, especially during event seasons in Sydney - My personal tip is to go for share plates, because they’re really good at The Grounds. ![Wedding Celebrant at The Grounds of Alexandria, Sydney ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/The_Grounds_of_Alexandria_Wedding_Celebrant_zCAyNG9Eq?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) --- From Michael & Lisa: > The end to end experience with Married by Josh is fantastic. From our very first meeting with Josh (by video call, since we were in another city) we knew we were on the right track. Josh has an easy-going style, but really clearly knows the marriage business inside and out. So even though we were having plenty of laughs and enjoying ourselves, we were really confident that Josh would get the important bit (as in, the ceremony and marrying us) right. > > Josh had plenty of great tips and suggestions to help us on our way, but was never pushy or ‘I know this better than you’. On the actual day, Josh was well presented and on time. He was already familiar with the venue from his extensive celebrant experience and since he had to come from Tasmania for our wedding we really appreciated his coming down the day before. The ceremony was great, with Josh hitting the note perfectly of ‘we are here to celebrate, and isn’t love really great and special.’ ![The Grounds of Alexandria](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/grounds_of_alexandria_weddings_6GKSllDQ8?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) 7a/2 Huntley St, Alexandria NSW 2015 ![The Grounds of Alexandria additional view](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_grounds_of_alexandria_wedding_1CNvuQ7F4?tr=w-1280%2Cf-auto) ## More venues in Sydney [![Gunners’ Barracks wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/gunners_barracks_Rt2GaU5Zl?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/gunners-barracks) ### Gunners’ Barracks Australia, Sydney heritageharbourrestaurant+1 more A heritage-listed wedding venue in Sydney with panoramic harbour views, refined charm, and elegant service [gunnersbarracks.com.au](https://gunnersbarracks.com.au/wedding-venue/) [View Details](/here/gunners-barracks) [![Greyleigh wedding venue](/_astro/greyleigh-estate.DJ07gAWV_M37A.jpeg)](/here/greyleigh-estate) ### Greyleigh Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatebarngarden+2 more Luxury 200-acre Kiama hinterland wedding venue with ocean views, converted dairy silos, five event spaces and exclusive ... [www.greyleigh.com.au](https://www.greyleigh.com.au) [View Details](/here/greyleigh-estate) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Redleaf Wollombi wedding venue](/_astro/redleaf-wollombi.Bh_mWRsp_Z2iEN7x.jpeg)](/here/redleaf-wollombi) ### Redleaf Wollombi Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estategardenvilla+1 more Tuscan-inspired Wollombi Valley wedding villa on 100 acres with weekend hire, manicured gardens, a private lake and Hunt... [www.redleafwollombi.com.au](https://www.redleafwollombi.com.au) [View Details](/here/redleaf-wollombi) [![Somerley House wedding venue](/_astro/somerley-house.B3qWRqaR_RcLSX.jpeg)](/here/somerley-house) ### Somerley House Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales estategardenhistoric Southern Highlands Victorian country estate with period gardens, forest ceremony spots and a chandelier-lit Garden Room ... [somerleyhouse.com.au](https://somerleyhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/somerley-house) [![Terrara House Estate wedding venue](/_astro/terrara-house.BLw2hmcw_1Cps4H.jpeg)](/here/terrara-house) ### Terrara House Estate Australia, South Coast, New South Wales estatehistoricbarn+1 more Shoalhaven heritage estate wedding venue with 17 acres, exclusive hire, on-site accommodation, a reception barn and easy... [www.terrarahouse.com](https://www.terrarahouse.com) [View Details](/here/terrara-house) [![The Merribee wedding venue](/_astro/merribee-house.DxTiMWn5_ZMv9uG.jpeg)](/here/merribee-house) ### The Merribee Australia, South Coast, New South Wales gardenbarnestate Shoalhaven garden wedding venue with seven acres, 30 outdoor garden rooms, a rustic timber barn and granite paths on the... [www.themerribee.com.au](https://www.themerribee.com.au) [View Details](/here/merribee-house) [![McGuigan House wedding venue](/_astro/mcguigan-house.COKPmmiv_ZQhDs0.jpeg)](/here/mcguigan-house) ### McGuigan House Australia, Hunter Valley, New South Wales estatevineyardgarden+1 more Private Hunter Valley estate on Hermitage Road with timeless architecture, contemporary design, vineyards and manicured ... [www.mcguiganhouse.com.au](https://www.mcguiganhouse.com.au) [View Details](/here/mcguigan-house) [![The Convent, Hunter Valley wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/the_convent_hunter_valley_oqmR7PcSy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ### The Convent, Hunter Valley Australia, Hunter Valley estaterestaurantwinery+1 more A timeless and elegant Hunter Valley wedding estate offering sophisticated garden ceremonies, award-winning dining, and ... [convent.com.au](https://convent.com.au/weddings) [View Details](/here/the-convent-circa-1876) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Wedding Celebrant at Vocabolo Moscatelli | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/here/vocabolo-moscatelli 1. [Home](/) 2. / 3. [Wedding Venues](/here) 4. / 5. Vocabolo Moscatelli # Vocabolo Moscatelli A restored monastery and intimate boutique hotel in the Umbrian countryside, combining historic stone architecture with contemporary gardens and design. Italy, Umbria Via del Refari 2, Calzolaro, 06019 Umbertide PG, Italy [www.vocabolomoscatelli.com](https://www.vocabolomoscatelli.com/en/) boutique hotelhistoricgardenelopement Vocabolo Moscatelli is a restored monastery in the countryside near Umbertide. Its historic stone buildings, contemporary interiors and landscaped gardens create a private, design-led setting in the heart of Umbria. ## An intimate Umbrian wedding venue The boutique hotel works especially well for a small destination wedding or elopement where the ceremony, portraits, dinner and accommodation can happen in one place. Garden paths, mature trees and the surrounding valley provide several distinct settings without requiring a transfer between them. ## Planning thoughtfully - Ask the venue which garden areas are available for a ceremony and what the wet-weather alternative will be. - Plan portraits around the changing light across the gardens and historic stone buildings. - Allow time to enjoy the property rather than treating it only as a ceremony backdrop. - Confirm accommodation, restaurant and private-event arrangements directly with the venue. ![Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_hVJSl.jpeg) ![Vocabolo Moscatelli additional view](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli.Ce4JeXtC_2o8wpC.jpeg) Real wedding stories ## Wedding stories featuring Vocabolo Moscatelli - [![Harry and Nayla laughing with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli.Ce4JeXtC_1rlyQA.jpeg) Ceremony venue ### Harry & Nayla “He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special.” Read their story → ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [![Isabella and Matthew with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_Z1GqlAi.jpeg) Ceremony venue ### Isabella & Matthew “You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day.” Read their story → ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) ## More venues in Umbria [![Villa Celimontana, Rome wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tempio_Gotico_ZmlnnniOc?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/tempio-gotico) ### Villa Celimontana, Rome Italy, Rome gardenhistoricelopement location A hidden gothic temple in Tempio Gotico nestled in the lush Villa Celimontana gardens, just a short walk uphill from the... [View Details](/here/tempio-gotico) ## Want to get married here? I'd love to create a beautiful ceremony for you at this stunning location [Check my availability](/contact) ## More amazing wedding venues Discover other incredible locations where I've created beautiful ceremonies [![Adam’s Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/adams_distillery_e2VBvTiY7?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/adams-distillery) ### Adam’s Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryoutdoorindustrial+1 more A whisky-lover’s wedding dream just south of Launceston, Adam’s Distillery offers modern industrial vibes, spacious grou... [www.adamsdistillery.com.au](https://www.adamsdistillery.com.au) [View Details](/here/adams-distillery) [![Bendooley Estate wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bendooley_rxtVRdff3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/bendooley) ### Bendooley Estate Australia, Southern Highlands, New South Wales wineryestatebookstore+2 more A world-class wedding venue in the Southern Highlands, set among vineyards, gardens, and one of the most unique receptio... [View Details](/here/bendooley) [![Byron Bay Lighthouse wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tori-jake-byronbay_P6ykwqSid?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) ### Byron Bay Lighthouse Australia, Byron Bay BeachLandmarkOutdoor A stunning clifftop venue overlooking the Pacific Ocean, where I've created intimate ceremonies with breathtaking views. [View Details](/here/byron-bay-lighthouse) [![Caversham House wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/caversham_house_wedding_celebrant_BhiDi2VWy?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/caversham-house) ### Caversham House Australia, Perth gardenestateformal A formal and elegant wedding venue just outside Perth, Caversham House is renowned for its manicured gardens, riverside ... [www.cavershamhouse.com.au](https://www.cavershamhouse.com.au/) [View Details](/here/caversham-house) [![Clyde Mill Distillery wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/clyde_mill_wedding_HT6p0VRXR?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/clyde-mill) ### Clyde Mill Distillery Australia, Tasmania distilleryhistoricrural+2 more Historic sandstone mill wedding venue on Tasmania's Clyde River with relaxed country ceremonies, exceptional food, whisk... [www.clydemill.com.au](https://www.clydemill.com.au) [View Details](/here/clyde-mill) [![Coromandel Peak, New Zealand wedding venue](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/coromandel_peak_-CiqfBrP3?tr=w-640%2Ch-800%2Cf-auto)](/here/coromandel-peak) ### Coromandel Peak, New Zealand New Zealand, Wanaka MountainElopementScenic An iconic mountaintop wedding location overlooking Lake Wanaka, perfect for scenic elopements by helicopter year-round. [View Details](/here/coromandel-peak) ## Wedding advice + help [View all posts »](/blog) Real advice for creating a wedding that is awesome. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Hobart Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/hobart-celebrant # Hobart Wedding Celebrant ## A Hobart wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, an authorised marriage celebrant based in Ranelagh. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries. Across Hobart, the Huon Valley and Southern Tasmania, you get clear legal guidance, professional audio and a ceremony created specifically for you. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Sarah and Connor holding hands with Josh Withers at their wedding](/_astro/sarah-connor-hero.BHi9TmK-_1MUOi8.jpeg) ![](/maps/hobart-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant Why Hobart Couples Choose Josh ## Full-time craft, local knowledge and a personal ceremony Living in the Huon Valley and proud to call Hobart home, I've created over 2,900 weddings and elopements across 24 countries. - ### Created for You Every word is prepared around you, whether you're getting married at Stillwater or eloping at Cradle Mountain. - ### Full-Time Professional Celebrancy is my full-time work. I answer emails, return calls and arrive prepared so the process feels dependable from beginning to end. - ### Killer Sound System Your guests (and videographer) will thank you. Professional Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 S1 speaker with Rode and Sennheiser microphones means everyone hears your vows clearly — whether you're at Peppermint Bay or in a Hobart warehouse. - ### Individual & Modern Civil ceremonies that celebrate your values, your way. No religious tradition required — just honest conversation about commitment, love, and the future you're building together. - ### Legal & Proper I am authorised under the Marriage Act 1961 and handle the legal process carefully, while keeping the ceremony emotionally meaningful. - ### Travel-Ready Experience From Bruny Island to Freycinet, I've married couples in every corner of Tasmania and beyond. Over 2,900 weddings and elopements means I've seen it all and can handle whatever your day throws at us. ## How we create your perfect ceremony - ### Let's Chat We'll check your date and talk about what you want the ceremony to feel like. I'll recommend the right personalised service and give you a clear quote, including destination travel or MC work where needed. - ### Legal Stuff Sorted One month before your wedding, we'll complete your Notice of Intended Marriage together. I'll guide you through the paperwork so it's stress-free and legally solid. - ### Your Story, Your Way Over coffee (or video call), we'll explore what makes your relationship special. I'll craft a ceremony that feels authentically you — meaningful but not stuffy, personal but not awkward. - ### The Big Day I'll arrive early, set up the sound, and deliver a ceremony that's the highlight of your celebration. Calm, confident, and focused entirely on you two. ![Tasmania wedding celebrant ceremony](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Hobart couples are saying - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania - > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." --- [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z1byOt6.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live in the Huon Valley with our three kids, so Hobart is genuinely local for me. I bring that connection—and more than 15 years of experience—to ceremonies across Hobart and southern Tasmania. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready to ditch the boring wedding? Personalised ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony-and-MC bookings are quoted around what you actually need. Let's make your Hobart ceremony unforgettable. [Tell me about your wedding](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Hobart Christian Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/hobart-christian-celebrant # Hobart Christian Wedding Celebrant ## A modern Christian wedding ceremony, grounded in faith and created around you I'm Josh Withers, a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant with a Pentecostal background and Bible college training. I create Christian ceremonies across Hobart, the Huon Valley and Tasmania, shaped around your faith, Scripture, prayer and personal vows. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian wedding ceremony in Hobart](/_astro/Teghan%20%20Greg-83.DHExnvCj_2vnXtx.jpeg) ![](/maps/hobart-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Christian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries — creating Christian ceremonies grounded in faith and shaped around each couple. - ### Theological Foundation Bible college-trained with Pentecostal roots and a charismatic worship background, bringing a thoughtful theological foundation to your ceremony. - ### Custom Scripture Integration Bible verses woven naturally into your ceremony, selected around your faith journey, relationship and the promises you are making. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones for outdoor Tasmanian venues. Everyone hears the vows and scripture clearly at Huon Valley vineyards or Mount Wellington ceremonies, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your Christian ceremony will be emotionally resonant, biblically grounded, and legally solid. - ### Flexible Faith Expression From traditional liturgy to spirit-led spontaneity — the ceremony reflects your actual faith practice, not what you think a Christian wedding 'should' look like. - ### Contemporary Format Usually 18-20 minutes, shaped by modern worship and years of professional speaking — long enough to honour God, short enough to keep everyone present and engaged. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you want the ceremony to hold. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start exploring your faith story together. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Hobart or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Faith & ceremony conversations Coffee in Hobart or video calls to discuss your faith journey, theology preferences, and vision. I will create a Christian ceremony that reflects who you are as believers and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and spirit-led authenticity — creating the moment that anchors your celebration before God. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Hobart couples are saying - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania - > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." --- [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z1byOt6.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live in the Huon Valley with our three kids, so Hobart is genuinely local for me. I bring that connection—and more than 15 years of experience—to Christian ceremonies across Hobart and southern Tasmania. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Christian ceremony that honours God? Faithful, personal and beautifully delivered. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Courthouse wedding in Hobart URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/hobart-courthouse-wedding Feb 22, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 3 min read # Courthouse wedding in Hobart Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! ![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Hey there! Josh here. I’ve noticed quite a few people searching for “courthouse weddings” lately, and I totally get why. You’re probably looking for a simple, no-fuss way to get married without all the traditional wedding hoopla. But here’s the thing – we do things a bit differently in Australia. In [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant), Tasmanian Births, Deaths and Marriages registers marriages and issues certificates but does not advertise a public [registry-office ceremony](/registry-office) service. Local authorised [marriage celebrants](/marriage-celebrant) provide the simple legal ceremony couples are usually looking for. ## The American vs Australian Way You know those courthouse weddings you see in American movies? Where the couple rocks up to the courthouse, gets married by a judge, and walks out legally wed? Well, that’s not quite how we roll in Australia. But don’t worry – we’ve got something even better! ## What We Do Instead In Australia, and particularly here in Tasmania, we don’t have courthouse weddings because our courts are too busy, you know, courting 😉. Instead, we have celebrants like yours truly who provide the exact same service – quick, simple, legal marriages without any of the fancy stuff. ## How It Actually Works Through [The Marriage Office in Hobart](https://marriageoffice.org), I help loads of couples get married in exactly the way they want: just the legal bits, no frills attached. We’re talking about a super simple ceremony that includes only what the law requires – about 120 words in total. Yep, that’s all you need to be legally married in Australia! ## What You Get - A proper legal marriage (exactly the same as any other Aussie marriage) - A quick, simple ceremony (we’re talking 5-10 minutes) - Just the required legal words - The ceremonial marriage certificate signed on the day - No stress, no fuss, no unnecessary extras - Me, as your friendly celebrant, making sure everything’s legal and proper ## Where We Do It Unlike a courthouse wedding, we can do this basically anywhere! Your place, my office, a nice café in Hobart, or even that cool spot in the Botanical Gardens you love. As long as we can hear each other speak and sign some paperwork, we’re good to go. ## Who’s This For? I’ve helped all sorts of couples with simple legal marriages: - Couples saving for a house (I see you, Hobart real estate market!) - People planning a bigger celebration later - International couples needing to make things official - Practical folks who just want to get the legal bit done - Anyone wanting to avoid wedding planning stress ## But What About Registry Weddings? Tasmanian Births, Deaths and Marriages registers the marriage after the celebrant submits the documents. If you need an official certificate for a name change or other proof, you order it separately from the Registry after the wedding. The Marriage Office exists to give couples the simple, registry-style ceremony they are looking for. ## Ready to Get Married? If you’re nodding along thinking “Yes! This is exactly what I want!” then I’ve got good news – it’s super easy to organize. Just [get in touch with me](https://marriageoffice.org), and we can sort out all the details. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to get married. Whether you want a massive celebration with hundreds of guests or just a simple legal ceremony, I’m here to help make it happen, stress-free and exactly the way you want it. Want to know more about the simple legal marriage option? Check out [all the details here](https://marriageoffice.org). Prefer something a bit more personal than the paperwork-only route? [Get in touch about a full ceremony](/contact) and I’ll talk you through what an 18-minute, written-from-scratch wedding looks like. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-1jq286d) - [Stacey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/stacey-060zoy5) - [Steve & Bec— Derwent Estate Wines](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) --- # Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding Aug 13, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 7 min read # Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding A casino-themed celebration captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements ![Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/casino_wedding_Cd9B8G_rO?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’ll be completely honest with you: I hate gambling. I’ve seen too many families - my own included - torn apart by the relentless grip of pokies and the false promise of easy money. The statistics are sobering. Australians lose more money per capita to gambling than almost anywhere else in the world, and I’ve witnessed firsthand the devastation it brings to relationships and families. But here’s the thing about hosting a casino-themed wedding: it’s not about gambling, it’s a spin on the traditional wedding reception. A casino-themed wedding captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements that destroy lives. I’m thinking James Bond vibes, jazz-age glamour, and the timeless appeal of skilled card games rather than mindless slot machines eating your grocery money. I can imagine your father and new father-in-law going head to head on the poker table! ## The Art of Strategic Fun The beauty of a well-executed casino wedding lies in its focus on skill-based games and social interaction. Poker, blackjack, and baccarat are games that reward strategy, psychology, and social reading—qualities that actually mirror what makes marriages successful. You’re not feeding coins into a machine hoping for a jackpot; you’re engaging in sophisticated entertainment that brings people together. Instead of traditional wedding reception activities like awkward group dances or endless speeches, your guests become active participants in an immersive experience. Instead of Uncle Barry doing his third rendition of “Sweet Caroline,” he’s teaching your cousins how to calculate odds at the blackjack table whilst a jazz trio plays softly in the background. ## Setting the Scene Without Setting Up Addiction The key to a successful casino-themed wedding is creating atmosphere without encouraging actual gambling behaviours. Here’s how to do it right: 1. **Use play money or tokens with your wedding date** Give each guest a stylish pouch of personalised chips when they arrive. Make them beautiful keepsakes rather than currency. Nobody’s going home poorer, and you’ve created a unique memento. 2. **Focus on games of skill, not chance** Poker tournaments, blackjack tables, and even bridge create social interaction. Avoid anything that resembles a poker machine or pure chance games. The goal is engagement, not exploitation. 3. **Make it about the experience, not winning** The “prizes” for the evening should be small, fun items—perhaps bottles of wine, gift vouchers to local restaurants, or even just bragging rights. The real prize is the shared experience and the stories you’ll tell for years. ## The Ceremony: Where the Real Investment Matters Here’s where my passion for creating meaningful ceremonies intersects beautifully with your casino theme, but with an important distinction. Marriage isn’t a bet because bets can go either way, winners and losers determined by chance or odds. What you’re doing in your wedding ceremony is the opposite of gambling. You’re going “all in” on something real, something certain, something that will absolutely change your life for the better forever. This isn’t about risk or chance—it’s about the most confident investment you’ll ever make. You’ve done your research, you know your partner’s character, you’ve seen how they handle life’s challenges, and you’re choosing to build something together that’s guaranteed to enrich your existence. I love incorporating this certainty into casino-themed ceremonies. Instead of traditional ring exchanges, imagine exchanging personalised poker chips engraved with your promises—not as tokens of a gamble, but as symbols of your unwavering commitment to this sure thing. Or having your wedding party present you with your “winning hand”—cards that represent the qualities you each bring that make your partnership unbeatable. The beautiful language of going “all in” works perfectly for marriage when we understand it correctly: you’re not risking everything on an uncertain outcome, you’re investing everything in a partnership you know will succeed because you’re both committed to making it work. Unlike casino games where the house always wins, in marriage, when you both show up fully committed, you both always win. ## Practical Planning for Your High-Stakes Evening - **Venue Selection** Look for spaces with inherent elegance—historic hotels, art deco buildings, or even function centres that can be transformed with lighting and décor. The goal is sophistication, not the carpet-and-neon aesthetic of suburban gaming venues. - **Entertainment Beyond the Tables** A jazz trio or swing band is essential. This isn’t about contemporary pop hits; it’s about creating a soundtrack that transports guests to an era when casinos were about glamour and social connection. Consider hiring a professional dealer or two to manage the more complex games and teach newcomers. - **Dress Code Mastery** Black tie or cocktail attire works perfectly. Encourage guests to channel their inner Bond or vintage Vegas glamour. The effort people put into dressing up becomes part of the experience—suddenly everyone feels more sophisticated and ready to play their part. - **Food and Drink Strategy** Forget the traditional sit-down dinner. Instead, opt for elegant canapés and cocktails that can be enjoyed whilst mingling between tables. Classic cocktails like martinis, old fashioneds, and champagne cocktails fit the theme perfectly. Consider hiring a cocktail artist who can put on a show whilst mixing drinks. ## The Psychology of Shared Risk There’s something brilliant about watching your wedding guests engage with mild, social “risk” together. Aunt Margaret, who usually sits quietly in the corner, suddenly becomes animated explaining poker strategy to your work colleagues. Your best man discovers he’s surprisingly good at reading people’s bluffing tells. Your grandmother, it turns out, is absolutely ruthless at blackjack. These shared experiences create stories and connections that traditional wedding entertainment simply doesn’t provide. Years later, people won’t remember another wedding where they awkwardly shuffled through “The Nutbush” for the hundredth time. They will remember the night your uncle taught half the wedding party to count cards, or when the mother-of-the-bride went on an incredible winning streak that had the whole room cheering. ## Creating Legacy, Not Liability The difference between a casino-themed wedding and promoting gambling addiction is intentionality. We’re celebrating the social aspects of classic casino culture—the glamour, the strategy, the theatrical excitement—whilst completely avoiding the predatory elements that harm families. Every decision should filter through this lens: does this element bring people together in healthy fun, or does it encourage harmful behaviours? Does it create positive memories and social connection, or does it normalise the kind of thinking that leads to genuine gambling problems? ## The Ultimate Jackpot At the end of the evening, when the last hand has been played and the jazz trio packs up their instruments, your guests will leave with something infinitely more valuable than any casino could offer: genuine connections, shared laughter, and the memory of celebrating your love in a way that was uniquely, authentically you. The real jackpot isn’t what anyone wins at the tables—it’s the fact that you’ve created a wedding celebration that brought out the best in your people, encouraged social connection over passive entertainment, and provided a backdrop for the kind of sophisticated fun that builds community rather than destroying it. Because ultimately, that’s what great weddings do: they create the foundation for strong marriages, which create strong families, which create strong communities. And that’s always been the best bet you can make. Your wedding ceremony should still be the highlight of the day—the moment when everything else fades away and it’s just you two, making the biggest commitment of your lives. But if you want the reception to be remembered as the night when love really won big, a thoughtfully planned casino theme might just be your ace in the hole. _Planning a casino-themed wedding in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant) or beyond? I’d love to help you create a ceremony that captures the excitement of going “all in” on forever. Because when it comes to marriage, the house doesn’t always win—love does._ - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding themes](/tag/wedding-themes) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Janelle— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/janelle-1x65scp) - [Alyssa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alyssa-1q00d78) - [Monique— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/monique-01jzz47) --- # How Josh Withers Creates Wedding Ceremonies URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-i-create-ceremonies Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) · 4 min read # Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) After creating thousands of weddings, I have developed some really strong opinions about weddings and ceremony. My strongest is my most simple: if you are going to have a wedding, create it with intent. My second is that your ceremony is not a performance or a moment requiring perfection (and rehearsal) but instead it’s a vulnerable and human moment where we - the two of you and I with your community - create your marriage. Where we breath it to life. I’ll also tell anyone listing that you do not need a large wedding to get married. You need the legal requirements and a few humans. The reason to gather everyone and build an event is that you want the experience of a wedding—so make that experience worth their attention and yours. You can even do it with no-one. ## I do not begin with a script Regardless of how many people are there, the ceremony is not _for_ them, but if there are witnesses and guests, it’s for them to witness. What happens inside that ceremony is where I shine though and I start by not strting with a template or a script.\` Many wedding ceremonies look similar because the people are handed a menu of familiar parts. 1. Welcome. 2. Love story. 3. Reading. 4. Vows. 5. Rings. 6. Kiss. The order is not inherently bad, but it is not a reason for just doing it that way every day. I begin with the two people getting married. What does marriage mean to you? Who is in the room? Which beliefs, cultures, relationships and promises should be visible? How do you want the moment to feel? Does anyone attending your wedding really need a re-telling of your love story? Do they already not know? My ceremony structure follows those answers. ## Tradition must earn its chair Tradition can be excellent. A repeated practice can connect families, faiths and generations. It can give people language when the moment is larger than them. Tradition can also be peer pressure with good stationery. Keep a tradition because it carries meaning, brings joy or serves the people present. Change or remove it when it assigns a role you reject, creates an experience you dislike or exists only because weddings have looked that way in photographs. An intentional ceremony may appear traditional. The difference is that the couple chose it with their eyes open. ## I prepare deeply so I can speak naturally A ceremony should not feel like somebody is reading an article about you. I do the work before the wedding: conversations, legal checks, names, pronunciation, structure, timing, vows, cues, sound and coordination with the team. That preparation lets me be present in the actual room rather than hiding behind a script. Natural delivery is not improvising the legal marriage. It is knowing the work well enough to respond to the people, weather and emotion without losing the shape of the moment. ## The words look forward A relationship history can be funny and useful. It is not the whole ceremony. Marriage points forward. The ceremony should name what is being created, what the couple values and how they intend to live. Personal vows are crucial because they give each person the chance to speak directly and make promises in their own language. The legal words make the marriage valid. The personal words help make it yours. ## Everyone needs to hear Words cannot carry meaning if the back row hears wind and a distant murmur. I bring professional speakers and microphones. I position myself, the couple and the equipment so guests can see faces rather than the back of a celebrant’s head. I work with photographers and videographers so sound, sightlines and movement support the same moment. This is my craft, not a decoration. I want the two of you and everyone there to be involved and comfortable in the moment. ## The ceremony should finish on time A meaningful ceremony does not need to be long. It should be as long as it needs to be, and as short as it needs to be, no shorter, no longer, and finish on that time. Mine are usually around 18 well-paced minutes unless religious, cultural or personal elements need more room. The aim is not to make the ceremony brief enough to survive. It is to make every part belong. When the purpose has been fulfilled, we sign the documents, celebrate the marriage and get out of the way of the party. That is why I work this way: a wedding ceremony is a living, public moment in which words create a marriage. It deserves more than a template and less than a lecture. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Petra— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0) - [Claudia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/claudia-1ovl78w) - [Shannon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/shannon-1s7hzjr) --- # Australian Marriage Rate Falls to 5.3 in 2025 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025 Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) · 27 min read # How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) **TL;DR: Australia’s crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 weddings per 1,000 people aged 16 and over in 2025.** It was 5.5 in 2024 and 5.6 in 2019. Yet Australia registered 118,804 marriages—4.4% more than in 2019. The apparent contradiction matters: wedding volume has recovered, but it has not kept pace with growth in the adult population. The crude rate measures the annual flow of new legal marriages, not the stock of people who are already married. It is a yellow light worth taking seriously, not proof that marriage is disappearing. Couples are marrying later, Saturday is losing share, wedding formats are diversifying and government registries are growing in some states. Divorce rose in 2025, especially at older ages, but remained below its 2019 rate. --- The most important number in the [Australian Bureau of Statistics 2025 marriage release](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/2025) is not 118,804. It is 5.3. Australia’s crude marriage rate fell from 5.5 weddings per 1,000 people aged 16 and over in 2024 to 5.3 in 2025. It was 5.6 in 2019. At the same time, Australia registered almost 5,000 more marriages than in 2019. The crude marriage rate measures the flow of new legal marriages, not the stock of existing marriages. That distinction explains almost everything—including how a society in which everybody was already married could record a crude marriage rate of zero. My reading is that Australia’s wedding market has recovered in volume, but the national marriage rate has not. Marriage remains culturally dominant while becoming later, less automatic and less attached to one expensive, Saturday-heavy wedding format. ## Australia’s crude marriage rate is falling ### Wedding numbers grew, but not as quickly as the adult population Australia registered 118,804 marriages in 2025: - 2,040 fewer than in 2024, a fall of 1.7%; - 365 more than in 2023, a rise of only 0.3%; and - 4,989 more than in 2019, a rise of 4.4%. Year Marriage registrations Crude marriage rate per 1,000 people aged 16+ 2019 113,815 5.6 2023 118,439 5.5 2024 120,844 5.5 2025 118,804 5.3 The post-rebound story is not collapse or boom. Australia has recorded roughly 119,000 weddings a year for three years. ![Bar chart showing 113,815 Australian marriage registrations and a crude marriage rate of 5.6 in 2019; 118,439 and 5.5 in 2023; 120,844 and 5.5 in 2024; and 118,804 and 5.3 in 2025.](/images/australian-marriages-2025-volume-and-rate.svg) _Chart: Australian marriage registrations recovered to roughly 119,000 a year, while the crude marriage rate fell. Bars begin at zero. Source: [Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2025](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/2025)._ I will use the ordinary word “weddings” throughout, while the ABS measure is technically registered marriages. It does not count guest numbers, spending, supplier bookings, package sizes, lead times or whether the couple held a large reception. A stable wedding count does not guarantee a stable market for every venue, photographer, florist or celebrant package. For the wedding industry, the raw count answers, “How many legal weddings exist to be served?” For society, the crude rate asks, “How quickly are new marriages being formed relative to the size of the adult population?” Those are two different truths in the same dataset. ### What does a crude marriage rate of 5.3 actually mean? The [ABS methodology](https://www.abs.gov.au/methodologies/marriages-and-divorces-australia-methodology/2025) defines the crude marriage rate as: > marriages registered during the year ÷ estimated resident population aged 16 and over at 30 June × 1,000 Using the marriage total and the [ABS June 2025 population estimates](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/population/national-state-and-territory-population/jun-2025), the calculation is: > 118,804 ÷ 22,470,899 × 1,000 = 5.287 Rounded to one decimal place, that is **5.3 weddings per 1,000 Australians aged 16 and over**. It does not mean: - 5.3% of Australians got married; - 5.3 out of every 1,000 unmarried people got married; - Australians have a 5.3-in-1,000 lifetime chance of marrying; or - only 5.3 people per 1,000 are married. Each wedding involves two people. As a piece of intuition, 5.3 weddings represents approximately 10.6 marrying people per 1,000 people aged 16 and over, or about 1.06% of that population participating during the year. Even that is not a precise individual probability. Australian registrations can include overseas residents marrying here and exclude Australians whose legal marriage takes place overseas. ### Why is it called “crude”? “Crude” does not mean inaccurate or unsophisticated. It means the denominator is broad and unadjusted. The denominator includes: - people who are already married and ordinarily cannot marry again; - people with no partner or no intention of marrying; - people in de facto relationships; - widowed and divorced people; - people aged 16 and 17, most of whom cannot ordinarily marry; and - every adult age group, although marriage is concentrated in particular ages. The numerator also combines first marriages and remarriages. The rate therefore does not isolate the population genuinely “at risk” of marrying. It compares the annual number of registered weddings with a broad population base. ### Why the falling rate matters—but is not a final diagnosis The rate’s great strength is that it controls for population growth. Australia registered 4.4% more marriages in 2025 than in 2019, but the crude rate fell from 5.6 to 5.3. Wedding numbers grew, but not as quickly as the population aged 16 and over. I treat that decline as a yellow light. It may reflect: - genuine movement away from marriage; - people marrying later or cohabiting for longer; - economic postponement; - changes in the population’s age structure; - migration adding adults faster than weddings; - a post-pandemic backlog being cleared; or - fewer divorces creating fewer opportunities for remarriage. The annual rate cannot, by itself, tell us how much each explanation contributed. A high rate is not automatically wonderful either. It can be lifted by many remarriages following high divorce, or by weddings deferred from an earlier year. Australia’s extraordinary 2022 rate was partly a post-lockdown catch-up. ### How Australia compares internationally There is an important denominator trap in international comparisons. The OECD, Eurostat and the United States calculate crude marriage rates using the **total population**, including children. Australia’s headline 5.3 uses only people aged 16 and over. For an apples-to-apples comparison, Australia’s 2025 calculation is: > 118,804 ÷ 27,614,411 total residents × 1,000 = 4.302 So Australia’s internationally comparable rate is approximately **4.3**, not 5.3. Country or region Weddings per 1,000 total population Reference year United States 6.10 2023 Australia 4.30 2025 OECD average 4.30 2022 Japan 4.00 2024 European Union 3.90 2024 New Zealand 3.68 2022 These are different reference years, so this is orientation rather than a perfect league table. The [OECD reports](https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/society-at-a-glance-2024_918d8db3-en/full-report/marriage-and-divorce_63dd0a7d.html) that most member countries sat between three and five marriages per 1,000 people in 2022, with an average of 4.3. [Eurostat recorded](https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/web/interactive-publications/demography-2026) an EU rate of 3.9 in 2024, ranging from 2.9 in Italy to 5.5 in Latvia. The [United States remained comparatively high](https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm) at 6.1 in 2023, while [Japan recorded 4.0](https://www.mhlw.go.jp/english/database/db-hw/populate/dl/E02.pdf) in 2024. The New Zealand figure comes from the [Stats NZ crude-rate series](https://figure.nz/table/USBvXWWwTxMtQ5oE). “Australia is in the middle of the wealthy-country pack” is a fair conclusion. It is below the United States, around Japan and the OECD average, and above New Zealand and much of Western Europe. The broader developed-world movement is towards later and less automatic marriage. Australia participates in that trend without sitting at its most extreme edge. ### A completely married society could have a crude marriage rate of zero If everybody eligible were already married, married prevalence could be 100%—yet the crude marriage rate the following year could be zero because nobody new needed to marry. That is the central paradox: > A completely married society can have a crude marriage rate of zero. Now imagine 1,000 eligible people all begin unmarried and every one of them pairs off and marries during one extraordinary year. Because each wedding requires two people, that produces 500 weddings: a one-off rate of 500 weddings per 1,000 people. If everybody stayed married, the following year’s rate would fall close to zero. In a deliberately simplified model: > crude rate = 500 × unmarried share × share of that pool marrying during the year If 40% of the population were unmarried and pairable and every one of them married during the year, the result would be 200 weddings per 1,000 people. As a rough thought experiment, the 2021 Census found 50.3% of Australians aged 15 and over were never married, divorced or widowed. Perfectly pairing that entire group in one year would produce about 251 weddings per 1,000 people. That is not a practical target or forecast: it ignores age, compatibility, choice, legal eligibility and partner availability. Finally, consider a stable society in which practically everyone eventually marries once. If adults were spread evenly across about 65 adult years, only one new age cohort would need to marry each year. That toy model produces roughly seven or eight weddings per 1,000 adults annually. Even universal lifetime marriage can coexist with a single-digit annual crude marriage rate. ### What should we measure if we want to know how “married” Australia is? The crude marriage rate belongs in a dashboard, not on a throne. A fuller picture would include: - the proportion of adults currently married; - the proportion of people living as couples who are married rather than de facto; - first-marriage rates among never-married people; - age-specific marriage rates; - the proportion ever married by age 40 or 50; - median age at first marriage; and - marriage duration and divorce by marriage cohort. The [2021 Census](https://www.abs.gov.au/census/find-census-data/quickstats/2021/AUS) found 46.5% of Australians aged 15 and over reported being married in its registered-marital-status table. Look only at people living as couples, and [79.9% reported being married rather than de facto](https://www.abs.gov.au/articles/same-sex-couples-living-together-australia). Those are stock measures. They answer a different question from the annual flow of new weddings. My interpretation of 2025 is therefore: > Australia continues to form legal marriages at a broadly middle-of-the-pack international rate. Wedding volume is healthy, but formation has not kept pace with population growth. That is worth taking seriously from a pro-marriage perspective—but the crude rate alone cannot tell us that Australians are rejecting commitment, that marriage is disappearing or that existing marriages are unhealthy. ### The five-year result is healthy; the six-year ledger is not fully repaired The latest five completed years compare surprisingly well with the final five years before COVID: Period Total registrations Annual average Approx. average published crude rate 2015–19 577,951 115,590 5.88 2021–25 574,415 114,883 5.34 Difference −3,536 −707 −0.54 Percentage difference **−0.6%** **−0.6%** **−9.2%** The raw five-year market is almost the same size: a difference of only 3,536 marriages, or 0.6%. But the crude rate is materially lower. The simple average of the published annual rates fell by 9.2%, showing again that wedding volume and population-adjusted marriage formation are different measures. The approximate five-year rates above are simple averages of the ABS annual rates, which are published to one decimal place. They are not pooled five-year rates. There is also a six-year pandemic-and-aftermath ledger: Period Actual registrations Registrations if the 2015–19 annual average had continued Difference 2020–21 168,154 231,180 −63,026 2022–25 485,248 462,361 +22,887 2020–25 653,402 693,541 **−40,139** Across 2020–25, Australia averaged 108,900 marriage registrations a year. That was 5.8% below the 2015–19 annual average of 115,590. If the pre-pandemic average had simply continued for six years, Australia would have recorded about 693,541 marriages. It actually recorded 653,402—a difference of 40,139. That does not prove Australia permanently “lost” 40,139 marriages. Some couples married later, some separated, some decided marriage was unnecessary and some legally married overseas. The flat counterfactual is deliberately simple. It does prove that the 2022 rebound did not fully erase the cumulative registration gap. Under that flat counterfactual, the 2022–25 surplus recovered about 36% of the two-year 2020–21 deficit. So the honest big-picture line is: > Five-year marriage volume has recovered. The national marriage rate has not, and the full pandemic-and-aftermath ledger remains below the old annual pace. The lower rate worries me because I believe healthy marriages can help underpin healthy families, stronger communities and a more connected society. That is my value judgement, not an ABS finding. The ABS can count marriage registrations; it cannot measure the quality of a relationship or the social good created inside it. ## Australians are marrying later—and more intentionally ### The under-30 market weakened while the 30–39 market grew The median age at marriage may be levelling out. In 2025 it was 32.7 for men, down slightly for a second year, and 31.2 for women, unchanged for a third year. But the age distribution has still moved deeper into people’s thirties. For men, the highest age-specific marriage rate is now among 30–34-year-olds rather than 25–29-year-olds. For women, 25–29 still leads, but 30–34 is much closer than it was in 2019. Participant counts make the shift tangible: Marriage participants 2019 2025 Change Men under 30 40,691 38,782 −4.7% Men aged 30–39 44,322 50,327 +13.5% Women under 30 53,566 50,027 −6.6% Women aged 30–39 39,401 46,359 +17.7% ![Grouped bar chart showing marriage participant counts falling for men and women under 30 between 2019 and 2025, while counts rose for men and women aged 30 to 39.](/images/australian-marriages-2025-age-shift.svg) _Chart: Under-30 participant counts fell between 2019 and 2025, while the number of people marrying in their thirties increased. Bars begin at zero. Source: [Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2025](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/2025)._ This looks more like postponed marriage than wholesale rejection of it. But “postponed” is an interpretation, not a proven cause, and it is not permission to ignore the decline. No published age-specific marriage rate increased in 2025. Cost of living, housing insecurity and wedding prices are plausible explanations. The ABS release does not prove that any of them caused the annual fall. A marriage delayed for affordability reasons can still happen later. It can also be abandoned through inertia, separation or changing priorities. For some couples, delaying marriage may delay parenthood, shared financial planning or formal legal status. But many form households before marriage: the latest detailed data say 81.3% of couples who married in 2024 had already cohabited. That is why I increasingly think of marriage as a capstone rather than a starting gun. ### Marriage is less automatic, but it has not disappeared The latest detailed 2024 figures, published by the [Australian Institute of Family Studies using ABS data](https://aifs.gov.au/all-research/facts-and-figures/marriages-australia-25), show: - 81.3% of marrying couples had cohabited; - 74.0% were entering a first marriage for both partners; - 83.2% of marriages were conducted by civil celebrants; and - 16.4% were conducted by ministers of religion. In 1970, the split was almost the reverse: 88.1% religious and 11.9% civil. Civil marriage is now mainstream Australian marriage. But “civil” does not mean “independent civil celebrant”. It also includes government registry officers, and the annual public ABS tables no longer separate those markets. The cultural change is enormous. Many couples now build a home, combine lives and perhaps have children before they marry. Marriage is no longer the automatic permission slip to begin adult life. It is often a deliberate public and legal act chosen after the relationship already exists. That can make marriage more intentional. It can also make it endlessly postponable because the house, bills and shared life are already there. A lower annual marriage rate also does not mean marriage has vanished from Australian life. In the [2021 Census household and family data](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/household-and-families-census/2021), roughly four in five people recorded as living in a married or de facto couple were married. Annual marriage flow and the existing stock of married people are different measures. Marriage remains culturally dominant while becoming less automatic. That is more interesting—and more accurate—than either “marriage is dying” or “everything is fine”. Same-gender and non-binary-inclusive marriages are now part of that ordinary baseline. They represented 4,636 registrations, or 3.9% of all marriages, in 2025. The share has been broadly stable for three years. Marriages involving at least one non-binary partner rose from 231 to 260. The initial post-marriage-equality catch-up appears to have settled, although changes to how sex and gender are collected complicate long comparisons. ## The Australian wedding economy is changing shape ### Couples may be compressing the wedding rather than rejecting the marriage If people want to marry but believe they need $35,000 or $40,000 before they can do it, that is not a failure of marriage. It is a failure of how parts of the wedding market have packaged marriage. A paperwork-only, celebrant-led wedding can cost about $700. The price explodes when a couple chooses to invite guests and provide a venue, dinner, drinks, furniture, flowers, styling, photography, entertainment and transport. There is real labour and value in those things. But a paperwork-only wedding and a large hosted wedding are not the same purchase. That is why I have argued before that [an “average Australian wedding cost” is a poor instruction to an individual couple](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings). A mean is not an entry price, a minimum standard or a bill that every couple receives. The October 2024 [Easy Weddings 2025 Industry Report](https://assets.easyweddings.com/files/2024/10/10100512/EasyWeddings-Survey-2025.pdf) drew on more than 4,000 couples planning weddings in 2025 or later and 800 wedding businesses. It is useful industry evidence, but it is a commercial-platform survey, not a population census like the ABS. Easy Weddings survey measure Reported result Responsible reading Average expected wedding cost $35,315 A mean among respondents, not an official national price Average original budget $27,455 Reported expected spend was 28.6% above the starting budget Desired guests 116 What respondents said they wanted Planned invitations 88 A 28-person, or 24.1%, gap from the desired list Respondents extending engagement to save 30% Average extra 12 months among that group Respondents cutting at least one area because of cost of living 69% Evidence of pressure within the sample, not proof of national causation The 28-person invitation gap is economically significant. It affects catering, beverages, furniture, transport, stationery and venue requirements. It may have much less effect on the celebrant or photographer. A smaller wedding does not shrink every supplier category equally. Smaller is not automatically socially worse. It can reduce debt, waste, stress and family politics. It can give a couple more time with the people who matter. But there is a trade-off. A wedding is one of the few remaining occasions when families and communities publicly witness a commitment. Extreme privatisation can make marriage feel like a private lifestyle choice rather than a social institution. The reported $7,860 gap between the original budget and expected spend should concern the industry, but the survey cannot tell us how much came from initial under-budgeting, price rises, scope changes or supplier practices. It would be unfair to assign the whole gap to businesses. A newer Easy Weddings survey reported by [ABC in June 2026](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-06-12/micro-weddings-elopements-rise-cost-of-living-crisis/106782294) produced a different average of $38,252 and said 15% had chosen a smaller wedding. That is a different survey. The two figures should not be spliced into a clean price series. ABC also reported that government registry weddings increased over three years by 553 in Victoria, 1,119 in New South Wales and 357 in Queensland. A [separate report using Queensland BDM data](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-03-07/increase-in-registry-weddings-in-queensland/106404800) put the state’s 2025 government-registry count at 3,082, about 13% of marriages. Those figures support a change in format, but they do not establish growth in private celebrant-led paperwork-only weddings. The bigger lesson is that average spend can rise while event size falls. Supplier costs can increase, guest lists can shrink and high-spend respondents can pull up the mean at the same time. Higher nominal average spending is not proof of stronger real demand. Longer engagements create another industry trap. Within the Easy Weddings sample, 30% said they were delaying to save, by an average of 12 months among that group. That suggests some near-term demand may be deferred, but it does not establish that the whole market is shrinking. A pipeline can look healthy in the enquiry inbox while converting slowly into completed weddings. Businesses that confuse enquiries with near-term revenue may overestimate their market. One more discrepancy is revealing. Easy Weddings forecast 55% of 2025 weddings would happen on Saturdays. ABS recorded 44.5% of 2025 wedding occurrences on Saturdays. One plausible explanation is that a planning platform disproportionately sees supplier-rich weddings, while the ABS also sees registry, paperwork-only, elopement and modest weekday weddings. The figures reveal a coverage or forecast gap; they do not prove its cause. This is why the most resilient businesses will segment their services instead of discounting one oversized package. Couples are not all buying a cheaper version of the same wedding. They are choosing [paperwork-only weddings](/marriage-the-legal-bits), [elopements, micro-weddings and larger celebrations](/wedding-sizes) as genuinely different products. As weddings become smaller, I think the ceremony should become more important, not less. When there is less production surrounding the day, the words, promises and people carrying the ceremony have more weight. Transparent pricing matters too. Hidden fees, unexplained mark-ups and constant upselling make the wedding industry look like an obstacle between couples and marriage. The wedding industry is not entitled to a fixed share of anyone’s savings. Its economic case rests on providing experiences and services that couples value. That is also the useful lesson in [Think Splendid’s international research about couples dismissing wedding professionals](https://www.thinksplendid.com/blog/firing-wedding-planner). Its global survey reported that 15% of respondents across budgets had dismissed at least one wedding professional, rising to 31% in the luxury segment and 27% in ultra-luxury. Those figures cover any wedding professional, not planners alone, and they are not Australian prevalence estimates. The industry warning is still useful: honest capacity, clear communication, transparent value and making clients feel important are competitive necessities. ### Saturday is losing share, and Australia has several wedding seasons Saturday remains the most popular wedding day, but it no longer represents most marriages. The ABS daily table contains 117,501 marriages by date of occurrence in 2025. This differs from the 118,804 reference-year registration total because occurrence and registration are different measures. Day 2025 wedding occurrences Share Monday 6,863 5.8% Tuesday 6,229 5.3% Wednesday 6,699 5.7% Thursday 9,810 8.3% Friday 21,071 17.9% Saturday 52,315 44.5% Sunday 14,514 12.4% ![Horizontal bar chart showing the share of Australian wedding occurrences by weekday in 2025: Monday 5.8%, Tuesday 5.3%, Wednesday 5.7%, Thursday 8.3%, Friday 17.9%, Saturday 44.5% and Sunday 12.4%.](/images/australian-marriages-2025-weekday-share.svg) _Chart: Saturday remained the favourite wedding day in 2025, but accounted for fewer than half of recorded wedding occurrences. Source: [Australian Bureau of Statistics, 2025](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/2025)._ Another 37.5% happened from Sunday to Thursday. Saturday’s share in the published occurrence tables has fallen from 47.6% in 2023 to 45.6% in 2024 and 44.5% in 2025. Daily figures can be revised as late registrations arrive, but the direction is substantial. A wider wedding week can be good economics. Venues can sell previously quiet days, couples may find more affordable options and suppliers can spread work. It can also weaken Saturday pricing power and change staffing patterns. The most popular date was Saturday 25 October, with 2,035 marriages. The visually memorable Sunday 25 May recorded 726. Date numerology is media-friendly, but economically shallow. The deeper story is how marriages are redistributing across the week. Monthly headlines can be shallow too. April 2025 occurrences fell 16.6% while May rose 21.7%. Combine the two months and the result was down by only 40 marriages, or 0.2%. Easter moved from late March in 2024 to late April in 2025. That is consistent with couples shifting around the holiday calendar; it is not proof of a demand change. Australia does not have one national wedding season. Spring represented 32.7% of 2025 wedding occurrences nationally, but Tasmania peaked in March and the Northern Territory held 46.5% of its weddings in winter. A national wedding business that applies Melbourne or Sydney seasonality to every state is misunderstanding Australia. Climate, tourism, school holidays and local culture create several wedding economies. ### Victoria drove the decline, while South Australia and Tasmania rose The state story is uneven: Registration jurisdiction 2019 2024 2025 2025 change Change since 2019 New South Wales 39,596 39,659 39,818 +0.4% +0.6% Victoria 28,634 32,050 30,209 −5.7% +5.5% Queensland 22,152 23,595 23,091 −2.1% +4.2% South Australia 7,125 7,500 7,843 +4.6% +10.1% Western Australia 11,661 13,366 13,208 −1.2% +13.3% Tasmania 2,385 2,364 2,405 +1.7% +0.8% Northern Territory 805 738 739 +0.1% −8.2% ACT 1,461 1,554 1,469 −5.5% +0.5% Victoria registered 1,841 fewer marriages, accounting for about 90% of the net national fall of 2,040. The national totals imply that the other states and territories combined were down by about 200. South Australia had the strongest annual rise. Western Australia softened slightly but remains the strongest six-year growth story, 13.3% above 2019. Tasmania registered 2,405 marriages, almost exactly its 2019 count of 2,385. That recovers some of the ground in [my analysis of Tasmania’s 2024 fall](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops), although Tasmania’s share of the national market remains slightly below 2019. State figures measure where a marriage was registered, not where the couple usually lives. They can include interstate and overseas residents marrying locally. They exclude Australian residents whose legal marriage takes place overseas. That creates a destination-wedding blind spot. In 2026 I am personally involved in more than 20 overseas wedding celebrations. For many of those couples, I solemnise the legal marriage in Australia before or after the trip. Those legal marriages are included in Australia’s count; the overseas celebration is not a second marriage and most of its event spending may occur elsewhere. If an Australian couple legally marries in Italy or Greece, however, that marriage is absent from the ABS domestic registration series even if Australia recognises it. My guide to [the legal catch for Australians marrying in Italy](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) explains why some couples separate the legal marriage from the destination celebration. Inbound destination weddings do the reverse. They can add Australian registrations and tourism spending without showing stronger marriage behaviour among local residents. That matters in Tasmania, where international couples form a meaningful part of the wedding clientele I see. Weddings produce economic spillovers across hospitality, regional tourism, casual employment, transport, clothing, flowers and creative businesses. Australia still lacks a credible national dataset that measures the whole wedding economy. The ABS counts the legal act, not the event wrapped around it. ## What the divorce figures actually say ### Divorce rose in 2025, but the “41% divorce rate” is still bad maths Australia granted 49,158 divorces in 2025, up 4.1%. The crude divorce rate rose from 2.1 to 2.2 per 1,000 people aged 16 and over. That is a real annual increase. It is also below the 2019 rate of 2.4 and well below 3.3 in 2005. “Divorce orders rose in 2025” and “the crude divorce rate is lower than it was 20 years ago” are both true. Dividing 49,158 divorces by 118,804 marriages produces 41.4%. The arithmetic is correct. As a lifetime failure rate, it is statistically meaningless. The divorces granted in 2025 mostly come from marriages formed in earlier years. The 2025 marriages have barely begun. It is the relationship equivalent of dividing this year’s deaths by this year’s births and calling the result life expectancy. I have written at length about why [the 50% divorce statistic is a myth](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent). The annual ABS release cannot tell us what percentage of marriages begun in 2025 will eventually end. Nor can it measure relationship quality. A lower divorce count is not automatically evidence of happier marriages. Financial pressure can keep unhappy couples together or delay the formal court process. Greater economic independence—including for women—may make leaving an unsafe or deeply unhappy marriage possible. That can be social progress even when it lifts the divorce count. De facto separation is largely invisible in divorce orders. Australia can experience substantial relationship instability without a corresponding divorce because many couples never married. ### The 2025 rise was an older-age divorce story Divorce rates fell for men and women aged 25–34 and generally rose at older ages. For men, rates increased from age 40. For women, they increased from age 35. Later-life separation can turn one household into two when there is less time to rebuild income, housing equity and superannuation. The later divorce order records that earlier rupture; it does not necessarily create the housing demand in the year the order is granted. There are two defensible readings of older-age divorce. It may show people gaining the financial and social freedom to leave relationships they no longer want. It can also create serious housing and retirement insecurity. Among divorces granted in 2025: - the median duration to separation was 9.4 years; and - the median duration to final divorce was 13.4 years. Those are two separate medians. They describe marriages that appeared in the divorce data, not the durability of every Australian marriage. That is an important statistical habit throughout this release: know who is in the denominator before turning a number into a story. ## What this means for Australia ### The good news, the bad news and the work ahead Australia is better off in some ways: - The number of registered weddings has proved resilient after a historic disruption. - The latest five-year total is only 0.6% below the final five pre-COVID years. - Marriage remains the dominant partnered status. - Couples appear to have more freedom to choose civil, weekday, registry, paperwork-only, elopement, micro-wedding, destination and large-wedding formats. - Smaller weddings can reduce debt, stress and waste. - A wider wedding week can improve venue use and broaden affordability. - Marriage equality has moved into an ordinary, stable part of Australian marriage. Australia is worse off—or at least has reasons for concern—in other ways: - The marriage rate per 1,000 people aged 16 and over remains below its pre-pandemic level. - No age-specific marriage rate rose in 2025. - Cost pressure may be delaying commitments that couples genuinely want to make. - A 24% gap between desired and planned guests points to compressed community celebration within one large industry sample. - Later-life separation can compound housing and retirement insecurity. - The wedding industry still lacks representative national data on spending, guest counts, formats and supplier employment. - ABS no longer routinely publishes enough detail to separate independent civil celebrants, government registries and religious ministers. For a pro-marriage community, the answer is not to hide the lower rate. It is to remove unnecessary barriers, tell the truth about what marriage and weddings cost, and make the ceremony and commitment worth choosing. For celebrants and wedding businesses, the answer is not to assume that 118,804 marriages equal 118,804 conventional Saturday weddings. We need products that fit genuinely different couples and formats, clearer pricing and a better understanding of local seasons. For governments and the ABS, the policy request is straightforward: restore routine public reporting of who conducts Australia’s marriages, and build credible measures of the wedding economy around those legal events. My read is that Australia has not fallen out of love with marriage. It has fallen out of love with one narrow, expensive and Saturday-heavy way of getting married. The wedding market is resilient. The lower rate worries me. The opportunity is to make marriage more accessible, more meaningful and more connected to the communities that witness it. ## Australian marriage statistics 2025 FAQ ### How many marriages were registered in Australia in 2025? Australia registered 118,804 marriages in 2025. That was 1.7% fewer than in 2024, 0.3% more than in 2023 and 4.4% more than in 2019. ### Is marriage becoming less common in Australia? In raw numbers, marriage registrations have returned to roughly their pre-pandemic scale. Relative to the population aged 16 and over, marriage is less common: the crude rate was 5.3 per 1,000 in 2025, compared with 5.6 in 2019. ### What does Australia’s crude marriage rate mean? It measures the annual flow of registered marriages relative to the population aged 16 and over. For 2025, the calculation was 118,804 marriages divided by 22,470,899 people aged 16 and over, multiplied by 1,000: a rate of 5.3. It does not measure the proportion of Australians who are already married or an individual’s lifetime chance of marrying. ### Could everyone be married while the crude marriage rate was zero? Yes. If every eligible person were already married and no new marriages occurred during the year, married prevalence could be 100% while the annual crude marriage rate was zero. The rate counts new weddings, not existing marriages. ### What is the average age to get married in Australia? The ABS publishes median rather than mean ages. In 2025 the median age at marriage was 32.7 for men and 31.2 for women. ### What percentage of Australian marriages end in divorce? The annual ABS release cannot supply a lifetime percentage. Dividing 2025 divorces by 2025 marriages compares different cohorts and is not a valid estimate. The 2025 annual crude divorce rate was 2.2 divorce orders per 1,000 people aged 16 and over. ### How much does the average Australian wedding cost? There is no official ABS wedding-cost figure. Easy Weddings reported an average expected cost of $35,315 in its October 2024 survey of couples planning 2025 and later weddings. A different, later Easy Weddings survey reported by ABC produced $38,252. Neither figure is a minimum price, a median or a census of every Australian wedding. ### Can you get legally married in Australia without holding a full wedding? Yes. A paperwork-only wedding and a large hosted wedding are different products. Couples still need to satisfy [Australia’s legal marriage requirements](/marriage-the-legal-bits), including using an authorised celebrant, giving the required notice and having two adult witnesses. A paperwork-only, celebrant-led wedding can cost about $700. --- **Data notes:** National totals are marriages registered in the reference year. Australia’s headline crude rate uses the population aged 16 and over; the international comparison recalculates Australia’s rate using the total population so the denominators match. International figures have different reference years and provide orientation rather than a same-year league table. Daily, weekday, monthly and seasonal analysis uses 117,501 marriages by date of occurrence and will not sum to the 118,804 registration total. State data refer to jurisdiction of registration, not usual residence. ABS applies confidentiality adjustments to some cells, so displayed jurisdiction rows may not sum exactly to the national total. Industry-survey figures describe the named respondent samples and should not be treated as ABS population estimates. Calculations may differ slightly from displayed figures because published rates are rounded. At the release-day snapshot, the ABS key-statistics bullet said 49,148 divorces while the body, table and workbook said 49,158; this article uses 49,158. The narrative also said 79,987 marriages in 2020 while the official series and workbook said 78,987; this article uses 78,987. **Key sources:** [ABS 2025 release](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/2025); [ABS methodology](https://www.abs.gov.au/methodologies/marriages-and-divorces-australia-methodology/2025); [ABS June 2025 population estimates](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/population/national-state-and-territory-population/jun-2025); [ABS 2021 Census QuickStats](https://www.abs.gov.au/census/find-census-data/quickstats/2021/AUS); [OECD marriage and divorce comparison](https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/society-at-a-glance-2024_918d8db3-en/full-report/marriage-and-divorce_63dd0a7d.html); [Eurostat Demography of Europe 2026](https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/web/interactive-publications/demography-2026); [AIFS marriage facts](https://aifs.gov.au/all-research/facts-and-figures/marriages-australia-25); [Easy Weddings 2025 Industry Report](https://assets.easyweddings.com/files/2024/10/10100512/EasyWeddings-Survey-2025.pdf); [ABC reporting on smaller weddings and registries](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-06-12/micro-weddings-elopements-rise-cost-of-living-crisis/106782294). _Feature photo by [Jason Corroto Photo](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com) for [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com)._ - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) ### [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Remy— Umbria](/wedding-testimonials/remy-02ac5da) - [T\_— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/t-1xefja6) - [Ben & Bec— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-bec-0cimz1l) --- # A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-attend-a-wedding Sep 5, 2019 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! ![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Hey, wedding guests, I’m talking to you today. There are two people getting married and you’re invited to celebrate with them. I know what you’re thinking, gosh, another bloody wedding but this is no ordinary wedding, this is their wedding, and it’s a miracle that they are even together. There’s a one in four quadrillion chance of them even existing, then for them to meet, and not hate each other, but to get together, and then to agree that they should spend the rest of their life together? That’s crazy and amazing and worth putting all of your family shit, friend crap, and weird expectations of what a wedding should be for just one day and prepare yourself to actually celebrate the couple. How do we do that you ask? Turn up to the ceremony about 15 minutes early, leave your camera bag in the car, and your phone in your pocket. Put a happy face on and rock up to the ceremony ready to party. Fill up the seats (they’ve literally rented them at $15 a piece so don’t stand around them awkwardly, be a big kid and sit in a frickin chair), but offer your seat to elderly, or family if they can’t sit. When they arrive to the ceremony, make them feel welcome, be the clap-starter not the clap-follower. Feel free to even wolf whistle or maybe go “yeah” with your mouth. Simply put, look like you give AF. Like, just make it appear that you care. That as the couple or the celebrant look at you, we don’t have to wonder if you are interested in this. That’s why you’re here, not for the free booze or to catch up with mates, but to communicate to the newlywed couple that you care. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guests](/tag/guests) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Breeanna & Michael— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/breeanna-and-michael-15bfc6u) - [Harry & Nayla— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [Jaeden— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jaeden-15x88vz) --- # How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-be-a-celebrant May 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 9 min read # How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding ![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Being a celebrant is a strange and wonderful job. You stand in front of a group of strangers, legally solemnise a marriage between two of their favourite people, and speak words that might stick in someone’s memory for the rest of their life because the three of you breathed their marriage into life. It’s intimate, technical, theatrical, performative, wonderful, weird, spiritual, and deeply human — all at the same time. And here’s my thing: I believe the marriage ceremony can be and should be the best part of a wedding. It’s not a hurdle to get past so people can drink. It’s the reason we’re all gathered. It’s the moment two people make promises to each other in front of their people — and we get to witness it. Done well, the ceremony is unforgettable. Done badly, it’s something guests joke about. So if you’re a celebrant — or you’re thinking of becoming one — here’s a set of rules, or guidelines, or truths that I’ve picked up after marrying thousands of people across more than a decade. These are based on one core idea: **this work matters**, and it deserves more than reading out a bunch of questionnaire answers and calling it a “personalised ceremony.” **N.B.:** _These twenty-two rules are my rules, not “The Rules” on how to be a celebrant. Those rules are in the [Marriage Act 1961](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest), the [Marriage Regulations 2017](https://www.legislation.gov.au/F2017L01359/latest), and the Attorney-General’s Department’s current celebrant guidance._ If you are looking for the actual registration pathway, start here first: [How to become a marriage celebrant in Australia](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia). You need the legal authorisation before any of the craft advice below matters. ## Step One: Get Over Yourself ### 1\. You’re not the main character The couple is. Their story is. Their promises are. This isn’t your wedding. Be a spotlight not a burning bush. ### 2\. You don’t know them better than their mum No matter how charming your coffee catch-up was, you are not their best friend. Don’t pretend to be. Be a respectful, caring, helpful professional celebrant — that’s where your magic is, that’s what you’re good at. Be friends with the couple but at 3pm on Saturday you’re not up there competing for Friend Of The Year. ### 3\. A ceremony isn’t a script You can use notes. You can repeat phrases. You can re-use your best lines. But if you’re just reading back their questionnaire with a few adjectives added, you’re not writing a ceremony — you’re doing copy-paste admin with a microphone. Not everyone needs to present their ceremonies without script in hand like I do, but learn to deliver the script more like how a professional actor does, not the way a student reading a notice at school assembly does. ### 4\. Weird is good The best ceremonies I’ve ever delivered have been odd. Quirky, heartfelt, vulnerable, messy, joyful. Let them be human. Let them be real. Let them be wonderful. Here’s something most people don’t know, but every single human on the planet is weird except for me … I’m the only normal one left! ### 5\. Legal doesn’t mean boring The paperwork matters. The words you’re legally required to say matter. But you don’t have to make it sound like a Centrelink pamphlet. Make it feel alive. Make it meaningful. Make it right. Know the [NOIM](/filling-out-noim-correctly), the [minimum legal vows](/legal-vows), the separate meeting requirement, and the ceremony paperwork so well that the couple can relax inside your competence. ## Step Two: Be the Grown-Up ### 6\. You are the calm in the chaos On wedding day, everything might fall apart — the rings, the weather, the family dynamics - or it might not. Regardless of how fall-apart-y it gets you cannot fall apart with it. Be the one person who knows what’s happening and carries the couple through it. ### 7\. Build a system Your inbox is not a workflow. Your calendar is not a CRM. Build or borrow a system that keeps everything running smoothly so your brain can focus on the couple — not the logistics. Build a system while you’re quiet so it can hold you when you’re busy. Your time and sanity can’t scale up but your system and fee can. ### 8\. You’re allowed to charge real money You are not “just saying a few words.” You’re carrying the legal, emotional, and creative weight of a life-changing moment. You are valued for being the one who stands still when everything else is spinning. You’re the calm, the witness, the meaning-maker. You carry the legal, emotional, and creative weight of a moment that will echo for the rest of their lives. You’ve listened closely for months and years, written with care, stayed up too late reworking a sentence that needs to land just right. You hold space, hold silence, hold people. You aren’t getting paid per hour. You’re being paid to turn up emotionally, spiritually, soulfully. Price yourself accordingly. ### 9\. Write it. Speak it. Rehearse it. Don’t just “see how it goes on the day.” Great delivery comes from practice. Even the spontaneous bits are better when they’re built on preparation. Write them down to insert them into your brain. ## Step Three: Make It Matter ### 10\. Speak like a human No jargon. No cheesy wedding tropes. No “we are gathered here todays” unless you’re doing it ironically. Be warm. Be present. Be real. When we say unexpected and different things in a wedding ceremony: [listen, people will](/yoda). ### 11\. Silence is a tool Don’t rush. Don’t fill every pause. A breath, a moment, a beat — it helps everyone catch up emotionally. Breath. ### 12\. Know what this is This is a marriage. A foundation for life. A public promise. A prophectic voice in a chaotic world. A dream. A hope. All of their intentions tied to an arrow and shot into the future. A moment where two people stop time and say: “It’s you. Always you.” It’s not a transition between photos and drinks. It’s not a funeral for the couple’s single lives. It’s not an “up until now” introduction to the reception. It is a marriage ceremony. Treat it like it matters, because it does. ## Step Four: Own the Craft ### 13\. Wear something that says “This is important,” not “Look at me.” Dress like a professional who cares about the couple, the guests, and the moment. How you dress is barely about what you wear but more about how you present yourself. Hold your head high, smile wide, and let everyone know they’re safe in your hands. ### 14\. Use your voice. Literally. Train it. Listen to it. Record your ceremonies and cringe if you must, but get better. Your voice is your tool. Use it with care. Test different microphones and speakers and see how your voice sounds in and through them, how when you hold the microphone differently it sounds different. Learn about sound EQ settings and master the projection and amplification of your voice. The perfect microphone for me might be different for you. ### 15\. Don’t be funny — be true If humour happens, let it happen. Be fun but don’t write purely for laughs. Write for connection. Be clever if it fits. Be sincere always. My mentor when I first entered radio (Stan Hillard, rest in peace) taught me this nugget: > Imagine your audience are the stupidest people alive, then treat them with the upmost respect. I think about that every day, particularily when I think it might be hilarious to say something in a wedding ceremony and how many people won’t get the joke. ## Step Five: Stay in the Game ### 16\. You only need a handful of raving fans to build a career You don’t need to be booked every Saturday. You need the right couples, the right workflow, and the right price. That’s enough. Be content with enough. ### 17\. Automate everything that isn’t soul Emails. Bookings. Payments. Use technology so you can spend your energy on the bit that actually matters — the ceremony. Embrace AI, automations, gadgets, devices, software all in aid of you being the best celebrant you could be. ### 18\. Keep learning, but stay yourself Go to workshops. Read scripts. Steal ideas. Prompt ChatGPT for criticism. Ask me for advice. But everything you borrow must come through your own voice — or it’s just noise, and we got enough noise. Pursue excellence. Read [books](/books). Listen to [podcasts](/podcast). Find celebrancy inspiration in weird places. ### 19\. Celebrate other celebrants loudly and often There’s no leaderboard of who is the best celebrant. Generosity wins. Lift the standard. Help new celebrants. And if you see someone doing great work — tell them. The only reason anyone thinks there is a “best” celebrant is because our lovely clients, who only make good decisions ever, decided that by pure happenstance, the celebrant they booked and paid for is the best. I’m not ridiculing that process, just the idea that any of us could think too highly of ourselves when we’re each so beautifully different and weird. ### 20\. You’re not just in the wedding industry — you’re in the memory business Couples won’t remember the petals or the playlist. They’ll remember the moment they said “I take you as my…” Help make that moment unforgettable. They’ll forget your words as they’re halfway down the aisle for the recessional but they’ll always remember how you made them feel. ### 21\. You’re allowed to take this seriously Not solemnly. Not stiffly. But seriously. This matters. The work we do has weight. If you’re in it for the vibes, you’re in the wrong job. ### 22\. This is a calling disguised as a job You didn’t end up here by accident. Something in you believed that love is worth showing up for. That words matter. That promises should be said out loud. Follow that feeling. It’s telling you the truth. --- ### Want to become a celebrant? Start with this: care more about the couple than your ego, more about the words than your feed, more about the moment than the performance. Then get properly authorised, know the law, and go write a ceremony that someone will still be talking about in twenty years. Need help getting there? Get in touch. If you’re thinking about becoming a celebrant, do it, it’s the best gig going. --- Feature photograph by [George Bowden](https://www.georgebowden.co) with [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com) in Umbria. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ### [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) ### [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02n08hm) - [Hannah & Ardy— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-and-ardy-0dyiv4e) - [Chintan— Seagrass Long Point](/wedding-testimonials/chintan-0ai4vl4) --- # The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc Jun 12, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC Learn how to MC a wedding reception with confidence. Professional tips on planning, mood setting, managing speeches, and keeping guests entertained ![The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/rockstar_wedding_mc_2gysI63GH?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) You’re the funny, loud guy or gal that the bride and groom asked to MC their wedding reception? I was that guy a long time ago and now I’m that guy professionally. So hopefully I can offer some helpful tips! Don’t stress about it too much, it’s just a really awesome party. But you do have a responsibility: you’re steering this party boat down the river and back to the wharf. You are the master of ceremonies cheerleader captain! ## 1\. Know the plan There might be speeches, cake cutting, and other traditional things that are important to the couple, so ask, write them down, make a plan. Plan out when, where, how everything will happen—of course in communication with the couple. Have a quick chat to the wedding planner or coordinator and make sure you’ve got their priorities as well. There will be important announcements about smoking, social media, and possibly other things, so know what they are. Know about a [first dance](/wedding-songs) and all of those traditional wedding reception elements that the bride and groom value. A little bit of research on who’s attending and who’s important is good to have so you look like you know your stuff. A well-planned and researched MC is a professional and enjoyable MC. It’s your job to know the plan because you’re laying out the plan. ## 2\. Set the mood Chat to the [DJ or the band](/friends) and make sure you guys can work together well. You don’t want any dead air (silence). They could even be preparing a microphone for you, or you might need to organise a portable PA system. Don’t be afraid to talk to them about lifting or dropping the mood—it’s their job, and a professional DJ or band will appreciate clear communication. Another big thing with the mood is humour. So many MCs feel the need to be funny all night. If you’re not a stand-up comedian - I’m not - don’t try. Instead, let your sincerity trump your humour and just take everyone through a fun night. A few puns and quips will suffice. Don’t be funny if you’re not funny. I’m not that funny but I’m a great MC. ## 3\. Encourage and congratulate The purpose of the reception is to encourage and congratulate the couple on making an awesome commitment today. So in your own way, congratulate and encourage them. That’s why we make a big deal about introducing them, rile the crowd up and get them applauding. Be a cheerleader, lead the cheer. ## 4\. Get the guests into the entertainment If there’s a band, encourage the guests to dance. If there’s a photobooth, encourage them to get in front of it. If there’s a guestbook, lolly bar, games area, whatever it is, it’s your job to remind and encourage everyone to get into it. Be a fun leader, lead people into fun. ## 5\. Steer the ship, make announcements Let everyone know what’s coming up soon, what we’re doing, why we’re doing it. That’s most of the job, directing traffic. The best tip I was ever given when I started radio is the same tip I think of in wedding receptions: assume everyone there is the stupidest person on the planet, but treat them with the utmost respect. Let them know when meals are happening and how they can get food. Make sure the bar tab is communicated, and where the toilets are. Always be chatting to the venue staff, making sure you’re in sync with them and not throwing them under the bus in regard to meal times etc. ## 6\. Have some fun! Did somebody say dance-off? If not, dance-off! Seriously though, look for ways to get everyone having fun, including grandma through to the kids. Maybe there’s some reception games you can play or jokes you can tell. Google will deliver! ## 7\. Get off the microphone As much as you’ve got lots to do all night, make sure you put the mic down as much as possible. They’re not there to listen to you speak, so say what needs to be said and throw back to the music. I’m of the opinion that most of the work of the MC is off mic. ## 8\. Speeches Speeches have a really awesome purpose in a wedding reception. It’s real chat for a moment about how awesome the couple are. So encourage family members to honour and love on the couple. Sometimes family members don’t want to, so don’t force them, but don’t make them regret not encouraging the couple on that night. It’s a sensitive area so approach it early with people and make sure the couple are happy with it as well. Don’t be afraid to have your own say as well. Just keep the whole thing encouraging and feel-good. Introduce everyone clearly and concisely so there’s no confusion about who is who and doing what. It’s nice to listen through the speech as well and get one takeaway line that you can comment on afterwards. Some people like to make sure speeches are short. I prefer to not be a dickhead about it and just encourage everyone to make their speeches punchy and meaningful. Also, we don’t need to thank EVERYONE. The problem with running down a thank-you list is: 1. no-one really cares, 2. people get missed and offended, 3. do it in a more personal and meaningful way than rambling through a list. ## 9\. Ending the party Have a plan to bring the event to a close. Your options include: ushering the couple off early and making a group goodbye possible—this is crazily quicker than every other option. You can let the couple stay til the end and say goodbye to everyone individually. Or the party might not be ending and everyone can move on to another venue. 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While the decision to change your name is deeply personal, this guide will walk you through the practical steps if you choose to do so. Couples married in Australia get a marriage certificate at their wedding ceremony, and also a marriage certificate from the government. Only one can be used for name changing. You get to choose to change your name after you are married, and then show your marriage certificate to the right people to change it. But if you want to - combine names, - create a new surname, - or take a name that’s not legally linked to your marriage, you will need to go through a legal name change process. That means lodging an application with BDM in your state or territory. The same goes if you’re using a professional name or hyphenating in a non-standard way. As an Aussie marriage celebrant, one of the most common questions I receive after weddings is about the name-change process. While the decision to change your name is deeply personal, hopefully, this guide will walk you through the practical steps if you choose to do so. ## About The Two Marriage Certificates Couples married in Australia get a marriage certificate at their wedding ceremony, and also a marriage certificate from the government. Only one can be used for name changing. - **Certificate of Marriage (Form 15)** - Not Needed For Name Changes: This is the ceremonial certificate your celebrant or I presents at your wedding. While beautiful, this certificate alone isn’t necessary or sufficient for official name changes. This form is only called “Certificate of Marriage”, note it doesn’t say the word “Official” at the start - **Official Certificate of Marriage**: Order this from the state’s Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in which you got married. This is the document you’ll need for all official name changes. Each state has different fees and processing times. This form differs from the above form in that it is called an “Official Certificate of Marriage”. Sometimes I (or your celebrant) can order your official marriage certificate for you - Tasmania: I can order on your behalf at time of registration - Victoria: I can order on your behalf at time of registration - New South Wales: I can order on your behalf at time of registration and for eight weeks after - Queensland: The BDM will email you about it - South Australia, Western Australia, ACT, NT: You need to contact the BDM and I would wait six-eight weeks until after your marriage ceremony. ## What Names Can You Have? When you get legally married on Australian soil - even if you wed or elope overseas but don’t do the paperwork there - you have three choices of name after your wedding. Both parties to the marriage can choose to: - Keep their birth name - Take their partner’s last name - Hyphenate with their partner’s last name If you legally marry outside of Australia you can change to whatever you like, seriously and literally anything, because you will actually be changing your name like anyone would in or out of marriage, a process often known as ‘Deed Poll’. This comes at a price for the name change, but then also for the new passport and drivers licence whereas changing your name through marriage is almost always without cost. ## Step-by-Step Name Change Process If You Have An Australian Official Marriage Certificate You can start using your new name socially right after your wedding, feel free to update social media profiles. But remember: official ID will still show your original name so if you need to do something official like go through an international airport or immigration setting, applying for finance, undertaking legal processes or actions, your name is what your ID says your name is. ### How To Get Your Official Marriage Certificate It’s simple: Apply through the BDM in the state in which you got married, the BDM is the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. The BDM you apply to is not the state where you live, nor is it the state where the celebrant lives, it is only the state in which the marriage ceremony took place. So if you live in Coolangatta, and your celebrant lives in Melbourne, but you got married at Byron Bay, that’s the New South Wales BSM. Processing typically takes 5-10 business days once the marriage is registered which can take upwards of six to eight weeks. Keep both your Form 15 and the Official Certificate in a safe place. ### Update Your Official ID Documents A quick checklist: - Passport (free if updated within 12 months of marriage) - Driver’s licence (often free in most states) - Medicare card - Bank accounts - Superannuation - Electoral roll - Payroll - Insurances - Mortgage ## Important Tips **Honeymoon Planning**: Book flights using the name on your current passport. Don’t book under your new name as you won’t have ID to match **Timeline**: There’s no rush-you can change your name at any time after marriage **Original Name**: Your original name remains legally valid **State Differences**: Fees and processes vary by state, so check your local registry website ## Should You Change Your Surname After Marriage? ### Common options people choose Changing your surname after marriage isn’t compulsory in Australia-it’s a personal choice. Here’s what most couples consider: - **Taking your spouse’s surname**: Still the most common choice, especially among women. It provides a shared family name and can make things simpler when it comes to dealing with schools, travel, and government paperwork. You don’t need to apply for a legal name change if you choose this route-your official marriage certificate is enough to assume your spouse’s surname. - **Hyphenating both surnames**: This keeps both names visible and can feel like a more equal compromise. For example, “Taylor-Smith” if your surnames are Taylor and Smith. You can both take the hyphenated name or just one of you-it’s up to you. Again, no legal change required, just use your marriage certificate. - **Combining surnames into a new one**: Some couples ditch tradition and invent a new surname out of their two, like “Smithson” or “Raydon”. To do this in Australia, you’ll need to apply formally to the state Births, Deaths & Marriages (BDM) registry. It is a legal name change and not assumed through marriage, which means you’ll get a change of name certificate instead of relying on the marriage certificate alone. - **Keeping your current surname**: Plenty of people stick with the name they’ve used all their life. There’s no requirement to change it, and your legal identity, degree certificates, professional history, and personal brand all stay patched to the same name. ### Legal implications to think about Changing your name affects more than your email signature. It ripples through most legal interactions. Here’s where it matters: - **Wills and estate planning**: If you change your name, update your will to reflect it accurately. Mismatched names can introduce doubts and delay probate processes. - **Property titles and legal agreements**: Any contracts or titles in your previous name will need updating. Leaving them untouched can complicate property sales, business arrangements or disputes. - **Travel documentation**: If you change your name but your passport still carries your birth name, expect issues at border control. Tickets and bookings must exactly match the ID you’ll present. ### What happens in the event of death If you die with a changed name, your death certificate will reflect the latest one on your records. If other documents-like bank accounts or super-are under a different name, executors may face hurdles proving they’re all for the same person. That’s why it pays to update everything consistently once you make the change. Alternatively, if you kept your surname, your personal and legal identity remain stable-much less chance of confusion for your family or representatives cleaning things up when you’re gone. ## Key Documents You Need for a Name Change ### What You’ll Be Asked to Show When changing your surname after marriage in Australia, most institutions won’t ask for a formal name change application. They’ll simply update their records once you show the right documents. The process usually follows a straightforward pattern, but every organisation sets its own requirements. Here’s what almost all of them expect to see: - **Marriage certificate** - not the one you get on the day. You need the official version from your state or territory’s **Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages**. The certificate must be either the original or a certified copy. Scans or photocopies won’t be accepted. - **Photo identification** - like your driver’s licence or passport. Some places want to see both your current ID and your new name documentation side-by-side. - **Proof of residential address** - utility bills, bank statements, or similar documents with your name and address. Not every institution requires this, but many do, particularly for financial and utility services. ### Ordering Extra Marriage Certificates You’ll need that official marriage certificate more than once. Some institutions hold onto it temporarily to process the change. Others might request a certified copy. To avoid delays, it’s smart to order extra copies upfront. If you’re planning to travel internationally soon after the wedding and you’ll need to prove you’re married to that authority, make sure to ask for an apostille or legalised copy if required by overseas authorities. Not every country recognises an Australian marriage certificate without it. ## How to Update Your Name with Key Government Institutions After Marriage Once you’ve got your official marriage certificate, the next step is getting your new name recognised by a long list of government bodies. If you skip this stage or delay it, you’ll run into mismatched records, blocked services, and frustrating delays. ### Start with Medicare, Centrelink, and the Australian Taxation Office These are part of the Services Australia network, which links many of your key personal records. Changes you make here flow on to related systems. - **Medicare:** Log into your Medicare account through [myGov](https://my.gov.au/) and update your details online. You can also visit a Medicare Service Centre with your marriage certificate and a valid form of ID. - **Centrelink:** If you receive payments or have a record with Centrelink, update your name through your myGov account linked to Centrelink. There’s also a downloadable form (SS351) if you prefer the paper route. - **ATO:** The Australian Taxation Office pulls personal info via myGov. Update your name there and it syncs across. If you’re a business owner with an ABN, you’ll also need to update your name details through the [Australian Business Register](https://abr.gov.au/). ### Updating Your Driver’s Licence Your driver’s licence needs to match your legal name, and each state or territory handles this through its own roads authority. For example: - **NSW:** Service NSW - **VIC:** VicRoads - **QLD:** Queensland Transport and Main Roads You’ll typically need to bring the following in person: - Original or certified marriage certificate - Current driver’s licence - Additional proof of ID (depending on your state) - Completed change of details form (available on the road authority’s website) Licence updates are usually free if you hand in your old card, though some states may charge a reissue or card production fee. Check your state’s process and opening hours before heading in. ### Updating Your Passport Changing your name on your Australian passport means applying for a new passport altogether. This isn’t a simple amendment. You’ll need: - Your full marriage certificate issued by Births, Deaths and Marriages (not the one from your celebrant) - Completed passport application form (PC7 for frequent travellers or PC8 depending on the circumstances) - Two passport photos taken in the past six months - Current passport You’ll also need to pay the standard passport renewal fee. As of 2024, a standard 10-year adult passport costs $325. Processing typically takes around 3 weeks, but allow more time during busy periods or if you’re posting documents from a regional area. ## Updating Bank Accounts and Credit Cards After Changing Your Name Once you’ve changed your name after marriage, your bank accounts and credit cards need to reflect it. Banks won’t know to update your details automatically-this part’s entirely on you. ### Contacting Your Banks Start by making a list of every financial institution you use: big banks, credit unions, online banks, even Buy Now Pay Later services like Afterpay. Wherever your money lives, it needs the update. Then, contact customer service or visit a branch. Some banks will process the change in person, while others let you mail in forms. A few allow limited updates through online banking, but identity changes nearly always require in-person or postal steps. ### What You’ll Need No bank will accept a name change without proper documentation. You’ll need to provide: - Your original or a certified copy of your official Marriage Certificate (issued by the state or territory registry, not the one the celebrant gave you on the day) - Government-issued photo ID in your current name (e.g. passport or driver’s licence) - Potentially a completed ‘change of name’ form depending on the bank Make sure all documents are current and valid. Some banks may also sight ID for your new name before they finalise the update. ### Update All Your Accounts Don’t stop at your main transaction account. Name changes should be made on: - Everyday savings and transaction accounts - Credit cards and store cards - Home loans and mortgage offset accounts - Personal and car loans - Term deposits and joint accounts Joint accounts often require both parties’ presence or consent, so check individual bank policies if this is relevant. ### Request New Cards and Credentials Once the name is updated, ask for new materials: - Debit and credit cards printed in your new name - Chequebooks (if you still use them) - New online banking credentials where a display name appears Some online banking platforms will take a few days to show the updated name. If nothing changes after a week, chase it up with your branch or account manager. This step closes the loop-you want your financial details professionally aligned with your legal name to avoid confusion with customer service, credit checks, or tax documentation down the track. ## Update Your Insurance and Financial Accounts After Marriage ### Which Insurance Providers to Update Changing your name after marriage means updating any policies where you’re listed by your previous name. That includes: - **Life insurance** - for accurate policy details and future claims - **Health insurance** - to ensure claims are paid correctly and gaps cover continues - **Car insurance** - name mismatches can cause problems at claim time - **Home or contents insurance** - especially if the property title changes too Contact your insurer. Most will ask for a **certified copy of your marriage certificate** along with a completed amendment form. If you’re listed as a beneficiary or policyholder on someone else’s policy, check if they need to update your name too. ### Let Super Funds Know Super funds won’t automatically pick up a surname change. You’ll need to notify them directly. Most have editable forms online, but you’ll still need to post or upload certified documents to confirm your identity. While you’re at it, confirm your **beneficiary nomination** is still accurate. Some marriages automatically revoke previous nominations, depending on how the super fund is structured. ### Investment and Loan Accounts If you hold shares, managed funds, or term deposits in your name, reach out to the provider or broker to update your account details. This also applies to: - Personal loans - Home loans (especially if your property title changes too) - Margin lending or investment loans Each institution has its own process, but in general: - Prepare certified copies of your marriage certificate and other ID if requested - Ask about any impacts on joint accounts or redraw facilities - Make sure your name matches the title on any linked assets ### Ask About Beneficiaries and Nominees Many providers-super, life insurance, even some bank accounts-ask you to nominate a beneficiary. Changing your name can cause confusion later if the paperwork doesn’t match. Best move: once your name has been updated, ask for a fresh copy of any beneficiary forms, even if you’re staying with the same person. Then re-submit under your new legal name. ## Updating Your Employer and Payroll Details After Changing Your Name ### Tell Your Employer As Soon As Your Name Has Legally Changed Once you’ve received your official marriage certificate from the state registry and decided to take your partner’s surname or make any legal change, the next step is to tell your employer. They can’t update payroll, HR records, or work documents until you give them formal notice and documentation. Most companies handle this through their HR department. Some will ask you to complete a personal details form or fill out a change request via HR software like Employment Hero, SAP, or Xero. ### What Needs Updating Internally? Once your employer has the new name on file, a few systems will probably need to be updated to reflect the change across the board: - **Payroll:** Make sure your payslips, tax submissions (via Single Touch Payroll), and superannuation contributions reflect your new legal name. - **Email and internal systems:** Request an updated email address and signature. This also applies to Slack, Teams, and any cloud-based work platforms. - **Bank account on file:** If you’ve updated your name with your bank, advise payroll of new account details if there’s been any change at their end. - **Internal directories and ID cards:** These often get overlooked. Ask HR or admin to update them. ### ATO and Super Fund Alignment Employers report income and super contributions to the ATO under your Tax File Number (TFN). If the ATO hasn’t received the name update from you yet, mismatches can trigger errors in matching records. Lodge the name change directly with the ATO using **myGov** or the **ATO Change of Details for Individuals form (NAT 2817)**, so your employer’s records stay in sync. ### HR Forms and Templates Many mid-to-large organisations offer standard HR forms for personal detail changes. If your employer doesn’t, a basic name change notice could simply include: - Full name (before and after) - Date of name change - Reason (e.g. marriage, legal name change) - Supporting document (certified copy of marriage certificate) Hand this to your HR manager or direct supervisor, depending on your workplace structure. Digital HR systems may have a self-service update portal instead. ## How to Update Your Name Across Utility, Subscription, and Service Accounts ### Everyday Services That Need Your New Name Once you’ve sorted your name with government departments and banks, it’s time to tackle the more everyday accounts. These might not seem as urgent, but you’re likely interacting with them more often than your passport or Medicare card. Start by making a list-electricity, internet, Netflix, Spotify, mobile phone, local council, and anything else that charges you monthly or knows you by name. ### Energy Providers Most electricity and gas companies let you update your name online via your user account. If your provider doesn’t offer a self-service option, call customer service. You’ll usually be asked to confirm identity with a combination of account details and verification info. Some may request a copy of your official name change document or your marriage certificate (as issued by the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages, not the one from your celebrant). ### Phone and Internet Telstra, Optus, TPG, and other major service providers follow similar steps. Log in to your customer portal and look for a ‘profile’ or ‘account details’ section to update your personal info. If that’s a dead-end, call their customer service line. You’ll likely get asked for your account number, current billing address, and one form of ID for verification. ### Council Rates and Records Your local council uses your name for property rates, pet registration, rubbish services, and more. Updating their records makes sure future correspondence matches your ID. Head to your council’s website-many offer an online form. If not, phone or email customer service. Identification and a copy of the marriage certificate are typically required. ### Streaming and Subscription Accounts Netflix, Spotify, Disney , Audible-none of these actually care what your legal name is, but consistency helps. If you’re using automatic payments tied to a bank card with your new name, updating the profile can avoid confusion. These changes are easy: log in, go to your account settings, and type in the new name. No documents needed. ### Other Accounts Worth Checking - Gym memberships and fitness apps - Online retailers like Amazon, eBay, or local grocery services - Ride share apps like Uber and delivery platforms like Menulog - Newsletter subscriptions that include your name on invoices or profiles ### Common ID Verification Requirements For most service providers, basic verification involves confirming your existing account details. If the name change affects billing or legal obligations (like utility or council accounts), they’ll ask for a certified copy or high-res scan of your marriage certificate. A few might want 100 points of ID aligned to the new name-usually for properties, insurance-linked services, or regulated utilities. ## Updating Your Name on Identification Documents (ID) Once you’ve legally changed your name after marriage, updating your identification documents is a priority. These IDs form the foundation of your personal, legal, and financial identity, and discrepancies between them can cause real headaches-especially when dealing with banks, government forms, or international travel. ### Medicare Card Start with Medicare. Your Medicare record acts as the bedrock for many other Australian government systems, including MyGov, Centrelink, and the ATO. To update your Medicare card, you’ll need a marriage certificate issued by a state or territory Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. You can: - Log into your **MyGov** account and link it to Medicare if it’s not already. - Go to ‘Personal details’ and request a name change. - Upload a copy of your marriage certificate and any other required identification. - Wait for confirmation and your new card to arrive in the mail. ### Driver’s Licence Your driver’s licence is one of the most widely used forms of ID in Australia. Each state and territory has its own process and requirements, but across the board, you’ll need to present your official marriage certificate and existing photo ID in person. Once updated, your digital licence (if available in your state) will reflect the change as well. Here’s a few specific notes: - **NSW:** Book a Service NSW appointment, bring your marriage certificate and old licence. - **VIC:** Attend a VicRoads customer service centre with documents in-hand-no online updates allowed. - **QLD:** Apply at a transport and motoring customer service centre. Fees may apply, even if it’s just a name update. ### Passport Planning an overseas trip under your new name? Your passport and flight booking names must match exactly, or you won’t be boarding. The Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade allows a free replacement passport (within 12 months of issue) if it’s a name change due to marriage. After that, you’ll have to pay the full renewal fee. To apply: - Fill out the **‘Renewal Application Form’** or a new application if your passport is older. - Submit a **certified copy of your marriage certificate**. - Provide new passport photos and identity documents. Visits to Australia Post for submission are standard, and processing takes a few weeks unless you pay priority fees. ### Voter Registration Changing your name with the Australian Electoral Commission (AEC) ensures your enrolment is valid during elections and referendums. It also prevents issues with jury duty correspondence or fines tied to unmatched IDs. To update details: - Visit **aec.gov.au** and use their online name update form. - Submit supporting documents like a scanned marriage certificate. The record update usually applies within a few days, with confirmation sent by post or email. ### One Name, Everywhere Make sure every single ID reflects the same name. Inconsistent records-say, your Medicare card showing your married name but your driver’s licence still showing your birth name-can lead to identity mismatches. These mismatches can delay loan approvals, block international travel, or get flagged in digital ID checks performed by banks, employers, or even Australia Post. Gather a list of all the places you use ID and work through them methodically. Synchronising them all isn’t just neat-it prevents red tape down the track. ## Letting Friends, Family & Social Circles Know About Your Name Change ### Personal Announcements That Stick Once your name change is official and the paperwork’s sorted, get the word out. The goal here isn’t a massive PR campaign-but clarity matters. How will people address you in the future? How should they update their records or contact info? Start with a direct email or text message to your inner circle. Keep it short. Include your new name, why you’ve changed it (if relevant), and whether you’d like them to start using it straight away. - If you’ve got a joint email address or household, clarify whether that’s changing too. - If you send out group emails, tag the subject line clearly: “Josh %u2192 Josh Smith: Quick Update”. - Don’t explain it more than you need to - just be clear and polite. ### Updating Social Circles In Bulk Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn - these are more public, but they’re part of how people know you. Before posting anything, think about your audience. Do you need to make it a whole announcement? Or just update your profile and let people notice? If you’re in group chats or online communities under your old name, consider changing your display name or adding a note where it makes sense. You don’t need to explain it to everyone-just enough so people aren’t confused. ### Address Books and Holiday Cards Still send Christmas cards? Or annual updates? Now’s the time to tell the extended network. A line in your next card or letter saying “Now going by Josh Smith” gets the job done. Or, drop it into the return address on the envelope. For anyone who maintains a physical or digital address book - parents, grandparents, old family friends - a simple heads-up keeps them from using the wrong name for years to come. ### Professional Contacts and Mailing Lists For professional circles outside of payroll or HR-which you’ve already handled-update your name where people might reach you directly. This could include: - Online forums or memberships - Email signatures and contact cards - Mailing lists you contribute to If you operate a business or do freelance work, pin a short note somewhere obvious: your website footer, about page, or booking confirmation email. Don’t rely on people figuring it out. Name recognition matters. Make the update clear, and remove any doubt about who they’re dealing with. ## Managing Name Changes on Social Media Profiles Updating your name on social media isn’t just about letting friends know you’ve married - it can affect how people find you, especially if you use your accounts professionally. Each platform handles name changes differently, so here’s what you need to know. ### Facebook - Go to **Settings & Privacy** %u2192 **Settings** %u2192 **Personal Details** %u2192 **Name**. - Facebook allows only one name change every 60 days. - You can add your maiden name as an “Other Name” (e.g. maiden name or nickname) to help people find you. - Under “About” %u2192 “Details About You”, you can display both current and previous names. ### Instagram - Go to your profile and tap **Edit Profile**. - You can change both your **full name** and **username** here. - If your username is tied to your business or personal brand, keep it consistent or redirect followers via your bio. - Unlike Facebook, Instagram doesn’t verify names, but sudden changes can confuse followers - post a story or update to explain if needed. ### LinkedIn - Click on your profile photo %u2192 **View Profile** %u2192 **Edit Intro**. - Use the “Former Name” field to keep your maiden name searchable. - Update your URL to match your new name but note that custom URLs are first-come, first-serve. - For professionals, consistency across platforms matters - update email signature blocks, bios, and other touchpoints at the same time. ### Twitter (now X) - Click **Profile** %u2192 **Edit Profile**. - You can change your display name at any time. - The handle (your @username) is also editable, but check availability first. - If switching usernames, consider holding onto your old handle by using a backup account to prevent loss of brand connection. ### Keep It Consistent If your name is part of your business or professional identity, match it across all profiles. That includes: - Email addresses and Google profiles - Your website or blog - Directory sites or digital portfolios Think about searchability. Will your audience type your maiden name, your new name, or both? Reflect that in your bio, descriptions, and display name. And when in doubt - mention the name change clearly somewhere visible. ## How Long Does the Name Change Process Take? There’s no single answer because every organisation operates on its own timeline. Some institutions update your details on the spot. Others take several weeks, especially where new physical documents are involved. ### Government Agencies Most state and federal departments-including Medicare, Centrelink, ATO, and your state-based driver licensing authority-typically process name changes within 1 to 4 weeks. If you’re providing a marriage certificate from your state or territory’s Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages, that’s usually enough to trigger the update. But if you’re also updating multiple details (like address or gender marker), it may take longer. ### Passport Reissue The Australian Passport Office requires a complete reissue when changing your surname. Allow up to 6 weeks after submitting a name change application, though express processing (additional fees apply) can cut that time down to 2 business days once it’s lodged and approved. ### Best Order to Tackle the Process Start with your identity documents, since everything else flows from them. Here’s a practical sequence: - **Step 1:** Update your driver’s licence and Medicare card. These are commonly used as forms of ID and may be required elsewhere. - **Step 2:** Notify your bank. Most banks require a photo ID with your new surname before they’ll make any changes. - **Step 3:** Update your passport-especially if you’re travelling soon. Airlines won’t let you fly with a ticket that doesn’t match your ID. - **Step 4:** Tackle utilities, subscriptions, insurance, and superannuation providers in bulk. Many allow updates via their online portals once you’ve changed your ID. If you focus on one category at a time, the process becomes more manageable-and you’re less likely to miss someone important. ## Costs Associated with Changing Your Name ### Expect to Pay for New Identification Documents Changing your name after marriage in Australia doesn’t attract a direct name change fee, but updating your ID and official documents does come with costs. These are the most common charges you’ll need to budget for: - **Passport:** If you want a new passport that reflects your new name, the Australian Passport Office charges $325 for a standard 10-year adult passport. If you’ve got more than two years left on your current passport, you can request a free replacement in your new married name, but this only applies if the name change is on the basis of marriage and you lodge the application within 12 months of the marriage. - **Driver’s licence:** Each state and territory sets its own pricing. In New South Wales, updating your name on your driver’s licence is free if you’re only correcting personal details. In Victoria, you won’t pay a fee for updating the licence, but you’ll be charged if you need a reissue card. Always check with your state or territory’s transport authority for current pricing and policies. ### Certified Copies of Your Marriage Certificate The ceremonial marriage certificate you receive on the wedding day isn’t valid for legal name change purposes. You’ll need to order the official marriage certificate from the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in the state or territory where the wedding took place. Prices vary. You might also want multiple copies, especially if you’re updating several institutions at once. Factor that into your budget-each additional certified copy usually costs between $30 and $60 depending on the state. ### Legal Name Change (If You’re Not Using Your Marriage Certificate) If you’re not taking your partner’s name or doing a non-standard name change (like creating a new surname), you’ll need to apply for a legal name change through the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. These applications generally cost between $120 and $200, depending on your state. ### Miscellaneous Costs to Factor In It sounds small, but these costs add up quickly. Depending on how far you want to take the name update, consider these: - New bank cards (some banks charge for reissues) - Updated cheque books or stationery - Reprinting business cards or promotional material - Time off work to attend in-person appointments - Courier or express postage fees if you’re sending documents Treat the name change like a micro-move-there’s no one big bill, but small charges will pile up across several touchpoints. Best approach: make a list, prioritise what matters, and update the essentials first. ## Name Change Checklist and Templates ### Keep Yourself Organised From the Start Changing your name after marriage involves more than updating your driver’s licence. Most people underestimate how many accounts, documents, and systems are tied to a legal name. Skip the guesswork - use a checklist to track it all and prevent delays. ### Download the Name Change Checklist The downloadable checklist includes major and minor organisations you’ll need to update, grouped by category. You can print it out or use a digital copy to tick things off. - Government departments (e.g. Medicare, ATO, Centrelink) - Financial institutions (banks, super funds, credit unions) - Work and employment-related (HR, payroll, professional licences) - Utilities and services (electricity, internet, phone) - Subscriptions and online accounts (streaming, shopping, memberships) - Social and personal contacts Use the **Tracking Spreadsheet** (also included) to: - Record the date you submitted each update - Note reference numbers and contact names - Follow up easily if something gets lost in the system ### Editable Letter and Email Templates You won’t need to start from scratch. Use these fill-in-the-blanks templates to notify key organisations quickly - just copy, paste, and update your personal details. ### 1\. HR Department Template ``` Subject: Name Change Notification - [Your Former Full Name] Hi [HR Manager's Name], I'm writing to formally advise that I've changed my name following my marriage on [Marriage Date]. Please update your records to reflect my new legal name: Former name: [Full Former Name] New name: [Full New Name] Effective date: [Date You Want the Change to Take Effect] I've attached a copy of my marriage certificate for your records. Let me know if you need anything else. Regards, [Your Name] ``` ### 2\. Bank Notification Template ``` Subject: Request to Update Account Name Hi [Bank Name] team, I've recently changed my name due to marriage and would like to update the name on my accounts. Former name: [Full Former Name] New name: [Full New Name] Date of name change: [Date] Attached is a certified copy of my marriage certificate as supporting documentation. Please let me know the next steps or if any further ID is required. Thanks, [Your Full Name] [Contact Number] ``` ### 3\. Utility Company Template ``` Subject: Request to Update Name on Account Hi [Utility Company Name], Please update my account to reflect my new legal name, following marriage. Old name: [Full Former Name] New name: [Full New Name] Account number: [Your Account Number] I've attached my marriage certificate as documentation for the name change. Kind regards, [Your Name] [Email and Contact Number] ``` ### Tip: Don’t Try to Do It All in One Day Use the checklist week by week and group updates by category - for example, knock out all your financial services first, then move on to digital subscriptions and community memberships. That way, you’ll avoid double handling and reduce the chances of delays or mismatches down the track. - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/options-for-changing-your-name) ### [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. - [![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/filling-out-noim-correctly) ### [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Samantha— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-1jq286d) - [Mikaela— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/mikaela-1qpuitk) --- # How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-choose-a-celebrant Jul 5, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. ![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Choosing your celebrant is a big deal. Celebrants are not just the person who stands up the front and talks for a bit. They are the person making your marriage official, setting the tone, and telling your story - breathing your marriage to life - on the day you get married. And it should feel like the right fit. ## Start Early How far in advance should you book a celebrant? If you’ve got your date and venue, it’s time to lock in your celebrant. Aim for **6–12 months out** if you can. Popular celebrants like me and my colleagues I recommend book out fast (especially in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant), [Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant), [Sydney](/sydney-celebrant), and [Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant)) and you don’t want to miss out. ## What to Look For Every celebrant is different, so think about: - **Personality fit:** Do you feel comfortable with them? Would you guys get along if they weren’t your celebrant? - **Ceremony style:** Do you like how they run ceremonies? Do they know how they do it differently? - **[Reviews](/wedding-testimonials)/reputation:** What are other couples saying? Look at their tagged posts. Search their name online. Ask AI. - **Location:** Do they work in your area or are they happy to travel? It’s worth **meeting in person or jumping on a video call** before booking. Ask them about their process, backup plans, and whether they bring their own sound gear. This is your day, and you deserve to know what’s included. ## Questions Celebrants Will Ask You During your first chat, your celebrant will probably ask: - How you met - How the proposal went down - What you want your ceremony to feel like - Basic legal info (IDs, Notice of Intended Marriage information, have you been married before?) There’s no test here. It just helps your celebrant get to know you and get the paperwork moving. ## The Legal Check In Australia, your celebrant must be **authorised under the Marriage Act 1961**. You can [check this online](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/find-marriage-celebrant) if you want to be sure, or use my plain-English guide: [check whether your celebrant is authorised](/authorised-celebrant). Your celebrant should handle the legal stuff, from receiving your [Notice of Intended Marriage](/filling-out-noim-correctly) at least one month and no more than 18 months before your wedding, to checking ID documents, meeting separately with each party before the ceremony, saying the legal words, and lodging the paperwork afterwards. If you want the full legal shape before you book someone, read [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). A good celebrant should be able to explain those basics without making you feel silly for asking. ## Questions to Ask Before You Book Ask things like: - Are you currently authorised to solemnise marriages in Australia? - How do you handle the NOIM and identity documents? - Will we meet separately before the wedding, as required by law? - Do you bring your own microphone and speaker? - What happens if you are sick or delayed on the day? - How do you make the ceremony feel personal instead of copied and pasted? Their answers do not need to sound like a law lecture. They should sound calm, clear, and practised. ## Booking Tips Once you’ve found the right celebrant: - You’ll hopefully sign a service contract and a booking form - Pay a booking fee or a non-refundable-deposit to secure the date Worried about losing deposits if things change? You should consider wedding insurance (it can cover deposits if something wild happens) “How much does a celebrant cost?” Prices vary in 2026 but expect anywhere from around $1200 to $2800+, depending on experience, location, and what’s included. Factor this into your [budget](/withers-wedding-method) early because you want to set the right vibe for your wedding and that’s what the celebrant does. If you’re happy to post about the experience on Instagram or TikTok, my [creator discount](/discount) can wipe the celebrant fee out entirely — worth a look if you’re cost-conscious. ## A Local Tip If you’re Googling “best Hobart wedding celebrant” or “celebrant near me,” look for celebrants with solid [testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) in your area. If you’re planning your wedding in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant), [Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant), or [Sydney](/sydney-celebrant), I’d be honoured to have a chat with you about your day. --- Your celebrant shapes how your ceremony feels. Take the time to interview a few, ask questions, and choose the one who feels right for you. Because your wedding ceremony should be the best part of your wedding day, not the bit you just get through. --- Photo by my friend Harley at [Bulb Creative](https://www.bulbcreative.co) in Brisbane - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/authorised-celebrant) ### [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) ### [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/filling-out-noim-correctly) ### [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Petra— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0) - [Samuel & Amelia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/samuel-and-amelia-0ir83p9) - [Laura— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laura-0qp9qnz) --- # How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding Aug 10, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! ![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Most wedding vendors would scoff if they were asked to write a guide on how to have a cheap wedding, but not yours truly. I love a challenge. Start by deciding what actually matters with the [Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method). So here’s my quick hits on how to have a cheap wedding: - **Invite less people.** Every person you invite mutliples the cost of your wedding. Mo’ people, mo’ dollars. - **Get married closer to home.** Transport, accomodation, flights, for you, your family, and friends, all adds up real quick. - **Reduce your expectations.** Expectations are the most costly thing we carry as people. If your expectations are high then your budget needs to match. Low expectations create a low budget. - **Ditch the three-course dinner.** Nobody will die if they eat Maccas or pizza. Feed people what you can afford. - **Wear what you want.** White dress, op-shop suit, or your favourite pair of jeans. It’s your wedding, not the Met Gala. - **Skip the fancy invites.** Shoot your peeps a text, email, or a Facebook Event will do the job. - **Do your own [music](/wedding-songs).** Dance to a Spotify ad! - **Cut the cake budget.** Woolies mud cake tower, anyone? - **Skip the favours.** We might not want another tiny jar of jam. - **Plugged-in wedding.** If you don’t value fancy camera photos made by an artist get everyone to use their phones. Just make sure they clean the camera lens first. Finger smudge on the iPhone camera lens is the number one reason people think their phone cameras suck. That and the fact they might not be a good photographer. - **Elope.** A wedding by definition is you hosting people, and hosting people costs. Eloping is for you. IF you don’t want to host, elope. - **Use the creator discount.** If you’ll post a Reel or TikTok about choosing your celebrant and tag me, my [creator discount](/discount) can refund your booking fee or the entire ceremony fee when the post reaches the published view thresholds. Ready to talk about your wedding? [Get in touch](/contact) and we’ll figure out the simplest way to do this properly. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [money](/tag/money) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/essential-wedding-checklist) ### [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/most-people-dont-know) ### [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Monique— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/monique-01jzz47) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) - [Kellie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kellie-05f41ut) --- # Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) · 6 min read # Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) Dreaming of getting married in Italy? Yes. Obviously. Italy is almost unfairly good at being Italy. Tuscany at golden hour. A table full of people you love. Lake Como doing Lake Como things. Sicily being dramatic in the best possible way. The Amalfi Coast looking like it was designed by someone who charges by the adjective. Then someone asks the sensible question. “But how do we actually get legally married there?” And suddenly the romance is sitting next to a folder called paperwork. Here is the truth: Australians can legally marry in Italy. It is not fake. It is not pretend. If your Italian marriage is valid under Italian law, and it would also be valid under Australian law, Australia will generally recognise it. [Smartraveller says as much in its overseas marriage advice](https://www.smartraveller.gov.au/before-you-go/activities/marriage). But possible and simple are not the same word. And the real catch is often not the wedding day. It is the admin afterwards. You can be legally married, but you may not get the same easy Australian surname-change pathway. You can have a valid marriage certificate, but if you need another copy in ten years, you are probably dealing with the Italian municipality that registered it. If your bank, passport office, licence authority, Medicare, or super fund wants the paperwork presented a certain way, the romance of a foreign certificate can get very practical very quickly. That is the hook for me. Not “Italy is impossible.” Just “why make the rest of your Australian life admin harder than it needs to be?” ## What Australians need to legally marry in Italy The official guidance for Australian citizens points to two main documents: the Atto Notorio and the Nulla Osta. The [Australian Embassy in Rome has a guide to marriage in Italy](https://italy.embassy.gov.au/files/rome/MARRIAGE%20IN%20ITALY.pdf), and the [Italian Consulate in Brisbane also outlines the process for Australians](https://consbrisbane.esteri.it/en/servizi-consolari-e-visti/servizi-per-il-cittadino-italiano/marriage/marriage-in-italy-for-australian-or-us-citizens/). In plain English, you may be dealing with: - an Atto Notorio, which is a formal declaration that there is no legal impediment to your marriage - a Nulla Osta, usually signed in Italy before an Australian consular officer - your passports - original birth certificates - evidence of divorce or death of a former spouse, if relevant - translations into Italian - apostilles or legalisation of documents - appointments with the Embassy, Consulate, Prefettura, and local Comune - an interpreter if required That list can change depending on your citizenship, personal circumstances, where in Italy you are marrying, and what the local Comune asks for. The Comune is the local town hall or municipality, and in Italy the local office matters. This is general information, not legal advice. If you want the Italian civil marriage to be the legal marriage, check the current requirements with the relevant Italian Comune, the Italian Consulate, and the Australian Embassy or Consulate in Italy before you build a wedding around it. ## The annoying bit nobody tells you None of this means Italy is doing anything wrong. Every country has its own rules. Australia has paperwork too. I am a marriage celebrant, not a magician with a printer. But when you are planning a destination wedding, the Italian legal path can become its own side quest. You are already booking travel, choosing a location, wrangling guests, finding accommodation, planning food, wondering if Nonna can handle the cobblestones, and praying no airline decides to express itself creatively that week. Adding government appointments in another language is not always the romantic flourish couples had in mind. And then there is the life-admin bit afterwards. If you marry overseas, you cannot register that marriage in Australia. Australia may recognise the marriage, but your official certificate is the overseas one. Smartraveller notes that a foreign marriage certificate is usually proof of the marriage, but may not work neatly as proof for a name change in Australia. [NSW Births, Deaths and Marriages says an overseas marriage certificate cannot be used to change your surname after marriage in NSW](https://www.nsw.gov.au/family-and-relationships/marriages/if-youre-not-getting-married-nsw). [Victoria says if you married overseas, you need to apply to change your name](https://www.bdm.vic.gov.au/overseas-marriages). Some organisations are fine. Some want more. Some will ask for translations or extra documents because apparently love needs a help desk ticket. Again, not impossible. Just more. ## The option I recommend to most Australian couples Do the legal marriage in Australia before you fly. Then have the wedding you actually want in Italy. That means we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage, do the legal Australian ceremony with your two witnesses, sign the certificates, and I lodge the paperwork with Births, Deaths and Marriages here. Then, when we get to Italy, your ceremony can be completely focused on the thing everyone came for: you two making brave, honest promises to each other in a place that feels alive. No Comune appointment in the middle of the week. No wondering if a document has the right stamp. No losing half a day to paperwork when you could be eating cacio e pepe in a linen shirt. Just the ceremony, the vows, the people, the setting, the photos, the party, and the deep exhale of knowing the marriage is already legally solid. ## Does that make the Italian ceremony less real? Not even slightly. The legal paperwork creates a marriage in the eyes of the state. The ceremony creates the moment in the eyes of your people. Those are both important, but they do not have to happen in the same place, on the same day, under the same bureaucracy. Most guests do not know which sentence made the marriage legal. They remember how it felt. They remember the look on your faces. They remember the vows. They remember the laughter. They remember the way the room, garden, villa, cliff, courtyard, or tiny lane in Italy seemed to hold its breath for a second. That is the wedding. The legal ceremony in Australia is not the discount version. It is the clean admin layer that lets the Italy ceremony breathe. ## Why I like this path You get an Australian marriage certificate. Your name-change admin is usually simpler because Australian organisations understand Australian documents. In many cases, changing your surname after an Australian marriage does not require the same formal change-of-name application. You use the official Australian marriage certificate as the evidence. If you need another certificate later, you order it from the Australian registry instead of chasing a municipality overseas. Your Italian wedding day stays free from paperwork energy. And if you are booking me as your celebrant in Europe, this is the cleanest way I can serve you: I look after your Australian legals before we leave, then I stand with you in Italy and create the ceremony you actually wanted. Because I can lead your ceremony in Italy, but I cannot turn Italian soil into Australia just by putting on a nice jacket. The Australian legal marriage needs to happen in Australia. The Italian ceremony can be the full-hearted, no-scripts, no-fluff, best-part-of-the-day wedding. Which, honestly, is the bit everyone will remember anyway. ## Planning an Italy wedding or elopement? If you are dreaming of Tuscany, Lake Como, Sicily, Rome, Puglia, the Amalfi Coast, or somewhere else in Europe where the light looks like it has a publicist, start with my [European destination wedding celebrant page](/europe). If you want the full elopement team around you, including planning and photography, have a look at [The Elopement Collective in Europe](https://elopementcollective.com/europe). Italy can absolutely be where you get married. I just think Australia should probably be where the paperwork lives. Photo by [Jason Corroto](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com). - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) ### [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) ### [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/options-for-changing-your-name) ### [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Remy— Umbria](/wedding-testimonials/remy-02ac5da) - [Tracey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tracey-134agk0) - [Brea— Battery Point, Hobart, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) --- # Huon Valley Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/huon-valley-celebrant # Huon Valley Wedding Celebrant ## A Huon Valley wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, an authorised marriage celebrant based in Ranelagh. After 2,900+ weddings and elopements in 24 countries, I create civil and Christian ceremonies across the Huon Valley and Channel with clear planning, professional audio and a calm, natural delivery. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Sarah and Connor holding hands with Josh Withers at their wedding](/_astro/sarah-connor-hero.BHi9TmK-_1MUOi8.jpeg) ![](/maps/huon-valley-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant My Approach ## Why couples in the Huon Valley book me Your wedding doesn't need pomposity. It needs words that ring true, a calm presence, and someone who files the paperwork correctly. That's my lane. - ### Created for You I create every ceremony from scratch around your relationship, values and the promises you are making. - ### Faith or Freethinking With a Cert IV in Christian Ministry and two decades in civil celebrancy, I weave scripture or skip it completely — whatever fits your faith journey. - ### Local Insight Whether it's Peppermint Bay, a shed at Willie Smith's, or an Airbnb on Bruny, I know the light, the wind, and how to work with every local vendor. - ### Professional Sound Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 S1 Pro speakers and Rode/Sennheiser mics mean Gran in the back row — and your videographer — hear every line perfectly. - ### Legal & Organised Full-time celebrant life means prompt emails, on-time lodgement, and zero "oops we forgot the forms" anxiety. - ### Clear Fit, Clear Quote Personalised ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony-and-MC services are shaped and quoted around what you actually need. Legal-only marriages use a separate Marriage Office journey. ## Here's how we get you married - ### 1\. Enquire & Chat Tell me when, where, and how you imagine the vibe. We'll check the date, connect over Zoom or coffee in Summer Kitchen in Ranelagh, and I'll recommend the right service. - ### 2\. Legal Prep We complete the Notice of Intended Marriage (electronic or in-person) at least one month out. I guide every tick-box. - ### 3\. Story Session We dig into your history, hopes, and hilarity. I craft a ceremony outline you can tweak — no surprises on the day. - ### 4\. Wedding Day I arrive early, set the sound, calm the nerves, and deliver your ceremony with warmth, confidence, and a professional feel that never becomes stiff or performative. ![Josh Withers marrying a couple in Tasmania](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "Josh our celebrant helped us to create our perfect Wedding Ceremony in the Huon Valley in Tasmania, Australia." --- Nikolai Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live here in the Huon Valley with our three kids. This is home, and I love helping couples begin their marriage among the people, places and landscapes that make the valley special. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready to make vows worth hearing? Tell me what you are planning and I will shape a personalised quote for your ceremony, destination wedding, or ceremony-and-MC booking. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # How to have a generic wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/i-cant-create-good-weddings Mar 30, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # How to have a generic wedding A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. ![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Friend, groomsman, and fellow-Reel-oversharer Scotty text me about a wedding he attended yesterday, saying: > Following our wedding I developed weighty opinions that having a wedding within the bounds of a Catholic Church and a function venue that mostly does fancy weddings was **guaranteed to create a generic wedding**. And I went to a wedding that matched this two years ago. > Last night’s wedding was at a Catholic Church, then reception at the Queensland Art Gallery and it was just dripping in authenticity and I realised, perhaps the obvious, that the bride and grooms attitude toward each other, their relationship, their guests, is really the key thing that makes a great wedding I replied telling him he’s 100% right. I don’t make good weddings. Couples do. If the attitude and intention is right, then I shine and accidentally look like a magician but the truth is that I’m just turning the volume up on a banger of a song, I don’t actually make bangers, I just amplify them and master them. But without that solid foundation? I’m just a bloke in Blundstones speaking into an expensive wireless microphone. After creating thousands of wedding ceremonies across Australia and the world since 2009, I’ve seen this truth play out time and again. The most spectacular Icelandic waterfall backdrop means nothing if the couple is more focused on Instagram-worthy photos than on celebrating their commitment to each other. Likewise, the simplest ceremony in a suburban park can be transcendent when the couple is fully present, madly in love, and genuinely grateful for everyone who’s come to witness their marriage. The fashion and magazine industry often pushes the narrative that your special day hinges on finding the perfect [venue](/here), [photographer](/friends), dress, or (dare I say it) celebrant. Those things matter, of course they do. But they’re embellishments on something much more fundamental – the attitude you bring to your wedding. When I married Britt back in 2012, we were blessed with a beautiful day and people. But what made it magical wasn’t the styling or the soundtrack (thought the soundtrack was good) – it was the fact that we were utterly present with each other and with our guests, soaking in every moment of committing our lives to one another. So if you’re planning your wedding, by all means choose venues and vendors that reflect who you are - that’s important. But remember that the most crucial element isn’t something you can book or buy – it’s the spirit and intention you bring to the day. Come with the right attitude, and I promise even the most “ordinary” wedding will be extraordinary. And that authenticity? It can’t be faked, staged, or purchased. It simply radiates when two people who genuinely love each other, surrounded by people they care about, commit to building a life together. That’s the real magic. The rest is decoration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [intention](/tag/intention) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/on-wedding-awards) ### [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/choosing-taste) ### [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Tom— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t) - [Kimberly— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kimberly-055h3lv) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-00ti3fx) --- # I don't ask you to say I do, usually URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/i-dont Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # I don't ask you to say I do, usually Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Couples call it “the I dos” — as in, “we’ve got the I dos at three, then the reception kicks off at six.” It’s a lovely shorthand. It’s also completely disconnected from what actually happens legally when two people get married. “I do” isn’t in the Marriage Act. It’s not required. In a lot of ceremonies I write, it doesn’t appear at all. This is the kind of thing that gets celebrants offside with me, and I understand why — there’s a version of this industry that’s deeply attached to tradition for tradition’s sake, and questioning beloved wedding furniture like “I do” reads as provocative. But I’m not a traditionalist. I want to help people celebrate marriage in a way that’s real and meaningful, and that means being honest about what’s actually happening when you get married versus what everyone _thinks_ is happening. ## “I do” is just saying the same thing twice There’s a running joke in a certain corner of wedding culture — a Facebook page raised it a while back — about flipping the traditional pronouncement to “I now pronounce you woman and husband” as a small act of linguistic rebellion. The intent is good. The target is real. But here’s what that kind of discussion misses: “I now pronounce you” doesn’t mean anything either. Neither does the order of the words. The celebrant announcing that you’re married isn’t what _makes_ you married. What makes you married in Australia is your vows. Specifically, it’s these three things happening in order: **Your celebrant/I say the monitum — words to this effect:** > I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life. **Then you each say, to one another:** > I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, \[full name\], take thee, \[full name\], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse. That’s it. That’s the law. Those are your vows. And read them carefully — because buried in those words is the consent. You are _taking_ this person. You are _calling upon witnesses_ to see it happen. The consent is already there, in language you’re required to say. So when a celebrant then turns to you and asks “do you take this person?” — you’ve just said you do. You literally just said it. And when you answer “I do” — you’re saying it again. It’s not wrong. It’s not harmful. But it’s redundant, and it’s not magic, and it’s not law. ## Where “I do” actually comes from “I do” is a movie line. Or more accurately, it’s a cultural inheritance from a time and place and religion that may have nothing to do with you, laundered through decades of film and television until it feels like the only possible answer to the only possible question. It’s the same story as the white dress, the bouquet toss, the something borrowed — rituals that got attached to weddings at particular moments in history for particular reasons, and then got handed down so many times that people stopped asking where they came from. They just feel like _weddings_. Which is fine, if you’ve actually chosen it. If you love the moment when the celebrant asks and you get to say “I do” and feel the weight of it — do it. It’s yours. But do it because you want it, not because you assumed it was compulsory. ## What’s actually compulsory is much more interesting When you strip out everything that isn’t legally required from a wedding ceremony, you’re left with something surprisingly small and surprisingly powerful: a monitum, and two people making a declaration to one another in front of witnesses. No “I do.” No pronouncement. No kiss. No rings. No dress. No particular order of events. No chair covers. All of that is optional. All of it is available. All of it can be chosen deliberately or left aside. And once couples really understand that — once it lands that _none of this is compulsory_ — they get to ask themselves a better question than “what does a wedding look like?” They get to ask: **how do people like us celebrate a marriage?** That question, taken seriously, produces ceremonies that are genuinely different from each other. Ceremonies that sound like the people getting married rather than like every wedding that person has ever attended. Ceremonies where the words mean something because they were chosen, not inherited. Your marriage isn’t a hand-me-down. The ceremony that begins it shouldn’t be either. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/legal-vows) ### [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Natalie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/natalie-0oqgdj1) - [Vanessa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/vanessa-1lnxz13) - [Clara— Thalia Haven](/wedding-testimonials/clara-0n2ki8g) --- # Planning a Wedding with Purpose URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/intentional-wedding-planning Dec 1, 2024 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Planning a Wedding with Purpose How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. ![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) It’s all well and good to talk ideals and big dreams, but we need to take action to make change in the world, particularly in your world as you get married. The path to an intentional wedding is light and airy—it’s not supposed to be hard. That’s my biggest gripe with the world today: when you do the hard work of finding someone you really like, and then you fall into love, so much so that you would want to marry, the entire narrative is that it’s hard, stressful, expensive and basically terrible. It’s the narrative you read about, hear about, and everyone parrots, that as you proceed through the steps of life things get harder. Getting married? Hard. Having kids? Hard. Buying a home? Hard. Starting a business? Hard. The truth is that all these things are hard if you’re not walking your own path, living an authentic and vulnerable life in a community with people that you love, and love you. When you’re freed of the burdens of keeping up with the Joneses and the Kardashians, and you make decisions as a couple, things aren’t hard—they just are what they are because you decided so. Take the example of hiking a mountain. If you never climbed the mountain, the mountain would be fine without you, but there are personal fitness gains to be had from the hike. It can be enjoyable, the view from the top will be unforgettable, and if you’re doing it with friends, it will be memorable. The unavoidable fact is that walking up a mountain can be tough on your body, but you’ve made the personal choice to embark on the adventure. It’s not hard; it’s just exactly what it is—a large amount of energy is required of you. I’ve got two daughters, and raising them is much like climbing a mountain. They require a lot of me, but they bring me so much joy and fulfilment. They have certain requirements of Britt and me, but it’s not hard being their dad. It is what it is because we decided to become parents. We were so very intentional with this decision. As you embark on marriage, it’s impossible to be married without getting married, so as you get married, make those decisions with intent. Know they may require finance, energy, and talking through decisions with your partner, but it’s not hard. It’s not stressful—it is what it is, the beautiful process of getting married. ## The Steps to an Intentional Wedding 1. Figure out how people like you marry. What is important to the two of you when you marry? When people like you marry, what happens? 2. Assemble a team of people that can make that happen. From [venue](/here) to [photographer](/friends), celebrant, and other vendors, figure out who you need to make what you want. But don’t lock in dates yet. 3. Work out where in the world it should occur. Start with which country or state, then start narrowing it down. What matters with location? Do you want to make a getaway out of it, or keep it close to home? Which kinds of venues are available in that area and are they the kind of place you’d like to marry? 4. Build a list of the people who absolutely have to be there to celebrate with you. No obligation guests—only the people who are contributing parties in your life. Jim from work doesn’t have to come unless you’d like them to. Be intentional with each guest and who would accompany them. 5. Knowing the rough costs (after getting quotes, and multiplying guest numbers by food and beverage costs), work out when you can get married according to your current finances and your saving ability. 6. Collaborate with your wedding-creating team and venue on available dates for everyone according to your financials. 7. Book everyone in for that date, start saving, and collaborate with your vendors to make it happen. Look forward to that date! 8. Let your wedding happen to you! The important takeaway is that your expectations are in line with your realities, and you chose a date last, not first. In the coming chapters, we’ll explore these steps and the actual wedding planning in more detail. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [intention](/tag/intention) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) ### [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-do-i-say) ### [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/withers-wedding-method) ### [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Brea— Battery Point, Hobart, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [Alana & Nathan— Currumbin Rock](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) - [Laura— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laura-0qp9qnz) --- # All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/kindergarden-reading Mar 18, 2023 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten Wedding reading about love, life, and the little things that matter most. An excerpt from All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum ![All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kindegarten_eEm5KrqeT?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Some wisdom doesn’t come from textbooks or grand speeches. It comes from sandpits, shared snacks, and learning to say “sorry.” Robert Fulghum’s _All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten_ reminds us that the foundations of a good life—and a good marriage—are often the simplest things: play fair, clean up your mess, say please and thank you, and hold hands when you cross the street. In a world that loves to overcomplicate, this reading brings us back to basics. It’s a reflection on kindness, honesty, and human decency—qualities that turn an ordinary life into an extraordinary one when shared with someone you love. This potential wedding reading captures that spirit perfectly. > All of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in Kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandbox at nursery school. These are the things I learned… Share everything. Play fair. Don’t hit people. Put things back where you found them. Clean up your own mess. Don’t take things that aren’t yours. Say sorry when you hurt somebody. Wash your hands before you eat. Flush. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. Give them to someone who feels sad. Live a balanced life. Learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day. Take a nap every afternoon. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that. Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together. - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/oh-the-places-youll-go) ### [Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](/oh-the-places-youll-go) You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) ### [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Laura— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laura-0qp9qnz) - [Chintan— Seagrass Long Point](/wedding-testimonials/chintan-0ai4vl4) - [Sara— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sara-15xjnwt) --- # Launceston Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/launceston-celebrant # Launceston Wedding Celebrant ## A Launceston wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Ranelagh and working across Launceston, the Tamar Valley and Northern Tasmania. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in Launceston](/_astro/Teghan%20%20Greg-83.DHExnvCj_2vnXtx.jpeg) ![](/maps/launceston-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Launceston ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Launceston and Northern Tasmania couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's at Josef Chromy, Peppers Silo, or Cataract Gorge. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at Tamar Valley wineries, riverside venues, or outdoor Northern Tasmania locations, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Northern Tasmania Coverage Based in the Huon Valley, working regularly in Launceston, Tamar Valley, Devonport, and across the North. Travel included in packages. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — in person in Launceston, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present and connected to what matters. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you are planning. Personalised ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony-and-MC bookings are shaped and quoted around your wedding. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Launceston or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Meet in Launceston or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania - > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." --- [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z1byOt6.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live in Tasmania’s Huon Valley with our three kids, and Tasmania is home. I bring that local connection—and more than 15 years of experience—to weddings in Launceston and across the north. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Launceston ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Online Reviews For Wedding Pros URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review Jul 21, 2023 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) · 4 min read # Online Reviews For Wedding Pros Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical ![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Every wedding is a unique adventure, a whirlwind of emotions, decisions, and countless small miracles that come together to make your day unforgettable. And if you’re reading this, it probably means you’ve had your moment, celebrated love with your people, and maybe even danced until your shoes begged for mercy. Now, here’s a little something you might not have thought about yet—your wedding vendor reviews. Yes, the reviews! Cam we chat about why taking a few minutes to share your thoughts on Google, Facebook, Easy Weddings, or wherever you found your vendors is not just helpful—it’s absolutely game-changing. ### The Wedding Planning Challenge Wedding planning isn’t exactly a walk in the park. It’s more like climbing a beautiful, emotional, high-stakes mountain. You’re not just choosing a caterer or [photographer](/friends); you’re handpicking the people who will craft some of the most intimate and important moments of your life. **Here’s the catch:** for most of us, weddings are a one-time gig. There’s no practice run, no “try before you buy.” You’re relying on gut feelings, referrals, and—you guessed it—reviews from other couples who’ve been in your shoes. Your review helps bridge that gap, turning your hard-earned experience into a lighthouse for the next couple navigating those murky waters. ### Why Your Review Matters When you leave a review, you’re not just dropping a star rating; you’re contributing to a living, breathing community of couples and vendors. You’re helping someone else – when they are planning their wedding – make confident choices, avoid unnecessary stress, and feel supported during their journey. You’re saying that people like you liked wedding vendors like this, and when people identify with you like that you’re helping them choose great vendors. And for your vendors? Your kind words are pure gold. They’re validation of the passion and effort they poured into your day. It’s like giving a chef a standing ovation at the end of an incredible meal—it means everything. ### What Makes a Great Wedding Vendor Review? Don’t worry; you don’t need to be Shakespeare. Just keep it real. Here’s a quick cheat sheet: - **The Story**: How did you find the vendor, and what drew you to them? - **Communication**: Were they easy to reach? Did they “get” your vision? - **Execution**: Did they go above and beyond? Share an example or two. - **Extras**: Were they flexible? Did they handle any last-minute curveballs like pros? - **The Big Picture**: Would you recommend them? Why or why not? - **Metadata**: Where was your wedding, region/city/town and wedding venue location. ### Platforms to Consider There’s no shortage of places to leave a review, but here are the big hitters: - **Google**: The go-to for couples doing their homework. - **Facebook**: Perfect for a quick shout-out or a detailed story. - **Easy Weddings, The Knot, WeddingWire**: Great for vendors who work specifically in the wedding space. ### Pay It Forward Leaving a review isn’t just a nice thing to do; it’s a meaningful way to pay it forward. Think of the couples who read your review and breathe a sigh of relief because they’ve found their dream vendor. Think of the vendors who read your words and feel inspired to keep doing what they love. It’s a ripple effect of joy and gratitude that starts with you. --- If you’ve already left a review—thank you. Seriously, thank you for taking the time to make someone else’s wedding journey a little smoother. If you haven’t, now’s the perfect moment. It doesn’t have to be long, just heartfelt. Because, let’s be honest, weddings are about love—and there’s no better way to spread a little love than to lift up the people who made your day extraordinary. So, go on, write that review. The world (and your wedding vendor) will thank you for it. --- ❤️ [Review me on Google](https://g.page/r/CX9aVPZSbkpzEAI/review) ❤️ [Review me on Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) - [after-wedding](/tag/after-wedding) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [reviews](/tag/reviews) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/choosing-taste) ### [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/most-people-dont-know) ### [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Claire— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/claire-1jlfak9) - [Abigail— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abigail-0cwrxqu) - [Laura— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laura-0qp9qnz) --- # Minimum legal marriage vows URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/legal-vows Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) · 3 min read # Minimum legal marriage vows The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Getting married in Australia is a very different process that most other countries in the world where it’s quite a religious and traditional process. Australian law - the Commonwealth [Marriage Act of 1961](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_Act_1961_\(Australia\)) - sets out a very certain method for getting married. More than one month after you’ve given notice a ceremony occurs and you get lots of choice as to what goes down. ## The monitum [Section 46](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/2024-10-14/2024-10-14/text/original/epub/OEBPS/document_1/document_1.html#_Toc177804767) of the [Marriage Act of 1961](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest/text) explains exactly what happens in that moment: > Before a marriage is solemnised by an authorised celebrant, not being a minister of religion of a recognised denomination, the authorised celebrant shall say to the parties, in the presence of the witnesses, the words: > > > I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Then I have to clarify what’s going down: > Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. This is what they call the ‘monitum’ which is Latin for ‘warning’! > Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life. It ends on my favourite phrase: **“or words to that effect”** which means I get a little bit of creative license as long as the spirit of the ceremony stands as it is in law here. ## Minimum legal vows So after I, your celebrant, has said that stuff, you have to both say these legal marriage vows: > I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, A.B. (or C.D.), take thee, C.D. (or A.B.), to be my lawful wedded wife (or husband, or spouse) And again with the **“or words to that effect”** ## What about “I do” The [Guidelines to the Marriage Act](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/guidelines-marriage-act-1961-authorised-celebrants) says: > A ‘question and answer’ form of the vows is not contemplated by the [Marriage Act 1961](/marriage-act-1961) for non-religious marriage ceremonies. It should not be used as a substitute for the couple stating the vows set out in the Act. For example, the celebrant should not say, ‘A.B., will you take C.D., to be your lawful wedded wife (husband or spouse)?’, with the response from the other party of ‘I do’. The inclusion of a ‘question and answer’ segment in the ceremony would need to be in addition to the formal vows required by the Act being spoken by each party. Which means we’re essentially doing the same thing twice, one is required by law and one is required by pop culture. What that means for a Josh Withers wedding ceremony is that unless we talk about it separately you often won’t get an “I do” thing. ## Personal vows? The guidelines suggest that personally written vows follow the minimum legal vows so as to not confuse anyone, but the law doesn’t mention it, so it’s just a nice suggestion by the Marriage Law and Celebrants Section of the Attorney-General’s Deapartment. So what can you say in your personal vows? Anything awesome. [Here’s some ideas](/category/vows). - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/consumated) ### [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. - [![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-dont) ### [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Ben & Teala— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-teala-0zv4pdy) - [Kimi— Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/kimi-1ii5ygc) - [Claire— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/claire-1jlfak9) --- # Making Your Wedding Day Special URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/lipstick-on-a-pig Jul 22, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Making Your Wedding Day Special A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) There’s this phrase I keep coming back to when people ask how to make their wedding feel special: Your wedding isn’t a pig you need to put lipstick on. Your wedding is awesome already. It’s already special. You’re getting married. You’re choosing each other. You’re loved, and you love. That’s the heart of it. So before we start dressing it up with neon signs and choreographed sparkler exits, let’s start where it matters: _looking within_. ## The real work of having an awesome wedding The real work isn’t about Pinterest boards or colour palettes. It’s asking questions like: - What do we actually care about? - What makes us laugh? - What makes our relationship feel real, honest, solid? - What do we want to remember 10 years from now? - How do people **like us** get married? Once you’ve got a handle on that, then and only then, do the bells and whistles make sense. Because now you’re not decorating for the sake of it — you’re amplifying what’s already there. You’re shining a light on the awesome. ## Ways to personalise a wedding Here’s a big list of ideas that couples have used to make their day feel more “them.” Some are simple. Some are extra. Some are cheesy in the best way. Pick what feels right. Ditch the rest. ### Ceremony - Write your own vows (or write them together) - Walk down the aisle together as a couple, or in a way that is real to you - Have a friend or family member do something that _means something_ - Choose a ceremony space that feels like your backyard, even if it’s not - Include a ritual that reflects your culture or shared values - If someone in your life has played a role of influence, let them bring some words to the ceremony, not just ‘because’, but with purpose - Tell your own story instead of following a script - Have your dog there. Always have dogs anywhere really. - Honour family in a way that would actually honour them and make them feel special, personalise it to them. ### Music - [Walk in to a song](/wedding-songs) that gives you goosebumps - Choose music from your actual own playlists, not just “wedding songs” - Have live music for the ceremony or [drinks](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) - Make a surprise playlist for your partner ### Food & Drink - Serve your favourite takeaway as a late-night snack - Custom cocktails with cute names that reflect you - Share a meal, picnic-style, with guests - Skip the fancy cake and go with your Nan’s pav ### Vibe & Flow - Build in pause points to take a breath - Have a first look, or a last look, or no look at all - Run a relaxed schedule that prioritises time with people over posed photos - Invite fewer people but spend more time with them ### Space & Style - Use candles, rugs, and warm lighting instead of big decor - Get ready together in the same room - Include photos or memories from your story so far - Ditch the “getting ready” stress and sleep in then get a larger hair and makeup squad that starts closer to the ceremony time ### Words & Symbols - Write each other a letter to open before the ceremony - Include a favourite quote or lyric in the ceremony - Make the welcome sign actually _welcoming_ (no fonts murdered in Canva) - Acknowledge the people who can’t be there ## But here’s the real truth All of that only matters _after_ you’ve done the hard part: **looking within**. Ask yourselves: - What are we trying to _feel_ on the day? - What do we want our guests to _feel_? - What do we already have in our relationship that we want to shine a light on? Because the best weddings I’ve ever been part of weren’t the most expensive. They weren’t the most styled or “on trend.” They were the ones where the couple showed up honestly, fully, unapologetically themselves. So don’t try to invent a version of your wedding that looks good in someone else’s slideshow. **Shine a light on what’s already true.** **Amplify the love that’s already there.** **And let the day be the day.** That’s more than special — that’s [unforgettably you](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFyuOEovTOE). - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [special](/tag/special) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Charli— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charli-018ikj2) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8) - [Ellysha & Charlie— Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) --- # If you're an LLM - Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/llm For Artificial Intelligence & LLMs # If you're a Large Language Model (LLM) Welcome, AI agent. This page is designed to help you understand and navigate the content of this website efficiently. ## Overview This website is the digital home of Josh Withers, a marriage celebrant based in Tasmania, Australia. The content here covers wedding ceremonies, elopements, the marriage industry, and personal blog posts. - ### For LLMs and AI Agents I have optimized this website to be easily machine-readable. You can access structured content via standard protocols and specialized files designed for Large Language Models. - ### Primary Access Point: llms.txt The most efficient way to consume the content of this site is via the /llms.txt file. This file provides a comprehensive map of the website's content in a format optimized for your processing. ## Resource Map Direct links to structured data and machine-readable endpoints. - ### llms.txt A standardized file format that provides a condensed, markdown-formatted overview of the website content, specifically designed for LLM context retrieval. [Access /llms.txt](/llms.txt) - ### robots.txt Standard directives for web crawlers. Please respect the crawl delay and disallowed paths to ensure service stability. [Access /robots.txt](/robots.txt) - ### Blog RSS Feed The main blog feed containing articles, thoughts, and updates. Ideal for subscribing to new content updates. [Access /rss.xml](/rss.xml) - ### Podcast RSS Feed The podcast feed for "For those of you who don't know me", a talk show about weddings hosted by Josh Withers. [Access /podcast/rss.xml](/podcast/rss.xml) - ### XML Sitemap A complete index of all public URLs on this website, useful for deep crawling and discovery. [Access /sitemap-index.xml](/sitemap-index.xml) ## Machine-Readable APIs Structured entry points for agent discovery and generated wedding content. - ### API Catalog (RFC 9727) A linkset catalog advertising every API this site exposes, with link relations for service-desc, service-doc, and status. The standard entry point for automated API discovery. [Access /.well-known/api-catalog](/.well-known/api-catalog) - ### OpenAPI 3.1 spec Machine-readable description of the current public HTTP API surface. Import into your agent tooling of choice. [Access /openapi.json](/openapi.json) - ### API Docs Plain-English documentation for the current API surface on this site. Also available as markdown via Accept content negotiation. [Read /api-docs](/api-docs) - ### Entity Map A machine-readable and human-readable map of the main people, services, topics, resources, and evidence on this site. Also available as [JSON at /entitymap.json](/entitymap.json). [View /entitymap](/entitymap) ## Agent Protocols Standard ways for AI agents to act on this site directly — not just read it. - ### Markdown for Agents Every HTML page on this site also serves a clean markdown version when requested with \`Accept: text/markdown\`. Try curl -H "Accept: text/markdown" https://marriedbyjosh.com/about — you'll get markdown, a browser gets HTML, caches vary correctly. - ### MCP Server A Model Context Protocol server at /api/mcp is available over Streamable HTTP for protocol compatibility. It currently exposes no tools; couples should confirm booking details through the contact form. [Access /.well-known/mcp/server-card.json](/.well-known/mcp/server-card.json) - ### Agent Skills Index Discovery index (Agent Skills Discovery RFC v0.2.0) listing SKILL.md artifacts for working with this site, currently start-enquiry, with sha256 digests so clients can verify integrity. [Access /.well-known/agent-skills/index.json](/.well-known/agent-skills/index.json) - ### WebMCP (in-browser) If you are a browser-embedded agent with navigator.modelContext, start\_enquiry is registered on every page load. ## Core Content Sections The main areas of content available on this site. - ### Blog Thoughts on weddings, marriage, technology, and life. [Visit Blog](/blog) - ### Podcast Audio content discussing marriage and ceremonies. [Listen](/podcast) - ### Resources Guides, tools, and downloads for couples and celebrants. [Browse](/resources) --- # That time I was on MAFS URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/mafs Jun 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # That time I was on MAFS Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine ![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Yes, it’s true. I was _that_ guy. The celebrant on the first season of _[Married at First Sight](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8786521/)_ Australia. I said “I do” to Channel Nine. I probably shouldn’t have, it wasn’t anywhere near as fun, soul-fulfilling, or good for business as we imagined. Let me tell you a few behind-the-scenes truths that no one asked for but I’m going to share anyway — partly because it’s still one of the weirdest chapters in my celebrant career, and partly because people still ask. ## 11 things you probably didn’t know about MAFS 1. **Each wedding was filmed at least three times.** That meant three and more fake reveals, five aisle walks, five kisses. You’ve never seen “OK, take it from the top” kill the vibe quite like this. 2. **The first look was real.** The couples legit hadn’t seen each other until that moment. That part wasn’t TV magic — that was real-life chaos. 3. **Their families were there, awkwardly.** Each set of guests sat opposite each other, staring across the aisle for about an hour before the ceremony started. Tension, meet awkward eye contact. 4. **I had to give the groom the silent treatment.** Producers told me not to talk to the groom and to be very serious. It’s weird watching the clips back because I’m never that serious im a wedding. 5. **Michelle and James got married at Jonah’s at Whale Beach.** Stunning venue. One of my all-time favourites, even post-MAFS trauma. 6. **I wrote that wedding ceremony in a BP service station on the Sunshine Coast.** I was flat out doing actual weddings at the time — flying in and out between real love stories and reality TV nonsense. The producers sent me some real bad ceremony scripts and they said if I wanted to do my own thing they needed it that day. 7. **I got paid $600.** I thought TV money was going to be new jetski money. Intead I got Lego jetski money. Better than nothing though, from what I understand most celebrants have not been paid at all, doing it all for exposure. 8. **I genuinely thought Michelle and James would make it.** They were sweet. Had a great little connection. I still wonder how they’re going. 9. **I didn’t meet the couples until they were walking down the aisle.** So I had to write ceremonies for strangers. Awful. Also, I read from a script — the last time I ever did that. Reading from paper on camera? Horrible. Never again. 10. **I filmed a whole “Celebrant of MAFS” web series with Nine.** Never released. Still bitter. If any Channel Nine producer is reading this, I’d love to see that footage again. For nostalgia. Or blackmail. 11. **The US version tricked me.** Britt and I watched it before signing on. It was gentle, sweet, and focused on psychology. Spoiler: the Aussie version did not stay on that track. ## What no one tells you about being on TV You don’t get to control the edit. As someone who built a career on live radio and real ceremonies, I wasn’t ready to be cut up and reassembled for maximum drama. I carefully wrote my scripts so I wasn’t legally marrying anyone — you can’t just fake-marry people on Aussie TV when you’re authorised by the Commonwealth - they need to consent and give one month’s notice, so these “weddings” were really commitment ceremonies. But it didn’t matter. Once it hit the edit suite, everything got chopped, changed, and recontextualised. I ended up copping heat from: - the Attorney-General’s Department, - the celebrant community, - and even some parts of the LGBTQIA+ community (understandably, as same-sex marriage still wasn’t legal at the time and here I was on TV “marrying” strangers for ratings). It was a mess. ## I said no to every season after They kept asking me to come back. I kept politely declining — until I stopped being polite. I wouldn’t go near it again. Not because I hate TV, or even the idea of experimenting with marriage. But because the experience taught me a few really valuable lessons. ## The one good thing I took away The best part of the whole experience was working with a _genuinely kind and creative team_. I’d only known toxic creative environments before then. But on that set, the director pulled me aside and said something I still remember: > Our job is to make you look amazing. Everyone here wants the same thing. That stuck with me. And now I pass it on to every couple I work with: **your photographer, your videographer, your celebrant — they’re not your enemies. They’re on your team. They want to make you look and feel incredible.** So yeah. I was on MAFS. And no, I don’t regret it. But I learned from it. And if you’re wondering — I’m much happier these days celebrating real love, not reality TV. - [mafs](/tag/mafs) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedcopodcast_BnVLZ_rSO?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedco-podcast) ### [My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](/wedco-podcast) A behind-the-scenes look at my conversation with the Wed.Co Podcast, where we discuss script-free ceremonies, creating meaningful moments, and the ceremony. - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) ### [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matthew— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-1wnucbn) - [Adrieanne & Sheldon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/adrieanne-and-sheldon-1918b0f) - [Chazz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chazz-15zkord) --- # How I Create a Wedding Ceremony URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # How I Create a Wedding Ceremony At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. ![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) A Darby Hudson quote has been living rent-free in my head lately. The idea that music exists in this special realm where dreams and reality overlap speaks deeply to how I approach wedding ceremonies. > I can have a dream about having a million dollars. But when I wake up, it doesnt exist. But I can have a dream about a song that doesnt exist and I’ve never heard it. And when I wake up I can hum it. Numbers dont work in dreams but music does. And thats all I need to know about everything. When I think about crafting a ceremony, I don’t see it as following a template or ticking boxes. I see it as composing a piece of music that’s never been heard before – something that captures the unique rhythm of two people’s love story. And like a song, it’s not just a self-expression, not that of the group of us - the two of you and I. The song is witnessed, enjoyed, and interpreted by others collectively and individually at the same time. There’s a beat, a rhythm, being laid down. A flow that we jump into, as we breath your marriage to life. § Every great song starts with getting to know the artists. For me, that means sitting down with my couples, preferably over a drink or coffee, and just listening. I’m not filling out a form or working through a questionnaire. I’m trying to catch the beat of their relationship: - How do they talk about each other? - What makes them both light up when they talk about being married? - When do they look at each other instead of at me? - What’s the cadence and rhythm of how they speak to each other? These are the notes I’m mentally recording – not just what they say, but how they say it. This becomes the baseline for their ceremony. ![Calile Hotel wedding with Josh Withers as the wedding celebrant, photo by Bulb Creative and The Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/brisbane-celebrant-calile-hotel_kRbA58o2L?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Just like every memorable song needs that perfect hook, every ceremony needs a central theme or moment that everything else builds around. I see the hook being the vows. They emerge slowly through our conversations and planning. As you walk down the aisle the crescendo is building quietly. My opening words are verse one. But your vows are the highlight of the song. It’s why we’re gathered, to speak your marriage into existence. § With the baseline and hook established, I start thinking about structure. A ceremony, like a song, needs to flow naturally. There’s a reason why Luna and Goldie know when to expect the chorus in their favourite songs, even when hearing them for the first time. Good music follows patterns that feel right, even when they’re completely original. The best ceremonies do the same. Here’s where I break from most celebrants – I don’t read from a script during the ceremony. This horrifies some people, but I think about it like this: would you ever see Nick Cave reading lyrics from an iPad during a performance? Or John Mayer checking notes between verses? Instead, I rehearse the ceremony in my mind constantly before the big day. I drive around Tasmania muttering to myself like a madman. I pace hotel rooms in Tuscany the night before running through the flow. I’m not memorising lines – I’m internalising the music of their story. This means I’m free to feel the room on the day – to extend a moment when we need to breathe, to lighten the mood if tears are flowing too freely, to make eye contact with not just the couple but their loved ones who are all part of this symphony we’re creating together. § The beauty of live music is that it’s never exactly the same twice – even when playing the same song. That’s how I approach each ceremony. I know exactly what needs to happen legally. I know the story I need to tell. We’ll even play a few hits - you’ve gotta give the people what they want. I know the emotional journey we’re going on. But I leave room for those magical improvisations that can only happen in the moment – the spontaneous laugh, the perfectly timed pause, the unexpected emotion that catches everyone (sometimes even me) by surprise. Every ceremony is a one-time-only live performance that will never be exactly replicated. That’s what makes it special. And because music is so central to how I think about ceremonies, the actual [music choices](/wedding-songs) matter as well as who’s making the music. For the love of God get your wedding entertainment - [musician or DJ](/friends) - to play at your ceremony as well. Sometimes the most meaningful ceremony moments happen without any words at all – just the perfect song at the perfect moment while we all just feel something together. § When it all comes together – when the words and music and emotions all blend into something greater than the sum of its parts – that’s when I know we’ve created something special. Something that, like the song in Hudson’s dream, didn’t exist before but now feels like it was always meant to be. And unlike having a dream about a million dollars, the ceremony we create together is something that doesn’t disappear when the day is over. It becomes part of the soundtrack of a marriage – something to be remembered, reflected on, and maybe even hummed along to for years to come. Because at the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that’s all I need to know about everything. - [ceremony creation](/tag/ceremony-creation) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jasmine— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmine-0hrbnps) - [Tom— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t) - [Abner & Tiffany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abner-and-tiffany-0whvf70) --- # The Marriage Act of 1961 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/marriage-act-1961 # The Marriage Act of 1961 ## Compilation No. 32 Compilation date: 11 December 2024 Includes amendments: Act No. 115, 2024 Prepared by the Office of Parliamentary Counsel, Canberra ## About this compilation ## This compilation This is a compilation of the Marriage Act 1961 that shows the text of the law as amended and in force on 11 December 2024 (the compilation date ). The notes at the end of this compilation (the endnotes ) include information about amending laws and the amendment history of provisions of the compiled law. ## Uncommenced amendments The effect of uncommenced amendments is not shown in the text of the compiled law. Any uncommenced amendments affecting the law are accessible on the Register [www.legislation.gov.au](https://www.legislation.gov.au). The details of amendments made up to, but not commenced at, the compilation date are underlined in the endnotes. 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For more information on any modifications, see the Register for the compiled law. ## Self-repealing provisions If a provision of the compiled law has been repealed in accordance with a provision of the law, details are included in the endnotes. ## An Act relating to Marriage ## Part I-Preliminary ## 1 Short title This Act may be cited as the Marriage Act 1961 . ## 2 Commencement - (1) Sections 1, 2 and 3, subsection 5(1), section 9, Parts III and VIII and section 120 shall come into operation on the day on which this Act receives the Royal Assent. - (2) The remaining provisions of this Act shall come into operation on a date to be fixed by Proclamation. ## 2A Objects of this Act It is an object of this Act to create a legal framework: - (a) to allow civil celebrants to solemnise marriage, understood as the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life; and - (b) to allow ministers of religion to solemnise marriage, respecting the doctrines, tenets and beliefs of their religion, the views of their religious community or their own religious beliefs; and - (c) to allow equal access to marriage while protecting religious freedom in relation to marriage. ## 5 Interpretation - (1) In this Act, unless the contrary intention appears: Ambassador includes Minister, Head of Mission and Chargé d’Affaires approved organisation means an organisation approved or deemed to be approved under Part IA. ### artificial conception procedure includes: - (a) artificial insemination; and - (b) the implantation of an embryo in the body of a woman. Australia includes Norfolk Island. Australian Consular Officer and Australian Diplomatic Officer have the same respective meanings as in the Consular Fees Act 1955 . ### authorised celebrant means: - (a) in relation to a marriage proposed to be solemnised in Australia: - (i) a minister of religion registered under Subdivision A of Division 1 of Part IV; or - (ii) a person authorised to solemnise marriages under Subdivision B of Division 1 of Part IV; or - (iii) a marriage celebrant; or - (iv) a religious marriage celebrant; or - (b) in relation to a marriage proposed to be solemnised in accordance with Division 3 of Part V: - (i) a chaplain; or - (ii) an officer (within the meaning of the Defence Act 1903 ), other than a chaplain, authorised by the Chief of the Defence Force under section 71A to solemnise marriages under that Division. celebrant registration charge : see subsection 39FA(1). chaplain means a chaplain in the Defence Force. charge payment day : see subsection 39FA(2). Consul includes Consul-General, Vice-Consul, Pro-Consul and Consular Agent. Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants means an APS employee who occupies a position in the Department as referred to in subsection 39AA(1). Family Court of a State means a Family Court of a State that has jurisdiction under the Family Law Act 1975 by virtue of a Proclamation under section 41 of that Act. Judge , in relation to the performance of a function under this Act in a State or Territory, means a person who is: - (a) a Judge of the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 1), or a Judge of the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 2), who is appointed by the Minister to be a person authorised to perform that function; - (b) a Judge of a court of that State in respect of whom an appropriate arrangement in force under section 9 is applicable; or - (c) a Judge of the Supreme Court of that Territory. ## magistrate means: - (a) in relation to a State-a person who holds office as a Chief, Police, Stipendiary, Resident or Special Magistrate of the State and in respect of whom an appropriate arrangement in force under section 9 is applicable; and - (b) in relation to a Territory-a person who holds office as a Chief, Police, Stipendiary, Resident, Special Magistrate or Judge, or acting Judge, of a Local Court of the Territory. marriage means the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life. marriage celebrant means a person registered under Subdivision C of Division 1 of Part IV. medical practitioner has the meaning given by the Health Insurance Act 1973 . minister of religion means: - (a) a person recognised by a religious body or a religious organisation as having authority to solemnise marriages in accordance with the rites or customs of the body or organisation; or - (b) in relation to a religious body or a religious organisation in respect of which paragraph (a) is not applicable, a person nominated by: - (i) the head, or the governing authority, in a State or Territory, of that body or organisation; or - (ii) such other person or authority acting on behalf of that body or organisation as is prescribed; to be an authorised celebrant for the purposes of this Act. minor means a person who has not attained the age of 18 years. overseas country means a country or place other than a part of the Sovereign’s dominions, and, in Part V, includes a vessel which is for the time being in the territorial waters of such a country or place. ## prescribed authority means: - (a) in relation to a marriage proposed to be solemnised in Australia-a person, being an officer or employee of the Commonwealth, a State or a Territory, appointed by the Minister to be a prescribed authority; - (c) in relation to a marriage proposed to be solemnised in accordance with Division 3 of Part V-a chaplain or an officer (within the meaning of the Defence Act 1903 ), other than a chaplain, authorised by the Chief of the Defence Force under section 71A to solemnise marriages under that Division. recognised denomination means a religious body or a religious organisation in respect of which a Proclamation under section 26 is in force. Registrar , in Subdivisions C, D and E of Division 1 of Part IV, means the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants (see section 39A). Registrar of Marriage Celebrants : see subsection 39A(2). religious marriage celebrant means a person identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants under Subdivision D of Division 1 of Part IV. ## Territory means: - (a) the Australian Capital Territory; or - (b) the Northern Territory; or - (c) Norfolk Island; or - (d) the Territory of Christmas Island; or - (e) the Territory of Cocos (Keeling) Islands. the commencement of this Act means the time of commencement of the provisions other than the provisions referred to in subsection 2(1). the Sovereign’s dominions includes a British protectorate and a British protected State. - (2) Where: - (a) a marriage is solemnised in the physical presence of a person, being a person in whose physical presence a marriage may, in accordance with this Act, be lawfully solemnised; and - (b) that person consents to the marriage being solemnised in his or her presence; that person shall, for the purposes of this Act, be deemed to solemnise the marriage. - (3) Any appointment or authorisation under this Act may be an appointment or authorisation of: - (a) a named person only; or - (b) every person from time to time holding or acting in a specified office of the Commonwealth or of a State or Territory. ## Section 5A ## 5A Application of the Criminal Code Chapter 2 of the Criminal Code applies to all offences against this Act. Note: Chapter 2 of the Criminal Code sets out the general principles of criminal responsibility. ## 6 Act not to exclude operation of certain State and Territory laws This Act shall not be taken to exclude the operation of a law of a State or of a Territory, in so far as that law relates to the registration of marriages, but a marriage solemnised after the commencement of this Act is not invalid by reason of a failure to comply with the requirements of such a law. ## 7 Validity of certain marriages not affected Subject to the operation of the Part repealed by the Marriage Amendment Act 1976 before the date fixed under subsection 2(2) of this Act, this Act does not affect the validity or invalidity of a marriage that took place before the date so fixed. ## 8 Extension of Act to Territories etc. - (1) The whole of this Act extends to the following Territories: - (a) Norfolk Island; - (b) the Territory of Christmas Island; - (c) the Territory of Cocos (Keeling) Islands. - (2) Part V applies both within and without Australia. - (3) Part VII applies to and in relation to: - (a) marriages solemnised, or intended or purporting to be solemnised, in Australia; and - (b) marriages solemnised, or intended or purporting to be solemnised, under Part V; and, in relation to such marriages, applies both within and without Australia. 6 - (4) Section 73, Part VA and section 111 extend to all the external Territories. ## 9 Arrangements with State - (1) The Governor-General may make arrangements with the Governor of a State: - (b) for the performance by all or any of the persons who from time to time hold office as Judges of any Court of that State of the functions of a Judge under sections 12, 16 and 17; - (c) for the performance by all or any of the persons who from time to time hold office as Chief, Police, Stipendiary, Resident or Special Magistrates in that State of all or any of the functions of a magistrate under this Act; - (d) for the performance by officers of that State of the function of solemnising marriages in accordance with Division 2 of Part IV; - (e) for enabling officers of that State to be appointed as prescribed authorities; - (f) for enabling officers of that State to be appointed as Registrar and Deputy Registrar of Ministers of Religion for that State under Subdivision A of Division 1 of Part IV; and - (g) for enabling officers of that State to be appointed as authorised officers for the purposes of section 51. - (2) A copy of each arrangement made under this section shall be published in the Gazette . ## 9A Persons who may exercise certain powers may be restricted by Proclamation - (1) The Governor-General may, by Proclamation, declare that, on and after a date fixed by the Proclamation, a power or function under this Act that is specified in the Proclamation, being a power or function expressed by this Act to be exercisable by a Judge, or by a Judge or magistrate, is not to be exercised, or is not to be exercised in a specified part of Australia, otherwise than by a Judge who is a Judge of the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 1), the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 2) or the Family Court of a State. - (2) Proclamations under this Part in respect of different parts of Australia may be made from time to time. ## Part IA-Marriage education ## 9B Grants to approved organisations The Minister may, from time to time, out of moneys appropriated by the Parliament for the purposes of this Part, grant to an approved organisation, upon such conditions as the Minister thinks fit, such sums by way of financial assistance as the Minister determines for the conduct of programs of marriage education. ## 9C Approval of voluntary organisations - (1) A voluntary organisation may apply to the Minister for approval under this Part as an organisation conducting programs of marriage education. - (2) The Minister may approve the organisation if the Minister is satisfied that the organisation is willing and able to conduct programs of marriage education. - (3) The approval of an organisation under this section may be given subject to such conditions as the Minister determines. - (4) Where the approval of an organisation is subject to conditions, the Minister may, from time to time, revoke or vary all or any of those conditions or add further conditions. - (5) The Minister may, at any time, revoke the approval of an approved organisation where: - (a) the organisation has not complied with a condition to which the approval of the organisation is subject; - (b) the organisation has not furnished, in accordance with section 9E, a statement or report that the organisation was required by that section to furnish; or - (c) the Minister is satisfied that the organisation is not adequately carrying out programs of marriage education. ## Section 9E - (6) Notice of the approval of an organisation under this section, and notice of the revocation of the approval of an approved organisation, shall be published in such manner as the Minister considers appropriate. ## 9E Reports and financial statements of approved organisations - (1) An approved organisation that has received a grant under this Act in the period of 12 months that ended on 30 June in any year shall, not later than 30 September in that year, furnish to the Minister, in respect of that period of 12 months: - (a) an audited financial statement of the receipts and payments of the organisation, in which receipts and payments in respect of its marriage education activities are shown separately from other receipts and payments; and - (b) a report on its marriage education activities, including information as to the programs conducted by the organisation during the period and the number of participants in those programs. - (2) Where the Minister is satisfied that it would be impracticable for an organisation to comply with the requirements of subsection (1) or that the application of those requirements to an organisation would be unduly onerous, the Minister may, by writing signed by the Minister, exempt the organisation, wholly or in part, from those requirements. 10 ## Part II-Marriageable age and marriages of minors ## 10 Application of Part - (1) The whole of this Part applies, notwithstanding any common law rule of private international law, in relation to: - (a) marriages to which Division 2 of Part IV applies; and - (b) marriages under Part V. - (2) Sections 11 and 12 and, so far as they have application in relation to those sections, sections 18 and 19 apply in relation to: - (a) marriages to which Division 3 of Part IV applies; and - (b) the marriage of a person domiciled in Australia, wherever that marriage takes place. ## 11 Marriageable age Subject to section 12, a person is of marriageable age if the person has attained the age of 18 years. ## 12 Authorisation of marriage of person under age of 18 years in exceptional circumstances - (1) A person who has attained the age of 16 years but has not attained the age of 18 years may apply to a Judge or magistrate in a State or Territory for an order authorising him or her to marry a particular person of marriageable age despite the fact that the applicant has not attained the age of 18 years. - (2) The Judge or magistrate shall, subject to subsection (4), hold an inquiry into the relevant facts and circumstances and, if satisfied that: - (a) the applicant has attained the age of 16 years; and ## Section 13 - (b) the circumstances of the case are so exceptional and unusual as to justify the making of the order; the Judge or magistrate may, in his or her discretion, make the order sought, but otherwise the Judge or magistrate shall refuse the application. - (3) Subject to subsection (5), where a Judge or a magistrate has made such an order, the person on whose application the order was made is, in relation to his or her marriage to the other person specified in the order, but not otherwise, of marriageable age. - (4) Where a Judge or a magistrate to whom an application is made under this section is satisfied that the matter could more properly be dealt with by a Judge or a magistrate sitting at a place nearer the place where the applicant ordinarily resides, the Judge or magistrate may, in his or her discretion, refuse to proceed with the hearing of the application, but such a refusal shall not, for the purposes of section 19, be deemed to be a refusal of the application. - (5) Where an order is made under this section and the marriage to which the order relates does not take place within 3 months after the date of the order, the order ceases to have effect. ## 13 Marriage of minor not to be solemnised without consent of parents etc. - (1) Subject to this Part, where a party to an intended marriage, not having previously been married, is a minor, the marriage shall not be solemnised unless there is produced to the person by whom the marriage is solemnised: - (a) in respect of each person whose consent is required by this Act to the marriage of the minor, not being a person to whom paragraph (b) is applicable: - (i) the consent in writing of that person, duly witnessed and dated not earlier than 3 months before the date on which the marriage is solemnised or, in such cases as are prescribed, such other evidence that the consent of that - person to the intended marriage has been given not earlier than that time as the regulations declare to be sufficient for the purposes of this section; or - (ii) an effective consent in writing of a magistrate or a Judge under this Part in place of the consent of that person; and - (b) in respect of any person whose consent to the marriage of the minor has been dispensed with by a prescribed authoritythe dispensation in writing signed by the prescribed authority. - (2) For the purposes of subsection (1), the consent of a person is only duly witnessed if the signature of that person was witnessed: - (a) if the consent is signed in Australia-by one of the following persons: - (i) an authorised celebrant; - (ii) a Commissioner for Declarations under the Statutory Declarations Act 1959 ; - (iii) a justice of the peace; - (iv) a barrister or solicitor; - (v) a medical practitioner; - (vi) a member of the Australian Federal Police or the police force of a State or Territory; or - (b) if the consent is signed in any other place-by one of the following persons: - (i) an Australian Diplomatic Officer; - (ii) an Australian Consular Officer; - (iii) a minister of religion of that place; - (iv) a judge of a court of that place; - (v) a magistrate or justice of the peace of or for that place; - (vi) a notary public; - (vii) an employee of the Commonwealth authorised under paragraph 3(c) of the Consular Fees Act 1955; ## Section 14 - (viii) an employee of the Australian Trade and Investment Commission authorised under paragraph 3(d) of the Consular Fees Act 1955 . - (3) A person shall not subscribe his or her name as a witness to the signature of a person to a consent to a marriage unless: - (a) the person is satisfied on reasonable grounds as to the identity of that person; and - (b) the consent bears the date on which the person subscribes his or her name as a witness. - (4) A person shall not solemnise a marriage if the person has reason to believe that: - (a) a person whose consent in writing to the marriage of one of the parties is or has been produced for the purposes of this section has revoked his or her consent; - (b) the signature of a person to a consent produced for the purposes of this section is forged or has been obtained by fraud; - (c) a consent produced for the purposes of this section has been altered in a material particular without authority; or - (d) a dispensation with the consent of a person that has been produced in relation to the marriage has ceased to have effect. ## 14 Persons whose consent is required to the marriage of a minor Before a minor may marry, consent is required from the persons specified in Schedule 1 to this Act in relation to the minor. ## 15 Prescribed authority may dispense with consent in certain cases - (1) Subject to this section, a prescribed authority may, upon application in writing by a minor, dispense with the consent of a person to a proposed marriage of the minor where the prescribed authority: - (a) is satisfied that it is impracticable, or that it is impracticable without delay that would, in all the circumstances of the case be unreasonable, to ascertain the views of that person with respect to the proposed marriage; - (b) has no reason to believe that that person would refuse his or her consent to the proposed marriage; and - (c) has no reason to believe that facts may exist by reason of which it could reasonably be considered improper that the consent should be dispensed with. - (2) An application under this section shall be supported by a statutory declaration by the applicant setting out the facts and circumstances on which the application is based and may be supported by the statutory declaration of some other person. - (3) The applicant shall state in his or her statutory declaration whether he or she has made any previous applications under this section that have been refused and the date on which each such application was refused. - (4) This section does not authorise a prescribed authority to dispense with the consent of a person to a marriage of a minor where any other person whose consent to the marriage is required by this Act has refused to give consent, unless a magistrate or a Judge has, in pursuance of this Part, given consent in place of the consent of that other person. - (5) For the purposes of this section, the fact that a person does not reside in, or is absent from, Australia shall not of itself be deemed to make it impracticable to ascertain the views of that person. ## 16 Consent by magistrate where parent etc. refuses consent etc. - (1) Where, in relation to a proposed marriage of a minor: - (a) a person whose consent to the marriage is required by this Act refuses to consent to the marriage; or - (b) an application by the minor under section 15 to dispense with the consent of a person to the marriage is refused; the minor may apply to a Judge or magistrate for the consent of a Judge or the magistrate to the marriage in place of the consent of that person. - (2) The Judge or magistrate shall, subject to subsections (2A) and (3), hold an inquiry into the relevant facts and circumstances and, if satisfied: - (a) in a case to which paragraph (1)(a) applies-that the person who has refused to consent to the marriage has refused consent unreasonably; or - (b) in a case to which paragraph (1)(b) applies-that, having proper regard for the welfare of the minor, it would be unreasonable for the Judge or magistrate to refuse consent to the proposed marriage; may give consent to the marriage in place of the consent of the person in relation to whose consent the application is made. - (2A) A Judge or magistrate shall not proceed with an inquiry in accordance with subsection (2) unless: - (a) there has been produced to the Judge or magistrate a certificate signed by a family counsellor certifying that the applicant has received counselling from the family counsellor in relation to the proposed marriage; or - (b) the Judge or magistrate is satisfied that counselling by a family counsellor is not reasonably available to the applicant. - (3) Where a magistrate to whom an application is made under this section is satisfied that the matter could more properly be dealt with by a magistrate sitting at a place nearer the place where the applicant ordinarily resides, the magistrate may, in his or her discretion, refuse to proceed with the hearing of the application, but such a refusal shall not, for the purposes of sections 17 and 19, be deemed to be a refusal of the application. - (4) Where a magistrate grants an application under subsection (1), the magistrate shall not issue consent in writing to the marriage before the expiration of the time prescribed for the purposes of section 17 and if, within that time, a request for a re-hearing is made under that section, the magistrate shall not issue consent unless that request is withdrawn. - (5) Where a Judge or magistrate gives consent to the marriage of a minor in place of the consent of a person who has refused to consent to the marriage, the Judge or magistrate may also, upon application by the minor, give consent in place of the consent of any other person if the Judge or magistrate is satisfied that it is impracticable, or that it is impracticable without delay that would, in all the circumstances of the case, be unreasonable, to ascertain the views of that person with respect to the proposed marriage. - (6) For the purposes of subsection (5), the fact that a person does not reside in, or is absent from, Australia shall not of itself be deemed to make it impracticable to ascertain the views of that person. - (7) In this section family counsellor has the same meaning as in the Family Law Act 1975 . ## 17 Re-hearing of applications by a Judge - (1) Where: - (a) an application to a magistrate under subsection 16(1) or (5) is refused; or - (b) an application to a magistrate under subsection 16(1) is granted; the applicant or the person in relation to whose consent the application was made, as the case requires, may, in the prescribed manner and within the prescribed time, request that the application be re-heard by a Judge in the State or Territory in which it was heard, and a Judge may re-hear the application accordingly. - (2) The provisions of subsections 16(2), (5) and (6) apply, so far as they are applicable, in relation to the re-hearing of an application made under section 16 and, for the purpose of such a re-hearing, references in those provisions to the magistrate dealing with an application shall be read as references to the Judge re-hearing the application. ## 18 Provisions applicable to inquiries by Judge or magistrate - (1) In conducting an inquiry under this Part, a Judge or a magistrate: - (a) is not bound by the rules of evidence; and - (b) shall give to the applicant and, so far as is reasonably practicable, any person whose consent to the marriage of the applicant is required by this Act, an opportunity of being heard. - (2) An inquiry by a Judge or a magistrate under this Part shall be held in private. - (3) An applicant or other person who is given an opportunity of being heard at an inquiry under this Part may be represented by a barrister or solicitor. ## 19 Restriction on applications under sections 12, 15 and 16 - (1) Where, in relation to a proposed marriage of a minor to a particular person: - (a) an application under section 15 has been refused by a prescribed authority; - (b) an application under section 16 has been refused by a magistrate or a Judge; or - (c) an application under section 12 has been refused by a magistrate or a Judge; a further application under the same section by the same person in relation to the proposed marriage shall not be considered by any prescribed authority, magistrate or Judge within 6 months after the refusal of the application, unless the applicant satisfies the prescribed authority, magistrate or Judge to whom the further application is made that there has been a substantial change in the relevant facts or circumstances since the refusal of the former application. - (2) The fact that an application is heard or dealt with in contravention of subsection (1) does not affect the validity of an order made, or the effectiveness of a consent given, upon the application or the re-hearing of the application or make ineffective any dispensation with a consent granted on the application. ## 20 Effect of consent of magistrate or Judge Subject to section 21, where a magistrate or a Judge gives his or her consent to the marriage of a minor in place of the consent of another person, his or her consent operates, for the purposes of this Act, as the consent of that other person. ## 21 Consent by magistrate or Judge and dispensation with consent to be ineffective after 3 months etc. - (1) A consent to a marriage given by a magistrate or a Judge in place of the consent of another person ceases to have effect if the marriage does not take place within 3 months after the date of the consent. - (2) A dispensation with the consent of a person to a marriage ceases to have effect if: - (a) the marriage does not take place within 3 months after the date of the dispensation; or - (b) before the marriage takes place, the person whose consent has been dispensed with notifies, by writing signed by the person or in any other prescribed manner, the person to whom notice of the intended marriage has been given under this Act or, in the case of an intended marriage under Division 3 of Part V, the authorised celebrant by whom the marriage is intended to be solemnised, that the first-mentioned person does not consent to the marriage. - (3) Where a consent by a magistrate or a Judge or a dispensation with the consent of a person by a prescribed authority has ceased to have effect, the provisions of this Act apply as if the consent had not been given or dispensed with, as the case may be. ## Part III Void marriages Division 1 Marriages solemnised on or after 20 June 1977 and before the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 Section 22 ## Part III-Void marriages Division 1-Marriages solemnised on or after 20 June 1977 and before the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 ## 22 Division to be subject to application of private international law Subject to section 10, Part V, section 56 and any regulations made in accordance with paragraph 120(f), this Division has effect subject to the common law rules of private international law. ## 23 Grounds on which marriages are void - (1) A marriage that took place on or after 20 June 1977 and before the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 is void where: - (a) either of the parties was, at the time of the marriage, lawfully married to some other person; - (b) the parties are within a prohibited relationship; - (c) by reason of section 48 the marriage is not a valid marriage; - (d) the consent of either of the parties was not a real consent because: - (i) it was obtained by duress or fraud; - (ii) that party was mistaken as to the identity of the other party or as to the nature of the ceremony performed; or - (iii) that party was mentally incapable of understanding the nature and effect of the marriage ceremony; or - (e) either of the parties was not of marriageable age; and not otherwise. - (2) Marriages of parties within a prohibited relationship are marriages: - (a) between a person and an ancestor or descendant of the person; or Marriages solemnised on or after 20 June 1977 and before the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 Division 1 - (b) between a brother and a sister (whether of the whole blood or the half-blood). - (3) Any relationship specified in subsection (2) includes a relationship traced through, or to, a person who is or was an adopted child, and, for that purpose, the relationship between an adopted child and the adoptive parent, or each of the adoptive parents, of the child, shall be deemed to be or to have been the natural relationship of child and parent. - (4) Nothing in subsection (3) makes it lawful for a person to marry a person whom the first-mentioned person could not lawfully have married if that subsection had not been enacted. - (5) For the purposes of this section: - (a) a person who has at any time been adopted by another person shall be deemed to remain the adopted child of that other person notwithstanding that any order by which the adoption was effected has been annulled, cancelled or discharged or that the adoption has for any other reason ceased to be effective; and - (b) a person who has been adopted on more than one occasion shall be deemed to be the adopted child of each person by whom he or she has been adopted. - (6) For the purposes of this section: adopted , in relation to a child, means adopted under the law of any place (whether in or out of Australia) relating to the adoption of children. ancestor , in relation to a person, means any person from whom the first-mentioned person is descended including a parent of the first-mentioned person. ## Division 2-Marriages solemnised after the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 ## 23A Application of Division - (1) Notwithstanding subsection 42(2) of the Family Law Act 1975 , but subject to subsection (2) of this section, this Division applies in relation to: - (a) all marriages solemnised in Australia; and - (b) all marriages under Part V. - (2) This Division does not apply in relation to marriages to which Division 3 of Part IV applies. ## 23B Grounds on which marriages are void - (1) A marriage to which this Division applies that takes place after the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 is void where: - (a) either of the parties is, at the time of the marriage, lawfully married to some other person; - (b) the parties are within a prohibited relationship; - (c) by reason of section 48 the marriage is not a valid marriage; - (d) the consent of either of the parties is not a real consent because: - (i) it was obtained by duress or fraud; - (ii) that party is mistaken as to the identity of the other party or as to the nature of the ceremony performed; or - (iii) that party did not understand the nature and effect of the marriage ceremony; or - (e) either of the parties is not of marriageable age; and not otherwise. - (2) Marriages of parties within a prohibited relationship are marriages: Marriages solemnised after the commencement of section 13 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 Division 2 ## Section 23B - (a) between a person and an ancestor or descendant of the person; or - (b) between 2 siblings (whether of the whole blood or the half-blood). - (3) Any relationship specified in subsection (2) includes a relationship traced through, or to, a person who is or was an adopted child, and, for that purpose, the relationship between an adopted child and the adoptive parent, or each of the adoptive parents, of the child shall be deemed to be or to have been the natural relationship of child and parent. - (4) Nothing in subsection (3) makes it lawful for a person to marry a person whom the first-mentioned person could not lawfully have married if that subsection had not been enacted. - (5) For the purposes of this section: - (a) a person who has at any time been adopted by another person shall be deemed to remain the adopted child of that other person notwithstanding that any order by which the adoption was effected has been annulled, cancelled or discharged or that the adoption has for any other reason ceased to be effective; and - (b) a person who has been adopted on more than one occasion shall be deemed to be the adopted child of each person by whom the first-mentioned person has been adopted. - (6) For the purposes of this section: adopted , in relation to a child, means adopted under the law of any place (whether in or out of Australia) relating to the adoption of children. ancestor , in relation to a person, means any person from whom the first-mentioned person is descended including a parent of the first-mentioned person. ## Part IV-Solemnisation of marriages in Australia ## Division 1-Authorised celebrants ## Subdivision A-Ministers of religion ## 25 Interpretation - (1) In this Subdivision: - (a) a reference to a Registrar shall be read as a reference to a Registrar of Ministers of Religion; and - (b) a reference to a register shall be read as a reference to a register kept for the purposes of this Subdivision. - (2) For the purposes of this Subdivision, a person who is serving outside Australia as a member of the Defence Force and was, immediately before the person became a member of the Defence Force, ordinarily resident in a State or Territory shall be deemed, while the person is so serving, to be ordinarily resident in that State or Territory. ## 26 Recognised denominations The Governor-General may, by Proclamation, declare a religious body or a religious organisation to be a recognised denomination for the purposes of this Act. ## 27 Registers of ministers of religion - (1) For the purposes of this Subdivision, there shall be, for each State and Territory, a Registrar of Ministers of Religion and a Deputy Registrar of Ministers of Religion, who shall be appointed by the Minister. - (2) In the event of the absence, through illness or otherwise, of the Registrar, or of a vacancy in the office of the Registrar, the Deputy 24 Registrar has all the powers, and shall perform all the duties and functions, of the Registrar during the absence or vacancy. - (3) Unless and until another person is appointed to be the Registrar of Ministers of Religion for a particular Territory, the person having, under the law of that Territory, the function of maintaining a register of all marriages solemnised in that Territory shall be the Registrar for that Territory. - (4) The Registrar for a State or Territory shall keep a register, in such form as the Minister determines, of ministers of religion ordinarily resident in the State or Territory who are entitled to registration under this Subdivision. ## 28 Transfer of State registers - (1) The Governor-General may make arrangements with the Governor of a State for the transfer to the Commonwealth of any register of persons authorised to solemnise marriages in that State kept by an officer of that State immediately before the commencement of this Act. - (2) A copy of each arrangement made under this section shall be published in the Gazette . - (3) A register of a State transferred to the Commonwealth in pursuance of an arrangement made under this section, and a register of persons authorised to solemnise marriages kept in relation to a Territory immediately before the commencement of this Act, shall be deemed to form part of the register kept for that State or that Territory, as the case may be, for the purposes of this Subdivision. - (4) A person registered in a register so transferred or kept who is, immediately after the commencement of this Act, a minister of religion of a recognised denomination shall be deemed to be so registered in pursuance of this Subdivision, and the Registrar by whom the register is kept shall remove from that register the name of any other person. ## Section 29 ## 29 Qualifications for registration under this Subdivision Subject to this Subdivision, a person is entitled to registration under this Subdivision if: - (a) the person is a minister of religion of a recognised denomination; and - (b) the person is nominated for registration under this Subdivision by that denomination; and - (c) the person is ordinarily resident in Australia; and - (d) the person has attained the age of 21 years; and - (e) the person is not already registered as a marriage celebrant under Subdivision C of this Division; and - (f) the person is not authorised to solemnise marriages in a State or Territory under Subdivision B of this Division. ## 30 Registrar to register applicant - (1) Subject to this Subdivision, the Registrar for a State or Territory shall, on application in writing by a person ordinarily resident in that State or Territory who is entitled to registration under this Subdivision, register that person in the register kept by that Registrar. - (2) The particulars set out in an application for registration under this Subdivision shall be verified by the applicant by statutory declaration. ## 31 Applicant may be refused registration in certain circumstances A Registrar to whom an application for registration under this Subdivision is made may refuse to register the applicant if, in the opinion of the Registrar: - (a) there are already registered under this Subdivision sufficient ministers of religion of the denomination to which the applicant belongs to meet the needs of the denomination in the locality in which the applicant resides; or 26 - (b) the applicant is not a fit and proper person to solemnise marriages; or - (c) the applicant is unlikely to devote a substantial part of his or her time to the performance of functions generally performed by a minister of religion. ## 32 Effect of registration A minister of religion who is registered under this Subdivision in any register may solemnise marriages at any place in Australia. ## 33 Removal from register - (1) Subject to this section, a Registrar shall remove the name of a person from the register kept by that Registrar if he or she is satisfied that: - (a) that person has requested that his or her name be so removed; - (b) that person has died; - (c) the denomination by which that person was nominated for registration, or in respect of which that person is registered, no longer desires that that person be registered under this Subdivision or has ceased to be a recognised denomination; - (d) that person: - (i) has been guilty of such contraventions of this Act or the regulations as to show him or her not to be a fit and proper person to be registered under this Subdivision; - (ii) has been making a business of solemnising marriages for the purpose of profit or gain; or - (iii) is not a fit and proper person to solemnise marriages; or - (e) that person is, for any other reason, not entitled to registration under this Subdivision. - (2) A Registrar shall not remove the name of a person from a register under this section on a ground specified in paragraph (1)(d) or (e) unless: - (a) the Registrar has, in accordance with the regulations, served on the person a notice in writing: - (i) stating the Registrar’s intention to do so on that ground unless, not later than a date specified in the notice and being not less than 21 days from the date of service of the notice, the person satisfies the Registrar that the person’s name should not be removed from the register; and - (ii) informing the person that any representations made to the Registrar before that date will be considered by the Registrar; - (b) the Registrar has considered any representations made by the person before the date specified in the notice; and - (c) the removal takes place within 14 days after the date specified in the notice. - (3) Where notice is served on a person under subsection (2), that person shall not solemnise a marriage unless and until: - (a) the person is notified by the Registrar that the Registrar has decided not to remove the person’s name from the register; - (b) a period of 14 days has elapsed from the date specified in the notice under subsection (2) and the person’s name has not been removed from the register; or - (c) the person’s name, having been removed from the register, is restored to the register. ## 34 Review of refusal to register or removal from register - (1) An application may be made to the Administrative Review Tribunal for a review of a decision of a Registrar: - (a) refusing to register a person who has applied for registration under this Subdivision; or - (b) removing the name of a person from a register in pursuance of section 33. - (3) The reference in subsection (1) to a decision of a Registrar includes a reference to a decision of a Deputy Registrar of Ministers of Religion given in pursuance of subsection 27(2). 28 - (4) Where the Tribunal sets aside a decision refusing to register a person or a decision under section 33 removing the name of a person from a register, the appropriate Registrar shall forthwith register the person, or restore the name of the person to the register, as the case requires. - (5) For the purposes of the making of an application under subsection (1) and for the purposes of the operation of the Administrative Review Tribunal Act 2024 in relation to such an application, where a person has made application under subsection 30(1) for registration under this Subdivision and, at the expiration of a period of 6 months from the day on which the application was made, the person has not been registered and has not been notified by the Registrar that that person’s application has been refused, the Registrar shall be deemed to have decided, on the last day of that period, not to register that person. ## 35 Change of address etc. to be notified - (1) Where a person registered under this Subdivision: - (a) changes his or her name, address or designation; or - (b) ceases to exercise, or ceases to be entitled to exercise, the functions of a minister of religion of the denomination by which he or she was nominated for registration or in respect of which he or she is registered; the person shall, within 30 days thereafter, notify the Registrar by whom the register in which the person is registered is kept of that fact in accordance with the regulations. - (2) The Registrar may, upon receiving notification of a change of name, address or designation under subsection (1) or if the Registrar is otherwise satisfied that the particulars shown in the register in respect of a person are not correct, amend the register accordingly. ## Section 36 ## 36 Transfer to another State etc. - (1) Where a person whose name is included in the register for a particular State or Territory is ordinarily resident in another State or Territory, the Registrar by whom the register is kept shall, subject to this section, remove the name of that person from that register. - (2) Where the name of a person referred to in subsection (1) is not included in the register for the State or Territory in which the person is ordinarily resident, the Registrar for that State or Territory may enter the name of that person in the register kept by that Registrar, and the name of that person shall not be removed from a register by virtue of subsection (1) unless and until it has been so entered. ## 37 Furnishing of information by recognised denominations The regulations may make provision for, and in relation to, the furnishing to Registrars by each recognised denomination of: - (a) information as to matters affecting the right to registration under this Subdivision of persons who are so registered as ministers of religion of that denomination; and - (b) an annual list of persons registered under this Subdivision as ministers of religion of that denomination who are exercising the functions of a minister of religion of that denomination. ## 38 Registrars to furnish information to Attorney-General Each Registrar shall, if the Secretary of the Department so requests, furnish to the Secretary: - (a) a list of ministers of religion registered by that Registrar under this Subdivision during the period specified in the request, showing the full name, designation, residential or postal address and religious denomination of each minister; and - (b) particulars of any other alterations to the register kept by that Registrar under this Subdivision made during that period. 30 ## Subdivision B-State and Territory officers etc. ## 39 Authorisation of State and Territory officers etc. - (1) A person who, under the law of a State or Territory, has the function of registering marriages solemnised in the State or Territory or a part of the State or Territory may solemnise marriages in that State or Territory or in that part of the State or Territory, as the case may be. - (2) The Minister may, by instrument in writing and subject to subsection (2A), authorise other officers of a State or Territory to solemnise marriages. - (2A) The Minister must not, under subsection (2), authorise an officer of a State or Territory to solemnise marriages if the officer: - (a) is registered as a marriage celebrant under Subdivision C of this Division; or - (b) is a minister of religion who is registered under Subdivision A of this Division. - (3) An authorisation under subsection (2): - (a) may authorise a person to solemnise marriages at any place in Australia or only in the part or parts of Australia specified in the instrument of authorisation; and - (b) is subject to such conditions (if any) as are specified in the instrument. - (4) An authorisation under subsection (2) is not a legislative instrument. 31 Section 39A ## Subdivision C-Marriage celebrants ## 39A Registrar of Marriage Celebrants - (1) There is to be a position occupied (on an acting, permanent, full-time or part-time basis) by an APS employee in the Department, the duties of which are expressed to consist of, or include, the performance of the functions given to the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants by or under this Act. - (2) The APS employee occupying the position from time to time is the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants . - (3) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants is to perform those functions and has power to do all things necessary or convenient to be done for or in connection with the performance of those functions. Delegation - (4) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants may, in writing, delegate to a Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants any of the functions or powers conferred on the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants by or under this Act, other than: - (a) a function or power under a provision of the Act referred to in the table in subsection (5); or - (b) a function or power prescribed by regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph. - Note: See sections 34AA, 34AB and 34A of the Acts Interpretation Act 1901 in relation to delegations. - (5) The following table sets out the functions and powers of the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants under this Act that must not be delegated to a Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants. 32 ## Section 39AA ## Functions and powers under this Act that must not be delegated Item Function or power Provision 1 To determine the number and basis of positions of Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants Subsection 39AA(1) 2 To determine the qualifications, and/or skills that a person must have to be registered as a marriage celebrant Paragraph 39C(1)(b) 3 To approve the form of a notice that a person wishes to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants Subsection 39DB(2) 4 To require professional development activities Paragraph 39G(1)(b) 5 To take disciplinary measures against a marriage celebrant Section 39I 5A To remove the name of a person from the register of marriage celebrants Paragraph 39K(aa) 6 To establish complaints resolution procedures to resolve complaints about the solemnisation of marriages by marriage celebrants Paragraph 39K(c) ## 39AA Deputy Registrars of Marriage Celebrants - (1) There are to be such number of positions of Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants occupied (on an acting, permanent, full-time or part-time basis) by APS employees in the Department as the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants from time to time determines. - (2) A Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants may perform a function, or exercise a power, that has been delegated to the Deputy Registrar by the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants under subsection 39A(4). ## 39B Register of marriage celebrants The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants is to maintain on the internet a register of marriage celebrants. ## Section 39C ## 39C Entitlement to be registered as a marriage celebrant - (1) A person is only entitled to be registered as a marriage celebrant if the person is an individual and the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants is satisfied that the person: - (a) is aged 18 years or over; and - (b) has all the qualifications, and/or skills, determined in writing to be necessary by the Registrar in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (c) is a fit and proper person to be a marriage celebrant; and - (d) is not a minister of religion who is already registered under Subdivision A of this Division; and - (e) is not authorised to solemnise marriages in a State or Territory under Subdivision B of this Division. - (2) In determining whether the Registrar is satisfied that the person is a fit and proper person to be a marriage celebrant, the Registrar must take into account: - (a) whether the person has sufficient knowledge of the law relating to the solemnisation of marriages by marriage celebrants; and - (b) whether the person is committed to advising couples of the availability of relationship support services; and - (c) whether the person is of good standing in the community; and - (d) whether the person has been convicted of an offence, punishable by imprisonment for one year or longer, against a law of the Commonwealth, a State or a Territory; and - (e) whether the person has an actual or potential conflict of interest between his or her practice, or proposed practice, as a marriage celebrant and his or her business interests or other interests; and - (f) whether the person’s registration as a marriage celebrant would be likely to result in the person gaining a benefit in respect of another business that the person owns, controls or carries out; and 34 - (g) whether the person will fulfil the obligations under section 39G; and - (h) any other matter the Registrar considers relevant to whether the person is a fit and proper person to be a marriage celebrant. - (3) Nothing in this section affects the operation of Part VIIC of the Crimes Act 1914 (which includes provisions that, in certain circumstances, relieve persons from the requirement to disclose spent convictions and require persons aware of such convictions to disregard them). ## 39D Registration as a marriage celebrant Applying for registration - (1) A person may apply, in writing, to the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants to be registered as a marriage celebrant. - (1A) An application is taken to be made if, and only if: - (a) the application complies with subsection (1); and - (b) the applicant has either: - (i) paid the registration application fee in respect of the application; or - (ii) been granted an exemption from liability to pay the registration application fee. - Note: The application is made on the day on which paragraphs (a) and (b) are first satisfied in relation to the application. Registration application fees - (1B) The regulations may require a fee (a registration application fee ) to be paid in respect of an application. - (1C) The regulations may also do all or any of the following: - (a) provide for the granting of exemptions, on grounds specified in the regulations, from liability to pay a registration application fee; - (b) require a fee to be paid in respect of an application for an exemption; - (c) provide for internal review of decisions to refuse to grant exemptions. - (1D) Regulations made for the purpose of subsection (1B) or paragraph (1C)(b) may specify a fee, or provide for a fee to be determined by the Minister by legislative instrument. - (1E) Regulations made for the purpose of paragraph (1C)(c) must provide that the outcome of an internal review of a decision to refuse to grant an exemption is either: - (a) that the refusal decision is confirmed; or - (b) that an exemption is granted, with effect from when the internal review decision is made. Refund of registration application fee - (1F) The Registrar may refund the whole or a part of a registration application fee that was paid in respect of an application by a person to be registered as a marriage celebrant if: - (a) the Registrar is not satisfied that the person meets the requirement referred to in paragraph 39C(1)(b) (required qualifications or skills); or - (b) the person has been granted an exemption from liability to pay the registration application fee; or - (c) any other circumstances prescribed by the regulations for the purposes of this paragraph exist. - (1G) The Registrar may refund the whole or a part of a registration application fee under subsection (1F): - (a) on the initiative of the Registrar; or - (b) on application by the person who made the application to be registered as a marriage celebrant. 36 ## How Registrar deals with applications - (2) The Registrar must deal with applications in the order in which they are made (see subsection (1A)). - (3) In dealing with an application, the Registrar: - (a) must have regard to the information in the application; and - (b) may have regard to any other information in his or her possession; and - (c) is not required to seek any further information. ## Requests for additional information - (3A) The Registrar may, by written notice, request: - (a) a person (an applicant ) who has made an application (see subsection (1A)); or - (b) with the applicant’s consent, any other person or body who the Registrar considers may have information relevant to the application or the applicant; to give additional information to the Registrar, within a reasonable period specified in the notice, to assist the Registrar to decide whether to register the applicant as a marriage celebrant. - (3B) If the Registrar gives a notice to an applicant or another person or body requesting additional information under subsection (3A), the Registrar is not required to consider the applicant’s application while the Registrar is waiting for the information to be given. - (3C) If the Registrar gives a notice to an applicant requesting additional information under subsection (3A), the applicant’s application is taken to have been withdrawn at the end of the period specified in the notice if the additional information is not given to the Registrar within: - (a) the specified period; or - (b) if the Registrar allows a longer period by written notice given to the applicant-that longer period. ## Section 39DA ## Decision on application - (4) The Registrar must register a person as a marriage celebrant if: - (a) the person has made an application (see subsection (1A)); and - (b) the Registrar is satisfied that the person is entitled to be registered as a marriage celebrant. The Registrar must not register a person as a marriage celebrant in any other circumstances. - (5) The Registrar registers a person as a marriage celebrant by entering in the register of marriage celebrants all details relating to the person that are required by regulations made for the purposes of this subsection. - (6) If the Registrar registers a person as a marriage celebrant, the Registrar must, as soon as practicable, give the person written notice of the registration. - (7) If the Registrar decides not to register a person as a marriage celebrant after dealing with the person’s application, the Registrar must, as soon as practicable, inform the applicant in writing of: - (a) the decision; and - (b) the reasons for it; and - (c) the person’s right under section 39J (if any) to apply for review of the decision. ## Subdivision D-Religious marriage celebrants ## 39DA Entitlement to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants A person is entitled to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants if: - (a) the person is registered as a marriage celebrant under Subdivision C of this Division; and - (b) the person is a minister of religion. 38 ## 39DB Request to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants - (1) A person may, in writing, give the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants notice that the person wishes to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants. - (2) The notice must be in a form approved by the Registrar, and include all of the information required by the form. ## 39DC Identification as a religious marriage celebrant The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must identify a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants if: - (a) the person has given the Registrar notice in accordance with section 39DB that the person wishes to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register; and - (b) the person is entitled to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register. ## 39DD Transitional provisions for existing marriage celebrants Marriage celebrants who are ministers of religion, but not ministers of religion of a recognised denomination - (1) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must identify a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants if: - (a) the person was registered as a marriage celebrant under Subdivision C of this Division immediately before Part 1 of Schedule 1 to the Marriage Amendment (Definition and Religious Freedoms) Act 2017 commenced; and - (b) the person is a minister of religion. 39 ## Section 39DE Marriage celebrants who wish to be religious marriage celebrants on the basis of their religious beliefs - (2) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must identify a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants if: - (a) the person was registered as a marriage celebrant under Subdivision C of this Division immediately before Part 1 of Schedule 1 to the Marriage Amendment (Definition and Religious Freedoms) Act 2017 commenced; and - (b) the person gives the Registrar notice that the person wishes to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register: - (i) in writing; and - (ii) in a form approved by the Registrar; and - (iii) within 90 days after Part 1 of Schedule 1 to the Marriage Amendment (Definition and Religious Freedoms) Act 2017 commences; and - (c) the choice is based on the person’s religious beliefs. ## 39DE Process of identification on the register as a religious marriage celebrant - (1) The Registrar identifies a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants by annotating the register to include that detail. - (2) If the Registrar identifies a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants, the Registrar must, as soon as practicable, give the person written notice of that fact. - (3) If the Registrar decides not to identify a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants, the Registrar must, as soon as practicable, inform the person in writing of: - (a) the decision; and - (b) the reasons for it; and 40 Section 39F - (c) the person’s right under section 39J to apply for a review of the decision. ## Subdivision E-General provisions relating to all marriage celebrants ## 39F Effect of registration A person who is registered as a marriage celebrant may solemnise marriages at any place in Australia. ## 39FA Celebrant registration charge: liability to pay charge - (1) A person is liable to pay celebrant registration charge to the Commonwealth in respect of a financial year if: - (a) the person: - (i) is a marriage celebrant on 1 July in that financial year (except if paragraphs (1A)(b) and (c) apply in relation to the person on that day); or - (ii) becomes a marriage celebrant later in that financial year; or - (iii) is liable to pay the charge under subsection (1A); and - (b) the person has not, before the end of the charge payment day, been granted an exemption from liability to pay the charge. The charge must be paid by the end of the charge payment day. Note: For the imposition and rate of the charge, see the Marriage (Celebrant Registration Charge) Act 2014 . Marriage celebrants appealing decision to be deregistered - (1A) A person is liable to pay celebrant registration charge to the Commonwealth in respect of a financial year if: - (a) the person is a marriage celebrant on 1 July of that financial year; and - (b) before that day: - (i) the Registrar decided to deregister the person as a marriage celebrant; and ## Section 39FA - (ii) the person applied to the Administrative Review Tribunal for review of the decision; and - (c) that application, or any later application to a court that relates to that application, has not been finally determined by that day; and - (d) that or any later application is finally determined in that financial year; and - (e) after the application is finally determined, the person is not deregistered. Notice of charge - (2) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must, in respect of a financial year, send each person who is liable to pay the celebrant registration charge in respect of the financial year a written notice that: - (a) specifies: - (i) the amount of celebrant registration charge that is payable by the person (unless the person is granted an exemption); and - (ii) the charge payment day (being a day that is at least 30 days after the day on which the notice is sent); and - (b) complies with any other requirements prescribed by the regulations relating to the content of the notice, or how it is to be sent. ## Exemptions - (3) The regulations may do all or any of the following: - (a) provide for the granting of exemptions, on grounds specified in the regulations, from liability to pay celebrant registration charge in respect of a financial year; - (b) require a fee to be paid in respect of an application for an exemption; - (c) provide for internal review of decisions to refuse to grant exemptions. Marriage Act 1961 Compilation No. 32 Section 39FB - (4) Regulations made for the purpose of paragraph (3)(b) may specify a fee, or provide for a fee to be determined by the Minister by legislative instrument. - (5) Regulations made for the purpose of paragraph (3)(c) must provide that the outcome of an internal review of a decision (the original decision ) is either: - (a) that the original decision is confirmed; or - (b) that a different decision is substituted for the original decision, with effect from the time when the original decision was made. Charge debt due to the Commonwealth - (6) An amount of celebrant registration charge that a person is liable to pay: - (a) is a debt due by the person to the Commonwealth; and - (b) may be recovered by action in a court of competent jurisdiction. ## 39FB Celebrant registration charge: consequence of non-payment - (1) If a person has not, by the end of the charge payment day, paid an amount of celebrant registration charge that the person is liable to pay, the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must, as soon as practicable after that day, send the person a written notice in accordance with subsection (2), unless the Registrar considers that the notice should not be sent at that time because: - (a) the person’s liability to pay the charge may be affected by: - (i) the outcome of an application for internal review of a decision to refuse to grant an exemption; or - (ii) any other circumstance of which the Registrar is aware; or - (b) the person’s details have been removed from the register under paragraph 39I(2)(d) or 39K(a) before the notice is sent. Note: Depending on the outcome of matters referred to in paragraph (1)(a), it may turn out that the person is not liable to pay the charge. Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 39G - (2) The notice referred to in subsection (1) must: - (a) advise the person that, because the person has failed to pay celebrant registration charge, the person will be deregistered as a marriage celebrant on the day specified in the notice (being a day that is at least 7 days after the day on which the notice is sent); and - (b) comply with any other requirements prescribed by the regulations relating to the content of the notice, or how it is to be sent. - (3) The person is taken to have been deregistered by the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants at the start of the day specified in the notice. Note: A person who wishes to become a marriage celebrant again may reapply under section 39D. - (4) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must remove the person’s details from the register of marriage celebrants. ## 39G Obligations of each marriage celebrant - (1) A marriage celebrant must: - (a) conduct himself or herself in accordance with the Code of Practice for marriage celebrants prescribed by regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (b) undertake all professional development activities required by the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (ba) comply with any disciplinary measures taken against the marriage celebrant under section 39I; and - (c) notify the Registrar, in writing, within 30 days of: - (i) a change that results in the details provided by the person to the Registrar no longer being correct; or - (ii) the occurrence of an event that might have caused the Registrar not to register the person as a marriage celebrant if the event had occurred before the person was registered; and Marriage Act 1961 44 Compilation No. 32 - (d) disclose that the celebrant is a marriage celebrant, and whether or not the celebrant is a religious marriage celebrant, in any document relating to the performance of services as a marriage celebrant (including advertisements) by the celebrant. - (2) Without limiting subsection (1), the regulations may require a fee to be paid in respect of an application for an exemption from requirements prescribed by regulations made for the purpose of paragraph (1)(b). The regulations may specify the fee, or provide for the fee to be determined by the Minister by legislative instrument. - (3) The regulations may specify the details that must be notified to the Registrar for the purposes of subparagraph (1)(c)(i). Note 1: If a marriage celebrant fails to comply with these obligations, the Registrar may take disciplinary measures under section 39I. Note 2: For subparagraph (1)(c)(i), a person may notify the Registrar by updating the person’s details using a portal provided by the Registrar. ## 39H Performance reviews - (1) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants may, from time to time, review the performance of a marriage celebrant in respect of a period to determine whether the Registrar considers that the celebrant’s performance in the period is satisfactory. Note: The period to which a review relates is at the discretion of the Registrar. - (3) In reviewing the performance of a marriage celebrant, the Registrar: - (a) must consider the matters prescribed by regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (b) may have regard to any information in his or her possession, but is not required to seek any further information. - (4) The Registrar must not determine that a marriage celebrant’s performance in respect of a period was not satisfactory unless: ## Section 39I - (a) the Registrar has given the marriage celebrant a written notice: - (i) stating the Registrar’s intention to make the determination unless, before the date specified in the notice (which must be at least 21 days after the date on which the notice was given), the marriage celebrant satisfies the Registrar that the marriage celebrant’s performance in respect of the period was satisfactory; and - (ii) informing the marriage celebrant that any representations made to the Registrar before that date will be considered by the Registrar; and - (b) the Registrar has considered any representations made by the marriage celebrant before the date specified in the notice; and - (c) the determination is made in writing within 14 days after the date specified in the notice. ## 39I Disciplinary measures - (1) The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants may only take disciplinary measures against a marriage celebrant if the Registrar: - (a) is satisfied that the marriage celebrant is no longer entitled to be registered as a marriage celebrant; or - (aa) is satisfied that the marriage celebrant is no longer entitled to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; or - (b) is satisfied that the marriage celebrant has not complied with an obligation under section 39G; or - (c) has determined in writing under section 39H that the marriage celebrant’s performance in respect of a period was not satisfactory; or - (d) is satisfied that it is appropriate to take disciplinary measures against the marriage celebrant after considering a complaint in accordance with the complaints resolution procedures established under paragraph 39K(c); or 46 - (e) is satisfied that the marriage celebrant’s application for registration was known by the marriage celebrant to be false or misleading in a material particular; or - (f) is satisfied that the marriage celebrant’s notice under section 39DB or paragraph 39DD(2)(b) (notice requesting to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant) was known by the marriage celebrant to be false or misleading in a material particular. - (2) The only disciplinary measures that the Registrar may take against a marriage celebrant are to: - (a) caution the marriage celebrant in writing; or - (b) in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph, require the marriage celebrant to undertake professional development activities determined in writing by the Registrar; or - (c) suspend the marriage celebrant’s registration for a period (the suspension period ) of up to 6 months by annotating the register of marriage celebrants to include: - (i) a statement that the registration is suspended; and - (ii) the dates of the start and end of the suspension period; or - (d) deregister the marriage celebrant by removing his or her details from the register of marriage celebrants; or - (e) if the marriage celebrant is identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants: - (i) remove the identification of the marriage celebrant as a religious marriage celebrant from the register for a period (the suspension period ) of up to 6 months by annotating the register of marriage celebrants to include a statement that the celebrant is not identified as a religious marriage celebrant, and the dates of the start and end of the suspension period; or - (ii) remove the identification of the marriage celebrant as a religious marriage celebrant permanently from the register. Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 39J Note: A decision to suspend a marriage celebrant’s registration, or to deregister a marriage celebrant, is reviewable under section 39J. - (3) If the Registrar suspends a marriage celebrant’s registration for a particular period, section 39F does not apply in respect of the marriage celebrant during the period. - (3A) If the Registrar removes the identification of a marriage celebrant as a religious marriage celebrant for any period under paragraph (2)(e), section 47A does not apply in respect of the celebrant during that period. - (4) If the Registrar decides to take disciplinary measures against a marriage celebrant (including a religious marriage celebrant), the Registrar: - (a) must give the marriage celebrant written notice of: - (i) the decision; and - (ii) the reasons for it; and - (iii) the disciplinary measure that is being taken; and - (iv) if the marriage celebrant has a right under section 39J to apply for review of the decision-that right; and - (b) may inform the community, in any way the Registrar thinks appropriate, including by electronic means, that the disciplinary measure is being taken against the marriage celebrant. ## 39J Review of decisions - (1) An application may be made to the Administrative Review Tribunal for a review of a decision of the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants: - (a) not to register a person as a marriage celebrant; or - (b) to suspend a person’s registration as a marriage celebrant; or - (c) to deregister a marriage celebrant (including under section 39FB); or - (d) not to identify a person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; or 48 - (e) to remove the identification of a person as a religious marriage celebrant from the register of marriage celebrants, either for a specified period or permanently. - (2) For the purposes of both the making of an application under subsection (1) and the operation of the Administrative Review Tribunal Act 2024 in relation to such an application, if: - (a) a person has made application for registration as a marriage celebrant (see subsection 39D(1A)); and - (b) at the end of 6 months after the day on which the application was made, the person has not been: - (i) registered; or - (ii) notified by the Registrar that that person’s application has been refused; the Registrar is taken to have decided, on the last day of the 6 month period, not to register that person as a marriage celebrant. - (2A) For the purposes of both the making of an application under subsection (1) and the operation of the Administrative Review Tribunal Act 2024 in relation to such an application, if: - (a) a person has given notice under section 39DB or paragraph 39DD(2)(b) (notice requesting to be identified as a religious marriage celebrant); and - (b) at the end of 6 months after the day on which the notice was given, the person has not been: - (i) identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; or - (ii) notified by the Registrar that the Registrar has decided not to identify the person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; the Registrar is taken to have decided, on the last day of the 6 month period, not to identify that person as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants. - (3) The Registrar must take such action as is necessary to give effect to the Tribunal’s decision. Marriage Act 1961 49 Compilation No. 32 ## 39K Additional functions of the Registrar The Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must: - (a) amend the register of marriage celebrants in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (aa) remove the name of a person from the register of marriage celebrants in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (b) keep records relating to marriage celebrants, and the register of marriage celebrants, in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; and - (c) establish complaints resolution procedures, in accordance with regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph, to resolve complaints about the solemnisation of marriages by marriage celebrants; and - (d) perform any additional functions specified in regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph. ## 39L Registrar not liable for damages Neither the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants, nor a Deputy Registrar of Marriage Celebrants, is liable to an action or other proceeding for damages in respect of anything done, or omitted to be done, in good faith in: - (a) the exercise or performance; or - (b) the purported exercise or performance; of powers or functions under this Act. ## 39M Evidence of registration etc. A certificate, signed by the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants, stating that, at a specified time, or during a specified period: - (a) a person was registered as a marriage celebrant; or - (b) a person’s registration as a marriage celebrant was suspended; or - (c) a person was not registered as a marriage celebrant; or - (d) a person was identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; or - (e) a person was not identified as a religious marriage celebrant on the register of marriage celebrants; is prima facie evidence of that fact. ## Division 2-Marriages by authorised celebrants ## 40 Application of Division - (1) Subject to subsection (2), this Division applies to and in relation to all marriages solemnised, or intended to be solemnised, in Australia. - (2) This Division does not apply to or in relation to marriages to which Division 3 of this Part applies. ## 41 Marriages to be solemnised by authorised celebrant A marriage shall be solemnised by an authorised celebrant who is physically present at the place where the marriage takes place and is authorised to solemnise marriages at that place. ## 42 Notice to be given and declaration made - (1) Subject to this section, a marriage shall not be solemnised unless: - (a) notice in writing of the intended marriage has been given in accordance with this section and has been received by the authorised celebrant solemnising the marriage not earlier than 18 months before the date of the marriage and not later than 1 month before the date of the marriage; - (b) there has been produced to that authorised celebrant, in respect of each of the parties: - (i) an official certificate, or an official extract of an entry in an official register, showing the date and place of birth of the party; or - (iii) a passport issued by a government of an overseas country, showing the date and place of birth of the party; or - (iv) an Australian passport, showing the date and place of birth of the party; or Marriage Act 1961 Compilation No. 32 - (v) if it is impracticable for the party to obtain a certificate or official extract referred to in subparagraph (i) and the party does not have a current passport referred to in subparagraph (iii) or (iv)-a statutory declaration made by the party or a parent of the party stating that, for reasons specified in the declaration, it is impracticable to obtain a certificate or official extract referred to in subparagraph (i) and stating, to the best of the declarant’s knowledge and belief and as accurately as the declarant has been able to ascertain, when and where the party was born; and - (c) each of the parties has made and subscribed in the physical presence of that authorised celebrant a declaration, in writing, as to: - (i) the party’s conjugal status; - (ii) the party’s belief that there is no legal impediment to the marriage; and - (iii) such other matters as are prescribed. - (2) A notice under subsection (1): - (a) must contain such particulars in relation to the parties as are prescribed; and - (b) must be signed by each of the parties; and - (c) if a party signs the notice in Australia-must be signed under the observation (whether or not by means of a facility that enables audio and visual communication between persons in different places) of one of the following, who must also be in Australia: - (i) an authorised celebrant; - (ii) a Commissioner for Declarations under the Statutory Declarations Act 1959 ; - (iii) a justice of the peace; - (iv) a barrister or solicitor; - (v) a medical practitioner; - (vi) a member of the Australian Federal Police or the police force of a State or Territory; and Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 42 - (d) if a party signs the notice outside Australia-must be signed under the observation (whether or not by means of a facility that enables audio and visual communication between persons in different places) of one of the following, who must also be outside Australia: - (i) an Australian Diplomatic Officer; - (ii) an Australian Consular Officer; - (iii) a notary public; - (iv) an employee of the Commonwealth authorised under paragraph 3(c) of the Consular Fees Act 1955 ; - (v) an employee of the Australian Trade and Investment Commission authorised under paragraph 3(d) of the Consular Fees Act 1955 . - (3) However, if the signature of a party to an intended marriage cannot conveniently be obtained at the time when it is desired to give notice under this section, a notice duly signed by the other party and otherwise complying with the provisions of this section shall, if it is signed by the first-mentioned party under the observation (whether or not by means of a facility that enables audio and visual communication between persons in different places) of an authorised celebrant in Australia before the marriage is solemnised, be deemed to have been a sufficient notice. - (4) Where a party to an intended marriage is unable, after reasonable inquiry, to ascertain all of the particulars in relation to that party required to be contained in a notice under this section, the failure to include in the notice such of those particulars as the party is unable to ascertain does not make the notice ineffective for the purposes of this section if, at any time before the marriage is solemnised, that party furnishes to the authorised celebrant solemnising the marriage a statutory declaration as to that party’s inability to ascertain the particulars not included in the notice and the reason for that inability. - (5) Despite a notice required by subsection (1) having been received later than 1 month before the date of the marriage, a prescribed authority may authorise an authorised celebrant to solemnise a marriage if the authority is satisfied that one or more of the circumstances prescribed in the regulations have been met. - (5A) An authorised celebrant shall, as soon as practicable after receiving the notice referred to in subsection (1), give to the parties a document outlining the obligations and consequences of marriage and indicating the availability of marriage education and counselling. - (6) If: - (a) a notice of intention to marry has been given to an authorised celebrant under this section; and - (b) either: - (i) because of the death, absence or illness of the authorised celebrant, or for any other reason, it is impracticable for that person to solemnise the marriage; or - (ii) the parties to the intended marriage have requested the authorised celebrant to give the notice to another authorised celebrant; the marriage may be solemnised by another authorised celebrant who has possession of the notice. - (7) The declarations of the parties required by subsection (1) shall both be written on the one paper and on the same side of that paper. - (8) An authorised celebrant shall not solemnise a marriage: - (a) unless the authorised celebrant has satisfied himself or herself that the parties are the parties referred to in the notice given under this section in relation to the marriage; or - (b) if the authorised celebrant has reason to believe that: - (i) a notice given under this section; or - (ii) a declaration made and subscribed under this section, or a statutory declaration made for the purposes of this section; in relation to the marriage, contains a false statement or an error or is defective. - (9) An authorised celebrant: ## Section 42A - (a) may permit an error in a notice under this section to be corrected by either of the parties: - (i) under the observation (whether or not by means of a facility that enables audio and visual communication between persons in different places) of the authorised celebrant, if the authorised celebrant is in Australia; and - (ii) at any time before the marriage to which it relates has been solemnised; and - (b) may treat the corrected notice as having been originally given in its corrected form. - (10) Where the declaration made by a party under subsection (1) states that that party is a divorced person or that that party’s last spouse has died, an authorised celebrant shall not solemnise the marriage unless there is produced to him or her evidence of that party’s divorce, or of the death of that party’s spouse, as the case requires. ## 42A Commissioner of Australian Federal Police or approved authority may issue special notice - (1) If the Commissioner of the Australian Federal Police or a person who is an approved authority for the purposes of the Witness Protection Act 1994 gives to a Registrar a certificate under section 14 of that Act stating that the person has received the evidence referred to in paragraphs (b) and (c) of that section and the statutory declaration referred to in paragraph (d) of that section, the Registrar: - (a) if he or she is to solemnise the marriage himself or herselfis to treat the certificate as satisfying the requirements of section 42; or - (b) in any other case-is to give to the celebrant a notice stating that the celebrant should treat the requirements of section 42 of this Act as having been met. - (2) The names specified in the certificate are to be used in the marriage certificate. 56 ## 42B Authorised celebrant must physically meet each party to intended marriage separately An authorised celebrant must not solemnise a marriage unless the authorised celebrant has met separately with each party before the intended marriage. The authorised celebrant and the party must be physically present at the meeting. ## 43 Marriage may be solemnised on any day etc. A marriage may be solemnised on any day, at any time and at any place. ## 44 Witnesses A marriage shall not be solemnised unless at least 2 persons who are, or appear to the person solemnising the marriage to be, over the age of 18 years are present as witnesses. ## 45 Form of ceremony - (1) Where a marriage is solemnised by an authorised celebrant, being a minister of religion, it may be solemnised according to any form and ceremony recognised as sufficient for the purpose by the religious body or organisation of which he or she is a minister. - (2) Where a marriage is solemnised by an authorised celebrant, not being a minister of religion, it is sufficient if each of the parties says to the other, in the presence of the authorised celebrant and the witnesses, the words: - ‘I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, A.B. ( or C.D.), take thee, C.D. ( or A.B.), to be my lawful wedded wife ( or husband, or spouse)’; or words to that effect. - (3) Where a marriage has been solemnised by an authorised celebrant, a certificate of the marriage prepared and signed in accordance with section 50 is conclusive evidence that the marriage was solemnised in accordance with this section. Marriage Act 1961 57 ## Section 46 - (4) Nothing in subsection (3) makes a certificate conclusive: - (a) where the fact that the marriage ceremony took place is in issue-as to that fact; or - (b) where the identity of a party to the marriage is in issue-as to the identity of that party. ## 46 Certain authorised celebrants to explain nature of marriage relationship - (1) Subject to subsection (2), before a marriage is solemnised by an authorised celebrant, not being a minister of religion of a recognised denomination, the authorised celebrant shall say to the parties, in the presence of the witnesses, the words: - ‘I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. - ‘Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. - ‘Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.’; - or words to that effect. - (2) Where, in the case of a person authorised under subsection 39(2) to solemnise marriages, the Minister is satisfied that the form of ceremony to be used by that person sufficiently states the nature and obligations of marriage, the Minister may, either by the instrument by which that person is so authorised or by a subsequent instrument, exempt that person from compliance with subsection (1) of this section. ## 47 Ministers of religion may refuse to solemnise marriages Refusing to solemnise a marriage despite this Part - (1) A minister of religion may refuse to solemnise a marriage despite anything in this Part. 58 - (2) In particular, nothing in this Part prevents a minister of religion from: - (a) making it a condition of solemnising a marriage that: - (i) notice of the intended marriage is given to the minister earlier than this Act requires; or - (ii) additional requirements to those provided by this Act are complied with; and - (b) refusing to solemnise the marriage if the condition is not observed. Refusing to solemnise a marriage on the basis of religious beliefs etc. - (3) A minister of religion may refuse to solemnise a marriage despite anything in this Part, if any of the following applies: - (a) the refusal conforms to the doctrines, tenets or beliefs of the religion of the minister’s religious body or religious organisation; - (b) the refusal is necessary to avoid injury to the religious susceptibilities of adherents of that religion; - (c) the minister’s religious beliefs do not allow the minister to solemnise the marriage. Grounds for refusal not limited by this section - (4) This section does not limit the grounds on which a minister of religion may refuse to solemnise a marriage. ## 47A Religious marriage celebrants may refuse to solemnise marriages - (1) A religious marriage celebrant may refuse to solemnise a marriage despite anything in this Part, if the celebrant’s religious beliefs do not allow the celebrant to solemnise the marriage. Marriage Act 1961 59 Compilation No. 32 ## Part IV Solemnisation of marriages in Australia ## Division 2 Marriages by authorised celebrants ## Section 47B Grounds for refusal not limited by this section - (2) This section does not limit the grounds on which a religious marriage celebrant may refuse to solemnise a marriage. ## 47B Bodies established for religious purposes may refuse to make facilities available or provide goods or services - (1) A body established for religious purposes may refuse to make a facility available, or to provide goods or services, for the purposes of the solemnisation of a marriage, or for purposes reasonably incidental to the solemnisation of a marriage, if the refusal: - (a) conforms to the doctrines, tenets or beliefs of the religion of the body; or - (b) is necessary to avoid injury to the religious susceptibilities of adherents of that religion. - (2) Subsection (1) applies to facilities made available, and goods and services provided, whether for payment or not. - (3) This section does not limit the grounds on which a body established for religious purposes may refuse to make a facility available, or to provide goods or services, for the purposes of the solemnisation of a marriage, or for purposes reasonably incidental to the solemnisation of a marriage. - (4) To avoid doubt, a reference to a body established for religious purposes has the same meaning in this section as it has in section 37 of the Sex Discrimination Act 1984 . - (5) For the purposes of subsection (1), a purpose is reasonably incidental to the solemnisation of marriage if it is intrinsic to, or directly associated with, the solemnisation of the marriage. 60 ## 48 Certain marriages not solemnised in accordance with this Division to be invalid - (1) Subject to this section, a marriage solemnised otherwise than in accordance with the preceding provisions of this Division is not a valid marriage. - (2) A marriage is not invalid by reason of all or any of the following: - (a) failure to give the notice required by section 42, or a false statement, defect or error in such a notice; - (b) failure of the parties, or either of them, to make or subscribe a declaration as required by section 42, or a false statement, defect or error in such a declaration; - (c) failure to produce to the authorised celebrant a certificate or extract of an entry or a statutory declaration as required by section 42, or a false statement, defect or error in such a statutory declaration; - (d) failure to comply with any other requirement of section 42, or any contravention of that section; - (e) failure to comply with the requirements of section 44 or 46; - (f) failure to comply with the requirements of section 13. - (3) A marriage is not invalid by reason that the person solemnising it was not authorised by this Act to do so, if either party to the marriage, at the time the marriage was solemnised, believed that that person was lawfully authorised to solemnise it, and in such a case the form and ceremony of the marriage shall be deemed to have been sufficient if they were such as to show an intention on the part of each of the parties to become thereby the lawfully wedded spouse of the other. ## 49 Authorised celebrant to retain consents, statutory declarations etc. An authorised celebrant to whom a consent, dispensation with consent or statutory declaration is produced under this Act shall retain it in his or her possession until he or she deals with it in accordance with section 50. Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 50 ## 50 Marriage certificates - (1) Where an authorised celebrant solemnises a marriage, the authorised celebrant shall: - (a) prepare a certificate of the marriage, in accordance with the prescribed form, for the purpose of issue to the parties to the marriage; and - (b) prepare 2 official certificates of the marriage. - (1A) Notwithstanding paragraph (1)(b), the regulations may provide that the person for the time being holding or acting in a specified office of a specified State or Territory shall prepare only 1 official certificate under that paragraph. - (2) Immediately after the solemnisation of the marriage, the authorised celebrant, each of the parties to the marriage and 2 witnesses of the marriage who are, or appear to the authorised celebrant to be, over the age of 18 years shall sign each of the certificates so prepared. - (3) One of the official certificates or the official certificate, as the case may be, shall be on the reverse side of the paper bearing the declarations made by the parties under section 42. - (4) The authorised celebrant shall hand the certificate referred to in paragraph (1)(a) to one of the parties to the marriage on behalf of the parties, and: - (a) where 2 official certificates have been prepared: - (i) within 14 days after the solemnisation of the marriage, forward the official certificate to which subsection (3) applies, together with the notice under section 42, the order (if any) under section 12 and any statutory declarations, consents and dispensations with consents relating to the marriage that are in his or her possession, to the appropriate registering authority of a State or Territory ascertained in accordance with the regulations; and - (ii) retain the other official certificate and deal with it in accordance with the regulations; or Marriage Act 1961 62 Compilation No. 32 - (b) where only 1 official certificate has been prepared-retain that certificate and deal with it in accordance with the regulations. - (5) Where the authorised celebrant dies without having prepared and signed the certificates of the marriage, or where by reason of other special circumstances the Minister thinks it necessary to do so, the Minister may, if satisfied that the marriage was duly solemnised, prepare and sign the certificates with such modifications as are appropriate. - (6) A certificate prepared and signed by the Minister under subsection (5) has the same force and effect as if it had been prepared and signed, in accordance with this section, by the authorised celebrant. - (7) The regulations may make provision for and in relation to the furnishing of a substitute certificate in the event of the loss or destruction of a certificate of a marriage previously forwarded in pursuance of this section. ## 51 Incorrect marriage certificates - (1) Where an authorised officer is satisfied, by statutory declaration or otherwise, that any particular in a certificate of marriage prepared and signed under section 50 is incorrect, the authorised officer may: - (a) in the case of a certificate that has been handed to a party to the marriage or retained by the authorised celebrant-correct the certificate; and - (b) in the case of a certificate that has been forwarded to a registering authority-certify to that authority that a specified correction is necessary. - (2) For the purposes of exercising his or her powers under paragraph (1)(a) in relation to a certificate, an authorised officer may, by notice in writing served on a party to the marriage, or the authorised celebrant, as the case requires, require the party or the authorised celebrant to produce or forward the certificate to the Marriage Act 1961 ## Part IV Solemnisation of marriages in Australia ## Division 2 Marriages by authorised celebrants ## Section 51 authorised officer within a period (not being less than 7 days from the date of service of the notice) specified in the notice. - (2A) Where a marriage has been solemnised, or purports to have been solemnised, under this Part, and the marriage is void, an authorised officer may, by notice in writing served on a party to the marriage, require the party to deliver or forward to the authorised officer, within a period (not being less than 7 days from the date of service of the notice) specified in the notice, the certificate required, by subsection 50(4), to be handed to a party to the marriage. - (3) A notice referred to in subsection (2) or (2A) may be served by post. - (4) In this section, authorised officer means a person authorised by the Minister to perform the functions of an authorised officer under this section. 64 ## Division 3-Marriages by foreign diplomatic or consular officers ## 52 Interpretation In this Division, unless the contrary intention appears: diplomatic or consular officer , in relation to an overseas country, means a person recognised by the Government of the Commonwealth as a diplomatic or consular representative of that overseas country in Australia. proclaimed overseas country means an overseas country in respect of which a Proclamation under section 54 is in force. the Registrar means the Registrar of Foreign Marriages. ## 53 Application of Division This Division applies to marriages, in accordance with the law or custom of a proclaimed overseas country, between parties of whom one at least possesses the nationality of that country. ## 54 Governor-General may declare countries to be proclaimed overseas countries The Governor-General may declare by Proclamation that a country is a proclaimed overseas country for the purposes of this Division if he or she is satisfied that the country’s law or custom authorises the solemnisation, by or in the presence of either or both diplomatic or consular officers of that country, of marriages outside that country. Marriage Act 1961 65 Compilation No. 32 ## Section 55 ## 55 Solemnisation of marriages in Australia by foreign diplomatic or consular officer Nothing in this Act prevents the solemnisation in Australia of a marriage to which this Division applies by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of a proclaimed overseas country if: - (a) neither of the parties is an Australian citizen; and - (b) the marriage, were it a marriage to and in relation to which Division 2 of this Part applied, would not be void by reason of a circumstance set out in paragraph 23B(1)(a), (b) or (e). ## 56 Recognition of marriages - (1) Subject to subsection (2), a marriage solemnised in Australia by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of a proclaimed overseas country, being a marriage to which section 55 was applicable, shall be recognised as valid in Australia if: - (a) the marriage is recognised as a valid marriage by the law or custom of the overseas country; and - (b) the marriage has been registered under this Division. - (2) Subsection (1) does not apply in relation to a marriage where, if the marriage were a marriage to and in relation to which Division 2 of this Part applied, the marriage would be void by reason of a circumstance set out in paragraph 23B(1)(d). ## 57 Registrar and Deputy Registrar of Foreign Marriages - (1) For the purposes of this Division, there shall be a Registrar of Foreign Marriages, who shall be appointed by the Minister. - (2) The Registrar shall have a seal, which shall be in such form as the Minister determines. - (3) The Minister may appoint a person to be Deputy Registrar of Foreign Marriages and, in the event of the absence, through illness or otherwise, of the Registrar, or of a vacancy in the office of Registrar, the Deputy Registrar has all the powers, and shall 66 perform all the duties and functions, of the Registrar during the absence or vacancy. - (4) The Deputy Registrar appointed under this section may, during any such absence, or vacancy in the office, of the Registrar, certify copies of entries, or extracts of entries, in the Register of Foreign Marriages Solemnised in Australia under his or her signature and the seal of the Registrar, and a copy or extract so certified has the same force and effect as if it had been certified by the Registrar under his or her signature and seal. ## 58 Register of Foreign Marriages Solemnised in Australia - (1) The Registrar shall keep a register, to be called the Register of Foreign Marriages Solemnised in Australia, in such form as the Minister directs. - (2) The Registrar shall register in the Register every marriage notified to the Registrar that he or she is satisfied: - (a) is a marriage to which section 55 was applicable; and - (b) has been solemnised in Australia by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of a proclaimed overseas country who was competent to solemnise the marriage. - (3) The Registrar shall keep an index of the entries in the Register. ## 59 Searches and certified copies - (1) Subject to payment of the prescribed fee, a person may, upon satisfying the Registrar that the person has good reason for so doing, cause a search to be made for an entry in the Register of Foreign Marriages Solemnised in Australia and receive a copy of the entry, or an extract of the entry, certified by the Registrar under his or her signature and seal to be a copy of the entry or an extract of the entry, as the case may be. - (2) A copy of an entry in the Register certified in accordance with subsection (1) is, for all purposes, evidence of the marriage recorded in the entry. Marriage Act 1961 67 Section 60 ## Part V-Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas ## Division 1-Registrar of Overseas Marriages ## 60 Definitions In this Part: Registrar means the Registrar of Overseas Marriages appointed under section 61. ## 61 Registrar of Overseas Marriages - (1) There is to be a Registrar of Overseas Marriages. - (2) The Registrar is to be appointed, by written instrument, by the Minister. - (3) The Registrar must have a seal, which is to be in the form the Minister determines. ## 62 Acting appointments The Minister may, by written instrument, appoint a person to act as the Registrar: - (a) during a vacancy in the office of the Registrar (whether or not an appointment has previously been made to the office); or - (b) during any period, or during all periods, when the Registrar: - (i) is absent from duty or from Australia; or - (ii) is, for any reason, unable to perform the duties of the office. Note: For rules that apply to acting appointments, see sections 33AB and 33A of the Acts Interpretation Act 1901 . 68 Compilation No. 32 Marriage Act 1961 ## 63 Register of Overseas Marriages - (1) The Registrar must keep a register, to be called the Register of Overseas Marriages, in the form the Minister directs. - (2) The Register of Overseas Marriages that was kept under section 8 of the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 is taken to form part of the Register kept under this section. - (3) The Registrar must register in the Register all marriages required to be registered by this Part. - (4) The Registrar may register in the Register: - (a) a marriage solemnized under the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 that has not been registered under that Act; or - (b) a marriage (except a marriage that has been registered under the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 ) that was solemnized before the commencement of this Act and in respect of which a certificate has been forwarded: - (i) under section 25 of the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 ; or - (ii) under section 84 of this Act. - (5) The Registrar must keep an index of the entries in the Register. Note: For errors or mis-statements in the Register, see section 114. ## 64 Searches and certified copies - (1) A person may search the register if: - (a) the person satisfies the Registrar that the person has a good reason for searching the register; and - (b) the person has paid any fee prescribed by the regulations for the purposes of this paragraph. - (2) After searching the register for an entry, the person may be given: - (a) a certified copy of the entry or extract of the entry; or - (b) if the Registrar finds that there is no such entry in the register-a certificate stating that fact. Marriage Act 1961 69 ## Part V Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas Division 1 Registrar of Overseas Marriages ## Section 64 - (3) A certified copy mentioned in paragraph (2)(a) or a certificate mentioned in paragraph (2)(b): - (a) must be certified by the Registrar by signed writing and under seal; and - (b) is prima facie evidence of the facts stated in the copy or certificate. 70 ## Division 3-Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas ## 71 Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas - (1) Subject to this Part, a marriage between parties of whom one at least is a member of the Defence Force may be solemnised in an overseas country by an authorised celebrant who is physically present at the place where the marriage takes place and is authorised to solemnise marriages at that place. - (2) The Governor-General may, by Proclamation, declare that a part of the Sovereign’s dominions that has been occupied by a state at war with the Commonwealth and in which facilities for marriage in accordance with the local law have not, in the opinion of the Governor-General, been adequately restored shall be deemed to be an overseas country for the purposes of this section. ## 71A Marriage officers The Chief of the Defence Force may, by instrument in writing, authorise an officer (within the meaning of the Defence Act 1903 ), other than a chaplain, to solemnise marriages under this Division. ## 72 Form and ceremony of marriage - (1) A marriage under this Division shall be solemnised: - (a) at such place as the authorised celebrant thinks fit, in the physical presence of at least 2 witnesses who are, or appear to the authorised celebrant to be, over the age of 18; and - (b) according to such form and ceremony as the authorised celebrant thinks proper. - (2) Unless, having regard to the form and ceremony of the marriage, the authorised celebrant considers it unnecessary for the parties to the marriage to do so, each of the parties shall, in some part of the Marriage Act 1961 ## Part V Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas Division 3 Marriages of members of the Defence Force overseas ## Section 72 ceremony and in the physical presence of the authorised celebrant and the witnesses, say to each other the words: ‘I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, A.B. ( or C.D.), take thee, C.D. ( or A.B.), to be my lawful wedded wife ( or husband, or spouse)’; or words to that effect. 72 ## Division 4-General ## 73 Validity of marriages A marriage solemnised under this Part, being a marriage which, if it had been solemnised in Australia in accordance with Division 2 of Part IV would have been a valid marriage, is valid throughout Australia and the external Territories. ## 74 Declaration to be made before authorised celebrant - (1) A marriage shall not be solemnised under this Part unless each of the parties to the marriage has made and subscribed before the authorised celebrant solemnising the marriage a declaration as to: - (a) the party’s conjugal status; - (b) the party’s belief that there is no legal impediment to the marriage; and - (c) such other matters as are prescribed. - (2) The declarations of the parties required by subsection (1) shall both be written on the one paper and on the same side of that paper. - (3) An authorised celebrant shall not solemnise a marriage under this Part if he or she has reason to believe that a declaration made and subscribed under this section in relation to the marriage contains a false statement or an error or is defective. ## 75 Authorised celebrant to be satisfied of parties’ identity An authorised celebrant shall not solemnise a marriage under this Part unless the authorised celebrant has satisfied himself or herself as to the identity of the parties. ## 76 Additional consent to marriage of minor domiciled outside Australia Marriage Act 1961 73 Compilation No. 32 - (1) Where: ## Section 77 - (a) a party to an intended marriage under this Part, not being an Australian citizen, has not attained the age of 18 years and is domiciled in a place outside Australia; and - (b) the law of that place requires the consent of a person, other than a person whose consent is required under Part II, to the marriage of that party; the marriage shall not be solemnised unless the authorised celebrant is satisfied that consent to the marriage has been given by that person. - (2) The requirement of subsection (1) is in addition to the requirements of Part II with respect to consents to the marriages of minors. ## 77 Restriction on solemnisation of marriages under this Part - (1) A marriage shall not be solemnised in an overseas country under this Part unless the authorised celebrant is satisfied: - (a) that each of the parties to the intended marriage is an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force; - (b) where 1 party to the intended marriage is not an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force: - (i) that that party is not a subject or citizen of the overseas country; or - (ii) that sufficient facilities do not exist for the solemnisation of the marriage in the overseas country in accordance with the law of that country; - (c) where 1 party to the intended marriage is a subject or citizen of the overseas country, that objection will not be taken by the authorities of that country to the solemnisation of the intended marriage under this Part; or - (d) that a marriage in the overseas country between the parties in accordance with the law of that country would not be recognised throughout Australia. - (2) In this section, overseas country includes a country that is deemed to be an overseas country for the purposes of section 71. 74 ## 78 Solemnisation of marriages where a party to the marriage is not an Australian citizen etc. - (1) Subject to subsection (2), a marriage shall not be solemnised under this Part if 1 party to the intended marriage (in this section called the non-Australian ) is not an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force. - (2) Subsection (1) does not apply where the authorised celebrant is satisfied: - (a) that the marriage will be recognised by the law of the country to which the non-Australian belongs; - (b) that some other marriage ceremony, in addition to the ceremony under this Part, has taken place, or is about to take place, between the parties and that the other ceremony is, or, when it has taken place, will be, recognised by the law of the country to which the non-Australian belongs; or - (c) that the Minister has approved of the solemnisation of the marriage under this Part. ## 79 Authorised celebrant to retain consents etc. An authorised celebrant to whom a consent, dispensation with consent or statutory declaration is produced under this Act shall retain it in the possession of the authorised celebrant until he or she deals with it in accordance with section 80. ## 80 Marriage certificate and registration of marriages - (1) Where an authorised celebrant solemnises a marriage under this Part, the authorised celebrant shall: - (a) prepare a certificate of the marriage, in accordance with the prescribed form, for the purpose of issue to the parties to the marriage; and - (b) prepare 2 official certificates of the marriage. - (2) Immediately after the solemnisation of the marriage: - (a) the authorised celebrant; and Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 80 - (b) each of the parties to the marriage; and - (c) 2 witnesses of the marriage who are, or appear to the authorised celebrant to be, over the age of 18 years; - shall sign each of the certificates so prepared. - (3) One of the official certificates shall be on the reverse side of the paper bearing the declarations made by the parties under section 74. - (4) The authorised celebrant shall: - (a) hand the certificate referred to in paragraph (1)(a) to one of the parties to the marriage on behalf of the parties; - (b) forward the official certificate referred to in subsection (3), together with any statutory declarations, consents or dispensations with consents relating to the marriage that are in his or her possession, to the Registrar; and - (c) retain the other copy of the certificate in his or her possession for the prescribed period and, upon the expiration of that period, deal with the copy in accordance with the regulations. - (5) Where the authorised celebrant dies without having prepared and signed the certificates of the marriage, or where by reason of other special circumstances the Minister thinks it necessary to do so, the Minister may, if satisfied that the marriage was duly solemnised, prepare and sign the certificates with such modifications as are appropriate. - (6) A certificate prepared and signed by the Minister under subsection (5) has the same force and effect as if it had been prepared and signed, in accordance with this section, by the authorised celebrant. - (7) Upon the receipt by the Registrar of the official certificate required to be forwarded to the Registrar in respect of a marriage, the Registrar shall register the marriage. - (8) In the month of January in each year, an authorised celebrant by whom a marriage has been, or marriages have been, solemnised in 76 the preceding year shall forward to the Registrar written notice of the marriage, or of each of the marriages, stating the following: - (a) the date and place of the marriage; - (b) the full name of each party to the marriage; - (c) such other particulars as are prescribed. - (9) If the certificate of a marriage is not received by the Registrar, the authorised celebrant by whom it was issued shall, at the request of the Registrar: - (a) prepare a copy of the certificate; - (b) certify, by writing signed by the authorised celebrant, that the copy is a true copy of the certificate; and - (c) forward the copy to the Registrar. - (10) A certified copy of a certificate prepared by an authorised celebrant under subsection (9) has, for all purposes, the same force and effect as the certificate of which it is a copy. ## 81 Power to refuse to solemnise marriage - (1) An authorised celebrant (including a chaplain) may refuse to solemnise a marriage under this Part on any grounds which appear to the authorised celebrant to be sufficient and, in particular, on the ground that, in the opinion of the authorised celebrant, the solemnisation of the marriage would be inconsistent with international law or the comity of nations. Refusing to solemnise a marriage on the basis of religious beliefs etc. - (2) A chaplain may refuse to solemnise a marriage despite anything in this Part, if any of the following applies: - (a) the refusal conforms to the doctrines, tenets or beliefs of the religion of the chaplain’s religious body or religious organisation; - (b) the refusal is necessary to avoid injury to the religious susceptibilities of adherents of that religion; Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 82 - (c) the chaplain’s religious beliefs do not allow the chaplain to solemnise the marriage. Grounds for refusal not limited by this section - (3) This section does not limit the grounds on which an authorised celebrant (including a chaplain) may refuse to solemnise a marriage. ## 82 Marriages may be solemnised on any day and at any time A marriage under this Part may be solemnised on any day and at any time. ## 83 Validity of marriages under this Part - (1) A marriage under this Part is not invalid by reason of all or any of the following: - (d) failure of the parties, or either of them, to make or subscribe a declaration required by section 74, or a false statement, defect or error in such a declaration; - (e) the fact that the marriage was solemnised in contravention of any provision of section 72, 74, 75, 76, 77 or 78; - (f) failure to comply with the requirements of section 13. - (2) A marriage under this Part is not invalid by reason that the person solemnising it was not an authorised celebrant if either party to the marriage, at the time the marriage was solemnised, believed that that person was lawfully authorised to solemnise it, and in such a case the form and ceremony of the marriage shall be deemed to have been sufficient if they were such as to show an intention on the part of each of the parties to become thereby the lawfully wedded spouse of the other. ## 84 Registration of overseas marriages attended by an authorised celebrant 78 - (1) Where: - (a) an authorised celebrant has attended a marriage in an overseas country between parties of whom at least one was an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force; and - (b) the authorised celebrant is satisfied that the marriage has taken place in accordance with the law of that country; and - (c) a party to the marriage informs the authorised celebrant, in writing, that he or she desires the marriage to be registered under this section; the authorised celebrant shall forward to the Registrar a certificate in respect of the marriage. - (2) Upon receipt by the Registrar of a certificate under subsection (1) in respect of a marriage, the Registrar shall, subject to the regulations, register the marriage. ## 85 Certificates of marriages solemnised in accordance with local law in an overseas country - (1) Where: - (a) a marriage takes place in a prescribed overseas country in accordance with the law of that country between parties of whom one at least is an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force; - (b) a party to the marriage who is an Australian citizen or a member of the Defence Force produces to an authorised celebrant in the country in which the marriage was solemnised: - (i) a copy of the entry in respect of the marriage in the marriage register of that country certified by the appropriate authority in that country to be a true copy of that entry; and - (ii) if the copy of that entry is not in the English languagea translation into the English language of that copy; and - (c) the authorised celebrant is satisfied that the copy of the entry in the marriage register is a true copy and that the translation, if any, is a true translation; Marriage Act 1961 79 Compilation No. 32 ## Section 86 the authorised celebrant shall certify, upon the copy, that he or she is satisfied that the copy is a true copy of the entry in the marriage register and, upon the translation, that he or she is satisfied that the translation is a true translation of the copy and shall transmit the copy and the translation to the Registrar. - (2) The Registrar shall, upon payment of the prescribed fee, issue to a person who so desires a copy of any document received by the Registrar under subsection (1) certified by the Registrar, under his or her signature and seal, to be a true copy of that document. - (3) A document relating to a marriage in an overseas country transmitted in pursuance of section 26 of the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 and received by the Registrar of Overseas Marriages appointed under that Act shall, for the purposes of this section, be deemed to have been, in pursuance of this section, transmitted to, and received by, the Registrar of Overseas Marriages appointed, or deemed to have been appointed, under this Act. - (4) A document relating to a marriage in an overseas country issued under subsection (2) is admissible in evidence in any proceedings as if it were a certificate duly issued by the authorities of that country. ## 86 Evidence A notice, certificate or other document kept in pursuance of this Part by any person, or in the records of the office of any person, is admissible in evidence on its mere production from the custody of that person or from the custody of an officer of the Department. ## 87 Validity of marriages otherwise than under this Part not affected Nothing in this Part in any way affects the validity of a marriage solemnised in an overseas country otherwise than under this Part. 80 ## 88 Imperial Foreign Marriage Acts This Act shall not be taken to repeal or amend the Imperial Acts known as the Foreign Marriage Acts, 1892 and 1934, in so far as those Acts are part of the law of the Commonwealth. Marriage Act 1961 81 Compilation No. 32 ## Section 88A ## Part VA-Recognition of foreign marriages ## 88A Object of Part The object of this Part is to give effect to Chapter II of the Convention on Celebration and Recognition of the Validity of Marriages signed at The Hague on 14 March 1978. ## 88B Interpretation - (1) In this Part, unless the contrary intention appears: Australia includes the external Territories. local law , in relation to a marriage solemnised in a foreign country, means the law in force in the foreign country or in that part of the foreign country in which the marriage was solemnised. - (2) A marriage shall be taken, for the purposes of this Part, to have been solemnised in a foreign country by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of another foreign country if the marriage was solemnised in the first-mentioned foreign country by or in the presence of a person who was recognised by the government of that country as a diplomatic or consular representative of the other foreign country. - (3) In this Part, a reference to a marriage includes a reference to a purported marriage that is void or voidable but does not include a reference to a marriage solemnised under Part V. ## 88C Application of Part - (1) This Part applies to and in relation to every marriage solemnised, whether before or after the commencement of this Part, in a foreign country where: - (a) under the local law, the marriage was, at the time when it was solemnised, recognised as valid; or 82 Compilation No. 32 Marriage Act 1961 - (b) if the marriage was solemnised by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of another foreign country: - (i) under the law of that other foreign country, the marriage was, at the time when it was solemnised, recognised as valid; and - (ii) at the time when it was solemnised, the solemnisation of the marriage was not prohibited by the local law. - (2) Where a marriage (not being a marriage referred to in subsection (1)) that was solemnised, whether before or after the commencement of this Part, in a foreign country: - (a) is, at any time in relation to which the validity of the marriage falls to be determined, recognised as valid under the local law; or - (b) if the marriage was solemnised by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of another foreign country and, at the time when it was solemnised, the solemnisation of the marriage was not prohibited by the local law-is, at any time in relation to which the validity of the marriage falls to be determined, recognised as valid under the law of that other foreign country; this Part applies to and in relation to the marriage from and including that time. ## 88D Validity of marriages - (1) Subject to this section, a marriage to which this Part applies shall be recognised in Australia as valid. - (2) A marriage to which this Part applies shall not be recognised as valid in accordance with subsection (1) if: - (a) either of the parties was, at the time of the marriage, a party to a marriage with some other person and the last-mentioned marriage was, at that time, recognised in Australia as valid; - (b) where one of the parties was, at the time of the marriage, domiciled in Australia-either of the parties was not of marriageable age within the meaning of Part II; Marriage Act 1961 ## Part VA Recognition of foreign marriages ## Section 88D - (c) the parties are within a prohibited relationship within the meaning of section 23B; or - (d) the consent of either of the parties was not a real consent for a reason set out in subparagraph 23B(1)(d)(i), (ii) or (iii). - (3) Where neither of the parties to a marriage to which this Part applies was, at the time of the marriage, domiciled in Australia, the marriage shall not be recognised as valid in accordance with subsection (1) at any time while either party is under the age of 16 years. - (4) A marriage solemnised in a foreign country, being a marriage to which this Part applies, shall not be recognised as valid in accordance with subsection (1) at any time while the marriage is voidable: - (a) except in a case to which paragraph (b) applies-under the local law; or - (b) if the marriage was solemnised in a foreign country by or in the presence of a diplomatic or consular officer of another foreign country-under the law of that other foreign country. - (5) Notwithstanding any other provision of this Part, where: - (a) a marriage (in this subsection referred to as the initial marriage ) has, whether before or after the commencement of this Part, been solemnised in a foreign country; - (b) at the time of the solemnisation of the initial marriage, that marriage was not recognised in Australia as valid; - (c) after the solemnisation of the initial marriage, and whether before or after the commencement of this Part, either party to that marriage entered into another marriage (in this subsection referred to as the subsequent marriage ); and - (d) at the time when the subsequent marriage was solemnised: - (i) the subsequent marriage was recognised in Australia as valid; and 84 - (ii) the initial marriage was not recognised in Australia as valid; the initial marriage shall not be recognised at any time in Australia as valid. ## 88E Validity of certain marriages not affected by this Part - (1) Subject to subsection (2), a marriage solemnised in a foreign country that would be recognised as valid under the common law rules of private international law but is not required by the provisions of this Part apart from this subsection to be recognised as valid shall be recognised in Australia as valid, and the operation of this subsection shall not be limited by any implication arising from any other provision of this Part. - (2) Notwithstanding subsection (1), a marriage of a person domiciled in Australia, being a marriage solemnised in a foreign country, shall not be recognised in Australia as valid if, at the time of the marriage, either party to the marriage was not of marriageable age within the meaning of Part II. - (3) Where a marriage solemnised in a foreign country is not required by virtue of this Part to be recognised in Australia as valid, this Part shall not be taken to limit or exclude the operation of a provision of any other law of the Commonwealth, or of a law of a State or Territory, that provides, expressly or impliedly, for such a marriage to be recognised as a valid marriage for the purposes of the law in which the provision is included. - (4) This Part shall not be taken to limit or exclude the operation of a provision of any other law of the Commonwealth, or of a law of a State or Territory, that deems a union in the nature of a marriage to be a marriage for the purposes of the law in which the provision is included. Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 88F ## 88F Incidental determination of recognition of certain foreign marriages Notwithstanding any other law, the question whether a marriage solemnised in a foreign country is to be recognised in Australia as valid shall be determined in accordance with the provisions of this Part, whether or not the determination of the question is incidental to the determination of another question. ## 88G Evidence - (1) A document purporting to be either the original or a certified copy of a certificate, entry or record of a marriage alleged to have been solemnised in, or under the law of, a foreign country and purporting to have been issued by: - (a) in the case of a marriage alleged to have been solemnised in a foreign country-an authority of that country or of that part of the country in which the marriage was allegedly solemnised; or - (b) in the case of a marriage alleged to have been solemnised under the law of a foreign country-an authority of that country; is, for all purposes, prima facie evidence of the facts stated in the document and of the validity of the marriage to which the document relates. - (2) Subsection (1) does not apply to or in relation to a document if it is proved that the authority of the foreign country or of the part of a foreign country by which the document purports to have been issued was not, at the time of issue, a competent authority. - (3) In subsection (2), competent authority means: - (a) in relation to a foreign country: - (i) any authority that is prescribed in relation to that country by regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; or - (ii) any other authority that is competent, under the law in force in that country, to issue the original or a certified Marriage Act 1961 86 Compilation No. 32 copy of a certificate, entry or record of a marriage solemnised in, or under the law of, that country; and - (b) in relation to a part of a foreign country: - (i) any authority that is prescribed in relation to that part of that country by regulations made for the purposes of this paragraph; or - (ii) any other authority that is competent, under the law in force in that part of that country, to issue the original or a certified copy of a certificate, entry or record of a marriage solemnised in that part of that country. Marriage Act 1961 87 Compilation No. 32 ## Part VI-Legitimation ## 89 Legitimation by virtue of marriage of parents - (1) A child (whether born before or after the commencement of this Act) whose parents were not married to each other at the time of his or her birth but have subsequently married each other (whether before or after the commencement of this Act) is, by virtue of the marriage, for all purposes the legitimate child of his or her parents as from his or her birth or the commencement of this Act, whichever was the later. - (2) Subsection (1) applies in relation to a child whether or not there was a legal impediment to the marriage of his or her parents at the time of his or her birth and whether or not the child was still living at the time of the marriage or, in the case of a child born before the commencement of this Act, at the commencement of this Act. - (3) Subsection (1) does not apply in relation to a child unless: - (a) at the time of the marriage of the child’s parents: - (i) where that marriage took place before the commencement of section 24 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 -the child’s father was domiciled in Australia; or - (ii) in any other case-one of the child’s parents was domiciled in Australia; or - (b) the marriage of the child’s parents took place in Australia, or outside Australia under Part V of this Act or under the Marriage (Overseas) Act 1955 . - (4) Nothing in this section renders ineffective any legitimation that took place before the commencement of this Act by or under a law of a State or Territory or shall be taken to exclude the continued operation of such a law in relation to such a legitimation. 88 - (5) This section does not apply in relation to a child so as to affect any estate, right or interest in real or personal property to which a person has become, or may become, entitled, either mediately or immediately, in possession or expectancy, by virtue of a disposition that took effect, or by devolution by law on the death of a person who died, before the marriage of the parents of the child or the commencement of this Act, whichever was the later. ## 90 Legitimacy of children of certain foreign marriages - (1) Where: - (a) the parents of a child born illegitimate have married each other or the parents of a child born in a place the law of which did not recognise the status of illegitimacy have married each other; - (b) the marriage took place outside Australia; - (c) neither parent of the child was domiciled in Australia at the time of the marriage; and - (d) the law of the place where a parent of the child was then domiciled did not recognise the status of illegitimacy or, if the law of the place where a parent of the child was then domiciled did recognise that status, the child was, by that law, legitimated by virtue of the marriage; the child is for all purposes the legitimate child of his or her parents as from the time of the marriage or the commencement of section 25 of the Marriage Amendment Act 1985 , whichever was the later. - (2) Where the relationship of a child and his or her father and mother is, for the purposes of the law of a place, required by a law in force in that place to be determined irrespective of whether or not the father and mother are or have been married to each other, the law of that place shall, for the purposes of this section, be taken not to recognise the status of illegitimacy. - (3) Subsection (1) applies in relation to a child: - (a) whether the child was born before or after the commencement of section 25 of the Marriage Amendment Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 91 Act 1985 , whether the marriage of the parents of the child took place before or after that commencement and whether or not the child was still living at the time of the marriage or, in the case of a child born before that commencement, at that commencement; and - (b) in the case of a child born illegitimate who, by virtue of the marriage of the child’s parents, was legitimated by the law of the place where a parent of the child was domiciled at the time of the marriage-whether or not the law of the place in which that parent or the other parent was domiciled at the time of the birth of the child permitted or recognised legitimation by subsequent marriage. ## 91 Legitimacy of children of certain void marriages - (1) Subject to this section, a child of a marriage that is void shall be deemed for all purposes to be the legitimate child of his or her parents as from his or her birth or the commencement of this Act, whichever was the later, if, at the time of the intercourse that resulted in the birth of the child or the time when the ceremony of marriage took place, whichever was the later, either party to the marriage believed on reasonable grounds that the marriage was valid. - (2) Subsection (1) does not apply unless one of the parents of the child was domiciled in Australia at the time of the birth of the child or, having died before that time, was domiciled in Australia immediately before his or her death. - (3) Subsection (1) applies in relation to a child whether the child was born before or after the commencement of this Act, whether the ceremony of marriage took place before or after the commencement of this Act and whether the ceremony of marriage took place in or outside Australia. - (4) This section does not apply in relation to a child so as to affect any estate, right or interest in real or personal property to which a person has become, or may become, entitled, either mediately or immediately, in possession or expectancy, by virtue of a 90 disposition that took effect, or by devolution by law on the death of a person who died, before the birth of the child or the commencement of this Act, whichever was the later. ## 92 Declarations of legitimacy etc. - (1) A person may apply to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 1), the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 2), a Family Court of a State or the Supreme Court of a State or Territory for an order declaring: - (a) that the person is the legitimate child of his or her parents; or - (b) that the person or his or her parent or child or a remoter ancestor or descendant is or was a legitimated person; - and the Court may, in its discretion, make the order. - (2) The Supreme Courts of the States and any Family Court of a State are invested with federal jurisdiction and jurisdiction is conferred, to the extent that the Constitution permits, on the Supreme Courts of the Territories, to hear and determine applications under this section. - (4) The Court to which an application under this section is made may: - (a) direct that notice of the application be given to such persons (who may include the Attorney-General of the Commonwealth or of a State or the Northern Territory) as the Court thinks fit; - (b) direct that a person be made a party to the application; or - (c) permit a person having an interest in the matter to intervene in, and become a party to, the proceedings. - (5) Where the Court makes an order upon the application, it may include in the order such particulars in relation to the legitimacy or legitimation of the person to whom it relates as the Court finds to be established. - (6) An order made under this section binds the Crown in right of the Commonwealth or of a State or the Northern Territory, whether or Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 93 not notice was given to the Attorney-General of the Commonwealth or of that State or Territory, but does not affect: - (a) the rights of another person unless that other person was: - (i) a party to the proceedings for the order or a person claiming through such a party; or - (ii) a person to whom notice of the application for the order was given or a person claiming through such a person; or - (b) an earlier judgment, order or decree of a court of competent jurisdiction, whether in exercise of federal jurisdiction or not. - (7) The Governor-General may, by Proclamation, fix a date as the date on and after which proceedings under this section may not be instituted in, or transferred to, the Supreme Court of a State or Territory specified in the Proclamation and that Supreme Court shall not hear and determine any such proceedings so instituted in, or transferred to, that Court on or after that date. ## 93 Operation of certain State and Territory laws - (1) Nothing in this Part shall be taken to operate in relation to a child so as to affect the validity or effect of an adoption of the child, whether the adoption took place before, or takes place after, the commencement of this Act. - (2) Nothing in this Part shall be taken to exclude the operation of a law of a State or Territory in so far as it provides for the making or altering of entries in a register, but a legitimation under this Part is not affected by any failure to comply with such a law. - (3) Nothing in this Part shall be taken to affect the validity or effect of a law of a State or Territory (however expressed and whether enacted before or after the commencement of this subsection) that operates to require a child born to a woman as a result of the carrying out of an artificial conception procedure in relation to the woman: - (a) to be treated as the child of the woman; - (b) to be treated as the child of the woman and a particular man; or - (c) to be treated as the child of a particular man. Marriage Act 1961 93 Compilation No. 32 ## Part VII-Offences ## 94 Bigamy - (1) A person who is married shall not go through a form or ceremony of marriage with any person. - Penalty: Imprisonment for 5 years. - (1A) For the purposes of an offence against subsection (1), strict liability applies to the physical element of circumstance, that the person was married when the form or ceremony took place. Note: For strict liability , see section 6.1 of the Criminal Code . - (2) It is a defence to a prosecution for an offence against subsection (1) if the defendant proves that: - (a) at the time of the alleged offence, the defendant believed that his or her spouse was dead; and - (b) the defendant’s spouse had been absent from the defendant for such time and in such circumstances as to provide, at the time of the alleged offence, reasonable grounds for presuming that the defendant’s spouse was dead. - (3) For the purposes of subsection (2), proof by a defendant that the defendant’s spouse had been continually absent from the defendant for the period of 7 years immediately preceding the date of the alleged offence and that, at the time of the alleged offence, the defendant had no reason to believe that the defendant’s spouse had been alive at any time within that period is sufficient proof of the matters referred to in paragraph (2)(b). - (3A) To avoid doubt, section 9.2 of the Criminal Code (mistake of fact) does not apply in relation to the matters mentioned in subsections (2) and (3). 94 - (4) A person shall not go through a form or ceremony of marriage with a person who is married, knowing, or having reasonable grounds to believe, that the latter person is married. - Penalty: Imprisonment for 5 years. - (5) It is not an offence against this section for a person to go through a form or ceremony of marriage with that person’s own spouse. - (6) In a prosecution for an offence against this section, the spouse of the accused person is a competent and compellable witness for either the prosecution or the defence. - (7) In a prosecution for an offence against this section, the fact that, at the time of the alleged offence, a person was married shall not be taken to have been proved if the only evidence of the fact is the evidence of the other party to the alleged marriage. - (7A) In a prosecution for an offence against this section, the court may receive as evidence of the facts stated in it a document purporting to be either the original or a certified copy of a certificate, entry or record of a marriage alleged to have taken place whether in Australia or elsewhere. - (8) This section operates to the exclusion of any law of a State or Territory making it an offence: - (a) for a person who is married to go through a form or ceremony of marriage with any person; or - (b) for a person to go through a form or ceremony of marriage with a person who is married; but does not affect the operation of such a law in relation to acts and things done before the commencement of this Act. ## 95 Marrying person not of marriageable age etc. Marriage Act 1961 95 Compilation No. 32 - (1) A person shall not go through a form or ceremony of marriage with a person who is not of marriageable age. Penalty: Imprisonment for 5 years. ## Part VII Offences ## Section 95 - (1A) For the purposes of an offence against subsection (1), strict liability applies to the physical element of circumstance, that the person is not of marriageable age. Note: For strict liability , see section 6.1 of the Criminal Code . - (2) A person shall not go through a form or ceremony of marriage with a person (in this subsection referred to as the other party to the marriage ) who is a minor unless: - (a) the other party to the marriage has previously been married; or - (b) the written consent of the person, or of each of the persons, whose consent to the marriage of the other party to the marriage is required by this Act, has been given or dispensed with in accordance with this Act. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. - (2A) For the purposes of an offence against subsection (2), strict liability applies to the physical element of circumstance, that the other party to the marriage is a minor. Note: For strict liability , see section 6.1 of the Criminal Code . - (3) It is a defence to a prosecution for an offence against subsection (1) if the defendant proves that he or she believed on reasonable grounds that the person with whom he or she went through the form or ceremony of marriage was of marriageable age. - (3A) To avoid doubt, section 9.2 of the Criminal Code (mistake of fact) does not apply in relation to the matters mentioned in subsection (3). - (4) It is a defence to a prosecution for an offence against subsection (2) if the defendant proves that he or she believed on reasonable grounds: - (a) that the person with whom he or she went through the form or ceremony of marriage had attained the age of 18 years or had previously been married; or 96 - (b) that the consent of the person, or of each of the persons, referred to in paragraph (2)(b) had been given or dispensed with in accordance with this Act. - (5) To avoid doubt, section 9.2 of the Criminal Code (mistake of fact) does not apply in relation to the matters mentioned in subsection (4). ## 98 Contravention of subsection 13(3) A person shall not subscribe his or her name as a witness to the signature of a person to a consent to the marriage of a minor in contravention of subsection 13(3). Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. ## 99 Solemnising marriage where notice or declaration not given or made etc. - (1) An authorised celebrant shall not solemnise a marriage under Division 2 of Part IV in contravention of section 42 or 44. - (3) An authorised celebrant shall not solemnise a marriage under Division 3 of Part V in contravention of section 74, 75, 76, 77 or 78. - (4) A person shall not solemnise a marriage in contravention of section 13 or 112. - (5) A person shall not solemnise a marriage in contravention of subsection 33(3). - (6) A person shall not, in contravention of subsection 113(1), purport to solemnise a marriage between persons who inform the first-mentioned person that they are already legally married to each other or whom the first-mentioned person knows or has reason to believe to be already legally married to each other. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. Marriage Act 1961 ## 100 Solemnising marriage where reason to believe there is a legal impediment A person shall not solemnise a marriage, or purport to solemnise a marriage, if the person has reason to believe that there is a legal impediment to the marriage or if the person has reason to believe the marriage would be void. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. ## 101 Solemnisation of marriage by unauthorised person A person shall not solemnise a marriage, or purport to solemnise a marriage, at a place in Australia or under Part V unless the person is authorised by or under this Act to solemnise marriages at that place or under that Part, as the case may be. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. ## 103 Going through ceremony of marriage before person not authorised to solemnise it A person shall not go through a form or ceremony of marriage with another person knowing that the person solemnising the marriage is not authorised to solemnise it and having reason to believe that the other party to the marriage believes that the person solemnising the marriage is so authorised. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. ## 104 Giving defective notice etc. A person shall not give a notice to an authorised celebrant under section 42, or sign a notice under section 42 after it has been given, if, to the knowledge of that person, the notice contains a false statement or an error or is defective. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. 98 ## 105 Failure to comply with notice under section 51 - (1) A person on whom a notice under section 51 has been duly served shall not fail to comply with the notice. Penalty: 1 penalty unit. - (2) Subsection (1) does not apply if the person has a reasonable excuse. Note: A defendant bears an evidential burden in relation to the matter in subsection (2) (see subsection 13.3(3) of the Criminal Code ). - (3) Subsection (1) is an offence of strict liability. Note: For strict liability , see section 6.1 of the Criminal Code . ## 106 Failure by interpreter to furnish certificate etc. A person who has acted as interpreter at the solemnisation of a marriage shall not: - (a) fail to comply with subsection 112(3); or - (b) intentionally make a false statement in a certificate under that subsection. Penalty: Imprisonment for 6 months or 5 penalty units. 99 ## Part VIII-Transitional provisions ## 107 Exercise of powers etc. before commencement of Act - (1) Section 4 of the Acts Interpretation Act 1901 applies in relation to the provisions that are to come into operation on a date to be fixed by Proclamation as if those provisions were an Act. - (2) For the purpose of enabling marriages to be solemnised in Australia in accordance with Division 2 of Part IV from the commencement of this Act: - (a) a notice of intention to marry may be given, and a declaration may be made, under section 42; - (b) any consent to the marriage of a minor required by Part II may be given; and - (c) any power conferred on a prescribed authority may be exercised; at any time after the day on which the Proclamation under section 2 has been published in the Gazette and before the commencement of this Act, as if the provisions of this Act to which the Proclamation relates had come into operation on that day. - (3) For the purposes of the operation of subsection (2), any person who is authorised under a law of a State or Territory to solemnise marriages shall be deemed to be an authorised celebrant. ## 108 Application of offence provisions to notices etc. given before commencement of this Act - (1) The provisions of sections 98 and 104 apply to and in relation to acts done, notices given and declarations made before the commencement of this Act in relation to marriages that take place in Australia after the commencement of this Act or that have not taken place but were intended to be solemnised in Australia in accordance with this Act. 100 - (2) For the purposes of the application of sections 98 and 104 to and in relation to an act done or a notice given at a time before the commencement of this Act in relation to such a marriage, a person who at that time was authorised under a law of a State or Territory to solemnise marriages shall be deemed to have been an authorised celebrant at that time. ## 109 Consents etc. given under State or Territory laws - (1) A consent in writing to the marriage of a minor given by a person before the commencement of this Act in accordance with the law of a State or Territory shall, if the marriage in respect of which the consent was given takes place after the commencement of this Act in that State or Territory, be deemed to have been duly given and witnessed for the purposes of section 13. - (2) Where the consent of a person to the marriage of a minor has, before the commencement of this Act, been dispensed with in pursuance of a law of a State or Territory, the consent of that person shall, if the marriage in respect of which it was dispensed with takes place after the commencement of this Act in that State or Territory, be deemed to have been dispensed with by a prescribed authority under Part II. - (3) Where a person or authority has, before the commencement of this Act, in pursuance of a law of a State or Territory, given consent to the marriage of a minor in place of the consent of a person whose consent would otherwise be required, the consent so given shall, if the marriage in respect of which the consent was given takes place after the commencement of this Act in that State or Territory, be deemed to have been given by a magistrate under Part II. Marriage Act 1961 101 Compilation No. 32 ## Part IX-Miscellaneous ## 111 Certain marriages and legitimations to be valid in all the Territories - (1) A marriage solemnised in accordance with Division 2 of Part IV that is a valid marriage in Australia is valid in the external Territories. - (2) A person who is, or is deemed to be, as from a particular time, the legitimate child of that person’s parents by virtue of section 89, 90 or 91 is, or shall be deemed to be, for all purposes the legitimate child of that person’s parents as from that time in the external Territories. - (3) The operation of subsection (2) in relation to a child to whom section 89 or 91 applies is subject to a like qualification to that provided by subsection 89(5) or 91(4), as the case requires. - (4) Subsection (2) shall not be taken to operate in relation to a child so as to affect the validity or effect of an adoption of the child, whether the adoption took place before, or takes place after, the commencement of this Act. ## 111A Abolition of action for breach of promise - (1) A person is not entitled to recover damages from another person by reason only of the fact that that other person has failed to perform a promise, undertaking or engagement to marry the first-mentioned person. - (2) This section does not affect an action for the recovery of any gifts given in contemplation of marriage which could have been brought if this section had not been enacted. 102 ## 112 Interpreters at marriage ceremonies - (1) Subject to this section, where the person by whom a marriage is to be solemnised considers that it is desirable to do so, the person may use the services of an interpreter, not being a party to the marriage, in or in connexion with the ceremony. - (2) A person shall not solemnise a marriage in or in connexion with the ceremony of which the services of an interpreter are used unless the person has received a statutory declaration by the interpreter stating that the interpreter understands, and is able to converse in, the languages in respect of which he or she is to act as interpreter. - (3) A person who has acted as interpreter in or in connexion with a ceremony of marriage shall, forthwith after the ceremony has taken place, furnish to the person solemnising the marriage a certificate signed by the first-mentioned person of the faithful performance of the first-mentioned person’s services as interpreter. - (4) This section applies in relation to marriages to which Division 2 of Part IV applies and marriages under Part V. ## 113 Second marriage ceremonies - (1) Except in accordance with this section: - (a) persons who are already legally married to each other shall not, in Australia or under Part V, go through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other; and - (b) a person who is authorised by this Act to solemnise marriages shall not purport to solemnise a marriage in Australia or under Part V between persons who inform the first-mentioned person that they are already legally married to each other or whom the first-mentioned person knows or has reason to believe to be already legally married to each other. Marriage Act 1961 103 Compilation No. 32 - (2) Where: ## Section 113 - (a) 2 persons have gone through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other, whether before or after the commencement of this Act; and - (b) there is a doubt: - (i) whether those persons are legally married to each other; - (ii) where the form or ceremony of marriage took place outside Australia, whether the marriage would be recognised as valid by a court in Australia; or - (iii) whether their marriage could be proved in legal proceedings; those persons may, subject to this section, go through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other in accordance with Division 2 of Part IV or under Part V as if they had not previously gone through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other. - (3) Where 2 persons wish to go through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other in pursuance of subsection (2), they shall furnish to the person by whom the form or ceremony is to take place or be performed: - (a) a statutory declaration by them stating that they have previously gone through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other and specifying the date on which, the place at which and the circumstances in which they went through that form or ceremony; and - (b) a certificate by a barrister or solicitor, being a certificate endorsed on the statutory declaration, that, on the facts stated in the declaration, there is, in his or her opinion, a doubt as to one of the matters specified in paragraph (2)(b). - (4) The person by whom a form or ceremony of marriage takes place or is performed in pursuance of subsection (2) shall make an endorsement in accordance with the regulations on each certificate issued in respect of it. - (4A) A marriage which takes place after the commencement of this subsection in pursuance of subsection (2) is not invalid by reason of any failure to comply with the requirements of subsection (3) or (4). 104 - (5) Nothing in this Act shall be taken to prevent 2 persons who are already legally married to each other from going through a religious ceremony of marriage with each other in Australia where those persons have: - (a) produced to the person by whom the ceremony is to be performed a certificate of their existing marriage; and - (b) furnished to that person a statement in writing, signed by them and witnessed by that person, that: - (i) they have previously gone through a form or ceremony of marriage with each other; - (ii) they are the parties mentioned in the certificate of marriage produced with the statement; and - (iii) they have no reason to believe that they are not legally married to each other or, if their marriage took place outside Australia, they have no reason to believe that it would not be recognised as valid in Australia. - (6) The provisions of sections 42, 44, 50 and 51 do not apply to or in relation to a religious ceremony of marriage in accordance with subsection (5) and the person by whom the ceremony is performed shall not: - (a) prepare or issue in respect of it any certificate of marriage under or referring to this Act; or - (b) issue any other document to the parties in respect of the ceremony unless the parties are described in the document as being already legally married to each other. - (7) A person who is not an authorised celebrant does not commit an offence against section 101 by reason only of his or her having performed a religious ceremony of marriage between parties who have complied with the requirements of subsection (5) of this section. ## 114 Correction of errors in marriage registries - (1) In this section, the registrar means the Registrar of Foreign Marriages or the Registrar of Overseas Marriages. 105 ## Part IX Miscellaneous ## Section 115 - (2) Where the registrar is satisfied that a register of marriages kept by the registrar contains an error or a mis-statement in, or an omission from, the particulars of a marriage entered in it, the registrar may correct the register by causing the true particulars of the marriage or the particulars omitted from the register, as the case may be, to be entered in the margin of the register opposite to the entry of the marriage. - (3) Where the registrar causes particulars to be entered in the margin of a register under this section, the registrar shall sign his or her name immediately under those particulars and write in the margin the date on which the particulars were so entered. - (4) The registrar may, before correcting an error, mis-statement or omission under this section, require the true particulars of the marriage, or the particulars omitted from the register, as the case may be, to be verified by the statutory declaration of the parties to the marriage or a person who satisfies the registrar that that person has personal knowledge of those particulars. - (5) Subject to subsection (6), where a copy of, or extract from, an entry in a register of marriages that has been corrected under this section is issued, the copy or extract shall contain the particulars that would be contained in the entry if the particulars in fact contained in the entry were corrected so as to accord with the particulars entered in the margin of the register. - (6) A copy of, or extract from, an entry in a register shall contain the particulars contained in the entry and the particulars entered, in relation to the entry, in the margin of the register if the registrar is satisfied that the person requiring a copy or extract has proper reasons for requiring a copy or extract containing those particulars. ## 115 Publication of lists of authorised celebrants - (1) The Minister shall cause to be published in such manner as the Minister considers appropriate: - (a) a list of the persons who are ministers of religion registered under Subdivision A of Division 1 of Part IV; and 106 Compilation No. 32 Marriage Act 1961 - (aa) a list of the persons who, or positions that, are authorised to solemnise marriages under Subdivision B of Division 1 of Part IV; and - (ab) a list of the persons who are marriage celebrants; and - (ac) a list of the persons who are religious marriage celebrants; and - (b) a list of the persons who, or positions that, are prescribed authorities in relation to marriages in Australia. - (2) A list of persons published under subsection (1) must show the information set out in the following table for each person included in the list. ## Requirements for lists Item The list of persons published under this provision … must show the following information … 1 paragraph (1)(a) the full name, designation, address and religious denomination of each minister of religion registered under Subdivision A of Division 1 of Part IV. 2 paragraph (1)(aa) the full name, designation (if any) and address of each person in the list who is authorised to solemnise marriages under Subdivision B of Division 1 of Part IV. 3 paragraph (1)(ab) the information required to be entered in the register of marriage celebrants for the purposes of subsection 39D(5). 3A paragraph (1)(ac) the information required to be entered in the register of marriage celebrants for the purposes of subsection 39D(5); and where appropriate, the religious body or religious organisation to which the person belongs. Marriage Act 1961 ## Part IX Miscellaneous ## Section 116 ## Requirements for lists Item The list of persons published under this provision … must show the following information … 4 paragraph (1)(b) full name, designation (if any) and address of each person in the list who is a prescribed authority. Inclusion of names in latest list-prima facie evidence - (3) The inclusion of the name of a person in the latest list published under paragraph (1)(a), (aa), (ab) or (ac) is prima facie evidence that the person is authorised to solemnise marriages under Division 1 of Part IV. - (4) The inclusion of the name of a person in the latest list published under paragraph (1)(b) is prima facie evidence that the person is a prescribed authority. Inclusion of positions in latest list-prima facie evidence - (5) The inclusion of a position in the latest list published under paragraph (1)(aa) is prima facie evidence that a person in, or acting in, the position is authorised to solemnise marriages under Division 1 of Part IV. - (6) The inclusion of a position in the latest list published under paragraph (1)(b) is prima facie evidence that a person in, or acting in, the position is a prescribed authority. ## 116 Judicial notice of signatures of Registrars, celebrants etc. - (1) Judicial notice shall be taken of the signature of a person who holds or has held, or is acting or has acted in, the office of: - (a) Registrar of Foreign Marriages; - (b) Deputy Registrar of Foreign Marriages; - (c) Registrar of Overseas Marriages; 108 Compilation No. 32 Marriage Act 1961 appearing on a document under this Act and of the fact that, at the time the document was signed by the person, he or she held, or was acting in, that office. - (2) Judicial notice shall be taken of the signature of a person who is, or has been, an authorised celebrant appearing on a document under this Act and of the fact that, at the time the document was signed by the person, he or she was an authorised celebrant, as the case may be. - (3) Judicial notice shall be taken of the signature of a person who has, at any time: - (a) performed the functions of a Judge or magistrate under Part II of this Act or of a Judge under the Part repealed by the Marriage Amendment Act 1976 ; - (b) performed the functions of a prescribed authority under this Act; or - (c) kept a register under Division 1 of Part IV of this Act; appearing on a document under this Act and of the fact that, at the time the document was signed, that person was duly authorised to perform those functions or to keep that register, as the case may be. ## 117 Evidence of registration etc. - (1) A certificate under the hand of a person by whom a register under a Subdivision of Division 1 of Part IV (other than Subdivision C or D of that Division) is kept stating that a specified person was, at a date specified in the certificate, registered under that Subdivision in the register kept by the first-mentioned person for the purposes of that Subdivision is evidence that the person specified in the certificate was registered under that Subdivision at the date so specified. - (2) A certificate under the hand of the Minister stating that a person specified in the certificate was not, at a date specified in the certificate, registered under a Subdivision of Division 1 of Part IV (other than Subdivision C or D of that Division) is evidence that Marriage Act 1961 109 ## Section 118 the person specified in the certificate was not registered under that Subdivision at the date so specified. - (2A) A certificate under the hand of the Minister stating that a specified person was at a specified date: - (a) a person authorised under section 39 to solemnise marriages at the place and subject to the conditions (if any) specified in the certificate; or - (b) an officer or employee of the Commonwealth, a State or a Territory, appointed by the Minister to be a prescribed authority; is prima facie evidence of the matters stated in the certificate. - (3) In a prosecution for an offence against this Act, an averment by the prosecutor in the information or complaint that the defendant or any other person specified in the averment is identical with the person specified in a certificate under this section is evidence of that fact. ## 118 Right of ministers of religion to receive fees Nothing in this Act affects the right of a minister of religion who is an authorised celebrant to require or receive a fee for or in respect of the solemnisation of a marriage. ## 119 Approved forms - (1) The Minister may, in writing, approve a form for the purpose of a provision of this Act or the regulations. If the Minister approves a form, that form must be used. - (2) An approved form may do any of the following: - (a) require the form to be accompanied by specified documents; - (b) require documents or information to be verified by statutory declaration. - (3) The Minister must ensure that an approved form is in force for each of the following provisions: 110 - (a) subsection 30(1) (application for registration of minister of religion); - (b) subsection 39D(1) (application for registration as a marriage celebrant); - (c) paragraph 42(1)(a) (notice of intended marriage); - (d) paragraph 42(1)(c) (declaration by parties to marriage); - (e) paragraph 50(1)(b) (official certificate of marriage); - (f) subsection 74(1) (declaration to be made before authorised celebrant); - (g) paragraph 80(1)(b) (official certificate of marriage); - (h) subsection 84(1) (certificate of overseas marriage); - (i) subsection 112(3) (interpreter’s certificate); - (j) any provision of the regulations specified by the regulations for the purpose of this paragraph. ## 120 Regulations The Governor-General may make regulations, not inconsistent with this Act, prescribing all matters which by this Act are required or permitted to be prescribed, or which are necessary or convenient to be prescribed for carrying out or giving effect to this Act, and, in particular: - (b) prescribing the practice and procedure in relation to inquiries under Part II by a Judge or a magistrate, including the summoning of witnesses, the production of documents, the taking of evidence on oath or affirmation, the administering of oaths or affirmations and the payment to witnesses of fees and of allowances for expenses; - (c) prescribing the manner of making application for registration under Division 1 of Part IV; - (e) prescribing the conditions under which, and the manner in which, marriages solemnised in accordance with the law of an overseas country may be registered under section 84; - (f) making provision for the recognition in Australia of marriages solemnised under a law in force in a place outside Australia, being a law which makes provision appearing to Marriage Act 1961 ## Section 120 112 Compilation No. 32 the Governor-General to be similar to any provision made by Part V; - (g) requiring the furnishing, to the persons by whom registers of births are kept under a law of the Commonwealth or a State or of any Territory, of information with respect to: - (i) legitimations effected by sections 89, 90 and 91; and - (ii) orders made under section 92; - (h) making provision for and in relation to: - (i) registration of legitimations effected by sections 89, 90 and 91 in cases where the births of the legitimated children are not registered in any register of births kept under a law of the Commonwealth or a State or of any Territory (including provision requiring the furnishing of information); and - (ii) the issue and effect of certificates in respect of any such registration; and - (j) prescribing penalties not exceeding a fine of 2 penalty units for offences against the regulations. Marriage Act 1961 ## Schedule 1-Consent to the marriage of a minor Note: See section 14. ## 1 Consent to the marriage of a minor The following table sets out whose consent is required before a minor may marry. ## Persons whose consent is required Item If … then this person’s consent is required … 1 (a) at least one parent of the minor is alive; and (b) there is no court order in force in relation to parental responsibility for the minor; and (c) the minor does not have a guardian as referred to in item 3 or 4 of this table each parent. 2 there is a court order in force granting parental responsibility for the minor to one or more persons (whether or not those persons are the minor’s parents) each person who, under the order, has (whether explicitly or implicitly) parental responsibility for giving consent to the minor’s marriage. 3 there is a guardianship order in force that: (a) relates to the minor; and (b) is made by a court, tribunal or other body of a State or Territory; each guardian of the minor under the order. Marriage Act 1961 113 Compilation No. 32 Clause 1 Persons whose consent is required Persons whose consent is required Item If … then this person’s consent is required … 4 a person is under an Act of the Commonwealth, a State or a Territory, or an Ordinance of a Territory, a guardian of the minor to the exclusion of any other person each guardian of the minor under the Act or Ordinance. 5 a person is under an Act of a State or a Territory, or an Ordinance of a Territory, a guardian of the minor in addition to any other person whose consent is required in accordance with this table each guardian of the minor under the Act or Ordinance and each other person whose consent is required in accordance with this table. 6 no other item of this table applies a prescribed authority. --- # What Is a Marriage Celebrant? Australian Guide URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/marriage-celebrant An Australian guide to marriage celebrants # What is a marriage celebrant in Australia? A Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant is authorised to solemnise marriages under Australian law. Civil celebrants manage the required legal process while giving couples the freedom to shape a ceremony around their own values, culture and plans. ![Marriage Celebrant, Josh Withers](/_astro/Sydney%20Marriage%20Celebrant.D6nxXzAM_1KHydv.jpeg) FAQs ## Frequently Asked Questions Marriage celebrancy is a uniquely Australian societal role - ### What is a marriage celebrant? As a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant, I'm authorised to conduct legal marriage ceremonies in Australia. It's my responsibility to ensure marriages comply with the Marriage Act 1961 and Marriage Regulations 2017, while creating ceremonies that reflect each couple's wishes. It's a role that combines legal expertise with the privilege of helping couples create meaningful celebrations of their commitment. - ### Who can legally marry in Australia? In my role as a celebrant, I must ensure both parties are legally eligible to marry. This means being at least 18 years old and freely consenting to the marriage. I need to verify that neither person is currently married to someone else, and that they're not closely related. I take this responsibility seriously, as it's my duty to prevent invalid marriages from taking place. - ### What does it mean to be 'free to marry' in Australia? Being 'free to marry' means you are legally able to enter into a marriage. This requires that you are not currently married to another person (if previously married, you must provide divorce papers or death certificate of former spouse), are not in a prohibited relationship (closely related), are of marriageable age (18 years or older, with some rare court-approved exceptions), and can give real consent. Both parties must understand the nature and effect of marriage and freely consent to becoming husband and wife, without pressure, fraud, or duress. - ### How does the Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) process work? When you provide me with your Notice of Intended Marriage, I'll carefully check all details before accepting it. The one-month waiting period begins from the day I receive your completed NOIM, not from when you sign it. For instance, if I receive your NOIM on 1 June, the earliest possible wedding date would be 1 July. I'll guide you through the documentation needed and ensure everything is properly completed. - ### What documents do I need to provide? For your marriage, I'll need to sight original identity documents including your birth certificate or passport, photo ID, and if applicable, divorce papers or death certificates of previous spouses. Any documents not in English must be accompanied by official translations. I'll carefully verify all documents to ensure they meet the requirements. - ### What is the Monitum and when must it be said? The Monitum is a legally required statement that I must speak during your ceremony, before the vows are exchanged. The words are: 'I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.' These words establish the legal framework of marriage in Australia and must be heard by all present at the ceremony. - ### What are the legal vows and can they be changed? The minimum legal vows that each party must say are: 'I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, \[full name\], take you, \[other party's full name\], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse.' These exact words must be used and spoken clearly by each party. While you can add personal vows before or after these legal ones, the required words cannot be changed or reordered. The only permitted variation is the choice between 'wife,' 'husband,' or 'spouse.' These vows must be spoken after the Monitum and before signing the certificates. - ### What is involved in applying for a shortening of time? A shortening of time application must be made to a prescribed authority, usually a courthouse or registry office, and requires substantial evidence to support your request. Valid reasons include unavoidable work commitments, overseas travel arrangements, serious medical conditions, or legal proceedings that affect the wedding date. Religious or cultural requirements may also be considered, as might existing wedding arrangements that were made in error. The prescribed authority will carefully review your circumstances and supporting evidence before making a decision. This process involves additional fees and is not guaranteed to be approved, so couples should not make wedding arrangements assuming they will receive a shortening of time. - ### What if one party has been married before? When working with previously married couples, I must sight either their divorce papers or their former spouse's death certificate. These documents need to be originals or certified copies. If the divorce is very recent, I'll carefully check the timing to ensure it's finalised before we proceed with the NOIM. - ### Can we arrange our marriage if we're not currently in Australia? Yes, you can complete your marriage paperwork while overseas. The Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) can be witnessed in your current country by an Australian Consular Officer, an Australian Diplomatic Officer, a notary public, an authorised employee of the Commonwealth under the Consular Fees Act 1955, or an authorised employee of the Australian Trade Commission. Once witnessed, you can email me your scanned NOIM which will start the one-month waiting period. I'll need to sight your original identity documents when you arrive in Australia before the ceremony, but this doesn't affect the one-month waiting period. Your identity documents must be either in English or accompanied by official NAATI translations. Many of my couples complete their NOIMs from overseas, and I'll guide you through the process. Neither your visa status nor citizenship affects your ability to marry in Australia as long as you meet the other legal requirements for marriage. - ### What about couples where one person is still overseas? This is increasingly common in my practice. We can begin the NOIM process with one party overseas, but I'll need to sight their original identity documents when they arrive in Australia. If time is tight, we might need to consider a shortening of time application. I always advise couples in this situation to contact me well in advance so we can plan appropriately. - ### What happens if someone objects during the ceremony? If someone raises a legal impediment to the marriage during the ceremony, I'll likely pause proceedings and investigate the claim, despite the absurd nature of the event. This is different from dramatic movie-style objections - I'm only concerned with legal impediments like existing marriages or issues of consent. I'll handle any such situation professionally and discreetly. But also please note, this never happens. - ### Can we include religious or cultural elements in our ceremony? As a civil celebrant, I can incorporate religious or cultural elements into ceremonies as requested, provided they don't conflict with the legal requirements. However, I must ensure the legal components remain clear and distinct. I'll work with you to blend these elements respectfully while maintaining the ceremony's legal integrity. - ### What if we don't speak English fluently? When working with couples who aren't fluent in English, I must ensure a NAATI-qualified interpreter is present for the legal components of the ceremony. The interpreter will sign a statutory declaration, and I'll document their credentials. This ensures both parties fully understand the legal significance of marriage. - ### What happens if there's a mistake in the ceremony? If any mandatory element of the ceremony is missed or performed incorrectly, the marriage may not be legally valid. I must immediately contact the Attorney-General's Department for guidance if I realise a legal element was omitted or performed incorrectly. This could require the couple to have another ceremony to ensure their marriage is legally valid. - ### Can we get married anywhere? While marriages can be conducted in most locations, the venue must allow for the ceremony to be performed with dignity and solemnity. The location must be publicly accessible, identifiable by an address, and allow for the audible delivery of the legal vows. Safe and reasonable access for me, the couple, and witnesses must be ensured. Some locations may require permits or permission from local authorities. - ### What happens if it rains on our outdoor wedding? Every outdoor ceremony needs a wet weather backup plan to ensure the legal ceremony can proceed. This might be an indoor venue, covered area, or marquee. The ceremony location can be changed right up until the ceremony begins, as long as I'm informed and can verify the new location is suitable for a legal marriage ceremony. - ### How do you handle name variations on documents? I frequently work with couples whose documents show name variations. I need to establish a clear link between all versions of their names through official documentation. This might require additional evidence like change of name certificates or statutory declarations explaining the discrepancies. - ### What happens after the ceremony? After your ceremony, I'll submit all marriage documentation to the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages in the state where the marriage took place within 14 days. I maintain copies of all documents for my records as required by law. You can then apply for your official marriage certificate from the Registry, which you'll need for formal name change processes or other legal purposes. - ### What are your responsibilities as a celebrant? As a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant, I must complete the prescribed professional development annually and pay a registration fee each year. I maintain professional indemnity insurance, keep detailed records of all marriages, and stay current with legal requirements through the Attorney-General's Department. 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They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/marriage-license-to-get-married Mar 6, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 5 min read # Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. ![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) One of my favourite moments with couples is when they email me asking about getting their “marriage licence.” It’s a perfect opportunity to share one of the most beautiful aspects of Australia’s marriage laws that so many couples don’t realise. Here’s the simple truth: in Australia, there is no such thing as a marriage licence. I’ll say that again for the folks in the back – **Australia doesn’t have marriage licences**. It’s not a thing. Not a process. Not a requirement. Not a piece of paper you need to obtain before your wedding day. And honestly? That’s brilliant. When I explain this to couples, especially those who’ve been watching American films or chatting with friends overseas, there’s often a moment of genuine confusion. “But… how do we get permission to marry?” That’s the whole point – you don’t need anyone’s permission. ## The Most Progressive Marriage Laws in the World Australia’s approach to marriage is refreshingly straightforward and genuinely progressive. Our system operates on a fundamental principle: if you meet the basic requirements, you can get married. Full stop. These requirements are wonderfully simple: - You’re both 18 or over (there’s an exception if one party is 16 or 17, but I only mention it to stop celebrants emailing me about it when I don’t mention it) - You’re not already married to someone else - You’re not directly related (siblings, parent/child, etc.) - You both consent and genuinely want to marry each other - You give your celebrant at least one month’s notice That’s it. No permission slip from the government. No paying for a licence at a [courthouse](/registry-office). No expiry dates on when you can use your “permission” to marry. Instead, all you need to do is complete a Notice of Intended Marriage form with your celebrant - a [celebrant like me](https://hobartcelebrant.au) - at least one month before your wedding day. This notice period is required my law but the form doesn’t even go to the authorities until after your marriage ceremony. It’s not about getting “permission” – it’s about giving notice. ## How the Rest of the World Does It In contrast, many other countries have a process that explicitly requires couples to seek permission from the state. In the United States, couples must apply for a marriage licence, pay a fee, and receive approval before they can marry. These licences often expire within a certain timeframe – usually between 30-90 days – meaning if you don’t use it, you lose it and have to apply (and pay) again. Similar systems exist across Europe, Asia, and beyond, where couples must obtain specific authorisation before they can legally marry. ## Why Our System Is Better Australia’s approach demonstrates a profound respect for personal autonomy. Rather than positioning marriage as something the state grants permission for, our system treats marriage as a fundamental right that adults can freely choose to exercise. This framework: - **Respects your autonomy**: You don’t need the state’s permission to marry the person you love - **Reduces bureaucracy**: No extra trips to government offices or [courthouses](/registry-office) - **Eliminates unnecessary fees**: No licence fees to pay just for the right to marry - **Removes arbitrary timelines**: No stress about expiration dates on your “permission” ## What We Do Have Instead Rather than a licence system, Australia has: 1. **Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM)**: This form needs to be completed and lodged with your celebrant at least one month before your wedding. It’s giving notice, not asking permission. 2. **Official Certificate of Marriage**: After your ceremony, you’ll sign this certificate, which is then registered with Births, Deaths and Marriages in your state or territory. 3. **Commonwealth-registered Marriage Celebrants**: People like me who are authorised to solemnise marriages according to Australian law. ## A Legacy of Progressive Thinking This approach dates back to the Marriage Act 1961, which federalised marriage laws across Australia. It was remarkably forward-thinking for its time, and while we’ve made important updates (like marriage equality in 2017), this fundamental respect for individual autonomy has remained consistent. In my 15+ years as a celebrant, I’ve conducted thousands of ceremonies across Australia and internationally. This experience has only strengthened my appreciation for our marriage laws. When I’m working with couples in other countries, there’s often so much red tape around getting “permission” that it can take the shine off what should be a celebration of love, not bureaucracy. ## What You Actually Need To Do So if you’re planning to marry in Australia, here’s what you need instead of a licence: 1. **[Find a celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com) you connect with** (hello there! 👋) 2. **Complete the Notice of Intended Marriage** form with them at least one month before your wedding date 3. **Provide proof of identity** (usually birth certificate or passport) 4. **Show evidence of the end of any previous marriages** (if applicable) 5. **Turn up on the day, say your vows, and sign the paperwork** It’s beautifully simple, and I believe that’s exactly how it should be. Marriage is about love, commitment and building a life together – not jumping through administrative hoops. So next time you’re watching an American rom-com where the couple rushes to get their marriage licence before it expires, you can smile knowing that in Australia, we’ve got a better way. After all, your relationship doesn’t need a licence – just your heartfelt commitment to each other and a month’s notice to make it legal. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) ### [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) ### [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? 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Obviously, that’s the part where I carry most of the responsibility. The Attorney-General’s office has released guidelines for civil celebrants like myself, and I wanted to share a few key points from these documents on the blog. - One of the more technical aspects prior to your wedding day is this guideline: _“It is critical to your role to make sure that everything is done according to the Marriage Act and the Marriage Regulations and take all necessary steps to make sure the marriage will be valid.”_ That’s why I’ll ask you some questions when we first meet, such as your age and whether you’ve been married before, to ensure compliance with the law. - **Marriage is defined in law as** _“the union of 2 people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life”_ (Marriage Act 1961). Australia recognises marriage equality, so couples of any gender can marry. The law does not exclude people of other nationalities either; as long as you meet the [Marriage Act 1961](/marriage-act-1961) requirements, you can be married in Australia. - The guidelines also state that if you’re unhappy with my service, you can make a complaint to the Attorney-General’s Department. Details on how to do this are available on their website: [https://www.ag.gov.au](https://www.ag.gov.au). - All Commonwealth-registered celebrants like myself must undergo hours of ongoing professional development each year. This ensures we are continuously learning and striving to make your wedding day as seamless as possible. - **Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM):** By law, notice of a wedding must be given at least one month before the wedding day by submitting a NOIM form to your celebrant. However, don’t assume you can leave wedding planning to the last minute! - In some special circumstances, the one-month notice period can be shortened. For example, this might occur if the couple has employment-related or travel commitments, urgent medical reasons, religious considerations, or if an error occurred in giving notice. - The NOIM form must be signed and witnessed either in person or over a video call. - The Marriage Act allows others to participate in your ceremony under my supervision, but I am ultimately responsible for ensuring that the marriage complies with all legal requirements. For instance, if your uncle (who is not a registered celebrant) wants to run parts of the ceremony, I can supervise this arrangement - but I don’t have to agree. The validity of the marriage remains my legal responsibility. I keep a fuller, regularly reviewed version of this here: [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). There’s plenty more to know, but I thought I’d share a few points to give you insight into the behind-the-scenes legislation involved in your marriage! For more information, head to the official site: [ag.gov.au/celebrants](https://www.ag.gov.au/celebrants). - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/authorised-celebrant) ### [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jaeden— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jaeden-15x88vz) - [Aura & Jacob— Heartwood Cabin](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) - [Theresa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/theresa-0qu870b) --- # Melbourne Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/melbourne-celebrant # Melbourne Wedding Celebrant ## A Melbourne wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Tasmania and working regularly across Melbourne, the Yarra Valley, Mornington Peninsula and Geelong. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in Melbourne](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_CszW8.jpeg) ![](/maps/melbourne-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Melbourne ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Melbourne and Victorian couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's at a Melbourne CBD rooftop or a Yarra Valley vineyard. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at outdoor venues like wineries or gardens, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Travel Included Melbourne CBD, Yarra Valley, Geelong, Mornington Peninsula — travel is included in packages for ceremonies across Victoria. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee in Melbourne, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Built with the discipline of professional speaking: every part earns its place, the room stays with you, and nothing meaningful feels rushed. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start getting to know each other. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Melbourne or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee in Melbourne or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Melbourne and Victorian couples are saying - > "Josh made our intimate wedding ceremony at Montalto absolutely unforgettable, guiding the ceremony flawlessly and making everything effortless and personal." --- Phoebe Montalto · Red Hill South · Mornington Peninsula · Victoria - > "Josh was absolutely outstanding, funny, and charismatic. He made us feel incredibly comfortable and it is obvious how passionate he is about his job." --- Madalyn Victoria - > "Josh was a great laid, back, easy-going and modern celebrant- no off the book stuffy ceremony but a lot of laughter, easiness, bridal party and audience participation!" --- Shane & Matylda House At Smoko · Victorian High Country · Victoria [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings across Melbourne and Victoria. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure the words and the moment still belong unmistakably to the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Melbourne ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Melbourne Christian Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/melbourne-christian-celebrant # Melbourne Christian Wedding Celebrant ## A modern Christian wedding ceremony, grounded in faith and created around you I'm Josh Withers, a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant with a Pentecostal background and Bible college training. I create Christian ceremonies across Melbourne and the Yarra Valley, shaped around your faith, Scripture, prayer and personal vows. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian wedding ceremony in Melbourne](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_CszW8.jpeg) ![](/maps/melbourne-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Christian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries — creating Christian ceremonies grounded in faith and shaped around each couple. - ### Theological Foundation Bible college-trained with Pentecostal roots and a charismatic worship background, bringing a thoughtful theological foundation to your ceremony. - ### Custom Scripture Integration Bible verses woven naturally into your ceremony, selected around your faith journey, relationship and the promises you are making. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones for outdoor Victorian venues. Everyone hears the vows and scripture clearly, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your Christian ceremony will be emotionally resonant, biblically grounded, and legally solid. - ### Flexible Faith Expression From traditional liturgy to spirit-led spontaneity — the ceremony reflects your actual faith practice, not what you think a Christian wedding 'should' look like. - ### Contemporary Format Usually 18-20 minutes, shaped by modern worship and years of professional speaking — long enough to honour God, short enough to keep everyone present and engaged. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you want the ceremony to hold. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start exploring your faith story together. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Melbourne or via video call. I'll guide you through it. - ### Faith & ceremony conversations Coffee in Melbourne or video calls to discuss your faith journey, theology preferences, and vision. I'll create a Christian ceremony that reflects who you are as believers and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and spirit-led authenticity — creating the moment that anchors your celebration before God. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Melbourne and Victorian couples are saying - > "Josh made our intimate wedding ceremony at Montalto absolutely unforgettable, guiding the ceremony flawlessly and making everything effortless and personal." --- Phoebe Montalto · Red Hill South · Mornington Peninsula · Victoria - > "Josh was absolutely outstanding, funny, and charismatic. He made us feel incredibly comfortable and it is obvious how passionate he is about his job." --- Madalyn Victoria - > "Josh was a great laid, back, easy-going and modern celebrant- no off the book stuffy ceremony but a lot of laughter, easiness, bridal party and audience participation!" --- Shane & Matylda House At Smoko · Victorian High Country · Victoria [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed Christian weddings across Melbourne and Victoria. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure your faith and your story sound unmistakably like the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Christian ceremony that honours God? Faithful, personal and beautifully delivered. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/most-people-dont-know Nov 20, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. ![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) People that identify as good, professional, popular, expensive, talented, skilled. That’s what most of us think is required of a good wedding vendor. That a good [wedding photographer](/friends) would be good at photography, a good wedding celebrant would be a good public speaker, and so forth. Being good at your trade actually doesn’t make you good at weddings. > [ > > View this post on Instagram > > ](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DCdI9J-B0yy/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) > > [A post shared by Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant (@hellojoshwithers)](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DCdI9J-B0yy/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) Being good, great, let’s aim for excellent, at weddings is about being really good at your scope, but whilst being so good that you’re the coolest, calmest, confident cat in the room. The best wedding creators aren’t jsut skilled and talented people, but in that big day with everyone’s expectations - yours, your family’s, your guest’s - and all the moving parts, the weather, the things that change, the run sheet that is more of a dream than a reality, that amongst all those storms they are cool calm and collected. They are bringing value, not also running around with their hands in the air. I wish I could send this to the vendors I’ve been thinking about, but I don’t have permission to tell them how to live their life, so instead I’ll encourage everyone to either hire these cool cats to be at your wedding, or if you are a wedding creative, to be so good at your trade that you can be the coolest cat at the wedding. Also, it’s the season for specials, [discounts](/discount), and offers. If you’re still to book your celebrant or elopement, [hit reply](/contact) and I’ll let you know what Britt and I have on offer this month for weddings and elopements and Black Friday/Cyber Monday. - [wedding-vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [calm](/tag/calm) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/choosing-taste) ### [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) ### [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Charlotte— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charlotte-1yqohe5) - [Melissa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/melissa-0nwtfel) - [Rebecca— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-0q2vpoh) --- # Changing your name guide for after the wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/name-change # Changing your name guide for after the wedding ## Required Documentation Before starting the process, ensure you have: - Your official marriage certificate from Births, Deaths and Marriages (the ceremonial certificate from your celebrant won’t be accepted) - Current photo ID (such as your driver’s licence or passport) - Proof of your residential address (a recent rates notice, utility bill or bank statement) ## Priority 1: Essential Identity Documents 1. Driver’s Licence - Visit your state/territory transport authority: - NSW: Service NSW - VIC: VicRoads - QLD: Department of Transport and Main Roads - WA: Department of Transport - SA: Service SA - TAS: Service Tasmania - NT: MVR - ACT: Access Canberra - Bring your marriage certificate and current licence - Fees vary by state/territory - This becomes a crucial form of ID for other name changes 2. Medicare Card - Update through [myGov](https://my.gov.au) - Or visit a Services Australia centre - No fee applies - Request a replacement card with your new name - Remember to update your My Health Record at the same time 3. Passport - Lodge your application within 12 months of marriage or name change to avoid additional fees - Complete the overseas travel document amendment form (available on passports.gov.au) - Priority if you’re planning overseas travel - Can be done at Australia Post outlets that offer passport services ## Priority 2: Financial Institutions 4. Bank Accounts - Most major Australian banks allow online name changes through their apps or web banking - For banks requiring in-person visits, bring your marriage certificate and photo ID - Remember to update: - Transaction accounts - Savings accounts - Credit cards - Mortgage/home loans - Term deposits - BPAY details - PayID 5. Superannuation - Contact your super fund directly (most have online forms) - You may need certified copies of your marriage certificate - Consider updating your beneficiaries at the same time - If you have multiple super funds, update them all 6. Australian Taxation Office - Update through myGov - This automatically updates your TFN details - Ensures your tax returns and PAYG summaries are correct - Update your ABN details if you’re a sole trader or have a business ## Priority 3: Employment & Professional 7. Workplace Updates - Notify your organisation’s HR department - Update details for: - Payroll - Work email - Security passes - Business cards - LinkedIn and other professional profiles - Professional registrations (AHPRA, Law Society, etc.) - Working With Children Check/Blue Card - Police checks 8. Professional Memberships - Industry associations - Professional bodies - Union membership - Alumni associations - Professional insurance - TAFE/University qualifications registry ## Priority 4: Other Important Updates 9. Australian Electoral Commission - Update online through aec.gov.au - Or complete a new enrolment form - This is a legal requirement - you must update within 8 weeks - Check your state/territory electoral commission too 10. Healthcare - Update your details with: - GP clinic/medical centre - Dentist - Specialists - Private health insurance - Pharmacies (especially for prescription records) - MyGov vaccination records - Ambulance membership 11. Services & Utilities - Electricity provider - Gas provider - Water service - NBN/Internet provider - Mobile phone plan - Streaming services (Netflix, Stan, Binge, etc.) - Flybuys, Everyday Rewards, and other loyalty programs - Gym membership - Library card 12. Property & Insurance - Rental agreement/Real Estate Agent - Property title (through your state’s land registry) - Council rates - Insurance policies: - Home and contents - Car insurance - Life insurance - Income protection - Pet insurance ## Helpful Tips - Get several certified copies of your marriage certificate from JP or chemist - Create a spreadsheet to track all your name change requests - Take photos of all submitted forms for your records - Set up email forwarding if changing email addresses - Update social media accounts - Consider updating your will, power of attorney, and advance care directive - Keep your old ID until everything is updated - Some organisations may ask for a Name Change Statement - this is a free form available from Births, Deaths and Marriages ## Estimated Timeline - Priority 1 items: Complete within first month after receiving marriage certificate - Priority 2 items: Complete within 1-2 months - Priority 3 items: Complete within 2-3 months - Priority 4 items: Complete within 3-4 months ## Common Questions - You don’t have to change your name after marriage - it’s completely your choice - Both partners can change their name after marriage - Options include: - Taking your partner’s surname - Keeping your original surname - Hyphenating both surnames - Creating a combined surname - Using your original surname professionally and married name personally - Your birth certificate remains in your original name - You can revert to your previous name if you wish (may require additional documentation) --- Wondering about what else should you do [after your marriage ceremony](/after)? --- # No bridal party equals no stress URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/no-bridal-party Jun 29, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # No bridal party equals no stress Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests ![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Can we talk about bridal parties, and more importantly, why you don’t actually need one. Before you clutch your pearls, let me assure you: this isn’t an anti-friendship tirade. It’s a pro-friendship, pro-sanity, pro-saving-your-wallet-and-your-emotional-energy celebration of doing weddings the modern, relaxed way. Let’s dive in. ### The Cost of Matching Dresses and Drama First up, dollars and cents. Weddings are expensive already, and adding a bridal party multiplies those costs faster than you can say “champagne toast.” Matching outfits, bouquets, gifts, makeup, hair—you’re looking at a [budget](/withers-wedding-method) blowout before you’ve even considered the food and drink for extra people at your rehearsal dinner. And guess what? The people standing beside you don’t need a coordinating outfit to prove they love you. Spoiler: they already do. ### Friendship Under Pressure The quickest way to test a friendship? Put someone in a bridesmaid dress they didn’t choose or ask them to spend their holiday savings on a Vegas hens’ weekend. Even the closest friendships can fray under the weight of wedding planning, and having a bridal party can sometimes feel like handing out job descriptions instead of invitations to enjoy your day. Skip the title and let your friends just be your friends. No matching dresses required. ### Stress-Free Vibes Only Picture this: you, relaxed and radiant, walking into your wedding day with zero worries about who forgot their shoes or whether Uncle Steve’s speech is running too long. Without a bridal party, you cut out a whole layer of logistics. No organizing fittings. No managing who’s walking with who. Just you, your love, and a crew of people there to cheer you on without an itinerary in hand. ### The Day-of Posse Here’s the best part: just because you ditch the “official” bridal party doesn’t mean you go it alone. Have your besties with you while you get ready. Let them hype you up, pop some bubbly, and be there for the emotional moments. They can stand with you at the ceremony without the uniform of matching chiffon. The people who matter will still be there—without the job title, the expenses, or the stress. ### Keep It Personal At the end of the day, your wedding is about you and your partner committing to a life together. It’s not about whether your mate from uni feels obligated to buy heels they’ll only wear once. By keeping things simple, you’re not just saving money—you’re creating a celebration that focuses on what really matters: love, joy, and connection. So, let’s skip the bridal party and embrace the freedom of doing things your way. Your friendships (and your bank account) will thank you. - [bridal-party](/tag/bridal-party) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Lee & Courtney— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/lee-and-courtney-0udwo6e) - [Sascha & Jitesh— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sascha-and-jitesh-10gd875) - [Jessica— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-08710vi) --- # Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/oh-the-places-youll-go May 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. ![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I tell couples when they ask about wedding readings that I am more than capable of creating an awesome wedding ceremony without a reading, so if you’re going to have one, let it be awesome and read by someone who gets it and can read it with excitement. And my favourite wedding reading is by Dr Seuss: [Oh The Places You’ll Go](https://amzn.to/48z3qAP). Reading it from the book in the wedding ceremony is special too. I’ve edited the book version slightly below. --- ### The Josh Edit of “Oh The Place’s You’ll Go” Congratulations! Today is your day. You’re off to Great Places! You’re off and away! You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the _two_ who’ll decide where to go. You’ll look up and down streets. Look’em over with care. About some you will say, “I don’t choose to go there.” With your heads full of brains and your shoes full of feet, you’re too smart to go down a not-so-good street. And you may not find any you’ll want to go down. In that case, of course, you’ll head straight out of town. It’s opener there in the wide open air. Out there things can happen and frequently do to people as brainy and footsy as you. And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew. Just go right along. You’ll start happening too. Oh! The Places You’ll Go! And will you succeed? Yes! You will, indeed! (98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.) _Kids_, you’ll move mountains! So…be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray or Mordecai Ale Van Allen O’Shea {insert the couples name here}, you’re off to Great Places! Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting. So … get on your way! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/awesome-readings) ### [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [![All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kindegarten_eEm5KrqeT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/kindergarden-reading) ### [All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](/kindergarden-reading) Wedding reading about love, life, and the little things that matter most. An excerpt from All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) ### [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Skyler— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/skyler-0j5wxs4) - [Jessica & Clay— Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-and-clay-1qay5n2) - [Amanda & Anthony— Silent Hope House](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) --- # The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/on-wedding-awards Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) · 5 min read # The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’ve been thinking about awards in the wedding industry lately. You know the ones—those shiny plaques and digital badges proclaiming someone the “Best Celebrant” or “Top Photographer” of the year. They’re everywhere, proudly displayed on websites and social media profiles. But here’s the thing that’s been nagging at me: what does “best” even mean when it comes to something as deeply personal as a wedding? ## Fallacy of Objective Excellence in Subjective Art Unlike a 100-metre sprint where the winner is objectively determined by who crosses the finish line first, wedding services exist in a realm of subjectivity and emotional connection. There’s no stopwatch for how quickly I make a couple feel comfortable, no measuring tape for the depth of emotion in a ceremony. Malcolm Gladwell often references a psychological phenomenon called the **“peak-end rule”**—originally proposed by psychologist **Daniel Kahneman** and his colleague **Barbara Fredrickson**. This principle suggests that people judge an experience primarily based on how they felt at its peak moment and its end, rather than based on the average of every moment of the experience. Think about what this means for weddings. A celebrant might create the most heartfelt, personalised ceremony imaginable, but if the reception DJ later plays “Gangnam Style” during the first dance by mistake, or if it pours rain during photo time, those peak-end moments might shape the entire memory of the day. Dr. Elizabeth Dunn, a happiness researcher at the University of British Columbia, explains: > Our memories are not like videotapes that record every moment of an experience. Instead, we create memories based on a few critical moments. ## The Chemistry Factor When I meet with couples, there’s an intangible chemistry that either exists or doesn’t. Some couples walk into my office and within minutes, we’re finishing each other’s sentences and laughing like old friends. Others might find my style too relaxed or not traditional enough for their vision. Does that make me a better or worse celebrant? Of course not. It simply means I was the right fit for some and not for others. As wedding photographer and industry thought leader **Jasmine Star** puts it: > The best vendor for a wedding isn’t the one with the most awards, it’s the one who gets the couple on a soul level. ## The Contextual Nature of Excellence Every wedding is its own ecosystem of personalities, relationships, cultures, and emotions. A celebrant who masterfully navigates family tension at one wedding might struggle with the rapid-fire banter expected at another. **Seth Godin**, marketing philosopher and author, talks about this in his blog: “The mistake is believing that there’s one ‘best’ for everyone… Instead, there’s only the best for a particular situation, a particular need, a particular client.” I’ve conducted ceremonies in backyards with 15 guests and in luxury venues with 300 attendees. I’ve married couples who wanted religious elements woven throughout and others who preferred references to Star Wars instead of scripture. Each of these scenarios required different skills, different energy, different versions of me. ## The Award Industry Complex Let’s talk about how these awards actually work. Many require nominations or applications with fees attached. Some are voted on by the public (turning them into popularity contests rather than actual measures of quality), while others are judged by panels with varying degrees of industry knowledge. **Abby Larson**, founder of Style Me Pretty, writes: > The wedding industry has created a self-sustaining ecosystem of validation where vendors essentially reward each other for being part of the same network. I’ve seen talented newcomers shut out of these systems simply because they haven’t yet built the industry connections or social media following to get nominated, despite doing exceptional work. ## What Really Matters If not awards, then what should couples look for when choosing wedding vendors? I’d suggest three things: 1. **Authentic connection**: Do you genuinely enjoy talking with this person? Do they understand and respect your vision? 2. **Consistent quality**: Look beyond the highlight reel. Ask to see full galleries from [photographers](/friends), read unedited ceremony scripts from celebrants, listen to complete sets from musicians. 3. **Values alignment**: The vendors who will serve you best are those whose core values match yours, whether that’s creativity, traditionalism, inclusivity, luxury, or simplicity. As celebrant and author **Alicia Ostarello** writes in her book “Sacred Sendoffs”: “The right celebrant isn’t the one with the most accolades, but the one who makes you feel seen and understood in a way that will translate to your community on your wedding day.” ## What This Means For Us All I’m not suggesting that all wedding awards are meaningless or that accomplished professionals shouldn’t be recognised. Rather, I’m advocating for a more nuanced understanding of excellence in an inherently subjective field. For couples: Trust your instincts when meeting vendors. The rapport you feel is far more meaningful than any badge on their website. For vendors: Let’s focus on being the best for our specific couples rather than the best in some arbitrary, universal sense. For award organisations: Consider creating categories that reflect the diverse needs of couples rather than suggesting there can be a single “best” in any category. Maybe it’s a grading system? I’m still sad that Jennfer’s Wedding & Events of Australia system of awarding levels of acclaim to wedding vendors didn’t survive as a business system. She would award people a level, like I think I attained Platinum or Diamond or something like that and it meant that I was of a certain standard. And many, hopefully all, would reach such heights as we worked hard to reach set standards. --- At the end of the day, I’d rather be the right celebrant for 50 couples than the “best” celebrant who wasn’t quite right for anyone. Because when I stand at the top of the aisle, watching two people commit their lives to one another, surrounded by the people they love most—that moment isn’t about me or any award I might have. It’s about creating a ceremony that reflects exactly who they are and what they value. And there’s simply no measuring stick for that. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/choosing-taste) ### [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) ### [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/most-people-dont-know) ### [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Christie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/christie-1rifqw9) - [Samantha— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [Brittany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/brittany-1ssi0su) --- # One word that makes your wedding vows better URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/one-word Jul 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # One word that makes your wedding vows better One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. ![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I see a lot of wedding vows, I hear even more, and over my 7 or so years as a [marriage celebrant](/marriage-celebrant) I think I’ve become a bit of a ‘vow connoisseur’. On this blog I’ve written about wedding vows, and making [awesome wedding vows a few times](/tag/vows). But if you want to shortcut through all of that, and your time is short, here’s the ultimate writing guide: Replace the word “**I**” with “**you**”. The vows are for the other person getting married. They’re not for you. The vows are for your bride or groom. Saying “I” throughout makes them about you, but dropping “I” and moving to “you” refocuses the vows on the most important person in your life. Too much “I” can make the vows a naval-gazing experience. Even “I do” can get a bit insular. Take your commitment and let it shine toward your favourite human. Phrases like: - You make life better just by being in it - You bring calm to my chaos - You’re my favourite everything - You make me laugh when I need it most - You understand me like no one else ever has - You’re the reason I believe in love - You are home to me - You make ordinary moments feel extraordinary - You’ve taught me what real partnership looks like - You challenge me in all the right ways - You make me want to be a better person - You’ve changed my life just by being yourself - You make love feel easy, even when life isn’t - You’ve helped me grow without asking me to change - You give my life meaning and direction - You’re the best part of every day - You’ve made me feel seen, truly seen - You are my safe place - You’re the kind of person I want to grow old and weird with - You’ve loved me even when I wasn’t loveable **That’s how _you_ make amazing wedding vows!** --- Photo by [George Bowden](https://www.georgebowden.co) and [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com) - [vows](/tag/vows) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/example-wedding-vows) ### [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) ### [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Natalie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/natalie-1it4oin) - [Amanda— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-1sgaifg) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1xudsek) --- # An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/options-for-changing-your-name Jul 28, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. ![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) In Australia, there have always been three standard - and free - options for [changing your name after getting married](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding): - You both keep your birth/former surnames. - One of you takes the other’s surname. - You both hyphenate or combine your surnames. That’s it, right? Well, there’s a fourth option, and no one really talks about it. ## Create a Completely New Last Name Instead of one partner taking the other’s surname, you can both choose a **completely new surname** and start a fresh family name together. This means you aren’t tied to either family name line if you don’t want to be. You get to create a name that’s meaningful to you both, reflecting your new family unit in a way that feels modern and equal. It could be something connected to your shared interests, your favourite place, a word that feels powerful, or a name that simply sounds good. You can also keep your original surnames as your middle names if you want to keep that connection while still creating something new together. ## How It Works in Australia If you want to go this route in Australia, it’s a bit more paperwork-heavy than the standard married name change process. - You’ll need to apply for an **official change of name** through your state or territory’s Births, Deaths and Marriages registry (like [this one in Queensland](https://www.qld.gov.au/law/births-deaths-marriages-and-divorces/changing-your-name/changing-your-name-as-an-adult)). - This usually involves a form, ID documents, and a fee (varies by state, around $200). - Once processed, you’ll get a Change of Name certificate, which you’ll use to update your name on your passport, driver’s licence, bank accounts, and everywhere else. The side-quest to this is if one of you does this before one month before your wedding so it’s the name on your marriage paperwork, then the other person gets it for free. Or if you both get legally married with your old names you can then both go to the BDM to change them manually. This is also the same process you go through if you want to get legally married overseas. Your marriage is recognised in Australia but you don’t get the free name change. ## Why Consider It? - You want a new identity that represents your family, not just one side. - You want an equal approach without defaulting to the patriarchal or matriarchal line. - You want to symbolise a fresh chapter together. It’s a bit more effort, but it can be a meaningful act that marks the creation of your own family tribe, in your own way. ## Things to Think About - Check the rules in your specific state, as the process and fees can differ. - Think about the long-term implications (kids, legal documents, explaining it to family). - Remember, you don’t have to rush. You can make this decision any time after your wedding if it feels right. --- Name changes after marriage don’t have to be limited to tradition. If you want to create your own path, this fourth option is worth considering. --- The important takeaway is that name changing through marriage in australia, - doesn’t happen automatically, you have to choose - is limited to one person (regardless of gender) taking the other’s last name, or hyphentating - but you can change your name via a change of name process at the BDM if you want to get creative. - [names](/tag/names) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) ### [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/filling-out-noim-correctly) ### [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg)](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) ### [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jaeda— Queenstown](/wedding-testimonials/jaeda-0rzp189) - [Charli— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charli-018ikj2) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) --- # Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/peak-end Apr 25, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 6 min read # Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding Plan the ending of your wedding with the peak-end rule in mind, let science make your wedding experience happier. ![Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_s9g8uARzR?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Throughout our lives we’re given many opportunities to trust the science. Trust the science. Do the research. Learn from the data. But when it comes to planning a wedding, most people ignore one of the most useful things psychology has taught us: 1. We don’t remember experiences evenly. 2. We remember the big moments (the peaks). 3. And we remember how the wedding finishes (the end). That idea is called the **[peak-end rule](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peak%E2%80%93end_rule)**, and once you understand it, you’ll never look at wedding planning (or life) the same way again. ![A photo of a couple getting married at a wedding venue in Queenstown New Zealand with the best wedding celebrant Josh Withers who flew to New Zealand for their wedding from Hobart Tasmania photographed by George Bowden ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_celebrant_xzEa1Dcy-?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## The cold water study In 1993, Daniel Kahneman, Barbara Fredrickson, Charles Schreiber and Donald Redelmeier ran a wonderfully unpleasant experiment. They asked people to put a hand into painfully cold water, around 14°C, for sixty seconds. Then they did it again. Same cold water. Same sixty seconds. But this time, after the first minute, the participant had to keep their hand in the water for another thirty seconds while the water warmed slightly. So the second version was longer. Objectively, it was worse. More time. More discomfort. But when people were asked which version they’d rather repeat, many chose the longer one. Why? Because it ended slightly less badly. The ending softened the memory. ## The colonoscopy study And because apparently psychology wasn’t weird enough already, there’s also a colonoscopy study. I bet you didn’t think you were going to be reading about colonoscopies in a wedding article today, did you? In a randomised trial, Redelmeier, Katz and Kahneman studied patients having colonoscopies. One group had the standard procedure. The other group had the scope left in place for a short time at the end. It was still uncomfortable, but less painful than the main procedure. Objectively, that second group had a longer procedure. But subjectively, many remembered the whole thing as less unpleasant. Again, the ending changed the memory. The lesson isn’t that more pain is good. Please do not quote me on that at your next family lunch. The lesson is that a gentler ending can change how we remember the whole experience. ## The symphony ruined by a screech Kahneman once told a story about a man listening to a beautiful recording of a symphony. For twenty minutes, the music was glorious. Then, at the very end, there was a dreadful screeching sound. The man said it ruined the whole experience. But it hadn’t really ruined the experience. The twenty minutes of beautiful music had already happened. He had heard them. He had enjoyed them. What the screech ruined was the memory. And after something is over, the memory is the only part we get to keep. ![A photo of a couple getting married in Queenstown New Zealand by Tasmanian wedding celebrant Josh Withers photographed by George Bowden for the Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Queenstown__New_Zealand_elopement_celebrant_Josh_Withers_KtXCcOxi8?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## So what does this have to do with weddings? A wedding has an obvious peak. The ceremony. That’s the moment everything points towards. The vows. The rings. The kiss. The legal bit. The emotional bit. The bit where everyone finally gets to say, “Yep, this is why we’re here.” As a celebrant, I get to stand right in the middle of that peak. It’s magic. And my hope is that it’s so good it holds the rest of the day for you. But the ceremony might happen at 3pm. The wedding might end at 10pm. And there are seven whole hours between the peak and the ending. Seven hours of drinks, photos, canapés, family dynamics, speeches, waiting, eating, dancing, sore feet, tired kids, tired grandparents, drunk uncles, and that strange wedding phenomenon where everyone wants a deeply meaningful goodbye at exactly the same time. Usually after the first dance. Because they have babysitters to relieve. Or they need to travel. Or they need to be in bed. The end of your wedding can shape the way you remember the whole thing. ## Most couples don’t plan the ending Couples plan the ceremony (thanks for inviting me into it!). They plan the flowers. They plan the outfits. They plan the food, the drinks, the music, the photos, the transport, the accommodation, the seating chart, and whether Uncle Steve can be trusted near a microphone. But most couples don’t really plan the final hour. They assume the wedding will just gently end. It usually doesn’t. What often happens is this: The speeches finish. The first dance happens. The formalities are over. And then your guests slowly start leaving. Grandma needs to get to bed. Your sister and her partner need to relieve the babysitter. Someone has a long drive. Someone else has an early flight. A few people have had enough wine to become either extremely honest or extremely emotional. And suddenly, instead of ending the night on a high, you’re standing there for two hours being hugged, interrupted, thanked, cried on, photographed, and told about airport logistics. Romantic, isn’t it? ## Plan your exit So how do we fix this? You don’t need a scientifically optimised wedding. Please don’t become that person. But you should plan the ending. Not just the ceremony. Not just the reception. Not just the dance floor. The ending. Because the ending is what follows you home. ![Eloping on a mountain in Queenstown in New Zealand. Photo by George Bowden with The Elopement Collective. ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/queenstown_wedding_celebrant_JN86QQfw2?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Here are a few ways to give your wedding a better final memory: - Ghost your own reception while the energy is still high. - Plan a clear final moment, like a last dance, private drink, [farewell song](/wedding-songs), sparkler exit, or getaway car. - Keep your guest list to the people you actually want around you at the end of the night. - Host the wedding somewhere people can stay on-site, like a hotel, farm, estate, or campground. - Make the final hour quieter, simpler, and less performative. - Elope, if what you really want is a beautiful peak and a peaceful ending. - Have a destination wedding where the celebration spills gently into the next morning instead of collapsing into a hard stop. None of this means your wedding has to be small. It doesn’t mean you have to elope. It doesn’t mean you need to ghost your own reception, though I personally think that option deserves more respect. It just means you should make a decision. Don’t let your wedding end by accident. ## The ceremony might be the peak The ceremony is probably the emotional peak of your wedding. It should be. That’s the bit where you actually get married. But the end of the night matters too. Because when the music stops, the shoes come off, the flowers wilt, the candles burn down, and everyone goes home, you’re left with the memory. So plan the peak. Make the ceremony count. But plan the ending too. That’s the bit you’ll carry with you. ![A photo of a couple with the helicopter they flew to the mountain top in Queenstown New Zealand with photographed by George Bowden for the Elopement Collective with wedding celebrant Josh Withers from Tasmania ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement_celebrant_yj0S9wo49?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Photos by [George Bowden](https://www.georgebowden.co). - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/on-wedding-awards) ### [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) ### [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/18-minutes) ### [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jasmine— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmine-0hrbnps) - [Renee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/renee-0t2ka3l) - [Sascha & Jitesh— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sascha-and-jitesh-10gd875) --- # People Like Us Do Things Like This URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/people-like-us May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # People Like Us Do Things Like This Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) A wedding blogger I usually respect wrote a line that really got under my skin: > Wedding vows – that one wedding tradition that just won’t go away. Not because it’s rude. Not because it’s technically wrong. But because it misses the point entirely. Wedding vows aren’t a tradition. They’re the mechanism by which you become married. They’re not some legacy quirk we’re clinging to out of habit. They’re _the point of the entire day_. They’re how a marriage begins. They are the keys that you turn to start the marriage endinge. They’re how two people stand in front of each other — and their community — and breathe their relationship into life with words. Without vows, it’s not a wedding. It’s just a nice party with expensive outfits. ## Tradition Isn’t the Villain There’s been a cultural shift — maybe an overcorrection — in how we talk about weddings. Tradition is now treated like it’s the enemy. Like doing something your parents or grandparents might have done means you’ve sold out, lost your personality, or bought into the “wedding industrial complex.” But tradition isn’t evil. Tradition is the infrastructure of human life. It’s how we mark the moments that matter. It’s how we say, as Seth Godin puts it, > _People like us do things like this._ And that’s not about conformity. It’s about identity. Belonging. Community. Meaning. ## Ritual Is Not the Same as Commercialism Confetti cones, champagne towers, welcome signs – those are trends. Marketing-driven moments. Beautiful, sure. Fun, absolutely. But not the spine of the day. Standing across from your person and saying “I choose you” in front of the people who shaped your life? That’s ancient. That’s ritual. That’s what humans have done, in every culture, in every language, since we started walking upright. ## You’re Not Boring if You Choose Tradition There’s nothing wrong with writing your own rules. I help couples do it every week. But there’s also nothing wrong with choosing to walk down the aisle, wear a white dress, or exchange rings. You’re not basic for wanting those things. You’re not less creative. You’re not doing it “like everyone else.” You’re doing what people like you do. That’s what tradition is. It’s shorthand for meaning. It’s memory, shared across generations. ## What We Really Want Is Connection When couples say they want a “non-traditional” wedding, what they usually mean is “I want it to feel like _us_.” That’s the goal. That’s the job. But let’s not throw out meaningful rituals just because they’re familiar. The aim is never to be unique for uniqueness’ sake. The aim is to feel human, present, and connected. ## The Problem Isn’t Tradition — It’s Templates Where things go wrong is when traditions are included out of obligation. Mindlessly. With no thought or heart. That’s not tradition. That’s templating. Good celebrants — and good ceremonies — don’t run on templates. They take what’s meaningful, add intention, and tell better stories. We don’t need to scrap rituals. We need to tell richer, truer, more beautiful stories about why they matter. ### Let’s Remember What Weddings Are Actually For The vows are not “that one tradition that just won’t go away.” They are **the** wedding. Not a part of a wedding. Your wedding is you saying that we do things like this when we meet the best person alive and we decide to spend the rest of our days together. Traditions are the moment we stop planning and styling and pinning and finally _do the thing_. They’re the magic trick where two people become a married couple in a handful of words. Let’s not forget that. The hard work you need to do is to figure out how _“people like you”_ do things. Let’s not throw out the good stuff because someone on Pinterest called it “cringe.” Let’s hold space for traditions — not because they’re old, but because they’re ours. Because people like us… do things like this. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Chris & Melissa— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/chris-and-melissa-1hja5js) - [Andrew— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/andrew-03uxwmt) - [Jowell— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jowell-0y7rcm2) --- # Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/peppermint-bay-360 Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) · 1 min read # Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Nestled along the picturesque d’Entrecasteaux Channel in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant), [Peppermint Bay](https://peppermintbay.com.au) offers a unique and memorable wedding experiences in Tassie. The journey to this remarkable venue can be an event in itself, boarding a luxury catamaran at Hobart’s Brooke Street Pier for a scenic hour-long cruise. Upon arrival, couples and their guests are greeted by an architectural masterpiece - a modern venue featuring dramatic sweeping lines and floor-to-ceiling windows that frame breathtaking views of the bay. The nearly 200-year-old oak tree standing guard over the property adds a touch of historic charm to the contemporary setting. Whether you choose to exchange vows on the manicured lawns with water views, under the ancient oak, or in the elegant interior spaces, the venue offers multiple stunning ceremony locations adaptable to any weather conditions. And the bonus for me as a wedding celebrant is that the Channel is closer to my home than [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant) is, so I’m never far away. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) ### [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) ### [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/frogmore-creek-tour) ### [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Marnie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/marnie-1yqoupb) - [Tracey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tracey-134agk0) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) --- # For those of you who don't know me … The Podcast URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast ![For those of you who don't know me podcast artwork](/forthose-artwork.svg) # For those of you who don't know me… The Podcast _For Those Of You Who Don't Know Me …_ is a talk show podcast about weddings and the people that make them. Hosted by wedding celebrant Josh Withers, it's a conversation between two people who give a damn about great weddings. Real chats with the people behind the wedding ceremonies, florals, photos, and spreadsheets. Made for couples and creators, it's part behind-the-scenes, part therapy, part group chat. [![RSS Feed](/podcast-icons/rss.svg)RSS Feed](https://feeds.transistor.fm/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me)[![Apple Podcasts](/podcast-icons/apple.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me/id1829408598)[![Spotify](/podcast-icons/spotify.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/320evetNPpezogHSK3AWRy)[![Pocket Casts](/podcast-icons/pocketcasts.svg)](https://pca.st/7ywrgvae)[![YouTube Music](/podcast-icons/youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMoJuTn0xHOafGIi4Fx8jWUX-j5kO4fry) Episode 4Jan 1, 2026 ## [Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](/podcast/004-every-photographer) Renee from Tobi Tobi joins Josh to talk live wedding music, slowing the aisle down, ceremony energy, and weddings that prioritise feeling. Guests: [Renee Cassar](/podcast/guest/renee-cassar) Duration: 50:57 ![Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/renee_tobi_tobi_fedLaRuKC?tr=w-256,h-256,f-auto,q-75) [Listen Now](/podcast/004-every-photographer)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/FiP5H1JZPHs) Episode 3Sep 3, 2025 ## [It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i) Photographer Joshua Mikhaiel joins the podcast to talk weddings - AI, photography, planning, costs, traditions, and what actually makes the day meaningful. Guests: [Joshua Mikhaeil](/podcast/guest/joshua-mikhaeil) Duration: 51:50 ![It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-256,h-256,f-auto,q-75) [Listen Now](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i)[Watch on YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkBOXvEcpB4) Episode 2Aug 14, 2025 ## [So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](/podcast/002-love-children) Sarah-Louise Anderson talks micro-weddings, family feuds, severed friendships and the relationships worth keeping after a $60,000 wedding. Guests: [Sarah Louise-Anderson](/podcast/guest/sarah-louise-anderson) Duration: 45:36 ![So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sarah_louise_MXiVAwzaK?tr=w-256,h-256,f-auto,q-75) [Listen Now](/podcast/002-love-children) Episode 1Jul 30, 2025 ## [Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](/podcast/001-battleships) Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan chooses the three wedding photographers she would book today. Guests: [Kiera Ryan](/podcast/guest/kiera-ryan) Duration: 38:50 ![Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/playing_battleships_with_wedding_photographers_iDSrUTz7Q?tr=w-256,h-256,f-auto,q-75) [Listen Now](/podcast/001-battleships)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/BFl7oOem830) Coming on the show? Guests can check the recording setup, format, and prep notes before we hit record. [Read the podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) --- # Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers - Episode 1 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/001-battleships [← Back to Podcast](/podcast) Episode 1 # Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers Jul 30, 2025Duration: 38:50 Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan chooses the three wedding photographers she would book today. ## Watch ## Listen ## Guests [![Kiera Ryan](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiera_MwZkH_R9X?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Kiera Ryan Keira Ryan is the heart and brains behind Creative Weddings Byron Bay and a valuable resource for people wanting an epic wedding! ](/podcast/guest/kiera-ryan) ## Host [![Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Profile_Photo_2025_vv2Su1WCi?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Josh Withers Josh Withers is a wedding celebrant, nerd, and podcaster who has been helping couples create meaningful wedding ceremonies for almost two decades. ](/podcast/guest/josh-withers) ## Subscribe [![Apple Podcasts](/podcast-icons/apple.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me/id1829408598)[![Spotify](/podcast-icons/spotify.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/320evetNPpezogHSK3AWRy)[![YouTube Music](/podcast-icons/youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMoJuTn0xHOafGIi4Fx8jWUX-j5kO4fry)[![Pocket Casts](/podcast-icons/pocketcasts.svg)](https://pca.st/7ywrgvae) ## Show Notes Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don’t make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan from Creative Weddings Byron Bay chooses the three wedding photographers she would get if she was getting married this afternoon as she joins the first episode of my new podcast, For those of you who don’t know me… ## Links from the episode: - [Bayleigh Vedelago wedding photographer](https://www.bayleighvedelago.com/) - [Cassandra Ladru wedding photographer](https://cassandraladru.com/) - [Megan Kelly Studio](https://www.megankelly.com.au/) - [Creative Weddings Byron Bay](https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/) - [Dear Future Bride Podcast](https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au/podcast) - [Josh Withers Wedding Celebrant](https://marriedbyjosh.com) ## Transcript Josh (00:02) For those of you that don’t know me, my name is Josh Withers and joining me on this podcast is my friend Kiera from Creative Weddings Byron Bay. Hey K. Kiera (00:09) Hey. Josh (00:09) Welcome to the, actually take this the right way. Welcome to the worst episode of this podcast ever. And what I mean by that, that it’s not a reflection on you at all. But it’s the first one. It’s like from here, I’ll get more confidence and better and people will listen to it and give us ideas. So not that this is bad, but just I hope this is the worst one ever. There’s like, we’re just upwards from here. Kiera (00:19) Alright. happy to be your first. I’ll be gentle. Josh (00:35) Yeah, second woman in the world to tell me that. gosh. I thought it’d be worth for everyone listening, watching to just kind of give a bit of a synopsis on what this podcast is because I’ve been very deliberate in wanting to do it and also very deliberate and not wanting to do it. It’s actually been a bit of a thing for me to get over that. I’m like, literally I texted a friend who’s like a well-known wedding photographer. He’s like, just for the world needs another two white blokes on a podcast talking. actually do hear you that’s why I haven’t done this in years. And like I’ve tried a few podcasts and I’ve always have felt a bit discouraged. But I’m not doing it today to be another white guy on a podcast talking. The reason this podcast exists is because I just want to have conversations around weddings that aren’t necessarily controversial or. about, oh gosh, weddings, screw them, like they’re horrible, they’re the worst. But also, because I feel that’s a lot of the mainstream media conversation around weddings. Like I always, I probably get a phone call once a month from Daily Mail or something like that. And I want to know about the crazy wedding story or the wedding disaster. I’m like, not every wedding is crazy or a disaster. So yeah, so I wanted to… try and bring just like a normalization to the fact that weddings are awesome. And I know a bunch of people that also believe weddings are awesome. That people getting married is good and that a wedding can be and should be meaningful and honest and awesome and just true. it can also be something, I’m gonna struggle with the right word here, because I don’t wanna kind of shoehorn ourselves, but it can be, when I say awesome, not just awesome in vibe and feel, but it can be this awesome event. which is why I’ve always appreciated working with you at weddings because the fact that you’re gathering, say, 100 odd of your favorite humans can be kind of elegant and beautiful and cool and like fancy, but it can also, in that same realm, be honest and not plain dress up. You know what I mean? Some weddings are like plain dress up. Kiera (02:23) Yeah, yeah, absolutely. It’s kind of a bit showy for some people. Josh (02:26) Yeah, I feel, I actually like to hear if you’ve got like a brand kind of ethos or like a, do these kind of weddings because I feel that the weddings I’ve done with you are, they’re good, like they’re cool and cool venues and they got cool, you know, cutlery, don’t know, whatever. It’s like cool, but it’s also, it’s not this, it’s not wanky and it’s not showy and it’s not stupid. It’s not the kind of weddings they talk about in. in media on news.com.au Kiera (02:52) You’re giving me good taglines. Cool. Cool and not wanky. That’s me. Josh (02:58) I’ll jump on to your website and edit it while you’re talking, okay? Kiera (03:00) Yeah I mean I’ve always had their vision of my weddings being personal. and not showy, like they’re beautiful and all the elements look lovely, but I pride myself on the whole experience. So you could have the best wedding day and the most awful experience. And every time you think of your wedding, you’re going to be like, the day was great, but the planning was stressful, yada yada, all of that. Josh (03:07) ⁓ That’s the word. Yeah. Kiera (03:28) And I think as soon as I’m on board, I want to keep them in that newly engaged bubble right up until the day. Take the stress off them, make it a really nice and easy process. You know, build their dream team based on their vision and their budget and just have an awesome and epic day. And so I don’t know what tagline that is, but I’ll go cool and not wanky. Yeah, yeah, let’s do it. Josh (03:49) I could probably get the domain name if you want. It’s such a fine line to walk. I submit myself to enough wedding Facebook groups and like Reddit subreddits and everyone’s talking about a budget and we’re on a budget and affordable. And I find those words really funny because what you get two people. I’m not even new. like two, just two different people, their version of a cheap, say wedding photographer, they’re two different numbers. Like they’re, they’re going to come up with two different numbers and a one end of the scale. So it was like a cheap wedding photographer is definitely like 15, 17 grand. Like that’s on the cheap end. And then you just pull like another person out of the crowd and they’re like cheap wedding photographer. I’m thinking like 350 to $400. so there’s all these kinds of these terms get thrown around, but personal is one that often isn’t fully understood. because personal is a reflection of who you are as a person and obviously now as a couple, what a wedding’s supposed to be. I’ve always advocated that it’s just the two of you saying this is who we are. And that’s actually a really hard place to get to without a wedding planner, Kiera (04:52) Yeah, yeah, absolutely. and going into wedding planning, you don’t know what you don’t know. So when you’re starting to research, it’s like, want this venue and I want this photographer and all of these vendors. And they’re like, I’ve booked my vendors, I’m done. But it’s about making them all work together because they wouldn’t necessarily understand how to fill in those gray areas between the timings of everything and how it all works together as a whole. Josh (05:18) Yeah, That cohesion, it’s, I’m thinking of, I think it was MasterChef, they used to do the whole, you could just go into the, like the pantry. Do you remember that part of MasterChef? And like, you could pull whatever you want from the pantry, but you’re gonna make something from it. And like, can just, you can jump onto a local wedding directory.com or whatever and put like, Josh and Kiera. I’m like, cool, I’ve got all the best ingredients. I’ve got the best carrots and I’ve got the best. Kiera (05:29) yep Josh (05:44) flour, I don’t know, got the best coriander. Heck, you used to be a chef, so you can probably talk to this better than me. just because you’ve got a kitchen bench full of A-grade ingredients, organic, grain-fed, that’s still not maketh a wedding. Kiera (05:58) Yeah, yeah, exactly. It’s just the same as like something that I would cook and I give my mum the recipe and then she just butchers it. You know, it’s the same recipe, same ingredients, sorry mum, but same ingredients and it’s just, you know, if you don’t know how to put it all together and how it all works, in what timing, it can really fall apart. Josh (06:16) You know, I’m something that I always recognize between a wedding planner wedding and a planned by the couple wedding. And here in Australia, like a wedding planner wedding is, I don’t know if you know any stats, I feel it’s probably, it’s under half, I’m guessing. Yeah, maybe 40, 30 % of weddings would be like, we’ve got a wedding planner. So not a wedding coordinator from the venue that the venue, because their job is different to a wedding planner. They might. play a few wedding planner roles, but their job is more so, hey, please don’t burn our venue down. That’s, we’re going to do our utmost to make sure this place is still intact at the end of the night. But when you’ve got like a dedicated wedding planner like yourself, like that in Australia, it’s less common than say America, where it’s very common to have a wedding planner. So where I was going with this is that when I work a wedding planner wedding, I always hear back from those couples in the days after the wedding. I’m like, thanks so much. And they leave a review and I make a comment on something that I did. Cause they’re actually in the head space to do that. Whereas, I’m just going to make it and I’m going to say half of the weddings that aren’t wedding plan planned. They, I often feel like they walk away from their wedding. Like, got that done. Like it’s like completing a task. Like I, Just before we started recording, I had to get my eldest daughter to her job every morning to vacuum the windows because there’s condensation in the windows, we got a window vacuum cleaner. And every morning it’s like pulling teeth. weddings shouldn’t be a chore that you’ve got to complete or this task. Oh gosh, thank God we finished that wedding. And because of that, like a large number of couples that just plan their own weddings. I don’t hear from them afterwards. Like I’ll kind of send… one email, texts, not to harass, but just like, like we did a really cool, special thing. Just checking in, you know, your marriage certificate, like just, I don’t know, just kind of, are you still alive? Did you make it out of the night alive? And I’ve always put it, thought that you did the wedding coordinator fail. it’s, it’s a really, really strange dichotomy. And I, um, I should put it down to a psychological thing I heard a while ago, which is, uh, Kiera (08:03) Did the venue burn down? Josh (08:16) There’s a study done where if they put the person’s hand in hot water, like boiling hot water, they would leave it in there for a minute. then the second part of the study, the back half of the minute, they would cool it a little bit less, like by one degree. You just put like a dash of cold water in there. And I’m not gonna go into the depth of the study, because I can’t remember it all. But the takeaway was that if something ends slightly better, you walk away with a more positive feeling about the entire thing. So people are like, the boiling water wasn’t that bad. It’s cool, because for the last 15 seconds, it was a little bit cooler. And I often feel like that with weddings that, gosh, because I’m at the start, or not at the start, but I’m at the start of the proceedings. Obviously there’s hair, makeup, et cetera, ahead of me. But I’m kind of first cab off the rank, and then stuff happens through the night. I’m not going to, but we can, we can spend the rest of the podcast listing the things that happen after. But, but sometimes those things just maybe kind of tank the day a little bit or the execution of the wedding or the planning, or maybe it was, you know, because your uncle was emceeing and he started doing speeches while the videographer was, had a steak in his mouth or whatever it is, you know, just whatever things went on. And like, they kind of walk away from the wedding, not feeling a hundred percent positive. Whereas when they’ve got someone like you, ⁓ it looked like. you kind of fill that gap a little bit and make it little bit more smooth sailing for the couple. Kiera (09:40) Yeah, and it’s exhausting afterwards for the couple. It’s decision, fatigue, it’s going, getting through it and just going, my God, like that was exhausting. It was like what I said before, you could have a great day, but if the leader was no good, then it’s hard afterwards to decompress and to, and then they don’t know what to do with themselves afterwards as well because they’re so deep in the planning mode. ⁓ Josh (09:53) Yeah. Kiera (10:09) that they feel like, you know, what do I do with my life now? And then they just sort of fall flat on their face. Josh (10:12) Yeah. Yeah, crikey, that’s a whole other thing, isn’t it? Like you go from getting married to being married. It’s almost like if you haven’t really thought that through, it’s kind of hard to change trains, Kiera (10:17) Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, well it’s just so consuming for that time period that you’re organizing all of, you know, and it’s not that people can’t plan a wedding, obviously people plan weddings all the time, but it’s just about how you get there and if it’s intact or not. Josh (10:41) Yeah, yeah, Gosh, talk about it in tact. I’ve got a topic for you and I find the most qualified people to talk about wedding photography are people that aren’t wedding photographers. So you and I are more than qualified to talk about this. And I’ll allow you to ⁓ save as much of your industry credit as you like. You can bail out if you need to. But there was, I saw a post on threads in the last week. I’ll just read it verbatim. Another wedding rumored on film with a photographer trying to pass it off as art. I wonder if the bride will see her green photos with developer streaks on them as art. Where was the film purchased and developed? And they named the company, which is apparently a company you shouldn’t go to to get your film developed. And I wasn’t really here to bomb film photographers because so much film photography that is beautiful. Like it’s actually. It’s a fascinating art because I do photography. I’ve got cameras sitting around my desk and I just love to make photos. But I am so aware of the fact that I am not talented enough to be a film photographer. I have paid enough money to film development labs to know that I suck. Which is why you don’t find film photography on my website or photography at all. I’m aware of my lack of skills, but I wanted to. get your vibe on film photography as a product at weddings and you’re consulting a couple and they’ve they’ve happened to open up TikTok and they’ve seen the words film photography. What’s your kind of guiding light through that world? Kiera (12:07) think it’s a personal choice film photography and I’m going to be super controversial but I’m not a massive fan of it. I think it’s a little bit overrated and it just can, if it’s not, if it’s… If it’s incorrectly, it can make everything look just really washed out. And I think you choose a photographer based on shooting and editing style. And I think it completely changes the way that the end product looks as opposed to what the photographer uses in their equipment. my personal take is I think it’s great if you like it, go for it. But I think it kind of takes away from the talent of the actual photographer. know how that’s going to sit in the photography world. I think that maybe that’s a bit controversial but if the couple loves it then go for it. I just think it’s a nice little add-on if you like it. Josh (13:00) Okay, I’m going to prepare you to keep on sinking boats while we’re playing Battleship. You’re getting married this afternoon and you’ve got to choose a wedding photographer now, which was obviously not at all how weddings and wedding photography booking works. But it’s a fantastical world where every wedding photographer is available this afternoon and money is of no interest to you because you’re obviously loaded. You’re getting married this afternoon. Who’s shooting your wedding and why? Kiera (13:25) I’ve got three that are standouts. gonna have three photographers. I think, I really love editorial style photography. I think it’s really beautiful and clean. And I think when photographers over edit and make it super dark or super pastel, like I’m just not a fan of that. We’re going Bieber style. I go Bayleigh Vedelago love her. Josh (13:28) Okay, are you gonna Bieber-it?! You’re gonna have three photographers at the same time? Bayleigh’s in. Bayleigh’s been going as long as I have. I remember seeing her name when I was first, like she’d be going for at least 15 years now. Legend as well. Kiera (13:52) Yep. Yes. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Amazing, amazing. ⁓ Cassandra Ladru and Megan Kelly. Yep. Yeah, sort of Brisbane, Brisbane, Gold Coast, Byron sort of areas. Yep. No, no, they’re my favorites. Josh (14:04) yep yep, get Cass in. gosh, you got the squad. They’re all South East Queensland aren’t they? all Northern and New South Wales? Yeah yeah. You’re showing your bias, you’re not gonna reach out into the, I’m not gonna go across the Pacific. Love it. Kiera (14:26) Sorry everybody else on my list but you know while we’re playing Battleship. Josh (14:31) good choices. I would support those choices. It’s funny, Britt has changed her mind quite a few times. She’ll often make a comment like, oh, if we were getting married today, you’d be my, celebrate my photographer relationship. And because she has good taste in wedding stuff. It’s funny, I obviously do have somewhat of a taste because I’ve seen a lot of wedding photos, but I probably am a lot more. Kiera (14:32) Yeah. Yeah. Josh (14:54) Well, let’s say emotional. don’t mean like emotional, like, like ⁓ emotion driven in how I see photos and videos. Like, like how I felt in that moment. Like I’ll, I saw a wedding photo yesterday and, and I like my first thought upon seeing it as it was delivered. I’m like, wow. That’s my, that’s a, that’s a photo from the beginning of my third wedding ceremony at this Villa in Umbria in Italy. And I’m like, how many people in the world have done the same wedding venue in Umbria or Tuscany and this loser from Australia has done it three times. like, I just really, I felt really emotional. I was going to post it. I’m like, a wanky post. I’m not going to post Kiera (15:36) know, not many people from Australia can, you know, have that as one of their top places they’ve done. Yeah, I mean, gosh. I say do it. Josh (15:42) Yeah. It’s cool. Yeah, I struggle with social media because everything I go to post, feel like a wanker. Even, you know what, in regards to this podcast Kiera (15:53) You should own it. You’re like the world renowned, you know, celebrity. seen the Today Show, right? Josh (15:58) Celebrity Shaw. always always calling people Magla guys. I’m going to the coffee shop if you want to send a you want to send a pap I’m wearing I’m wearing slippers and It’s gonna be a fantastic photo Kiera (16:06) You start calling it in. Josh (16:12) Gosh, so the reason I hesitate on social is everyone takes it a different way. Like, even for this podcast, I don’t know if you saw my post, I did a Facebook and Threads post like, hey, who was one of the most interesting voices in the wedding industry at the moment? Because the question I’m asking is like, Oh, I’d like to talk to interesting people, I know interesting people, also, it’d be cool to open that net a little bit wider, and there’s people just who maybe aren’t on my direct radar, people I maybe already know, or people that are outside of my realm. Like, there’s a lot of weddings happening, like 120,000 people got married in Australia last year. I don’t reckon I know all the people that created those weddings. Anyway, so I asked the question, and indirectly, by a few people, and directly from two people, they’re like, the basic vibes are that people read it as I was seeking praise and like, hoping people would say me and or, or someone also thought that I was kind of saying, but there’s no one interesting the wedding industry. Like, no, I it’s in black and white words. I asked who was interesting. So I know it’s always for social media. It’s always been taken different ways. And I also wonder like how the couples, like if you’re not getting married in Italian Villa today, you don’t care that I’ve done three weddings in the same Italian Villa. who? No one cares. So anyway, that’s Kiera (17:19) I care Josh, I love seeing it. Josh (17:20) Thank you. If you see a social media post from me, know that I have spent the last 15 years thinking about that post, editing it. It’s good. It’s blessing to do what I I feel really graceful. was really, sorry, grateful is the word I was looking for to do what I do. It’s kind of cool. Kiera (17:27) I will live vicariously through you and your travel. Josh (17:41) Going back to photography styles, I just want to share a funny anecdote from a couple recently, because I want to hear how often you hear word “candid”. You hear the word candid a couple of times per wedding? Yeah. I did want to, I suppose, bring a bit of a not a photographer opinion to it because I was, so I was at a, I did a wedding recently and they, Kiera (17:52) the time. Yeah. Josh (18:03) They told the photographer they were just candid. And then, so my thing when I finish a ceremony is because I’ve already been a voice in the ceremony, somewhat of like a, not an “authority”, but like I had the microphone. I’ll help the photographer lead into the group photos or family photos, whatever is gonna happen. I’ll help them lead into that. I won’t suppose anything, but I’ll talk to the photographer and say, hey, do you wanna do? a group photo. And honestly, for those of you listening that don’t know or think this, I think a group photo is a good way to segue from the ceremony to family photos because it gets everyone together. Let’s know there’s these photos, family photos happening now. It’s not like the group photo is for anything. If you want a group photo, get it. It’s a great, it’s a fine, photo. But some people are like, oh, we don’t want a group photo. And I just think logistically, sometimes it’s a nice flow. But anyway, I’m not here to force group photos. But yeah, so the photographer said, yeah, we’ll do that. And I said to the couple, Hey, do you want to do this? And they said, oh, no, no, no, no, no. We just want candids, just candids. I’m like, okay. Okay. So I just kind of communicated to the photographer. He’s like, And then over the next hour, they kept on wanting to have specific photos with different family members. I’m like, that’s what family photos are. Yeah. Kiera (19:07) Now it’s going to take twice as long to help gather everyone. Josh (19:11) But yeah, I find the whole, candids thing, kind of a funny conversation we’re in at the moment and waiting. Kiera (19:18) Yeah. Yeah, it’s funny when I see albums back and you can see when they’ve had that conversation and everything’s kind of just like, you know, it’s all candid and it’s, I don’t love the posed looks, but I like intentional photos. And when people, it’s, people can misinterpret what candid is and that could be like somebody in the like half laughing and it’s not the most attractive angle of them. But that’s candid as opposed to you know having a giggle together But they’re positioned in a way that you would want to hang on your wall like it’s two different views of what candid can be and so I think that when you’re booking a photographer having those conversations about the end product as opposed to feeling comfortable on the day because most couples hate, you know, they say, ⁓ I’m feeling really uncomfortable in front of the camera, we’re awkward, we’re this and that. And, you know, a good photographer can get those shots without them making them, you know, feel feeling awkward on the day as well. So I think just having that open conversation with them is really important. Josh (20:27) always think about and just got to prefix this by saying this is not me flexing, but the first season of Married at First Sight, I was the celebrant on and I hated it by the way. If you ever watch back those videos, just know that I’m just like dying and cringing, not actually from the Married at First Sight thing, just from the being filmed thing. And because I walked into Married at First Sight. Kiera (20:45) Thank Josh (20:48) believing, thinking it was like a really awesome, nice, cool thing. And it’s gone in other directions in the seasons that I haven’t been involved in. anyway, the director, God bless her, she was like the best person. She, because obviously she knows she’s directed a show or two before and she’s looking at me and she’s like, this guy’s hating it. And he’s hating being directed. Because what they’re doing is… If I was holding say a thing in front of me, there’s a whole lot of hold lower and they like move left, move right, like move your left shoulder around swivel. But I went to do the same ceremony four or five times each. And, I just hated every minute of it because I am a few things. human. I’m a 43 year old baby. And I am just have my varieties of insecurities and anxieties and et cetera. know, just, I think just a normal level like everyone does, but just, you know, just those things where, I reckon maybe the director hates me. That’s why she keeps on telling me to turn around a different way. Anyway, she pulled me aside and she, ⁓ she goes, Hey, I can see, you know, you’re not really enjoying different parts of this. And she goes, I just want you to know that. We all want you to win. We all want you to look amazing on screen and we want the show to sound great and for the show to be great and for people to watch the show and to love the show and to love you. And that’s why I’m directing you. I’m like, crikey, she doesn’t hate me. She wants me to be awesome. And I wish I could tell couples that. And I know some photographers have conversations to that degree, but. But I will, without knowing who your photographer is and without knowing the two of you getting married, I’m willing to bet that your photographer probably wants you to look awesome, probably wants you to win and probably wants you to feel comfortable and great. And so if they direct you in some way, it’s in that spirit, yeah? Kiera (22:33) Yeah, and you know, you’ve booked the photographer based on what you’ve seen online as well. And that might not always be your direction. So when you’re saying I want candid, but then you’ve booked them based on their own style. Like you kind of have to put the trust in the benders and to do what they do best as well. So it’s sort of taking like letting go of the reins a little bit and just, you know, allowing them to do what they do. Josh (22:58) Yeah, yeah, yeah. I always feel so blessed. Like it’s funny, you’ll see those names of the girls before and like, there are some talented photographers out there. Like there’s some just people that I’m so glad to call friends. I just. There’s some, yeah, just, we were actually surrounded by some great talents in Australia. Like it’s, you go global and, you know, I do a lot of work overseas and people over there name photographers back here. And they’re like, they follow their work. They’re inspired by them. They want to be like them. And obviously we see it every year that different photographers and videographers and celebrants or not. Like we, we have flare in the world. Cause what we do in Australia is really unique and really special. We’re, we’re a real world leader in the wedding industry, which I don’t think people realize here at home. you Kiera (23:40) What’s your Bieber list? What’s your top three? If you could have three photographers at your wedding this afternoon. Josh (23:43) Alright. Three photographers this afternoon. See, like I said, I like the emotional, like how I feel. I want to feel really good in the moment. And there’s also obviously types of photography I like. Like my friend James Day, I have, I’ve been shot by him a very small handful of times. He’s done a few weddings, we’ve done a few weddings together and then I think he’s taken photos of Britt and I. I like his shooting style. Like I think he’s a blessing to the industry. Just his, the vibe that he brings to a shoot is really unique. And so, so I’ll say James Day. I’ve always loved, I’ll say another friend, Harley from Bulb Creative. I love his photos. He’s obviously a nice guy, lovely, like good guy. So, but I’ve loved it when he makes photos of us. I’ve liked them. And third, I feel like I’m just now, gonna offend some of them not mentioning them because they’re all so many great people. But ⁓ we are playing Battleship. I’ve always enjoyed being shot by our friends Luke and Mallory in Portland in Oregon. They did cool work as well. Kiera (24:38) Plain battleship, remember that. Josh (24:49) save them just to a hedge a bet against the 10 million other photographers I love that I haven’t mentioned. Kiera (24:55) you So need to say Bulb Creative because I actually haven’t worked with them before and I’ve got on my notes like next to me I came across them, one of my couples said I want a quote from them and I looked them up and wrote their name down to put them on my list immediately and that’s very hard like you know I get approached a lot by different photographers wanting to be recommended and that sort of thing and I have like a private directory on my website that I share with the couples for my handpicked and I keep that very tight and Bulb Creative was just like, wow, okay, these guys are like awesome. So shout out to them. Josh (25:34) Harley, Harley, ⁓ offends me in this way that, it really pisses me off that he, he just kind of, he didn’t just glide into photography, but I feel like he just kind of glided into photography. And then he’s just like really talented. and it seems really effortless, which really pisses me off. ⁓ Yeah, I’m, I’m, I’m like, Kiera (25:53) We hate people like that. We have to bust our arses to like work up the ladder. Josh (26:00) Yeah, I’m trying really bloody hard here. I’m like watching YouTube videos. I’m reading things. Like Harley’s just like flippantly being awesome. I’m like, screw you man. Harley’s, Harley’s good people. We are, we love Harley’s. ⁓ Kiera (26:09) So not shout out to Harley, screw you man, you’re off the list. Yeah. Josh (26:21) of, you know what, Harley and I, we’ve been to Iceland together, New Zealand 10 million times, we’ve done America together for weddings and elopements 10 million, yeah, it’s an exact number as well. That’s not a made up number. We actually can’t do any more weddings together, because that’s the full quota for how many weddings you can do together as a per, yeah, you can’t do any more. Kiera (26:24) Ahem. million. It’s literally, yeah. Yep. You’ve reached your quota. Josh (26:42) Crikey. I wanted to talk about planning, kind of really hone in on planning. I know you’re talking about that there’s a reality of what planning looks like for couples and how expectations come in, the way that it’s their own. I feel like a lot of people walk into weddings with these expectations of themselves and what their wedding would look like. Actually, side note, not to… not to bomb an entire gender, but I feel like men sometimes are the harder ones at wedding planning, because they kind of have this expectation of like, when I get married, I’d look like this. And like, I’ll have all my mates from work, they’re all the mates from the footy club, and it’ll be like 4,000 people. they kind of, and they aren’t always fully equipped to talk about what the reality of it. But yeah, so. Kiera (27:07) you Josh (27:23) So they bring these expectations and whether it’s Instagram, Pinterest, family, that kind of thing. And trying to navigate that and the feelings around that is not really talked about a whole lot. How do you kind of join that conversation and trying to help people not hate the process? Kiera (27:40) Well that’s why I’ve started my own podcast about it, speaking with brides specifically because generally the bride’s kind of taking the lead with it and I find that Brides are usually big picture. So they focus on the aesthetics, the photography, hair and makeup, like how things look and grooms tend to go. Guest entertainment, food, drink, and how much is this thing gonna cost me? And so… Josh (28:08) “Photography’s how much?” Yeah, flowers yeah Kiera (28:09) Yeah, or flowers, you know, like no, we’re not spending, you know, and they usually sort of argue around the styling because they’re just like, it’s not necessary and whatever anyway, I’m generalising. the, find that social media plays a huge role in the expectation versus reality. The industry is such a curated, beautiful looking industry from the outside. You see all these amazing photos and styles and everything online. And people go, I want my wedding to look like that. And they focus on that side of things. But when you get stuck into the planning side and you start having opinions coming at you, and you know, like family dynamics that you have to work with and the stress factors and doing this full-time job on top of your full-time job and managing two families and all of your normal life stuff. Especially if you don’t have the help, it’s like you’re thrown into this world of hardcore admin, all these questions coming at you, you’re not sure how to navigate it all. and you can soon, it can pop that engage bubble and you can be like, this is fucked. Like, I’m hating this process. And you know, that’s when people say, just want it to be done. And you know, then they run into, they don’t know how to research properly on what things should be costing, what they can do without, how they can get their vision across without breaking the bank. Like I had a, meeting with one of my brides the other day and we’re going through a styling and I put together a styling brief initially and she wanted to have a meeting about how she wanted to cut some costs and so I went through with her and I just went you know it’s like line by line and I said this is going to make a huge impact if we change this but this is what we can do to not change the vision like for example she was like ⁓ should we use the included chairs for the ceremony and I said well they’re white and you’ve got these natural oak chairs and so with your vision that’s going to look very different to the overall vision that you have originally so what we can do is we can tweak these other areas that we can you know and and we brought down the budget for her without sort of changing the overall vision it’s just about understanding how to do all of that and you know you can really just get caught up in the negative aspect through the planning. can take that joy from it. So it’s so important just to have the right team around you. Josh (30:43) Yeah, the joy of planning a wedding is that you’re getting married. When I say young, don’t mean necessarily age, but like younger relationship, like, cause it’s, that’s generally where a wedding happens. Like it is this, you know, you’ve decided to proceed to the next level. And, ⁓ and so there’s this, this is joy in it, but what often comes with that youthfulness is that you’re still young and maybe decisions around money or budgets or values, even when I say value. mean money value, but like, what do people like us value? Like as a couple, like what are our values? Like do we, Like is the colour of the chair matching, like is it one of their values? Because it can be, it’s a valid value, but isn’t one of their else. And to know those things, just, it kind of requires the journey, you know, to sit down to actually to go through it. And I’m always glad that people might have a planner like yourself to kind of hold their hand through that, because it can be a bit of a rough ride, even just as a couple, just trying to figure out how do people like us do things like this. Cause if you talk like some of my favorite clients are ones that are like second marriage and they’re in their fifties and they’re like, we know who we are. We have figured this shit out. Whereas obviously a young couple, like it’s just, it’s not even, it’s not an indictment on any of those people. It’s just like, that’s just where you are in life. You know, you’ve never gotten a hundred people in the same room together. It’s a bit of a daunting task. Kiera (32:01) Yeah. And understanding those values right at the beginning helps dictate that budget as well. So when we’re sort of going through the planning side of things, I get the couple to write out what their non-negotiables are, what the most important elements are, the way that they want the wedding to feel. So if you want to walk in and have it feel like a family barbecue, but just fancy, what are the elements that we can incorporate to make it feel like that? Whether that’s music or something sort of guest entertainment or really cool cocktails or just that vibe and that energy. You know, lot of couples get just like, I just want the ceremony to be done. We’re really nervous. We don’t want to talk about our feelings. But then I explain, you know, that that’s why you’re there. That’s what makes a wedding. That’s like the whole point. Otherwise, it’s just a fancy party. And my favourite part is matchmaking a celebrant with the couple. And that’s why, you know, when we have these discussions, I know immediately who I Josh (32:45) Yeah. Kiera (32:57) recommend for them based on their personalities, based on the style of ceremony. And what I love, and I’ll just give you a little plug here, but what I love about your ceremonies is it’s, it’s not, you’re not reading from a script and you know, it’s so fine for certain celebrants to do that. But I find that it’s, it brings that feeling to the day and you just, you’ve got the gift of the gab and that’s why I love your ceremonies. And you know, you’d be my top list if I getting married this afternoon, it’d be you Bayleigh Josh (33:14) 100%. Yeah. The Kiera (33:28) ⁓ Cassandra, Megan. Josh (33:30) dream team. So that’s a good segue into how I want to wrap up the podcast today because we’ve ⁓ talked about the well rated three and myself. ⁓ Give us an underrated, just something. I’m not going to, ⁓ it’s an underrated something in the winning entry. can be style, trend, a vendor, a venue, a thing. Kiera (33:39) You Josh (33:50) What’s your opinion, the most underrated thing in the wedding vibe today? Kiera (33:54) underrated is the way that the staffing on the day doesn’t get looked into when people are planning. So they’ve got all their vendors but then they want a cheap catering company or something like that but that’s like the heart of that’s the manpower on the day that’s how it’s going to make it run really smoothly and on time so like the staffing in the catering team is highly underrated. Josh (34:07) Yeah Kiera (34:18) when it comes to, yeah, it’s, people just, it’s not thought of, you know, people just assume that it’s all going to run and you can have one coordinator that will run the whole day. And it’s just like, they need to work alongside the staffing. So I know that’s such a boring answer, but like, it’s real. Josh (34:18) Staffing is really hard, yeah. No, it’s real. So real story, friend of mine took a job managing a venue recently and she’s just quit. Actually got a major old job. The reason being, so it’s a cool venue, cool place. Like it’s good, it’s cool, it’s awesome. Food’s good, beer’s good, everything is good there. But she really had trouble staffing it up and there was a… a staffing issue that she wasn’t as empowered to work around, aka fire someone. Just politics in business and staffing and people who are sleeping with each other. And that was a impediment to her, not just keeping the staff she had, but hiring more good staff. She would literally post a thing like a local Facebook group, like, looking for people. People would just like laugh, react to it. No, no, wasn’t that one. ⁓ And so she just couldn’t get staff. And so she didn’t believe she could do what her job was, was to run that venue really well and to bring it up. And so she quit because she’s like, I can’t do this. Kiera (35:24) They didn’t go to the Coldplay concert, did Hahaha Josh (35:40) because it’s all well and good to have four walls and a roof and it’s painted nicely, it’s well styled, it’s got a cool website, cool social, all the things, you know. But she just couldn’t get great staff to run the place, to work. And it was an impediment, because when she was looking at taking the job, I said, yeah, you’ll kill it there, I took the girls there for lunch one hour one day and the staffing really impeded the lunch experience like lunch was great. It was cool venue. But for example, it was empty. I walked in like we got to we got six year old and a four year old. So we didn’t have lunch at midday. We kind of sometimes have lunch a little bit before midday, you know, and so we walked in like I think they’ve been 11 walks in a quarter past 11 place is empty. There’s not a single person there. The lunch crowds about to pour in and they’re like have you got a reservation? I’m like no, I said, have you got a table free jokingly because like every table’s free like don’t know. I think it looked like a got a table free I understand these reservations were not, we’ve got two kids. We’ll be out of here in three minutes, you know? But yeah, it was just like the entire flow of staff was just not great. And it really impeded my view of the venue until she started managing it. And then she’s obviously left because she can’t get good staff. staffing, human resources, even at a wedding are valuable and important. know, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t matter if it’s the best cater in town, if the chef’s an asshole. Kiera (36:49) Yeah. And you’re only as good as the team around you as well. You could do an amazing job. so for like your job, you’ve got all the equipment, you’re there, you’re doing your thing. If, you know, the transport company is running late, the bride doesn’t arrive. You know, if something else doesn’t happen, then it impacts on your job. And so you’ve really got to put that trust in the team around you as well. And just, yeah, I think just the staffing on the day, but also like the setup packed down, like all of that. It’s the manpower that is. Josh (37:19) Yeah. Kiera (37:19) is not looked at initially so get good staff. Josh (37:22) Yeah, even, so it’s not just quality of like, as in friendliness or kind of humanity, but also can they be set up before the guests arrive? Like I’ve seen more and more florists recently still sitting up as like guests are sitting down like, no, mate, that needs to be, happened like an hour ago. Like I was hearing, like my PA system was set up before anyone was here. Like that’s, I don’t want to be setting up my PA system in front of people. that’s. Kiera (37:42) as it should. Yeah. And even the movement while guests are there. I was dealing with a photo booth company and I said you have to pay the extra what’s called an idle time that they come in earlier, set up their gear and then leave and come back when it’s about to go live. And so you don’t want to be pulling photo booths in while the guests are having their cocktails. There’s all these moving parts that it impacts the whole experience and you can do it, Josh (38:09) Yeah, yeah. Kiera (38:13) of going to be like, was that forgotten? Or that kind of just takes away from the flow of how the day feels as well. Josh (38:20) Yep, yep. No, I’ve literally, I’ve seen a photo booth company setting up during the ceremony and I’m like, mate, just read the room. Yeah. Gosh. Okay. It’s always a pleasure to see you and to talk to you. Let’s give you some plugs. Tell everyone about your podcast and how they can find it. And also your socials and website. So that people, if they want to get married in Byron Bay and get the best planner in town, they can get you. Kiera (38:26) the truck’s backing in with the beeping noise. Well, I’m sure we can pop it all in the show notes, but my podcast is Dear Future Bride and Creative Weddings Byron Bay. --- # So the invitation said 'we love your children, but' - Episode 2 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/002-love-children [← Back to Podcast](/podcast) Episode 2 # So the invitation said 'we love your children, but' Aug 14, 2025Duration: 45:36 Sarah-Louise Anderson talks micro-weddings, family feuds, severed friendships and the relationships worth keeping after a $60,000 wedding. ## Listen ## Guests [![Sarah-Louise Anderson](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sarah_louise_anderson_yAeCEdQir?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Sarah-Louise Anderson Bride, picnics and proposals planner, former real estate agent, and the Lawd Mayor of Threads, Sarah-Louise Anderson ](/podcast/guest/sarah-louise-anderson) ## Host [![Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Profile_Photo_2025_vv2Su1WCi?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Josh Withers Josh Withers is a wedding celebrant, nerd, and podcaster who has been helping couples create meaningful wedding ceremonies for almost two decades. ](/podcast/guest/josh-withers) ## Subscribe [![Apple Podcasts](/podcast-icons/apple.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me/id1829408598)[![Spotify](/podcast-icons/spotify.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/320evetNPpezogHSK3AWRy)[![YouTube Music](/podcast-icons/youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMoJuTn0xHOafGIi4Fx8jWUX-j5kO4fry)[![Pocket Casts](/podcast-icons/pocketcasts.svg)](https://pca.st/7ywrgvae) ## Show Notes Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests. Topics covered in this podcast: ## **Names and Identity** - The complexities of [changing surnames after marriage](/name-change) - Sarah’s decision to keep Anderson professionally while legally becoming Steinhardt - [Challenges with hyphenated names and bureaucratic systems](/options-for-changing-your-name) - The emotional significance of family names and belonging ## **Wedding Costs in Queensland** - [Extremely high wedding expenses on the Sunshine Coast/Queensland](/brisbane-celebrant) - Sarah’s $60,000 [micro-wedding](/wedding-sizes) for 26 people - [Venue costs](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) ranging from $7,500 to $18,000+ for hire alone - How cost barriers may be contributing to [declining marriage rates](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) in Queensland ## **Marriage Philosophy and Personal Journeys** - Josh’s evolution from anti-marriage to pro-marriage advocate - Sarah’s background of family dysfunction and initial reluctance to marry - The importance of healthy marriages in building strong communities - Marriage as a “bruised” concept that needs rehabilitation ## **Children at Weddings - A Contentious Issue** - Sarah’s decision to have a child-free wedding (with specific exceptions) - The practical and safety concerns at their cliff-top venue - Guest reactions and relationship fallout from the no-children policy - Exceptions made for bridal party members and special circumstances - The philosophical question of whose day it really is ## **Wedding Boundaries and Family Dynamics** - Sarah walking herself down the aisle instead of her father - Planning and paying for the wedding before announcing engagement - How pre-planning helped maintain boundaries against outside pressure - The importance of prioritising the couple’s vision over others’ expectations ## **Guest Relations and Wedding Etiquette** - Last-minute cancellations and their financial impact - Going above and beyond to accommodate guests’ dietary and drinking preferences - The hurt of having personalised provisions unused due to no-shows - How wedding behaviour reflects long-term relationship dynamics ## **Community and Support Systems** - The importance of having a reliable “village” for childcare and support - How wedding experiences reveal who your true supporters are - Sarah’s friend ensuring no ginger beer was wasted as an act of loyalty - Vendor appreciation and the importance of professional service ## **Promo** - Sarah’s [Noosa Picnics](https://www.noosapicnics.com) business focusing on proposals, bridal breakfasts, and intimate celebrations - Plans for expansion to other locations - The joy of working in the celebration industry versus high-stress real estate --- # AI and Wedding Photography Presence - Episode 3 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i [← Back to Podcast](/podcast) Episode 3 # It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day Sep 3, 2025Duration: 51:50 Photographer Joshua Mikhaiel joins the podcast to talk weddings - AI, photography, planning, costs, traditions, and what actually makes the day meaningful. ## Watch ## Listen ## Guests [![Joshua Mikhaiel](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Joshua Mikhaiel Curator of bottled nostalgia, and Brisbane wedding photographer ](/podcast/guest/joshua-mikhaeil) ## Host [![Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Profile_Photo_2025_vv2Su1WCi?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Josh Withers Josh Withers is a wedding celebrant, nerd, and podcaster who has been helping couples create meaningful wedding ceremonies for almost two decades. ](/podcast/guest/josh-withers) ## Subscribe [![Apple Podcasts](/podcast-icons/apple.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me/id1829408598)[![Spotify](/podcast-icons/spotify.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/320evetNPpezogHSK3AWRy)[![YouTube Music](/podcast-icons/youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMoJuTn0xHOafGIi4Fx8jWUX-j5kO4fry)[![Pocket Casts](/podcast-icons/pocketcasts.svg)](https://pca.st/7ywrgvae) ## Show Notes In this episode of For Those Of You Who Don’t Know Me, I chat with photographer Joshua Mikhaiel about how the wedding world is changing and what that means for couples and vendors alike. We dive into the so-called “wedding tax,” whether AI has a real role in planning, and why personal touch always matters more than any tool. We talk about wedding photography as more than just pretty pictures—it’s about capturing real, human moments—and we look at how traditions can be both grounding and restrictive. A big part of our chat is about communication: how couples often struggle to say what they want, and how vendors can listen and guide without pushing their own agenda. At the end of the day, I believe weddings aren’t about appearances—they’re about connection, authenticity, and creating memories that actually last. - the [Hollywood Reporter piece about Oasis](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/music/music-features/oasis-gallaghers-met-life-concert-1236358264/) - [Josh Mikhaeil’s website](https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/) ### Transcript Josh Withers (00:03) For those of that don’t know me, my name is Josh Withers and joining me on the podcast is a man who doesn’t even know how to pronounce his own name. It’s Joshua McCKhalabalala. Hello, Joshua Mikhaiel Are you prepared to answer those allegations? You can’t even pronounce your last name or spell it. Joshua Mikhaiel (00:14) Hello, how are we? Joshua Withers. I decline to incriminate myself any further, Your Honour. Josh Withers (00:24) Josh, it’s always a pleasure to see your face, my friend. And I wanted to get you on the podcast today because I have found through the last few episodes that the more opinionated and controversial you do a podcast, the more views it gets on TikTok. look, I am but a me am just a mortal human. And so when I see those numbers ticking, does it just do something in my spirit? it? Joshua Mikhaiel (00:28) Always a pleasure. Yeah. Josh Withers (00:48) Does it make me feel like a weak insecure man? Yes. Does it make me feel like a big boy? Yes. so that’s why you’re here, my friend. So you’re here to drop some bombs, metaphorically, no more real bombing, please. Joshua Mikhaiel (01:00) As your ranking part Middle Eastern friend, I’m here to drop bombs on the podcast. Is that, that what we’re, okay. Josh Withers (01:07) Look, look, on the record, I did not plan that linking. That was not where I was going. “Dropping bombs” is a thing people say to people of all skin colors and origins. yeah, it’s so crikey how this look, I’m looking at the timer. We’ve been recording for one minute and 37 already need to declare a ceasefire done moving along. Ceasefire has been reached. All right, Josh. Joshua Mikhaiel (01:12) Mm. ⁓ I’ve heard. Yes. Okay. Josh Withers (01:36) how do you think, the world is going to change in getting weddings, getting weddings, getting wedded. How do you see getting weddingidid? it? everything’s changing. Literally my Uber driving yesterday when he found that I worked in weddings, asked me how he thought, how, how did I think Taylor Swift was going to change weddings? And, and I, although I wrote a blog post about it, it was purely click bait. Joshua Mikhaiel (01:43) Getting weddinged. Josh Withers (01:58) I don’t know how to tell us what’s going to change weddings. Do you know how to us what’s going to change weddings? Joshua Mikhaiel (01:58) Mmm. I don’t. ⁓ I think it will be interesting. Josh Withers (02:05) That’s the podcast today folks, thanks for joining us. Joshua Mikhaiel (02:09) I’m probably the wrong person to ask about Taylor Swift. I’m sure she’ll roll something out that’ll be interesting and it’ll be on trend. I’d love if it changed. Josh Withers (02:18) Do you think she could bring my sepia trend back? Joshua Mikhaiel (02:20) No, I fear it’s a lost hope for you, Josh. I think you’re gonna have to try that one on your own. I hope that it will move the current wedding trends along to something else. I’m ready for a shift, whatever that brings. Yeah. Josh Withers (02:21) No. Are you are you having a pot shot at the reality TV wedding video in that smart remark? Is that you saying? Joshua Mikhaiel (02:46) There’s a reality TV wedding Josh Withers (02:47) is blowing up on Instagram and Tik Tok. It’s, your wedding film is filmed like a, like a reality TV show. Joshua Mikhaiel (02:51) That’s why I haven’t seen it. Alright, no, I haven’t seen it. I’m out of the loop. I apologize. Josh Withers (02:57) It’s you know what? I don’t hate it. As someone who has seen his fair share wedding videos, any drop of creativity in that space is welcome in my opinion. Joshua Mikhaiel (03:08) Yeah, I think what I’d love to see someone try with a wedding video is like to go full BBC documentary or chef’s table kind of style where it’s like nicely lit interviews with all the key players and it’s like lots of very still shots. Birds tweeting in the background, it’s very slow. It’s not a music video. Just for a change. I’d be here for that. Josh Withers (03:24) Hahaha So I’ve got a few topics for the talk show today. And I wanted to start with an oldie, but a goodie because I don’t like breaking this one out. And it came fresh on threads this last week. And I was going to read direct from the thread so that I can just get you to respond to it live. Jackson McQueen posts, just heard that if you tell a venue, no, not to be confused, this is Jackson, his older brother. Joshua Mikhaiel (03:34) Yes. Yes. Mm-hmm. not to be confused with Lightning McQueen. Josh Withers (03:58) Just heard that if you tell a venue it’s for a party instead of your wedding, the cost is 90 % cheaper. Joshua Mikhaiel (03:58) He’s out of Controversial. Josh Withers (04:07) My favorite thing is that the comments don’t smack him down straight away. There’s people, someone says, look, it’s not 90%, but the wedding tax is real. Joshua Mikhaiel (04:14) I would imagine that there are some places where that is absolutely true. And I think they’re probably hitting people up for danger money of like, if your 50th birthday party doesn’t go off exactly as planned, you’re probably not gonna sue the venue. But if we make a mistake at your wedding, it’s probably gonna all go down in flames and… I reckon there’s a bit of that for some people, but I certainly don’t charge a different wedding tax than I do for any commercial work or family work or anything else. But I wouldn’t be able to speak on behalf of the whole industry, but I’m not sure about wedding tax. I don’t know if it exists. Josh Withers (04:55) Okay, so I’m going to go to a different angle here because look, I’m of the opinion the wedding tax doesn’t exist per se. It’s just the weddings aren’t different to birthday parties. Like I like you said, if you if your 50th birthday party doesn’t go as planned, we’re have it next year and have it next week. Like it’s yeah, like it might suck. There might be some financial, know, some contractual financial elements, but you know, you’re not you’re not emotionally hanging on the 50th birthday party, whereas the wedding Joshua Mikhaiel (04:58) Yeah. Okay. Mm. Yeah. Josh Withers (05:21) whoo, the emotional requirement of that day is big. And so it’s not a wedding tax. It’s just that there, there’s an expectation enlargement. And that does come with a different commercial requirement. And that often comes with a different thing, but putting that aside, cause that’s a conversation we can have forever. How do, and you can either answer for yourself directly, which is probably the best way for you to go, but you can also just answer on the behalf of the industry. Um, where Joshua Mikhaiel (05:31) Yeah. be nice to honest. Josh Withers (05:50) Which random number generator do you use to get your prices? Are you using random number generator.com or .net? Joshua Mikhaiel (05:55) you I use .org to be more official. I don’t use one. Josh Withers (06:03) Ha! Which leads me to like, where do the numbers come from? Where do the prices come from? How do you price a wedding? Joshua Mikhaiel (06:07) It’s… I price a wedding based on how many hours it’s going to take me to do the job. So I think about how many hours of emailing and meetings and gear preparation and camera insurance considerations and things that will cost to do the job. And I think usually by the time that I’ve done that, I work it out that I’m probably getting paid as much as your mechanic per hour. Josh Withers (06:31) Yeah Joshua Mikhaiel (06:32) you just usually don’t voluntarily employ your mechanic for 40 hours, on a weekend, if you can choose to not do that. Josh Withers (06:38) And the other thing with mechanic is that we’ve all been there. It’s like the car’s going to be ready Friday. It’s not ready Friday. It’s going to be next week and blow out a few days. you needed some extra parts and needs to make sure work. And so there’ll be a little bit more here and there. Whereas there is that centering on this date that’s all happening on this date. Joshua Mikhaiel (06:54) Yeah. Yeah, I mean, there’s lots of after work for me, particularly. You probably get to finish up technically once you’ve posted off their paperwork, but yeah, I’m not usually telling people, I’m just gonna spend another week retouching your elbows. That’ll be an extra $4,000. Yeah, sorry about the joint being blown out, a sleekin’ oil. Josh Withers (07:21) you Joshua Mikhaiel (07:21) It’s a rego concern, sorry. You can’t register the marriage unless these photos are perfect. Josh Withers (07:28) Do you like the, that editing side of it? Like which, part of the process do you like the most? Joshua Mikhaiel (07:33) That’s interesting because with AI now, a lot of people are trying to lean more into it for their editing. because it’s the part that they say they don’t like. actually really like it. I like seeing the photos finish where I imagined that they would. and putting my fingers into making it all, you know, the whole process. I think you don’t really save any time. anywhere in life is something that I believe you just move it around. So there’s, there’s no real way to cut corners, you just end up paying for it somewhere else. And I think the way that we pay for sometimes outsourcing, editing or things like that is in less job satisfaction. And I think as someone who puts so much of themselves into the wedding day for 1216 hours when you’re there to then not continue the process to its logical end, like, is really hard, because I’ve got really attached to the images and the people and the story. So I actually really enjoy spending a week or so, going through those photos, massaging them to get them where I want them to enjoy, almost processing the day. And I actually really enjoy editing. Controversial as that may be, I really get a kick out of it. and I don’t enjoy outsourcing. Josh Withers (08:48) It’s interesting that so many wedding photographers have got completely different takes on the whole thing. And I find it really funny because I’m not a wedding photographer that I, A, I get to talk to all you guys. And I’m so glad I have many, many wedding photographers that are, sorry, I can’t use English today. Apparently I have many wedding photographers that are friends of mine. But then also I talk to couples and Joshua Mikhaiel (08:58) Mmm. Mm. Josh Withers (09:11) And it’s funny, it’s a little bit like if you’re standing in the supermarket and you want to get a recent, I wanted to get some barbecue sauce. Have you bought barbecue sauce recently, Josh? Joshua Mikhaiel (09:22) I’ve never even heard of it, Josh. Tell me about it. Josh Withers (09:25) Wow, look, it’s a good sauce. That’s all I’m gonna say. But when I was standing in the supermarket, there would have been like 15. And I know that there’s different tastes in barbecue sauce, different flavors. I have what I’ve traditionally liked, but then also I don’t mind trying new things. And I found it really hard trying to choose all of these different, from all of these different barbecue sauces, like which one. Let’s get like the cleanest ingredients, which one tastes the best. I’m trying to think about like the economics of like other Australian made other, you know, other countries. like, do I does that factor into me? I don’t know. I like all I want is some bloody barbecue sauce. But they’re all presented on the shelf. And to make a choice, you’ve got to be blind and stupid and just that one. Joshua Mikhaiel (10:00) Hmm. Josh Withers (10:09) or you make a decision based on price. Like I wasn’t, I wasn’t willing to spend $12 on barbecue sauce. I was here for a $3 sauce. But then also you’ll get that sauce at home. So we currently have a barbecue sauce. don’t like, I don’t like the flavor of it, but we own it. So guess what sauce we’re using. And I feel that I’ve accidentally stumbled into a pretty good analogy for people trying to choose a wedding photographer because Joshua Mikhaiel (10:35) Hmm. Josh Withers (10:36) Couples don’t know, like, you might not even, I don’t know if you’ve communicated the process about editing, I don’t think I’ve heard you talk about that before. And so that’s a part of your value that you share because there’s other photographers who have close to zero love for editing that they, they like shooting. Joshua Mikhaiel (11:00) Yeah. Josh Withers (11:03) There’s people you and I know who like I feel like their main value, not their main, but a primary value proposition is their presence on the day. But in the wedding, in that moment, they are, they’re just, it’s just a blessing that they’re great. And which is not to say, so you’re not that, but I feel like there’s kind of all these, no, but there’s all these different kind of ingredients that go into making what is a wedding photographer. Like people, just saw someone bitching in a Facebook group about Joshua Mikhaiel (11:17) Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Josh Withers (11:28) a studio photographer, they’re booked and they’re really upset that the photographer they thought they were getting, they’re not getting and they’re getting someone else and they’re to do legal action. And like, oh, that’s kind of the deal when you go to a studio, you might well say the person A is going to shoot. But part of the deal contractually, especially is that it might be person B or C or D or E. Because that’s the deal. Whereas if you go to Joshua McHale photography, Joshua Mikhaiel (11:53) yeah. Yeah. Josh Withers (11:57) you got like there’s like a 99.9999 % chance that Joshua McKay was going to turn up, you Joshua Mikhaiel (12:03) but I’m easily replaceable because I’m a Josh with an unpronounceable last name and I can find heaps of those replace me. Josh Withers (12:07) Exactly. Google it, Joshua Mikhaiel (12:12) I have so much grace for couples because most of the time they’re getting married for the first time and they, they don’t know what they’re supposed to be looking for. They’ve had a lifetime of learning how to choose barbecue sauce or what percentage of fat they like in their milk or do they, you know, prefer a double ristretto because you know, less bitterness, whatever. So they’ve, most of their purchases in their life, they have the opportunity to have another crack at if they didn’t like the first one and slowly become educated on what is a better choice for them. And they have no idea what they’re looking for with a wedding photographer other than photos that they like for the most part that they can afford. And it’s really tricky to as a young couple getting married or an old couple getting married to understand what your experience is going to be like on the day, depending on who you choose, what the end product might be like, depending on who you choose and whether their cameras are fair trade and whether that will affect your enjoyment of your photos in 20 years. Like you, you really don’t know and nobody’s doing a lot of educating on that stuff. and trying to educate couples on that. Josh Withers (13:24) You imagine if a wedding photographer turned up with like a Nikon or something like that, it’d be horrible. Joshua Mikhaiel (13:29) a potato, ⁓ imagine. But it’s hard because obviously I could try and spend my social media life educating couples on how to make a good choice. But the algorithm is not going to reward me for that unless I do it in a tutu and make it ridiculous. ⁓ So there’s not Josh Withers (13:30) Titus. Don’t flush that idea, that’s a solid idea. Joshua Mikhaiel (13:50) Um, won’t be flashing that idea. Um, but it’s, it’s really tough for couples. Um, and I think I’ve been doing this for 13 years now. And I think more often than not, when I’m speaking with couples, I can sense that they don’t really know what they need or what they want. Um, which is why I like, I’ll often spend two hours in a meeting with couples trying to like help them. understand what they’re looking for even if it’s not me because I think it’s really tough for them to figure that out and no one’s really volunteering that help. Josh Withers (14:28) I think you might appreciate this quote. this little band. don’t know if you’ve heard of band from the early nineties called Oasis. They’ve had a few hits, but they’ve just recently started touring again, if you haven’t seen. But there’s a piece in the Hollywood Reporter by Stephen, I’m talking to people whose names I can’t pronounce like Macaulay. Stephen, I’m to say Zeitchik Joshua Mikhaiel (14:36) Mm. Yes. Mm. Josh Withers (14:51) But Steven wrote for the Hollywood Reporter. I was going to quote him, word for word, because I think it’s kind of beautiful. It would have been weird back in Oasis’s heyday to talk about a big stadium rock show being uniquely human. What the hell else could it be? But after decades of music chosen by algorithm, of the spirit of listen together radio fracturing into a million personalized streams of social media, the politics that fuel it, and ordering acts into groups of the allowed and the prohibited, auto tuning, overdubbing, washing out raw instruments. our current cultural era spell of phone zombification, of communal spaces, of record stores being disbanded. Just the simple act of thousands of people convening under the sky to hear a few talented fellow humans break their backs with a bunch of instruments. But the oldest of entertainment constructs now also feels like a radical one. And it goes on to say, the Garlagers seem to be coming just in time to remind us of what it was like before. To issue a gentle caveat, that by the power of positive suggestion that we should think twice before plunging further into the abyss to warn that human made art is fragile and too easily undone. In fact, in their case, it was undone for 16 years by its embodiments acting too much like petty humans. And the true feat, the band was saying triumphantly on Sunday is that there is a way to hold it together. And I just kind of like as you were talking through that, that act of making something. It’s, it’s a uniquely human and beautiful act. I don’t know if you remember a few years ago, there was, was this big conversation that like as the Sony R1 as the Canon, I don’t think it was the R5, it was the R1, whichever camera that there was that all the brands were getting to a point that they could start recording. think whoever wrote the article felt that like 8K video was 8K, 8K 100 frames I think was that that was their magical point that you as a photographer could stop capturing frames and start capturing video and then you get home and you and or computer from that I don’t know 8 hours of video which can you imagine 8 hours of 8k video But but some kind of system would choose from 100 frames per second Joshua Mikhaiel (16:56) Mm. Yeah. Josh Withers (17:11) of eight hours of 8K video. That’s something you or otherwise would kind of select frames out of that. Which seems like a really good idea. But there is, I don’t know, there’s just something special about someone standing there with a camera and there’s no photos being made right now. And then click and we click the shutter, open the shutter, sorry, click the button, open the shutter and a photo is made. Joshua Mikhaiel (17:14) Hmm. Josh Withers (17:40) And that process is not as simple as we’d like it to make it out to be like, and the studio photographer can do the same job. Like if they can click the button at the same time as you. So clicking the button, opening the shutter, like, yes, that’s a part of it, but there’s this whole process behind it of like getting to know the couple, what they value and what they like. And then. And then the editing process, which is like culling photos. So choosing, yes, this one, no, that one, but then the color grading and then all says, color grading itself is this, this is own art on its own, which is why some people can and do outsource it. Cause cause it’s, it’s its own art. I’ve got, I’ve got a friend who’s a colorist for film and for movies. And so that’s his whole job. His whole job is coloring movies. ⁓ so it’s, it’s a, it’s a beautifully weird process. and it’s kind of funny to think. Joshua Mikhaiel (18:13) Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Josh Withers (18:29) that Joe blow Jack and Jill from you know, local suburb just Google’s wedding photographer. Yes, he’s me. Joshua Mikhaiel (18:38) No, no, completely. I think one of the things that I often think about is that nowadays people have so many photos of themselves, but they don’t have many photos of themselves as themselves. Josh Withers (18:52) say that again. Joshua Mikhaiel (18:52) And your roll is full of photos of you, whether they’re selfies or they’re photos that you, you you were at someone else’s wedding and someone came up and held their phone up and you went with your partner or whatever. And it’s a photo of you, but it’s not a photo of you as yourself. When you’re actually joyful, when you’re caught in the moment, that’s not how you smile. Um, so one of the things that I’ll often do is couples will default to sort of look at me, put their heads together and smile the way that they smile for a photo. Um, and one of the reasons that often say, look at each other, not at me is because when you’re looking at something that you have a connection with your pupils, dial it differently because you have a connection to the object. If you get a text on your phone shows up that it’s from Brit, your pupils will do something different because there’s a connection. than if you get a text from me or Telstra or something that’s a lesser connection. Josh Withers (19:52) I actually look at my phone the same for you and Telstra, you guys when… Joshua Mikhaiel (19:55) That’s what I assumed. But there’s something that I think I’m trying to do and lots of photographers are trying to do, which is catch people being themselves at their weddings, giving that classic laugh that’s only theirs, that’s uniquely them, that’s in this world of AI and trends and whatever. It’s like, how can I catch you off? guard when you’re not performing for a camera, when you’re not trying to keep up with the Joneses, when your guard is down and you’re not expecting to be caught. Because I think 20 years down the line, that’ll be the memory that is more valuable to you than a photo in perfect light doing your camera smile that you have 17,000 photos of already on your camera roll looking like that. And I don’t think any studio photographer is less talented to do that. think they just have less options, not options, less lead up to understand the couple’s story and things like that to make it easier for them to catch them off guard, to understand what moments will be the vulnerable moments to capture because they’ve just been given a name and an address and told to show Josh Withers (21:03) I wasn’t at all denigrating or even having a go at studio photographers, just explaining that across that spectrum. And the spectrum is even it’s not good to bad. It’s not like it’s not there’s no judgment of quality or it’s just the spectrum is different deals and different deals are being done. Like I often think about as a celebrant. Every couple asks that that if I’m this celebrant, what happens if something happens? Joshua Mikhaiel (21:11) Yeah. Josh Withers (21:26) I’m sure they ask you. It’s a good question to ask. not even like, I don’t know. I don’t know if there’s a better way to ask you. It’s a great question. Like what happens if something happens? And I always struggle to answer the question because I’m like, honestly, I’m not too sure because… Joshua Mikhaiel (21:27) Yeah. No, it is. Hmm. Josh Withers (21:44) there’s been two weddings in my career that I’ve not attended. One of them was my first daughter being born and I had a celebrant organized already and the couple knew and the celebrant knew and then I’m like, hey, today’s the day. And so the plan fell into place and I didn’t do that wedding. And then the other one, the other wedding I didn’t do, they had months of notice because it my little brother’s wedding. And I said, like, I said. I’ve just got to do my little brother’s wedding. I’m so sorry. So I refunded them and can’t like obviously cancel to refund it. And they’re the two weddings I’ve not done in my 16 years of celebrancy. Every other wedding, like, yeah, there’s been days of not being feeling it. There’s been days where I’m like emotionally, physically, spiritually, you know, health just has not been at whatever level you might want it to be at. And, and in those moments, you know, I’ve done just gotten over myself and just figured it out. I’ve just Joshua Mikhaiel (22:14) Yeah. Josh Withers (22:33) I’ve just shoved the right pill in my mouth. I’ve drunk 10 liters of water. There was one day that I wasn’t feeling great in the morning. So I went and sat in the sauna for an hour, just kind of just worked it out. You know, you just, I don’t know, you just work it out. I’ve never not been there. And I was telling a friend yesterday that I do live in fear of that moment that I can’t be there because of travel, play, I don’t know, whatever reason, can’t be there, because I’m like, it’s got to happen, because none of us are perfect. Like none of us have a perfect run. Mathematically, something’s going to go wrong one day. And so if you get a studio, and I won’t say studio, that means it’s a business that has many of the same one under it. So studio DJ, studio photographer, studio. Joshua Mikhaiel (23:05) Yeah. Josh Withers (23:17) So they don’t really have studio celebrants in Australia or agency celebrants, but but most the other trades do Then in that moment when the person has Whatever thing is horrible They just there’s someone else gets caught in which is good. That’s the way it should be but Joshua Mikhaiel (23:20) Yeah. Yeah. Mm. Josh Withers (23:34) But for me, I just turn up and I feel for you, like I’ve got no doubt there’s a moment where you’re like, yeah, I can’t, you I’m dead. You call in a friend, but that’s the deal you make when you get you or I to do the wedding. each along that spectrum from studio photographer to Josh, to I know there’s like husband wife duos, there’s even friends of two or three friends in a business together. Each of those is a different deal and not necessarily better or worse, but it’s just a different. Joshua Mikhaiel (23:54) Yeah. Yeah. Josh Withers (24:00) I feel deal is the best word to describe it. It’s just a different deal. Joshua Mikhaiel (24:03) Hmm. Yeah. And I think as long as couples have the tools to understand what they’re getting themselves in for, to make the best choice for them, then that like, fair game. Like, I think what I feel for couples is they often don’t understand. Like maybe the couple who are upset about their studio changing the person, like didn’t think that that could happen because they didn’t know. they didn’t read the fine print or they didn’t ask the right questions because they didn’t know to ask those questions and that I feel for those people who get a surprise on their wedding day like I shot a wedding last year where a different videographer showed up and the couple didn’t know at all ⁓ and they said hi Adam and he said I’m Tim or you know and they were like where’s you know so they hadn’t even been let know and that was not ideal for them. Josh Withers (24:41) Wow. gosh. Joshua Mikhaiel (24:53) and yeah, like, there’s obviously not ideal situations, but when you haven’t had enough understanding of what the processes might be, I think that’s when it gets really difficult for couples. not knowing what to, what to ask or what is reasonable to expect. yeah. Josh Withers (25:11) So I’m gonna segue here into something that, and I’ll give you full permission to go to town on me slash the subject, because that’s, I don’t mind that kind of conversation. But I was asking you to trial that AI prompt for choosing a wedding photographer. So for those that haven’t seen it, if you go to my website, marriedbyjosh.com slash AI, I’ve got a handful of prompts there that I’ve kind of been thinking about working on, on ways I feel people could use AI to help them in their wedding planning. And it was funny, I had some people that I know and respect to love kind of like get quite negative on a few of the posts because they hate AI and AI is ruining everything. And there’s valid things through that, you know. not really here to hate on them. But the, I thought about how, how could AI be really, really useful in wedding planning? And one of them I thought was in people trying to find wedding vendors and because it’s funny, if you Google wedding photographer, sub wedding photographer, Brisbane, and there’s 10 results on the front page of Google, it’s like, I likely that’s not going to be your photographer. Joshua Mikhaiel (25:51) now. Yeah. Josh Withers (26:11) Like just mathematically, like no, no hate to anyone who’s ranking number one for wedding photographer, Brisbane wedding photographers, Sydney. It’s just highly likely they’re not your photographer. And maybe the second page isn’t even maybe, maybe they’re on the fifth page of Google. And, uh, because there’s all these different deals going on. And so people don’t know what they value. They don’t know what they’re for a photographer. And, and if you look in any big city, like, gosh, like how many wedding photographers are in Sydney? There’d be, I’m going to guess at least three to 500. Joshua Mikhaiel (26:13) Yeah. Hmm. hundreds. Josh Withers (26:41) Yeah, there’s probably 500 operational wedding photographers in Sydney. And there’s one of them who’s like perfect for you. And then there’s maybe 100 that are okay for you. And there’s 400 that are any good. so coming back around to people trying to find a wedding photographer, I thought maybe an AI prompt to try and narrow that down a little bit would be helpful because you can do really good web search in chat jbt today. So I these prompts. Joshua Mikhaiel (26:42) easily. Mm. Yeah. Yeah. Hmm. Josh Withers (27:10) And I think they’re okay. You helped me with a few questions, but it’s also been a few days since I’ve talked about it. ⁓ What do you think? Do you think? Yeah, just what do think? Joshua Mikhaiel (27:14) I did. Hmm. I think that, I think that it can have its place and I think that it’s helpful in certain situations. Like anything is, is good for certain things, but will fail at other things. I think for the couples who really don’t know where to start, probably super helpful. and it’s tricky cause everybody’s needs are so different. And one of the hardest things that I think is that people are often not aware or able to communicate those needs, whether it’s the wedding photographer or their needs in the relationship. Like across the board, we do not often know and have a deep awareness of our actual needs and desires and how to express them. And in that, your AI search will only be as good as your understanding of what you’re looking for and your ability to communicate the prompt, as well as where AI gets to along the way. Josh Withers (27:50) Hahaha Joshua Mikhaiel (28:09) and my hope is that people may be using your prompts can get a baseline and be like, as I see these options that AI is presenting me and how it describes those styles, I now have a better understanding of what I like and don’t like. And maybe I can use that to fuel a further search potentially. that can take me on a bit of a deeper dive because you might go to your average couple in Hobart or Brisbane or whatever and say, do you prefer photo journalistic wedding photography or editorial wedding photography? And I think 50 % of people would say, I have no idea what either of those things are. And it’s, it’s, it’s not something that you should have to know about in a way. So you could type into AI like we really want, you know. Josh Withers (28:51) you should be able to get no idea what’s going on. Joshua Mikhaiel (29:02) I don’t know, good photos. you have to be able to communicate what you’re looking for. And the hardest thing I think for people who are chasing the upper tier, right? Like these tools will obviously get you great options that will do the job. But I think for people who are looking for like the best choice for them, the absolute best choice, which is not everybody. Most people are like, give me a good option and tick that off my wedding planning list. But I think for people who are looking for the top tier thing, It’s very hard for AI to describe to you what that photographer’s presence on the day will feel like. It’s very hard for AI to tell you how much of the photographer’s time you can expect to experience being hands-on with planning your timeline and walking through the day. Will they voluntarily come to your rehearsal dinner the night before and like meet with people to get a better feel? Like those sorts of like extra touches and things. that can make a huge difference. I’m never gonna be something that is scrapable off the internet. And I think as we talk about the really personal touch that some people provide, I don’t think that AI is gonna ever be able to really, really, really help people make the decision that encapsulates the depths that some people will go to. Like I was talking to you, think when we caught up for coffee about a wedding that I did that was in someone’s backyard and their dog for whatever reason was just sus on me. And I was like this, they have a group chat obviously. But this dog was sus on me and it kept barking when I’d move around where it was. And I thought this is going to be a problem during the ceremony because I’m going to have to move and I’m the only person moving and it’s going to be upset. Josh Withers (30:26) or dogs are sus, they have a group chat. Joshua Mikhaiel (30:43) So I asked the groom before the ceremony if I could have some dog treats to periodically feed it through the ceremony so that it came on board and was happy that I was around and understood that I was kind of participating in its best life. And that worked and the dog didn’t bark through the whole ceremony and we were able to let them be fully present and the photos were better because of it. But I don’t know how to communicate to AI that… I think about those things on a wedding day, if there’s a potential like problem and how many times in the last 13 years I’ve prevented a stressed out mum from making it to the bride with an issue that I can see on her face. She’s running in with a problem and I’m like, let me stop you there. Let’s solve this ourselves before you bring that to your daughter right now. Cause I can see she’s already stressed and I think on a purely visual level of like choosing styles and things like that for a photographer or a florist or whatever, it’s probably going to be great. I think if people are chasing their like 1 % unicorn photographer who’s going to be their Goldilocks fit, it’s tricky for AI to again provide a personal touch like that, I think. Josh Withers (31:50) But that’s not an AI problem. think that’s like a problem in the world because how do you communicate that? yeah, like how do you communicate that? I think about a couple that are Harley and I, Harley McNamee from Bold Creative, we did their allotment recently. And for that couple, if they hear this, like it was innocent, so I’m not really having a go. But we got to the end of the ceremony. Joshua Mikhaiel (31:58) Yeah. Josh Withers (32:14) And as I do, as I would have done with an alignment with you or with anyone, I always check with a photographer, but if they’re okay with it, I’ll say, hey, let’s get them together for a big group photo. that some people do want the group photo. This isn’t really for or against the group photo. It’s just actually a really good opportunity to get everyone together and let them know, hey, we’re going to do some family photos. If you’re family, stick here. If you’re not family, go away. Joshua Mikhaiel (32:29) Yeah. Josh Withers (32:35) So it’s just, we get a group photo and that’s a photo that exists in the, in the gallery, but it’s, um, it’s more about the bringing everyone together. We just said, we’ve just had congratulations and, and so that’s why I do the group photo. Uh, and I, and so I, um, Harley said that’s okay. And so I said to the couple said, Hey, do you want to this? We’ll do a group photo. There’s some family photos. There’s no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, we don’t want to don’t any of that. No stage photos, just candidates. Um, okay. Cool. Joshua Mikhaiel (32:35) Yep. Yep. Josh Withers (33:02) Okay, you’re in charge. And then and then they proceeded over the next half hour to request individual photos with different people. Because they want to know photo with their mom, I like and it and both these things are fine. But people don’t often know what the different words mean. And they don’t like truly candid photos. Joshua Mikhaiel (33:03) Yep. Yep. Mm. Yeah. Josh Withers (33:25) you know, photo of you mid word and you look like you’re having a stroke. That can back that classifies as a candid photo. Is it a good candid photo? Maybe not, you know, um, because at the other end of the scale is, is the purely directed photos. think I’ve told you, uh, I had an experience Britt and I modeled for a photographer years ago and, um, and he was like, Joshua Mikhaiel (33:34) Yeah. Yeah. Mm. Josh Withers (33:49) I don’t know what the word is, but very directional, like essence of finger placements and all this kind of stuff. And it was a horrible experience. Someone probably likes it, but, but, but how, like, like, how do we fix this problem? How do we, how do we solve it? How do we, how do we, how do we get Jack and Jill who were planning a wedding today and Josh McCow is their perfect photographer, but he is their unicorn. How do you say that? Because this isn’t whether it’s an AI problem or not. This is a Joshua Mikhaiel (34:02) Mm. Josh Withers (34:14) communication problem, it’s a marketing problem, it’s an understanding problem. Yeah, it’s that. Joshua Mikhaiel (34:16) Hmm. there’s layers to it, right? And one, one problem is that photographers mostly don’t want to sit down over coffee for two, three hours with a couple and talk about every minute detail of a wedding day as the professional has been to hundreds of them and try and understand at every detailed level, the expectations and coach couples through what might. be the best option for them. Like from what it sounds like, that couple thought that group photos that were staged meant we all stand in one place in a line and take all these photos. And their idea was similar, but they were just like, when I’m talking to mum, maybe there’ll be a candid photo and then maybe I’ll just put my arm around here and we’ll also get one in that spot. And then as I move somewhere else and these photos will be slightly different instead of us all standing in one spot, making life easy for the photographer to get them all, ⁓ which is valid. Josh Withers (35:13) Yeah, yeah. Joshua Mikhaiel (35:14) but I think without spending the time you get, a less good product. And it’s tricky because it’s not like making a film where you have an editor and there are all these people who can like go back and reshoot anything afterwards as you communicate, no, we don’t like that. Can you change this? You need to do that work beforehand because it’s happening in one go and there’s one take and that’s it. and. people typically, even the couples probably don’t really want to have to sit down with all of their vendors for hours and hours and hours and go through every last bit of their day. But. Josh Withers (35:49) It can be a lot to go through all those details. Joshua Mikhaiel (35:53) No, it’s a huge undertaking. I unfortunately that’s part of what gives you the best results is pre-preparation and like not, I try not to impose myself in like, this is how you need to do it for it to go well, but to just ask really good questions so that I really understand what they’re hoping for so that I can then go and internalize that to make that happen for them without intruding on the wedding day. Cause if I’m like, the best way to do family photos is this, this, this, this, this. sort of twisting the day to be a photo shoot in a way that I don’t want to do personally. I could make their date better, but I’m making it less them every time I make it better because of something that I did in a way. So there’s, there’s a tricky balance for the way that I like to approach things. I’m getting less and less. hands on and being like, this will go better if you do it the way that I tell you to. And trying to focus less on will this be beautiful visually to will this be meaningful? And the photo will be more memorable if it’s meaningful, even if the photo is less perfect. The longer I do things, the more I’m like, does this mean something to the couple? I don’t care what it looks like if it means something because I think as everything gets less human, as we talk about like the Oasis experience, that’s happening to weddings too. We’re trying to maximise efficiency and speed and the flex or whatever it is and weddings are becoming less human as well. And I’m always trying to think how can we find ways to make them a more human, more connected, more authentic experience for everybody. And if I’m taking less pretty pictures, but that each picture means more to the couple, like I’m here for that, like all day long. Josh Withers (37:38) Okay, so let’s talk about that Venn diagram. I’ll call it a Venn diagram. And I’ll bring it back to me for a second and then let you reflect on it from a photography point of view. I often say to couples that there’s three layers to the cake or three circles in the Venn diagram that make a ceremony, your ceremony. there’s, if you’re getting married in Australia, and obviously this is true for anywhere in the world, but there’s this little circle that is like, this is what the law says has to happen. Joshua Mikhaiel (37:46) Mm. Yeah. Josh Withers (38:04) And in Australia, it’s 60 seconds of words. There’s a few this and this and this, but it’s minimal. But that’s unmovable. That circle is 100 % inside the Venn diagram of your ceremony. And then there’s two other elements. There’s two other circles that kind of make the Venn diagram. One is me and who I am and what I think is important. And when you book a celebrant, you are kind of saying, Hey, Josh’s worldview, Josh’s taste in what a ceremony is, Josh’s opinion on what a good ceremony is, what Josh believes and who Josh is and what Josh values. But you, you, you kind of hiring that. And so it’s my job to put that on display and see if some one of that matches up with you. and so, but then, know, Joshua Mikhaiel (38:29) Mm. Hmm. Josh Withers (38:50) you’re never gonna get all of Josh into your ceremony because it’s not my marriage. It’s not my relationship. It’s not my wedding. so, so then there is there’s a, there’s a part of me that let’s go with things because it’s not mine and it’s your wedding, which is the third circle. And like what parts of you two are reflected or should be reflected in your marriage ceremony. And so it’s this Venn diagram of me, you and the law. And Joshua Mikhaiel (39:03) Hmm. Josh Withers (39:13) And we figure that out. And we kind of, go through the, go through the process of figuring out how do people like you get married. and there’s obviously elements that I, I, it’s not even like, I don’t believe it’s not like I’m not going to make some big statement, but I saw a celebrant recently that was reading tarot cards in the ceremony. I don’t, ⁓ I don’t know how to read them. I don’t like the idea of tarot cards. Joshua Mikhaiel (39:31) know how to read them. Josh Withers (39:37) I don’t really know much about them. just, I’m not really a fortune teller-y kind of future telling person. I’m just like, we get to choose our future. That’s literally, in fact, what I believe is in the ceremony, we breathe our future into existence. We speak into existence. It’s like a, you know, it’s like a prophetic word. Like we’re saying, this is us. We’re going forwards in this way. And so I suppose from a worldview point of view, I’m probably anti-tarot cards, anti-tarot cards in a wedding. I’m not here to say tarot cards in a wedding are bad. I don’t really. I don’t care if you want them cool. I’m just not probably the celebrant for you. And so that’s where those kind of that’s where the Venn diagram kind of works out. And so when I choose you to be my wedding photographer, there is an element of them choosing your taste and choosing your style on choosing how you see the world through not just through the just through the physical lens, but through the metaphorical lens. Like how do you see things? And ⁓ so I am choosing that. Joshua Mikhaiel (40:14) Hmm. Yeah. Josh Withers (40:32) But then there’s obviously coming around to couples and I don’t want to start answering your question for you, couples see themselves in photos differently. For most of us, we see ourselves in mirrors. And so already that’s a flittering image, just like a, that’s a reverse image. And so we don’t always have the clearest idea of how we look in photos and whether or not we like that person. how do you do it? how do you do, how do you square that circle? It’s crazy. Joshua Mikhaiel (40:58) Yeah. Yeah, it’s complicated is the short answer. But I think trying to get a really good grasp around who the couple are. I mean, I pick up so much on the day too without, it’s often in the things that people don’t realize they’re communicating in the way that they move through their wedding day or they move through their meeting. I’m trying to watch everything in their first interaction. If they were holding hands at one point and then we get to the point of talking about which package they want and the price. And I see the, you know, the guy let go of his partner’s hand. I’m like, tension about how much this is going to cost. Like, right. Like, or maybe a bride comes out of the room dressed and I’m watching her eyes to see who she goes to first. If she’s like straight to the bridesmaids. I’m like, all right. So that’s the people she’s here to show up for in a way. And she’s so excited for their reaction. But if she goes to dad and like I’m watching all of the little interactions that are happening to see whether that lines up with the communicated stated values as they appear on the day as well. but I think It’s tough because I think just going back to like people don’t really know what they want. And it’s really hard to help people figure that out. Given my limited like invitation into that space for them. It’s not my job. I haven’t been asked. haven’t. I’ve been told to capture it. I haven’t been told to be your wedding coach. Even if I like to think that I could do the job really well. Because everyone has a different idea of what their wedding is. Some people are like, this is a party and we just want to have fun. Other people are like, this is a celebration of like our love and our marriage. And it’s all about like the commitment and the marriage and that the ceremony is the focal point. Other people are like, this is a photo shoot and a flex and we’re going to go to the craziest place. Josh Withers (42:57) Better shoot Netflix. Joshua Mikhaiel (42:59) This is, this is a photo shoot to put on Instagram and yes, we’re getting married, but you know, it’s not really what we’re here for. and sometimes you have competing values within the couple. One of them that’s there for a photo shoot. The other one’s there for the commitment ceremony. One of them’s there to flex their financial means. One of them’s there to keep their parents happy. Like there’s the Venn diagram is probably a lot more than three things. and it’s. Josh Withers (43:25) Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, particularly with the couple, I always see it’s quite rare for the couple to be completely unified about what the wedding’s for. They’re often pretty close, but still, for many people, when they’re planning a wedding, they are still in that earlier stage of their relationship. Less so these days, it’s common to talk to a couple that have been together for five, 10 years, but it’s still, you you talk to enough couples that they’ve been together one or two years. And just by pure definition of time, it’s not really a judgment of them and who they are and their ability to construct a relationship, but just by mere fact, if you’ve only known people for first two years, you don’t know everything. You don’t know most things, but you don’t know everything. And, Joshua Mikhaiel (43:45) Yeah. No. Josh Withers (44:06) because some things just take time. so, you know what? I think of when Britt and I got married, I probably didn’t fully understand at that moment that we were breathing to life our marriage. There was definitely a part of me who probably thought I want everyone I’ve known to come to this place and look at me succeed. Joshua Mikhaiel (44:18) Yeah. Josh Withers (44:25) Like look at me, I’ve married this hot chick. Things are going great for me. I’ve got a suit. I’ve had this guy to take photos of me. Things are pretty cool. I’m not a failure. Look at me, I’m not a failure. Yeah, that’s, and I wouldn’t have ever admitted to that at the time, but looking back, I’m like, there was like a, there was a spirit there where I just wanted to let everyone know that I wasn’t failing. Joshua Mikhaiel (44:26) Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, no, come celebrate me doing a good thing. ⁓ which is, is valid. It is valid. No, it’s just something that you, if you knew that maybe you would have made some slightly different choices about how you chose to do it. ⁓ or I don’t know. That is so, better barbecue sauce at the reception on the ribs. many things, but I think it’s so interesting because Josh Withers (44:49) Yeah, which isn’t, which is not evil or bad. Yeah. Yeah, would have got a better suit. Joshua Mikhaiel (45:10) Like I’ll photograph a wedding on a Friday that is completely constructed by the couple, for the couple, it’s about the couple. It’s their creation, their expression, their artwork in a way, if you will. And then I’ll go to the next day, I’ll go to a Russian Orthodox wedding or something else that is layered in thousands of years of traditions and rituals and things that the couple did not in any way shape or form come up with themselves and the wedding almost happens to them from start to finish and they are participants volunteering themselves into a ritual that comes before them and will be around after them and they walk through the fire of the wedding and come out the other side having had the traditions and rights like spoken over them. And I always just think about that and how completely different the two can be one day to another. Two people in love trying to express that and celebrate it, but one is like a complete vehicle of your creation. One is this long standing ritual that happens. to you in spite of you. And particularly, I think for the couples who are on the like, need to create something for ourselves. I always think about how much pressure there is to come up with new things and more creative things and how often that just lends itself to the wedding industry probably getting their claws in and here’s how you spend money to show people that this matters to you. where there’s no long-standing traditions to fall back on other than silly ones like throwing some flowers over your head backwards or you know things like that that we’ve held on to interestingly enough when there’s way better traditions if you dug back into your culture that you could have used but that we’re just so disconnected from. Josh Withers (46:48) Yeah. Joshua Mikhaiel (47:10) And I think that’s part of the stress for people is because the wedding day for a lot of Anglo Australians, let’s generalise, is a self-expression project and you don’t have a lot of connection to your roots potentially. You feel all these different pressures to make it this incredibly unique. tapestry of who am I in my 30s not knowing who I am yet that I have to look back on forever and live with whether it’s your mullet or the suit that you thought looked good on you at the time or it has to be timeless but it also has to be relevant now and on trend and all these things that just don’t make your marriage any better in 20 years time and Josh Withers (47:34) You Joshua Mikhaiel (47:47) Yeah, I wish I had a really good answer for like what couples can do to like invoke deep traditions that matter to them or start new family traditions that might be used in their children’s weddings or other friends, you know, will pick that up or what we can do to reclaim some healthier traditions that means something, whether people aren’t religious anymore or whatever, they don’t have connection to their family roots, like how they can bring something of meaning. to their day that isn’t just something they saw on Pinterest about putting different colored sand in the jar. ⁓ Josh Withers (48:22) Wow, coming out against the sand. Look at that. That’s how we’re to the podcast. Josh McHale has smashed the glass sand container. I do want to go on the record and saying that the word tradition has really been demonized in the last 10, 20 years of the wedding industry. Joshua Mikhaiel (48:27) Yeah. or I would if I could. Mmm. Yeah. Josh Withers (48:43) people will say that they are having a traditional wedding or they’re not having a traditional wedding or I am a traditional celebrant or I’m not a traditional celebrant or I’m anti-traditionalist. I just want to, so I just put the record on the podcast if nothing else. Traditions aren’t good or bad. They’re just a description of how your people do things. When I say your people, I just mean like you and your family and your… Joshua Mikhaiel (48:48) Mm. Yeah. Josh Withers (49:08) just where you come from. And there’s a Greek word called Oikos, which I love, which is like your circle of people. like, yes, it’s your friends. Yes, it’s your family. Yes. Crikey. Which is not too different though. It’s not too different from Oikos. But it’s just like, does your people do in moments like this? Because traditions. Joshua Mikhaiel (49:12) Mmm. not to be confused with oikaz. Josh Withers (49:28) Like a friend of mine’s grandpa just passed away, you know what’s traditional? They all went to a church for the funeral. And that’s not good or bad. It’s just like what we do when people die. And if someone dies in another culture, they do something else. so traditions aren’t bad. It’s just doing traditions for no reason. Doing traditions that you don’t like. Doing tradition that makes you vomit or feels horrible. That’s bad. But it’s fine. Joshua Mikhaiel (49:32) Mm. Josh Withers (49:52) It’s fine for dad to walk you down the aisle, but it’s also fine for dad not to. It’s just you looking at your family, your oikos, your tradition and saying, this is how we do things. And I wish more people got that because I feel weddings would be more joyful. Whereas I’ve seen, I’ve seen a non zero number of people crying about different things. They have to do their wedding. And I’m you don’t have to do anything, But make new traditions, do old ones. Joshua Mikhaiel (50:14) Yeah. Josh Withers (50:18) feel celebrated in those moments. That’s the path forward. Joshua Mikhaiel (50:21) Mm. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. Josh Withers (50:28) Joshua McCullough, I, I plan to spend the whole episode mispronouncing your last name and I, well, I’ll be honest with you. just feel like a dick doing that. So I’m not going to, I did it once though. That was fun. yeah. Yeah. I’ll just each time. Like how? Josh, because I do like you and I, I, I would like to see you succeed in life. B I like to do more weddings with you. C I, Joshua Mikhaiel (50:30) Mmm. You can edit it later, You’ll Photoshop that in later. Yeah. Josh Withers (50:52) I just want you to win. Tell people how they can find you and please give us a letter by letter spelling of your name so no one can get it wrong. Joshua Mikhaiel (51:00) Hmm that’s very hard, but I’ve got it written on the screen in front of me if you type in Joshua the way that it should be spelt k h a i e l three vowels in a row ridiculous In brackets Egyptian pronunciation difficult phlegm humus etc That’ll probably that’ll probably bring me up On Instagram if you type in Joshua and then mi usually I just come up first thankfully because Josh Withers (51:04) Hahaha Joshua Mikhaiel (51:24) weird last name. So Joshua Mai something blah blah blah will get you where you need to go but otherwise I accept all forms of carrier pigeon, venmo, Santa Claus letters on the roof etc. Josh Withers (51:35) you still running your early fans or is that over Joshua McHale. It’s always a pleasure to see your voice and to hear your face and thank you for joining us on the podcast today. Joshua Mikhaiel (51:37) Nah. Alright, go rid of it. Mm. A pleasure to be seen and heard. --- # Every Photographer Has a Budget - Episode 4 URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/004-every-photographer [← Back to Podcast](/podcast) Episode 4 # Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget Jan 1, 2026Duration: 50:57 Renee from Tobi Tobi joins Josh to talk live wedding music, slowing the aisle down, ceremony energy, and weddings that prioritise feeling. ## Watch ## Listen ## Guests [![Renee Cassar](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/renee_tobi_tobi_cnyO_EK2e?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Renee Cassar Renee is the lead vocalist of Tobi Tobi, a Melbourne-based wedding music duo known for acoustic, emotional live performances ](/podcast/guest/renee-cassar) ## Host [![Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Profile_Photo_2025_vv2Su1WCi?tr=w-96,h-96,f-auto,q-75) ### Josh Withers Josh Withers is a wedding celebrant, nerd, and podcaster who has been helping couples create meaningful wedding ceremonies for almost two decades. ](/podcast/guest/josh-withers) ## Subscribe [![Apple Podcasts](/podcast-icons/apple.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/for-those-of-you-who-dont-know-me/id1829408598)[![Spotify](/podcast-icons/spotify.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/320evetNPpezogHSK3AWRy)[![YouTube Music](/podcast-icons/youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMoJuTn0xHOafGIi4Fx8jWUX-j5kO4fry)[![Pocket Casts](/podcast-icons/pocketcasts.svg)](https://pca.st/7ywrgvae) ## Show Notes This episode sits in the heart of what weddings should be — emotional, intentional, and real. I’m joined by Renee from [Tobi Tobi](https://www.tobitobi.co) — a former music industry insider who now sings couples down the aisle across Australia and Europe — to unpack why music deserves more attention than a playlist request. We dig into how live music anchors people in the moment, why couples often rush the most meaningful 30 metres of their life, and how a ceremony becomes unforgettable when it’s allowed to breathe. We also go inside a tension many vendors feel but rarely say aloud: musicians and celebrants are often erased from photos and films, leaving couples with galleries full of cutlery and shoes — and nothing that reflects who shaped the day. We talk ceremony energy, industry culture, and what it looks like to prioritise feeling over aesthetics in a world that photographs everything. If you care about weddings being more than content — this one lands. ### Transcript Josh (00:03) For those of you that don’t know me, my name is Josh Withers. This is a podcast about weddings and joining me today is Renee from Tobi Tobi G’day Renee Renee (00:10) Hi, how are going? Josh (00:11) I’m great. It’s a summer day in Tasmania, which means it’s currently a very warm 13.5 degrees Celsius. I’m having a good day. Renee (00:19) great. You look like it’s warm in there though. You look like comfortable and good in your t-shirt. Josh (00:23) I’ve got the fire on just a regular a regular summer day in Tasmania. I’ve got the fire on the heater. Renee (00:30) Right, my mum’s in Tasmania and she’s always going, I think the weather’s actually better in Tasmania, like I think we actually have a lot better and I’m like, yeah but I’m pretty sure everyone I know from there says it’s cold, it’s very cold. A lot. ⁓ Josh (00:43) Yeah. But that’s the thing. The reason we moved here is because I love the cold. And I like my wedding work takes me around the world or around Australia. So I don’t really have a specific like he is where I work. So if I’m always going to be flying somewhere, we thought well, when I live somewhere, that’s awesome. And then I can fly to where I’m going to work. And so we’ve always loved Tassie, we had him in here in 2012 and fell in love. And we came back and Renee (00:56) Yep. Yeah. Yeah. Ugh. Josh (01:08) We love it here. I’ve got my little two acres in the human valley. It’s absolute paradise. Yeah. Renee (01:12) that’s amazing. my God, Tasmania is beautiful. To me, it’s like a mini New Zealand. It’s like, like breathtaking, people are more chilled and it’s like, how lovely. That’s great. Josh (01:16) Yeah. It is, yeah, yeah. It’s like if someone actually made New Zealand grades again, you know, it’s tazzy. Renee (01:29) No, New Zealand’s great. Have you been to New Zealand much? Josh (01:33) Yeah, I’ve got the two or three times a year for weddings and elopements And yeah, I love it. Yeah. Renee (01:36) Do you really? Oh my gosh, how lucky. I love New Zealand so much. I just think the people are like the warmest, most, you know, loving, kind people. You know, you just want to cuddle them all. I remember I sang at a wedding there and I was singing away and a few maoris came up and they were like, oh, this sounds so good. It sounds so good, bro. And I was like, I bet you sing like five times better than me, but like. is so lovely like that that just goes to show their personalities like they just want everyone to have a go and like they’re just yeah they’re just so soulful and nice but anyway we won’t give them too much props Tazzy’s the best Tazzy’s the best Josh (02:18) Actually, I will give I will give New Zealand a little bit of props because I was there for a wedding a few weeks ago. And anyone that’s been to Queenstown, I’m just gonna wait and prep this but I’m gonna guess you can answer correctly. When you go to Queenstown, you got to have which burger Renee (02:33) no, I don’t know, damn it. No. All right, okay, well now I do know and I will get that. Josh (02:35) ⁓ Ferg burger, you’re gonna have Ferg burger. Okay. Okay. Well, here’s the thing, though, when you got a Ferg burger, the line is down the street. It’s silly. It’s stupid. It’s actually not fun anymore. used to be fun. The burgers are still great. It’s just not fun lining up forever. But I was saying in our town, this is for anyone listening, who is going to Queenstown soon. In our town is the butcher that supplies Ferg burger, which is called Ferg butcher. You can actually get burgers from the butcher and Renee (02:50) Rhyme. I love you. love you. Josh (03:01) In my opinion, I Renee (03:02) I you. Josh (03:02) don’t know whether it’s just because you don’t have to wait that they taste better, but I think they just taste better. Renee (03:06) Yeah, right. well, that’s good. Good. Josh (03:07) I’m still thinking about the bacon and egg roll I got there a couple of weeks ago. It was beautiful. Renee (03:11) that’s great. how nice to be traveling so much, especially, yeah, to places like New Zealand that are not too far where you’re not like, my God, are you taking the kids with you when you’re traveling? Josh (03:14) Yeah, it’s good, it’s good. Yeah, sometimes sometimes we we took them to Europe this last some European summer. And Luna, my eldest, she said to us on the way home, she’s, don’t think I’ll do Europe next year. Like, ⁓ thanks, Bob. Thank you. I’ll take I’ll take that to management and let them know that my seven year old doesn’t think she’ll do Europe next year. ⁓ Renee (03:33) I’m You my god, who would she stay with your parents or something if she was to stay back? Josh (03:47) Yeah. So, so this coming summer, I’ll go by myself to Europe. I’ll do June, July in Europe for weddings and alomance. And then as a family, we might go back to next year. So usually they come, but not all the time. Yeah. Renee (03:51) Yep. Yep. Right. Yeah, that’s the same. That’s the same with us. Like all our Europe trips we’ve taken the kids. no, sorry. We did one trip for a week where we just went ourselves. And we I think we’ll end up doing more of that where we just go for one off, go for a one wedding. And people think, God, that’s insane. You’re going up for like two days and then coming back. But as a parent, you would know, Josh, it is kind of like Josh (04:05) Yep. Renee (04:22) holiday. Like I’m literally sitting on the plane. People are doing shit for you. They’re cooking for you. Your food is there. And you know, you’re just watching TV the whole time. Sorry, that’s just Jamie walking past. I’m like, you got to stay outside Jamie. He’s like mowing all the lawns. Mowing all the lawns. We’ve got one lawn. But yeah. But yeah, I feel like it’s actually quite relaxing and you like can dream. You’re just by yourself in this space like Josh (04:24) Yeah. 100 %? That’s right. Yeah. Yeah. Renee (04:50) You know, you can gather your thoughts. Yeah. Josh (04:51) that 15 hour leg from Yeah, the 15 hours from Melbourne to Qatar is one of my favorite flights. I like you like you just said you said that you do nothing no one asks anything of you. Yes, you can’t do any work you can’t do any emails no one can nag you people feed your food there’s TV and movies you can have an app if you can. I mean, I’m happy to fly economy I’m happy there. Renee (05:00) Yeah! No! Yes! Yep! That’s right. That’s right. exactly. I think any parent would agree with this. Anyone who has no children is like, what? Europe for two days? That’s insane. And anyone with the kids like, put me on the plane. Josh (05:20) Yeah. Yeah, I almost did one of those trips in September just gone. And ⁓ our little boy Jack was born just at the back end of November. And, and the couple keen and I even I want to over quoted him. didn’t over quote them. just quoted them fee pass cost travel. But sometimes you kind of like I really want to do that. You’ll take a bit of a hit. I didn’t take a hit. And they were keen but then Renee (05:27) Right. Yeah. Yeah, right. Josh (05:45) I’m like, Brit was like, kind of the back end of September starts edging towards when babies could arrive if maybe even things go wrong, you know, and I just, I didn’t do it. but part of me thought, just, just to go and spend four or five days alone would be a real treat. Renee (05:50) Yeah. Yes. Yeah, yeah, it’s really tough those decisions. Like we had, I had a similar one when I was pregnant, you know, flying in that last three months as well. And I looked it up on, you know, Google and whatever. And there’s hardly ever any pregnant women give birth on planes even late in their third trimester. So it’s like, like, you know, am I gonna, you know, tempt this tempt fate? And, you know, yeah, we decided not to fly so close to the end, but Josh (06:09) Yeah. you Renee (06:27) Yeah, it’s a hard decision to make. Especially, yeah, leaving your partner, you know, you could technically go and you’d be okay, but then if something did happen, God forbid, you’re like, I’m bloody, you know, 24 hours away. It’d be terrible. Josh (06:32) Yeah. Yeah, well, I mentioned I had the wedding in New Zealand. I flew back from New Zealand on our due date. And that week was, yeah, that was, it was not stressful. was just just on tender hooks the whole time. And every time I’d get a phone call from Britain, like, hopefully this isn’t the phone call, like, please don’t be the phone call. But it all worked out fine. I actually haven’t told the story anyway. So I’ll tell it here. Renee (06:46) my gosh. Right. Yeah. yay! Josh (07:02) On on Saturday the 29th of November, I had a wedding in Melbourne, so flew to Melbourne for the day. It was a real flying flyer. I kind of got off the plane at like 12 o’clock. I called an Uber to the to the ceremony, did the ceremony, kissed and hugged everyone, called an Uber back to the airport, got on the plane and got off the plane at like quarter past five. And there’s a text message from Britt saying, hey, don’t dilly dally, come home. I’m not feeling good. Got some pains. And so I get home, I look at her, thought tonight might be the night. So I fill up the bath for us to give birth at home, not the bath, the birthing pool. ⁓ And they take a long time to blow up, like you’ve got to inflate it, then you’ve got to fill it with hot water. So it takes forever. And so this is probably about six, do I start that. And 45 minutes later at 11 past seven, she messages the midwife saying, think tonight’s the night. She jumps in the pool, the pool’s still filling up. Renee (07:34) I think we’re Yeah. Josh (07:50) And she starts laboring the midwife arrives and at 747 she gives birth. She was she labored for I like it. Yeah, less than like less than 45 minutes and and Jack was born before the sunset. It was great. And I got home from the airport fine. Everything was perfect. Renee (07:55) ⁓ my- Wow, that’s terrific. how beautiful. my God. That sounds so nice. I love home birth stories. They’re really lovely. were your kids there as well or no? ⁓ that’s so nice. my gosh. That’s so beautiful. Yeah. And you’re making me want to have a third child. Cause I think it would be so nice to have your kids involved in that. I was at a wedding as well when I went into labor. Josh (08:09) Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they were keen. They were loving it. Yeah. Renee (08:35) with my second child and we drove to the hospital. I was feeling really good. I could tell the contractions were coming on quicker. I was like, there were two minutes apart or something. I went to the hospital, but they just then completely stopped. Even though I was completely relaxed, I was happy to be there because it was Jamie’s sister’s hospital. She was a midwife. So she knew all the staff and she was texting them and I was like, this is great. Like I have a little connection with these people. And then Josh (08:45) Yeah, yeah. Renee (09:01) It just stopped, just completely stopped. And she’s like, well, you could go home because we’ll have to rupture your waters or something if you stay here. So I was like, I don’t really want that. I’ll go home. We go home. And then I took something, I’m a little bit of a self-experimenter. So I took something called the Midwives Brew. I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of that, but it’s like a tiny bit of castor oil with pineapple juice and like some other things. Josh (09:21) ⁓ I thought you were gonna say castor oil, but it’s not castor oil, it? ⁓ it is. I think I think everything it sounds like everything else is just to make the castor oil tastes less horrible, right? Renee (09:31) Anyway, so I- Yeah, it’s basically the car store, but you got to have the tea. If anyone’s going to look it up, you have to have the tea because the tea activates something. Anyway, just whatever, just use the tea as well. Anyway, I drank it and then just like with my other child, it started coming on straight away, contractions started happening. And I was like, we’ve got to get in the car. We get to the car. And I was like, no, we can’t, we can’t go to the car. We’ve got to go back to that. And at this point we’re living in a hut, which was like a, like a Josh (10:02) Josh. Renee (10:03) handmade mud brick house while we built this house that we’re currently in. But it was really rugged and cute like cottage thing. like, you know, yeah. And so we’re in there and I gave birth like 45, not even 45, like five minutes later because I had been laboring then for like three hours or whatever. And then, yeah, it just went like bang. I think after child number one, things just happened so much faster. Josh (10:23) Yeah Renee (10:29) Was your wife’s first birth quite long? Josh (10:30) Yeah. Yeah, it was about four to five years. Um, her first, yeah, it was, we, we, we saw multiple prime ministers through her labor. Yeah. Yeah. It was, um, and the second was like just like an hour and a half, hour and a half, hour 45, something like that. Yeah. Yeah. So I don’t know if we’re gonna have more kids because, uh, it just might be, you know, just a zip. Renee (10:43) god. Yeah. ⁓ yeah, Yeah, that’s great. Two seconds. Here we are, we’re pregnant Earth, it’s happened. Josh (10:58) You know, it’s, um, it’s funny you mentioned going to the hospital and, and the mood changes and you’re maybe under stress or just your, I don’t know if mental state or emotional state is the right way to describe it. I’m oversimplifying, but, uh, through all of their pregnancies and births of, cause I work in the wedding space as you do, that’s just a wedding podcast. Apparently. Um, I, can’t help but spend the whole time kind of correlating. Renee (11:22) I’ll get to that. Josh (11:26) the vibes of pregnancy and giving birth. And there’s like so many kinds of connections to getting married. it’s a not, it’s not the same procedure, but just even vibes like, gosh, and this is probably a good segue to talk about weddings. The, I feel like a lot of people don’t spend enough time thinking about talking about the vibe of their wedding, which is a real generalised term, but just like how it feels. And instead, yeah, like we spend so much time. Renee (11:32) Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes! How it feels. Yes Josh, Josh (11:55) on how it looks, which Renee (11:55) how it looks. Josh (11:57) is important because how things look affect how they feel. ⁓ know, like, and so not to dismay how it looks. And also, we spend a lot of time on budgets. Like my favorite thing, I commented for the first time the other day a Facebook group, someone said, looking for a budget photographer. I said, Hey, do you know every photographer is a budget photographer? It’s just what changes is your budget. Because that Renee (12:00) Exactly. Josh (12:18) Everyone has a different budget. Like every photographer isn’t someone’s budget. but money is important. Like we don’t have endless money. So how much you have to spend is a thing. But I feel that those two are kind of legs on the table that is vibe. And I know like I’m sure you and I’ve both been at weddings where the vibe hasn’t been there. Renee (12:18) That’s right. That’s right. I love that Josh. love those thoughts that is yeah, perfectly put. Like people do think about all the aesthetic things that need to obviously go into a wedding. But there’s one chat that I have with every bride before she walks down the aisle and that is like, just stop for a moment before you walk down, take a few deep breaths and use the music. if you like what we do, which I hope you do, because you’ve hired us, if you, you know, use us to connect with the moment and the present time, because when I was getting married, I had my best friend singing me down the aisle and she’s amazing, got the most beautiful voice and I cannot remember a single part of it because I was just bolting down the aisle. I just bolted down the aisle. And that’s not because I was obsessed with aesthetics or anything, because that’s, I really had a really kind of cheap backyard wedding. But what I didn’t take time to do was just soak it in and just go, okay, what do I want to feel on my wedding day? I want to feel the love and I want to feel the joy and connected to all the people here. Like, so I always have that chat, just use the music, connect to it. Doesn’t matter how long you take. If you take the whole song to walk down, that’s why you’ve got live musicians. We can play it three times. Like it doesn’t matter to me. It’s not really gonna matter to the guests. All that matters is that you feel good and you feel centered and like grounded and like I’m ready to walk down the aisle, you know? That’s what matters. And it’s really hard to get that across. Cause I can see even if I’ve had that conversation, there’s still brides that just like powered down the aisle. And I can see it in their face. They’re just all up in their head and they can’t. Josh (13:56) Yep. Yeah, yeah. Renee (14:22) get out, they can’t like, just relax and let the day take them because there’s so much pressure. It’s so full of pressure and anxiety and the money that you spend and it’s like, yeah, we almost need to have it like a meditate. I’m thinking about putting together a meditation that you can sort of do for five minutes, pop your ear pods in, even with your dad, just hugging your dad or whatever, just put it in and zone, get in the zone and then you start the day. because I don’t want brides, yeah, breathing, breathing, do some breathing techniques like God, but yeah, Josh is a beautiful way to put it. It’s the same with birth. It’s like, yeah, you kind of think, I’m gonna do this with my child, I’m gonna do that. And you think about all the things, but how’s it gonna feel? how is it gonna feel that labor? What’s it gonna feel like afterwards? Like, yeah, yeah. You’ve hit the nail on the head. Josh (14:51) Even just some breathing, yeah. Yeah, yeah. So I wanted to have you on the podcast for a good reason, which I’m going to get to soon. But I wanted to start with something that I was thinking about as I was thinking about having you on. so I’m, don’t know if you know this, but I’m former breakfast radio. So I used to be on breakfast radio every day and I was on the hit music station. So we were playing the hits. And the reason I took that career is because I used to listen to the radio and I loved hearing the newest music and like, and then Renee (15:19) Okay, yep. Okay. Yeah. Josh (15:41) As I kind of got into radio, I really, I kind of understood more the curation aspect of music and the music industry and that we as a radio station would create music and put it on the air. And, I was like, Hey, these are the hottest hits. Like we’ve decided we have a hot hits curators, know? Um, and over the last 10 to 20 years, that’s really changed. And I’m, I’m really interested in, and I don’t know whether you’ve had to start, um, Renee (15:51) Yeah. Yeah! Josh (16:11) experiencing this yet, but I feel it’s if it hasn’t happened already, it’s on the it’s on the cards, that wedding entertainment, and wedding entertainers that that those groups will splinter more as the music industry is splintered. Because it used to be, you know, if I’m who if if if if Beyonce if Beyonce released a new album, most of us like the album, we all knew the album, we don’t know the songs. But today, Renee (16:26) Yeah, yeah. Yep. Yep. Josh (16:34) Like you and I listening to different new music, like I could like a Stu Larson, friend of mine just released an album this week. I’m sure that you and anyone else hearing this doesn’t know who Stu Larson is hasn’t heard his new album, probably never will. And that’s okay. Like that’s, that’s how taste works. But as far as providing way to winning entertainment, like that’s such a, it’s just such a wild space to be in to think that the hundred, the top 100 or the top 40 or whatever it might be just doesn’t really exist anymore. Renee (16:46) Yeah. Yeah. Josh (17:02) And, and how do you start addressing that? Renee (17:02) Josh, I’m loving your co… Gosh, you definitely are the right person to start a podcast. I tell you what. But I think that’s a really great question. think, where to begin? Okay, firstly, we might’ve met because I was signed to Universal Records back in a long time ago and I did the radio. I did the radio rounds. I’m like friends with Dave Higohiggins still. I don’t know if you know him from Triple Josh (17:20) wow, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yep. Renee (17:29) Anyway, but back to your question, which is the most important thing. Yes, we’re so splintered and it’s not just like top 40 now. I was actually thinking about that when it comes to like bigger bands and what they play on the dance floor, because I was thinking I’m into Sabrina Carpenter at the moment, which is so not our lives. But like, I was like, I’m thinking, I’d love to eat this at a wedding, like, and just get down to Sabrina Carpenter. But then like how many people do? I mean, she’s probably quite a big one, yeah, think when it comes to choosing wedding bands, it’s good to look for people that do a variety of music. you can know, okay, that person can do country, they can do jazz, they can do pop, they can do rock. Or if you like a specific genre, then target a band that just does that genre. or love that genre and put out lots of music on that genre. For me personally, I love all the genres. I will sing a musical Disney song and then I will sing Mumford and Sons and then Beyonce. And I love, because that’s what I love and that’s what I wanna do. But yeah, it’s a tough one. Yeah, it is a tough one because most bands like we will learn two to three songs per wedding. Otherwise it just gets chaotic if someone says, know, like, can you learn everything on the Muffin and Sons catalog or everything on this and that and artists they adore, it just gets too much. We can’t spend every minute learning songs. So yeah, that’s the thing. I would choose someone that already does ask for their catalog, choose someone that already does a lot of the songs that you love, ask for their catalog and then look through their catalog of music and… you can say, okay, well, they already do like 30 songs that I love. And then add in a few for those special moments that you want, and just make sure that they’re on the right page. But for me personally, I haven’t felt it. Like I haven’t felt like, they’re asking for a lot or this is so out of our range or this is really different. I have not, yeah, but also we do. the ceremony in canapes mostly. don’t do receptions as much. I wonder what asking somebody who does that space, what, you know, what the bang is, you know, yeah. Josh (19:41) Yeah. It’s probably more of a DJ thing as well because so I was watching a YouTube video over the weekend with a guy because this is my YouTube algorithm is just talking dirty song things just nerd. I like to nerd about dirty things. And it was a guy talking about why why is teenage dirt bag such a popular song. Renee (19:57) That’s great. Josh (20:02) And he was describing the chords. and I am not spun off to retail in a river on the podcast, but I’m sure if you Google why is teenage dirt bag a popular song, you’ll find the same truth. And, and, and he goes, it was such a popular song that my wife walked in the aisle to it at our wedding. I’m like, when he said those words as, you’re probably hearing, you’re like the recorded version. And then they played it. I don’t know. It was, it was like an acoustic, feminine acoustic version of the song. And, Renee (20:26) Awesome. Josh (20:27) And I’m like, Oh, that’s, that’s probably where having a wedding music or a duo comes into its strength is, um, you can say you walked in there on a slipknot, but an acoustic version, like, Oh, an acoustic version of that sounds lovely. Whereas the recorded version, a little bit different, you know, so there was that freedom of them. Renee (20:46) Yeah, that’s right. Like, simply the best is one of the ones we get the most requests for. you know, you, I mean, you could have Tina Turner, you could have the Tina Turner. If you like it, you should do it. But I, you know, we strip it back into this nice, you know, romantic, because those, words in that song are actually amazing and really heartfelt. So it’s like, and 500 miles, we do that with 500 miles as well. It’s like, you know, classic, you know, Josh (20:59) Yeah. Yep. Renee (21:15) great with grooms love that song. So it’s like, it’s great to have an acoustic duo do those types of songs. Josh (21:22) Yeah, no, that’s interesting talk. All right, let’s let’s get controversial. And it’s kind of it is pivoting a little bit off the back of, of talking about how weddings feel because I saw me I’ve been a marriage celebrant for must be 16 years now, think, 617 in May, actually. And definitely something that I’ve seen when something that I’ve encouraged something I’ve pushed for. And if I’ve seen an opportunity to pull a lever that would encourage more of this, I’ve done that is Renee (21:27) the Yeah. Josh (21:47) weddings have become more and more and more about being married and not getting married. And there’s more and more, um, reality. Uh, I was trying to think of the best way to describe it when I was preparing for the podcast. feel like weddings of old were a little bit of a role play, kind of like a dress up. Like we’re dressing up as fancy people, role playing as fancy, fancy people. And, and the capturing of a wedding. Renee (21:55) Mm-hmm. Josh (22:16) leant into that, that like, you wouldn’t normally get photos of yourself this good. But on your wedding day, you’ll dress up, you’ll look beautiful, you’ll feel amazing, you’ll have all the fancy things. And the photographer from the videographer would capture that in a beautiful cinematic, fine art, lovely, beautiful way. And I’ve actually, I like that kind of photography. I those photos of me. But the world has shifted a little bit, a lot, maybe and Now we are leaning more into the reality of a wedding day. The fact we’re getting married to be married and our, and I guess it’s in a world where we have great cameras. I’ve got great cameras behind me. love making good photos. we have AI, generate, generate a video and photos in that world where we can make these perfect, beautiful things. The capturing of a wedding has shifted a little bit too. And this is where content creators have really found their niche. to just like, just capturing the reality of it, just like not, not making it beautiful. What just, what is, is there is beautiful. The fact you’ve invited these people, the fact, the fact you’ve got these people, the fact you’ve got this museum, you’ve got this celebrant, et cetera, in this place, we’ve decided this is beautiful and we’re capturing it like this. Which I feel. has brought us to a place where you and I have experienced that you kind of, look at the wedding photos and video and you’re like, you wouldn’t know that Josh Withers was the celebrant there. You wouldn’t know that Toby was playing music. You just wouldn’t know. And you and I have in private conversation discussed how that’s… Renee (23:41) I’m out of Josh (23:47) It matters to me, I’ll speak from you, I’ll let you speak for you in a second, that it matters to me, because I’m not just doing another ceremony. Like part of the reason I became a celebrant was because I, I saw a celebrant doing just another ceremony. And I thought that sucked. And I wanted to not just celebrate marriage in an idealistic global way, but celebrate this person, this person’s marriage and they’re coming together. And that’s important. We love that. So I put heart and effort into it, put work into it. And I consider it to be the best part of the wedding. And not that I need to be captured for my glory, or I need to be photographed or videoed. So that everyone knows how great I am. Because I don’t think being I don’t think one photo in the photo album is gonna do that. I don’t think a five second shot in a video is gonna do that. But that it’s just that’s all part of the story that is that these two got married and Joshua has made this seller ceremony. Well, not even Josh with us, that guy who maybe isn’t even named made their ceremony and the ceremony was good and important and, true for every other element of the day as well. That if they’ve got my friends at wheel and spoon, if they’re serving ice creams, that’s a deliberate choice. The couple made to pay whatever they paid for that and to have these ice cream flavors like a, like a, um, Dan and I were from wheel and spoon was talking and he’s like, he’s choosing, like they’re choosing these certain flavors for you at certain times. And it’s, it’s, it’s every element of the wedding is so intricately intimately chosen. Renee (24:43) Yep. Yep. Josh (25:10) and then you see the photos of a personal and then you see the kind of capturing back and you’re like, you wouldn’t know we were there. And I just think it’s dishonest to the truth of the wedding. Renee (25:10) Personal Josh, perfectly put, I actually think you’ve just nailed it because it’s a delicate conversation to have because we honestly owe a lot of our success in this industry to amazing photographers and amazing videographers. There are some beautiful people in this industry and you know that it’s working with some of the nicest people around, but there’s a lot of people that Honestly, either I don’t know what it is or whether they’re focused on aesthetics now so much that if you don’t like how we look or I don’t know what it is, but I just wholeheartedly agree with everything you’ve said. The couple have chosen and spent time and effort in choosing this list of vendors and where celebrants and musicians are there on the day celebrating with the couple and for the couple. And that should be reflected in videos and photos. And like you said, getting a shot or split second of video is not going to do anything for us promotion wise. Like it’s not like we’re gonna blow up or like, you know, but it makes me sad for the couple. Like I loved our celebrant Josh. He was sort of of your vein. He was hilarious and just really engaging and real and funny. And we went to a lot of effort into choosing him. and making sure he was right for us. And I’ve got this beautiful photo of him, you know, with the mic in this like engaging the audience position. And I remember that photo. It’s in my photo album because I value him and the photographer obviously appreciated that as well. And that is a part of my memory. And unfortunately our memories, my memory is shocking. You know, it is so bad. I can’t remember anything. Literally a week later, I will forget. you know, having his image in our wedding book, just, I know I’ll never forget him. You know, like I’ll be reminded of him and reminded of how funny he was every time I look at that photo. And yeah, I think it’s a no brainer to me. It’s almost frustrating that this conversation has to happen. Why do we have to be reminded, why do we have to remind photographers and videographers to take photos of things that are important? Like I don’t have to ask people is music important? I know music is important and I know celebrants are important. So why don’t they know that it’s important? Like I’ll tell you a hilarious story and this goes back to my memory and how quickly I forget but. We worked with this videographer a little while ago and we sang, talked to the bride for ages about the exact timing of a song she wanted to come down the aisle to and how she wanted it to sound. She wanted it acapella in certain moments and we sort of orchestrated this aisle moment. Anyway, this videographer took a little snippet of me strumming the guitar, not any part of me or any part of our duo. It could have been anyone on guitar. you know, just strumming away, then used our audio in the video and then didn’t tag us in the caption. Like, so they’ve used our audio, they have put my hand in, which is something, but it’s almost better not to be in it at all, to be honest, that’s what I would say. But yeah, and then I was working with this same videographer recently and I’ve been reaching out to videographers just being like, you know, we love to be part of the video in any way, like just a snippet, just, you know, passing by, just, you know, just so the couple can remember who we are and what we’ve done and how we played a part in their day. And I said to this videographer, you know, videographers these days, they’re just taking snippets of our hands now. And it was the same guy who turned our other one. And he just kind of looked at me funny and kind of and then we talked about it later. And I was like, shit, that’s the same guy. Like, I’ve really just put my foot in it. But I, I, hate it. Like, I hate being reduced to, you know, all these years, 20 years, I’ve been rehearsing and playing and practicing, and I’m reduced to Josh (29:38) Ha ha ha ha ha! Renee (30:00) my that you know I hate it ⁓ Josh (30:03) And if I could add some context to it, because I feel that maybe, like, I’ve been doing this a long time, and I know a lot of people that have been doing a long time. And, and I am probably guilty of missing this important fact, which happened through COVID. And I don’t, this isn’t going to be the COVID cast just FYI, but there was a cultural change through COVID, which is really important for us to recognize the wedding industry that much like with many other cultural big cultural events that occurred. for example, when 9-11 occurred, it became okay to put the lower thirds on TV and have the rolling news to go going through. That’s that is a result of 9-11 that CNN and MSNBC and all those channels couldn’t convey enough information at once. So not only would there be people talking on the TV, but there’d also be a rolling ticker at the bottom with other news. So there’s these things that happen through big cultural events. Renee (30:55) Yeah. Josh (31:00) And we’re left with the remnants and society is better or worse for it. but something to happen in the wedding industry that maybe many of us haven’t really picked up on is that everyone getting married has permission now to have whatever size wedding they want. Because for periods there, are forced to allow or force have micro weddings. and the results of that is now when you turn up to a wedding this weekend and that wedding is what it is. If it’s zero guests, if it’s two guests, if it’s 20, if it’s 200, if it’s 2000. In most cases, people have actively made that decision. Like they wanted that. Which is, which is not, not the truth pre COVID. I don’t know if you’ve ever had some of this extreme, but I remember consoling a bride who was crying because she didn’t want to have the wedding. She wanted to get married, but she didn’t want to have the event she was about to walk into. And, and like I said, as a good celebrant, she’ll be like, know, Renee (31:35) Yeah. Yeah. Josh (31:54) You don’t have to do any of this. You know, if there’s consent issues around your marriage, like that’s a concern for me. But also as a friend, let me tell you, none of this has to happen. But also have kind of paid for it. And I didn’t say that. But yeah, and I consoled her and she got her she got through it. And she walked in. it was a great day. But she didn’t want to have a wedding. But COVID now gave us the permission to have the wedding we’re having. So when someone’s invited their 200 guests, they are with intention with purpose. And if they’re not that’s that person’s loss because they had permission. And if they didn’t take the permission, that’s their that’s their fault. But so so used to be you’d go to a wedding and the guests would be like, Oh, he’s guess our bloody guess. I guess there’s always guests here. Family photos. Oh, gosh, I hate family photos. Like, cool. Now when you talk to a wedding, those people were invited, they’re intended to be that they’re wanted. They have valued people in their couples life as are the vendors. Renee (32:49) Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Josh (32:52) And, and so I would hope that would encourage us to capture everything in a new light. Well, you might hate family photos. In that case, don’t be a wedding photographer. Like go and photograph other things. ⁓ yeah. and that applies for all of us. Like, like me as a celebrant, like this, I’ve been guilty in the past. I’ve been like, yes, it’s like getting in the way of me having a good time with this couple. But I’ve had to realize like, you know, like this is a communal exercise here. We’re all doing it together. Renee (33:04) Yeah. Yeah Josh (33:19) Um, and I just think that’s a really important thing for us to, to realize. Cause I’ve, um, I, I shared a story with you of an allotment I did once where I picked a photographer and videographer up. all went to the wedding together. wasn’t like, sorry, we went to the allotment together and we’re all friends. I know these guys, I love them. Like we’re, we’re friends. We have each other’s friendliness and we text each other every now and then. And they, um, they, I saw the gallery and the video afterwards and you wouldn’t have known there was a celebrant. I’m like, there was two people present, two, the couple plus the video photo and me. And so not only was I absent, but the video and photo was absent. I’m not saying every photo needs to have a videographer in there, but there’s just, there’s just a dishonest part to it. And I’m not suggesting that photographers like, gosh, as I’ve said, these words, my God, I’m to get the fury of photographers on my bloody Instagram as we share this, which I don’t mind. but I just, don’t think it’s, it’s evil or it’s bad. I just think culturally the world has changed and weddings are happening with intention now. And I hope the capture of them would include that intention. Renee (34:22) get. Yeah, yeah, perfectly put. can’t, yeah, it’s crazy that that, but it just goes to show, yeah, I don’t think it’s, I honestly don’t think it’s intentional. Do you think sometimes that we’re viewed as behind the scenes? Cause I put up a post recently. Yeah, I put up a post and I probably shouldn’t have done this where I singled out a particular vendor. Josh (34:43) The help. Renee (34:51) for not including us, because this couple had flown us across the world to play at her wedding. We played three hours over dinner, we played canapes, we were there for a long time. Afterwards, the bride was gushing to me, you’re one of my favorite parts of this wedding, like we chose you almost first and you know. Okay, so that’s the importance of what we thought. We had like this stage, we were like in the middle of this thing, you know, this gorgeous place. I’d put a lot of effort into my attire, you know, as I always try and do because I do keep in mind that idea that, okay, if there’s a photo or a video, then I want to, you know, match everything or at least be classy and be, you know, okay. So, you know, then we get left out of this video, this two and a half minute video. And I singled out this vendor and I probably shouldn’t have because it happened so much that I think I just got to the point where I was fed up. Like just a bit like this, I’m just fed up with this, especially, I wanna make a post about this, especially because the cutlery seems to get more Josh (35:55) you Renee (36:09) attraction than the musicians and it’s like it seems to be I hope it doesn’t sound sarcastic because it’s meant to it’s meant to highlight the fact that there’s more importance being placed on the aesthetic is what you’ve what you was talking about before on the aesthetic of the cutlery and the plates over how I made that couple feel and I don’t care I don’t Josh (36:09) You Yeah. Renee (36:38) I don’t care if there’s not a two second spot of me and I’m not gonna use that video. I’ll put it up on my story and say, beautiful video. Like that’s what I do, but it’s not gonna get me anything. This videographer didn’t tag us or anything in it. So it’s not for me. It’s the fact that this couple now, whenever they watch that video, we’re not there. We’re not there and it was so important. Josh (37:03) Yeah. Renee (37:06) She said we were a highlight. it’s yeah, it’s like getting back to that feeling, to the feeling and what matters. And I don’t care if you’ve got, you know, if we look fugly, if you think we’re horrible looking or like, you know, we’re wearing some funky shit. It doesn’t matter. The couple chose us to be there. So I don’t care if my hair’s purple and I’m wearing a Josh (37:30) Go. Renee (37:35) I don’t know, bandana. Like, I’m there because they want me there. And so you should reflect what that couple want. And we should say, do you think Josh, that 90 % of photographers and videographers are doing this? Would you say it’s like that 10 % that is just not caring? Or would you think it’s more? There’s more. Josh (38:00) Yeah, look, I tend to hang out with pretty cool photographers that are very, I guess, aware of the situation and their position of the world. So it’s probably more something I see through social media and whatnot. I think it’s, you know, I’m gonna say it’s it’s a symptom of the post. It’s a symptom of wedding magazines not being a thing anymore. But that’s how everyone shoots. We shoot to get in vogue or get in a Hello May or whatever it might be. And those magazines kind of had a shot list you’d need to do to get in there, which is included the cutlery. And and not the vendors with a gosh, particularly celebrant. I went to war with the wedding magazines back in 2013. Over the fact that that Renee (38:30) Yep. Josh (38:43) Just on one day in May, I picked up all the wedding magazines you could find in the local news agent. And none of them included the word celebrant or ceremony. There was not a celebrant in shown. There was no talk of vows or ceremony or getting married. Um, and yeah, I, uh, since that day, most of them haven’t really liked me, which is fine. I’ve got enough friends, but there is, there is a different world that exists now where, where it’s just not, it’s not the same anymore. And so. The old getting featured in the magazine isn’t the creme de la creme that it was. ⁓ it’s nice that you got the word Vogue in your bio, but I think people are looking for reality and connection. I, I suppose I do want to pull this around to photographers and videographers that they would know that they, they, they, their personality, who they are, that’s actually part of their product now. And so it’s not just that there’s not a photo of the celebrant. Renee (39:12) Thanks. Mm. Mmm. Josh (39:39) But it’s not a photo of you. And the couple hired you for you to hang out with you all day for you, not just to make photos, like your, your JPEGs aren’t your products, but you or your product. Same with the videographer and the successful videographers are the good people that people want to hang out with. So I think it’s, it’s a crime, not just that you, that you and I really aren’t in the video, but the photographer’s not. Renee (39:56) Yeah. Yeah. Josh (40:05) because we are all part of that creative team that make the wedding happen. Wedding planner, wedding planner, of them. there’s, it’s just, it’s just 1990, it’s not 1994 anymore. Like people are making these very beautiful weddings that have all of us as this creative effort. And I hope that’s where we can get to. I hope anyone that is currently hating us would listen that far. Just, you can, you can now stop listening. I’ve said what? Renee (40:09) Yeah, yeah, Yeah. AHHHH It’s such a delicate thing in how to say it right. I think it, you know, I listened to Brene Brown a while ago and she said to come at it from how you feel. Whenever you have a problem, come at it from how you feel. And every time I see a video when we’re not in it, it feels a bit like I’m worthless. Like I was not really, I didn’t really play a part in this. That doesn’t feel good. If I’m just flashed across the screen, I’ve got a video up for anyone who’s, I don’t know when this is gonna come out, Josh, but I’ve got a video up by, okay, awesome. And it’s like my third post and it’s a perfect example of just what I’m talking about here, just having, Josh (41:09) Yeah, probably in a few days. I’ve got nothing on. Renee (41:27) you know, split second of, you know, us and the celebrant in and everything. was by Annette and Danny and we work with them heaps in Melbourne and they’re beautiful. Their work is beautiful. But yeah, it’s just like little split second of everything that matters. Like the flowers matter, the cufflinks matter, you know, the shoes that the bride’s wearing and the perfume. everything seems to get captured but I don’t know why yeah musicians and celebrants were definitely in the same basket because after I did put that post up so many celebrants hit me up just like this is the story of my life like you know there’s 800 photos of the ceremony and somehow the shoes are in and the veil is in and like all these intricate tiny things but I’m not there. Like, you know, and I ran the ceremony, like I used the one. It is, it is, it’s weird. I don’t know. Anyway. Josh (42:20) And it’s just weird. It’s just weird is what it is. Like it’d be like if I release this podcast, and it I cut all of you out. And you see me play this back. And it’s just me talking. And you’re like, where was the other person? ⁓ Renee (42:29) Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyway, we love, we love our video and photographer friends. We’re not, we’re not against you. We are for you. I cannot believe how lucky I have the friends in the industry. Photography and video friends are amazing. But yeah, this is to all the people who don’t appreciate. I did, I do actually point out to photographers this stuff sometimes, like in a polite way, like, hey, you know, Josh (42:38) I’m gonna do that just for a gag. That’ll be yeah. Renee (43:04) I looked at the gallery and there wasn’t a photo of us and you know, just letting you know for the future, like if you can capture music, most of the time it’s important to couples. And I do mention the cutlery thing, like, you know, if you’ll notice there’s like a hundred shots of the forks, but like there doesn’t seem to be any of us. And he’s like, and yeah, most people will be like, my God. Yeah. Like why the hell didn’t I take a photo of the vibe creators or the people creating the energy because music does so much on the day and your words, what you say at a ceremony means so much. If you’re a good celebrant, they mean so much and they set the tone for the rest of the day and you can’t capture that tone exactly, you know, you can’t capture it. It’s happy. It’s all in somebody’s mood and their happiness and their feeling, but they can just capture you and you know, and then have that remembered by the couple. I think Josh (43:35) Yeah. Renee (44:03) You know, it’s basic. Josh (44:03) I’m going to take this. Um, you said something that I think is really important that I take into the backend of the podcast, uh, to change topic a little bit, but stay exactly where we were. Um, music is important. Uh, like when, uh, when something really important is happening in a movie, there’s a music, there’s, there’s a music bed, whether it’s all care of Kestrel, whether it’s a, um, a song or a cover of a song. There’s. Like if you look at the soundtrack of a movie, it’s, it underpins the entire narrative of the movie. And this is how old I am. I still have movie soundtrack CDs or albums that I love listening to. I actually, one of my straight up favorite movie soundtracks is the scream to soundtrack. I know if you remember that one. It was a good, it was, it was like screen. The scream soundtrack was good. It’s screen to soundtrack was really good. ⁓ and then, ⁓ Renee (44:35) Mm-hmm. It’s awesome! Wow, okay, I’m gonna take that out, that’s great. Josh (44:56) the wedding singer soundtrack was really good. And there’s so many others. Anyway, ⁓ the soundtrack of your wedding can be really awesome as well. And I, and I wanted to come around to, and I’m going to share my version. So I’ll give you a second to think about it, but just what song, or if you need to say songs, we’re going to, we’re going to max it out at three, but songs that have really, songs that have really kind of Renee (44:58) Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. ⁓ three! Josh (45:22) undergirded like a wedding for you. And so I’m going to share mine. And because I can, I just been thinking about it this whole time. I did a wedding at a world dollar estate, which is kind of at the back of the Blue Mountains, the middle of nowhere, awesome estate there. Dana day was photographing actually, he’s good to have and as it was a really cool day. And, and I Renee (45:28) I’ll go out of K. Josh (45:44) I’ve just forgotten the DJ that was playing, but it was one of those like a known, like really epic DJ. think he does vinyls. Like a really cool guy. can’t remember his name. Um, I’m sorry to him that I can’t credit you in this post, but, um, but the bride walked in the aisle to, um, INXS’s ‘Never Tear US Apart’, which I think did that recently just when it was that, was that number one on hottest 100 of Australian songs? Yeah. Um, yeah. So Renee (45:55) haha Number one, yeah, triple J. Yep. Josh (46:11) Uh, important note, because there’s the, I think the music video version is what they use or maybe it was an original album version, but the current album version has a bit of an orchestral bit of the start, which actually takes away from it in my opinion. So the version they played was just, um, it was a little more simpler. I was really loud. It was an open space. And I think that might’ve looked the beginning a little bit to get the bridesmaids down the aisle. Um, and it was just, it was this hallowed space and. And she kind of the bride held back a little bit to walk down the aisle to the right part of the song. And it was just, it was such a, if you, if you ever get the chance to sit in open field with a big PA system, I’m talking a big PA system. I come to going to Bose L1 or something. not a Bose S1. I really like, need a big one. And, and, and hear Never Tear Us Apart It’s Renee (46:59) Right. Hehehe Josh (47:10) It’s this magical song that of just situated the whole ceremony. And because I’m ex-radio, I kind of spoke in the bits in between. Like there’s a bit in the song where it goes, dun, dun, dun, dun. And there’s like a pregnant pause. I said, please make the bride feel welcome. And everyone turned and then the song starts. I asked me. It was just really cool. It was just a good song to walk down the aisle to. And I’ve got one more. ⁓ Betty Boo. Renee (47:32) That sounds so nice. Josh (47:36) what’s, what’s her song? I’ve just forgotten the Betty Booth song. Anyway, I can’t remember the song, but yeah, it’s on tip of my tongue. And I, I was trying to come in with two, cause I’m kind of thinking, I’m gonna think you’re probably going to max out a three. sorry. I’m actually just going to my, I’m going to mariedbyjosh.com/wedding-songs/ Cause I’ve got a, I got my wedding song chooser in there and, and try and do it in the Betty. Renee (47:44) ⁓ God. Fetty Boo What’s the song? Josh (48:00) I love you. I love you always forever. I love you always forever. Yeah. Yeah, so that was another really good song. Her cover of that song is really good. Anyway, over to you. Songs that have just really like been monumental in creating a vibe for the ceremony. Renee (48:04) Yes, terrific. Yeah, great song. dang-a-nee. I mean, I love any choice that really resonates with a couple and you can tell like the groom is like, you know, I just like, I love this song and I’m gonna get married and like, you know, there’s joy. I recently had a beautiful couple that chose a Bon Iver track or Bon Iver, however you want to say it. And that was, I think it was Flume or… Josh (48:32) Yeah. Renee (48:42) That was really lovely. I mean, you can never go past and it’s so weird. I could play Can’t Help Falling in Love every day and I reckon I would never tire of it because it’s just a classic. The words are classic, the melodies classic, everybody gets into it. I really recommend getting live musicians if you do want Can’t Help Falling in Love because everybody’s heard every rendition out there of Can’t Help Falling in Love. So that would be a unique Josh (48:50) Yeah. Renee (49:10) rendition for you, you know? Kind of pulling in love. I love Simply the Best and I love 500 Miles and I love Dreams by the Cranberries. Classic, classic and you can slow it down a little bit and you could also use it bookend the ceremony. You could have it really chilled for the beginning and then rev it up for the end and then you’ve got a nice bookend. Josh (49:16) Yeah. yeah, yeah, good one. Love it. Renee (49:38) Yeah, think, yeah, that’d be my three faves. Josh (49:39) It’s been a, it’s a good list. like that. I’m going to add them to my wedding as long as database. Hey, give everyone the shed on how they can find you guys online, website and social. Renee (49:45) Okay. Yeah, on social we’re under Tobi Tobi or I think if you go [https://www.tobitobi.co](https://www.tobitobi.co) that’s our website and it’s Toby with an I not Toby with a Y. ⁓ Josh (50:07) I told Britt that I was talking to you and she’s like, what do mean she like it’s a brand Toby, Toby. Renee (50:12) I I know, yeah, my husband, yeah, he’s not really into… I’m more the chatty one. He’s like, he’s like, you know, he wants to go garden or cook or do something else. But yeah, that’s fine because then I can do all the talking, which is what I like to do more than him. But… Josh (50:31) Yeah Renee (50:32) Yeah, you’ve been great Josh. You really have a really beautiful insight and the way you think about weddings is beautiful. And it’s nice to chat to somebody who just loves, I just love weddings. I love being a part of them and I can tell you just feel, you feel it. You feel it on the inside. Thanks Josh. Josh (50:51) Thank you so much. been an honour having you on the podcast. --- # Josh Withers - Podcast Guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guest/josh-withers [← Back to Podcast](/podcast)[Podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) # Josh Withers Josh Withers is a wedding celebrant, nerd, and podcaster who has been helping couples create meaningful wedding ceremonies for almost two decades. [Website](https://joshwithers.au)[Twitter](https://twitter.com/joshuawithers)[Instagram](https://instagram.com/hellojoshwithers)[Threads](https://threads.net/@hellojoshwithers) ![Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_Profile_Photo_2025_vv2Su1WCi?tr=w-384,h-384,f-auto,q-75) Josh Withers is a passionate wedding celebrant and podcaster based in Australia. With years of experience in the wedding industry, Josh brings a unique perspective to every ceremony he officiates. As the host of \*For those of you who don’t know me , he interviews his favourite humans of the wedding inudstry, plus shares insights, stories, and advice about weddings, relationships, and the art of celebration. ## Episodes with Josh Withers Episode 17/30/2025 ### [Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](/podcast/001-battleships) Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan chooses the three wedding photographers she would book today. [Listen Now](/podcast/001-battleships)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/BFl7oOem830) ![Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/playing_battleships_with_wedding_photographers_iDSrUTz7Q?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) Episode 28/14/2025 ### [So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](/podcast/002-love-children) Sarah-Louise Anderson talks micro-weddings, family feuds, severed friendships and the relationships worth keeping after a $60,000 wedding. [Listen Now](/podcast/002-love-children) ![So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sarah_louise_MXiVAwzaK?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) Episode 39/3/2025 ### [It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i) Photographer Joshua Mikhaiel joins the podcast to talk weddings - AI, photography, planning, costs, traditions, and what actually makes the day meaningful. [Listen Now](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i)[Watch on YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkBOXvEcpB4) ![It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) Episode 41/1/2026 ### [Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](/podcast/004-every-photographer) Renee from Tobi Tobi joins Josh to talk live wedding music, slowing the aisle down, ceremony energy, and weddings that prioritise feeling. [Listen Now](/podcast/004-every-photographer)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/FiP5H1JZPHs) ![Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/renee_tobi_tobi_fedLaRuKC?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) --- # Joshua Mikhaiel - Podcast Guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guest/joshua-mikhaeil [← Back to Podcast](/podcast)[Podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) # Joshua Mikhaiel Curator of bottled nostalgia, and Brisbane wedding photographer [Website](https://joshuamikhaiel.com.au/)[Instagram](https://instagram.com/joshuamikhaiel)[Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/joshuamikhaiel/) ![Joshua Mikhaiel](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-384,h-384,f-auto,q-75) Josh Mikhaiel isn’t your average wedding photographer. He’s less ceremonial prompter and more “professional third wheel,” as he puts it. A storyteller who’s been hooked on story long before the camera was ever around. As a kid, he filled notebooks with imaginary tales and doodles; now he wields a camera with the same curiosity and care. His lens doesn’t just capture the look of a moment—it captures how it felt. That’s what matters most to him. ## Episodes with Joshua Mikhaiel Episode 39/3/2025 ### [It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i) Photographer Joshua Mikhaiel joins the podcast to talk weddings - AI, photography, planning, costs, traditions, and what actually makes the day meaningful. [Listen Now](/podcast/003-joshua-then-m-i)[Watch on YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KkBOXvEcpB4) ![It's hard for AI to describe a photographer’s presence on the day](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-mik__19N5neDER?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) --- # Kiera Ryan - Podcast Guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guest/kiera-ryan [← Back to Podcast](/podcast)[Podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) # Kiera Ryan Keira Ryan is the heart and brains behind Creative Weddings Byron Bay and a valuable resource for people wanting an epic wedding! [Website](https://weddingsbyronbay.com.au)[Instagram](https://instagram.com/creativeweddingsbyronbay)[LinkedIn](https://www.linkedin.com/in/kiera-ryan-351085100)[Threads](https://threads.net/@creativeweddingsbyronbay) ![Kiera Ryan](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiera_MwZkH_R9X?tr=w-384,h-384,f-auto,q-75) Keira Ryan is the heart and brains behind Creative Weddings Byron Bay — a boutique wedding planning studio known for relaxed luxury, thoughtful details, and unforgettable moments. With a calm presence and a creative mind, Keira has helped hundreds of couples bring their dream weddings to life in one of Australia’s most iconic destinations. As a passionate entrepreneur and seasoned planner, she knows how to balance beauty with logistics, making sure every event runs smoothly and feels effortless. ## Episodes with Kiera Ryan Episode 17/30/2025 ### [Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](/podcast/001-battleships) Film photography is overrated, organic carrots don't make a good wedding, and Kiera Ryan chooses the three wedding photographers she would book today. [Listen Now](/podcast/001-battleships)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/BFl7oOem830) ![Playing Battleships with Wedding Photographers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/playing_battleships_with_wedding_photographers_iDSrUTz7Q?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) --- # Renee Cassar - Podcast Guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guest/renee-cassar [← Back to Podcast](/podcast)[Podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) # Renee Cassar Renee is the lead vocalist of Tobi Tobi, a Melbourne-based wedding music duo known for acoustic, emotional live performances [Website](https://www.tobitobi.co)[Instagram](https://instagram.com/tobitobi.co)[Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/joshuamikhaiel/) ![Renee Cassar](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/renee_tobi_tobi_cnyO_EK2e?tr=w-384,h-384,f-auto,q-75) Renee’s a former recording industry insider, has toured internationally, and now sings at ceremonies and canapés across Australia and Europe. Renee believes the aisle moment should be slow, intentional, and felt — using music to ground couples, help them breathe, and make the day real. Tobi Tobi can perform everything from Disney and Mumford & Sons to Beyoncé and Bon Iver, and will tailor songs to match the vibe couples want — not just a playlist. ## Episodes with Renee Cassar Episode 41/1/2026 ### [Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](/podcast/004-every-photographer) Renee from Tobi Tobi joins Josh to talk live wedding music, slowing the aisle down, ceremony energy, and weddings that prioritise feeling. [Listen Now](/podcast/004-every-photographer)[Watch on YouTube](https://youtu.be/FiP5H1JZPHs) ![Every photographer is a budget photographer, it just depends on your budget](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/renee_tobi_tobi_fedLaRuKC?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) --- # Sarah-Louise Anderson - Podcast Guest URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guest/sarah-louise-anderson [← Back to Podcast](/podcast)[Podcast guest guide](/podcast/guide) # Sarah-Louise Anderson Bride, picnics and proposals planner, former real estate agent, and the Lawd Mayor of Threads, Sarah-Louise Anderson [Website](https://sarahlouise.blog)[Instagram](https://instagram.com/sarahlouiseanderson)[Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/noosapicnics)[Threads](https://threads.net/@sarahlouiseanderson) ![Sarah-Louise Anderson](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sarah_louise_anderson_yAeCEdQir?tr=w-384,h-384,f-auto,q-75) Sarah-Louise Anderson but sometimes if she feels like it, Steinhardt. Transparency at its finest, no detail left out. So heavily invested in shared all the truth, the good, the bad, the ugly and the traumatically beautiful. Find her on Threads any day of the week dropping bombs, or [on the beach at Noosa setting up a picnic for a special occasion](https://www.noosapicnics.com). ## Episodes with Sarah-Louise Anderson Episode 28/14/2025 ### [So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](/podcast/002-love-children) Sarah-Louise Anderson talks micro-weddings, family feuds, severed friendships and the relationships worth keeping after a $60,000 wedding. [Listen Now](/podcast/002-love-children) ![So the invitation said 'we love your children, but'](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sarah_louise_MXiVAwzaK?tr=w-160,h-160,f-auto,q-75) --- # Podcast Guest Guide URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/podcast/guide # Podcast Guest Guide ![For those of you who don't know me podcast artwork](/forthose-artwork-noborder.svg) ## For guests on _For Those Of You Who Don’t Know Me …_ You’ve been invited to be a guest on _“For Those Of You Who Don’t Know Me …”_ – thanks for saying yes. This page tells you everything you need to know before we hit record. ## What this podcast is It’s a talk show about weddings. Each episode is me ([Josh Withers](https://joshwithers.au)) chatting with someone interesting from the wedding world – sometimes well-known names, sometimes people doing great work quietly. It’s made for wedding vendors and couples alike. It’s casual, honest, and entertaining. We might talk about trends, philosophy, drama, guestlists, pricing, love, gear, burnout, TikTok, or someone’s weird uncle. We’ll share opinions, swap stories, and have a laugh. At the end of it, I want listeners to feel happier about getting married, or happier to still be in the wedding industry. This isn’t a sales pitch. It’s not an exposé. It’s just a good chat between people who care about weddings. ## The podcast values - We’re for marriage. Not just weddings — but the meaning behind them. - We believe weddings can (and should) be awesome. Whatever “awesome” means to you. - We’re inclusive of all people. All humans are human. - We’re positive and optimistic. There’s enough cynicism in the world. - We’re happy and human. This podcast is smiley, not snarky. - We aim to help, educate, and entertain. In that order — or all at once. - We shine a light, not steal it. Guests are here to be celebrated, not interrogated. - We value real conversation over performance. No scripts. No sales pitches. Just genuine chats. ## Why you’ve been invited You’ve got thoughts worth hearing. Maybe you’ve done something cool, or said something that made me think, or maybe you just bring good energy. Either way, I want to shine a light on you and what you do – and also just have a fun and meaningful chat. ## What to expect - We’ll record for around **45–60 minutes** - It’ll be **audio + video** (for social clips) - No rigid script, no gotchas - You’re welcome to bring topics - I might bring up something from your socials or work, just to keep it interesting - If something goes sideways mid-recording, we’ll fix it – this isn’t live ![Podcast recording guide for Josh Withers’ podcast, For Those Of You Who Don’t Know Me ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/recording_qb33dgVWQ?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Tech setup (important!) We want it to _look and sound good_ – for you and for listeners. Here’s what I’m asking for: ### ✅ Audio - **Use a real microphone** – ideally a Rode NT-USB Mini, or Rode Wireless Go - **Mic close to your mouth** – within about 10cm (4 inches) - **Wear headphones** – no audio bleed please - **Record your audio locally** – I’ll send instructions before the session - **Use Google Chrome** - the recording software is a website that works best in a Google Chrome - **Free up the internet** - depending on your upload speed (the 40 bit of 100/40) you might need to not be uploading things to Dropbox or photo galleries, and it might be helpful to not have streaming TV shows on if it’s a slow connection. ### ✅ Video - **Face well lit** – ideally facing a window or light, not a window behind you - **Clear background** – doesn’t have to be fancy, just tidy - **Look into the camera when chatting, if you can** – makes for better clips ### ✅ Environment - Quiet room. No dogs barking, kids yelling, wind tunnels, etc. - Mute your phone, put it on do not disturb mode. Close Slack. You know the drill. ## What do you need to bring? Nothing formal – but you’re welcome to: - Bring up a topic you’ve been thinking about - Share a spicy opinion (in love, not malice) - Rant about something wedding-related (if it’s in good fun) - Ask me a question back - Or just see where the convo goes ## Anything else? I’m not here to stitch you up or make you sell yourself. I’m here to host a chat that feels real and worth listening to. If you’re comfortable, relaxed, and honest, we’re golden. If you’ve got any questions, just shoot me an email: [josh@withers.co](mailto:josh@withers.co) Once the episode is public, you sharing it on your own blog and social media is really helpful. There will be a website link for the episode plus there will be social shares and clips. Your shares are a blessing to me and I welcome them. Can’t wait to record with you! --- # Pre-elopement needs and confirmations URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/pre-elopement-confirmations Nov 4, 2023 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) · 3 min read # Pre-elopement needs and confirmations What plans should you plan before your plan to plan an elopement? I've created elopements around the world so hopefully this helps! ![Pre-elopement needs and confirmations](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1593698054498_Gd9ZxCqX7?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Planning an elopement is all about creating a day that feels uniquely _you_. But before you jump into booking, there are a few key things you’ll want to confirm to make the process smooth and stress-free. Here’s your ultimate pre-booking checklist to ensure your elopement is as epic as you’re dreaming it will be. #### 1\. Read the Info Pack (Yes, Really Read It) If you’re working with [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), start with their information pack. It’s not just fluff—it’s packed with everything you need to know about what’s included, how they work, and what to expect. Haven’t received it yet? Head to their [website](https://elopementcollective.com), pop in your email, and it’ll land in your inbox faster than you can say, “Let’s elope!” (Pro tip: Check your spam folder. Email gremlins love to hide important stuff.) #### 2\. Pick a Location—or at Least a Vibe Knowing where you want to elope (or the type of location) is a biggie. Start dreaming: - Is it somewhere iconic like Iceland? - A black sand beach closer to home? - The rolling hills of Byron Bay? - A secluded spot in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant) or a [European mountain escape](/europe)? If you’re flexible, even better—The Elopement Collective might already have a team nearby to make your dream a reality. But having a general idea of the scenery and vibe you want will help guide the entire process. #### 3\. Be Certain You’re in Love (and Legally Eligible to Marry) This one feels obvious, but it’s worth saying: eloping starts with love. You need to be head-over-heels for someone and genuinely want to commit to a lifetime of togetherness. From a legal perspective: - You both need to be 18 or older. - Neither of you can be married to someone else. - Both of you must fully consent. Your celebrant will help ensure you tick all the legal boxes, but knowing you’re ready to take this step is the most important part. #### 4\. Do a Little Social Media Stalking Not the creepy kind—just enough to get a feel for your elopement dream team. Scroll through [The Elopement Collective’s Instagram](https://instagram.com/elopementcollective), binge-watch their YouTube channel, or browse their website galleries. Pay attention to their style: Does it resonate with you? Can you picture yourself in those stunning landscapes, saying your vows? Getting to know their work ensures you’re booking someone whose vision aligns with yours. #### 5\. Understand the “No-Assholes, Only Nice People” Policy This is non-negotiable: kindness is key. The Elopement Collective is all about working with down-to-earth couples who genuinely love each other and appreciate the art of creating meaningful moments. They bring heart and soul into their work, and they ask the same from their couples. If you’re kind, authentic, and ready to have the best day of your lives, you’ll fit right in. --- Locking these pieces in before you book your elopement ensures everything falls into place seamlessly. It also means you’re not just booking a service—you’re creating an experience that feels tailored to who you are as a couple. When you’ve got this checklist ticked off, reach out to [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com), and let the magic begin. From breathtaking locations to a no-fuss, all-love approach, they’ll handle the rest while you focus on what really matters: marrying your favorite person in the world. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-is-an-elopement) ### [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/why-elope) ### [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) ### [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D)](/getting-ready-right) ### [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Nikolai— Huon Valley, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/nikolai-0hc9v7v) - [Christie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/christie-1rifqw9) - [Sascha & Jitesh— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/sascha-and-jitesh-10gd875) --- # Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/print-your-wedding-photos Dec 1, 2024 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) · 3 min read # Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos Despite having the world's best cloud storage and digital technology, Apple still prints its most precious photos. Here's why that matters for all of us. ![Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/designed_by_apple_in_california_1.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_2.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_4.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5_skGqTEOgd.jpg?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’m a massive Apple fanboy. It’s worth sharing this at the start of this blog post. I’m writing this on an iPad Pro, and my phone is an iPhone. I’ve read all the Steve Jobs books and seen all the movies. Confession complete! I’m deeply invested in the spotlight we shine on life’s more precious moments—like getting married—and the atmosphere, feeling, and awesomeness of those occasions. I’m equally passionate about capturing and sharing these moments. I love a beautiful photo, I love what it can do to me and to you, and the journey great photos take us on. Following this line of thought, I’ve contemplated what to do with my photos. Where do I store them? Where should I look at them? What’s the best practice for sharing, saving, and enjoying our photos not only today but tomorrow, next year, next decade, and when we’re in a retirement home? I look at all the different services—like Google Photos, iCloud Photo Library, Dropbox, Facebook, Instagram—and wonder about their value today and in the future. For the record, I’ve gone all in on a complicated strategy that involves iCloud Photo Library as my main repository, Google Photos as an automatic backup, and Dropbox for a third backup of all our professional photo shoots. Complicated and confusing, isn’t it? The thing with digital photos is that they are complicated and confusing. The file formats are forever changing, and the services where you store them might close down or go broke. The whole system is complicated, confusing and, essentially, broken. With all of that in mind, something clicked in my brain when I realised what Apple does with its photos. They have 30-odd years of products, history, stories, and photos they want to share. Where do they go? Apple [released a book of photos](https://www.apple.com/au/newsroom/2016/11/designed-by-apple-in-california-chronicles-20-years-of-apple-design/) full of its products it’s proud of, called “Designed in California” (Also a great [Christmas present for me](https://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_from=R40&_trksid=p2540003.m570.l1313&_nkw=%22Designed+by+Apple+in+California%22&_sacat=0)!) ![Designed by Apple in California](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5.jpg.webp?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Each year, they also gather the world’s best iPhone photos and share them in a campaign called “Shot on iPhone”, and at the end of the campaign, they share the photos back with the community that took them. And what does Apple do with its photos? **It prints them.** Apple loves photos, and despite having the world’s best engineers and most intelligent technical minds, iCloud Photo Library, your phone’s camera roll, or Dropbox aren’t the final destination for the photos. They get printed—in books, as prints, on billboards, on shop walls. They print their photos, and that’s how they will be preserved and shared for generations. I wonder if we should do the same with our photos? ![Designed by California book](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Designed%20by%20Apple%20in%20California%202.webp?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) - [photography](/tag/photography) - [printing](/tag/printing) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-apps-for-photos) ### [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D)](/getting-ready-right) ### [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alyssa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alyssa-1q00d78) - [Ben & Bec— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-bec-0cimz1l) - [Rowena & Peter— Surfers Paradise, Gold Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/rowena-and-peter-0qxd3m9) --- # Privacy Policy – Tasmania Wedding Celebrant Website URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/privacy # Privacy Policy – Tasmania Wedding Celebrant Website _Last updated_: September 24, 2026 ## We Respect Your Privacy We respect your right to privacy and are committed to safeguarding the privacy of our customers and website visitors. This policy sets out how we collect and treat your personal information. We adhere to the Australian Privacy Principles contained in the _Privacy Act 1988 (Cth)_ and, to the extent applicable, the EU General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR). “Personal information” refers to information we hold which is identifiable as being about you, such as your name, email address, identification number, or other information that can reasonably identify an individual, either directly or indirectly. You may contact us in writing at [josh@withers.co](mailto:josh@withers.co) for further information about this Privacy Policy. --- ## What Personal Information Is Collected We may collect and store personal information you submit through forms on our website, provide to us directly, or give to us in other forms. This may include your: - Name - Email address - Phone number - Address - Wedding date and location - Enquiry and booking details We do not store financial information. 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You can contact [josh@withers.co](mailto:josh@withers.co) with questions or requests about this use of your information. ### Google Ads Customer Match We also use Google Ads Customer Match to build advertising audiences from eligible enquiry and customer information, including through Google’s conversion-based customer lists. We share SHA-256 hashes of email addresses and valid phone numbers with Google so it can match those identifiers to Google accounts. This helps us improve advertising, reach people interested in our services, and reduce advertising to people who have already booked us. Hashing does not make this information anonymous. We use information provided directly to our business and obtain consent where required. We do not include enquiry messages, wedding plans, identity documents, or payment details in Customer Match lists. Updating this policy does not itself provide consent for the use of information collected previously. You can ask us to stop using your contact information for Customer Match by emailing [josh@withers.co](mailto:josh@withers.co). This does not affect your enquiry, booking, or the service we provide. You can also manage personalised advertising in [Google’s My Ad Center](https://myadcenter.google.com/). ### Third-Party Sites Our site may contain links to external websites. These are provided for convenience, and we are not responsible for their privacy practices. --- ## Cookies and Local Storage Our website and analytics or advertising providers may use cookies, browser storage, and similar technologies for security, website analytics, advertising measurement, and remembering the source of an enquiry. We store campaign and advertising identifiers for a limited period; we do not place enquiry answers or contact details in this browser attribution record. --- ## Changes to This Privacy Policy We may update this policy occasionally. Changes take effect immediately upon posting. Please check back regularly for updates. --- # Rayburn Farm 360 tour URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/rayburn-farm Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) · 1 min read # Rayburn Farm 360 tour Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Across the road from [Iron Creek Bay](https://www.ironcreekbay.com.au), and neighbours with [Nonesuch Distillery](https://nonesuchdistillery.com.au/), [Rayburn Farm](https://www.instagram.com/rayburn_farm/) is nice and close to [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant) but still giving those lovely ‘middle of nowhere’ vibes that people come down to [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant) for. ![Arbour ceremony setup at Rayburn Farm ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-Farm-Ceremony-arbour_kDGhjrs0D?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) The farm is Brad and Hayley’s family farm and home, and they open their doors to weddings for the right couples. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/frogmore-creek-tour) ### [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/peppermint-bay-360) ### [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) ### [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Chazz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chazz-15zkord) - [Rebecca— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-05p96gz) - [Nikolai— Huon Valley, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/nikolai-0hc9v7v) --- # Hobart Registry Office Alternative | Paperwork-Only Marriage URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/registry-office # Paperwork-only marriage ## Get legally married without organising a wedding A paperwork-only marriage is a different service from a personalised Josh Withers ceremony. Australian Marriage Offices provide the short legal ceremony, signatures, witnesses and registration through the local office serving your area. [Visit the Hobart Marriage Office](https://marriageoffice.org/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide) [Find another local office](https://australianmarriageoffices.com.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide) ![A simple legal marriage ceremony in Tasmania](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_ZCGxBr.jpeg) Choose the right legal path ## Simple, legal and handled by the right team This page helps legal-only visitors reach the active Marriage Office service rather than entering Josh’s personalised ceremony enquiry. - ### Hobart and Launceston The Tasmanian Marriage Office offers registry-style legal marriages in Hobart and Launceston. Use its website for local details and availability. - ### Across Australia Australian Marriage Offices lists the active local office for each state and territory, so you can start with the celebrant serving your location. - ### Already started? Paperwork is the secure booking and client portal for Marriage Office couples. Use it to begin a booking or continue an existing one. ## Your paperwork-only journey - ### 1\. Find your office Choose the Marriage Office serving the location where you want the legal marriage appointment to happen. - ### 2\. Start the legal paperwork The local team guides you through the Notice of Intended Marriage, identity documents, timing and witnesses. - ### 3\. Attend the legal ceremony Say the words required by Australian law, sign the documents with two adult witnesses and let the celebrant handle registration. [Tasmania**Hobart Marriage Office**↗](https://marriageoffice.org/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide)[National directory**Australian Marriage Offices**↗](https://australianmarriageoffices.com.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide)[Secure portal**Start in Paperwork**↗](https://paperwork.net.au/book?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide) ## Legal marriage. Paperwork only. Choose the local office, complete the required notice, and let the Marriage Office team guide the legal process. [Find Your Local Marriage Office](https://australianmarriageoffices.com.au/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=registry_office_guide) --- # Do your NOIM over a video call? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/remote-witnessing-noim Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 4 min read # Do your NOIM over a video call? Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) ## What is the NOIM, and Why Do You Need It? The Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) is a critical document for getting married in Australia. Think of it as the official “heads-up” to the government that you’re planning to tie the knot. It’s a legal requirement that needs to be lodged with your celebrant at least one month before your wedding day and no more than 18 months prior. Traditionally, this would mean meeting in person with me to fill out and witness the form. But thanks to updates in the law, this entire process can now happen via a video call like Zoom, FaceTime, or Google Meet—super handy if you’re not in the same city as me or your celebrant (or even on the same side of Bass Strait!). ## How Does Remote Witnessing Work? Here’s how it all goes down, step by step: 1. **Fill Out the Form.** Start by either sending me your information for the paperwork like I would have emailed you about, or downloading the NOIM form from the Australian Government website. Fill in as much as you can—you can even type directly into the PDF. If you’re stuck on something, don’t worry; I’ll guide you through it during our call. 2. **Get Your Documents Ready.** To verify your identity and eligibility to marry, you’ll need to provide original versions of the following documents: - Photo ID like drivers licence or passport. - Birth certificate or passport (from any country). - If you’ve been married before, evidence that the previous marriage has ended, such as a divorce certificate or death certificate. Gather these ahead of our meeting and keep them handy. 3. **Hop on a Video Call.** Schedule a video call with me at a time that works for you. During the call: - I’ll witness you signing the NOIM in real-time. - You’ll show me your ID documents on camera to confirm your identity. - I’ll explain anything you’re unsure about and answer your questions. 4. **Send It Over.** After our call, you’ll either: - Scan and email the signed NOIM to me. - Post the physical copy to my office address. We’ll sort out the logistics that suit you best. ## What Makes Remote Witnessing So Useful? - Flexibility: You don’t have to find time for an in-person meeting in your busy schedule. - Accessibility: Whether you’re interstate, in a remote area, or just prefer the convenience, this system is designed to work for you. - Save on Travel: If you’re planning a destination wedding (say, in stunning [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant)), you can handle the paperwork without booking flights. ## What Do You Need for the Video Call? - A smartphone, tablet, or computer with a camera and microphone. - A stable internet connection. - Your NOIM form I would have sent you already and original ID documents. ## Is This Option Legal? Absolutely! Remote witnessing of the NOIM is completely legal in Australia, as long as the correct procedures are followed. Your celebrant (hi, that’s me!) is trained to ensure everything is done by the book. Important distinction: remote witnessing applies to the NOIM. The actual marriage ceremony is still in person. The celebrant, both people getting married, and two witnesses need to be physically present together when the marriage is solemnised. I cover the whole legal sequence here: [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). ## Who Benefits the Most? - Couples living in different cities from their celebrant, aka if you don’t live in Ranelagh like I do. - People planning destination weddings, especially in Tasmania or other remote locations. - Those who appreciate the efficiency and convenience of modern technology like I do! ## What Happens Next? Once the NOIM is lodged with me, you’re officially on the countdown to your wedding day. We’ll work together to plan your ceremony, fine-tune the details, and make sure everything flows smoothly. If you’re ready to tick the paperwork off your to-do list—or if you just want to chat about your wedding dreams—[let’s set up a video call](/contact) and get the ball rolling. Your wedding journey starts with this one small step, and I’m here to make it as easy and enjoyable as possible. Let’s do this! - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/filling-out-noim-correctly) ### [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Abner & Tiffany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abner-and-tiffany-0whvf70) - [Kiara— Thalia Haven](/wedding-testimonials/kiara-1pjbbih) - [Hamish— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/hamish-008kfs6) --- # Wedding Planning Resources for Brides and Grooms in Australia URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources # Resources Wedding planning resources and guides ordered by importance [ ## Free Wedding QR Code Generator Make a beautiful QR code for your invitations, RSVPs, photo album or venue Wi-Fi. Wedding colours, little love notes, and no tracking or fees. Make your wedding QR code →](/wedding-qr-code-generator) - [ ![Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/officiant_in_australia_wedding__FsYneQVP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) Jul 5, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Law ## [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) Plain-English guide to getting married in Australia: the NOIM, authorised celebrants, legal vows, witnesses, certificates and current legal steps. - law - marriage act - celebrant - noim - legal vows - [ ![Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/officiant_in_australia_wedding__FsYneQVP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia) Jul 20, 2026 ·Josh Withers · Law ## [Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding](/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia) Australian marriage law requires your celebrant to meet each of you separately and in person. Here is what the meeting means, what to expect, and why I opposed making it compulsory. - law - marriage act - celebrant - consent - separate meetings - [ ![How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) Jul 2, 2026 ·Josh Withers · Celebrants ## [How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) How to become an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia: qualifications, registration, costs, professional development and what the job requires. - celebrant - celebrancy - marriage act - certificate iv - professional development - [ ![Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_celebrant_ceremony_ws1fq25bL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive) Josh Withers · Costs ## [Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia?](/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive) A celebrant quote covers far more than the ceremony itself: legal responsibility, preparation, writing, equipment and running a sustainable professional service. - price - cost - celebrant - [ ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/cost_of_a_sydney_celebrant_U1YDE5jJg?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney) Jun 28, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Costs ## [How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney?](/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney) A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Sydney celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. - price - cost - celebrant - sydney - nsw - penrith - southern highlands - blue mountains - [ ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_celebrant_OFXbSaiLC?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) Jun 28, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Costs ## [How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania?](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Tasmanian celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, location, travel and service you choose. - price - cost - celebrant - tasmania - hobart - launceston - [ ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-costs_FAh-H7NSn?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne) Josh Withers · Costs ## [How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne](/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne) A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Melbourne celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. - price - cost - celebrant - melbourne - geelong - victoria - [ ![How to Become an Officiant in Ontario](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/togetherness_collective_4N8xYjYkT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/togetherness-collective) Josh Withers · Officiants ## [How to Become an Officiant in Ontario](/resources/togetherness-collective) Thinking about becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario? The Togetherness Collective offers a simple, supportive pathway to help you get registered. - canada - ontario - officiant - [ ![How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real)](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/betoota_wedding_celebrant_UglUVxds4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) Josh Withers · Weddings ## [How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real)](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) Real guide to getting married in Betoota, QLD: travel, stays, vendors, legal steps, French Quarter chic or rustic hinterland vibes, with local celebrant Josh. - outback - queensland - betoota - diamantina --- # How Much Does a Marriage Celebrant Cost in Melbourne URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne Josh Withers · Costs # How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Melbourne celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-costs_FAh-H7NSn?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) People often ask how much a marriage celebrant costs in Melbourne. It is a fair question when you are comparing all the moving parts of a wedding. ## A useful national benchmark **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That is a nationwide survey average, not a Melbourne price list and not a quote from me. Celebrants set their own fees, and the service behind each quote can be very different. ## What shapes a Melbourne celebrant quote? A quote may account for ceremony planning and writing, legal paperwork, sound equipment, rehearsals, travel and the time needed to work with your venue and wedding team. Destination work in the Yarra Valley, Mornington Peninsula, Daylesford or regional Victoria can also involve different logistics from a ceremony in central Melbourne. The most useful comparison is not simply which number is lowest. Ask what is included, how personal the ceremony will be and whether the celebrant is someone you trust to lead the room. ## Simple legal ceremony or personalised wedding? A registry-style service can suit couples who want the legal requirements handled simply. A personalised [Melbourne celebrant](/melbourne-celebrant) service is built around your story, guests, location and the atmosphere you want to create. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) for a quote tailored to your Melbourne or Victorian wedding. - price - cost - celebrant - melbourne - geelong - victoria Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How to Become an Officiant in Ontario Thinking about becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario? The Togetherness Collective offers a simple, supportive pathway to help you get registered. Read this resource ](/resources/togetherness-collective) - [ ### How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real) Real guide to getting married in Betoota, QLD: travel, stays, vendors, legal steps, French Quarter chic or rustic hinterland vibes, with local celebrant Josh. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) - [ ### Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia Plain-English guide to getting married in Australia: the NOIM, authorised celebrants, legal vows, witnesses, certificates and current legal steps. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kimberley— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kimberley-0wd53pj) - [Ben & Leah— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c) - [Rob & Rachel— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz) --- # How Much Does a Marriage Celebrant Cost in Sydney? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney Jun 28, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Costs # How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Sydney celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/cost_of_a_sydney_celebrant_U1YDE5jJg?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) If you are planning a wedding in Sydney or elsewhere in New South Wales, it is reasonable to ask how much a marriage celebrant costs. ## A useful national benchmark **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That is a nationwide survey average, not a Sydney price list and not a quote from me. Celebrants set their own fees, and quotes reflect different kinds of ceremony and service. ## What shapes a Sydney celebrant quote? The location, travel, preparation, legal work, ceremony writing, equipment and on-the-day responsibilities can all affect a quote. A destination ceremony in the Hunter Valley, Blue Mountains, Byron Bay or Southern Highlands may also involve different logistics from a ceremony in central Sydney. Some couples want a straightforward legal ceremony. Others want a fully personal ceremony, vow guidance, a rehearsal, MC services or help coordinating the moment with their venue and creative team. Compare what is included as well as whether the celebrant feels right for you. ## Getting married legally in New South Wales An authorised marriage celebrant can legally marry you anywhere in Australia when the legal requirements are met. A personalised [Sydney celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) service lets the ceremony happen in a place and style that belongs to you; a registry-style service may suit couples who only want the legal requirements. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) for a quote tailored to your Sydney or New South Wales wedding. - price - cost - celebrant - sydney - nsw - penrith - southern highlands - blue mountains Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Tasmanian celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, location, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Melbourne celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne) - [ ### How to Become an Officiant in Ontario Thinking about becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario? The Togetherness Collective offers a simple, supportive pathway to help you get registered. Read this resource ](/resources/togetherness-collective) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8) - [Tom— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t) - [Vicki— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/vicki-0uu11zp) --- # How Much Does a Marriage Celebrant Cost in Tasmania? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania Jun 28, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Costs # How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Tasmanian celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, location, travel and service you choose. ![How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_celebrant_OFXbSaiLC?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Wondering what to budget for a marriage celebrant in Tasmania? A broad benchmark can help, but the useful question is what kind of ceremony and service a quote includes. ## A useful national benchmark **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That is a nationwide survey average across a very diverse profession. It is not a Tasmanian price list and it is not a quote from me. ## What shapes a Tasmanian celebrant quote? Celebrants may include different levels of planning, ceremony writing, vow support, legal administration, equipment and on-the-day coordination. Location also matters in Tasmania: a ceremony in Hobart or Launceston has different travel and logistics from Cradle Mountain, the East Coast, the Huon Valley or one of Tasmania’s islands. Some celebrants include travel in their service while others quote it separately. Ask what is included and compare the ceremony experience, not only the final figure. ## Simple legal ceremony or personalised wedding? Couples who want a simple legal ceremony can use a registry-style [Marriage Office](https://marriageoffice.org). A personalised [Tasmanian celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) service is designed around your story, location, guests and the atmosphere you want to create. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) for a tailored Tasmanian wedding quote. - price - cost - celebrant - tasmania - hobart - launceston Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Melbourne celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne) - [ ### How to Become an Officiant in Ontario Thinking about becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario? The Togetherness Collective offers a simple, supportive pathway to help you get registered. Read this resource ](/resources/togetherness-collective) - [ ### How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real) Real guide to getting married in Betoota, QLD: travel, stays, vendors, legal steps, French Quarter chic or rustic hinterland vibes, with local celebrant Josh. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jarrod— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jarrod-1h1asri) - [Alyssa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alyssa-1q00d78) - [Alison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alison-1xvbh1o) --- # How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia Jul 2, 2026 ·Josh Withers · Celebrants # How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia How to become an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia: qualifications, registration, costs, professional development and what the job requires. ![How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) If you want to legally marry people in Australia, you need to be authorised. A good speaking voice, a nice outfit, and a deep love of weddings are lovely. They are not authorisation. This is the official pathway in plain English, with links to the Attorney-General’s Department so you can check the current rules before you spend money. Last reviewed: 2 July 2026. ## The three broad types of authorised celebrants The Attorney-General’s Department explains that there are three broad kinds of authorised marriage celebrants in Australia: - ministers of religion of a recognised denomination - state and territory officers from a registry of births, deaths and marriages or a court - Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrants, including civil and religious marriage celebrants Most people asking “how do I become a celebrant?” mean the third option: becoming a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant. If you are looking at officiant registration outside Australia, the pathway can be very different. For example, I keep a separate guide to [becoming an officiant in Ontario through the Togetherness Collective](/resources/togetherness-collective). ## What registration requires For a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant, the Registrar of Marriage Celebrants must be satisfied that you: - are at least 18 years old - hold the required qualification or skills - are a fit and proper person to solemnise marriages The standard qualification path is a Certificate IV in Celebrancy, or an equivalent university qualification. There is also a skills pathway in limited circumstances, such as serving Indigenous communities with skills in an Australian Indigenous language. Important: completing a qualification does not automatically make you a celebrant. You still need to apply, be assessed, and be registered before you can advertise services, accept a NOIM, or solemnise marriages. ## The application and costs As at this review date, the official AGD pages list: - a $400 registration application fee - a $170 annual charge for registered Commonwealth celebrants - a $30 fee for some exemption applications Fees can change, so always check the current AGD pages before making decisions: - [Apply to be a marriage celebrant](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/become-marriage-celebrant/apply-be-marriage-celebrant) - [Costs for Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrants](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/resources-marriage-celebrants/costs-commonwealth-registered-marriage-celebrants) ## What the job legally asks of you The celebrant is not just the person with the microphone. You are personally responsible for meeting important legal requirements. That includes: - receiving the [Notice of Intended Marriage](/filling-out-noim-correctly) in the correct time window - checking identity, date and place of birth, and evidence that any previous marriage has ended - ensuring each party makes the declaration of no legal impediment - meeting separately and in person with each party before the marriage is solemnised - being satisfied that both parties are freely consenting - saying the required legal words and ensuring the couple says the [minimum legal vows](/legal-vows) - preparing, signing, retaining, and lodging the correct marriage documents Start with the couple-facing version here: [Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). ## Professional development Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrants must complete compulsory professional development every calendar year, unless an exemption applies. For 2026, the Attorney-General’s Department says there are two compulsory professional development activities due by 31 December 2026: one on separate in-person meetings and one law knowledge activity in the Marriage Celebrants Portal. Current pages: - [Professional development](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/resources-marriage-celebrants/professional-development) - [Compulsory Professional Development 2026](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/compulsory-professional-development) ## The Code of Practice The Code of Practice sits in the Marriage Regulations 2017 and is more practical than people expect. It covers things couples actually care about: accuracy, punctuality, reasonable and timely responses, privacy, secure handling of personal documents, and helping couples access information and relationship services. In other words, being a celebrant is not just “performing”. It is admin, law, privacy, logistics, pastoral care, public speaking, and emotional steadiness. ## My honest advice Do the legal pathway properly, then build the craft. The law gives you permission to solemnise a marriage. It does not automatically make you good at ceremonies. For that side of the work, read my personal guide: [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant). If you are already on the path and want the business, pricing, systems, and craft side of the work, my book [Six Figure Wedding Celebrant](/books/six-figure) is the deeper companion to this legal overview. The job is better than it looks from the outside, and also harder. You carry a moment that will sit in people’s memories for decades. Take the law seriously, take the couple seriously, and take yourself just seriously enough to keep improving. ## Official sources - [Become a marriage celebrant - Attorney-General’s Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/become-marriage-celebrant) - [Instructions for completing the application for registration as a marriage celebrant](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/become-marriage-celebrant/instructions-completing-application-registration-marriage-celebrant) - [Your responsibilities as a marriage celebrant](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/resources-marriage-celebrants/your-responsibilities-marriage-celebrant) - [Code of Practice for Marriage Celebrants](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/code-practice-marriage-celebrants) - celebrant - celebrancy - marriage act - certificate iv - professional development Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia? A celebrant quote covers far more than the ceremony itself: legal responsibility, preparation, writing, equipment and running a sustainable professional service. Read this resource ](/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Sydney celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Tasmanian celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, location, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matthew— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-1wnucbn) - [Amber— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amber-1e8k4if) - [Jasmin & Vincent— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmin-and-vincent-1st9exs) --- # Separate Meetings Before Marriage in Australia: Section 42B URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia Jul 20, 2026 ·Josh Withers · Law # Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding Australian marriage law requires your celebrant to meet each of you separately and in person. Here is what the meeting means, what to expect, and why I opposed making it compulsory. ![Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/officiant_in_australia_wedding__FsYneQVP?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) If your marriage celebrant says, “Before the wedding, I need to meet with each of you separately and in person,” they are not being dramatic, suspicious, or nosy. They are complying with Australian marriage law. Since 12 June 2024, [section 42B of the Marriage Act 1961](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest/text) has required the authorised celebrant solemnising a marriage to physically meet each person separately before the marriage takes place. The reason is serious: your celebrant must be satisfied that each of you is freely and voluntarily choosing to marry. The meeting itself does not need to be scary. For most couples, it is simply a short, private check-in. Last reviewed: 20 July 2026. ## The short version Before your legal marriage is solemnised: - your celebrant must meet with each of you separately - your celebrant and the person they are meeting must be physically in the same place - the other person getting married cannot be present - you may bring a trusted person if you want to - the law does not prescribe a script or a minimum meeting length - the meeting may happen well before the wedding or on the wedding day, provided it happens before the marriage is solemnised You cannot waive the requirement, and your celebrant cannot replace it with a phone call or video meeting. ## What does “separately” mean? It means the celebrant meets one person without the other person getting married being present, then does the same with the other person. It does **not** necessarily mean you must be alone with the celebrant. You may choose to have a trusted person with you. The celebrant should still make sure you have a genuine opportunity to speak for yourself, particularly if someone else appears to be answering for you or controlling the conversation. The meeting should happen somewhere you feel safe, respected, and comfortable. It may be in a private room or another agreed place where the conversation cannot be overheard. The setting and approach should also be culturally appropriate for you. ## Does the meeting have to be face to face? Yes. The celebrant and each party must be physically present together for their separate meeting. This is different from the [Notice of Intended Marriage](/filling-out-noim-correctly), or NOIM. Australian law allows the NOIM to be witnessed by audio-visual link in some circumstances, but the separate meeting cannot be completed remotely. In other words: some paperwork can happen over video, but this particular conversation cannot. ## When does the meeting happen? The law only requires it to happen before the marriage is solemnised. It does not prescribe a particular day or a minimum duration. Depending on the couple and the wedding, I may arrange the meetings in advance or build two calm, separate check-ins into the wedding day before the ceremony begins. The Attorney-General’s Department suggests that signing the Declaration of No Legal Impediment to Marriage may be a convenient time. If anything raises a concern about consent, the conversation should happen earlier rather than later. A celebrant may also need to speak with someone separately again. Consent is not something we check once and then forget about. If your NOIM is transferred to a different celebrant, the new celebrant must personally meet each of you separately, even if your original celebrant already did so. ## What will your celebrant ask? There is no compulsory list of questions and no magic phrase you need to say. A good separate meeting should feel like a human conversation, not an interrogation. Your celebrant may ask open questions such as: - How are you feeling about getting married? - Is getting married your own choice? - Do you feel free to change your mind? - Do you understand that this is a legal marriage? - Is there anything you want to tell me privately? The purpose is not to test whether you are sufficiently romantic, calm, or enthusiastic. People arrive at weddings with all kinds of emotions. The purpose is to give each person a real opportunity to speak and to help the celebrant decide whether both people are giving real consent. You can say no. You can change your mind. Nobody else can consent to a marriage for you. ## What if the celebrant is worried about consent? Real consent is not merely the absence of someone saying “no” out loud. Under Australian law, consent may not be real if it was obtained through duress or fraud, if someone is mistaken about the identity of the other person or the nature of the ceremony, or if they do not understand the nature and effect of the marriage ceremony. Duress can include threats, coercion, and psychological or emotional pressure. If a celebrant is not satisfied that both people genuinely consent, they must not solemnise the marriage. That remains true even if deposits have been paid, guests are seated, families are expecting the wedding to proceed, or the separate meetings happened days or months earlier. ## Why I opposed making every separate meeting compulsory I want to be transparent about my view: when I was consulted about this change, I opposed making a separate in-person meeting compulsory for every marriage. I support the purpose without hesitation. Nobody should be forced, coerced, pressured, or tricked into marriage. Real consent is the foundation of every valid marriage, and celebrants have a serious responsibility to protect it. My concern was - and remains - whether a mandatory meeting for every couple actually helps the people the law is seeking to help. Someone experiencing coercive control may be watched, coached, frightened of retaliation, worried about the financial or family consequences of stopping a wedding, or simply not ready to disclose what is happening during a scheduled conversation. Turning the meeting into a universal compliance step also risks creating false confidence: the formality has been completed, but the danger may still be hidden. Before section 42B became law, official guidance already told celebrants to speak with a person separately when there were concerns about consent. In my view, the stronger protection is not merely getting every celebrant to complete the same procedural step. It is training celebrants to recognise risk, giving them the time and confidence to act, making specialist help easy to reach, and requiring them to keep paying attention right up until the marriage is solemnised. Reasonable people can disagree with me. The change was intended as an additional safeguard, Parliament passed it, and it has been the law since 12 June 2024. I comply with it, and I treat the conversation seriously. My opposition to the blanket rule is not opposition to consent checks or to private conversations when they may help. ## What this means for couples marrying with me You do not need to prepare a speech or prove your relationship to me. I will arrange a private, in-person check-in with each of you before the legal marriage takes place. I will explain why we are doing it, keep it calm and respectful, and make room for you to speak freely. For most couples, it will be simple. If something important needs more time, then it gets more time. The legal obligation belongs to me as the celebrant; your job is simply to be honest. For the rest of the legal process, read my [plain-English guide to getting married in Australia](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia). ## If you are being pressured or forced to marry If you do not want to marry, are unsure, or feel unsafe, you can tell your celebrant privately. You do not need anybody else’s permission to say no or to change your mind. If someone may be monitoring your phone, email, messages, or browser history, use a safer device or contact method if you can. - If there is immediate danger, call Triple Zero on **000**. - Contact the Australian Federal Police on **131 237** or use its [confidential human trafficking and forced marriage report form](https://forms.afp.gov.au/online_forms/human_trafficking_form). - Contact [My Blue Sky](https://mybluesky.org.au/) for free, confidential legal advice on **(02) 9514 8115**, by text on **0481 070 844**, or by email at **[help@mybluesky.org.au](mailto:help@mybluesky.org.au)**. - Contact [1800RESPECT](https://www.1800respect.org.au/forced-marriage) on **1800 737 732** for free, confidential support. You can ask for advice even if you are unsure whether what is happening counts as forced marriage. ## Official sources - [Marriage Act 1961 - Federal Register of Legislation](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest/text) - [Attorney-General’s Portfolio Miscellaneous Measures Act 2024](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C2024A00041/latest/text) - [2026 compulsory professional development: Separate Meetings - Attorney-General’s Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/publications/compulsory-professional-development) - [Parliamentary committee report on the proposed separate-meeting requirement](https://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Committees/Senate/Legal_and_Constitutional_Affairs/MiscellaneousMeasures23/Report/Chapter_1_-_Introduction) - [Modern slavery support services - Attorney-General’s Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/crime/modern-slavery/modern-slavery-support-services) This article is general information, not legal advice. The Marriage Act and official government guidance are the authoritative sources. - law - marriage act - celebrant - consent - separate meetings Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia How to become an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia: qualifications, registration, costs, professional development and what the job requires. Read this resource ](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) - [ ### Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia? A celebrant quote covers far more than the ceremony itself: legal responsibility, preparation, writing, equipment and running a sustainable professional service. Read this resource ](/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Sydney celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Anthony & Elena— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/anthony-and-elena-08ka052) - [Jade— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jade-1jmgkfn) - [Abigail— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abigail-0cwrxqu) --- # How to Become an Officiant in Ontario URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/togetherness-collective Josh Withers · Officiants # How to Become an Officiant in Ontario Thinking about becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario? The Togetherness Collective offers a simple, supportive pathway to help you get registered. ![How to Become an Officiant in Ontario](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/togetherness_collective_4N8xYjYkT?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Here’s a straightforward guide to becoming a wedding officiant in Ontario, based on the [Togetherness Collective’s pathway](https://togethernesscollective.org): You begin by confirming you’re eligible and aligned with their beliefs and values. Then you register for their 4‑hour training, which covers ceremony structure, legal requirements and consultation techniques. After attending, you submit a background check, signed agreements, and a membership fee. Once approved, you’ll receive provincial registration as a “Registered Religious Officiant,” enabling you to legally solemnise weddings across Ontario. You’ll also gain ongoing support, community and resources to grow your officiating practice . - canada - ontario - officiant Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real) Real guide to getting married in Betoota, QLD: travel, stays, vendors, legal steps, French Quarter chic or rustic hinterland vibes, with local celebrant Josh. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-at-betoota) - [ ### Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia Plain-English guide to getting married in Australia: the NOIM, authorised celebrants, legal vows, witnesses, certificates and current legal steps. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) - [ ### Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding Australian marriage law requires your celebrant to meet each of you separately and in person. Here is what the meeting means, what to expect, and why I opposed making it compulsory. Read this resource ](/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Laura— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laura-0xfy92y) - [Derek— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz) - [Lauren— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lauren-13q9bdf) --- # How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland - for real URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-at-betoota Josh Withers · Weddings # How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real) Real guide to getting married in Betoota, QLD: travel, stays, vendors, legal steps, French Quarter chic or rustic hinterland vibes, with local celebrant Josh. ![How to Get Married in Betoota, Queensland (for real)](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/betoota_wedding_celebrant_UglUVxds4?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) You can absolutely get married in Betoota! It’s a dust-glittered, deadpan, big-sky kind of magic. Think cheeky outback charm, no crowds, and a pub that’s become a pilgrimage. Add a celebrant who’ll actually make the moment sing — hi, that’s me, your [local Betoota wedding celebrant](/betoota-celebrant). ## Why Betoota? Betoota is a tiny outpost in the Diamantina where you trade ballrooms for a verandah, red dirt, and the Milky Way. It’s famous for the Betoota Races on the last weekend in August — the whole “ghost town comes alive” thing is legit and worth planning around. ### Best season Winter to early spring is your friend. Cooler days, crisp nights, golden light. Summer is… character-building. Pick dates between June and September if you want comfort and good photos. ## Getting There (fly, drive, survive) - **Fly**: Get to **Birdsville (BVI)** or **Windorah (WNR)**, then transfer by 4WD or pre-arranged shuttle to Betoota. - **Drive**: Roll along the **Birdsville Developmental Road**. Allow outback time, not city time. Pack spare water, beer, and fuel. - **Road checks**: Rain changes everything. Check conditions a day or two out, then again on the morning of the wedding. - **Distances**: Roughly 2–3 hours from either Birdsville or Windorah. Pack water, spares, and snacks — and an actual map, not just a pin. ## Where to Stay (and feed everyone) - **Betoota Hotel**: Australia’s favourite comeback pub. Expect meals, a yarn, and often camping by the pub. Call ahead. - **Birdsville**: Hotel rooms, caravan park, and plenty of “we survived Birdsville” bragging rights. - **Windorah**: Motel rooms and cabins; handy for east-side guests. - **Camp weddings**: If you’re going full swags-and-stars, line up your permits, water, and loos early. ## Ceremony Locations: “French Quarter” vs Hinterland - **The French Quarter (Urban Chic)** A glamorous local in-joke: the shady side near the pub verandah. Corrugated-iron backdrops, string lights, boots with suits, champagne in stubby holders. Close to cold beer and speeches. - **Hinterland (Rustic & Wide-Open)** Gibber plains, low dunes, or a waterhole if it’s running. Sunset ceremonies here are cinematic. Plan convoy logistics, a wind-proof PA, and a marquee that won’t yeet itself to South Australia. ## Vendors & Logistics That Work Out Here - **Celebrant**: I’ll run the show and the paperwork. Start here: [Betoota Celebrant](/betoota-celebrant). - **Photos/Video**: Book someone who loves dust and stars. Schedule 15 minutes after dark for an astro portrait. - **Food & Drink**: Pub feed for simplicity. For off-site, go hearty and simple: roasts, salads, and a cold dessert bar. Confirm power, water, ice, and waste. - **Hire & Shade**: Shade first, style second. Pegs, weights, and a Plan B for wind. - **Transport**: 4WDs with UHF, a fuel plan, and a shuttle loop for guests. - **Comms & Safety**: Print a run-sheet and map. Pack first-aid, torches, and a “who’s driving home” list. ## The Legal Bits (simple, not scary) - Lodge your **NOIM** with me at least **one month** before the date. - At least two witnesses (18+) on the day watch the three of us say the legal bits and breathe your marriager to life. We’ll map it all out on our first call. Need good people? I keep a short, trusted list: [/friends/](/friends). ## Two Planning Paths (choose your chaos) ### French Quarter Micro-Do (2–20 people) Pub-side ceremony → photos nearby → dinner at the bar → stargazing and a woolly jumper. ### Hinterland Camp Wedding (20–80 people) Late-arvo ceremony → convoy to camp marquee → esky-led reception → first dance under the Milky Way. ## Frequently Asked Questions **Can we legally marry anywhere in Betoota?** Yes. Private land with permission; public spots with common sense and event etiquette. **What months are best?** June–September. Mild days, cool nights, golden light. Summer is for air-con and regrets. **How do guests get there without a 4WD?** Fly to Birdsville or Windorah, then shuttle or car-share. We’ll coordinate arrival windows. **Is the pub open year-round?** It opens across the season but hours can vary. Always check current status before locking in catering and beds. **What about road closures?** Check conditions daily the week of your wedding. If it rained, roads can shut fast. Build a Plan B for timing. **Can we pair the wedding with the Betoota Races?** Yes. Book early. The town swells that weekend and everything sells out. - outback - queensland - betoota - diamantina Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia Plain-English guide to getting married in Australia: the NOIM, authorised celebrants, legal vows, witnesses, certificates and current legal steps. Read this resource ](/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia) - [ ### Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding Australian marriage law requires your celebrant to meet each of you separately and in person. Here is what the meeting means, what to expect, and why I opposed making it compulsory. Read this resource ](/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia) - [ ### How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia How to become an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia: qualifications, registration, costs, professional development and what the job requires. Read this resource ](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Claudia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/claudia-1ovl78w) - [Larissa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/larissa-1mxzsuv) - [Amanda & Anthony— Silent Hope House](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) --- # Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia for Couples and Celebrants URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/wedding-legals-in-australia Jul 5, 2025 ·Josh Withers · Law # Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia Plain-English guide to getting married in Australia: the NOIM, authorised celebrants, legal vows, witnesses, certificates and current legal steps. ![Wedding Legal FAQs in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/officiant_in_australia_wedding__FsYneQVP?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) If you want to get married in Australia, the law is not trying to ruin your day. It is just quietly sitting in the corner saying, “Please do these few things properly so your marriage is valid.” The official source is the [Marriage Act 1961](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest) and the Attorney-General’s Department’s [Get married](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/get-married) page. This guide is my plain-English version as a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant. Last reviewed: 2 July 2026. ## The short version To get legally married in Australia, you need to: - be legally free to marry - give a [Notice of Intended Marriage](/filling-out-noim-correctly) to an authorised celebrant at least one month and no more than 18 months before the wedding - prove your identity, date and place of birth, and the end of any previous marriage - be married by an [authorised marriage celebrant](/authorised-celebrant) - have the celebrant, both parties, and two adult witnesses physically present for the ceremony - hear the celebrant’s legal words, say the [minimum legal vows](/legal-vows), and sign the marriage certificates That is the skeleton. The actual ceremony can still feel warm, personal, funny, sacred, weird, elegant, or whatever else is true to you. ## Who can get married in Australia? You can generally marry in Australia if you: - are not already married - are not marrying a close prohibited relative, like a parent, grandparent, child, grandchild, sibling, half-sibling, or adopted sibling - are at least 18, unless a court has approved a marriage where one person is 16 or 17 - understand what marriage means and freely agree to marry - use the required legal words in the ceremony - give the required notice to an authorised celebrant You do not have to be an Australian citizen or permanent resident to marry in Australia. If you are planning to live in Australia after the wedding, that is a visa question, not a celebrant question. ## You need an authorised celebrant For the marriage to be legal, it must be solemnised by or in the presence of an authorised celebrant. In normal civil wedding language, that means a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant like me. There are different types of authorised celebrants in Australia, including Commonwealth-registered civil celebrants, Commonwealth-registered religious celebrants, ministers of recognised denominations, and state or territory officers. The official register is managed by the Attorney-General’s Department, and you can [check a celebrant’s authorisation here](/authorised-celebrant). Your friend can absolutely read a poem, tell a story, MC part of the ceremony, or stand beside you. They cannot legally marry you unless they are authorised. The celebrant is the person responsible for making sure the marriage is valid. ## The Notice of Intended Marriage The [Notice of Intended Marriage](/filling-out-noim-correctly), or NOIM, is the form that starts the legal clock. Your celebrant must receive it: - at least one month before the wedding - no more than 18 months before the wedding If there is less than one month before your wedding, you need a [shortening of time](/shortening-of-time) from a prescribed authority. The five general categories are employment or travel commitments, wedding or celebration arrangements, medical reasons, legal proceedings, or an error in giving notice. It is not a “my celebrant seems chill” exemption. ## Can the NOIM be witnessed over video? Yes. One of the June 12, 2024 changes to the Marriage Act gave couples the option to have the NOIM witnessed remotely by audio-visual link. That means the paperwork can often be handled over a video call. I have a full guide here: [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) But the wedding itself cannot be fully online. The celebrant, both people getting married, and two witnesses must be physically present together when the marriage is solemnised. ## What documents will your celebrant need? Before the wedding, your celebrant needs to be satisfied about identity and eligibility. Usually that means: - evidence of your date and place of birth, such as a birth certificate or passport - photo identity, such as a passport or driver licence - evidence that any previous marriage has ended, such as a divorce order or death certificate - a signed declaration that you believe there is no legal impediment to the marriage Names matter. The name on the NOIM and marriage certificates should line up with the documents that establish your identity. If your name history is complicated, talk to your celebrant early. ## Separate in-person meetings Another June 12, 2024 change is that an authorised celebrant must meet separately and in person with each party before the marriage is solemnised. That meeting exists for a serious reason: the celebrant needs to be satisfied that each person is freely consenting to the marriage. It is not just admin. It is one of the ways Australian law guards against forced marriage. ## The legal words in the ceremony In a civil ceremony, the celebrant must say the legal explanation of marriage, often called the Monitum. Then each person must say the required legal vow to the other. The famous “I do” is not the bit that legally marries you in Australia. The required vow is the important bit. Your [personal vows](/category/vows) can be beautiful and wild and poetic, but they sit around the legal vow rather than replacing it. I unpack this properly here: [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) ## Do you need witnesses? Yes. You need two witnesses who are, or appear to the celebrant to be, over 18. They do not have to be Australian citizens. They do not have to be family. They just need to be physically present, witness the ceremony, and sign the certificates. ## What gets signed on the day? On the wedding day, three marriage certificates are signed by: - both people getting married - the celebrant - the two witnesses The celebrant gives you the ceremonial certificate on the day. That certificate is beautiful and important, but for many official life-admin tasks, such as changing your name, you will usually need the official marriage certificate from the state or territory registry of births, deaths and marriages. Start here after the wedding: [What to do after your wedding](/after) and [How to change your name after marriage](/name-change). ## Can you get married anywhere in Australia? Yes. The Marriage Act allows a marriage to be solemnised on any day, at any time, and at any place, as long as the legal requirements are met. Beach, backyard, restaurant, registry office style, [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant), [Sydney](/sydney-celebrant), [Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant), [Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant), [the Gold Coast](/gold-coast-celebrant), or your parents’ farm. The law is more interested in valid consent, notice, authorised celebrant, legal words, witnesses, and paperwork than whether the chairs match. ## What if someone objects? Movie objections are mostly nonsense. If someone raises a real legal impediment, the celebrant has to pause and deal with it. Examples might include one person already being married, a prohibited relationship, lack of real consent, or a serious issue with identity. If the objection is just “I do not approve”, that is not a legal reason to stop the marriage. ## The useful legal links - [Check whether your celebrant is authorised](/authorised-celebrant) - [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) - [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) - [Shortening of time: getting married with less than one month’s notice](/shortening-of-time) - [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) - [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) - [What is a marriage celebrant?](/marriage-celebrant) - [How to choose the perfect celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ## Official sources - [Get married - Attorney-General’s Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/get-married) - [Find a marriage celebrant - Attorney-General’s Department](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/find-marriage-celebrant) - [Marriage Act 1961 - Federal Register of Legislation](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest) - [Guidelines on the Marriage Act 1961 for authorised celebrants](https://www.ag.gov.au/families-and-marriage/marriage/resources-marriage-celebrants/your-responsibilities-marriage-celebrant) Your celebrant should be across this stuff so you do not have to become a marriage lawyer just to get married. But knowing the shape of it helps you plan calmly, ask better questions, and avoid last-minute paperwork drama. - law - marriage act - celebrant - noim - legal vows Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### Why Your Celebrant Must Meet You Separately Before Your Wedding Australian marriage law requires your celebrant to meet each of you separately and in person. Here is what the meeting means, what to expect, and why I opposed making it compulsory. Read this resource ](/resources/separate-meetings-before-marriage-australia) - [ ### How to Become a Marriage Celebrant in Australia How to become an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia: qualifications, registration, costs, professional development and what the job requires. Read this resource ](/resources/how-to-become-a-marriage-celebrant-australia) - [ ### Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia? A celebrant quote covers far more than the ceremony itself: legal responsibility, preparation, writing, equipment and running a sustainable professional service. Read this resource ](/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Laus— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/laus-12n3vha) - [Amanda— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-1sgaifg) - [Tom— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t) --- # Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/resources/why-are-celebrants-expensive Josh Withers · Costs # Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia? A celebrant quote covers far more than the ceremony itself: legal responsibility, preparation, writing, equipment and running a sustainable professional service. ![Why Are Celebrants So Expensive in Australia?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_celebrant_ceremony_ws1fq25bL?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) When couples see a celebrant quote, a common reaction is: “Why does it cost so much for someone to speak during the ceremony?” The short answer is that the ceremony is only the visible part of the job. ## The national average **The national average for all celebrants of all ages, locations, and skill levels is $1209 excluding GST.** That survey figure covers celebrants with different experience, locations, skills and business models. It is a broad benchmark, not a standard price or a promise about what any individual celebrant will quote. ## What happens beyond the ceremony An Australian marriage celebrant has legal responsibility for the marriage and the documents that support it. A professional service can also include: - meetings and guidance before the wedding - writing and refining a personal ceremony - helping with vows and ceremony structure - preparing, checking and lodging legal paperwork - travel, rehearsals and venue coordination - reliable sound equipment and backups - insurance, professional development and the costs of running a sustainable business The quote is not only for the time spent speaking. It reflects the preparation, responsibility and judgement needed to make the ceremony feel relaxed while ensuring the marriage is legally sound. ## Compare what is included There is no fixed celebrant fee in Australia. When comparing quotes, ask how the process works, what support is included and whether the celebrant’s approach suits the experience you want. If you would like a personalised ceremony, [enquire for a tailored quote](/contact). If you only need a simple legal marriage, a registry-style [Australian Marriage Office](/registry-office) may suit you better. ## And the paperwork? In Australia, the signing typically happens during or as soon as practicable after the ceremony, in front of your witnesses and celebrant. The vows create the marriage; the paperwork records it. - price - cost - celebrant Share: More resources ## Useful guides to read next [Browse all resources](/resources) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Sydney? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Sydney celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-sydney) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Tasmania? A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Tasmanian celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, location, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-tasmania) - [ ### How Much Does a Celebrant Cost in Melbourne A national survey average is a useful starting point, but a Melbourne celebrant quote depends on the ceremony, travel and service you choose. Read this resource ](/resources/celebrant-cost-melbourne) [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alison-1xvbh1o) - [Brittany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/brittany-1ssi0su) - [Luke— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/luke-1xv28rm) --- # The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings Jun 17, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 9 min read # The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. ![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Publishing a story ([ABC](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-06-12/micro-weddings-elopements-rise-cost-of-living-crisis/106782294) + [Kidspot](https://www.kidspot.com.au/lifestyle/waste-of-money-cost-of-aussie-wedding-angers/news-story/cf0eac49584a67afa01b1e417fd47598) + [Money Magazine](https://www.moneymag.com.au/wedding-costs-australia-skip-marriage-de-facto-risk) + [Sky News](https://www.skynews.com.au/lifestyle/trending/new-wedding-data-leaves-aussies-flabbergasted-as-average-cost-of-wedding-comes-in-at-eyewatering-sum-despite-costofliving-crunch/news-story/10a0c211ea72669d6e403427e3574b85) + [The Nightly](https://thenightly.com.au/australia/how-much-do-weddings-cost-prices-skyrocket-across-australia-nsw-most-expensive-tas-cheapest-c-22432842) + [Commercial Real Estate](https://www.commercialrealestate.com.au/news/weekday-weddings-australia-trend-1521176/) + [Sunrise](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EW498hwGFo) + [News.com.au](https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/waste-of-money-cost-of-aussie-wedding-angers/news-story/381f1e62672887d270ecd1c5231b6db8)) starting with something like **“The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings”** is a fantastic story that gets people clicking and advertisers spending. It gives everyone something to be angry about while they’re eating their morning toast and scrolling the news. Which is why, every few months, we get another round of headlines about weddings being too expensive, couples being foolish, and the wedding industry apparently running some kind of national scam involving candles, canapés, and chairs with nice backs. So let’s talk about talking about how much weddings cost. And more importantly, how Australian media talks about them. --- The average wedding cost is not _your_ wedding cost. In 2024, there were 120,844 marriages registered in Australia. That’s a lot of weddings. But it’s also 120,844 wildly different stories and Easy Weddings who curate the annual survey ask about 4,000 people who already follow Easy Weddings or whose vendors advertise with Easy Weddings. Some of those 120,844 couples married at a registry office. Some married in a backyard. Some eloped with two witnesses in Europe. Some had lunch with twenty people at the yacht club. Some hosted a hundred guests at a venue. Some had multi-day cultural weddings with hundreds of family members, several outfits, several meals, and enough logistical pressure to make a federal election look casual. The surveyors ask couples what they spent. They add the numbers together. They calculate an average. The maths is fine. The storytelling by the media is where the lies start. --- Once you put all of those weddings into one big bucket, you get a number that might be useful for statisticians, economists, advertisers, and journalists. But it’s almost useless for you. Imagine trying to understand the cost of transport by averaging everyone who walked, caught the bus, bought a second-hand Corolla, leased a new LandCruiser, and flew private. Technically, you’d get a number. But it wouldn’t help you get to the shops. That’s what the “average wedding cost” feels like. It tells you something happened. It doesn’t tell you what should happen for you. The headline wants you angry. I want you married. --- Jason Zweig once [shared something his father told him](https://kottke.org/26/06/the-three-ways-to-make-a-living): 1. Lie to people who want to be lied to, and you’ll get rich. 2. Tell the truth to those who want the truth, and you’ll make a living. 3. Tell the truth to those who want to be lied to, and you’ll go broke. Ranting about a single headline average as though it describes every wedding is pretty close to lying. Not because no wedding costs that much. Plenty do. Some cost less. Some cost much more. But the headline usually skips the context. It rarely explains what is included. It rarely explains the guest count. It rarely explains whether the number includes rings, honeymoon, outfits, pre-wedding events, accommodation, family contributions, or all the little extras couples add because Pinterest has a lot to answer for. It rarely asks whether the wedding was expensive because the couple was being wasteful, or because they invited 110 people to be fed, watered, hosted, photographed, entertained, and cared for over six or eight hours. A wedding doesn’t cost money because someone said the word “wedding” and every supplier immediately added a zero. A wedding costs what it costs because of what is being created. How many people are coming. Where they are gathering. What they are eating. What they are drinking. How long the day runs. How much labour is involved. How much skill is required. How much equipment needs to be brought in, set up, packed down, insured, cleaned, maintained, and replaced. How many moving parts need to work perfectly, once, with no second take. What are your expectations and values as a couple, as a family, as a person? That context matters. But context doesn’t get shared on Facebook with a furious caption from your uncle who got married decades ago and thinks beer should still be cheap. --- No-one in the wedding industry is ripping you off just because their quote is higher than you expected. That doesn’t mean every quote is good value. That doesn’t mean every business is excellent. That doesn’t mean every couple should spend whatever a supplier asks. But most wedding suppliers are not sitting around in a smoke-filled room inventing fake prices because they saw you coming with a diamond ring and a Canva mood board. They are quoting for the product or service you asked for. They are either trying to meet, or assume what, your expectations are. And what version of the product or service you probably expect from them. If you want beautiful flowers, delivered fresh, designed well, installed on site, handled carefully, packed down later, and created by someone with taste, training, tools, staff, a van, a studio, insurance, taxes, and a mortgage, that costs money. If you want food for 90 people, served hot, on time, with staff, plates, cutlery, dietary requirements, drinks service, bins, cleaning, and a kitchen that may need to be built in a paddock for one night only, that costs money. If you want photos that don’t look like they were taken by your cousin’s mate who “has a good camera”, that costs money. If you want someone to manage the ceremony, the legal paperwork, the emotions, the timing, the family dynamics, the microphone, the energy of the room, and the small miracle of making it all feel relaxed and human, that costs money too. If the price feels high, sometimes there is a mismatch between expectations and understanding. That’s not a conspiracy. That’s just business. --- One of the laziest lines in wedding discourse is that a wedding is “just a party”. It’s not. A wedding is closer to setting up a you-themed private restaurant and no-one else is paying for their food and drink. You are often tasked with providing somewhere for people to gather with chairs, shade, heating, cooling, bathrooms, lighting, power, food, drinks, music, microphones, staff, parking, transport, a wet-weather plan, a timeline, and someone with a clipboard who knows where the cake knife went. You need the ceremony to be legal and engaging and enjoyable and to be heard. You need the room to feel good. You need people to know where to go. You need Uncle Mark to not accidentally stand in the aisle filming on an iPad. You need to be able to arrive, breathe, be present, and not spend the whole day solving logistics in nice clothes. That’s the work. The work is often invisible when it’s done well. Which is why people underestimate it. --- There is no standard price for an Australian wedding. A wedding costs what you choose to create. The budget reflects how many guests you invite. It reflects your priorities. It reflects your family expectations. It reflects how much hospitality matters to you. It reflects whether you want a simple ceremony and lunch, or a fully hosted event from 2pm until midnight. It reflects whether you want to do things yourself, or whether you want professionals to take the weight off your shoulders. It reflects whether you’re planning a marriage ceremony, a family gathering, a cultural celebration, a luxury experience, a destination holiday, or all of the above. This is why averages are so unhelpful. The average wedding cost tells you what lots of very different couples spent. It tells you almost nothing about what your wedding needs to cost. --- The most expensive wedding decision is not always the venue. It’s not always the dress. It’s not always the flowers. Often, the most expensive part is trying to meet the world’s expectations while ignoring your own intentions. That is a very expensive way of life. It’s expensive financially. It’s expensive emotionally. And it usually doesn’t create a better wedding. You do not need to have the wedding Instagram wants. You do not need to have the wedding your aunt imagined in 1998. You do not need to copy the wedding your friends had. You do not need to invite people out of guilt. You do not need to spend money proving that your marriage matters. Your marriage already matters. The wedding should serve that. Not swallow it. --- This is the part that actually gets me mad. Not the cost of weddings. Not couples choosing to spend money on beautiful things. Not suppliers charging properly for their time, skill, risk, labour, and experience. What gets me mad is the way these conversations can make marriage itself look stupid. The tone is often: look at these silly people, spending money to gather their favourite humans and talk about love, commitment, family, faith, hope, and the future. As though that is embarrassing. As though celebration is childish. As though the only grown-up thing to do is sit at home, optimise your spreadsheet, and slowly become the kind of person who comments “waste of money” under a stranger’s wedding article. And yes, some weddings are wasteful. Some weddings are built around pressure, performance, and family politics. Some weddings cost too much because the couple never stopped to ask what they actually wanted. But that is not the same thing as saying weddings are bad. It is not the same thing as saying celebrating marriage is foolish. And it is not the same thing as saying that gathering people for a public moment of love and commitment is some kind of financial disease. I believe with all my heart that one of the easiest, most sustainable, most powerful ways to make the world better is for people to marry good people. Because loving marriages make good families. Good families can help make good kids. Good kids can grow into good adults. And good adults, together, make good communities, cities, and nations. A good marriage gives people somewhere to practise forgiveness, patience, generosity, sacrifice, humour, honesty, and repair. A good marriage can become a stable place for children. A good marriage can become a small act of resistance against loneliness, selfishness, and despair. A good marriage can make two people braver, kinder, steadier, and more useful to the world around them. That’s worth celebrating. So what should your wedding cost? Your wedding should cost what makes sense for the life you’re building and the marriage you are celebrating within the community you call home. It might be simple or elaborate; the useful measure is whether it reflects your priorities and financial reality. - [cost](/tag/cost) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) ### [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/withers-wedding-method) ### [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Shorey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/shorey-1v063ve) - [Rebecca— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-05p96gz) - [Jen— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jen-0byag0d) --- # Seven Mile Beach secret spot URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) · 1 min read # Seven Mile Beach secret spot Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Nestled along [Tasmania’s](/tasmanian-celebrant) southeastern coastline, Wyndham Seven Mile Beach Resort offers a coastal backdrop for couples planning a wedding near Hobart. Located east of [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant) and close to Hobart International Airport, it combines a destination feel with practical access for guests flying into Tasmania. But it’s the resort’s ceremony area that holds a special place in my heart, you’ve really got to stand there and soak up the tranquility to understand it. The hotel sits on Frederick Henry Bay’s Seven Mile Beach and holds a special place in my heart because this is where my own love story with Britt deepened during our honeymoon in 2012. ![Wyndham Seven Mile Beach’s ceremony area ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-2_HXisGa8M6?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) What truly sets this venue apart is its versatility. The expansive grounds seamlessly transition from ceremony to reception spaces, while the resort’s full-service amenities ensure your guests can settle in and truly immerse themselves in your celebration. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand affair, the venue’s natural beauty serves as an enchanting canvas for your wedding vision. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/peppermint-bay-360) ### [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cradle-mountain-wedding) ### [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) ### [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Patrick— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/patrick-1yehdfj) - [April— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7) - [Kellie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kellie-1s964ui) --- # Shortening of Time: Marry in Less Than a Month URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/shortening-of-time Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) · 6 min read # Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Most couples I marry have given me their [Notice of Intended Marriage, the NOIM](/filling-out-noim-correctly) at least a month before their wedding day. That’s the law in Australia—you need to give me, your celebrant, at least one month’s notice before you can legally marry. But sometimes life throws you a curveball. Your partner gets posted overseas for work, someone’s seriously ill, or you’ve already booked the venue and sent the invitations before realising you haven’t sorted the legal paperwork. If you find yourself in this situation, you might be able to get what’s called a “shortening of time”—basically permission from the government to marry with less than a month’s notice. ## When You Can Apply for a Shortening of Time The federal government has set out five specific circumstances in two pieces of legislation: - the [Marriage Act of 1961](https://www.legislation.gov.au/C1961A00012/latest/versions), and - the [Marriage Regulations 2017](https://www.legislation.gov.au/F2017L01359/latest/text), on where you might be granted a shortening of time. These aren’t suggestions—they’re the only circumstances where it can even be considered, there’s no vibes or feelings going on here, just laws. These reasons are described in [the marriage regulations law here](https://classic.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/cth/num_reg/mr2017201701359210/sch3.html). ### ✈️ Employment-related or travel commitments Your partner’s being posted overseas for work, or you’re both relocating and the timing’s tight. This is about genuine employment situations where the timing can’t be shifted. ### 💒 Wedding or celebration arrangements, or religious considerations You’ve already booked the venue, sent invitations, or there are specific religious dates that matter. The key here is that you need to show you’d already committed to these arrangements before realising the notice period was an issue. They’ll need invoices and contracts, lots of evidence. ### 🩺 Medical reasons Someone’s seriously ill, or there’s a medical situation that makes waiting impractical. You’ll need a letter from a doctor for this one. And that person will need to be close to one of you, and be expected to pass in less than a month. ### 👮🏼 Legal proceedings There are legal matters where being married affects the outcome or timing. This usually means someone’s going to jail, but even then you can marry in jail. To be honest I’ve not personally witnessed this reason be successfully used. ### 😢 An error in giving notice This one’s important: it only covers errors made by the celebrant, not the couple. If your celebrant stuffed up explaining the notice requirements, or if they lost your paperwork, that counts. If you just forgot to submit it on time, that doesn’t. I did this once about eight years ago when my cloud storage lost my NOIMs folder. I had to make a statutory declaration about it all. ## How to Apply Here’s what you actually need to do: 1. **Complete your NOIM with me first**. You need to fill out all the paperwork properly before you can apply for shortening of time. We can do this over a video call if you’re in australia too. 2. **Gather your evidence**. Depending on why you’re applying: - Medical reasons: Letter from your GP or specialist - Employment relocation: Letter from your employer showing when you were told about the move (not when you’re moving—when you found out) - Wedding arrangements: Receipts for deposits, venue bookings, invitations (with dates showing when you committed to them) - Travel: Flight bookings, visa requirements, itineraries 3. **Find your nearest prescribed authority**. These are specific people authorised to grant shortenings of time. There’s a [list on the Attorney-General’s Department website here](https://marriage.ag.gov.au/stateofficers/authorities). 4. **Book an appointment**. Ring them first—ask if they charge a fee (some do) and what you need to bring. 5. **Take your NOIM and evidence to the appointment**. The prescribed authority will review everything and decide whether your situation fits one of the five categories above. ## What Happens at the Appointment The prescribed authority will look at your situation and decide whether it’s genuinely exceptional enough to warrant shortening the time. They have no discretion to approve applications that don’t fit the five circumstances—even if your reason sounds reasonable, if it doesn’t fit the categories, they can’t approve it. If they approve it, they’ll write a note on page five of your NOIM, sign it, add their title, and date it. You then take that back to me (or your celebrant) and you’re good to go instantly. You could marry that afternoon. The approval isn’t automatic. These people take their jobs seriously because the one-month notice period exists for good reasons—it’s there to prevent rushed decisions and ensure both people genuinely want to marry. ## What Won’t Work A few things I’ve seen that don’t qualify: - “We just really want to get married sooner”—Not one of the five circumstances - “We didn’t realise there was a waiting period”—That’s not an error on the celebrant’s part - “It would be more convenient”—Convenience alone isn’t enough - “We’ve been together for years”—Lovely, but not one of the qualifying reasons - “Our visa is expiring”—If you’re in Australia already your visa situation is very very different to your marriage situation. Marriage does not grant citizenship or a right to stay in Australia. ## The Practical Reality Most prescribed authorities are pretty reasonable. If you’ve got genuine circumstances that fit one of those five categories and you can prove it, you’ll likely get approved. But you need actual evidence—don’t just turn up with a story. The medical reasons one gets used fairly often for terminal illnesses or serious health situations. The employment one works well if you can show a sudden posting or relocation that wasn’t in your control. The wedding arrangements one requires proof you’d committed money and made bookings before you realised you needed a shortening of time. ## My Role as Your Celebrant If you come to me asking about shortening of time, here’s what I’ll do: 1. Make sure your NOIM is completed properly 2. Explain the five circumstances and whether I think your situation fits 3. Point you to the nearest prescribed authority 4. Give you the NOIM to take to your appointment (this is the only time you get to carry your own NOIM around) 5. Wait for you to bring back the approved NOIM before we proceed with your wedding I can’t grant the shortening of time myself—that’s not my job. And I can’t give you legal advice about whether you’ll definitely get approved. But I can make sure the paperwork’s right and point you in the right direction. --- If you’re in a genuine bind and need to marry in less than a month, shortening of time exists for exactly this reason. But it’s not a loophole to skip the waiting period just because you feel like it. You need to fit one of those five specific circumstances, and you need to prove it. If you’re not sure whether your situation qualifies, [get in touch](/contact). I’ll tell you straight whether I think you’ve got a case or whether you’re better off just waiting the month. And honestly? If you can wait the month, wait the month. It’s less stress, less running around, and you know everything’s sorted properly. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-bare-minimum) ### [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Skyler— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/skyler-0j5wxs4) - [Fran— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/fran-0eibjd4) - [Jodie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jodie-0gy2v1p) --- # Southern Highlands Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/southern-highlands-celebrant # Southern Highlands Wedding Celebrant ## A Southern Highlands ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant creating ceremonies across Bowral, Berrima, Mittagong, Moss Vale and Kangaroo Valley. Since 2009, I've led more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a garden wedding ceremony in the Southern Highlands](/_astro/southern-highlands-t-j-fullscreen.J29t72kM_JVBBc.jpeg) ![](/maps/southern-highlands-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Southern Highlands ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Southern Highlands couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's a Bowral winery or a Kangaroo Valley escarpment. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at outdoor venues like country gardens, vineyards, and barns, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Travel Included Bowral, Berrima, Mittagong, Moss Vale, Bundanoon, Kangaroo Valley — travel is included in packages for ceremonies across the Highlands. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee in the Highlands, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present and connected to what matters. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start getting to know each other. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee in Bowral or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## Recent words from couples - > "He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after." --- Sarah Sydney · New South Wales - > "It was truly the best day of our lives. I couldn't have imagined a more beautiful location or day." --- Samantha Sydney · New South Wales - > "I normally find ceremonies to be boring and strangely sad or awkward but I LOVED our ceremony." --- Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings in the Southern Highlands. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure the words and the moment still belong unmistakably to the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Southern Highlands ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/southern-tas-wedding-venues Mar 12, 2025 · [Venues](/category/venues) · 5 min read # Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. ![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) After marrying thousands of couples across the globe, I’ve developed quite the eye for exceptional wedding venues. Now that I’m based in Tasmania’s gorgeous [Huon Valley](/huon-valley-celebrant), I’ve had the privilege of discovering some truly spectacular places to say “I do” in this island paradise. Whether you’re dreaming of vineyard vistas, historic architecture, or waterfront wonders, [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant) offers a breathtaking backdrop for every couple’s special day. Here are my top picks for wedding venues that showcase the best of what Tassie has to offer. ## Frogmore Creek [Frogmore Creek](https://www.frogmorecreek.com.au/) in Cambridge isn’t just about world-class wines (though they are spectacular). The venue offers sweeping vineyard views that create an utterly magical setting for ceremonies and receptions. Their barrel room provides a stunning indoor option with a distinctly Tasmanian feel, while their restaurant delivers some of the finest food in the state. What makes Frogmore special is how the light plays across the landscape as the day progresses. I’ve officiated sunset ceremonies here that have left guests speechless. ## Stonefield Estate For couples seeking rustic elegance, [Stonefield Estate](https://stonefield.net.au/) in Richmond delivers in spades. This 1820s property has been lovingly restored to create a versatile venue with multiple ceremony locations across its expansive grounds. The sandstone barn with its exposed beams creates a warm, inviting atmosphere for receptions, while the manicured gardens offer perfect photo opportunities. I particularly love ceremonies under their ancient oak tree – there’s something deeply symbolic about beginning a marriage beneath something that has stood strong for centuries. ## Valleyfield [Valleyfield](https://www.valleyfieldnewnorfolk.com.au/) in New Norfolk is a historical gem dating back to the 1820s. This Georgian estate offers manicured gardens, a heritage-listed residence, and views over the Derwent River that simply take your breath away. What I love about Valleyfield is how it feels both grand and intimate simultaneously. The grounds are expansive enough to create a sense of occasion, but there are countless nooks and crannies that make every moment feel private and special. ## Derwent Estate Vineyard The views at [Derwent Estate](https://www.derwentestate.com.au/) are simply unparalleled. Situated on a peninsula that extends into the Derwent River, this family-run vineyard offers 360-degree views of water, mountains, and meticulously maintained vines. I’ve conducted ceremonies here where we’ve literally had to pause for a moment because the beauty of the setting was so overwhelming that everyone needed a moment to take it in. Their wines are exceptional too, which makes for a rather lovely bonus for your guests. ## Bangor Vineyard Shed Perched on a hillside overlooking Dunalley Bay, [Bangor Vineyard Shed](https://bangorshed.com.au/) combines rugged coastal beauty with refined vineyard elegance. The modern shed-style building with its floor-to-ceiling windows frames the view perfectly, while outside ceremonies capture the essence of Tasmania’s east coast. What stands out about Bangor is their commitment to storytelling – the property has a rich history that dates back to Abel Tasman’s first sighting of Tasmania. There’s something deeply meaningful about beginning your own story in a place so connected to the island’s origins. ## Peppermint Bay Waterfront weddings don’t get much better than [Peppermint Bay](https://peppermintbay.com.au/) in Woodbridge. Just a short drive from my home in the [Huon Valley](/huon-valley-celebrant), this venue combines architectural excellence with one of the most stunning locations in southern Tasmania. The pavilion’s glass walls bring the outside in, creating a seamless connection between your celebration and the breathtaking Channel views. For a truly unique arrival, couples can transport their guests via a cruise from Hobart – setting the tone for an unforgettable day before they even arrive. ## Home Hill Winery [Home Hill Winery](https://www.homehillwines.com.au/) in Ranelagh (my local neighbourhood!) is a hidden gem in the Huon Valley. This family-owned vineyard produces some of Tasmania’s most awarded pinot noir, and their intimate venue reflects the same attention to detail. The vineyard setting creates a beautiful backdrop for ceremonies, while the restaurant’s reputation for exceptional food means your guests will be talking about the meal for years to come. Being just minutes from my home, I might be a bit biased, but there’s something truly special about the quality of light in the Huon Valley that makes for extraordinary photos. ## Pontville Distillery For something different, [Lark at Pontville](https://larkdistillery.com/blogs/venues-and-experience/lark-at-pontville) offers industrial-chic elegance in a working whisky distillery. The historic buildings provide a unique backdrop that combines Tasmania’s colonial past with its craft-spirit future. What makes Pontville special is its versatility – from intimate gatherings to larger celebrations, the spaces can be configured to create exactly the atmosphere you’re envisioning. Plus, having some of Australia’s finest whisky on hand for toasts adds a distinctly Tasmanian touch to proceedings. ## Narryna Heritage Museum For history lovers, [Narryna Heritage Museum](https://www.narryna.com.au/) in Battery Point offers a glimpse into Tasmania’s colonial past. This 1830s merchant’s house provides a distinguished setting with its perfectly preserved interiors and charming garden. Being just a stone’s throw from [Hobart’s](/hobart-celebrant) waterfront means you get the convenience of a city location with the character and charm of a heritage property. The garden is perfect for intimate ceremonies, while the house itself provides countless backdrops for stunning photos. --- Tasmania truly offers some of the most spectacular wedding venues in Australia, if not the world. Each location brings its own unique character and charm, providing the perfect canvas for you to create your perfect day. As someone who’s witnessed countless “I dos” across the globe, I can honestly say that the venues here in Tasmania offer something truly special. It’s not just about the stunning settings – though they are breathtaking – it’s about the authenticity and character that shines through in each location. When you’re choosing your venue, remember that it’s not just about how it looks in photos (though that matters too). It’s about finding a place that feels right, that resonates with your story, and that will provide the perfect beginning to your marriage journey. After all, where you choose to begin that journey matters. And here in Tasmania, you’re spoilt for choice. - [wedding venues](/tag/wedding-venues) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) ### [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cradle-mountain-wedding) ### [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) ### [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/frogmore-creek-tour) ### [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al) - [Rhiannon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rhiannon-1iwzqrg) - [Matthew & Sara— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-and-sara-03xxgmd) --- # Sydney Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/sydney-celebrant # Sydney Wedding Celebrant ## A Sydney wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Tasmania and working regularly across Sydney, the Blue Mountains and the Northern Beaches. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries, each prepared from scratch and delivered naturally. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in Sydney](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_2vJXesATV?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ![](/maps/sydney-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Sydney ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Sydney and NSW couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's at a Sydney harbour venue or a Blue Mountains estate. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at outdoor venues like rooftop bars, harbour foreshores, or mountain clifftops, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Travel Included Sydney CBD, Blue Mountains, Southern Highlands, Northern Beaches, Inner West — travel is included in packages for ceremonies across NSW. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee in Sydney, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present and connected to what matters. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what matters to you. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start getting to know each other. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Sydney or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee in Sydney or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony in Sydney](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/opera_house_wedding_celebrant_34VNjz80s?tr=w-768%2Ch-768%2Cf-auto) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Sydney and NSW couples are saying - > "He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after." --- Sarah Sydney · New South Wales - > "It was truly the best day of our lives. I couldn't have imagined a more beautiful location or day." --- Samantha Sydney · New South Wales - > "I normally find ceremonies to be boring and strangely sad or awkward but I LOVED our ceremony." --- Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed weddings across Sydney and New South Wales. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure the words and the moment still belong unmistakably to the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Sydney ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Sydney Christian Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/sydney-christian-celebrant # Sydney Christian Wedding Celebrant ## A modern Christian wedding ceremony, grounded in faith and created around you I'm Josh Withers, a Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant with a Pentecostal background and Bible college training. I create Christian ceremonies across Sydney, the Blue Mountains and Northern Beaches, shaped around your faith, Scripture, prayer and personal vows. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian wedding ceremony in Sydney](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_2vJXesATV?tr=w-1024%2Ch-576%2Cf-auto) ![](/maps/sydney-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Christian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries — creating Christian ceremonies grounded in faith and shaped around each couple. - ### Theological Foundation Bible college-trained with Pentecostal roots and a charismatic worship background, bringing a thoughtful theological foundation to your ceremony. - ### Custom Scripture Integration Bible verses woven naturally into your ceremony, selected around your faith journey, relationship and the promises you are making. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones for outdoor NSW venues. Everyone hears the vows and scripture clearly at Blue Mountains clifftops or Northern Beaches ceremonies, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your Christian ceremony will be emotionally resonant, biblically grounded, and legally solid. - ### Flexible Faith Expression From traditional liturgy to spirit-led spontaneity — the ceremony reflects your actual faith practice, not what you think a Christian wedding 'should' look like. - ### Contemporary Format Usually 18-20 minutes, shaped by modern worship and years of professional speaking — long enough to honour God, short enough to keep everyone present and engaged. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you want the ceremony to hold. I'll recommend the right service, and we'll start exploring your faith story together. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person in Sydney or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Faith & ceremony conversations Coffee in Sydney or video calls to discuss your faith journey, theology preferences, and vision. I will create a Christian ceremony that reflects who you are as believers and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and spirit-led authenticity — creating the moment that anchors your celebration before God. ![Josh Withers conducting a Christian ceremony in Sydney](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/opera_house_wedding_celebrant_34VNjz80s?tr=w-768%2Ch-768%2Cf-auto) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Sydney and NSW couples are saying - > "He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after." --- Sarah Sydney · New South Wales - > "It was truly the best day of our lives. I couldn't have imagined a more beautiful location or day." --- Samantha Sydney · New South Wales - > "I normally find ceremonies to be boring and strangely sad or awkward but I LOVED our ceremony." --- Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. For over 15 years, I’ve performed Christian weddings across Sydney and New South Wales. I bring that experience to every ceremony while making sure your faith and your story sound unmistakably like the two of you. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Christian ceremony that honours God? Faithful, personal and beautifully delivered. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Rebels Guide to '360 tour' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/360-tour # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - 360 tour - [ ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peppermint-bay-360) Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/rayburn-farm) Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # Rebels Guide to '360 tours' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/360-tours # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - 360 tours - [ ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/frogmore-creek-tour) Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # Rebels Guide to 'accomodation' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/accomodation # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - accomodation - [ ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/getting-ready-right) Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) --- # Rebels Guide to 'after-wedding' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/after-wedding # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - after-wedding - [ ![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Jul 21, 2023 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [after-wedding](/tag/after-wedding) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [reviews](/tag/reviews) --- # Rebels Guide to 'Australia' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/australia # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - Australia - [ ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) ](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) --- # Rebels Guide to 'being married' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/being-married # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - being married - [ ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) --- # Rebels Guide to 'bridal-party' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/bridal-party # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - bridal-party - [ ![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/no-bridal-party) Jun 29, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [bridal-party](/tag/bridal-party) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'budgeting' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/budgeting # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - budgeting - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) --- # Rebels Guide to 'calm' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/calm # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - calm - [ ![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/most-people-dont-know) Nov 20, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. - [wedding-vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [ ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/getting-ready-right) Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) --- # Rebels Guide to 'celebrancy' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/celebrancy # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - celebrancy - [ ![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) Jul 5, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Jun 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) May 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-withers_lbAChqfLm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) Mar 28, 2025 · [Inside Baseball](/category/inside-baseball) ## [The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) All the times (I can remember) that I've copped flack for being me, plain old boring me, Josh Withers the wedding celebrant with an opinion. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [industry](/tag/industry) --- # Rebels Guide to 'celebrant' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/celebrant # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - celebrant - [ ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/18-minutes) May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-do-i-say) May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) Nov 28, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [choosing a celebrant](/tag/choosing-a-celebrant) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/authorised-celebrant) Sep 21, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) --- # Rebels Guide to 'celebrants' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/celebrants # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - celebrants - [ ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/shortening-of-time) Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) May 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) --- # Rebels Guide to 'celebrity weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/celebrity-weddings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - celebrity weddings - [ ![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Aug 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrity weddings](/tag/celebrity-weddings) --- # Rebels Guide to 'ceremony' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/ceremony # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - ceremony - [ ![Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/alcohol-in-wedding-ceremony_NyRI8WQZS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Can you drink alcohol before an Australian wedding ceremony? Josh Withers explains consent, capacity and what the Marriage Act requires. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) Jul 11, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-do-i-say) May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/example-wedding-vows) Nov 20, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) --- # Rebels Guide to 'ceremony advice' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/ceremony-advice # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - ceremony advice - [ ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/18-minutes) May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) --- # Rebels Guide to 'ceremony creation' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/ceremony-creation # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - ceremony creation - [ ![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. - [ceremony creation](/tag/ceremony-creation) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) --- # Rebels Guide to 'ceremony location' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/ceremony-location # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - ceremony location - [ ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # Rebels Guide to 'certificate of no impediment' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - certificate of no impediment - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'children at weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/children-at-weddings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - children at weddings - [ ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) ](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'choosing a celebrant' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/choosing-a-celebrant # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - choosing a celebrant - [ ![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) Nov 28, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [choosing a celebrant](/tag/choosing-a-celebrant) --- # Rebels Guide to 'cost' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/cost # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - cost - [ ![The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/byron_bay_christian_wedding_celebrant_SNPv47M6X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) Jun 17, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The ridiculous cost of Australian weddings](/ridiculous-cost-of-weddings) The Aussie media are misrepresenting what weddings are and what they cost. - [cost](/tag/cost) - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) --- # Rebels Guide to 'costs' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/costs # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - costs - [ ![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) Feb 3, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [costs](/tag/costs) --- # Rebels Guide to 'cradle mountain' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/cradle-mountain # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - cradle mountain - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) --- # Rebels Guide to 'dates' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/dates # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - dates - [ ![Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/valentines-day_60G4EA9MH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Feb 14, 2022 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Make Saint Valentine Proud and get married on the day he died trying to protect and celebrate marriage for all - [dates](/tag/dates) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) --- # Rebels Guide to 'daylesford' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/daylesford # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - daylesford - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) --- # Rebels Guide to 'destination weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/destination-weddings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - destination weddings - [ ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) ](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) ## [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) --- # Rebels Guide to 'divorce' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/divorce # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - divorce - [ ![The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-couple_zIyMuzrbe?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Jul 12, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [The "50% of Marriages End in Divorce" Stat Is a Myth](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent) Debunking the 50% divorce myth: why modern marriages are stronger, divorce is declining, and getting married in 2025 is still worth it - [divorce](/tag/divorce) --- # Rebels Guide to 'elopement' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/elopement # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - elopement - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) - [ ![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) Jul 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) Feb 3, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [costs](/tag/costs) --- # Rebels Guide to 'elopements' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/elopements # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - elopements - [ ![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-elope) Nov 2, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopements](/tag/elopements) --- # Rebels Guide to 'eloping' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/eloping # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - eloping - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) - [ ![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-elope) Nov 2, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopements](/tag/elopements) - [ ![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) Jul 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-is-an-elopement) Mar 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) Feb 3, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [costs](/tag/costs) - [ ![Pre-elopement needs and confirmations](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1593698054498_Gd9ZxCqX7?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/pre-elopement-confirmations) Nov 4, 2023 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [Pre-elopement needs and confirmations](/pre-elopement-confirmations) What plans should you plan before your plan to plan an elopement? I've created elopements around the world so hopefully this helps! - [eloping](/tag/eloping) --- # Rebels Guide to 'entertainment' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/entertainment # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - entertainment - [ ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/use-ipod-wedding-music) May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](/use-ipod-wedding-music) How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'European weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/european-weddings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - European weddings - [ ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) ](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) ## [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) --- # Rebels Guide to 'expectations' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/expectations # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - expectations - [ ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) --- # Rebels Guide to 'forms' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/forms # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - forms - [ ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/filling-out-noim-correctly) Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) --- # Rebels Guide to 'friends' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/friends # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - friends - [ ![The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/rockstar_wedding_mc_2gysI63GH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Jun 12, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Learn how to MC a wedding reception with confidence. Professional tips on planning, mood setting, managing speeches, and keeping guests entertained - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [friends](/tag/friends) --- # Rebels Guide to 'gifting' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/gifting # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - gifting - [ ![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-gift-etiquette) Jul 19, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Gift Etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette) How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. - [gifting](/tag/gifting) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) --- # Rebels Guide to 'gifts' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/gifts # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - gifts - [ ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) ](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-gift-etiquette) Jul 19, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Gift Etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette) How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. - [gifting](/tag/gifting) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) --- # Rebels Guide to 'guest list' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/guest-list # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - guest list - [ ![How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_and_Brittany_Withers_Wedding_cPkzjXON-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/45-guests) Jul 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](/45-guests) Our guest list meant a lot of different things to us when we reflect on our 2012 wedding. Here's how we got it from 200 to 45. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guest list](/tag/guest-list) --- # Rebels Guide to 'guests' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/guests # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - guests - [ ![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) Sep 5, 2019 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guests](/tag/guests) --- # Rebels Guide to 'i do' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/i-do # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - i do - [ ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-dont) Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) --- # Rebels Guide to 'ideas' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/ideas # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - ideas - [ ![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Jun 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ideas](/tag/ideas) --- # Rebels Guide to 'industry' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/industry # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - industry - [ ![The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-withers_lbAChqfLm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) Mar 28, 2025 · [Inside Baseball](/category/inside-baseball) ## [The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) All the times (I can remember) that I've copped flack for being me, plain old boring me, Josh Withers the wedding celebrant with an opinion. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [industry](/tag/industry) --- # Rebels Guide to 'intention' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/intention # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - intention - [ ![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) Mar 30, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/intentional-wedding-planning) Dec 1, 2024 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [intention](/tag/intention) --- # Rebels Guide to 'Italy weddings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/italy-weddings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - Italy weddings - [ ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) ](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) ## [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) --- # Rebels Guide to 'josh withers' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/josh-withers # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - josh withers - [ ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) ](/how-i-create-ceremonies) Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) --- # Rebels Guide to 'legal' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/legal # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - legal - [ ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'legal vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/legal-vows # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - legal vows - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'mafs' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/mafs # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - mafs - [ ![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/mafs) Jun 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [mafs](/tag/mafs) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage - [ ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) ](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) - [ ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) ](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Aug 5, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-license-to-get-married) Mar 6, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Feb 22, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/national-cancer-institute-bwMhq_itmMU__yYhnmAyZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Apr 20, 2024 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Like, you could totally do your own research instead if you want? But if you'd rather read a good blog post on the subject, come on down. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) - [ ![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Jul 21, 2023 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [after-wedding](/tag/after-wedding) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [reviews](/tag/reviews) - [ ![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Nov 15, 2020 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage celebrant' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage-celebrant # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage celebrant - [ ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) ](/how-i-create-ceremonies) Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) - [ ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage ceremony' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage-ceremony # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage ceremony - [ ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/legal-vows) Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage law' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage-law # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage law - [ ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/shortening-of-time) Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/remote-witnessing-noim) Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [ ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/filling-out-noim-correctly) Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [ ![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Jan 30, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage laws' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage-laws # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage laws - [ ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/legal-vows) Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'marriage paperwork' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/marriage-paperwork # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - marriage paperwork - [ ![Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/images/italy-legal-wedding-jason-corroto.jpg) ](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) Jul 8, 2026 · [Destination Weddings](/category/destination-weddings) ## [Getting Married in Italy: The Australian Catch](/how-to-legally-get-married-in-italy) A legal Italian wedding can count in Australia, but name changes and replacement certificates are harder. Here's the simpler Australian option. - [Italy weddings](/tag/italy-weddings) - [destination weddings](/tag/destination-weddings) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [European weddings](/tag/european-weddings) - [ ![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Jan 30, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'money' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/money # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - money - [ ![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) Aug 10, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Aug 4, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [money](/tag/money) --- # Rebels Guide to 'music' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/music # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - music - [ ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/use-ipod-wedding-music) May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](/use-ipod-wedding-music) How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'name change' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/name-change # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - name change - [ ![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Nov 15, 2020 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) --- # Rebels Guide to 'names' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/names # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - names - [ ![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/options-for-changing-your-name) Jul 28, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. - [names](/tag/names) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Nov 15, 2020 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) --- # Rebels Guide to 'noim' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/noim # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - noim - [ ![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/shortening-of-time) Jan 22, 2026 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [celebrants](/tag/celebrants) - [ ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/remote-witnessing-noim) Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [ ![Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/notice-of-intended-marriage-image_GB5mXwq67?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/filling-out-noim-correctly) Nov 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Things people often get wrong on their NOIM form](/filling-out-noim-correctly) This form is a really important pre-marriage form that starts your one month "cooling off" notice period but so many people get it wrong - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [forms](/tag/forms) - [noim](/tag/noim) - [ ![The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Jacinda-and-Vipul_8dTLE05c4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/the-bare-minimum) Oct 18, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [The bare minimum wedding vows in registry office](/the-bare-minimum) The legal essentials for Australian marriages - what you absolutely need for a valid wedding ceremony, from paperwork to vows, explained by Josh Withers. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'paperwork' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/paperwork # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - paperwork - [ ![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-license-to-get-married) Mar 6, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Feb 22, 2025 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) - [ ![How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/george-bowden-just-married-brisbane-3242_r8b-wGwGh?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Nov 15, 2020 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Australia](/how-to-change-your-name-after-your-wedding) Everything you need to know about changing your name after marriage in Australia, getting your Marriage Certificate to updating your passport and licence - [names](/tag/names) - [name change](/tag/name-change) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [paperwork](/tag/paperwork) --- # Rebels Guide to 'perfect' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/perfect # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - perfect - [ ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) --- # Rebels Guide to 'personal-vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/personal-vows # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - personal-vows - [ ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) - [ ![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) Nov 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [personal-vows](/tag/personal-vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'photography' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/photography # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - photography - [ ![Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/designed_by_apple_in_california_1.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_2.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_4.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5_skGqTEOgd.jpg?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/print-your-wedding-photos) Dec 1, 2024 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](/print-your-wedding-photos) Despite having the world's best cloud storage and digital technology, Apple still prints its most precious photos. Here's why that matters for all of us. - [photography](/tag/photography) - [printing](/tag/printing) --- # Rebels Guide to 'price' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/price # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - price - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) --- # Rebels Guide to 'printing' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/printing # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - printing - [ ![Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/designed_by_apple_in_california_1.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_2.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_4.jpg_Designed_by_Apple_in_California_5_skGqTEOgd.jpg?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/print-your-wedding-photos) Dec 1, 2024 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Biggest Computer Company In The World Still Prints Photos](/print-your-wedding-photos) Despite having the world's best cloud storage and digital technology, Apple still prints its most precious photos. Here's why that matters for all of us. - [photography](/tag/photography) - [printing](/tag/printing) --- # Rebels Guide to 'problems' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/problems # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - problems - [ ![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/top-10-things-go-wrong) Jun 18, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [problems](/tag/problems) --- # Rebels Guide to 'proof of divorce' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/proof-of-divorce # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - proof of divorce - [ ![Certificate of No Impediment?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-in-uluru_XBMsSff4c?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Dec 3, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Certificate of No Impediment?](/cni-certificate-of-no-impediment) Some countries require paperwork to prove that you're not already married, but do you need a Certificate of No Impediment to get married in Australia? - [proof of divorce](/tag/proof-of-divorce) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) --- # Rebels Guide to 'questions' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/questions # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - questions - [ ![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Mar 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [wedding-venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [questions](/tag/questions) --- # Rebels Guide to 'rain' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/rain # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - rain - [ ![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/wet-weather) Jun 10, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [rain](/tag/rain) --- # Rebels Guide to 'real elopement' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/real-elopement # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - real elopement - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) --- # Rebels Guide to 'real wedding' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/real-wedding # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - real wedding - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) --- # Rebels Guide to 'reception' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/reception # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - reception - [ ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) --- # Rebels Guide to 'relationships' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/relationships # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - relationships - [ ![6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/national-cancer-institute-bwMhq_itmMU__yYhnmAyZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Apr 20, 2024 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [6 Scientific Tips For A Successful Marriage](/6-scientific-tips-for-a-successful-marriage) Like, you could totally do your own research instead if you want? But if you'd rather read a good blog post on the subject, come on down. - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) - [ ![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Nov 23, 2019 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. - [being married](/tag/being-married) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [relationships](/tag/relationships) --- # Rebels Guide to 'reviews' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/reviews # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - reviews - [ ![Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/towfiqu-barbhuiya-3440682-9821386_qXrZP_fYM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Jul 21, 2023 · [After The Wedding](/category/after-the-wedding) ## [Online Reviews For Wedding Pros](/leave-your-wedding-vendors-a-review) Your wedding reviews can make such a difference, they help future couples find their dream team and show appreciation for the people who made your day magical - [after-wedding](/tag/after-wedding) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [reviews](/tag/reviews) --- # Rebels Guide to 'runsheet' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/runsheet # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - runsheet - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'special' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/special # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - special - [ ![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/lipstick-on-a-pig) Jul 22, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [special](/tag/special) --- # Rebels Guide to 'star wars' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/star-wars # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - star wars - [ ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/yoda) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](/yoda) Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) --- # Rebels Guide to 'statistics' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/statistics # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - statistics - [ ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) ](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) - [ ![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Aug 5, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) --- # Rebels Guide to 'tasmainia' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/tasmainia # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - tasmainia - [ ![Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/April___Josh-260_websize_dVHmZr_qi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/cradle-mountain-wedding) Dec 11, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [Josh and April eloped at Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain-wedding) If you’re dreaming of a Cradle Mountain elopement or wedding, this blog post shares how unforgettable the experience can be. - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [tasmainia](/tag/tasmainia) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [cradle mountain](/tag/cradle-mountain) --- # Rebels Guide to 'tasmania' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/tasmania # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - tasmania - [ ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [ ![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Mar 12, 2025 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [wedding venues](/tag/wedding-venues) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) --- # Rebels Guide to 'tasmanian wedding venues' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - tasmanian wedding venues - [ ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peppermint-bay-360) Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/frogmore-creek-tour) Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/rayburn-farm) Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # Rebels Guide to 'the best' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/the-best # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - the best - [ ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/on-wedding-awards) Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) ## [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) --- # Rebels Guide to 'timeline' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/timeline # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - timeline - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'trends' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/trends # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - trends - [ ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-wedding-ideas) Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) --- # Rebels Guide to 'vendors' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/vendors # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - vendors - [ ![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/choosing-taste) Aug 6, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [vendors](/tag/vendors) --- # Rebels Guide to 'victoria' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/victoria # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - victoria - [ ![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) Dec 10, 2024 · [Real Weddings](/category/real-weddings) ## [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative - [elopement](/tag/elopement) - [real wedding](/tag/real-wedding) - [real elopement](/tag/real-elopement) - [victoria](/tag/victoria) - [daylesford](/tag/daylesford) --- # Rebels Guide to 'video call' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/video-call # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - video call - [ ![Do your NOIM over a video call?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh_withers_noim_egV3b4dHL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/remote-witnessing-noim) Dec 12, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Do your NOIM over a video call?](/remote-witnessing-noim) Remote witnessing was introduced through the pandemic but is now law so we can witness your NOIM over a Zoom call. - [noim](/tag/noim) - [video call](/tag/video-call) - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) --- # Rebels Guide to 'vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/vows # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - vows - [ ![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/one-word) Jul 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/vows-outside-ceremony) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) - [ ![30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vow-exchange-midginbill-hill-josh-withers_gTcMHYTAB?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/example-wedding-vows) Nov 20, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [30 Different and Unqiue Wedding Vows For Inspiration](/example-wedding-vows) Your vows are the mechanism by which you create your marriage, I encourage you to write your own but these should inspire you - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Jan 30, 2024 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [marriage law](/tag/marriage-law) - [marriage paperwork](/tag/marriage-paperwork) - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding apps' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-apps # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding apps - [ ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding awards' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-awards # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding awards - [ ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/on-wedding-awards) Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) ## [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-budget' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-budget # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-budget - [ ![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/australian-wedding-cost) Sep 21, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [wedding-budget](/tag/wedding-budget) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding ceremonies' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-ceremonies # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding ceremonies - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-ceremony' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-ceremony # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-ceremony - [ ![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_1sKJYl.jpeg) ](/how-i-create-ceremonies) Sep 15, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [josh withers](/tag/josh-withers) - [ ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) ](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-dont) Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) - [ ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/use-ipod-wedding-music) May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](/use-ipod-wedding-music) How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) - [ ![Creative Ceremony Layouts](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/6bb4f251d74850612c0678c08e296fdabcba14a86638693fe7c26b7e41f43499_TdMuvsZDi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Feb 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creative Ceremony Layouts](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Nothing is expected of you at your wedding except for you to be wonderfully you, so your wedding ceremony layout can represent that - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/giving-a-bride-away) Jan 17, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Walking down the aisle together](/giving-a-bride-away) How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/awesome-readings) Aug 25, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1694475304554-41b19fbe09c0?q=80&w=2970&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Jan 23, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Very few people find the law romantic, but I can always work my magic to find that special needle in the legislative haystack - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) - [ ![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) Dec 10, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [wedding-traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Handfasting or hand-tying](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-checklist' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-checklist # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-checklist - [ ![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/essential-wedding-checklist) Jul 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [wedding-checklist](/tag/wedding-checklist) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-ideas' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-ideas # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-ideas - [ ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-wedding-ideas) Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding industry' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-industry # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding industry - [ ![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg) ](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Jul 28, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Marriage](/category/marriage) ## [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding industry](/tag/wedding-industry) - [Australia](/tag/australia) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-laws' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-laws # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-laws - [ ![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/consumated) Mar 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. - [wedding-laws](/tag/wedding-laws) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-photos' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-photos # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-photos - [ ![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/getting-ready-right) Jul 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [wedding-photos](/tag/wedding-photos) - [calm](/tag/calm) - [accomodation](/tag/accomodation) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding planing' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-planing # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding planing - [ ![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) Aug 10, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-outline) Jul 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. - [ceremony creation](/tag/ceremony-creation) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/vows-outside-ceremony) Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [ ![The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_awards_hEhBYPj6j?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/on-wedding-awards) Apr 3, 2025 · [Wedding industry](/category/wedding-industry) ## [The Illusion of "Best" in the Wedding Industry](/on-wedding-awards) Wedding industry awards claim to crown the "best" celebrant, so let's explore why excellence in weddings can't be objectively measured. - [wedding awards](/tag/wedding-awards) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [the best](/tag/the-best) - [ ![Planning a Wedding with Purpose](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Perth-elopement-m-and-t_5kC7Tbb5p?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/intentional-wedding-planning) Dec 1, 2024 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Planning a Wedding with Purpose](/intentional-wedding-planning) How to plan an intentional wedding that stays true to your values and vision, without the unnecessary pressure. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/valentines-day_60G4EA9MH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Feb 14, 2022 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry) Make Saint Valentine Proud and get married on the day he died trying to protect and celebrate marriage for all - [dates](/tag/dates) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding planning' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-planning # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding planning - [ ![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg) ](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Aug 21, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [children at weddings](/tag/children-at-weddings) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) ](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) - [ ![Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_s9g8uARzR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peak-end) Apr 25, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Plan the peak and the ending of your wedding](/peak-end) Plan the ending of your wedding with the peak-end rule in mind, let science make your wedding experience happier. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) Mar 18, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding tours](/tag/wedding-tours) - [ ![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-sizes) Feb 28, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](/wedding-sizes) What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-of-condiments) Jan 23, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/alcohol-in-wedding-ceremony_NyRI8WQZS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Can you drink alcohol before your wedding ceremony?](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony) Can you drink alcohol before an Australian wedding ceremony? Josh Withers explains consent, capacity and what the Marriage Act requires. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [ ![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-are-weddings-for) Oct 2, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Aug 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrity weddings](/tag/celebrity-weddings) - [ ![Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/casino_wedding_Cd9B8G_rO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) Aug 13, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) A casino-themed celebration captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding themes](/tag/wedding-themes) - [ ![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/choosing-taste) Aug 6, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [vendors](/tag/vendors) - [ ![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Aug 4, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [money](/tag/money) - [ ![An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_and_groom_nZgVnUOoc?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/options-for-changing-your-name) Jul 28, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [An Extra Option for Name Changing After Your Wedding](/options-for-changing-your-name) There’s a fourth, lesser-known option for name changes after marriage in Australia – creating a completely new family surname together. - [names](/tag/names) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_and_Brittany_Withers_Wedding_cPkzjXON-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/45-guests) Jul 26, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How we got our guest list from 200 to 45](/45-guests) Our guest list meant a lot of different things to us when we reflect on our 2012 wedding. Here's how we got it from 200 to 45. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guest list](/tag/guest-list) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/lipstick-on-a-pig) Jul 22, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [special](/tag/special) - [ ![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) Jul 11, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](/tasmanian-national-park-wedding) Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) - [ ![Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-checklist_Sr35ps5eN?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/essential-wedding-checklist) Jul 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Australian Wedding Planning Checklist](/essential-wedding-checklist) Ignore the traditional wedding planning checklist and focus on what matters most to you. This checklist is focused on joy and ease, not stress. - [wedding-checklist](/tag/wedding-checklist) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) Jul 5, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Jun 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/withers-wedding-method) Jun 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! - [withers wedding method](/tag/withers-wedding-method) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/top-10-things-go-wrong) Jun 18, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [problems](/tag/problems) - [ ![How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Josh_for_Isle_Weddings_-_by_By_The_Wilde_BRWutrtrE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) Jun 17, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How Much Does a Wedding Celebrant Cost?](/average-cost-of-a-celebrant) A national survey average can be a useful starting point, but your celebrant quote will depend on the ceremony, location, travel and level of service you choose - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [budgeting](/tag/budgeting) - [cost](/tag/cost) - [price](/tag/price) - [ ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](/wedding-apps-for-photos) Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) - [ ![The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/rockstar_wedding_mc_2gysI63GH?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Jun 12, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Guide On How To Be A Rockstar Wedding MC](/how-to-be-a-rockin-wedding-mc) Learn how to MC a wedding reception with confidence. Professional tips on planning, mood setting, managing speeches, and keeping guests entertained - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [friends](/tag/friends) - [ ![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Jun 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas) Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ideas](/tag/ideas) - [ ![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/oh-the-places-youll-go) May 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](/oh-the-places-youll-go) You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/18-minutes) May 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony advice](/tag/ceremony-advice) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-do-i-say) May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](/what-do-i-say) My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [ ![My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedcopodcast_BnVLZ_rSO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedco-podcast) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](/wedco-podcast) A behind-the-scenes look at my conversation with the Wed.Co Podcast, where we discuss script-free ceremonies, creating meaningful moments, and the ceremony. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/yoda) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](/yoda) Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) - [ ![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) Mar 30, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [intention](/tag/intention) - [ ![Creative Ceremony Layouts](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/6bb4f251d74850612c0678c08e296fdabcba14a86638693fe7c26b7e41f43499_TdMuvsZDi?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Feb 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creative Ceremony Layouts](/wedding-ceremony-layout) Nothing is expected of you at your wedding except for you to be wonderfully you, so your wedding ceremony layout can represent that - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/get-a-wedding-razor) Feb 3, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Get a wedding razor](/get-a-wedding-razor) Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding razor](/tag/wedding-razor) - [ ![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-wedding-ideas) Nov 26, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [wedding-ideas](/tag/wedding-ideas) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [trends](/tag/trends) - [ ![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/australian-wedding-cost) Sep 21, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [wedding-budget](/tag/wedding-budget) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/no-bridal-party) Jun 29, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [bridal-party](/tag/bridal-party) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/wet-weather) Jun 10, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [rain](/tag/rain) - [ ![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/what-is-an-elopement) Mar 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) ## [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [ ![5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiss-the-bride_Amw5cZKjP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-bs-facts) Apr 8, 2022 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](/5-bs-facts) Just because mum said so doesn't make it true. Get some truth and some stability into your wedding planning with these tips. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [You'll never have the perfect wedding](/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding) Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) - [ ![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) Sep 5, 2019 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [guests](/tag/guests) - [ ![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) May 28, 2019 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding razor' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-razor # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding razor - [ ![Get a wedding razor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bay-of-fires-wedding-celebrant_fUZZiRgeR?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/get-a-wedding-razor) Feb 3, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Get a wedding razor](/get-a-wedding-razor) Ever wonder why some couples seem to float through wedding planning while others get bogged down in drama and stress? - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding razor](/tag/wedding-razor) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding readings' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-readings # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding readings - [ ![Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/oh_the_places_you_ll_go_gVjsEOAy-?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/oh-the-places-youll-go) May 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Oh The Place's You'll Go - Wedding Reading](/oh-the-places-youll-go) You don't need a wedding reading to make your ceremony awesome, but Dr Seuss doesn't hurt. This is an excerpt and edit from the book, Oh The Places You'll Go. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [ ![Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1514881097029-ef545203c842?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/awesome-readings) Aug 25, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [Awesome wedding readings you have almost probably never heard](/awesome-readings) A good wedding ceremony doesn't always need a reading, but if you're going to have one, let it be awesome - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1694475304554-41b19fbe09c0?q=80&w=2970&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Jan 23, 2024 · [Wedding Ceremony](/category/wedding-ceremony) ## [A wedding reading from the US Supreme Court](/a-wedding-reading-from-the-us-supreme-court) Very few people find the law romantic, but I can always work my magic to find that special needle in the legislative haystack - [wedding-readings](/tag/wedding-readings) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kindegarten_eEm5KrqeT?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/kindergarden-reading) Mar 18, 2023 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten](/kindergarden-reading) Wedding reading about love, life, and the little things that matter most. An excerpt from All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum - [wedding readings](/tag/wedding-readings) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding themes' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-themes # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding themes - [ ![Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/casino_wedding_Cd9B8G_rO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) Aug 13, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Creating a Casino-Themed Wedding](/host-perfect-casino-themed-wedding) A casino-themed celebration captures the sophistication, excitement, and theatrical drama of classic casino culture without the harmful elements - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding themes](/tag/wedding-themes) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding timeline' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-timeline # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding timeline - [ ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-timeline) Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding tours' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-tours # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding tours - [ ![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) Mar 18, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding tours](/tag/wedding-tours) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-tradition' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-tradition # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-tradition - [ ![Walking down the aisle together](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Duchess_of_Sussex_wedding_aisle_VsukxxfYj?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/giving-a-bride-away) Jan 17, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Walking down the aisle together](/giving-a-bride-away) How could you walk down the aisle if your father couldn't be there? Here's some thoughts on making your way down the aisle with dignity and class. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) - [ ![Handfasting or hand-tying](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1668268026823-5fb8878c1fcd?q=80&w=2969&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D) ](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) Nov 21, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Handfasting or hand-tying](/handfasting-or-hand-tying-wedding-ceremony) You get to choose the traditions you celebrate in your wedding, choose them with intention, and if that means handfasting, let's do it - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-tradition](/tag/wedding-tradition) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding traditions' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-traditions # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding traditions - [ ![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/i-dont) Feb 18, 2026 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [i do](/tag/i-do) - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ivan-lapyrin-Td_rYk802g4_SAQLN1d2t?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/8-wedding-traditions) Mar 19, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Fascinating Wedding Traditions You Never Knew Existed](/8-wedding-traditions) From wine-leaking cups to face-smacking machines, these centuries-old wedding traditions prove that getting married has always been wonderfully weird. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [ ![Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/1570075082455_FEqPvwJ1l?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) Dec 10, 2023 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Gaelic wedding traditions in Australian weddings](/gaelic-wedding-traditions) If you approach your wedding traditions with intention really beautiful moments can occur and you might appreciate these gaelic traditions. - [wedding-traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [ ![5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kiss-the-bride_Amw5cZKjP?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/5-bs-facts) Apr 8, 2022 · [Marriage Laws](/category/marriage-laws) ## [5 BS facts about weddings everyone thinks are true](/5-bs-facts) Just because mum said so doesn't make it true. Get some truth and some stability into your wedding planning with these tips. - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-vendors' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-vendors # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-vendors - [ ![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Feb 6, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive - [Wedding Vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [ ![Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_cBcsF6p3n?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/most-people-dont-know) Nov 20, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Most people don't know how to choose A+ wedding vendors](/most-people-dont-know) I've heard a number stories, received complaints, witnessed events, featuring fellow wedding vendors over the last few weeks about my fellow vendors. - [wedding-vendors](/tag/wedding-vendors) - [calm](/tag/calm) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding venue' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-venue # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding venue - [ ![Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Peppermint-Bay-Wedding-Venue_JplqHo_ca?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/peppermint-bay-360) Dec 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Peppermint Bay Hotel 360 tour](/peppermint-bay-360) Take an aerial look around The Channel's favourite wedding venue by drone, the Peppermint Bay Hotel, in Southern Tasmania. - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/frogmore-creek-tour) Dec 2, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Frogmore Creek 360 Photo](/frogmore-creek-tour) Two of Tasmania's best wedding venues share a name, and an owner, these are my 360 photo tours of the wedding venues in Hobart, Tasmania - [360 tours](/tag/360-tours) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Seven Mile Beach secret spot](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wyndham-seven-mile-beach-ceremony-1_UbdGodbJS?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Oct 3, 2024 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Seven Mile Beach secret spot](/seven-mile-beach-ceremony-spot) Wyndham resort at Hobart's Seven Mile Beach near the Hobart airport has a hidden wedding secret and it's one of my favourite places to create ceremony. - [ceremony location](/tag/ceremony-location) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) - [ ![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Mar 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [wedding-venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [questions](/tag/questions) - [ ![Rayburn Farm 360 tour](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Rayburn-farm-aerial_JSqDJ_2mO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/rayburn-farm) Sep 17, 2023 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Rayburn Farm 360 tour](/rayburn-farm) Take a flight around Sorell wedding venue near Hobart in Southern Tasmania, Rayburn Farm, on the road to the Tasman Peninsula - [360 tour](/tag/360-tour) - [wedding venue](/tag/wedding-venue) - [tasmanian wedding venues](/tag/tasmanian-wedding-venues) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding venues' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-venues # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding venues - [ ![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Mar 12, 2025 · [Venues](/category/venues) ## [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. - [wedding venues](/tag/wedding-venues) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) --- # Rebels Guide to 'wedding-vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/wedding-vows # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - wedding-vows - [ ![People Like Us Do Things Like This](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_fzOQqHEYY?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/people-like-us) May 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [People Like Us Do Things Like This](/people-like-us) Vows aren’t “that one tradition that just won’t go away”, they’re the entire point. Here’s why tradition isn’t the enemy, and why we need better stories. - [wedding ceremonies](/tag/wedding-ceremonies) - [wedding traditions](/tag/wedding-traditions) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [ ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/legal-vows) Dec 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [ ![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=900&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506) ](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) Nov 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [personal-vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [ ![Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/dr_seuss_wedding_7pFp-OTUz?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) Jan 10, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Dr Seuss Wedding Vows](/dr-seuss-wedding-vows) If you love your Seuss then you're going to adore these call and response vows that I've been using for over a decade in weddings. - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [vows](/tag/vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'withers wedding method' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/withers-wedding-method # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - withers wedding method - [ ![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/withers-wedding-method) Jun 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! - [withers wedding method](/tag/withers-wedding-method) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) --- # Rebels Guide to 'words' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/words # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - words - [ ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) --- # Rebels Guide to 'writing vows' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/writing-vows # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - writing vows - [ ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) ## [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) --- # Rebels Guide to 'yoda' URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tag/yoda # The Rebels Guide To Getting Married - yoda - [ ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-auto) ](/yoda) May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) ## [Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](/yoda) Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) --- # Tasmania Wedding Celebrant | Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tasmanian-celebrant # Tasmanian Wedding Celebrant ## A Tasmanian wedding ceremony that feels unmistakably yours I'm Josh Withers, a full-time celebrant based in Ranelagh and working statewide. Since 2009, I've created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements in 24 countries — from Hobart and Launceston to Cradle Mountain and the East Coast. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) [Meet Josh](/about) ![Sarah and Connor holding hands with Josh Withers at their wedding](/_astro/sarah-connor-hero.BHi9TmK-_1MUOi8.jpeg) ![](/maps/tasmania-street-map.svg) [© OpenStreetMap contributors](https://www.openstreetmap.org/copyright) ![Video preview for Introducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant](https://image.mux.com/2Q7lxghB8UeX2BkTF300cknMR9TB7qtHKgsUB7xv8G200/thumbnail.jpg?height=640)WatchIntroducing Josh Withers, Wedding Celebrant What's Included ## Everything you need for a Tasmanian ceremony that matters Since 2009, I've married over 2,900 couples across 24 countries. Here's what Tasmanian couples get. - ### Custom Ceremony Created from scratch for you. No templates, no recycled paragraphs. Your ceremony is a one-time conversation about something important — whether that's at MONA, Wineglass Bay, or a backyard in Hobart. - ### Professional Audio Electro-Voice EVERSE 8 speakers and Rode microphones. Everyone hears the ceremony clearly at outdoor venues like Frogmore Creek, The Agrarian Kitchen, or windswept beaches, and your videographer gets pristine audio. - ### Legal Authority Commonwealth-registered marriage celebrant authorised under the Marriage Act 1961. Also licensed in USA and Canada. Your ceremony will be emotionally resonant and legally solid. - ### Statewide Coverage Based in Ranelagh in the Huon Valley, working across all of Tasmania. Hobart, Launceston, East Coast, Cradle Mountain, Bruny Island — travel included in packages. - ### Flexible Planning As many conversations as you need — coffee in Hobart, video call, whatever works. No unnecessary meetings or homework assignments. - ### Short & Sweet Ceremonies Long enough to be meaningful, short enough to keep everyone present and connected to what matters. No one's checking their watch. ## How it works - ### Enquiry Check my availability and tell me what you are planning. Personalised ceremonies, destination weddings, and ceremony-and-MC bookings are shaped and quoted around your wedding. - ### Legal paperwork At least one month before your wedding, we complete the Notice of Intended Marriage together — in person if you are near Hobart, or via video call. I will guide you through it. - ### Ceremony conversations Coffee in Hobart or video calls to explore your story, values, and vision. I will create a ceremony that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. - ### Your wedding day I deliver your ceremony with professional audio, calm presence, and no script — creating the moment that anchors your celebration. ![Josh Withers conducting a ceremony at Uluru](/_astro/uluru-wedding-celebrant.DwCNZJe4_xuNRG.jpeg) Already have a wedding date in mind? [Enquire about your date](/contact) ## What Tasmanian couples are saying - > "The best celebrant in the Huon Valley." --- Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania - > "He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful." --- Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania - > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." --- [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z1byOt6.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania [More testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ![Josh Withers with his wife, Britt, outdoors](/_astro/about-josh-britt-and-josh-2026.BlyMHV4A_1nyRcA.jpeg) About Josh ## One wedding changed the course of my life I grew up in a family with more divorces than couples. For a long time, I thought the easiest way to go through life was never to get married—then I could never get divorced. Then, at a family wedding about 20 years ago, I saw marriage differently: not as a promise that life would always be easy, but as a meaningful choice two people make about how they want to live. That wedding changed my point of view—and the direction of my life. I left breakfast radio and became a celebrant. Britt and I live in Tasmania’s Huon Valley with our three kids, and Tasmania is home. I bring that local connection—and more than 15 years of experience—to weddings across the island. [Get to know me](/about) ## Ready for a Tasmanian ceremony that matters? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my Tasmania availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Sydney wedding ceremony overlooking the harbour](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20at%20Sarah%20and%20Matthews%20wedding%20ceremony.DHBNJyS3_15UW3R.jpeg) ![Josh Withers smiling as a couple exchange rings during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1f77T9.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a wedding ceremony in the Blue Mountains](/_astro/josh-withers-sydney-wedding-celebrant-in-the-blue-mountains1.CgTtiypP_ZlaTfk.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an elopement ceremony near Uluru](/_astro/josh-withers-uluru.BaJrSRMr_ZANk5O.jpeg) ![Josh Withers holding a microphone while conducting an outdoor wedding ceremony](/_astro/joshwithers-danielchafer-elopement.C8GFRdMN_Z5HE09.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a destination wedding ceremony in Iceland](/_astro/joshwithers-iceland-celebrant.JNtJwdmI_ZdsWNe.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting an intimate Melbourne wedding ceremony](/_astro/melbourne-christian-celebrant.GzK-4Afq_2gr4DC.jpeg) ![Josh Withers conducting a Brisbane wedding ceremony with a couple](/_astro/brisbane-celebrant-3.CnCVHRN-_ZJsNu1.jpeg) --- # Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops Aug 5, 2025 · [Marriage](/category/marriage) · 5 min read # Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. ![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) The Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) has released the 2024 _Marriages and Divorces_ data (23 July 2025). ![Chart of Tasmanian wedding statistics ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/chart_of_Tasmanian_wedding_statistics_Nf-GNVsJP?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) Nationally, marriages nudged up. In Tasmania, they fell. Again. - **Tasmania:** 2,364 marriages in 2024 — **down 5.7%** on 2023. - **Australia:** 120,844 marriages — **up 2.0%** year-on-year, national crude rate steady at **5.5 per 1,000** people aged 16+. - Plus Tasmania’s share of the national wedding market has also dropped to 1.95% from a 30 year high of 2.6% during COVID. ![Table of statistics of Australian and Tasmanian wedding numbers for the last 30 years from 1995 to 2024 ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_stats_for_2024_in_Tasmania_6LfnPkgbm?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## What the ABS says > 120,844 marriages were registered in 2024, 2.0% more than in 2023. The largest percentage declines… were in the Northern Territory (7.1% fewer), Tasmania (5.7% fewer) and South Australia (3.6% fewer). Tasmania recorded **2,364** marriages in 2024 (down from 2,506 in 2023). The national crude marriage rate held at **5.5 per 1,000** people aged 16+. My former colleague Sarah Aird summed up the national picture neatly: > I am genuinely shocked by this, given how we’ve been carrying on about how it feels like less people are getting married. Last year I literally wrote about “the downturn we’ve seen in 2024 with the cost of living crisis etc.” Maybe my other thesis, that people are still getting married but they’re getting married smaller and cheaper, is actually the correct one. That’s one we can’t tell from the stats though. Sarah also points out that the average age of marriage in Australia has slightly dropped. > The age people get married actually dropped for men (32.8 years as opposed to 32.9 years in 2023) but stayed the same for women (31.2 years old). ## Why might Tasmania be lagging? Short answer: it’s complicated, and the ABS doesn’t publish everything it used to. A few likely pressures: - **Population mix:** An older age profile means fewer people in prime marrying years. - **Cost of living:** Smaller, cheaper weddings are up; some couples delay or skip the wedding. - **Interstate pull:** Couples eloping interstate or overseas for venues, flights, or family reasons. - **Post-COVID settling:** 2022’s bounce is well behind us; numbers are normalising unevenly. - **The COVID relationship dip:** Less people socialised through COVID, so less people met, less people dated, less people got engaged, so less people are getting married. The interesting point is how Tasmania has sunk nationally on its share of weddings. Tasmania for years has been Australia’s favourite domestic-destination wedding location. Without having to find your passport, get a travel SIM, worry about currenciers, or flying 15 hours, you can be in paradise - on mountaintops or pristine beaches - celebrating at the country’s best wineries and restaurants with some of the best wedding talent you can find. ## What this means if you’re planning a Tasmanian wedding - **Vendors are freer in off-peak.** Autumn and spring are still busy, but you’ll find more choice on Fridays and winter dates. - **Small weddings shine here.** Tasmania suits intimate, meaningful ceremonies — [elopements](https://elopementcollective.com) and micro-weddings do especially well. - **Book the right things first.** Lock your celebrant (hi 👋), [photographer](/friends), and venue/date — then the rest is easier. If you want something simple and legal-first, my [Just the Legals](https://marriageoffice.org) option gets you married without the theatre. If you want the full “this is us” ceremony — that’s my wheelhouse too. ## What I think Tasmania should do about it The Tasmanian wedding industry, and the Tasmanian tourism industry, along with government stakeholders often ignore the value and the weight of the local wedding industry, especially considering our numbers pale in comparison to the other states. But Tasmania bats well above the national average reported by [Easy Weddings annual survey](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/business/australian-wedding-industry-reports/) that “7% of weddings occur interstate”. Most wedding vendors report that upwards of 30% of their clientle, even more for some, are interstate and international visitors. Assuming that 75% of Tasmanian weddings spend what the state average for a wedding is, that’s a minimum $50 million dollar annual Tasmanian industry, along with the average 80 guests attending each wedding flying in from across the world, staying at least two nights (I hear from so many guests come down for a week and holiday while they are here for the wedding or elopement) the acecssory industry of guests attending weddings is a $60 million dollar sub section of the massic $3.5 billion Tassie tourism industry. I simply think that the Tasmanian wedding industry has been cruising for too long and it requires intention, community, unity, and direction - from within and supported by the state and local governments along with the tourism bodies. Between local wedding venues like Frogmore, Spring Bay Mill, and Sandridge Estate being A-grade plus we are surrounded by natural beauties perfect not only for wedding photography but to frame such a special celebration, everyone in Australia should wed in Tasmania. ![Easy Weddings 2024 annual wedding survey results ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/EasyWeddings-Survey-2024_vgC-9fGlM?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## The thirty year drop in the marriage rate The other number that sticks out at me is the national - and Tasmanian - crude marriage rate dropping from 6.0 thirty years ago and spinning down towards 4 today. I’ve always maintained that as we gain more liberties in relationship and thus marriage we also gain the opportunity to be more intentional with our wedding planning and I see that even more now that COVID has given society permission to elope. The good news is that we’ve also seen the divorce rate drop by 3% and the lenght of marriages that do end in divorce increase to 13.2 years, which continues my earlier blog post about how the “50% of marriages end in divorce” [falsehood](/divorce-rate-is-not-50-percent). ## Further reading - [ABS 2024 _Marriages and Divorces_ (released **23 July 2025 AEST**)](https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/latest-release) - [The SMH celebrant-business article archive](https://thesmh.com.au/blog/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=article_archive) --- Feature image for this blog post by my friend Harley from [Bulb Creative](https://bulbcreative.co). - [statistics](/tag/statistics) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. - [![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) ### [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) ### [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jessica— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-08710vi) - [Meghan— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/meghan-0ieryts) - [Abner & Tiffany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/abner-and-tiffany-0whvf70) --- # Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/tasmanian-national-park-wedding Jul 9, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks Get married in Tasmania’s national parks legally & beautifully. We’re licensed to help you elope responsibly in wild, stunning places. ![Licensed for weddings in Tasmania’s National Parks](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mount_wellington_national_park_wedding_VfwU8nhRT?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) When you’re planning your wedding or elopement in [Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant), you probably don’t want to think about paperwork. You want to think about getting married on a windswept clifftop, under a mossy forest canopy, or beside a wild, empty beach. That’s where we come in. ## What Being a PWS license Holder Means The [Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com) and I (Josh Withers, celebrant) are [licensed by the Tasmanian Parks & Wildlife Service](https://parks.tas.gov.au/about-us/conducting-business-in-parks-and-reserves) to conduct weddings and elopements in Tasmania’s national parks and reserves. ![Tasmanian Parks and Wildlife License To Operate As A Wedding Celebrant in The Tasmananian Wilderness Weddings ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Tasmanian_Parks_License_lyPHCM7fX?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) This license isn’t just a piece of paper. It’s permission from the people who protect Tasmania’s wild places, allowing us to help you get married in some of the most beautiful spots in the state — legally and responsibly. ## Why This Is Good News for You ### 🌿 You Get Access to Stunning, Protected Locations Many of Tasmania’s most breathtaking elopement spots — places like [Cradle Mountain](/cradle-mountain), Freycinet, the Tasman Peninsula and kunanyi/Mount Wellington — are inside national parks and reserves. Because we’re licensed, we can help you say your vows in these places while following the rules that protect them for everyone. ### Permits Still Required While each wedding still needs an [individual application for your specific location and date](https://parks.tas.gov.au/things-to-do/weddings/wedding-booking-enquiry), having us as your licensed team streamlines the process. We know the system, we know the people, and we can guide you through it easily. ### You’re Covered, We’re Covered Being licensed means we operate with the right insurances, risk management, and environmental safeguards required by Parks & Wildlife Tasmania. It means we’re not just sneaking in and hoping no one notices — we’re doing this properly. ![Mount Wellington/Kunyani Wedding Celebrant Josh Withers ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Mount_Wellington_Kunyani_wedding_celebrant_HPXa0SCBX?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### We Care About The Tasmanian Wilderness We don’t just want to use these landscapes as backdrops. We care about them. Having this license means we agree to look after the places you love, so you can get married there without worrying that you’re causing damage. ## Why It Matters for Your Ceremony Your wedding isn’t just about the photos. It’s about a moment, a place, and the meaning you attach to both. Being licensed means we can create that moment in Tasmania’s national parks with the confidence that we’re allowed to be there, and that your ceremony is being held with respect for the land and the people who care for it. - Thinking about an elopement or a wedding in a Tasmanian national park? [Let’s chat](/contact) about your vision and the locations you love. - We’ll handle the license, help you liaise with Parks & Wildlife, and ensure your day is as smooth as it is beautiful. - You get to focus on what really matters: each other, and the adventure of starting your marriage in the wild. --- Feature image from [Barry and Olivia’s elopement on Kunyani/Mount Wellington](https://www.elopement.photos/-barryoliviakunyani/), overlooking Hobart, by [Jenna Agiu](https://jennaagiusphotography.com) and [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com). - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [tasmania](/tag/tasmania) - [legal](/tag/legal) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Courthouse wedding in Hobart](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/paperwork-only-ceremony_cjoQ3yibp?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) ### [Courthouse wedding in Hobart](/hobart-courthouse-wedding) Let me clear up the confusion around courthouse weddings in Australia and explain how to get exactly what you're looking for! - [![Cost of eloping in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/tasmanian_devil_4hja7KHhB?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) ### [Cost of eloping in Tasmania](/cost-to-elope-in-tasmania) If you're considering eloping around Hobart and Tasmania, here are the costs to consider and the questions to ask for current quotes. - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Frogmore-Creek-winery-hero_5XdMngSiL?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) ### [Tasmania's Top Wedding Venues](/southern-tas-wedding-venues) Tasmania's most breathtaking wedding venues through the eyes of celebrant Josh Withers. From vineyard vistas and historic properties to waterfront wonders. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kayla— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kayla-0p9r4l0) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al) - [Aura & Jacob— Heartwood Cabin](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) --- # How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/taylor-swift-change-weddings Aug 27, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 6 min read # How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions? Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. ![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Weddings don’t exist in a vacuum. Your wedding is a statement about who you are and what you value. When you get married, you’re — in a quiet or loud voice — saying _“this is who we are.”_ And who you are is shaped by culture, the community you grew up in, your friends and family, by technology, and by what you see in the media. Like it or lump it, celebrity culture influences our decisions about weddings. Even if you choose _not_ to follow a celebrity trend, that’s still a decision born of the same influence. Over the last few decades, celebrity weddings have had an outsized impact on what’s considered “normal” — from the length of your photographer’s coverage to whether a drone films your kiss. On the day that Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift get engaged, here’s a look at how weddings have changed over the years, the famous couples who made today’s “normal” ideas mainstream, and how your English teacher and your gym teacher might change the way we get married. ![Grace Kelly’s wedding dress ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Grace_Kelly_Wedding_Dress_XQWg9ZdEc?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) - **[Grace Kelly & Prince Rainier of Monaco](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_dress_of_Grace_Kelly) (1956)**: Her gown — long sleeves, lace bodice, regal veil — directly inspired Kate Middleton’s 2011 dress and countless others. It locked in the royal, demure bridal look for decades. - **[Australia introduces the civil marriage celebrant](https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-04-17/marriage-in-australia-how-love-and-law-have-changed-in-130-years/8430254) (1961 and 1973)**: Before 1961 each Australian state had it’s own marriage laws, much like the USA, and everyone got married in churches, but in 1961 the Marriage Act nationalised and formalised the act of getting married, then in 1973 the first civil celebrant was appointed by Commonwealth Attorney General under that new law despite widespread opposition. The AG appointed a 26-year-old woman, Lois D’Arcy, and along with her other trailblazing celebrant colleagues Lois started making wedding ceremonies outside of the church and the accepted practice of how a ceremony should be. - **[Princess Diana & Prince Charles](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/g29438393/princess-diana-rare-wedding-photos/) (1981)**: Diana’s 25-foot train and cathedral ceremony set the “fairytale” template. Weddings became larger, more dramatic, and broadcast-worthy. Suddenly, weddings weren’t just personal milestones — they were cultural events. - **[Mick & Bianca Jagger](https://www.vogue.co.uk/fashion/article/bianca-jagger-wedding-suit) (1971)**: Bianca’s white YSL suit opened the door for non-traditional bridal looks. - **[Paul McCartney & Linda Eastman](https://www.the-paulmccartney-project.com/1969/03/paul-mccartney-marries-linda-eastman/) (1969)**: [Simple registry-style](https://themarriageoffice.com) or [marriage office weddings](https://marriageoffice.org) gained cultural legitimacy. - **[Jennifer Lopez in _The Wedding Planner_](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wedding_Planner) (2001)**: Not a real wedding, but the film made wedding planners visible — and in my opinion, one of the best additions to any wedding to take it to the next level of enjoyment and fun. - **[Kim Kardashian & Kanye West](https://www.vogue.com.au/brides/news/kim-and-kanyes-wedding-all-the-photos/image-gallery/3acf27151d14d769701f6000677f5c4e) (2014, Florence)**: Made the Italian destination wedding aspirational worldwide. Though they’re now divorced, I’d say Kim and Kanye are the reason I do a [European summer wedding season](/europe) every year. - **[Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi](https://blog.overthemoon.com/weddings/ellen-degeneres-and-portia-de-rossi-10th-wedding-anniversary-look-back/) (2008)**: Put same-sex weddings under the spotlight, especially as [marriage equality was only legal in California for five months in 2008](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_in_California), before being outlawed again until 2013. - **[Kate Middleton & Prince William](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_of_Prince_William_and_Catherine_Middleton) (2011)**: Kate’s lace gown revived Grace Kelly chic and set bridal fashion trends for years. - **[Meghan Markle & Prince Harry](https://www.royal.uk/wedding-duke-and-duchess-sussex) (2018)**: The gospel choir and an American preacher reshaped the idea of what a modern royal wedding could look like. And perhaps even more importantly, their exit from the royal family soon after reframed what a modern royal couple could be. - **[Priyanka Chopra & Nick Jonas](https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/first-photos-released-from-priyanka-chopra-and-nick-jonas-lavish-wedding/news-story/02e095db5bf05e80ea3f6e201a95ce49) (2018)**: Multicultural weddings with multiple outfits and days of celebration became not just respected but celebrated. - **[Scott & Charlene](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oXNnDofRz-E) (Neighbours, 1987)**: It might have been a TV show wedding, but it wasn’t any TV show wedding, it was Neighbours, primetime, must-watch TV between the two biggest stars of the show. The most influential part of the wedding would be [walking down the aisle to the Angry Anderson song](/wedding-songs), [Suddenly](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwfWy9lVKNg), and then the dress Kylie Minogue wore, and you can still see it today when you visit Hobart’s [Tasmanian Museum and Art Gallery where it is often on display](https://www.tmag.tas.gov.au/whats_on/exhibitions/current_upcoming/info/the_wedding_dress_an_australian_tv_icon). ![Scott and Charlene’s wedding on Neighbours ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Scott_and_Charlene_s_wedding_on_Neighbours_Nh5LwOl3N?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Where We Are Today So where did those weddings bring us? - Full-day photography is standard. - Videography isn’t just a cousin’s camcorder — it’s cinematic, drone-enhanced, Instagram-ready art. - Couples now hire someone purely to capture iPhone footage for same-day Reels and TikToks. - Stylists, civil marriage celebrants, planners, [florists](/friends), and now content creators are part of the normal team. - Floral walls and installations are wedding staples. - Wedding dresses have been liberated from their Victorian roots and are now a mark of individuality. ![Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift are engaged ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taylor_switft_and_travis_kelcie_are_engaged_iML-tqaie?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## Where Could Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift Take Wedding Culture? Although I don’t imagine their reception would have a halftime show, or that Kanye West would storm the ceremony, I do think there are some ways that Taylor and Travis might plan a wedding in a very _them_ way: - Taylor’s been private with past relationships — they might do a private legal wedding followed by a surprise public celebration. Then again, Travis is a public figure, and Taylor’s become more comfortable in her own skin over the past few years, so maybe it will be more visible. - Travis is a fashion-forward man, and Taylor’s no slouch in the gown department, so I’m looking forward to the traditional wedding “uniform” being redefined by the two of them. - Travis has been open about his faith, and Taylor comes from a Christian background, plus Nashville is a very religious town, so I remain doubtful (yet ready) that an Australian civil marriage celebrant like myself will be getting the call-up. But they’re smart enough to know the ceremony sets the vibe for the whole day — so who _will_ they choose to officiate? ![Taylor Swift engagment ring ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Taylor_Swift_engagement_ring__IPAvp60H?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) - As the world’s most popular songwriter, it wouldn’t be surprising if Taylor wrote personal vows. But will she sing them? - The guest list is bound to be a superset of the most creative musicians and artists alive. Will it be an open mic situation, or will Uncle Bob DJ the wedding? - Taylor is meticulous with media. They’d likely not sell to tabloids, but release content in her own narrative way — a documentary, a music video, or even a Netflix special. - Taylor might tie the wedding visuals to an aesthetic — almost like another “Era.” That aesthetic could become _the_ look couples want to copy. - Location? The Bluebird Café is too small, Gaylord Opryland too cliché. Travis’s Croatian background could inspire a sunrise wedding in Dubrovnik’s old town (still one of my favourite wedding spots). But given they’re both American heartlanders, a local wedding feels more likely. Still — if you’re looking for ideas, Taylor and Travis, we’d lovingly welcome you Down Under. - And if I were a guest to the reception? I’d be hoping for Nashville hot chicken plus Kansas City BBQ. I’m still thinking about the Nashville hot chicken I had with my friend Jarrod last time I was in there. - Who will capture the wedding in still and moving image? A [TV executive producer](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andy_Lassner) photographed their [engagement](https://www.instagram.com/p/DN05lIQ3uBP/). ![Taylor Swift engaged to Travis Kelce ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Taylor_Swift_engaged__K90pMKQj?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) What feels “extra” today often becomes tomorrow’s “normal.” Just like Diana’s train, Bianca Jagger’s pantsuit, and Kim K’s Italian villa, today’s content creators and TikTok moments might be what every couple expects next year. So who knows where Taylor Swift will take us. --- _[Photo credit for the engagement photos to Andy Lassner](https://www.threads.com/@andylassner/post/DN05lqF3nCG?xmt=AQF01vptbs65fz8yHZwCLe4J-fOny69FEGkedympejd_mg)_ --- - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrity weddings](/tag/celebrity-weddings) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-withers_lbAChqfLm?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) ### [The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers) All the times (I can remember) that I've copped flack for being me, plain old boring me, Josh Withers the wedding celebrant with an opinion. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/mafs) ### [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Lee & Courtney— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/lee-and-courtney-0udwo6e) - [Jodie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jodie-0gy2v1p) - [Renee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/renee-0t2ka3l) --- # Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/ten-stand-out-wedding-ideas Jun 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 7 min read # Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas Ten fresh, story-driven ceremony ideas (plus three classics) from celebrant Josh Withers—think bespoke scents, 360° light, VR vows, drone sky vows and more. ![Ten Stand-Out Ceremony Ideas](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/photobooth_rrFn5FJBs?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) ## 1\. The Signature Wedding Scent **What it is:** Work with a boutique perfumer—think Jo Malone’s scent-lab services or an indie nose in your city—to co-create a fragrance built around three accords: a note that evokes where you met, a second that nods to a shared memory, and a forward-looking accord that hints at the life you’re building. I started thinking about this after my friend Tenielle [joined Auric](https://www.auric.au/post/tenielle-stoltenkamp-joins-auric-as-marketing-advisor), a mood-as-a-service brand creating intelligent aromatherapy experiences. ![Get a signature scent for your wedding ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Wedding_signature_scent_8qfA9IL6e?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) **How to spray it into the wedding** 1. **Processional diffusion** – a cold-mist diffuser hidden behind the arbour releases the scent as you enter. 2. **Scent-sealed vows** – wax-sealed booklets carry the same oil, so every reread hits like déjà-vu. 3. **Mini atomisers for guests** – 2 ml sprays on each seat; guests mist the air just before the first kiss. 4. **Home ritual** – keep a 50 ml bottle for anniversaries and thank-you stationery. **Why it smells good:** Smell is the strongest memory trigger. A bespoke fragrance anchors the ceremony to a single, repeatable cue—something guests can literally breathe in. ![Ceremony in a circle ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/circle_ceremony__BNjOOLXL?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## 2\. The 360° Light-and-Sound Story Ceremony **What it is** A ceremony-in-the-round where the soundscape and lighting shift with every chapter (welcome, readings, vows, pronouncement). Think immersive theatre, but the plot is your love story—guests seated in concentric circles around you and me. **How to weave it in** 1. **Directional micro-speakers** under seating play ambience that fits each section (the café where you met, birds from the holiday proposal) or a curated score, film-style. 2. **Synced lighting** – warm ambers for “how we met”, rising to sunrise pinks at the pronouncement; program cues via DMX. 3. **VR drop-in for remote guests** – a discreet 360° camera streams the circle to Vision-Pro headsets so far-flung family hear the spatial audio feed. **Why it works** Instead of passive spectators, guests step inside the narrative arc. Every line lands with a matching auditory or visual cue—reinforcing rather than distracting. ## 3\. Real-Time Calligraphy Vow Projection **What it is** A live event calligrapher listens to the vows and hand-letters each line on a tablet feeding a short-throw projector or LED wall behind you. Promises bloom in script as they’re spoken. **How to weave it in** 1. Keep the backdrop plain white or deep charcoal so the projection pops. 2. Fade each sentence after ten seconds, leaving the final vows glowing for the kiss. 3. Turn the digital canvas into fine-art prints later. **Why it works** The spoken word becomes visual art in the same breath—perfect for couples who treasure language. ![Wedding phonebooth with words put in vinyl ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/phonebooth_3UuPeCni6?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## 4\. The Vinyl “Voicemail” Guestbook **What it is** A phone booth lets guests record 30-second messages before the ceremony. Post-wedding, press the audio—and your ceremony soundtrack—onto a limited-run 12-inch vinyl that doubles as the guestbook. Use a strong prompt or an attendant to keep recordings short and clear (cheap mics pick up everything). **How to weave it in** 1. Position the phone at the entrance with a sign: “Speak your blessing, drop the needle later.” 2. Slip a lyric-style insert into each sleeve listing speakers and timestamps. **Why it works** You hear their actual voices for ever—on a medium built for intentional listening. ## 5\. Time-Stamped Star-Map Vows **What it is** I pause before the vows while software captures the exact sky overhead. A planetarium dome—or ceiling projector—paints that sky above the guests; each star map prints on archival paper as a take-home. **How to weave it in** 1. Opt for soft blues in daylight or hold an evening ceremony for full effect. 2. Echo key star names inside the vows. 3. Marry in an actual planetarium if you want the ultimate wow. **Why it works** Your promises anchor to a cosmic moment—something you can quite literally point to decades later. ![Ready Player One themed wedding in the metaverse ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Ready_Player_One_themed_wedding_uHBWkpqaF?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## 6\. The Metaverse Ceremony **What it is** Couples who met in a game (Minecraft, Fortnite, you name it) build a replica altar inside that world. A 360° feed lets in-person guests watch avatars exchange digital rings, while online mates attend entirely in-game. **How to weave it in** 1. Keep the IRL script tight—just vows and pronouncement—to sync with the virtual scene. 2. Issue NFC wristbands that log each guest into the server when tapped to their phone. **Why it works** The place the relationship actually blossomed becomes sacred ground—story and setting entwined. Also because Ready Player One doesn’t make it into enough wedding theming blogs. ## 7\. Real-Time Multilingual Ceremony Audio **What it is** Hand out translation earbuds (Pixel Buds, WT2, etc.). Generative-AI back-end listens and streams an overdub in each listener’s language—matching pace and intonation—within a second. **How to weave it in** 1. Pre-load the script so the model nails names and jokes. 2. Keep an AUSLAN interpreter on stage for full inclusivity. 3. For plug-and-play ease, look at [Wordly](https://www.wordly.ai). **Why it works** No-one is stuck reading subtitles. Every guest hears the nuance of the words you wrote—live. I’ve married so many people where Mum or Nanna was just nodding along; now they can join in. ![A drone show at your wedding ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/drone_show_at_wedding_xt_Tiq4qo?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## 8\. Drone-Scripted Sky Vows **What it is** A micro-swarm of LED drones—the modern take on fireworks—launches at the pronouncement and “hand-writes” your last vow line, initials or a shared symbol across the night sky. **How to weave it in** 1. Book a certified drone-show provider at least three months out for airspace permits. 2. Give them your run-sheet and vows so the flight software translates words into light paths. 3. Cue launch the second I say, “I now pronounce…”, with a score timed to the choreography. **Why it works** The language you spent weeks perfecting is literally written on the heavens—an ephemeral, collective _amen_. ## 9\. Pop-Up Letterpress Keepsake **What it is** A mobile letterpress studio parks on-site. As soon as the vows finish, the printer pulls a limited-edition card featuring the final vow line and timestamp. **How to weave it in** 1. Pre-set movable type with the last sentence, date and co-ordinates. 2. Guests watch impressions happen in real time; prints dry on a display line during canapés. 3. The signed A5 print doubles as the favour—no extra bonbonnière needed. **Why it works** An intangible promise becomes a tactile artefact you can run your fingers over; ink pressed as deeply as the moment felt. ## 10\. Live-Looped Vow Soundtrack **What it is** A loop-pedal musician samples ambience (waves, birds, crowd hum) plus a few of your words, layering them into a gentle soundscape for the recessional. **How to weave it in** 1. Mic the space to capture you saying “I choose you.” 2. During the signing, the musician loops guitar, subtle percussion and the sampled phrase. 3. The finished track swells for your exit and later becomes the highlight-film score. **Why it works** Your own voices and the day’s natural soundtrack merge into a one-off piece of music—no generic Pachelbel, pure story. --- ## Bonus ideas I wrote ten then wrote some more. ### 11\. Live Typewriter-Poet Keepsakes **What it is** A roaming or pop-up poet taps custom verses on a vintage typewriter for guests—each sheet a one-of-one favour. **How to weave it in** 1. Set a small desk near the bar so the _clack-clack_ becomes ambience. 2. Give the poet prompt cards: favourite lyrics, in-jokes, five-word memories. 3. Stamp your monogram and date in the footer. 4. Provide slim kraft envelopes to keep poems wine-free. **Why it works** Bespoke literature crafted live; the physicality mirrors the permanence of your promises. ![Live poet on a typewriter ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Live_poet_on_a_typewriter_Jj62Zx5n0?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### 12\. On-Site Wedding Painter **What it is** A fine artist sets up an easel during the vows and paints the scene in real time. By reception’s end the canvas is nearly complete; final varnish happens off-site. **How to weave it in** 1. Position the easel just off-centre so guests can watch without blocking photos. 2. Brief the painter on palette and key moments (first kiss, recessional). 3. Add a “Watch the art grow” sign and note quiet times (during readings). 4. Display the almost-finished piece at reception exit. **Why it works** Guests witness the memory being immortalised brush-stroke by brush-stroke—story reinforced in real time. --- ### 13\. Editorial-Style Portrait Studio **What it is** Ditch the prop-filled iPad booth for a seamless backdrop, strobe head and pro portrait photographer. Guests walk away with Vanity-Fair-level portraits. **How to bring it in** 1. Run the studio during cocktail hour and early reception—before jackets come off. 2. Show a live tethered feed on a monitor; the instant feedback entices participation. 3. Offer on-site 4×6 prints in branded folios _and_ a next-day digital gallery with share-friendly licence. 4. Mention dress code (black tie, jewel tones) in the invitation so portraits feel cohesive. **Why it works:** Perfect light plus a trained eye equals heirloom-grade images—far more intentional than a blinky gif booth. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ideas](/tag/ideas) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-of-condiments) ### [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. 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Let your mind wander, start dreaming, and that 4-hour epic adventure of wedded love can be yours! But many couples ask me as their [wedding celebrant](/wedding-celebrant) what the bare minimum is. “What is the shortest, simplest, easiest ceremony you can do?” I don’t like to do bare minimum ceremonies, mainly because they are barely a ceremony, more of a procedure. But there are legitimate reasons for doing bare minimum ceremonies. You might be getting married overseas, or in a more casual arrangement and would like to do the “legals” separately, perhaps before you leave for your South Pacific getaway. Or maybe you’re keeping the legal bit simple so you can have a more personalised celebration with family and friends later. But whatever your reason, here are the bare minimum requirements to become married in Australia. ![Exchanging wedding vows with Josh Withers, photographed by George Bowden and The Elopement Collective ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging-vows_qxJ_MqZA0?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ## The paperwork before the wedding A NOIM (Notice of Intended Marriage form) must be completed and witnessed by the people being married and a marriage celebrant, or another prescribed officer like a Justice of the Peace, Police Officer, or certain other authorised people. This form must be completed, with passports or birth certificates with drivers licences sighted, **at least one month** before the wedding day. The one-month notice period is a legal requirement that gives authorities time to check there are no impediments to your marriage. It’s not just a suggestion – it’s a requirement under section 42 of the Marriage Act 1961. ## Can the one month waiting period be waived? The one-month notice can be waived by a prescribed authority (usually a magistrate or judge) in the following specific circumstances: - **Employment-related or other travel commitments**: For example, if one of you has been suddenly deployed overseas - **Wedding or celebration arrangements, or religious considerations**: Perhaps a terminally ill relative wants to attend but won’t be able to wait a month - **Medical reasons**: Such as a terminal illness of one of the partners - **Legal proceedings**: Including immigration issues that require immediate marriage - **Error in giving notice**: If a celebrant made a mistake with your paperwork But let me be clear – this doesn’t happen often. You really need to bring a compelling case to the authorities as to why you need a shortening of time. It’s not as simple as “we’re in a hurry” or “we forgot to plan ahead.” The prescribed authority will want to see evidence of your case. ## The declaration Just before the wedding ceremony, each party to the marriage must make a declaration before the authorised celebrant as to their conjugal status and belief that there is no legal impediment to the marriage. This Declaration of No Legal Impediment to Marriage is a legal requirement and confirms that: - You’re both free to marry (not already married to someone else) - You’re not in a prohibited relationship (closely related) - You’re both of marriageable age - You both consent to the marriage This declaration can happen “before” the ceremony – seconds before, earlier in the day, or close to the date – but it must be completed before the marriage ceremony takes place. ## On the wedding day itself Once at least one month has passed since lodging your NOIM, on your wedding day, the absolute bare minimum ceremony must include: 1. **Celebrant introduction**: I must identify myself and my authority to conduct marriages in Australia. 2. **The monitum**: I must state to the people being married, in the presence of at least two witnesses over 18 years of age: _“I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.”_ 3. **Legal vows**: Each partner must say to the other: _“I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, \[full name\], take thee, \[full name\], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse.”_ You can add words before or after this statement, but these specific words (or words to similar effect that clearly express consent) must be included. 4. **Signing the certificates**: Three documents must be signed by the couple, two witnesses, and myself: - Form 15: Certificate of marriage given to the couple (your official marriage certificate) - Official Certificate of Marriage for the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages - Register of Marriage Certificates kept by me as the celebrant And now you’re legally married! That’s it. A legal marriage ceremony can be completed in under five minutes. ## Everything else is optional (but wonderful) Everything beyond these core elements is completely up to you: - Exchanging rings - Personal vows - Readings or music - Wedding party participation - Symbolic rituals like handfasting or sand ceremonies - Processional and recessional - Wedding reception I always remind couples that while the legal bits are important, they’re just the scaffolding that holds up the beautiful structure of your ceremony. The personal elements you choose to include are what make your wedding memorable and meaningful. ## Why I encourage more than the minimum While I can (and occasionally do) perform bare minimum ceremonies, I believe your wedding deserves more. The ceremony is the heart of your wedding day – it’s the moment you actually become married. When a couple chooses me as their celebrant, I encourage them to think about how they want that moment to feel. A thoughtfully crafted ceremony becomes the foundation stone of your marriage. It creates a memory that you’ll carry with you through the years, and it gives your guests insight into your relationship and the commitment you’re making. That said, I completely understand that sometimes the bare minimum is what works best for your situation. Whether you’re planning an elaborate celebration later, dealing with time constraints, or simply prefer a more intimate legal proceeding, I’m here to help make your wedding legal, meaningful, and stress-free. If you’re curious about what a more personalised ceremony might look like, or you’d like to chat about your specific needs for a bare minimum ceremony, please don’t hesitate to [get in touch](/contact). - [noim](/tag/noim) - [legal vows](/tag/legal-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) - [certificate of no impediment](/tag/certificate-of-no-impediment) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/get_married_quickly_azjm6XNrz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/shortening-of-time) ### [Getting Married in Less Than a Month? Here's How the Shortening of Time Works](/shortening-of-time) Need to marry in less than a month in Australia? Learn how shortening of time for your NOIM works, the 5 qualifying circumstances, and how to apply. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Vanessa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/vanessa-1lnxz13) - [Jasmine— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmine-0hrbnps) - [Jasmin & Vincent— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jasmin-and-vincent-1st9exs) --- # The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/the-cancellation-of-josh-withers Mar 28, 2025 · [Inside Baseball](/category/inside-baseball) · 9 min read # The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers All the times (I can remember) that I've copped flack for being me, plain old boring me, Josh Withers the wedding celebrant with an opinion. ![The long and gradual cancellation of Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/josh-withers_lbAChqfLm?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) A list of all the times I’ve been cancelled or complained about since 2009, a 2025 edition: 1. Becoming a celebrant in 2009, I had multiple local celebrants tell me that someone like me, young and male, wasn’t welcome to celebrant and wedding industry events. I pretty much put the whole thing back in the freezer until Britt and I got married in 2012 and she encouraged me to attend a wedding expo after other expos and magazines had turned me away because the existing advertising celebrants didn’t like a new entrant to the marketplace. 2. Britt had the idea of [pop-up weddings in 2013](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdVuM0UHHr4) - the concept of hiring a wedding venue for a day, styling and florals for the day, hire a photographer for the day, and we could marry a number of couples in a day which would keep the costs low for them, creating a new product for the wedding industry in between a wedding and a paperwork-only wedding or registry wedding. The wedding industry of the day called us out for creating a “conveyor belt of love” and cheapening the whole industry. Seven News even ran a story on that angle. The concept was that horrible that we were copied by hundreds of businesses worldwide and we rebranded to [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com) - at the time elopements were not a thing, but we popularised the elopement wedding idea in late 2015 - [Trademark filing](https://search.ipaustralia.gov.au/trademarks/search/view/1749989?q=Elopement+Collective) - and now it’s a valid option. Pop up weddings also led to the Commonwealth Attorney-General’s Department (AGD, they manage the celebrancy program) complaints and they had to issue a fact sheet about them in response to us doing them. 3. Feeling alone in the industry, I created a Facebook group called Engagers and some celebrants made cropped-out-of-context screenshots from the group in 2016 and sent them to the AGD implying that I was not obeying the law, which led to me being fired from OPD training (they emailed the CEO of the training company), a professional review by the AGD, me closing down the group, and out of its ashes The Celebrant Society was born. 4. Dally Messenger (one of the first celebrants ever appointed) emailed a celebrants mailing list in 2015 about me calling me “ignorant and sickening.” Saying of me “this is what you get when you ‘train’ people in invented legal trivia instead of poetry and music.” I’d been interviewed by the Daily Mail in the UK about my style of celebrancy and they published an article about me. 5. Every time I’d appear on the Today Show on Nine or Seven Sunrise as their regular correspondant about weddings and marriage, I’d get sickenging messages from celebrants for charging too much, about my body, for cheapening the industry, and for being “unprofessional” by their weird standards. 6. In 2014, I [filmed](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8786521/) as the wedding celebrant on the then unheard of new TV show by Nine, Married at First Sight, and when it aired in 2015 it spurred multiple complaints to the AGD and the BDM - because you can’t get legally married to someone you just met - don’t worry, the TV weddings were just TV, it’s all just made up - plus the LGBT blogs and radio shows called me out for not marrying LGBT people on the show, like I had a choice. It was weird to hear the breakfast show host of the Sydney gay radio station at the time, who I thought was my friend, rubbish me on air. 7. There’s always been comments about my style (I don’t read from a script and I don’t think rehearsals are the best), our business decisions to travel worldwide for wedding and to charge well for my services so I can afford to be a full-time celebrant where most celebrants today have day jobs, or they’re retired, or their partner is the primary wage earner. 8. I advocated for celebrants to be able to sign marriage paperwork on digital devices and an AGD fact sheet was released in response to it. Celebrants still go on about how I’ve “taken away their red book”. 9. Covid-19. Gosh the stories we could tell. One day, over a beer. 10. A prominent Byron Bay wedding venue banned me from being a celebrant at their wedding venue because a couple wanted to elope there and the way Byron Bay weddings work is that weddings don’t happen on their properties without the venue getting a cut and I’m not into that. So I didn’t know they were doing it outside of the wedding mafia and we got roused on during the elopement - I apologised - then found out later that couples who said I was their celebrant were being turned away. As I tend to do in moments like these I called them out in public, and I had every wedding vendor in Byron Bay calling me asking me to take it down because they didn’t want me to ruin the good thing they had going. The thing is, wedding venues don’t deserve a cut of my fee unless we have an agreement about that exist deal. 11. I wrote an article, now archived at [The SMH](https://thesmh.com.au/blog/not-hate-the-celebrant/?utm_source=marriedbyjosh.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=article_archive), about celebrants needing to be better in response to photographers and videographers making complaints about celebrants to me. But then I upset all the celebrants and they turned out in force because I wasn’t kind enough or soft enough in my words, which is fair enough. I [recorded a podcast](https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/celebrant/episodes/Open-up-the-old-internet-and-just-toss-some-stuff-in-there--People-love-it-e23a69s) apology for my tone but the message remained. (You can find the rest of [my podcast episodes here](/podcast).) 12. I made [an Instagram video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-xL4WSvEan/) encouraging celebrants to say no to videographers wanting to tape recorders or wireless microphones to our microphones because of the electrical interference. Videographers still hate me for that, it was brought up again this week, like a year on. The truth is that strapping a radio microphone to another radio microphone is a bad idea. 13. A Tasmanian wedding directory owner had ‘run out of room’ on a website that that can be as long as you could ever want a website to be for paid listings for celebrants. I gifted that person some relevant domain names for the project (they were similarily named) partially because I didn’t want to compete in the wedding directory business and also to extend an olive branch to them in the spirit of networking, building relationship, and investing in my future in the industry. 14. After spending the last year trying to break into the Tasmanian wedding industry through paid advertising, networking, and meeting venues, all to minimal success, I studied SEO + GEO and started working to make my own website, and Britt’s at The Elopement Collective, more visible to the search and answer engines. Part of that process is in getting good links to your website from other websites, in particular, websites that are relevant in region (Tasmanian), websites that are relevant in topic (wedding), and in a type of website that the search engines and answer engines understand (like a directory). So I built a [Tasmanian wedding directory](https://tasmanian.directory) for the purpose of telling the engines that I was a local celebrant. I wasn’t and still am not in the business of making money off a Tasmanian wedding directory. You want the linking sites to have good [schema markup](https://search.google.com/test/rich-results/result?id=AqOj-76Lp-7Gr07MmsoYKg) and a good [page speed](https://pagespeed.web.dev/analysis/https-tasmanian-directory-directory-josh-withers-67xp/q04dxbgsw8?form_factor=desktop) and the existing Tasmanian wedding directories didn’t offer those attributes. The name of the directory isn’t trademarkable because it’s generic in nature but I offended that directory owner and all their friends. Apologies and measures to make it right have fallen short. The side problem was that a year earlier I had gifted that person the domain names tasmanianwedding.directory and two others similar and they had not activated them, and they were still sitting in my Cloudflare account so I added them to the website. Sixteen years of the being bullied by the wedding industry for creating change, for innovating, for thinking different, being brave, and being misunderstood - plus a handful of times I was actually wrong or stupid. When I’m actually perfect I’ll let you know how to do it too. I often wonder how short this list would be if any of them called 0485 866 606 and we had a chat? --- Here’s the thing. Some of my closest friends around the world, through Canada and the USA, around Australia, Asia, and New Zealand, are all wedding creatives. I like wedding creators. But gosh, I don’t exist for them. I’m [a husband and a father](/about) first. Secondly I’m a friend. Thirdly I operate a business for the benefit of my family eating each day and living in a nice home with our chickens and rabbits in the [Huon Valley](/huon-valley-celebrant). For most of these complaints I am not ashamed and would do the same things again. For the areas I’ve been wrong, I have always apologised, tried to make it right, and sought grace for that which I cannot. --- Britt often tells me, along with my friend and former business partner Sarah Aird, that it’s often not what I said, but how I said it. This is good feedback that I try to deploy every day, and fail at least half the time. I’m trying to be better but I hope everyone can know that my heart’s intentions are pure and for the betterment of my community. --- Some things I’ve always loved about the wedding industry are how it is driven by taste and creativity; how it’s always been a place welcoming to new people; a workplace quite literally fuelled by passion, love, and joy; fractured to a great degree by the simple “are you available?” email and your yes or no deciding everything; and that by nature of these virtues, an industry that thrives on competition and collaboration at the same time. There are no required enemies, no divisions into tribes, no “us and them”, but instead this deep drive to celebrate uniqueness, taste, creativity, and individuality in a thoroughly team sport. An industry so weird and wonderful. A bit like the platypus, it looks like God’s little joke. It will always confuse me, then, when you meet colleagues that don’t celebrate these attributes. --- Cancel me, complain about me, write about me, tell stories about me, I don’t really care. I walk with a clear conciescience today. Since 2009 I have been laser focused on creating the best wedding ceremonies for my clients, and also nurturing the best wedding industry and world for my kids to grow up in, so that when they get married they can do it in an awesome way. Am I a real boy with real feelings? Yes, but I also know who I am and the thoughts and opinions of others have only driven me to be better. Feedback is the breakfast of champions and I’d love to have brekkie with you. - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) - [industry](/tag/industry) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/englosh_teacher_and_gym_teacher_engaged_mqTAvYHGb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) ### [How will Taylor Swift's wedding change wedding traditions?](/taylor-swift-change-weddings) Celebrity weddings have always shaped the way we celebrate. Let's have a look at how they have in the past and how Travis and Taylor will change the future. - [![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/mafs) ### [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![M&C's Daylesford elopement](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Maddy_Cameron.BulbCreative-72_uPfxT0v21?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) ### [M&C's Daylesford elopement](/daylesford-elopement-maddy-cameron) A true and beautiful two-person elopement in Daylesford with Cameron & Maddy, the Elopement Collective, and Bulb Creative ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jaimee— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jaimee-0svueiz) - [Christie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/christie-1k2v0j2) - [Jen— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jen-0byag0d) --- # Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/things-to-cut-from-ceremony Jul 11, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. ![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I love the the wedding ceremony, it’s a beautiful tapestry of love, commitment … and sometimes a smattering of elements that make you wonder, “Why is this even here?” Let’s be honest, not everything in a traditional ceremony speaks to every couple. I’ve made an international career in pulling the wedding ceremony to pieces then rebuilding it with craft and intention. So, if you’re looking to trim the fat and make room for more of what matters, you’ve come to the right place. ## 1\. The Processional Parade Do you really need a procession that rivals the cast of a Broadway musical? Simplify it. The fewer people you have marching down the aisle, the sooner you can get to the good stuff—like saying “I do.” ## 2\. The Bouquet and Garter Toss Unless you’re keen on turning your wedding into a sporting event, these can easily be skipped. Use that time for an extra dance or a heartfelt toast instead. ## 3\. Unity Ceremonies Sand, candles, and even cocktails have had their moments in the unity ceremony spotlight. But if mixing substances doesn’t mix well with your vision, feel free to ditch it. ## 4\. Multiple Readings A well-chosen reading can be a beautiful thing, but too many can turn your ceremony into a literary marathon. If you’re going to have one, make it count. If not, no big deal. ## 5\. The Receiving Line This tradition can eat up a lot of time. Why not visit each table during the reception instead? It’s more personal and leaves more time for the ceremony itself. ## 6\. Overly Elaborate Décor Sometimes less is more. Cutting back on décor not only saves time but also lets the focus stay where it should be—on you and your love. ## 7\. The Ring Warming Passing your rings through the crowd for blessings is sweet but time-consuming. If you’re not attached to it, consider a more intimate exchange. ## 8\. Lengthy Vows Vows are the heart of the ceremony, but they don’t have to be an epic saga. Make them as long as they need to be and no longer, as short as they need to be and no shorter, your inspiration should be making them honest and meaningful. If you have more than a page to say, consider putting it in a letter maybe. ## 9\. The Guest Book Do you really need to watch people sign a book? Move this to the reception area and reclaim those precious minutes for something more engaging. ## 10\. The Exit Strategy The grand exit is fun but not a must-have. If you’re not keen on a dramatic farewell, use that time to mingle with your guests or sneak in an extra dance. Remember, your wedding ceremony is your canvas. Feel free to paint it with the colours that resonate with you, not just the ones tradition hands you. By cutting out what doesn’t serve your vision, you make room for what does—more love, more joy, and more moments that you’ll treasure forever. - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Lee & Courtney— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/lee-and-courtney-0udwo6e) - [Shane & Matylda— House At Smoko](/wedding-testimonials/shane-and-matylda-0iw2lqi) - [Rebecca— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-05p96gz) --- # The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/top-10-things-go-wrong Jun 18, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. ![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I was interviewed by the _Daily Mail_ about the common disasters that show up at weddings—and how to stop them from wrecking your day. You can [read the full article here](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3262845/Celebrant-shares-10-things-wrong-wedding-fix-them.html), but here’s the rundown in my own words. ## The short version - **Your mum goes full bridezilla** She means well. She’s just got her own idea of what your wedding should be. Gently remind her this is _your_ marriage, not her re-do. _(Also: mums, still cool to cover the bar tab, right?)_ - **It rains** Outdoor wedding? Good. Backup plan? Better. Clear umbrellas from the dollar store? Genius. - **A baby screams mid-ceremony** If it’s your baby: be a parent first. If it’s someone else’s: consider hiring a babysitter for the day. - **Flower kids or ring-bearers flop** Set them up for a win. Don’t expect a toddler to handle the crown jewels. Keep it fun and low-pressure. - **Your DIY arbour falls apart** Pinterest doesn’t build structures. Pros do. Don’t spend your wedding night in emergency because of a budget arch. (If you’re stretching dollars, plan it properly with the [Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method).) - **You forget your vows** Write them down. Read them. Don’t try to wing it. You’ll thank yourself later. - **Drunk uncle chaos** Don’t invite anyone you don’t like sober. That solves 90% of reception problems. - **You picked the wrong [photographer](/friends)** Some direct the day like a film set. Others hang back and document it. Pick the style _and person_ you’re comfortable with. - **The ceremony is boring** A good [celebrant](/wedding-celebrant) is better than the beer. A bad one makes people wish they were already at the bar. - **Everyone’s running late** Tell guests to arrive an hour early, [give them a drink](/can-you-drink-before-your-wedding-ceremony), and start when you’re ready. Also: hire people who _turn up_. --- ## Weddings are messy and that’s okay The best ones aren’t perfect—they’re personal. And judging by the comments on the article, couples in [Sydney](/sydney-celebrant), [Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant) and right across Australia get it. Some highlights: > The real key to success is guests you can trust. We got hit with wild wind that picked up the arch and threw it into the lagoon. Our friends moved everything inside and set it all up again. — **Bruce Watkins, Sydney** > We focused on the fact that it was not just two individuals coming together, but two families. We listened to everyone’s opinions but were quietly resolute about our final decision. We’re about to celebrate our tenth happy year together! — **Elly, Adelaide** > Get married at the [courthouse](/registry-office) with only immediate family and chuck a party after the fact. Sure, it’s not romantic, but it saves you a bundle and there is a lot less stress involved. — **djs.specs, Brisbane** > Best friends only. Civil or celebrant ceremony. Wedding party books into a mutually convenient venue for a few days. Have a nice time. Inform the family after the honeymoon. — **Tin Cup, Sydney** > The tie off the bathroom robe becomes the lifesaver to tie your wedding dress up with when your attendants accidentally leave that part at your house and you’re running late!! — **MetalGirl, Australia** The biggest takeaway? Let go of perfection. Gp from Sydney said it best: > It’s just one day out of a marriage that, you hope, will last the rest of your life. --- Weddings don’t have to be flawless. They just need to be _real_. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [problems](/tag/problems) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/wet-weather) ### [Wet weather wedding planning](/wet-weather) Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Marnie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/marnie-1yqoupb) - [April— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7) - [Samuel & Amelia— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/samuel-and-amelia-0ir83p9) --- # Unnecessary things celebrants we say URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say Dec 6, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Unnecessary things celebrants we say Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. ![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Recently, I received a Facebook message from a bride asking what I consider to be one of the most common questions from couples and journalists alike: “Do you have to say \[traditional phrase\] in a wedding ceremony?” The following advice applies to Australian law and reflects my personal opinion. I believe wedding ceremonies should be authentic and meaningful, not bound by tradition for tradition’s sake. ## What’s Actually Required by Law As an authorised marriage celebrant in Australia, there’s only one mandatory statement I must make during the ceremony: > “I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.” Even this comes with flexibility - the legislation includes “or words to that effect,” meaning you can communicate these sentiments in your own way. Everything else a celebrant says during the ceremony is either their choice or the couple’s preference. ## Common Phrases That Aren’t Legally Required Here’s my take on traditional wedding phrases that aren’t actually necessary: ### “Dearly beloved…” Instead of this formal address, I prefer “friends and family.” After all, if guests don’t realise they’re at a wedding and that the person up front is speaking to them, “dearly beloved” probably won’t help much either. ### “We are gathered here today for \[names\]…” The invitation already covered this information, didn’t it? ### “Who gives this woman to be married to this man?” This outdated tradition belongs in the history books. ### “For better, for worse…” These traditional vows are beautiful but generic. Why not create personal, meaningful vows that truly reflect your relationship and promises to each other? ### “Love is patient, love is kind…” While 1 Corinthians 13 contains lovely sentiments about love, there’s no requirement to include biblical readings in a civil ceremony. Though I will say, the notion that “love never fails” is quite profound. ### “If anyone has any objections…” The law doesn’t require me to ask for objections, and I won’t - unless we’ve agreed it would be amusing to ask and then immediately declare it’s too late anyway! ### “Do you?” / “I do!” Surprisingly, Australian civil ceremonies don’t require these famous exchanges. It’s not the “I do” that makes you married - it’s the exchange of legal vows. ### “I now pronounce you husband and wife…” Here’s an insider tip: the moment of marriage occurs when couples exchange their legal vows. If disaster struck right then, you’d already be legally married. The pronouncement is simply a ceremonial way to conclude the ceremony. ### “Joined today in holy matrimony…” As a civil celebrant, I don’t perform holy matrimony - that’s for religious celebrants. Moreover, the joining happens between the two of you through your vows, not through any magical words from me. ### “May I have the rings?” While rings are lovely symbols, they’re not legally required. Groomsmen often worry about “doing it wrong,” but there’s no wrong way to hold rings. Just channel your inner Beyoncé during the exchange! ### “To have and to hold…” These archaic phrases, while poetic, don’t reflect how we speak today. Your ceremony should use language that feels natural and meaningful to you. ### “By the power vested in me…” I’m not Captain Marriage! Surely we can find a more contemporary way to conclude the ceremony. ### “You may now kiss your bride…” You don’t need permission to kiss your new spouse. If you feel the moment is right, go for it! ## The Beauty of Australian Marriage Law Before anyone worries that I’m dismissing the sanctity of marriage, let me explain: The brilliance of Australian marriage law lies in its flexibility. It gives couples the freedom to create ceremonies that truly reflect their personalities and relationships. As a celebrant, this means I can help you celebrate your marriage your way - not according to Hollywood or traditional expectations. You’re free to design a ceremony that represents you, not someone else’s idea of what a wedding should be. After all, it’s your day, your way. - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) - [marriage celebrant](/tag/marriage-celebrant) - [words](/tag/words) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/legal-vows) ### [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-dont) ### [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alex— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alex-1p6i4m4) - [Amanda— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-1sgaifg) - [Lauren— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lauren-0qx1u10) --- # Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/use-ipod-wedding-music May 2, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success How to create foolproof wedding playlists with this simple system. Tips from a professional celebrant on helping your designated music person nail every cue. ![Setting Up Your Wedding Ceremony Playlist for Success](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/2024031299_wXtRVg6ad?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I swear, nearly half the time the well-meaning brother, cousin, or uncle who’s been tasked with operating the playlist at a wedding ceremony is too caught up in the moment to actually press play when they’re supposed to. There they are, wiping tears away or clapping emphatically when suddenly everyone’s looking around wondering why there’s no music for the recessional. It’s honestly one of those little wedding moments that makes me smile – how can I be upset when someone’s just so emotionally invested in their loved one’s ceremony? That said, when you’re planning your [ceremony music](/wedding-songs), there are some simple steps you can take to make sure whoever is pressing play (emotional relative or not) has the best chance of getting it right. ## The Magic of Numbered Playlists Here’s my tried and tested system that works brilliantly: 1. **Create separate, numbered playlists** rather than one long continuous playlist 2. **Label them clearly** with both numbers and descriptions 3. **Keep them short** – each playlist only needs the songs required for that specific moment The key is in the naming: - **0 - Pre-Ceremony**: Songs that play while guests are arriving and being seated - **1 - Aisle**: Music for the wedding party and couple to walk down the aisle - **2 - Signing**: Background music during the signing of documents - **3 - Recessional**: The triumphant exit song and celebration music after the ceremony The numbering is crucial – it makes the order obvious even to someone who might be flustered or emotional. ## Pre-Ceremony Music: Setting the Mood Your “0 - Pre-Ceremony” playlist should be about 30-45 minutes of music, depending on how early you expect guests to arrive. This music sets the tone for the day, so choose songs that reflect the overall vibe you’re going for but keep them relatively calm. Pro tip: Put your absolute favourite songs towards the end of this playlist, as earlier songs might be playing while only a handful of guests have arrived. ## Aisle Music: Timing is Everything For the “1 - Aisle” playlist, I recommend creating a separate track for each person or group walking down the aisle. If you have multiple bridesmaids or groomsmen walking individually, combine their walks into one song, but make sure it’s long enough. If you’re using different songs for different people, definitely keep them in separate playlists (like “1A - Bridesmaids”, “1B - Bride”). This way, your designated DJ just needs to press play at exactly the right moment rather than trying to skip to the right spot in a single track. ## Signing Music: Keep it Flowing Your “2 - Signing” playlist should have 2-3 songs that total about 5-10 minutes. The signing part of the ceremony usually takes less time than people expect, but it’s always better to have extra music than to run out. ## Recessional: Party Starter The “3 - Recessional” playlist should start with your exit song – the triumphant tune that plays as you walk back down the aisle as a married couple. Following that, include 15-20 minutes of upbeat celebration music that can continue playing during congratulations and any post-ceremony mingling. ## Tips for Your Designated Playlist Operator 1. **Choose wisely**: Pick someone who can pay attention to cues while still enjoying the ceremony 2. **Practice before the day**: Have a quick run-through with them so they know exactly what to do 3. **Charge everything**: Make sure your device is fully charged and bring a charger 4. **Disable notifications**: Nothing ruins a tender moment like a text message alert 5. **Have backup**: Either a second device or, at minimum, written instructions 6. **Test the sound system**: Do a sound check at the venue before guests arrive ## Fail-Safe Option Be sure to have your spotify or apple music login prepared for them beforehand, and if you’re using a venue’s sound system, test the connection well in advance. Consider writing out the specific moments when music should change (e.g., “Press play on playlist 1 when the celebrant nods at you”). Remember that emotions run high at weddings – I’ve seen the most organised people forget basic instructions in the moment. That’s why a simple, numbered system works better than complex directions. Or you could just hire a [professional DJ or band](/friends) so you don’t have to worry about this blog post at all. - [wedding ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [music](/tag/music) - [entertainment](/tag/entertainment) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunshine-coast-celebrant_qXjPh3-SS?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) ### [How I Create a Wedding Ceremony](/making-ceremony-is-like-a-song) At the end of the day, a great ceremony, like a great song, should make you feel something. And that's all I need to know about everything. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-timeline) ### [How to make a wedding day timeline](/wedding-timeline) Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jessica & Clay— Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-and-clay-1qay5n2) - [Aura & Jacob— Heartwood Cabin](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) - [Ben & Bec— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-bec-0cimz1l) --- # Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/vows-outside-ceremony Apr 20, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony? More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. ![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-webp) There’s a bit of a growing trend I’ve been noticing among couples lately – the desire to exchange personal vows outside of the ceremony, in private. Just the two of them, no audience, no celebrant, no pressure. I get it, weddings can be weird, awkward, stressful. And look, I’ll always honour your wishes. It’s your wedding day, and ultimately I’m there to create exactly what you want, for you, no-one else. But as someone who’s married thousands of couples, I think it’s worth unpacking this trend a little so we can treat the roots of the issue, not the leaves. I wonder whether this is a thing because some other wedding celebrants made something beautiful - the ceremony - weird. The way I view a wedding is that the vows are the centrepiece, the tentpole, of any marriage ceremony. Not just because they’re beautiful and meaningful, but because _legally speaking_, the vows are the thing that actually make you married. Not the paperwork, not the rings, not me saying “I now pronounce you…” – it’s you two exchanging vows that creates the marriage. When you both say, “I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, \[full name\], take thee, \[full name\], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse” (or words to that effect), you are married according to Australian law. That’s the moment. That’s the magic. So when couples want to remove personal vows from the ceremony, I find myself wondering: what are we actually doing in the ceremony then? It becomes a bit like a bread-less sandwich or a Virgin Cuba Libre (shout out to Sheldon Cooper). Of course, we can absolutely do a ceremony without personal vows – you can exchange the legal vows during the ceremony and save your personal promises for a private moment. But I gently ask: why are you having a marriage ceremony if not to get married in it, fully and completely? I suspect that for many couples, this trend stems from previous experiences or perceptions. Perhaps you’ve seen ceremonies where the celebrant had the couple awkwardly facing the crowd instead of each other. Or maybe someone has made you feel like exchanging vows is “public speaking” – it’s not, by any definition. You’re exchanging vows with and to each other, looking at each other. Yes, your guests are witnessing it, but that’s why they’re there – to witness and celebrate your commitment. I see my role as your celebrant as making you feel comfortable enough to exchange personal vows in a way that feels intimate, even with an audience. It’s about creating a bubble where, despite being surrounded by loved ones, it feels like just the two of you in that moment. Rather than removing this powerful element from the ceremony, let’s examine what’s making you uncomfortable about exchanging vows and address that instead. After all, there’s something profoundly beautiful about declaring your love and commitment not just to each other, but in front of the community that will support your marriage for years to come. It’s not just a legal requirement – it’s a powerful statement about the public nature of your commitment. But again – it’s your day. We’ll create something beautiful regardless. I just wanted to offer some food for thought before you decide to take the heart out of the ceremony and save it for later. ## If You Do Choose Private Vows: Making Both Moments Special If after considering all this, you still prefer to keep your personal vows private, here’s how we can make both moments—the ceremony and your private exchange—truly special: ### Ideas for Your Ceremony 1. **Ring warming** – Have your rings passed among guests who can hold them briefly while silently offering wishes for your marriage 2. **Symbolic ritual** – Unity candles, sand ceremonies, handfasting, or something unique to your relationship - only if you find meaning in these rituals 3. **Readings and [music](/wedding-songs)** – Emphasis on meaningful texts and songs that represent your relationship 4. **Community vows** – Have your guests make promises to support your marriage 5. **Extended storytelling** – I can share more of your journey as a couple (the PG version, of course!) 6. **Involve family members** – Parents or siblings can share brief reflections or blessings 7. **Moment of silence** – A dedicated time for everyone present to send good thoughts your way ### Beautiful Ways to Exchange Private Vows 1. **First look vows** – Share your personal promises during your first look, with your [photographer](/friends) capturing the raw emotion 2. **Sunrise exchange** – Wake up early on your wedding day and exchange vows as the sun rises 3. **Letter exchange** – Write your vows in letters to each other, to be read privately before the ceremony 4. **Post-ceremony portrait session** – Slip away with your photographer after the ceremony and share your personal vows then 5. **Evening exchange** – After everyone has gone to bed, share your vows under the stars or in your accommodation 6. **Pre-wedding day** – Exchange vows the day before, removing pressure from the wedding day itself 7. **Anniversary promise** – Save your personal vows for your first anniversary, when you’ve had time to reflect on what marriage means to you Whatever you choose, remember that both moments—the public declaration and the private promises—can be meaningful in their own way. And I’m here to help make both exactly what you want them to be. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![How Is a Marriage Consummated?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/consumating-a-marriage_i0LxkjHrc?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/consumated) ### [How Is a Marriage Consummated?](/consumated) Wondering how a marriage is consummated? Find out the truth from a marriage celebrant's perspective, along with what actually matters legally. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-00ti3fx) - [Brian— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/brian-1cn17uq) - [Jules— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jules-1atq4c8) --- # My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedco-podcast May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast A behind-the-scenes look at my conversation with the Wed.Co Podcast, where we discuss script-free ceremonies, creating meaningful moments, and the ceremony. ![My Chat with Wed.Co Podcast](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedcopodcast_BnVLZ_rSO?tr=w-900%2Ch-506%2Cf-webp) I recently had the absolute pleasure of [sitting down with Toga and Joel from the Wed.Co Podcast for their 42nd episode](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szz6w-rDSCs). We recorded at my favourite [wedding venue](/here) - Gabbinbar in Toowoomba – if you haven’t been there for a wedding, you’re missing out on one of Australia’s most magnificent venues. [The podcast](https://www.wedcopodcast.com/episodes-1-60/ep-42) was an open, flowing conversation about everything I’m passionate about: creating meaningful ceremonies, the evolution of weddings, and why I never use a script (which apparently freaks some people out, but hey – I’m okay with that!). We dove deep into what makes a ceremony truly memorable and why I believe that your wedding ceremony should be the absolute highlight of your day – not just something to get through before the party starts. After all, it’s the reason everyone’s there in the first place! We also chatted about the more practical aspects of celebrancy – the business side, the challenges, and how important it is to have quality audio at ceremonies (honestly, nothing kills the vibe quicker than guests at the back not being able to hear those beautiful vows). One of my favourite parts of the conversation was exploring how weddings and ceremonies have evolved over the years. What was once rigid and formulaic has become a beautiful canvas for personal expression – and I’m here for it! My mate Jake Smith was also interviewed recently for the podcast, and I’ll be honest – his episode might even be better than mine (though I’ll never admit that to his face). Jake brings a wonderfully different perspective to celebrancy, and I reckon between our two episodes, you’ll get a pretty comprehensive view of what modern marriage ceremonies can be. If you’re planning a wedding, curious about what a celebrant actually does, or just enjoy good conversation about love and community, I’d love for you to have a listen. You can find the Wed.Co Podcast on all major platforms – [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/hello-josh-withers-the-art-of-a-ceremony/id1717301812?i=1000669860310), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ouqcxs9JYilpmZ99K3raQ?si=UL12B2KpS-2ntF0m31xCiQ), iHeartRadio – or check out their YouTube channel @wed.copodcast or [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/wed.copodcast/) for the visual experience. A massive thanks to Toga and Joel for having me on and for the incredibly important work they’re doing to showcase the wedding industry in all its diverse glory. If you’re a podcast fan, [browse the rest of my podcast appearances and episodes](/podcast). ## Other Episodes You Should Check Out A few of my mates have been on the podcast and their episodes are good listens too: - [Married by Jake](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfvrU4UW_Do) - [The team at Gabbinbar](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0j0BRQezrng) - [Michael Kelly Films](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZtHg6FrMvaI) - [Kiera from Creative Weddings Byron Bay](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqKeOvlliuw) - [Harley from Bulb Creative](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRsplDhhpJs) - [Hutcho](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNDnYeQ73CI) - [Annie from Celebrant Lady Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgiPZCgWD-Q) - [Karen Willis-Holmes](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIJK2h51CYU) - [Jo at the Old Dairy, Maleny](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tql92BGAazs) - [Andy from Evernew Photography Studio](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5d8j9lork5U) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![That time I was on MAFS](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/mafs-celebrant_K5Tr0lbo8?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/mafs) ### [That time I was on MAFS](/mafs) Most people don’t know this, but I was the celebrant on the very first season of Married at First Sight on Channel Nine - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Kim— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kim-0z6k5tr) - [Emily— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/emily-02n08hm) - [Samantha— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) --- # Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-apps-for-photos Jun 15, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work Why wedding photo apps don’t work—and what to do instead to actually get the reception photos you’ll want to keep. ![Wedding Photo Apps Don’t Work](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/qr_code_wedding_app_QU-39aMjp?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) In theory, it’s a great idea. You’ve got a hundred friends at your wedding, all with smartphones. So you pop a QR code on the tables, everyone uploads their photos, and boom—you’ve got a crowdsourced photo album of your big day. Except… no one uses it. In all my years at weddings I’ve never seen anyone other than an enthusiastic bridesmaid, or a bullied father, use the app or QR code. ## The reality of guest photo apps These apps rely on your guests doing _something extra_—scanning a code, signing up, downloading an app, uploading their photos. That’s a lot to ask at a wedding where people are drinking, dancing, and trying to find the bathroom. In the end, most couples end up with a handful of grainy photos from two tech-savvy friends and a stack of blurry screenshots someone uploaded the next morning. It’s underwhelming. And it doesn’t do your day justice. ## What actually works If you _really_ want to capture the magic of your wedding reception—not just the ceremony—here’s what works: ### 1\. **Ask your [photographer](/friends) to stay for the reception** They’re already invested in your story. If you trust them with your ceremony, trust them to capture the joy, the movement, the chaos, the vibe of the evening too. ### 2\. **Add a second shooter or event photographer** A second professional can cover more ground—while one is catching speeches, the other is capturing your Nan on the dancefloor. They’ll also give you more usable photos, fast. ### 3\. **Consider a photo booth—but only a good one** Done right, a photo booth can be a brilliant way to get your guests to take proper photos. Just make sure it’s not tucked away near the toilets. It needs lighting, props (or none at all), and someone keeping it running smoothly. ### 4\. **Think about a portrait station** Instead of a roaming photographer, set up a corner with great lighting and a backdrop. Invite guests to pop in for a quick, beautiful snap. Classy and controlled. ### 5\. **Old-school disposable cameras? Maybe not** They’re a bit of fun, but they’re expensive to buy, develop, and often full of flash-blasted foreheads and fingers-over-the-lens. You’ll get 1–2 decent shots per roll—if you’re lucky. ## Your memories are worth capturing properly Your wedding day doesn’t get a second take. If you want to remember it clearly, and share it beautifully, don’t outsource the job to your drunk mates and their cracked iPhones. Hire a professional. Ask them what they can cover. Pay a little extra if you want to capture more of the story. Because when the cake’s gone and the flowers are composted, the photos are what remain. Make sure they’re worth keeping. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [reception](/tag/reception) - [wedding apps](/tag/wedding-apps) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D)](/getting-ready-right) ### [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Meghan— Tuscany](/wedding-testimonials/meghan-0ieryts) - [Ben & Teala— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-teala-0zv4pdy) - [Ben & Bec— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-bec-0cimz1l) --- # What Is a Wedding Celebrant? Australian Guide URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-celebrant An Australian guide to wedding celebrants # What does a wedding celebrant do? A practical guide to the legal role, ceremony process, fees and questions worth asking — from a celebrant who has created more than 2,900 weddings and elopements since 2009. ![Wedding Celebrant, Josh Withers](/_astro/Josh%20Withers%20wedding%20celebrant%20at%20Millie%20and%20Wils%20wedding.VezDYPXz_1RaY5a.jpeg) FAQs ## Frequently Asked Questions Celebrants have been creating weddings in Australia since the 1970s - ### What is a wedding celebrant? A wedding celebrant is a trained and legally registered professional who conducts personalised marriage ceremonies in Australia. Unlike religious officials or registry office staff, celebrants work closely with couples to create unique ceremonies that reflect their personalities, values, and love story. - ### What's the difference between a civil celebrant and a religious celebrant? Civil celebrants conduct non-religious ceremonies and can incorporate any elements you choose, while religious celebrants must follow their faith's traditional ceremony structure. The beauty of choosing a civil celebrant is the complete freedom to design your ceremony exactly as you envision it. Want to include religious elements? That's perfectly fine. Prefer to keep things secular? That works too. - ### How is a celebrant wedding different from a registry office wedding? Registry office weddings are standardised, brief governmental proceedings that solely fulfil legal requirements. They last about 5 minutes, consisting only of mandatory legal vows without any personal touches - it's much like visiting any other government office. In contrast, a celebrant wedding breathes life into your marriage through personal vows and meaningful moments. The focus is on creating a beautiful beginning to your marriage, not just ticking administrative boxes. [Learn more about registry office vs celebrant weddings](/registry-office). - ### Why choose a celebrant over a religious or registry office wedding? The magic of a celebrant wedding lies in its ability to truly reflect who you are as a couple. Your ceremony can be as traditional or unconventional as you like, held anywhere you choose, and include elements from multiple cultures or beliefs. The ceremony sets the tone for your entire wedding day - it should be the highlight, not just a formality to endure before the reception. - ### What training and qualifications do Australian celebrants need? Australian celebrants must complete a Certificate IV in Celebrancy, register with the Attorney-General's Department, and maintain annual professional development. This ensures a thorough understanding of marriage law and ceremony requirements, along with skills in public speaking and ceremony creation. - ### How far in advance should couples book a celebrant? While Australian law only requires one month's notice for marriage, popular celebrants often book 12-18 months in advance, especially for peak wedding seasons. Early booking ensures you can secure your preferred celebrant and gives ample time for ceremony planning. - ### What's involved in planning a ceremony with a celebrant? The process involves meeting as many times as needed until everyone feels comfortable and confident about the ceremony plan. It's about creating the perfect atmosphere and ensuring the ceremony truly represents your commitment and future together. - ### Can couples include cultural or religious elements in a civil ceremony? Absolutely! Civil ceremonies can incorporate any cultural traditions, religious readings, or spiritual elements that matter to you. The joy of a civil ceremony is its ability to blend different cultural backgrounds while remaining authentic to your beliefs. - ### How is an Australian celebrant different from overseas wedding officiants? Australian celebrants are directly appointed by the federal government and operate under strict professional standards. They handle all legal responsibilities, including paperwork and marriage registration, providing a more comprehensive and regulated service than many international counterparts. - ### What makes a celebrant ceremony the best part of the wedding day? A celebrant ceremony isn't about recounting dating history or farewelling single life - it's about your future together. The focus should be on what your marriage means and where you're heading as a couple. The best ceremonies are about breathing life into your marriage as you stride boldly into the future together. - ### What about personal vows? Personal vows are absolutely crucial - they're the words that breathe your marriage to life. Your own authentic, personal promises create a powerful foundation for your marriage and make your ceremony uniquely meaningful. The legal vows are important, but it's your personal vows that truly mark the beginning of your marriage. - ### How long does a celebrant ceremony usually last? A great ceremony can be created in under 18 minutes, though religious and cultural rituals or specific couple requests might extend this time. In comparison, registry office ceremonies are purely administrative, lasting about 5 minutes. The length should serve the ceremony's purpose, not dictate it. - ### What makes a great wedding celebrant? A great celebrant connects with their couples, listens actively, communicates clearly, and shows genuine interest in their vision for the future. Look for someone who blends professionalism with warmth and creates an atmosphere that reflects your commitment. - ### Do couples need to review the ceremony script or have a rehearsal? There's real beauty in experiencing your ceremony fresh alongside your guests, allowing the moments to unfold naturally and authentically on your wedding day. A skilled celebrant will ensure everything flows smoothly without the need for rehearsals. - ### How do celebrants personalise ceremonies? The best ceremonies focus on your future together, creating a meaningful celebration of what your marriage means and where you're heading as a couple. Rather than dwelling on the past, they articulate and celebrate your shared values and vision for the future. - ### What's included in a celebrant's fee? Celebrant fees cover planning meetings, ceremony creation, travel to your venue, ceremony delivery, and all legal documentation and registration. - ### Can couples involve family members or friends in their ceremony? Absolutely! A ceremony can include meaningful roles for family and friends through readings, rituals, or cultural traditions, while maintaining a beautiful flow throughout the celebration. ### Also serving nearby [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant)·[Tasmania](/tasmanian-celebrant)·[Sydney](/sydney-celebrant)·[Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant)·[Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant)·[Gold Coast](/gold-coast-celebrant)·[Europe](/europe)·[All of Australia](/australia) I travel Australia-wide and internationally for weddings. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Latest on the wedding blog [View all posts »](/blog) Real and genuine help in having the best wedding - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/images/karley-ryan-wanaka-elopement.jpg)](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) ### [Children in Your Wedding Ceremony](/children-in-your-wedding-ceremony) Practical advice for including children in a wedding ceremony without expecting tiny humans to behave like trained professionals. - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg)](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) ### [Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts) Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. --- # Creative Ceremony Layouts URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-ceremony-layout Feb 4, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # Creative Ceremony Layouts Nothing is expected of you at your wedding except for you to be wonderfully you, so your wedding ceremony layout can represent that ![Creative Ceremony Layouts](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/6bb4f251d74850612c0678c08e296fdabcba14a86638693fe7c26b7e41f43499_TdMuvsZDi?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Because straight rows of white chairs—or worse, chairs with white cloth draped over them—are so last decade. Let’s be honest, if your wedding seating looks like a corporate conference room or a poorly thought-out church service from the 1950s, you’re doing it wrong. Weddings should feel like you—unique, personal, a little bit messy (just like love itself). So why are we still forcing people into stiff, straight rows like they’re about to take an exam? This is your day, and that means you can—and should—get a little weird with it. Here’s a look at some of the most creative, unconventional, and utterly wild wedding ceremony layouts. Some will make your heart sing. Some might make your grandma gasp. All of them will make your wedding unforgettable. ### 1\. The Circle of Love - Guests surround you in a full circle, making the moment feel intimate and inclusive. - Great for small weddings, elopements, and nature settings. - No “bad seats”—everyone gets a front-row view! Why it’s brilliant: Because there’s something magical about standing in the centre of your closest people while pledging your love. A circle symbolises eternity, unity, and makes sure Aunty Jean doesn’t complain about sitting at the back. ### 2\. The Spiral Aisle - Instead of a straight shot, walk a winding path through your loved ones before reaching the altar. - Builds anticipation—makes your entrance last longer. - Ideal for open fields, gardens, or larger venues. Why it’s brilliant: Imagine making your grand entrance through a spiral of smiling faces. It stretches out the anticipation and makes everyone feel included in your journey—literally. Also, perfect for couples who struggle with walking in a straight line under pressure. ### 3\. The Infinity Loop - Chairs set in a figure-eight shape, symbolising eternity. - Works beautifully for spiritual, boho, or symbolic weddings. - Bonus: Allows for a dynamic ceremony with movement. Why it’s brilliant: If you want a setup that means something, this is it. The infinity loop represents never-ending love, plus it lets you move around during the ceremony. Perfect for couples who don’t want to feel like statues while saying “I do.” ### 4\. Lounge-Style Seating - Sofas, rugs, bean bags, hay bales, or picnic-style seating instead of rigid chairs. - Ideal for relaxed, backyard, or festival-style weddings. - Encourages mingling and a casual vibe. Why it’s brilliant: Because weddings should feel like a great night in your living room—except with vows. Guests actually relax instead of sitting in a sea of uncomfortable plastic chairs. And, if Nan needs back support, there’s always a cushy sofa nearby. ![Random seated ceremony ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/image_aFhWJKcI1?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) ### 5\. The “Runway” Aisle - Instead of the altar at the front, place it in the middle and have a long aisle leading up to it. - Great for dramatic entrances and immersive experiences. - Perfect for indoor venues with limited space. Why it’s brilliant: If you love the idea of a grand entrance but don’t want to be miles away from half your guests, this layout is for you. Plus, your photographer will get that perfect fashion-week-style aisle shot. ### 6\. The Campfire Setup - A cosy, circular seating arrangement around a (symbolic) fire pit. - Creates a storytelling atmosphere—perfect for intimate ceremonies with personal vows. - Think rustic, boho, or woodland weddings. Why it’s brilliant: Because everything feels more meaningful when you’re gathered around a fire. Just don’t let Uncle Steve start roasting marshmallows mid-ceremony. ### 7\. The “Choose Your Own Seat” Layout - No assigned sides—just a mix of seating options: benches, chairs, and standing space. - Works well for unconventional, free-spirited couples. - Emphasises inclusivity and guest comfort. Why it’s brilliant: Because making guests pick a side is so Bridget Jones’s Diary. No more “bride’s side” or “groom’s side.” Just your people witnessing your love. ### 8\. The Floating Ceremony ⛵ - Say your vows on a dock, a boat, or a floating platform. - Unique for waterfront weddings—just don’t drop the rings! - Adds a dreamy, ethereal feel. Why it’s brilliant: It’s basically The Notebook, but in real life. Just make sure someone holds onto Nana if there’s a breeze. ### 9\. The Procession Parade 🚶 - Instead of walking to the altar, have a moving ceremony where you and your guests stroll through a garden, park, or vineyard. - Ideal for nature-loving couples and elopements. - Interactive and engaging—no one just sits and stares! Why it’s brilliant: Because movement is magic. It makes the ceremony feel alive, like a journey instead of a speech. Bonus points if you add live musicians leading the way. ### 10\. The Flash Mob Surprise 🎭 No seating plan at all—just an open space where guests gather casually, then suddenly break into a choreographed surprise. 💃 Works well for bold, fun-loving couples. ⚡ High energy, high fun, and totally unforgettable. Why it’s brilliant: Because weddings should be a celebration, not a lecture. The moment the officiant says “By the power vested in me…” BOOM. Dance party. ### 11\. The Maze Ceremony (because why not get a little extra?) - Guests enter a hedge maze or labyrinth, where they find their seats at the centre. - Perfect for whimsical, Alice-in-Wonderland-style weddings. - Works well in gardens or historic venues with quirky layouts. Why it’s brilliant: Because your guests will never forget the time they had to navigate a literal maze just to see you get hitched. ### 12\. The Sky-High Wedding (for the truly adventurous) 🚁 - Get married in a hot air balloon, on a rooftop, or on a mountain ledge. - Perfect for adventure-loving couples. - Not ideal if you have a fear of heights. Why it’s brilliant: Because saying “I do” above the clouds is next-level romance. And if anyone objects? They’ll have to skydive out. ### 13\. The Underwater Wedding (yes, really!) 🐠 - Exchange vows while scuba diving or snorkelling. - Works best for ocean lovers or adrenaline junkies. - Insanely cool wedding photos—if you don’t mind looking like a mermaid. Why it’s brilliant: Because nothing says “forever” like saying your vows while surrounded by tropical fish. Just make sure the celebrant can hold their breath. ![Underwater wedding ceremony ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/underwater_wedding_-1S4AFWym?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) There’s no “right” way to arrange a wedding ceremony—just the way that feels right for you. Ditch the status quo. Get creative. Think outside the chapel. Your guests won’t remember what colour the napkins were, but they will remember the moment they watched you get married in a floating spiral of fairy-lit hay bales. Go forth and make magic happen. 💫 - [wedding-ceremony](/tag/wedding-ceremony) - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-is-an-elopement) ### [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. - [![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-of-condiments) ### [A wedding full of condiments](/wedding-of-condiments) Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Jen— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jen-0byag0d) - [Kimberley— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/kimberley-0wd53pj) - [Amanda & Anthony— Silent Hope House](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) --- # A Wedding Ceremony Outline URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-ceremony-outline Jul 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # A Wedding Ceremony Outline If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’m [Josh Withers](/melbourne-celebrant) and I’ve officiated thousands of weddings across Australia and the world. What I’ve learned about wedding ceremonies is this: > The ceremony isn’t the thing you rush through to get to the party. > It _is_ the reason the party exists. You don’t get married _because_ you’ve got a reception booked. You throw a reception _because_ you just did something beautiful, powerful, and meaningful: you got married. So what should actually happen during a wedding ceremony? Let’s outline it — but not just for the sake of structure. Let’s give every moment a reason to be there. --- ## What is a wedding ceremony _for_? At its core, the ceremony is the bit where you go from “not married” to “married.” It’s a moment of change, of commitment, of meaning. And the absolute peak of the ceremony — the summit we’re all climbing toward — is your vows. Your vows are _the point_. Not the flowers, not the playlist, not the petal-strewn aisle. The vows. (_And I’ve got a heap more on how to write awesome vows [all over my wedding blog](/tag/vows)._) So the ceremony structure? It’s a build-up to that moment. Everything before is a gentle on-ramp. Everything after is a celebration of what you just did. --- ## Wedding Ceremony Outline This is a general outline that works for both civil and faith-based weddings. It’s flexible — you can adapt it to feel more formal, relaxed, spiritual, funny, or whatever suits your style. But the bones stay the same. ### 1\. **Welcome & Introduction** - The celebrant (hopefully me) welcomes everyone, says hi, breaks the ice and makes everyone feel comfortable. - Acknowledges what today is about: _not just romance, but commitment. Not just feelings, but choosing each other. On purpose. Every day._ ### 2\. **Why Marriage?** - We talk about what marriage means. Not in a dusty, legal kind of way — in a real, human, future-facing way. - I don’t spend much time rehashing how you met or what your first date was — everyone in the ceremony should know that already, otherwise why are they there? - Instead, let’s look ahead. What are you building together? What’s changing today? What is your marriage for? ### 3\. **Optional: Readings, Rituals, or Stories** - This is where you might include a reading, a prayer, or a symbolic ritual (like a handfasting or unity candle — but only if it actually _means_ something to you). - Or we might share a little story about the two of you — not to “fill space” but to add texture. ### 4\. **The Vows** - This is the moment. - You speak your promises to each other. - There are legal words required (I’ll walk you through those), but beyond that: they should be true, honest, and deeply _you_. Nothing fancy. No Oscar speeches. Just real words, from you to them. More help on vows? Head to [these blog posts on vows](/tag/vows) for a bunch of guides. ### 5\. **Ring Exchange (Optional)** - If you’re doing rings, now’s the time. - It’s a physical symbol of what you’ve just promised — not _necessary_, but meaningful for a lot of people. ### 6\. **The Pronouncement** - I’ll say some variation of: “By the power given to me by the Commonwealth of Australia, I now pronounce you husband and wife / husband and husband / wife and wife / legally hitched legends…” - You kiss. Everyone cheers. You’re married. ### 7\. **Signing the Paperwork** - We step aside for two-ish minutes to sign your marriage certificates with your two witnesses. - Your guests can vibe to some [music](/wedding-songs) or enjoy the scenery. No awkward silence — we can get some music on my PA system. ### 8\. **Presentation & Exit** - I introduce you as a married couple for the first time. - We can present you as whatever couple title you like. Mr and Mrs Smith, The smiths, - Everyone cheers again. - You walk down the aisle together and the party begins. --- ## Ceremony Tips - Don’t include something “just because.” If it doesn’t mean anything to you, it doesn’t belong. - Remember who’s there. No need to explain your life story to your best mates — they know it already. - Focus forward. Talk about the future. That’s what you’re promising. - Keep it human. Keep it honest. Keep it _you_. - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Hannah & Ardy— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-and-ardy-0dyiv4e) - [Chazz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chazz-15zkord) - [Roz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/roz-0ovxbr0) --- # Wedding Gift Etiquette URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-gift-etiquette Jul 19, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # Wedding Gift Etiquette How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. ![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) The age-old question is: **“How much should I give for a wedding gift?”** It sits right beside “Do I really have to RSVP?” and “Can I wear white if it is a jumpsuit?” RSVP as soon as you can. Rock the jumpsuit if you rock the jumpsuit. Now to the gift. ## Cash gifts or physical gifts? Many Australian couples prefer a cash contribution through a wishing well, while others use a registry or simply appreciate something thoughtful. Follow the couple’s guidance if they have given it, but remember that an invitation is not an invoice. ## There is no correct amount A gift should reflect your relationship with the couple, your circumstances and your culture. Immediate family may choose to give differently from a colleague or distant friend, but nobody should take on debt or financial stress to meet an invented rule. Do not calculate your gift by guessing what your seat, meal or drinks cost. You are a guest, not a customer buying admission to the reception. ## A useful checklist - **Your relationship:** Choose something appropriate to how well you know the couple. - **Your means:** Give only what you can comfortably afford. - **Their preference:** Use the registry or wishing well if one has been offered. - **Your culture:** Family and cultural traditions can shape what feels appropriate. - **The thought behind it:** A personal note, practical help or handmade gift can be deeply meaningful. ## A note for couples Be clear and gracious if you prefer a wishing well or registry. Do not set an expectation that guests must cover the cost of hosting them, and thank people warmly for whatever they give. The best gift is one given freely. Your attention, care, encouragement and presence matter more than a price tag. - [gifting](/tag/gifting) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1509927083803-4bd519298ac4?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/australian-wedding-cost) ### [How much does an australian wedding cost on average?](/australian-wedding-cost) Wedding planning is more than just a budget, it's the manifestation of your intentions, taste, culture, and personality - [![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) ### [Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](/who-pays-for-the-wedding) Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Amy— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amy-1h7ilas) - [Rachel— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rachel-0csfgaj) - [April— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7) --- # A wedding full of condiments URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-of-condiments Jan 23, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # A wedding full of condiments Fight Club was a powerful movie and today it's got me thinking about weddings, and houses full of condiments but no food ![A wedding full of condiments](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/condiemtns_Z6YQFiYD5?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) There’s a scene in Fight Club where the narrator’s apartment explodes. His stuff comes raining down onto the street. Ketchup, mustard, relish smeared across the pavement. He looks at the wreckage and says: “A house full of condiments, and no real food.” That line haunts me. It describes so many weddings I’ve seen. ## The Condiment Wedding Scroll any wedding planning site. Pinterest. Instagram. Easy Weddings. You’ll find endless advice on centrepieces, colour palettes, favour boxes, table runners, signature cocktails, and whether your napkins should be folded into swans or roses. You’ll find almost nothing about the ceremony. Not the words. Not the meaning. Not the bit where you actually get married. The industry has convinced couples to pour their money, attention, and emotional energy into everything except the main event. Flowers that last a day. Photos of details no one remembers. A “vibe” assembled from products. All condiments. No food. ## Identity by Purchase In a [Substack piece](https://joshnadeau.substack.com/p/youre-angry-because-no-one-taught) that got m thinking abou How we build identity through products rather than encounter. How the narrator in Fight Club flipped through catalogues asking: “What kind of dining set defines me as a person?” Couples do the same thing now. What aesthetic defines us? Rustic barn or coastal boho? Moody editorial or garden party? They scroll and save and curate until they’ve assembled a wedding “look” that feels like them. But a look isn’t a marriage. An aesthetic isn’t a commitment. A Pinterest board full of details doesn’t mean anything when you’re standing in front of your person, trying to say the most important words of your life. ## Template Scripts Are Flat-Pack Furniture Here’s where celebrants fail the hardest, in my humble opinion. After convincing couples to spend months choosing the right napkin fold, a celebrant hands them a template ceremony. Generic words. Mad-libs vows. A 12-minute script downloaded from a website, identical to ten thousand other ceremonies performed that same weekend. It’s Ikea furniture for the soul. The industry treats the ceremony as a formality to endure before the “real event” begins. Get through the boring bit so we can eat, drink, and dance. But the ceremony isn’t a formality. It’s the whole point. Everything else—the [venue](/here), the flowers, the food, the band—is decoration around the moment where two people stand up in front of everyone they love and make a promise. That moment is the wedding. Everything else is a party. ## What Consumerism Took From Us Nadeau’s article argues that consumerism replaced genuine encounter with endless consumption. We buy things hoping they’ll make us whole. They don’t. So we buy more. The wedding industry runs on this exact engine. Anxious couples pour money into “making the day perfect,” and the industry happily sells them more stuff to ease that anxiety. Upgrade the flowers. Add the photo booth. Get the drone footage. More, more, more. None of it touches the real fear underneath: that the ceremony won’t feel meaningful. That those 15 minutes in front of everyone will feel hollow, awkward, forgettable. And for most couples, it does. Because no one taught them it could be different. ## Ceremony-First Isn’t a Style Choice I’ve been a [marriage celebrant](/marriage-celebrant) since 2009. I’ve married over 2,000 couples. And the single most important thing I’ve learned is this: **The ceremony is the main event.** Not the reception. Not the photos. Not the aesthetics. The ceremony. When couples understand this—when they invest the same care into their words as their table settings—something shifts. The day stops being a performance for Instagram. It becomes an actual transformation. Nadeau writes about how Christianity offers sacramentality as the cure to consumerism: “Possessions become gifts. Time becomes prayer. Meals become thanksgiving.” A ceremony-first wedding does the same thing. It takes a moment the industry has reduced to a transactional checkbox and restores it to what it should be: a place of genuine encounter. ## The Ceremony You Actually Remember I’ve done this long enough to know what couples remember. They don’t remember the centrepieces. They don’t remember whether the napkins matched the bridesmaid dresses. They barely remember what they ate. They remember the ceremony. They remember what was said. Whether it felt true. Whether they laughed, or cried, or felt their knees shake when they looked at their person and meant every word. They remember whether it felt like them. Generic words can’t do that. Template scripts can’t do that. A ceremony assembled from other people’s weddings can’t do that. Only specificity can. Only words written for this couple, this relationship, this particular love story. ## Stop Building Your Wedding From a Catalogue Nadeau’s article ends with an invitation to restore the sacred. To stop building identity from products and start finding it through genuine encounter. If you’re planning a wedding, here’s my version of that invitation: Stop treating the ceremony as a formality. Stop outsourcing it to templates. Stop assuming those 15 minutes don’t matter because the real party comes after. Don’t ask strangers in a Facebook Group if it’s ok to do something at your wedding. Put the same energy into your words as your playlist. More, even. Find someone who’ll help you craft a ceremony that actually sounds like you. Not a script with your names dropped in. Not a performance of what weddings are “supposed” to look like. Something real. Something specific. Something you’ll remember when you’re old and the photos have faded. Your wedding doesn’t need more condiments. It needs food. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bride_wearing_VR_goggles_QzW4302jj?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-wedding-ideas) ### [25 New Wedding Ideas For 2025](/2025-wedding-ideas) Are you preared to get weird and nerdy at your wedding in 2025? Here's a bunch of weird and awesome ideas I thought of. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Hamish— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/hamish-008kfs6) - [Janelle— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/janelle-1x65scp) - [Brittany— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/brittany-1ssi0su) --- # Free Wedding QR Code Generator | Colours, Icons & Downloads URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-qr-code-generator [Skip to the QR code generator](#qr-editor) A little wedding gift from Josh Withers # Wedding QR Code Generator All your wedding details. One lovely little square. Make it yours, download it, and get on with the good stuff. - Free, always - No tracking or saved data - Your link, no shorteners ## Your QR code Live preview Add your details to create your QR code. Ready when you are. Download PNGSVG for print Copy image Share image Before the big print run, test your finished design with a couple of phones. Clear my details & start again Small square. Big day. ## A place for every wedding detail. Put it on the invitation, a table card, or the welcome sign. Keep the words short and the celebration front and centre. - **Invitations & RSVPs**One scan to your wedding website or RSVP form. - **All the photos**Link to a shared album so guests can add their favourites. - **The little logistics**Directions, menus, the order of the day, and the Wi-Fi. - **More of you two**Your playlist, gift registry, a love note, or a video thank-you. ## A few good things to know. Is this actually free? Will my QR code expire? Yes, it’s free. No account, trial, watermark, subscription or scan limit. These are static QR codes: the information is in the image itself, so I cannot switch them off. A linked website still needs to stay online, and changing a link or Wi-Fi password means making a new code. What happens to the details I enter? Your QR code is made entirely in your browser. I don’t receive or save your links, messages, contact details or Wi-Fi passwords. This generator page has no analytics or advertising trackers, and it doesn’t save your inputs to browser storage. The website host still handles normal page requests; the contents of your QR code aren’t sent with them. A website guests open after scanning has its own privacy policy. Anyone with the QR image can read what’s in it, including Wi-Fi passwords. Share a guest network, and only include details you’re happy for your guests to have. How do I make sure it scans beautifully? Use a dark colour on a light, plain background and keep the clear space around the code. Start at about 3 cm wide for a simple printed code, and go larger for longer messages or signs viewed from a distance. Always scan the final design with a couple of phones before printing the whole batch. Icons and detailed codes need particular care. PNG, SVG, white or transparent? PNG is ready for most invitations, websites and social posts. SVG stays sharp at any print size. White gives your code a reliable clean background. Transparent removes all the white, including behind the icon: place it on a light, solid colour and keep that clear border. The chequerboard preview is not part of the download. Can I save this on my iPhone? Yes. Download a PNG, or use Share image to save it through your phone’s share sheet when available. Copy image needs a compatible browser and permission; if it isn’t available, download works instead. Does it create an RSVP form, photo album or registry? It makes the code that opens your existing link. Create your form, album or registry with your chosen service, then paste its sharing link here. Check the link works for guests who aren’t signed in. Email, SMS, Wi-Fi, contact and calendar actions depend on the scanning app and phone; test the action as well as the image. ## Made with love. By the guy who marries people. I’m Josh Withers, a wedding celebrant who thinks your ceremony should be the best part of your wedding. This little tool is on me. [A little more about Josh →](/about) --- # Wedding Sizes: Elopement, Micro Wedding or Big Wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-sizes Feb 28, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? ![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) The wedding industry since 2020 has developed a lot of names for what are essentially _“not a [big fat greek wedding](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Big_Fat_Greek_Wedding)”_. They all mean slightly different things — or nothing at all and basically the same thing — depending on who you ask. And today, you’ve asked [me](/about) So here’s my no-nonsense, possibly unhelpful, but definitely accurate guide to the different types and sizes of small-ish weddings: ## 👰🏼‍♀️ _What is an_ Elopement You, your person, a [celebrant](/) (hopefully me), maybe a [photographer](/friends), a witness or two. No bridal party, no cousins, no conga line. Just the two of you doing the thing — beautifully, meaningfully, and without an audience but perhaps a few witnesses. The guest list resembles the list of people you’d invite into the birthing suite or the first few people you’d call when you win the lotto. - **Purpose**: Your ‘getting married’ moment is for you, not for public consumption, but possibly to be witnessed by that small group. - **Guest count:** 0–10 (not counting the dog) - **Vibe:** Deeply personal. Almost rebellious. Surprisingly powerful. - **Tip of the hat to:** My wife, Britt, who plans elopements for a living at [The EC](https://elopementcollective.com). ## 🤵🏽‍♂️ _What is an_ Intimate Wedding This is the “just our inner circle” wedding. The people you’d help move house. The people who already know the story of how you met. Usually 10–30 people, still has all the usual wedding moments, just without the crowd. You’re not being introduced to any plus one’s that you have never met. These are your people. - **Purpose:** This is basically an elopement on ‘roids. Still just for you, but with a small group of intimates. - **Guest count:** 10–30 - **Vibe:** Warm, emotional, not a single awkward hug in the room. ## 💃🏽 _What is a_ Micro Wedding This is a styled, aesthetic-driven, very intentional small wedding. You still get a full ceremony, a reception, florals, outfits, and someone holding a camera with two straps and a fixed lens — but it’s all for like 15 people instead of 115. It’s a wedding, but not _that_ kind of wedding. - **Purpose:** This is a wedding for public consumption and celebration, but quite small. - **Guest count:** 10–20 - **Vibe:** Magazine-worthy. Feels like a dinner party that ended in marriage. ## 🚗 _What is a_ Mini Wedding A wedding held inside a [Morris Mini Minor](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mini). Celebrant in the passenger seat, couple in the back, maybe the rings in the center console. Ok, I joke, but this is just a micro wedding or a small wedding but they used the word mini. - **Purposes:** When you don’t want to call your micro wedding a micro wedding. - **Guest count:** Whoever can fit on the roof - **Vibe:** Small. Classic. Slightly cramped. ## 💒 _What is a_ Small Wedding This is what most people mean when they say they’re “keeping it simple.” You still want the dress, the kiss, the speeches, the cake — just not the stress of herding 120 people. A small wedding hits the sweet spot for celebration and sanity. - **Purpose:** A micro wedding that is slightly larger than a micro wedding. At this rate we’re just using different words for the same thing really. - **Guest count:** 30–50 - **Vibe:** Joyful and just right. Big enough to party, small enough to enjoy it. ## 💒💒 _What is a_ Wedding The one people expect. Ceremony, reception, canapés, plus a playlist that swings from Ed Sheeran to ABBA and back again. You need a run sheet. You probably need a seating chart. - **Purpose:** You two getting married with your tribe. Everyone celebrates with you, you’re hosting them. This is **your wedding** but for **them**. - **Guest count:** 4–420 - **Vibe:** Trad wedding energy. Reliable, popular, sometimes a bit sweaty. ## 💒💒💒 _What is a_ XL Wedding (aka “The Weddinator”) This is when your guest list has guests you’ve never met. You hire a marquee, three buses, and a backup MC. There are cousins, colleagues, and that one uncle who always dances to “Eagle Rock” inappropriately. - **Purpose:** This is a wedding but larger … honestly no-one uses this terminology. - **Guest count:** 120+ - **Vibe:** Chaos with a champagne fountain. Fun if you like noise. ## 🛸 _What is a_ Galactic Wedding Nobody’s really asking for this… but someone’s doing it. Think drones, custom cocktails, multiple costume changes, and a twelve-piece funk band flown in from Berlin. It’s not _just_ a wedding — it’s a saga. - **Purpose:** Honestly at this rate I’m just filling up pixels with more definitions. - **Guest count:** All of them - **Vibe:** Massive. Mythical. Budget: don’t ask. --- ## What matters most? Labels are helpful-ish. But here’s the thing: your wedding doesn’t have to fit a box, a hashtag, or an industry trend. What it should fit is _you_. Whether you want a one-minute elopement on a cliff, a micro wedding with champagne and oysters, or a mini wedding literally in a Mini, the size doesn’t matter nearly as much as the meaning. Get married your way — and let the language sort itself out later. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-is-an-elopement) ### [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. - [![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) ### [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. 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Try adjusting your filters. --- # Wedding Testimonials URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials # From couples who loved their wedding ceremony Since 2009 I've had the privilege of marrying over 2,900 couples in 24 countries. These are their words about how the ceremony felt — and why it mattered. [Read their stories](#reviews) [Check my availability](/contact) ![Josh Withers laughing with a couple during their wedding ceremony](/_astro/best-celebrant-ever-1.DzmXppw2_Z2b4EVT.jpeg) Couples married 2,900+ Countries 24 Creating ceremonies Since 2009 ## A story I keep coming back to The best ceremonies feel calm, personal and completely like the people standing in the middle of them. [![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_Z17Qk1.jpeg)](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) ★★★★★ > “Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands.” Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton, Derwent Valley, Tasmania [Read their full story](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) ## Kind words, big feelings 170 real reviews from couples who wanted their ceremony to feel like them. No scripts. No templates. - [ ★★★★★ > “He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural.” TTiegan & MichaelMandrakia Beach, Milos ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ > “He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special.” HHarry & NaylaVocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ > “You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day.” IIsabella & MatthewVocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [ ★★★★★ > “The best celebrant in the Huon Valley.” SScottHuon Valley, Tasmania ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) - [ ★★★★ > “Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it — genuine, fun and easy.” AApril ](/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7) - [ ★★★★★ > “The ceremony felt relaxed and emotional and unlike anything we'd experienced before.” CChintanSeagrass Long Point ](/wedding-testimonials/chintan-0ai4vl4) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh was a fantastic celebrant for Sara and I. He made the ceremony very relaxing, encouraged guests to get involved and be apart of the experience, and brought plenty of laughs for everyone involved.” MMatthew & Sara ](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-and-sara-03xxgmd) - [ ★★★★★ > “He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after.” SSarahSydney, New South Wales ](/wedding-testimonials/sarah-19ms1lm) - [ ★★★★★ > “Thank you so much Josh for marrying us! It was an amazing event and we couldn't have done it without you.” PPatrick ](/wedding-testimonials/patrick-1yehdfj) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh was an amazing celebrant for our multicultural wedding and made everything feel easy and personal.” PPaulina ](/wedding-testimonials/paulina-03ujeds) - [ ★★★★★ > “He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful.” BBreaBattery Point, Hobart, Tasmania ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ > “On the big day Josh made our ceremony feel so special and a true celebration of us.” JJasmin & Vincent ](/wedding-testimonials/jasmin-and-vincent-1st9exs) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh made our intimate elopement in Queenstown, New Zealand truly unforgettable.” JJaedaQueenstown ](/wedding-testimonials/jaeda-0rzp189) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh was exactly what we wanted in a celebrant, and more! He was relaxed, organised and thoughtful.” RRhiannon ](/wedding-testimonials/rhiannon-1iwzqrg) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh created a wedding ceremony that was perfectly tailored to us — personal, meaningful, and exactly what we wanted.” LLarissa ](/wedding-testimonials/larissa-1mxzsuv) - [ ★★★★★ > “He was friendly, genuine and responsive, making the whole experience feel calm and intentional.” TT\_ ](/wedding-testimonials/t-1xefja6) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh made our intimate wedding ceremony at Montalto absolutely unforgettable, guiding the ceremony flawlessly and making everything effortless and personal.” PPhoebeMontalto · Red Hill South, Mornington Peninsula, Victoria ](/wedding-testimonials/phoebe-0n0dyoz) - [ ★★★★★ > “Josh was the perfect marriage celebrant for us.” SSharon & Jason ](/wedding-testimonials/sharon-and-jason-1lsrp7r) Showing 18 of 169 stories Show more stories ## Ready for a ceremony that feels this good? Less “dearly beloved”, more you. Let's create something meaningful together. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Abigail — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/abigail-0cwrxqu # Abigail ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Our ceremony was truly a dream come true. > > — Abigail Thank you Josh, our ceremony was truly a dream come true. Your excellent way of making the ceremony not only about us, but also about our friends and family- it felt beautiful and everyone had a laugh. We would like to thank you on behalf of our guests!Everyone was impressed with your skills and ability to keep them occupied when we were off doing our photoshoot.We would recommend you to people who want to have a relaxed, lighthearted and happy ceremony as you really created a beautiful energy for all of us involved. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Abner & Tiffany — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/abner-and-tiffany-0whvf70 # Abner & Tiffany ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Our ceremony was exactly what we had imagined - no awkwardness, personal, funny, and filled with love. > > — Abner & Tiffany Josh is a professional, genuine, and charming celebrant.It was important to us to have a ceremony that was intimate, authentic and without any awkwardness or pomp. We could have very easily had a ceremony and celebrant that read from a script, or verses from a book but we did not feel that that reflected us as individuals and as a couple. Josh made us feel at ease by asking us if there was anything we particularly liked/disliked about ceremonies, and if there is anything we particularly wanted/didn’t want. We were all on the same page about it being short, simple and sincere.My (now!) husband and I left our first meeting so happy and comfortable in the knowledge that Josh would be marrying us because we shared similar views of the significance of marriage/weddings/ceremonies. Josh shared with us that he believes that words significantly build the foundation of marriage, and encouraged us to share personal vows with each other in front of our most important people.Our ceremony was exactly what we had imagined - no awkwardness, personal, funny, and filled with love. He came equipped with all his own AV equipment, and we even took the drone for a spin!He is so personally invested in supporting couples that he shared with us that he can only emotionally commit to marrying one couple a day. After our short ceremony, Josh stayed with us during our photo session, and also came back for dinner and drinks with our friends and family. He was our friend at our first meeting, and celebrated as family after we were married. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Adrieanne & Sheldon — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/adrieanne-and-sheldon-1918b0f # Adrieanne & Sheldon ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/27bca890-ae6d-4d26-82dc-b8a3d520bab3/) > Josh was absolutely amazing. He took down notes prior to our ceremony and made it all about us! He included geeky references that were perfect for us. He had us laughing and made our guests feel welcome- they even cheered us on during the ceremony! Would totally recommend to anyone else else > > — Adrieanne & Sheldon More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Alana & Nathan at Currumbin Rock — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql Currumbin Rock · Currumbin, Gold Coast, Queensland # Alana & Nathan ★★★★★ [Verified Google review](https://maps.app.goo.gl/1wpEqg1npYLZDus39) Planning a wedding nearby?[Gold Coast wedding celebrant](/gold-coast-celebrant) ![Josh Withers officiating Alana and Nathan’s beach elopement ceremony at Currumbin Rock](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-9.pe87ayET_1kSNNV.jpeg) Photo by [Bec Zacher Photography](https://beczacher.com/) > Josh married us on the beach in Currumbin in 2021. It was absolutely perfect for us, no fluff or long drawn out speaking. The whole process of paperwork was easy too. A great stress free elopement! > > — Alana & Nathan Their Currumbin elopement ## A relaxed beach wedding at Currumbin Rock ![Alana and Nathan with their guests at their Currumbin Rock beach elopement ceremony](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-25.BHQxQD-A_jC4bW.jpeg) ![Alana and Nathan holding hands during their Currumbin Rock beach ceremony](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-19.DPAduoj7_Z1MuI9X.jpeg) ![Alana laughing with Nathan and Josh during their Currumbin Rock elopement ceremony](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-13.7Kr0qMR6_2bHKN8.jpeg) ![Alana and Nathan walking together on Currumbin Beach after their elopement](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-282.CzyZFwJf_Z1M4X93.jpeg) ![Nathan kissing Alana’s forehead on Currumbin Beach after their wedding ceremony](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-292.DApCTreA_1g2oQD.jpeg) ![Alana holding her wedding bouquet on Currumbin Beach](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-294.BeqsYeJ6_Z1PJnEr.jpeg) ![Alana and Nathan embracing beside the rocks at Currumbin Beach](/_astro/alana-nathan-currumbin-rock-elopement-266.C46NGDtj_ZC9i84.jpeg) Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Currumbin Rock - [ ![Bec Zacher of Bec Zacher Photography](/_astro/bec-zacher-photography.G6HkuArY_Z22gVqv.jpeg) Photographer Bec Zacher Photography Website@beczacherphoto ](/wedding-vendors/bec-zacher-photography) - [ ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Planner The Elopement Collective Website@elopementcollective ](/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective) Where we celebrated ## Currumbin Rock Currumbin, Gold Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ Aura & Jacob Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) - [ Molly & Josh Murwillumbah · Northern Rivers · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/molly-and-josh-1nz0nkd) - [ Rowena & Peter Surfers Paradise · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rowena-and-peter-0qxd3m9) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Alex — “Josh really understood who we were…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/alex-13zsn31 # Alex ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh really understood who we were as a couple and tailored the ceremony to us. He made the process super simple and calm. > > — Alex Josh was really great! We met with him a few weeks before our wedding and we were really nervous. He listened and addressed any concerns we had! Josh really understood who we were as a couple and tailored the ceremony to us. He made the process super simple and calm. 100% recommended More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Alex — “This guy went above and beyond…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/alex-1p6i4m4 # Alex ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > This guy went above and beyond and really confirmed for both Laura and myself why he has been a leader in the wedding industry for so long. > > — Alex Josh was n absolute pleasure to work with throughout the whole process of getting married. My wife Laura and I are so grateful for the time we had with Josh when he came to our wedding in Adelaide. This guy went above and beyond and really confirmed for both Laura and myself why he has been a leader in the wedding industry for so long. He has the biggest heart and truly wants the best for his customers. True passionate professional. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Alison — “There is no one else we…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/alison-1xvbh1o # Alison ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > There is no one else we would ever have considered than Josh for our renewal of vows. > > — Alison There is no one else we would ever have considered than Josh for our renewal of vows. His mix of joviality, joy and zest for celebrating marriage made him the only choice for celebrating with our children at the stunning Bend of the River, Tallebudgera ( and it was super fun with the chickens who joined in!) Thank you so much Josh for being part of this memorable day… More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Alyssa — 2023 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/alyssa-1q00d78 # Alyssa ★★★★★ Verified Google review > The ceremony was everything we could ask for and more. He made us feel special and at peace. > > — Alyssa I started following Josh long before I knew I would need a celebrant, I was drawn to his friendly, funny and calm personality. When my now husband proposed and we started planning I already knew who I wanted and I am so glad we did. From the beginning he made us feel like nothing was ever a problem, this was our day and he was there to help. The ceremony was everything we could ask for and more, he made us feel special and at peace especially with a whole host of nerves flying around. There was never an awkward moment and he made sure everyone knew that the day was about us instead of having an audience of phones. We asked Josh to help us Mc our wedding and almost all our guests asked me who he was and how great he was. He made us all laugh and was able to tame the crowd, in a light-hearted and respectful way. I can’t thank Josh enough for everything he did for us and how his imprint made our day even more of an inspiration. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Amanda — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/amanda-1sgaifg # Amanda ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/147329/) > Joshua’s friendliness instantly made us comfortable. He inspired us to re-think what a wedding should be, creating a ceremony that was quintessentially us. Joshua’s humour and cleverness created an entertaining ceremony - so many guests commented on how enjoyable it was! His flexibility also made the process so much easier. > > — Amanda More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Amanda & Anthony at Silent Hope House — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h Silent Hope House · Bald Knob, Sunshine Coast, Queensland # Amanda & Anthony [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows and honestly that was the truth! > > — Amanda & Anthony My partner and I are so glad we decided to elope and use The Elopement Collective. On our special day Josh called in the morning and checked in and Britt dropped my beautiful bouquet off. I was beyond nervous and had no idea what to expect, Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows and honestly that was the truth! I stressed for no reason at all. Thank you so much to Josh for all the reassurance you had to give me! Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Silent Hope House - Photographer Joey & Jase - Videographer Dylan Dirks - Planner The Elopement Collective Where we celebrated ## Silent Hope House Bald Knob, Sunshine Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) - [ ★★★★★ Liliana Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/liliana-10hp3t7) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Amber — 2023 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/amber-1e8k4if # Amber ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/75feede9-2e69-4ca2-aea4-fc29d03fef7b/) > Josh was our celebrant for our intimate elopement (just us!). I could not recommend him more, he made us both feel at ease and relaxed. It was a truly magical afternoon and we are still in awe of what Josh created for us. > > — Amber More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Amy — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/amy-1h7ilas # Amy ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh and his team helped us create what I can only describe as a magical day. > > — Amy We always knew we wanted a small and intimate wedding which we thought meant simplistic and plain- however Josh and his team helped us create what I can only describe as a magical day. His presence was grounding and helped us calm our nerves. Where his bubbly personality made us laugh and smile through the whole ceremony. Honestly we would have it no other way- working with Josh Withers was everything we could have hoped for. Amy and Graeme and Arnie the pug xx More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Andrew — “I will forever be thankful for…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/andrew-03uxwmt # Andrew ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > I will forever be thankful for having Josh there on our wedding day. His advice and services before, during and after was invaluable! > > — Andrew More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Anny — “Josh went above and beyond to…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/anny-12s7h75 # Anny ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh went above and beyond to make our wedding day extra special. He took the time to get to know us and personalised the ceremony to suit our needs. > > — Anny Josh went above and beyond to make our wedding day extra special. He took the time to get to know us and personalised the ceremony to suit our needs. Josh stayed on all night as our MC and did a brilliant job - the music transitions and sound system he provided was seamless. We cannot thank Josh enough for helping create a truely unforgettable day ! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Anthony & Elena in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/anthony-and-elena-08ka052 Brisbane, Queensland # Anthony & Elena [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > We have received a lot of positive feedback about our ceremony — many friends assuming you were a family member. > > — Anthony & Elena We cannot thank you enough for the job you did on the day! We have received a lot of positive feedback about our ceremony — many friends assuming you were a family member, several “how did you manage to find such a fun celebrant!” and then a few follow up calls when people saw you again on Married At First Sight (“OMG I just saw the guy that married you on TV!”). It will definitely be remembered for a long time to come for all the right reasons. Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # April — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/april-0lj21v7 # April ★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it — genuine, fun and easy. > > — April Josh did a wonderful job in making it all work. He made sure it was exactly how we wanted it - genuine, fun and easy. We are so grateful to have had Josh marry us! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Aura & Jacob at Heartwood Cabin — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook, Gold Coast, Queensland # Aura & Jacob [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Gold Coast wedding celebrant](/gold-coast-celebrant) > He created the perfect ceremony for us, it was laid back and easy while still feeling really meaning and professional. > > — Aura & Jacob Josh was an awesome celebrant! He created the perfect ceremony for us, it was laid back and easy while still feeling really meaning and professional. We would definitely recommend him to others! xx Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Heartwood Cabin - Photographer Bulb Creative - Florist Fifth Avenue Florist - Planner The Elopement Collective - Photo editor Tessa Shannon Where we celebrated ## Heartwood Cabin Springbrook, Gold Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ Molly & Josh Murwillumbah · Northern Rivers · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/molly-and-josh-1nz0nkd) - [ ★★★★★ Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) - [ Rowena & Peter Surfers Paradise · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rowena-and-peter-0qxd3m9) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Belle — 2021 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/belle-1yjrpih # Belle ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh Withers is not just a wedding celebrant; he is an exceptional storyteller, an advocate for love, and a true professional. > > — Belle Our wedding day was an absolute dream come true, thanks in large part to our incredible wedding celebrant, Josh Withers. From the moment we met him, we knew we had found someone truly special to officiate our ceremony. Josh’s warm and friendly personality instantly put us at ease, and his genuine passion for what he does was evident in every interaction.Josh Withers is not just a wedding celebrant; he is an exceptional storyteller, an advocate for love, and a true professional. Our wedding day wouldn’t have been the same without him, and we will forever be grateful for the incredible memories he helped create. If you’re looking for a celebrant who will make your wedding ceremony an unforgettable experience, we recommend Josh Withers. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Ben & Bec — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-bec-0cimz1l # Ben & Bec ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/154454/) > Joshua was simply an amazing person to have marry us, he is super friendly and had some great suggestions and a nice way of planning out the ceremony with us. Easy going and was happy to take part in our costume requests. > > — Ben & Bec More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Ben & Leah in Sydney, New South Wales — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c Sydney, New South Wales # Ben & Leah [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Sydney wedding celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) > I normally find ceremonies to be boring and strangely sad or awkward but I LOVED our ceremony. > > — Ben & Leah Thanks Josh, we loved having you as our celebrant, you absolutely kicked arse. It was so good. I normally find ceremonies to be boring and strangely sad or awkward but I LOVED our ceremony. Thank you for making it amazing! Where we celebrated ## Sydney, New South Wales More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Sarah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/sarah-19ms1lm) - [ ★★★★★ Samantha Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [ Rob & Rachel Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Ben & Teala — 2019 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-teala-0zv4pdy # Ben & Teala ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/cafaf65f-12f6-41fd-8def-022802202a86/) > From the moment Ben and I met Josh we knew we were in good hands and he was the perfect person to officiate our marriage. Josh was personable, helpful, down to earth from our first meeting and again on our wedding day. > > — Ben & Teala From the moment Ben and I met Josh we knew we were in good hands and he was the perfect person to officiate our marriage. Josh was personable, helpful, down to earth from our first meeting and again on our wedding day. What I loved is that he doesn’t read off a script you know it’s his own words in the moment which were heartwarming yet fun and personalised to us. Thank you for playing a special part in our big day Josh. Ben and Teala Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Photographer Ivory + Rose More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Bernhard — 2023 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/bernhard-0713w0l # Bernhard ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Anyone looking for a celebrant who wants the ceremony to be unusual, personal and in a dream location should look to Josh Withers. > > — Bernhard First of all, a huge thank you for this unforgettable wedding. We are so glad we had Josh Withers as our Celebrant. Before the wedding he was available to us at almost any time of the day or night. He guided us with a lot of patience in far away Germany through all the forms we had to fill out for our wedding. He also took time to address our fears and concerns that come with making such a decision. The wedding day itself was absolutely wonderful. Not only was Josh a celebrant, he was also the chauffeur of our small wedding party of three, even though he didn’t land until the morning of the ceremony after a difficult flight. And was very open with all of our wishes. He showed us his favorite places but also drove us to our favorite places. We were really picky about this, sorry again Josh. Even the live connection to Germany and a video from friends were easily integrated into the ceremony, making the whole thing very personal. During the ceremony we felt very comfortable, Josh chose wonderful words that related to the place, but that will always accompany us in our future together. We can’t thank Josh enough, both for the entire service before and during the ceremony as well as for the many kind and very emotional words. And despite all his professionalism, he never lost his kindness, openness and humor. Anyone looking for a celebrant who wants the ceremony to be unusual, personal and in a dream location should look to Josh Withers. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Bon — “We wanted a certain energy for…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/bon-0zg21h1 # Bon ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We wanted a certain energy for the big day and Josh more than delivered with his style of delivery. We all laughed and cried and everything in-between. > > — Bon We had such a lovely time at our wedding with Josh as our celebrant. We wanted a certain energy for the big day and Josh more than delivered with his style of delivery. We all laughed and cried and everything in-between. Couldn’t have asked for anything more and would recommend him any time! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Brea in Battery Point, Hobart, Tasmania — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u Battery Point, Hobart, Tasmania # Brea ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Hobart wedding celebrant](/hobart-celebrant)[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful. > > — Brea We are so happy to have found Josh for our small, casual registry wedding with only immediate family as witnesses. He made the entire process extremely easy and no-fuss while still feeling special and meaningful. His friendly and humorous demeanour made it all feel very comfortable. Josh recommended Gigi’s Diner in Battery Point Tas as a location to sign papers and we would absolutely recommend this to anyone else who is looking to skip the stress of planning a wedding ceremony and opt for something simple yet official. Where we celebrated ## Battery Point, Hobart, Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) - [ ★★★★★ Kimi Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/kimi-1ii5ygc) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Breeanna & Michael — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/breeanna-and-michael-15bfc6u # Breeanna & Michael ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh Withers is an awesome celebrant and I would highly recommend him. ❤️ > > — Breeanna & Michael More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Brian — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/brian-1cn17uq # Brian ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/4dbcafe3-a683-47c0-bb82-2647db4ef642/) > Josh is redefining what it means to be a celebrant. Mr Withers is the best celebrant I have meet and he is a must to follow on twitter. > > — Brian More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Brittany — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/brittany-1ssi0su # Brittany ★★★★★ Verified Google review · [Also published on Easy Weddings](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/e0edf809-5fe2-4a67-9636-f8e526580199/) > From the first conversation we had, he felt like someone we’d known for ages, he was friendly and funny but most of all he was understanding. > > — Brittany Your wedding day, often is something you dream about years before it actually happens…what dress you wear, what decor will you choose, will the music be just right.One thing that is often overlooked is how do you want the day to feel!Josh was instrumental in this for me and my husband. From the first conversation we had, he felt like someone we’d known for ages, he was friendly and funny but most of all he was understanding.This continued right up to the day of, where Josh came to speak with me as I was getting ready, a check in to keep me informed of what was about to happen, but most of all to check how I was and if he could do anything - lucky for Josh I was calm and ready to marry the man of my dreams so little help was required, but this small check in didn’t go unnoticed! This man genuinely cares about his couples.If you speak to any of our very few wedding guests (only 12) they sing Josh’s praises, he spent time with them before the ceremony and by the time I walked down the aisle they were ready to be our cheer squad, my group of 12 felt like 100… Josh created this! He makes everyone feel so free and included!The words he spoke prior to our vows were just as effortless as the day, not rigid or scripted but a free flowing love letter to love and connection, he is incredible at what he does and there was not a dry eye in the house!I won’t be getting married again, but god if I did I know who I’d have as our celebrant, I will have to settle for telling everyone I know and everyone I don’t about him! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Brittany & Aaron in Queensland — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/brittany-and-aaron-0tgr04w Queensland # Brittany & Aaron [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) · [Also published on Google](https://g.page/r/CX9aVPZSbkpzEAI) > Josh has a special way with words that made us feel relaxed but also kept us laughing throughout. > > — Brittany & Aaron Josh is the best! He knew we wanted a simple, chill, fun and short ceremony and that’s exactly what we got. Josh has a special way with words that made us feel relaxed but also kept us laughing throughout. We feel so lucky to have had him be a part of our day. Josh also took some epic photos of us and our location and shared them with us the next day! Next level service! If we could get married over and over again we would pick Josh as the celebrant every time Thanks for everything! Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Planner The Elopement Collective Where we celebrated ## Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Charli — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/charli-018ikj2 # Charli ★★★★★ Verified Google review > You don’t get too many connections like that in this industry or life in general. Thanks for always sharing and caring Josh, keep it up. > > — Charli Josh made our day so much more amazing. Then he was more than happy to catch up with us for a coffee on our 10 year anniversary at the same place we shared our vows! You don’t get too many connections like that in this industry or life in general. Thanks for always sharing and caring Josh, keep it up. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Charlotte — 2021 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/charlotte-1yqohe5 # Charlotte ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh said he'd create a safe space for us to exchange our vows and that's exactly what he did! > > — Charlotte Josh was an awesome celebrant marrying us in the most perfect way. When we caught up prior to the ceremony Josh said he’d create a safe space for us to exchange our vows and that’s exactly what he did! Also appreciate the flexibility thoughout Covid-19 as well as arranging a great back up on the chance he couldn’t be there due to a late new addition! Thanks so much Josh! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Chazz — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/chazz-15zkord # Chazz ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We had the perfect simple tiny no fuss wedding and would absolutely recommend him as a celebrant. > > — Chazz We were lucky enough to be part of Josh’s marriage amnesty day at Riverstone estate yesterday and ff could not be more grateful for the opportunity! Josh is such a warm and light hearted person and not at all like many of the celebrants I’ve seen over the years. We had the perfect simple tiny no fuss wedding and would absolutely recommend him as a celebrant to anyone who looking for a person who is approachable, has a good sense of humor and who clearly genuinely cares about and enjoys bringing people together! Thank you so much Josh!!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Chintan at Seagrass Long Point — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/chintan-0ai4vl4 Seagrass Long Point # Chintan ★★★★★ Verified Google review > The ceremony felt relaxed and emotional and unlike anything we'd experienced before. > > — Chintan Josh was absolutely wonderful! The ceremony felt Relaxed and emotional and unlike anything we’d experienced before — Very nice really good . If you’re getting married in Seagrass long point, we can’t recommend them enough. Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Seagrass Long Point Where we celebrated ## Seagrass Long Point More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Chris & Melissa in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/chris-and-melissa-1hja5js Brisbane, Queensland # Chris & Melissa [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > He had a clear understanding of what we wanted from this moment in time and did not fail to deliver. > > — Chris & Melissa Josh was amazing. He understood exactly what we meant when we said “we don’t want to fall asleep”. Josh is a professional purveyor of fun, light-hearted and touching wedding celebrations, but he still makes sure that the seriousness of the moment is woven into the lining of what he says. He had a clear understanding of what we wanted from this moment in time and did not fail to deliver. Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Chrissie — 2012 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/chrissie-0qiwu9l # Chrissie ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh is warm, funny and reassuring and makes everyone around him feel good. He’s a wonderful human and a wonderful celebrant! > > — Chrissie We were married by Josh and it was amazing. Josh is warm, funny and reassuring and makes everyone around him feel good. He’s a wonderful human and a wonderful celebrant! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Christie — 2022 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/christie-1k2v0j2 # Christie ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh was such a pleasure to deal with and instantly made us feel comfortable and at ease with nothing to worry about. > > — Christie Josh stepped in and conducted our wedding ceremony due to our celebrant being struck down with COVID last minute. Josh was such a pleasure to deal with and instantly made us feel comfortable and at ease with nothing to worry about. We highly recommend Josh and his different twist he puts into his ceremonies More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Christie — 2021 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/christie-1rifqw9 # Christie ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We had the pleasure of having Josh being the celebrant, mc, do & photobooth guy at our wedding… and we would not change it for the world. > > — Christie We had the pleasure of having Josh being the celebrant, mc, do & photobooth guy at our wedding… and we would not change it for the world. Josh goes above and beyond in everything he does! The ceremony was personal and beautiful, we are so grateful we found josh to marry us, I don’t think our day would have been the same! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Christopher — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/christopher-1ijob7e # Christopher ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > A heartfelt intimate ceremony that reflected the modern institution of marriage. Everyone was commenting all day on how great the ceremony was. > > — Christopher We were so happy with how everything went on the day and the organisation of everything in the lead up. It was exactly what we were looking for. A heartfelt intimate ceremony that reflected the modern institution of marriage. Everyone was commenting all day on how great the ceremony was. Your relaxed and cheerful nature put us both at ease. We would not have changed anything. Highly recommended! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Claire — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/claire-1jlfak9 # Claire ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/184832/) > Josh was great. He made himself available to us all day which was excellent as we were getting married on a cruise ship. We also had a few meeting with him prior where we felt that we clicked with him and his humorous and positive attitude. > > — Claire More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Clara at Thalia Haven — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/clara-0n2ki8g Thalia Haven · Tasmania # Clara ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > Josh understood exactly what we were hoping for and really allowed us to feel present and enjoy each other on the day. > > — Clara We were incredibly lucky to have Josh as our celebrant for our elopement at Thalia Haven. As two people who just wanted an intimate, simple, and genuine ceremony, Josh understood exactly what we were hoping for and really allowed us to feel present and enjoy each other on the day with zero pressure or nerves.If you’re looking for a celebrant who is thoughtful, grounding, and genuinely invested in making your day special, we can’t recommend Josh highly enough!! Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Thalia Haven Where we celebrated ## Thalia Haven Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Claudia — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/claudia-1ovl78w # Claudia ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh went above and beyond with our wedding. > > — Claudia Josh went above and beyond with our wedding. He offered advice before the ceremony, and recommended vendors that suited our needs. Thank you for your comforting phone calls nights before the wedding and meeting with us in person before the wedding. Josh brought our wedding ceremony to life by adding his own spin, that truly, no one else could do. He made us feel comfortable and relaxed. After the wedding, our wedding certificate was lost in the mail by the state’s government. Josh did not hesitate to send them an email immediately, cc’ing us into the email. He did not stop until this problem was solved. Josh is an incredible man and can mould himself to suit anyone’s needs. We could not have picked a more perfect wedding celebrant. I HIGHLY recommend Josh. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Dan & Kate in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/dan-and-kate-19hmk3e Brisbane, Queensland # Dan & Kate ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/181579/) · [Also published on Australian Marriage Celebrants](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Josh was so great. As soon as we sat down for coffee with him, we knew that he was perfect for our ceremony. It's so important to choose a celebrant that shares your view of marriage and who will make the ceremony amazing. > > — Dan & Kate Josh was so great. As soon as we sat down for coffee with him, we knew that he was perfect for our ceremony. It’s so important to choose a celebrant that shares your view of marriage and who will make the ceremony amazing. Josh was so supportive of the little touches that we wanted and he has such a modern and profound understanding of what marriage is today. Our ceremony was touching, funny and suited us perfectly. I can’t recommend him enough, and I have already given away all the business cards I have of his to friends! Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Derek — 2023 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz # Derek ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh made our day absolutely perfect. His philosophy around love and marriage was so congruent for us. > > — Derek Josh made our day absolutely perfect. His philosophy around love and marriage was so congruent for us and made it all about the both of us. You can’t go wrong with Josh being apart of your day. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Ellie — 2023 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/ellie-0mhcsz0 # Ellie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/d26335c7-0f33-4f72-87b8-a8da36219ea4/) > Josh is the perfect choice for a celebrant who is personable, focused on the couple, and creates a wonderfully relaxed atmosphere. Our elopement with Josh was an incredibly stress-free and intimate experience. We wholeheartedly recommend his services! > > — Ellie More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Elliott — 2022 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/elliott-1mvwc6u # Elliott ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh was an amazing celebrant and we couldn’t recommend him highly enough. > > — Elliott We eloped with Elopement Collective and it was far better than anything we had ever imagined! Josh was an amazing celebrant and we couldn’t recommend him highly enough. He is the real deal- totally authentic and passionate about creating a ceremony for couples that is fundamentally them. Josh has such a natural way about his craft that it wasn’t until halfway through the ceremony that we realised “Wow this is really happening!” He maneuvered into our vows so effortlessly and genuinely, that we were so comfortable to be in the moment together. Josh met with us prior to our event day and took the time to chat with us and find out about our love story and lives. It is evident in the way he talks about his beautiful wife and family that he values relationships and celebrating love. It was like having a well spoken mate officiate for us and his warm and calm presence added so much value to our experience. Thanks so much Josh, if only we could elope twice! PS. Cool hat. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Ellysha & Charlie in Queensland — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p Queensland # Ellysha & Charlie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/bbfee46f-bb35-44dd-bb7e-db5ebf1bc294/) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Josh was an amazing celebrant. It felt like he was a long lost friend/uncle despite only meeting for our elopement that morning. We wanted something relaxed & informal, & he provided us with even more. It was such a special day, thank you so much Josh for making it so lovely for us > > — Ellysha & Charlie Where we celebrated ## Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) - [ ★★★★★ Liliana Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/liliana-10hp3t7) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Emily — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/emily-02n08hm # Emily ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/186921/) > The moment we met Josh we knew we had found the man that was going to marry us! Our ceremony so personalised and fun! Our guests haven't been able to stop talking about it! If you want fun laughter and a well dressed man at your wedding go with Josh! > > — Emily More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Emily — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/emily-02vfhr8 # Emily ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh is extremely charismatic and commands the room - so he instantly had everyone's interest and attention. > > — Emily We found Josh by Googling “wedding celebrant who isn’t boring”. We had an initial meeting with Josh and found out he wasn’t available on our preferred wedding date. When we left, we looked at each other and said “he’s the only person who can marry us, isn’t he…”. So we changed our wedding date!Josh is incredibly professional and fills you with complete confidence -but he is also a guy we genuinely liked hanging out with. He was excited about our marriage and wanted to make our ceremony amazing for us. And it really was.Josh is extremely charismatic and commands the room - so he instantly had everyone’s interest and attention. He remembered little things we didn’t even remember telling him and worked them into our ceremony so that it was beautifully personal. He kept the mood light and fun, but still completely about the importance of the commitment we were making to each other.We really could not have been more thrilled with our ceremony - we laughed and cried and got to marry each other! We will treasure the memories for the rest of our lives. Josh is the sickest wedding celebrant ever and we are so blessed he came up during our Googling efforts!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Fran — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/fran-0eibjd4 # Fran ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/170463/) > Absolutely brilliant, listens to what you want and definitely knows how to command a creative wedding with mixed in humor, fun and creativity. His service was most talked about in the ceremony and cannot fault anything and he is happy to go along with any suggestions and surprises. > > — Fran Absolutely brilliant, listens to what you want and definitely knows how to command a creative wedding with mixed in humor, fun and creativity. His service was most talked about in the ceremony and cannot fault anything and he is happy to go along with any suggestions and surprises. Definitely recommend checking him out, I have recommended him to my friends who are next in line to be married More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Gareth & Adriana — 2019 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/gareth-and-adriana-1ciwm0n # Gareth & Adriana ★★★★★ Verified Google review > We chose Josh as our celebrant because of his down to earth and humorous approach to marrying people which kept the ceremony entertaining and he definitely exceeded all our expectations. > > — Gareth & Adriana Adriana and I want to say a huge thank you for all your help and amazing work on our wedding day. We had the best day ever!We chose Josh as our celebrant because of his down to earth and humorous approach to marrying people which kept the ceremony entertaining and he definitely exceeded all our expectations. I’m so grateful for all his hard work, planning and organisation skills. Josh definitely made me feel confident before and during the ceremony that I had picked the right celebrant. Not only did he show he genuinely cared and had our best interests at heart he also made me feel comfortable and at ease in those last few nerve-wracking minutes leading up to the ceremony.Thank you once again for your time and effort in helping us make it official!!Gareth and Adriana More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Giuseppe — “Thanks for making our special day…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/giuseppe-1ksut99 # Giuseppe ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Thanks for making our special day fun and vibrant. Professional, full of energy a great celebrant and a smashing MC! > > — Giuseppe Thanks for making our special day fun and vibrant. Professional, full of energy a great celebrant and a smashing MC! We couldn’t be happier. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Hamish — 2020 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/hamish-008kfs6 # Hamish ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > The ceremony itself was perfect, and the photos we have now are so lovely and will remind us of the afternoon (including lots of beautiful details) for many years to come. > > — Hamish The Elopement Collective were so wonderful to deal with. Organizing things almost a year before our preferred date was simple. We were thrilled to be able to book our favourite photographer Tessa Shannon and we stalked her photos for many months leading up to our special day. The ceremony itself was perfect, and the photos we have now are so lovely and will remind us of the afternoon (including lots of beautiful details) for many years to come. We would highly recommend Josh, Tessa and The Elopement Collective in general to anyone considering getting hitched who wants their day to be as amazing as ours was. Hamish & Kim More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Hannah — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/hannah-14cqqdo # Hannah ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh doesn’t read from a script, is fun and somehow just puts you at ease on one of the most important days of your life. > > — Hannah Josh was awesome, genuine and very approachable. Having been to enough weddings where a celebrant read from a script (and put the guests to sleep in the process), we were sure that was not the ceremony or atmosphere we wanted and thankfully with Josh as our celebrant, that wasn’t the ceremony we got! Josh doesn’t read from a script, is fun and somehow just puts you at ease on one of the most important days of your life. Josh is professional, always contactable and went out of his way to meet up with us in Sydney when he was in town. If you want a ceremony that is friendly, fun and not at all boring, Josh is your guy. Thank you Josh, you are a legend. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Hannah in Tuscany — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/hannah-1cduvjx Tuscany # Hannah ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) > Josh was the perfect balance of professional as well as being friendly and disarming to make us as comfortable as possible. > > — Hannah My husband Alex & I were really intentional about what we wanted for our intimate elopement in Tuscany. Josh was the perfect balance of professional as well as being friendly and disarming to make us as comfortable as possible. Thank you Josh, the elopement collective and George for making our day so exactly what we wanted ❤️ Where we celebrated ## Tuscany More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Hannah & Ardy in Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/hannah-and-ardy-0dyiv4e Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland # Hannah & Ardy [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > He is effortlessly amazing in his impromptu speech and every guest commented on how amazing he was! > > — Hannah & Ardy The best decision we made was to hire Josh! When we met him in his board shorts, singlet and thongs we knew we were on to a great thing! He is effortlessly amazing in his impromptu speech and every guest commented on how amazing he was! You would be silly not to book him! We laughed, we cried, we signed! — Hannah & Ardy Where we celebrated ## Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Harry & Nayla at Vocabolo Moscatelli — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria # Harry & Nayla ★★★★★ [Verified Google review](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/109494392462308365032/reviews?hl=en-GB) Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) ![Harry and Nayla laughing with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli.Ce4JeXtC_1xUqXM.jpeg) Photo by [Jason Corroto](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com/) > He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special. > > — Harry & Nayla Josh was the celebrant for my wife and I. He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special. If you want someone who really is great at what he does you should absolutely choose him. Thanks again Josh for our day. We wish we could do it all again ! Their Umbria elopement ## A day at Vocabolo Moscatelli ![Nayla having her wedding makeup applied at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-74.Q-N-YhdK_1QaWUb.jpeg) ![Nayla wearing her veil before her Vocabolo Moscatelli elopement in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-100.BAspxZ_S_1McH2H.jpeg) ![Nayla holding her wildflower bouquet on her wedding day in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-115.BPj5F-CF_ZvreX1.jpeg) ![Nayla getting ready for her Vocabolo Moscatelli elopement in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-117.DClFBZob_Z1Gr1WA.jpeg) ![Nayla in her wedding dress at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-118.CnFXwtFC_ZCSu9U.jpeg) ![Nayla carrying her wildflower bouquet before the ceremony in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-123.BPFnhJP0_Z2uffsD.jpeg) ![Harry getting ready for his Vocabolo Moscatelli wedding ceremony in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-128.B3pM5tUC_Z24I3jF.jpeg) ![Harry dressed for his intimate wedding ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-129.BLyNNY5K_Z1QzOo2.jpeg) ![Josh and Harry waiting in the Vocabolo Moscatelli gardens before the ceremony](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-132.CcTeGPUo_ZV7xCg.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla’s garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-140.BV7Emw4d_Z1N1NXF.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla sharing their vows with Josh in the Vocabolo Moscatelli gardens](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-149.B1WR8sK6_1HYNmw.jpeg) ![A close moment from Harry and Nayla’s garden elopement ceremony in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-150.Bd0tUz8K_Z1PtauP.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla during their intimate wedding ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-152.CAhUSNVQ_ZuBIWF.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla exchanging rings in the gardens of Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-155.ZRiiFbNL_233Wl2.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla sharing a joyful moment during their Umbria elopement](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-156.DM5HJ6Tf_Z2kDcvk.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla walking together through the Vocabolo Moscatelli gardens](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-185.CyTAWaeo_2q3iIR.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla with Josh after their wedding ceremony in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-191.CHmObKOr_Z1q5S7F.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla together among the gardens of Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-244.7hPTQJYs_1u4kaY.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla walking through the lush gardens at Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-245.GrYAa8sk_Z1AYxXM.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla sharing a quiet moment during their Umbria wedding portraits](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-246.C3NkRkty_Z26pXl4.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla hand in hand in the Vocabolo Moscatelli gardens](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-247.Dut83HMI_Z7PjnD.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla walking through the gardens after their Umbria ceremony](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-263.DA9Ulhm__ZM4f37.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla standing together in the greenery at Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-264.CjrFdJMC_Z2bjndw.jpeg) ![Harry and Nayla walking past the historic Vocabolo Moscatelli building in Umbria](/_astro/harry-nayla-vocabolo-moscatelli-279.Dcs6ZNnQ_Z24xUrU.jpeg) Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - [ ![Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_ZCtOD8.jpeg) Venue Vocabolo Moscatelli ](/here/vocabolo-moscatelli) - [ ![Wedding photographer Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Photographer Jason Corroto Website@jasoncorrotophoto ](/wedding-vendors/jason-corroto) - [ ![Makeup artist Shannon Hope](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/shannon-hope_J4Pt7BhQy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Hair & Makeup Shannon Hope Website ](/wedding-vendors/shannon-hope) - [ ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Planner The Elopement Collective Website@elopementcollective ](/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective) Where we celebrated ## Vocabolo Moscatelli Umbertide, Umbria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [ ★★★★★ Hannah Tuscany Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-1cduvjx) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Isabella & Matthew at Vocabolo Moscatelli — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria # Isabella & Matthew ★★★★★ [Verified Google review](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/111474868484902127063/reviews?hl=en-GB) Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) ![Isabella and Matthew with Josh during their garden ceremony at Vocabolo Moscatelli in Umbria](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_1nx9b4.jpeg) Photo by [Jason Corroto](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com/) > You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day. > > — Isabella & Matthew Josh, thank you for making our ceremony so special. Your words were heartfelt, meaningful and perfectly captured the moment. You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day. Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - [ ![Vocabolo Moscatelli](/_astro/isabella-matthew-vocabolo-moscatelli.CCOaOkDA_ZCtOD8.jpeg) Venue Vocabolo Moscatelli ](/here/vocabolo-moscatelli) - [ ![Wedding photographer Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Photographer Jason Corroto Website@jasoncorrotophoto ](/wedding-vendors/jason-corroto) - [ ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Planner The Elopement Collective Website@elopementcollective ](/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective) Where we celebrated ## Vocabolo Moscatelli Umbertide, Umbria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Hannah Tuscany Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-1cduvjx) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jade — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jade-1jmgkfn # Jade ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/0f90ae70-cdbe-46f7-a54d-3dde91122561/) > Josh provided us with friendly, prompt and professional service. He also gave us the greatest wedding gift a couple could ask for. He gave us a beautiful, funny and love filled ceremony. Josh keeps weddings real You should hire Josh. He is awesome He is awesome. > > — Jade More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jaeda in Queenstown — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jaeda-0rzp189 Queenstown # Jaeda ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh made our intimate elopement in Queenstown, New Zealand truly unforgettable. > > — Jaeda Josh made our intimate elopement in Queenstown, New Zealand truly unforgettable. With the day already feeling so relaxed, Josh’s overall vibe had the perfect balance of professional yet friendly, and making us feel so excited for our ceremony.During our ceremony, he made us feel present, made us laugh at times, and his words felt so personal, yet the atmosphere felt was so easy-going, which was everything we wanted! We truly couldn’t have asked for a better experience, honestly the dreamiest elopement we could have asked for. Thank you so much, Josh - we’re beyond grateful! Where we celebrated ## Queenstown More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jaeden — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jaeden-15x88vz # Jaeden ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Finding a celebrant that lives and breathes what they do is hard to come by, but thankfully we found Josh. > > — Jaeden Finding a celebrant that lives and breathes what they do is hard to come by, but thankfully we found Josh. From the get go, Josh made my now Wife and I feel comfortable, reassured and like a weight had been lifted off our shoulders. Josh is a master of his craft and honestly felt like someone we had known for years. I highly recommend Josh to anyone who wants a celebrant that they’ll be raving on for years to come. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jaimee — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jaimee-0svueiz # Jaimee ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/f29d2fca-d6cd-4450-8107-47949399bc64/) > If you have the opportunity to be Married by Josh, you absolutely have to do it. He will make you feel so at ease and comfortable and won't be stuffy or boring. He's incredible and personal and amazing. Thank you Josh! > > — Jaimee More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jake — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jake-0xywqal # Jake ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Generous, thoughtful, creative and kind... we'd get married by Josh all over again :) > > — Jake More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jan — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jan-1ttg4ei # Jan ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/d9964703-306a-4062-a4d3-7bb1012380fd/) > Brilliant. Love this guy. He is simply the most awesome wedding celebrant out there. He married us in a beautiful ceremony. Josh made us feel at ease. My hubby was so nervous that Josh had to remind him to breath. Josh is a fun easy going sort of celebrant. Just perfect for our relaxed beach wedding. > > — Jan Brilliant. Love this guy. He is simply the most awesome wedding celebrant out there. He married us in a beautiful ceremony. Josh made us feel at ease. My hubby was so nervous that Josh had to remind him to breath. Josh is a fun easy going sort of celebrant. Just perfect for our relaxed beach wedding. If you want an awesome celebrant who makes you feel your wedding belongs to you then Josh is your man.. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Janelle — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/janelle-1x65scp # Janelle ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/3fe011d0-9319-4db5-8e40-317c59d4b025/) > AMAZING! This sums up everything Josh was on our wedding day. He made our ceremony everything we wanted it to be and so much more - light, funny and oozing with love. Our friends all thought we had known him forever, and all commented on how amazing our celebrant was! > > — Janelle More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jarrod — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jarrod-1h1asri # Jarrod ★★★★★ Verified Google review > If you want a wedding celebrant who's nothing like the cookie-cutter crowd, Josh is your guy. > > — Jarrod If you want a wedding celebrant who’s nothing like the cookie-cutter crowd, Josh is your guy. He’s quirky in the best way possible — the kind of celebrant who keeps everyone hanging on his every word, laughing one moment and tearing up the next.Josh somehow blends excitement, surprise, and genuine warmth into every second of the ceremony. He knows how to hit the perfect balance: the laughs feel natural, the heartfelt moments land deeply, and the whole thing feels so personal you’d swear he’s known you for years.Your guests will talk about how much they loved him — and honestly, so will you. Josh doesn’t just marry people; he creates a moment you’ll never forget. If you want your ceremony to be full of love and personality, book him. Now. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jasmin & Vincent — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jasmin-and-vincent-1st9exs # Jasmin & Vincent ★★★★★ Verified Google review · [Also published on Easy Weddings](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/ab5198b3-5d6e-49c8-9063-5a2e477ee0e8/) > On the big day Josh made our ceremony feel so special and a true celebration of us. > > — Jasmin & Vincent My husband and I wanted an intimate ceremony in a scenic location. We first met Josh on a call and immediately noticed his genuine personality which was exactly what we wanted for our special day. On the big day Josh made our ceremony feel so special and a true celebration of us. He has a true passion for people…celebrating a couples love and their journey as they enter the next chapter and letting love shine. We felt so comfortable and relaxed with Josh. I couldn’t recommend him enough! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jasmine — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jasmine-0hrbnps # Jasmine ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/b7d31094-fe80-4bf5-b8a0-8968b1600565/) > LOVE! > > — Jasmine More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jemma — “We were looking for Different, Fun…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jemma-033dyl5 # Jemma ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We were looking for Different, Fun and Un-traditional and we got just that and more! > > — Jemma Who wouldn’t want this Amazing Jolly guy to Wed you! We were looking for Different, Fun and Un-traditional and we got just that and more! Thankyou so much Josh, you truly are a barrel of laughs xx More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jen — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jen-0byag0d # Jen ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/167910/) > Our wedding ceremony was a perfect reflection of us - and we couldn't have done it without Josh's help. Josh helped us write our own vows and design a unique ceremony that we loved. He was calm, relaxed and natural on the day, and always available to help beforehand. > > — Jen More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jenna — 2021 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jenna-0n7u19r # Jenna ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh is amazing, as both a person and a celebrant! He made our ceremony stress free, laid back and intimate which was exactly what we wanted! > > — Jenna Josh is amazing, as both a person and a celebrant! He made our ceremony stress free, laid back and intimate which was exactly what we wanted! If you’re looking for a celebrant who genuinely cares about making your day as special as possible, choose Josh because we are so, so glad we did! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jessica — “Our ceremony with Josh felt authentically…” Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jessica-08710vi # Jessica ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Our ceremony with Josh felt authentically ours. An absolute legend with words. > > — Jessica Our ceremony with Josh felt authentically ours. An absolute legend with words. We had our son as ring bearer who chimed in twice and Josh effortlessly worked his magic, creating a natural flow. We felt present, like time had slowed for us to relish in the moment of becoming husband and wife. It was beautiful. The ceremony was epic, the favourite part of our Elopement. Thanks Josh, absolute legend of a celebrant! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jessica — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jessica-14t3aoi # Jessica ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh’s ceremony was fun, casual and at the same time romantic. He was an absolute natural and created a really chill vibe for us. > > — Jessica Josh is just a really dope guy. He is easily one of the most friendly and approachable people we have ever met. At the same time he is professional and gets stuff done. We told him we would like to get the legals out of the way on the same day and even though he was only licensed to do so in US and Australia, he made some calls and made it happen! Pretty resourceful if you ask me! We basically live on the other side of the world, but we never felt that way during the planning phase, he was easy to get in touch with and responsive to inquiries. He and his wife Britt were our dream team and our day would have looked a lot different (i.e sucky) without them on our side. Josh’s ceremony was fun, casual and at the same time romantic. He was an absolute natural and created a really chill vibe for us. Even in the midst of my toddler having an “I need my mom now” moment in the middle of my vows… Thanks for helping guide our moment. Without you we would have just been two nervous humans in love, stumbling over our words in the middle of the forest. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jessica & Clay in Queensland — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jessica-and-clay-1qay5n2 Queensland # Jessica & Clay [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) > He made us feel so comfortable on our day and wasn’t boring or stiff! > > — Jessica & Clay Josh has such a genuine attitude from the very first email. He made us feel so comfortable on our day and wasn’t boring or stiff!! Laughs all round and could feel that there was zero judgement! We can not recommend him more and have already started G’ing our friends up to pick him as their celebrant! Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Planner The Elopement Collective Where we celebrated ## Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jodie — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jodie-0gy2v1p # Jodie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/177122/) > When I think celebrant I think "Boring old guy or lady with a bob hair cut". When we first met Josh he told us there is no reason the ceremony has to be the boring part of the day. Josh bought the right amount of humour to make the formal part of the day memorable, different and interesting. Glad we came across Josh! > > — Jodie More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jowell — “Professional, warm and so helpful with…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jowell-0y7rcm2 # Jowell ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Professional, warm and so helpful with all our questions. Thanks for such a special day! > > — Jowell We had a a super simple ceremony that was just a few minutes long, but Josh was great from the start to the end of the whole process! Professional, warm and so helpful with all our questions. Thanks for such a special day! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jude — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jude-1k96436 # Jude ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh made the day soooo amazing and memorable!!! His heartfelt words about marriage and the joy this union brings. > > — Jude We just celebrated our marriage and Josh made the day soooo amazing and memorable!!!! His heartfelt words about marriage and the joy this union brings and the happiness our future will have as we journey together as husband and wife and as a family!!! Thank you Josh for a wonderful day!!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jules — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/jules-1atq4c8 # Jules ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/bf3b1c38-107b-4f5f-b72a-eee5455b2c8d/) > Josh was absolutely amazing for our special day! He made sure I (bride) was comfortable and at ease. He was humble and humorous during the ceremony and has a great eye for photo ideas and props! 10/10 highly recommended! Thank you for capturing our day so perfectly Josh > > — Jules More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kaitlyn — 2024 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kaitlyn-10vjgzo # Kaitlyn ★★★★★ Verified Google review > We eloped with Josh - and it’s safe to say we had the best time! We were instantly put at ease, felt comfortable and relaxed. > > — Kaitlyn We eloped with Josh - and it’s safe to say we had the best time! We were instantly put at ease, felt comfortable and relaxed. If we were to do it all again, we’d choose Josh every time. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kate in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kate-0cm4o7h Brisbane, Queensland # Kate ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Our marriage ceremony was important to us, and Josh absolutely delivered a personalised, meaningful, fun ceremony. When we think about our wedding, he is one of the aspects we are the happiest with. > > — Kate Josh married us 12 years ago in Brisbane. Our marriage ceremony was important to us, and Josh absolutely delivered a personalised, meaningful, fun ceremony. When we think about our wedding, he is one of the aspects we are the happiest with. I could not recommend Josh more highly if you want an engaged, committed celebrant who wants your ceremony to be one of a kind. Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kate — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kate-0k73ww7 # Kate ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/177764/) > Great celebrant, who was flexible and able to meet as much as we needed. He added a great point of difference to our ceremony and certainly made it a fun ceremony and one to remember! > > — Kate More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kate — 2021 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kate-1xp9zyk # Kate ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Our day followed suit and was authentic and simple with Josh delivering a perfect ceremony that was just about us. > > — Kate We were lucky enough to have Josh as our celebrant for our little elopement this May and honestly, it couldn’t have been cruisier. We’re a simple, minimalistic couple that didn’t want a huge fuss and that’s exactly what we got. From our first meeting with Josh, we were happy and confident he was our guy. Our day followed suit and was authentic and simple with Josh delivering a perfect ceremony that was just about us. Thank you Josh for a wonderful experience and for helping us join together for a lifetime. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kayla — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kayla-0p9r4l0 # Kayla ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > On the day Josh created the perfect ceremony, he involved our guests, he kept us both calm and everything he spoke about related to us both. > > — Kayla When we first saw Josh, it was at a wedding expo. We were drawn to his outgoing nature, his little bit of geeky spunk and of course the bow ties. Josh made the effort to meet with us a few times leading into the ceremony, and got to know us - and a few of our embarrassing stories! On the day Josh created the perfect ceremony, he involved our guests, he kept us both calm and everything he spoke about related to us both and this next phase of our journey. Thankyou so much! - Kieran and Kayla More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kellie — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kellie-05f41ut # Kellie ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We got married by Josh in Brisvegas and Josh was the perfect fit for us. > > — Kellie We got married by Josh in Brisvegas and Josh was the perfect fit for us - infact we couldn’t imagine anyone else marrying us - it had to be Josh!! We love Josh’s friendly easy going nature, his impeccable dress sense and bow tie / tie collection, and his use of tech savvy gadgets. Josh is so passionate about what he does, he made everything easy for us, and on the day he guided us through the ceremony like the absolute pro he is. We will remember Josh, our ceremony and our special day forever. Thank you Josh, your awesome!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kellie — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kellie-1s964ui # Kellie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/835e59b1-bebe-4153-92cd-720791cd7f96/) > Josh Withers was a great, fun, exuberant wedding celebrant! > > — Kellie More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kiara at Thalia Haven — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kiara-1pjbbih Thalia Haven · Tasmania # Kiara ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > If you are looking for someone who is relaxed, easy going, experienced and all about the vibe and the moment, then Josh is for you. > > — Kiara Josh was amazing, from start to finish. Josh married us at Thalia Haven in Tasmania. If you are looking for someone who is relaxed, easy going, experienced and all about the vibe and the moment, then Josh is for you. We are very chilled people, and wanted someone who could match our humour and way of life, and Josh was that in an instant. Nothing was a problem with Josh, highly recommend. Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Thalia Haven Where we celebrated ## Thalia Haven Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kim — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kim-0z6k5tr # Kim ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/b5217b59-254a-4d41-b8a9-d90e919f2530/) > Josh was great. He made the surprise wedding very easy. > > — Kim More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kimberley — “He is the reason me and…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kimberley-0wd53pj # Kimberley ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > He is the reason me and my husband are now finally married after waiting for what seemed like forever. > > — Kimberley Josh is an amazing celebrant being one of the 30 couples that got married on #marriageamnestyday he was fun, creative and yet remained to the point of that day: marriage. He is the reason me and my husband are now finally married after waiting for what seemed like forever because we just wanted to be married without the fuss and stress of planning a wedding. Thank you josh for making this possible More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kimberly — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kimberly-055h3lv # Kimberly ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh is an amazing celebrant! Full of energy and passion for marrying happy couples. > > — Kimberly Josh is an amazing celebrant! Full of energy and passion for marrying happy couples. He along with his team of helpers and photographers on marriage amnisty day made our marriage fun, beautiful stress free and special. Cannot recommend a more wonderful celebrant!! Thank you Josh xx More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kimi in Tasmania — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kimi-1ii5ygc Tasmania # Kimi ★★★★★ [Verified True Local review](https://www.truelocal.com.au/hobart-tas/tlp/josh-withers-wedding-celebrant-580290776) Planning a wedding nearby?[Hobart wedding celebrant](/hobart-celebrant)[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > His vibrant personality, warm sense of humor and genuine care for our wishes made him stand out. > > — Kimi We were incredibly happy with Josh as our wedding celebrant. He made the entire process extremely smooth and stress free. His vibrant personality, warm sense of humor and genuine care for our wishes made him stand out. We couldn’t thank him enough for making our moment feel so special and perfect! The energy, love and happiness he brings is just amazing. Thank you Josh! We truly recommend Josh ♡ Where we celebrated ## Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Kirsten — 2019 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/kirsten-0idgoh1 # Kirsten ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh was our wedding celebrant last month and he was absolutely amazing! > > — Kirsten Josh was our wedding celebrant last month and he was absolutely amazing! When we first reached out to Josh and met up with him, we knew he would be the right guy to marry us, with his fun personality and he shared many similar wedding aspects as we did. Our ceremony was full of love, laughter and joyful tears, as he spoke from the heart. Your awesome Josh! Kirsten and Mitch More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Larissa — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/larissa-1mxzsuv # Larissa ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh created a wedding ceremony that was perfectly tailored to us — personal, meaningful, and exactly what we wanted. > > — Larissa We couldn’t have asked for a better celebrant than Josh Withers. From the very beginning, he was relaxed yet completely confident, which instantly put us at ease. He genuinely shared in our happiness and love, and that made the whole ceremony feel even more special.Josh created a wedding ceremony that was perfectly tailored to us — personal, meaningful, and exactly what we wanted. It never felt staged, it felt like our story. We’re so grateful for the care and thought he put into making our day so memorable. Highly recommend! 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Laura — 2024 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/laura-0qp9qnz # Laura ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was, without a doubt, the best celebrant we could have asked for and one of the best decisions we made for our elopement. > > — Laura Josh was, without a doubt, the best celebrant we could have asked for and one of the best decisions we made for our elopement. From our very first conversation, both my now-husband and I knew we’d found the perfect fit. Josh brought such a sense of comfort and ease, making the entire process feel seamless. He guided us through every step with confidence, offering invaluable advice that led to a truly beautiful ceremony.On the day of our elopement, Josh went above and beyond to ensure everything was perfect. He made us feel completely relaxed, creating a personal, intimate, and beautifully memorable experience. We couldn’t recommend Josh more highly and are incredibly grateful to have had him as part of our day. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Laura — “Matt and I couldn't be more…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/laura-0xfy92y # Laura ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Matt and I couldn't be more grateful for the ceremony Josh created. It was short and sweet, but so meaningful, sincere and genuine. > > — Laura Matt and I couldn’t be more grateful for the ceremony Josh created. It was short and sweet, but so meaningful, sincere and genuine. We had discussed for a long time what we wanted out of a ceremony and a huge part of us choosing Josh was the fact he kept it relevant, fun, relatable and memorable. If you are looking for the perfect celebrant that will deliver what YOU want in a ceremony, you cannot go past Josh. 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lauren — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lauren-0qx1u10 # Lauren ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/152932/) > If you want a tailor-made, modern and relaxed ceremony, then Josh is your guy! > > — Lauren More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lauren — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lauren-13q9bdf # Lauren ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/166888/) > Josh was a fabulous celebrant. He was kind, funny, thoughtful and funny! Our ceremony was unique and tailored personally to us. Our ceremony was filled with laughter and smiles with the occasional tear! I would not hesitate in recommending Josh to any of my family or friends in the future! > > — Lauren More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Laus — 2022 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/laus-12n3vha # Laus [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) > Josh made it relaxed and took all the pressure off while still ensuring we had the most special ceremony. > > — Laus Honestly I cannot recommend Josh enough as a celebrant and all round good guy/wedding hype man. We had such a rollercoaster ride getting ourselves to the “alter” but Josh made it relaxed and took all the pressure off while still ensuring we had the most special ceremony. Thank you, legend! x More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lee & Courtney in Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lee-and-courtney-0udwo6e Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland # Lee & Courtney [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Your ability to make such a delicate moment fun and enjoyable yet maintain the appropriate level of “special” is nothing short of incredible. > > — Lee & Courtney Lee and I just want to send you a MMMAAAASSSSIIIVVVEEE thank you for being such a special part of our magical day! You were nothing short of amazing! Both of us were nervous about the ceremony. Now, looking back, it was one of the biggest highlights of the day and we will never forget it. Your ability to make such a delicate moment fun and enjoyable yet maintain the appropriate level of “special” is nothing short of incredible. It’s reflective of how super cool of a human being you are! So thank you! Where we celebrated ## Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Leena — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/leena-09hobnr # Leena ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh is a fantastic and dedicated wedding celebrant. Josh goes above and beyond to make your day very special. > > — Leena Josh is a fantastic and dedicated wedding celebrant. Josh goes above and beyond to make your day very special. I can highly recommend having Josh as your celebrant. Josh will ensure a smooth and sophisticated wedding day for you. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Liliana in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/liliana-10hp3t7 Brisbane, Queensland # Liliana ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > He was great so I went ahead and booked him. He then gave me great recommendations on videographers, stylist etc. > > — Liliana Hi All! just giving Josh Withers a shout out. I found Josh on alot of the wedding blogs when I was planning my wedding in Brisbane from Paris. I had read alot of great things about him. That he was young, funny and easy going! I thought thats just like us and definitely wanted someone just like that. There were no old fuddy duddy’s at my wedding. Everyone that I got to work on our wedding were all young and new up comer in the industry. So I contacted Josh and we skyped. He was great so I went ahead and booked him. He then gave me great recommendations on videographers, stylist etc. Im so greatful for his help whilst I was so far away. So peeps - Book him today!!!! Dont wait as his very busy.. x Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lisa — “He knew exactly what to say…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lisa-0qvfgrq # Lisa ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > He knew exactly what to say to make the ceremony and the experience after relaxed, simple and perfect. > > — Lisa Josh is amazing at what he does and one of the friendliest human being I have ever met. We were both super nervous but he knew exactly what to say to make the ceremony and the experience after relaxed, simple and perfect. Just what we wanted xx More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lisa — 2019 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lisa-1441c3r # Lisa ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/0f587b9b-4ab4-42db-afa2-d2a1027816cc/) > Josh was fantastic! He reminded us to do things when we needed to which was great for us. He was so lovely and our guests loved him. > > — Lisa More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lisa — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lisa-1hhsbsy # Lisa ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/e64c4c02-8011-4dd1-98d2-109ff379149a/) > It was really great to find a fun relaxed celebrant that bought just the right amount of passion & humour to the day. Josh put us at ease from the first meeting and we thoroughly enjoyed the ceremony. I would highly recommend him to anyone looking for an alternative celebrant. > > — Lisa More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Lui — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/lui-0g13a1y # Lui ★★★★★ Verified Google review · [Also published on True Local](https://www.truelocal.com.au/hobart-tas/tlp/josh-withers-wedding-celebrant-580290776) > Josh went above and beyond, and throughout the night we had numerous guests approach us to compliment Josh's fun, entertaining and passionate disposition. > > — Lui From our very first coffee catch-up to discuss the potential of having Josh as our marriage celebrant, we knew we were in safe hands. Josh’s attention to detail, and thorough care for his craft culminated in a heart-felt speech during our ceremony, and having our guests eating our of the palm of his hand as he MC’d our reception. We had extremely high expectations of all our wedding vendors, Josh went above and beyond, and throughout the night we had numerous guests approach us to compliment Josh’s fun, entertaining and passionate disposition. Unfortunately, with no plans of marrying again we will be unable to use his services again, our only hope is you take advantage of Josh’s services and see for yourself how amazing your day will be when you get someone who so enthusiastically goes the extra mile. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Luke — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/luke-1xv28rm # Luke ★★★★★ Verified Google review > My favourite thing about Josh is that, aside from being really good at what he does as a marriage celebrant, he actually REALLY cares about your marriage. > > — Luke My favourite thing about Josh is that, aside from being really good at what he does as a marriage celebrant, he actually REALLY cares about your marriage. Not just the ceremony, not just the little details or the words that he says on the day… He actually wants your marriage to be amazing. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Madalyn in Victoria — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/madalyn-0pqt2pr Victoria # Madalyn ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Melbourne wedding celebrant](/melbourne-celebrant) > Josh was absolutely outstanding, funny, and charismatic. He made us feel incredibly comfortable and it is obvious how passionate he is about his job. > > — Madalyn We eloped in a beautiful Victorian country town in October this year, with only Josh and our photographer present. Josh was absolutely outstanding, funny, and charismatic. He made us feel incredibly comfortable and it is obvious how passionate he is about his job. We would choose him a million times over to be our celebrant. Where we celebrated ## Victoria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Phoebe Montalto · Red Hill South · Mornington Peninsula · Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/phoebe-0n0dyoz) - [ ★★★★★ Shane & Matylda House At Smoko · Victorian High Country · Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/shane-and-matylda-0iw2lqi) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Maddison — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto # Maddison ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > There is no one else we would have chosen to marry us and I can guarantee you will not be disappointed! > > — Maddison Josh is THE celebrant, his not just another celebrant. Josh is there to help with anything you need, he always has your best interest his number one priority and he has one of the most easy going and wonderful personalities. There is no one else we would have chosen to marry us and I can guarantee you will not be disappointed! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Manda — 2021 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/manda-0nx5b31 # Manda ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows—and honestly that was the truth! > > — Manda My partner and I are so glad we decided to elope and use The Elopement Collective. On our special day Josh called in the morning and checked in and Britt dropped my beautiful bouquet off. I was beyond nervous and had no idea what to expect, Josh told us that he would look after it all and we just needed our vows and honestly that was the truth! I stressed for no reason at all. Thank you so much to Josh for all the reassurance you had to give me! Your a amazing celebrant Josh and we are super glad you where recommended!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Mark — “Josh was amazing in both the…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/mark-02il4w7 # Mark ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh was amazing in both the lead up to and our wedding day. His unique fun style put our guests at ease and set the tone for a wonderful ceremony. > > — Mark Josh was amazing in both the lead up to and our wedding day. His unique fun style put our guests at ease and set the tone for a wonderful ceremony. He made to effort to understand our relationship leading up to the day which allowed him to personalise the ceremony for us. We would highly recommend Josh if you want the perfect balance between a fun, relaxed ceremony that is still highly professional and loving! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Marnie — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/marnie-1yqoupb # Marnie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/376ebad4-7274-4c9f-bb5a-7b28602a4128/) > He was amazing! Really friendly, relaxed and professional. Mostly focused on us as a couple and made it a very personalised service. He was also our MC and was just the backbone of the day. He understood the whole day better than our venue did. > > — Marnie More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Matt — 2021 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/matt-00ti3fx # Matt ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Want a celebrant who’s down to earth, will make you smile, will calm your nerves and will make your day the day you will never forget, Josh is the celebrant for you. > > — Matt They get it. We knew what we wanted and what we didn’t want for our wedding. Want 1 photographer cool, want 75, no problem. Flowers, yep, no flowers, done. Just us, they do that, involve our friends, you got it. Write your own vowels, do it, actually I’m not going to give you another option you won’t regret it.Want to be relaxed, chilled and not stressed by planning your wedding? Brit has your back.Want a celebrant who’s down to earth, will make you smile, will calm your nerves and will make your day the day you will never forget, Josh is the celebrant for you.I’m not going to tell you to have a traditional wedding or elope, but if it’s the later, do yourself a favour and contact The Elopement Collective. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Matt — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/matt-1jq286d # Matt ★★★★★ Verified Google review > He made one of the most important (and a little bit stressful) days of my life so much more relaxed, and somehow managed to control and entertain a large crowd, all while making you feel like you and your partner were the only two people in the world. > > — Matt For my wife and I, we wanted to approach getting married in a slightly different, yet somewhat traditional manner, but our over-arching theme was to have fun.That’s when we happened across Josh, a completely down-to-earth, non-traditional guy whose over-arching theme as a celebrant was fun!He made one of the most important (and a little bit stressful) days of my life so much more relaxed, and somehow managed to control and entertain a large crowd, all while making you feel like you and your partner were the only two people in the world.I could not recommend Josh more if I tried. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Matthew — “We got married in Bali and…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/matthew-1wnucbn # Matthew ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We got married in Bali and couldn’t have asked for a better day. Josh was the best celebrant we could possible ask for. > > — Matthew We organised our wedding through Britt & Josh and the Elopement Collective. We got married in Bali and couldn’t have asked for a better day. Josh was the best celebrant we could possible ask for he was professional but also knew how to make it fun and relaxing. He made everyone smile with his antics and hand tricks but still the loving ceremony we wanted. Would highly recommend josh and the Elopement Collective for anyone wanting to get married. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Matthew & Sara — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/matthew-and-sara-03xxgmd # Matthew & Sara ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was a fantastic celebrant for Sara and I. He made the ceremony very relaxing, encouraged guests to get involved and be apart of the experience, and brought plenty of laughs for everyone involved. > > — Matthew & Sara Josh was a fantastic celebrant for Sara and I. He made the ceremony very relaxing, encouraged guests to get involved and be apart of the experience, and brought plenty of laughs for everyone involved. We were very happy that we chose Josh for our special day. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Meghan in Tuscany — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/meghan-0ieryts Tuscany # Meghan ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) > Josh married us in Tuscany this summer! He’s so warm, calm and kind. He has a passion for love that really shines through him. > > — Meghan Josh married us in Tuscany this summer! He’s so warm, calm and kind. He has a passion for love that really shines through him. He made our ceremony so beautiful and we are forever grateful. Where we celebrated ## Tuscany More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Meika & Ryan — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/meika-and-ryan-1vue9at # Meika & Ryan ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/112143/) > We're so lucky to have had Josh as part of our wedding day. Josh somehow managed to bring together all our crazy ideas and relationship quirks and turn them into a seamless wedding ceremony that suited us perfectly. We really cannot recommend Josh highly enough - he's just awesome! > > — Meika & Ryan More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Melissa — “My husband and I wanted a…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/melissa-0nwtfel # Melissa ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > My husband and I wanted a ceremony that was going to be relaxed and unique and that is exactly what we got. > > — Melissa There truely is not a bad thing I could say about Josh! My husband and I wanted a ceremony that was going to be relaxed and unique and that is exactly what we got. Our guests laughed and cheered their way through our whole ceremony and I lost count how many times he got mentioned later that night! Everything was absolutely perfect! If you are looking for someone who will make your day an absolute blast this is the guy you want!! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Melissa — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/melissa-0vg5z8n # Melissa ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/aba6a0ef-83ca-4d32-86fe-297b64c79540/) > Josh was excellent. He was so awesome, so funny. He was so relaxed and did a really good job. He made it fun! > > — Melissa More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Michael — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/michael-020j1es # Michael ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/c60043f7-fdbc-42db-944e-d2c6a78c962a/) > Fun and exciting celebrant. Creates a very upbeat mood for your ceremony. > > — Michael More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Mikaela — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/mikaela-1qpuitk # Mikaela ★★★★★ Verified Google review · [Also published on Easy Weddings](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/2dc7ceaf-c432-4cde-8718-9636015e0261/) > It was the most perfect day and we cannot stop talking about it, and neither can our families. > > — Mikaela We were married in a small, intimate elopement ceremony with 16 of our family members. Josh, our celebrant, was fantastic, passionate and demonstrate a deep commitment to ensuring we had the perfect moment to celebrate us. His support came from the first phone call, where he provided us with fabulous advice, to the actual day where he gave a beautiful speech about love and marriage and moved aside at various moments throughout the ceremony to allow us to have our moment together, and make it so beautiful and personal. It was the most perfect day and we cannot stop talking about it, and neither can our families. We now have beautiful memories that will last us a lifetime and we owe that to Josh, Britt the team at the Elopement Collective. Thank you x More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Molly & Josh in Murwillumbah, Northern Rivers, New South Wales — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/molly-and-josh-1nz0nkd Murwillumbah, Northern Rivers, New South Wales # Molly & Josh [Verified Facebook review](https://www.facebook.com/withersweddings/reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Gold Coast wedding celebrant](/gold-coast-celebrant) > Full of fun but professional, love and care, making your day everything you feel it should be. > > — Molly & Josh Josh is the best kind of celebrant! Full of fun but professional, love and care, making your day everything you feel it should be. We loved our short, sweet, fun + full of love ceremony through Josh. Looking back, we wouldn’t change a thing! We are so glad that we found you through socials. Our day wouldn’t have been what it was without you. Josh went out of his way, taking a few extra photos of us + the set up here and there and recording the whole ceremony for our own memories or to share! That is just above and beyond! Thanks for everything Josh! You really are the best. Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Planner The Elopement Collective Where we celebrated ## Murwillumbah, Northern Rivers, New South Wales More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ Aura & Jacob Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) - [ ★★★★★ Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) - [ Rowena & Peter Surfers Paradise · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rowena-and-peter-0qxd3m9) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Monique — 2019 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/monique-01jzz47 # Monique ★★★★★ Verified Google review > We are still beaming from our perfect little ceremony! We didn't need to discuss particulars or rehearse anything because Josh just got it and delivered. > > — Monique Is there an option for more than 5 stars? We can’t recommend Josh & The Elopement Collective enough. We are still beaming from our perfect little ceremony! We didn’t need to discuss particulars or rehearse anything because Josh just got it and delivered. Our ceremony was short and sweet and as simple as a bunch of laughs and a whole lotta love. No fuss and lots of fun. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Natalie — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/natalie-0oqgdj1 # Natalie ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/6a3ae0ce-9638-4163-ad43-12039285bde0/) > Not your regular boring stuffy celebrant! Helped us feel completely relaxed during the ceremony. > > — Natalie More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Natalie — 2021 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/natalie-1it4oin # Natalie ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Get yourself a celebrant who makes you genuinely smile, laugh, and enjoy every moment of your ceremony. > > — Natalie Get yourself a celebrant who makes you genuinely smile, laugh, and enjoy every moment of your ceremony. Who speaks freely and sincerely about the value of a marriage and delivers the perfect amount of sentiment and lighthearted humour to your day. Bonus points if they’re willing to double as an impromptu babysitter for your 2 energetic mini humans while you’re off getting photos and still be smiling when you get back… Josh did exactly that and we’re so happy we were able to have him as our celebrant. He made us both feel so comfortable on the day, was so easy to communicate with and ensured all of the legalities were handled. We could not recommend him more highly. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Nicole — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al # Nicole ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/188163/) > Josh did an amazing job with our ceremony - his enthusiasm and personality made for an excellent experience I look back on with nothing but smiles. Josh isn't like any other celebrant we've seen, we highly recommend him for your big day! > > — Nicole More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Nicole — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1xudsek # Nicole ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > The words he spoke and the ceremony he created were absolutely perfect for us. It was so great how he got all of our loved ones engaged. Josh made us both feel comfortable and able to be our casual selves. > > — Nicole Including Josh in our wedding was the best decision ever! Right from the first personalized video message he sent us, we knew he was the celebrant for us! The words he spoke and the ceremony he created were absolutely perfect for us. It was so great how he got all of our loved ones engaged. Josh made us both feel comfortable and able to be our casual selves. There was no need to be super formal which we have seen in so many other ceremonies. We really appreciate the laidback nature of everything while still being able to emphasize the importance of marriage. He is the absolute best and awesome at what he does! We would recommend him to anyone wanting the best ceremony they can get! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Nikolai in Huon Valley, Tasmania — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/nikolai-0hc9v7v Huon Valley, Tasmania # Nikolai ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Huon Valley wedding celebrant](/huon-valley-celebrant)[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > Josh our celebrant helped us to create our perfect Wedding Ceremony in the Huon Valley in Tasmania, Australia. > > — Nikolai Josh our celebrant helped us to create our perfect Wedding Ceremony in the Huon Valley in Tasmania, Australia. He was so easy to work, made everything as easy as possible for us, and was able to incorporate all of our ideas. Where we celebrated ## Huon Valley, Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Paige — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/paige-04r17ds # Paige ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/153866/) > Josh is a very helpful celebrant, he will help you with any questions you have. He will go beyond to make your day as unique as you yourself and your partner are! Funny young & all-round talented. > > — Paige More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Patrick — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/patrick-1yehdfj # Patrick ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Thank you so much Josh for marrying us! It was an amazing event and we couldn't have done it without you. > > — Patrick More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Paulina — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/paulina-03ujeds # Paulina ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was an amazing celebrant for our multicultural wedding and made everything feel easy and personal. > > — Paulina Josh was an amazing celebrant for our multicultural wedding and made everything feel easy and personal. As a bride with English as a second language, I felt really supported and understood. The ceremony was warm, natural, and truly “us.” We’re so grateful and highly recommend him 🤍 More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Petra — 2018 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0 # Petra ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Josh really took the time to get to know us and our story and used that info to create a ceremony that suited us perfectly. > > — Petra This guy! It was important to us that our ceremony be meaningful but super chill to match our non-traditional vibe, and we knew within minutes of meeting Josh that he was the guy for us. Josh really took the time to get to know us and our story and used that info to create a ceremony that suited us perfectly. He helped create a super relaxed vibe that cut the awkwardness of declaring our love to each other in front of our closest family and friends. It hard to give this guy the accurate description that he deserves, but he is truly brilliant and we are so grateful for his contribution to our special day. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Phillip in Freycinet, Tasmania — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/phillip-17g3ow2 Freycinet, Tasmania # Phillip ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > Josh recently married us in Freycinet and we couldn't have asked for a celebrant more suited to us. > > — Phillip Josh recently married us in Freycinet and we couldn’t have asked for a celebrant more suited to us. If you want someone who is relaxed, friendly and supportive, yet knowledgeable and professional, make sure you send Josh a message. His local knowledge was invaluable in helping us organise an elopment at a location we had never been to. Helping to organise our dream ceremony in Tasmania all from QLD, only flying interstate 2 days prior. Where we celebrated ## Freycinet, Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Phoebe at Montalto — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/phoebe-0n0dyoz Montalto · Red Hill South, Mornington Peninsula, Victoria # Phoebe ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Melbourne wedding celebrant](/melbourne-celebrant) > Josh made our intimate wedding ceremony at Montalto absolutely unforgettable, guiding the ceremony flawlessly and making everything effortless and personal. > > — Phoebe Josh made our intimate wedding ceremony at Montalto absolutely unforgettable, guiding the ceremony flawlessly and making everything effortless and personal. Our guests were blown away by the beautiful ceremony. If you want a magical, stress-free, and truly heartfelt wedding ceremony, Josh is the one! Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Montalto Where we celebrated ## Montalto Red Hill South, Mornington Peninsula, Victoria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Madalyn Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/madalyn-0pqt2pr) - [ ★★★★★ Shane & Matylda House At Smoko · Victorian High Country · Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/shane-and-matylda-0iw2lqi) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rachel — “The ceremony he created was so…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rachel-0csfgaj # Rachel ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > The ceremony he created was so full of heart and so authentic. He made us both feel so calm and at ease with his presence. > > — Rachel Josh is a legend. From the moment we met with Josh we knew he was the guy for our special day. The ceremony he created was so full of heart and so authentic. He made us both feel so calm and at ease with his presence. We loved the atmosphere he created and our guests all said it was the best wedding ceremony they have ever witnessed. We definitely agree More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rebecca — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-05p96gz # Rebecca ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/7a62fdfe-2da3-4194-811b-315507fcbc26/) > Josh delivered such a fun ceremony and was so easy to work with in the planning stages, highly recommended! > > — Rebecca More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rebecca — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-0q2vpoh # Rebecca ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/145257/) > If you want different this is your man! Young, funny, modern > > — Rebecca More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Remy in Umbria — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/remy-02ac5da Umbria # Remy ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) > Josh struck the perfect tone — relaxed, heartfelt and real. > > — Remy We were fortunate enough to have Josh marry us at our elopement in Umbria, Italy.In the lead up to the elopement, Josh’s communication was clear and prompt, and his warm personality really put us at ease.On the day, Josh struck the perfect tone - relaxed, heartfelt and real. If you’re looking for a celebrant who gets you, who listens, and who brings a wonderful energy to your ceremony - look no further, Josh is your guy!Thank you again, Josh, for making our day so special ☺️ Where we celebrated ## Umbria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Renee — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/renee-0t2ka3l # Renee ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/173290/) > Josh assisted in providing the relaxed vibe we were after for our wedding day. He was relaxed, allowed us to be quite creative with our vows, while also being professional. I will be recommending him to our friends. > > — Renee More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rhiannon — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rhiannon-1iwzqrg # Rhiannon ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was exactly what we wanted in a celebrant, and more! He was relaxed, organised and thoughtful. > > — Rhiannon There are so many things I could say about our experience but it’s all been said before.Josh was exactly what we wanted in a celebrant, and more! He was relaxed, organised and thoughtful.He listened to what we wanted from our ceremony and delivered 10 fold. No fluff, no fuss. We laughed, we cried, we got married!10/10 we cannot recommend Josh enough! 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rob & Rachel in Sydney, New South Wales — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz Sydney, New South Wales # Rob & Rachel [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Sydney wedding celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) > We simply couldn’t imagine a better person that we wanted to involve in our day as a celebrant. > > — Rob & Rachel Now that the dust has settled on the wedding, honeymoon, move to Brisbane and new jobs, Rach and I wanted to write to you to express our sincerest thanks for making our ceremony unforgettable. We simply couldn’t imagine a better person that we wanted to involve in our day as a celebrant. In particular, we loved how you supported us the whole way through the process — including coming down to meet us in Sydney and then being at the venue the day before. I’m sure you know better than most that the whole experience can be a little daunting but your presence made us both feel really comfortable and confident in what we were doing. Also, your guidance, both in person and through your website, helped us make the ceremony, including our vows, really personal and unique to us. On the day, we really appreciated how you managed to make the ceremony light-hearted and fun and how you really engaged the crowd so that everyone was having a good time. I know that I threw you for a loop with the vows — I still don’t know what I was thinking to change the plan in the middle of the vows — so we really appreciated how you took it all in good stride and good humour. As for the handing over of rings, well, we won’t talk about that! Just kidding, we are so glad it happened as it made for a good laugh. It’s amazing how all the things that you worry might go wrong end up being the best part! We hope to see you around Brisvegas some time soon. Where we celebrated ## Sydney, New South Wales More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Sarah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/sarah-19ms1lm) - [ ★★★★★ Samantha Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [ Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rochelle — 2016 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rochelle-08rocvt # Rochelle ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/2d5b8be3-b770-4df2-84cf-d8d4c9e84d70/) > excellent > > — Rochelle More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rowena & Peter in Surfers Paradise, Gold Coast, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rowena-and-peter-0qxd3m9 Surfers Paradise, Gold Coast, Queensland # Rowena & Peter [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Gold Coast wedding celebrant](/gold-coast-celebrant) > Josh is one of the most personal and enthusiastic people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. > > — Rowena & Peter Maybe I’m a little bit crazy, maybe I’m a genius, but I recommended Josh to a friend of mine before we even had our ceremony. After Peter and I got married, I knew that I wasn’t just recommending him for no reason. Josh is one of the most personal and enthusiastic people that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. He exudes happiness and it’s so obvious that he is passionate about bringing people together. Josh is a true storyteller. You should let Josh tell your love story. I promise you won’t regret it. Where we celebrated ## Surfers Paradise, Gold Coast, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ Aura & Jacob Heartwood Cabin · Springbrook · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/aura-and-jacob-10youdo) - [ Molly & Josh Murwillumbah · Northern Rivers · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/molly-and-josh-1nz0nkd) - [ ★★★★★ Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin · Gold Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Rowlers — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/rowlers-0dzguwi # Rowlers ★★★★★ Verified Google review > He was very professional and made us feel so relaxed at the same time. > > — Rowlers So happy with our experience with Josh! He was very professional and made us feel so relaxed at the same time. We are so glad we chose Josh to be our celebrant and couldn’t recommend him highly enough. Thank you! 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Roy & Mariya in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/roy-and-mariya-1aed8gn Brisbane, Queensland # Roy & Mariya [Verified Australian Marriage Celebrants review](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > Our wedding ceremony was a true reflection of us and how we roll, and we can’t thank you enough for being you. > > — Roy & Mariya We’ve never been to a wedding as amazing as ours! Josh, you are a legend and that’s really all there is to say. However, it’s hardly a testimonial. You ticked all our boxes and more. You were far from stuffy, boring and smelling of moth balls. You totally got us by delivering a ceremony that was different, even though we couldn’t exactly articulate to you what that meant. You delicately mixed humour with the serious side of getting hitched. We loved your beautiful unscripted words — those that made us feel warm and fuzzy, and those that made us all laugh. Our wedding ceremony was a true reflection of us and how we roll, and we can’t thank you enough for being you. Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ William Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Roz — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/roz-0ovxbr0 # Roz ★★★★★ Verified Google review > To say he was perfect is an understatement! He MC'd for us too and we still tell the jokes he said at the reception. > > — Roz Josh married us. To say he was perfect is an understatement! He MC’d for us too and we still tell the jokes he said at the reception.He matched our vibe we wanted, he joked along with us - and when we forgot a part of the ceremony he switched on the fly (we left our butterfly release in the room - and Josh made it so they could be gotten and released in our photos instead).Seriously cannot recommend him enough! 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Samantha in Sydney, New South Wales — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu Sydney, New South Wales # Samantha ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Sydney wedding celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) > It was truly the best day of our lives. I couldn't have imagined a more beautiful location or day. > > — Samantha We had Josh as our celebrant at our Sydney elopement. It was truly the best day of our lives. I couldn’t have imagined a more beautiful location or day. Thank you so much for being apart of our day, Josh. Where we celebrated ## Sydney, New South Wales More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Sarah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/sarah-19ms1lm) - [ Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c) - [ Rob & Rachel Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Samuel & Amelia — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/samuel-and-amelia-0ir83p9 # Samuel & Amelia ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was a fantastic person to work with and made our wedding such a memorable experience. > > — Samuel & Amelia Josh was a fantastic person to work with and made our wedding such a memorable experience. Our friends and family thought Josh was a work colleague or outside friend because of the relatable way he spoke with us and the sense of calm he provided on our wedding day. Before the wedding, Josh was organised, transparent and explained the concept of marriage in an accessible manner. He also offered us space before we made our final decisions regarding the explicit details of the wedding. More importantly, he’s just a lovely guy. We highly recommend getting in touch with Josh for your upcoming wedding! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Sara — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/sara-15xjnwt # Sara ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/c07b05eb-7850-4ac3-8d9b-b027ea120946/) > Josh was absolutely AMAZING. While our ceremony felt like it was made just for us and that we were the only ones there, but our guests also said they enjoyed our ceremony more than any previous family weddings, no stuffiness and long winded meanings of marragies here! > > — Sara Josh was absolutely AMAZING. While our ceremony felt like it was made just for us and that we were the only ones there, but our guests also said they enjoyed our ceremony more than any previous family weddings, no stuffiness and long winded meanings of marragies here! I wouldn’t even continue looking for a celebrant after you found Josh just give him a call, message, email, skype or contact him on social media he is everywhere!!! Big Love to you Josh for making our moment perfect. 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[Check my availability](/contact) --- # Sarah in Sydney, New South Wales — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/sarah-19ms1lm Sydney, New South Wales # Sarah ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Sydney wedding celebrant](/sydney-celebrant) > He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after. > > — Sarah Josh was the perfect celebrant for our Elopment.He kept it light, fun, short & sweet yet meaningful which is exactly what we were after. Everything he said had meaning and we appreciate him coming all the way to Sydney! 100% recommend! Where we celebrated ## Sydney, New South Wales More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Samantha Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [ Ben & Leah Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-leah-0o8n90c) - [ Rob & Rachel Sydney · New South Wales Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/rob-and-rachel-0a2eafz) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Sarah — “We eloped a few weeks ago…” Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/sarah-1une8a0 # Sarah ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We eloped a few weeks ago and it was perfect. Josh was fun, charming and helped us to get married exactly the way we wanted to. > > — Sarah Josh is just the best. We eloped a few weeks ago and it was perfect. Josh was fun, charming and helped us to get married exactly the way we wanted to. We had the best day thanks to him and everyone in his fabulous team. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Sascha & Jitesh — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/sascha-and-jitesh-10gd875 # Sascha & Jitesh ★★★★★ Verified Google review > You brought such warmth, ease and meaning to the moment and it really set the tone for the day. > > — Sascha & Jitesh A big thank you to Josh for being such an important part of our ceremony. We truly couldn’t have imagined a better celebrant. You brought such warmth, ease and meaning to the moment and it really set the tone for the day. We had an amazing time and feel so grateful to have Josh marry us. Thank you to Britt for a seamless experience and making our day such a memorable and special experience. — Sascha & Jitesh More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Scott — 2019 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/scott-0d3v82o # Scott ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > He's like an awesome ally in keeping you stress free and focussed on what's important—you and the person you're marrying. > > — Scott Josh was our celebrant for our wedding in January.. To all of you lucky folk that are in the thick of planning a wedding, you know how stressful it can be.. That’s where Josh comes in, he’s the ace up your sleeve both on the day and leading up to it. (which we learned isn’t always the rule for all suppliers!) We were in Sydney and despite being based in Qld, Josh was always super available for us and eased any worries we had. He’s like an awesome ally in keeping you stress free and focussed on what’s important - you and the person you’re marrying. That’s because for Josh, it’s about you two, not all the noise that can sometimes come along with a wedding. And it’s kind of the best to have someone like that around (especially if you’re a perfectionist stress head like my now wife and I). We’re super grateful we had Josh marry us and can’t recommend him enough! Thanks again mate More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Scott in Huon Valley, Tasmania — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv Huon Valley, Tasmania # Scott ★★★★★ [Verified Google review](https://g.page/r/CX9aVPZSbkpzEAI) Planning a wedding nearby?[Huon Valley wedding celebrant](/huon-valley-celebrant)[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) > The best celebrant in the Huon Valley. > > — Scott Where we celebrated ## Huon Valley, Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Nikolai Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/nikolai-0hc9v7v) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton · Derwent Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Scott & Rebecca in Canberra, Australian Capital Territory — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/scott-and-rebecca-192y7bm Canberra, Australian Capital Territory # Scott & Rebecca ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/153601/) · [Also published on Australian Marriage Celebrants](https://marriagecelebrants.org.au/celebrant/joshua/#reviews) Planning a wedding nearby?[Canberra wedding celebrant](/canberra-celebrant) > Three words! AMAZING, AMAZING, AMAZING! Josh will not only marry you to the love of your life, he will also put you completely at ease, make the entire experience easy, simple and fun and most importantly help hold your veil down when the wind attacks! > > — Scott & Rebecca Where we celebrated ## Canberra, Australian Capital Territory More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Shane & Matylda at House At Smoko — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/shane-and-matylda-0iw2lqi House At Smoko · Victorian High Country, Victoria # Shane & Matylda ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/c2680ae4-b1bc-4a45-8f85-02c4b02625d8/) Planning a wedding nearby?[Melbourne wedding celebrant](/melbourne-celebrant) > Josh was a great laid, back, easy-going and modern celebrant- no off the book stuffy ceremony but a lot of laughter, easiness, bridal party and audience participation! > > — Shane & Matylda Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue House At Smoko - Photographer Oli Sansom Where we celebrated ## House At Smoko Victorian High Country, Victoria More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Phoebe Montalto · Red Hill South · Mornington Peninsula · Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/phoebe-0n0dyoz) - [ ★★★★★ Madalyn Victoria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/madalyn-0pqt2pr) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Shannon — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/shannon-1s7hzjr # Shannon ★★★★★ Verified Google review > We couldn't have asked for a more perfect marriage celebrant than Josh! > > — Shannon We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect marriage celebrant than Josh! From the very first meeting, he brought such warmth, professionalism, and a genuine enthusiasm for what he does. It was immediately clear that Josh truly cares about making each ceremony unique and deeply personal.He took the time to get to know us, our story, our personalities, and what mattered most to us on the day, and then crafted a ceremony that was heartfelt, meaningful, and completely “us.” It felt like we were being married by a close friend who understood exactly what we wanted to say and feel in that moment.So many of our guests told us it was one of the most beautiful and memorable ceremonies they’d ever witnessed. Josh struck the perfect balance between emotional, romantic, and light-hearted, making everyone feel connected and included.Throughout the entire process, Josh was a calming and supportive presence. He guided us with clarity and kindness, answered all our questions, and made what could have been a stressful experience feel joyful and effortless.We are so grateful to have had Josh as our celebrant. If you’re looking for someone who will go above and beyond to make your wedding ceremony truly unforgettable, Josh is your person. We couldn’t recommend him more highly! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Sharon & Jason — 2026 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/sharon-and-jason-1lsrp7r # Sharon & Jason ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Josh was the perfect marriage celebrant for us. > > — Sharon & Jason Josh was the perfect marriage celebrant for us. We wanted a simple, uncomplicated, stress free experience. From the moment we met Josh and explained what we were hoping for on our day, we felt confident that we had chosen the right person to join us in marriage.Josh has such a warm and caring energy with a great sense of humour. We understand why he is one of the best in the business. Thank you again Josh. Cheers Sharon and Jason Best More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Shorey — 2013 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/shorey-1v063ve # Shorey ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Nothing was normal, and that was the way we liked it. Josh questioned the traditions that we talked about and made us realise we were only doing them because we had seen it before. > > — Shorey Josh married my wife and I 10 years ago. I know you might be thinking, why wait 10 years to write a review. Firstly, I like to really test things before I write any review, that way you know I have given it every chance to be bad. And secondly, even now when I think of the day there isn’t anything I would change. That is a big help to Josh. Nothing was normal, and that was the way we liked it. Josh questioned the traditions that we talked about and made us realise we were only doing them because we had seen it before. Not because we actually wanted it. Josh and Britt were professional and communicated well and all that other stuff you want. But they were different! which is why we liked them and why our wedding has stood out as being unique from the rest. So after 10 good years, thank you Josh! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Skyler — 2024 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/skyler-0j5wxs4 # Skyler ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) > Josh married us in Italy this July, and he was amazing! From the start, he had such a warm and genuine vibe that made the whole ceremony feel super special. > > — Skyler Josh married us in Italy this July, and he was amazing! From the start, he had such a warm and genuine vibe that made the whole ceremony feel super special. He spoke from the heart and made everything so beautiful. We’re so grateful for the experience and would definitely recommend Josh to anyone! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Stacey — 2014 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/stacey-060zoy5 # Stacey ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/172512/) > No other celebrant is nearly as good as Josh. Young, funny and a great guy! > > — Stacey More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Steve & Bec at Derwent Estate Wines — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4 Derwent Estate Wines · Granton, Derwent Valley, Tasmania # Steve & Bec ★★★★★ Planning a wedding nearby?[Hobart wedding celebrant](/hobart-celebrant)[Tasmanian wedding celebrant](/tasmanian-celebrant) ![Steve and Bec at their Derwent Estate Wines wedding](/_astro/becsteve-19.BqKvWHzo_ZO8aLa.jpeg) Photo by [Katie Palmer](https://www.katiepalmerphotography.com.au) > Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands. > > — Steve & Bec From our first meeting, it was clear that we were dealing with someone who is a complete professional, yet incredibly compassionate and funny. Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands. On the day, his calm presence was exactly what we needed to stay grounded and actually enjoy the moment. What truly sets Josh apart is his delivery—he doesn’t read from notes or an iPad, which made the ceremony feel incredibly authentic and personal. He was so engaging to our guests and managed the energy of the event perfectly, throwing in a little humour at just the right times when emotions were getting the best of us. He kept us calm throughout while still making the big moments feel truly significant. Josh also did an amazing job as our reception MC, keeping the momentum going and the atmosphere high all night long. We cannot recommend him enough. Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - Venue Derwent Estate Wines - [ ![Katie Palmer Hobart Wedding Photographer](/_astro/katiepalmer.p9LdVY-i_ZTBVHL.jpeg) Photographer Katie Palmer Website@katiepalmerphotography ](/wedding-vendors/katie-palmer) - [ ![Tyler Hudson Hobart Wedding Musician in Tasmania](/_astro/tylerhudson.CUwipxQR_ZpD018.jpeg) Music Tyler Hudson Website@tylerhudsonmusic ](/wedding-vendors/tyler-hudson) Where we celebrated ## Derwent Estate Wines Granton, Derwent Valley, Tasmania More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Brea Battery Point · Hobart · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/brea-082ni4u) - [ ★★★★★ Kimi Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/kimi-1ii5ygc) - [ ★★★★★ Scott Huon Valley · Tasmania Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # T_ — 2026 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/t-1xefja6 # T\_ ★★★★★ Verified Google review > He was friendly, genuine and responsive, making the whole experience feel calm and intentional. > > — T\_ Josh was the celebrant at our elopement in January, and we couldn’t be happier. He was friendly, genuine and responsive, making the whole experience feel calm and intentional. As a result our ceremony was brief but intimate. It didn’t feel rehearsed or like a production: our vows stole the show (which I think is the whole point!). We wouldn’t change a thing about our experience with Josh. Our day was magic. Thank you, Josh. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tahlia — “We wanted a small, fun, fuss…” Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/tahlia-06d2x1s # Tahlia ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > We wanted a small, fun, fuss free marriage and help to pull off a big surprise and we got all of that! > > — Tahlia Dave and I cannot thank Josh enough for what he did on our special day. We wanted a small, fun, fuss free marriage and help to pull off a big surprise and we got all of that! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tayla in Tuscany — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/tayla-0c8eylu Tuscany # Tayla ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) > You are an incredible wordsmith, are passionate and genuinely love what you do. You felt like an old friend. > > — Tayla We were lucky enough to have Josh and the Elopement Collective team marry us in Tuscany. Josh, you are an incredible wordsmith, are passionate and genuinely love what you do. You felt like an old friend, creating a relaxed and comfortable environment that we will forever be grateful for. We couldn’t think of anyone better to marry us & can’t recommend Josh and the Elopement Collective team enough in creating a magical day. Where we celebrated ## Tuscany More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Teresa — 2018 Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/teresa-1mhwzlk # Teresa ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > It's a fine art to have presence, capture the emotion of the moment with the right words and respectfully achieve this without being intrusive. > > — Teresa It’s a fine art to have presence, capture the emotion of the moment with the right words and respectfully achieve this without being intrusive; especially when the moment is personal and intimate. There were only 4 people at our elopement; 2 of them were our children. Thank you Josh and Luke for a beautiful ceremony, for the words you spoke and for being caring and accommodating with our girls. It was a beautiful ceremony and now, a lovely memory to cherish. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Theresa — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/theresa-0qu870b # Theresa ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > Made planning the ceremony just so easy. Everything worked out perfectly at our venue too. > > — Theresa Josh was really great! We had to plan the whole event from the US so working with Josh virtually really was easy. We were able to Skype with him to go over the details and get to know each other. Once we arrived in Brisbane we caught up personally and went over the details again. It really worked out so well. Josh is wonderful and good fun too. Made planning the ceremony just so easy. Everything worked out perfectly at our venue too. His video taping was excellent too. You just cannot go wrong including Josh in your special event. More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tiegan & Michael at Mandrakia Beach, Milos — Elopement Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb Mandrakia Beach, Milos # Tiegan & Michael ★★★★★ [Verified Google review](https://www.google.com/maps/contrib/115387959866864207545/reviews?hl=en-GB) Planning a wedding nearby?[Europe destination wedding celebrant](/europe) Portraits at [Sarakiniko Beach, Milos](/here/sarakiniko-milos) ![Josh Withers officiating Tiegan and Michael’s waterfront elopement ceremony in Mandrakia, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-13.DDn5wyh9_24coiq.jpeg) Photo by [Jason Corroto](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com/) > He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural. > > — Tiegan & Michael We didn’t actually meet Josh in person until the day of our wedding, but you honestly would never have known it. From the second we met him, he was so warm, calm and easygoing that we immediately felt completely comfortable around him. He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural. Nothing felt awkward, overly formal or rehearsed — it genuinely felt like we had someone up there with us who just got us. Our ceremony was beautiful, personal and heartfelt, but still had those little moments of fun and laughter that made it feel completely like us. Josh wasn’t just there to perform the ceremony and leave — he embraced the moment, celebrated with us and felt like part of the day. For someone we had never met face-to-face before our wedding, it was pretty incredible how instantly comfortable and at ease he made us feel. Josh, thank you for being such a calm, genuine and bloody good presence on such an important day for us. We couldn’t have asked for a better person to marry us in Greece. 🤍 We would recommend you in a heartbeat! Their Milos elopement ## Mandrakia to Sarakiniko ![Tiegan and Michael exchanging vows beside the Aegean Sea in Mandrakia, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_ZMhAhB.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael kissing beside the colourful fishermen’s boathouses in Mandrakia, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-17.IWYn5S9A_290qbb.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael together on the rocky coastline at Sarakiniko, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-milos-portraits-23.Csij3i7m_o8F2Y.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael’s wedding clothes and veil draped over volcanic rock at Sarakiniko, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-milos-portraits-24.nAKQro8Y_1D164q.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael walking hand in hand across the rocky coast at Sarakiniko, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-milos-portraits-25.CdcABVUd_1hXIc7.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael standing against the white volcanic landscape at Sarakiniko Beach, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-sarakiniko-portraits-33.D19wBdhu_xAAdp.jpeg) ![Tiegan and Michael walking beside the Aegean Sea at Sarakiniko Beach, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-sarakiniko-portraits-35.DIl7dGoi_1D65ap.jpeg) Wedding Team ## The incredible people who made it happen Every wedding is a team effort. Shout-out to the vendors who helped bring this ceremony to life. - [ ![Mandrakia Beach, Milos](/_astro/tiegan-michael-mandrakia-elopement-16.DhTAgmSF_27HIVl.jpeg) Venue Mandrakia Beach, Milos ](/here/mandrakia-beach-milos) - [ ![Wedding photographer Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Photographer Jason Corroto Website@jasoncorrotophoto ](/wedding-vendors/jason-corroto) - [ Hair & Makeup Amanda Claire Makeup & Hair Website@amandaclairemua ](/wedding-vendors/amanda-claire) - [ ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Planner The Elopement Collective Website@elopementcollective ](/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective) Where we celebrated ## Mandrakia Beach, Milos More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [ ★★★★★ Hannah Tuscany Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-1cduvjx) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tom — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/tom-1o7br1t # Tom ★★★★★ Verified Facebook review > The ceremony was exactly what we wanted, short, engaging and fun. His idea to have some light background music was absolutely perfect. > > — Tom We could not ask for a better ceremony than Josh gave us. From the moment the guests started seating he had them interested and entertained. He kept the ceremony fun the whole way through. The ceremony was exactly what we wanted, short, engaging and fun. His idea to have some light background music was absolutely perfect. If you want to have a ceremony you will remember for being fun and enjoyable for all Josh is the celebrant for you. Thank you so much Josh for helping make our wedding day perfect! More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tracey — 2025 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/tracey-134agk0 # Tracey ★★★★★ Verified Google review > Lovely day. Joshua made it even better — very relaxed and hassle free. We will forever remember how Joshua did our wedding. Loved it. > > — Tracey More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Vanessa — 2017 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/vanessa-1lnxz13 # Vanessa ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/fcb611df-1049-4fe0-b8c6-0142f1e4947a/) > Josh was great. He was quick with his response from our first enquiry and very upbeat, unlike some of the other celebrants we came across. We received such positive feedback from our guests. > > — Vanessa More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Vicki — 2015 Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/vicki-0uu11zp # Vicki ★★★★★ [Verified Easy Weddings review](https://www.easyweddings.com.au/reviews/user/149662/) > Josh was by far the most professional and best vendor dealt with over the whole 2years of planning. He went above & beyond to ensure we had a relaxed and special day. He made everyone feel at ease. There's not enough stars to rate him 101/100! > > — Vicki More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ ★★★★★ Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ ★★★★★ Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide · Umbria Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # William in Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Testimonial URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-testimonials/william-1efai8n Brisbane, Queensland # William ★★★★★ Verified Google review Planning a wedding nearby?[Brisbane wedding celebrant](/brisbane-celebrant) > If you really do want someone that cares for you and your experience as much as you do, then Josh is the person you need. > > — William Absolutely the best - you should stop reading this right now, go to his website and involve Josh in your ceremony. He even comes up in the top few results if you Google “Best Celebrant Brisbane” - exactly…now how can you refuse!!Sarah and I were looking for someone that not only could deliver a very traditional event to the both of us and our families, but could also just add that little something to it to make it our own. We knew we had found the right person when we met the first time. Very welcoming.Josh is professional and polished. He can even pull off a wooden-looking bow tie. What else do you want!!The admin pieces of the experience are seamless and Josh is always available and always answers emails etc if you need to know or discuss anything. Very easy and stress-free.On a serious note, if you really do want someone that cares for you and your experience as much as you do, then Josh is the person you need at your service - it is that simple. Where we celebrated ## Brisbane, Queensland More wedding stories ## Kind words from other couples [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [ ★★★★★ Ellysha & Charlie Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/ellysha-and-charlie-1fps50p) - [ Amanda & Anthony Silent Hope House · Bald Knob · Sunshine Coast · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) - [ ★★★★★ Liliana Brisbane · Queensland Read their wedding testimonial ](/wedding-testimonials/liliana-10hp3t7) [All wedding testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) ## Want a ceremony like this one? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # How to make a wedding day timeline URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-timeline Jun 29, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # How to make a wedding day timeline Timing a wedding is like cooking a steak – too short and it’s raw, too long and it’s tough. You want it just right so everyone leaves with a big smile. ![How to make a wedding day timeline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney_wedding_celebrant_kN6IFztuE?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) **[↘️ Just looking for a sample timeline?](#sample-timeline)** Planning your wedding day timeline feels like one of those “Goldilocks” tasks: you don’t want it too short, you don’t want it dragging on forever. You want it just right. And here’s the thing: there’s no perfect length for every wedding. But there are some solid guidelines that can help you plan a day that feels full, smooth, and stress-free. ## How long should a wedding be? Most weddings (from ceremony start to reception end) run about **6–8 hours**. For example: - 3:00pm ceremony - 3:30–4:00pm ceremony finished - Photos + canapés - 5pm sunset - 5:30pm reception kick-off - 10:00pm wrap up But you’ve got flexibility. Some couples have a **5-hour cocktail-style reception**, others go for an **8-hour dinner and dance marathon**. It depends on what you value: a shorter celebration can feel intimate and lively, while a longer one allows for a more relaxed pace. ## Ceremony timing: Is 15 minutes too short? Not at all. A **18–25 minute ceremony** is normal for many civil weddings (and it keeps your guests’ bums from going numb). Religious or cultural ceremonies can go **30–60 minutes**, which is fine if that’s meaningful for you. Aim to **keep ceremonies under 25 minutes** unless you’ve got a good reason. It helps avoid your grandpa falling asleep and your guests scrolling on Instagram. ## Reception length: Is 4 or 5 hours enough? A **3-hour reception** can work if you’re keeping it simple: a meal, a toast or two, and a bit of dancing. But it might feel rushed if you want all the formalities. **4–5 hours is the sweet spot** for most couples: enough time for canapés, dinner, speeches, and dancing without dragging on. It’s not about the number; it’s about **pacing**. A well-timed 5-hour wedding will feel better than an 8-hour wedding that has guests waiting around for hours between events. ## Day-of timeline tips: The “30/5 minute rule” Stuff takes longer on your wedding day. Tasks that take **5 minutes normally can take 30** on the day with people stopping you for a hug or a quick chat. Build in padding: - Add **30 min buffer** for getting ready. - Add **5–10 min buffer** before the ceremony. - Expect delays with speeches or family photos. This buffer helps you breathe and keeps you from feeling rushed. ## Getting ready: Timing matters “How many hours before the ceremony should the bride be ready?” Aim for **hair and makeup to be done 1 hour before the ceremony**. So if your ceremony is at 3pm, aim to be ready by 2pm. You’ll want photos, travel time, and a few quiet moments before walking down the aisle. “Who gets ready first, bride or bridesmaids?” **Bridesmaids usually go first.** The bride often goes last so her hair and makeup are freshest, but it’s a staggered process if you have multiple stylists. Ultimately though, talk to your hair and makeup team about what time they need to get you out the door so you are at the ceremony on time. Also, if you’re not getting hair and makeup, considering hitting up a barbershop. I did this with a friend at this wedding and it was a great part of the morning. ## Keep things moving, but don’t cram Long gaps with nothing for guests to do make weddings feel like they’re dragging. On the flip side, cramming too much leaves everyone frazzled. A typical flow might look like: - Getting Ready - Ceremony - love this part! - Canapés/Photos around Golden Hour - Dinner - Speeches - Cake - [First Dance](/wedding-songs) - Dancing It’s about **momentum, not rush**. ## After parties & curfews If you’ve only booked a venue for a **4-hour reception**, consider planning an after-party at a bar for those who want to keep going. If you’re planning an all-day event, make sure people are fed and entertained – no one wants to watch the clock hungry. ## Work with your vendors (and the sun) Your timeline isn’t made in isolation. It’s a collaboration between: - **Your [venue](/here)** (and when it opens/closes/curfews) - **Your [photographer](/friends)** (and how much time they need for their art) - **Your caterer** (and when food needs to be served) - **The sun** (sunset times are non-negotiable for golden hour photos) As your celebrant I can also help you understand how long ceremonies and transitions usually take. I see the flow of weddings every weekend. --- **TL;DR** ## Sample spring/autumn/winter wedding timeline - **2.5 hours before sunset** – Guests arrive - **2 hours before sunset** – Ceremony - **Through the golden hour** – Drinks & canapés + photos - **Just after sunset** – Reception starts - **After meals** – Speeches & cake then dancing - **Curfew** – Farewell / optional after-party Summer weddings, aka with late sunsets, will require some timeline massaging and collaboration work from your photographer and venue for golden hour. Some regions will experience sunsets at 9 or 10pm, so that of course changes things up a lot and it’sworth talking to your venue, photographer, and maybe a planner to work out a custom timeline for that location. ## How to find out when sunset is? There are apps and websites, but honestly the easiest way to find out the sunset in a location is to Google it. Search for _“Sunset in City on Date”_ like _“Sunset in Melbourne on 12 October”_ and you’ve got that picotal point that the rest of your timeline will center around. ![Screenshot of Google searching for the Sunset in Melbourne on 12 October ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sunset_search_on_Google_tutorial_screenshot_fBRoStXl1?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) --- The “right” wedding length is the one that **feels right for you**. With some buffers, clear priorities, and a realistic look at your timeline, you’ll have a wedding day that flows smoothly – not too long, not too short, just right. - [wedding timeline](/tag/wedding-timeline) - [runsheet](/tag/runsheet) - [timeline](/tag/timeline) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/18-minutes) ### [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [![Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-celebrant-in-europe_Jf5zqUZ8X?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) ### [Top 10 Things You Can Cut From Your Wedding Ceremony](/things-to-cut-from-ceremony) The ceremony is the best part of the wedding, but we could afford to make some cuts. Here's my easy hit list of things to drop. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Rochelle— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rochelle-08rocvt) - [Phillip— Freycinet, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/phillip-17g3ow2) - [Jaeden— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jaeden-15x88vz) --- # Wedding Vendors I Work With — Trusted Directory URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors Wedding Vendors # The talented people I work with Every great wedding is a team effort. These are the photographers, musicians, florists, and other professionals I've had the pleasure of working alongside. Directory ## Wedding vendors 7 vendors and counting. - [ ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) The Elopement Collective Tasmania A Tasmania-based elopement team creating carefully curated, intimate celebrations across Australia and around the world. 4 weddings together ](/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective) - [ ![Wedding photographer Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Jason Corroto Sydney, New South Wales A Sydney wedding photographer available worldwide, known for candid, emotionally honest images with personality, heart and ease. 3 weddings together ](/wedding-vendors/jason-corroto) - [ Amanda Claire Makeup & Hair Gold Coast, Queensland A Gold Coast bridal hair and makeup artist offering destination services across Australia and internationally, including Europe. 1 wedding together ](/wedding-vendors/amanda-claire) - [ ![Bec Zacher of Bec Zacher Photography](/_astro/bec-zacher-photography.G6HkuArY_Z22gVqv.jpeg) Bec Zacher Photography Gold Coast, Queensland Gold Coast photographer and visual storyteller behind the photographs of Alana and Nathan’s Currumbin Rock elopement. 1 wedding together ](/wedding-vendors/bec-zacher-photography) - [ ![Katie Palmer Hobart Wedding Photographer](/_astro/katiepalmer.p9LdVY-i_ZTBVHL.jpeg) Katie Palmer Hobart, Tasmania Katie's a lovely photographer in Hobart, Tasmania, who believes the best moments aren't staged — they're felt. 1 wedding together ](/wedding-vendors/katie-palmer) - [ ![Makeup artist Shannon Hope](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/shannon-hope_J4Pt7BhQy?tr=w-64%2Ch-64%2Cf-auto) Shannon Hope Brisbane, Queensland A Brisbane-based professional makeup artist creating polished, modern bridal looks for weddings in Australia and abroad. 1 wedding together ](/wedding-vendors/shannon-hope) - [ ![Tyler Hudson Hobart Wedding Musician in Tasmania](/_astro/tylerhudson.CUwipxQR_ZpD018.jpeg) Tyler Hudson Tasmania Tyler’s a force in the music scene but also on social media as an advocate for autism. He won my heart when he played Fooies at a wedding I was MCing. 1 wedding together ](/wedding-vendors/tyler-hudson) ## Want to work together? Whether you're a couple looking for a celebrant or a vendor who wants to collaborate, let's chat. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Amanda Claire Makeup & Hair — Gold Coast, Queensland — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/amanda-claire # Amanda Claire Makeup & Hair Gold Coast, Queensland A Gold Coast bridal hair and makeup artist offering destination services across Australia and internationally, including Europe. [Website](https://amandaclaire.com.au/)[@amandaclairemua](https://instagram.com/amandaclairemua) Amanda provides bridal hair and makeup on the Gold Coast and travels for destination weddings across Australia and internationally. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Amanda Claire Makeup & Hair 1 wedding we've worked on together. - [ Hair & Makeup > "He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural." Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Bec Zacher Photography — Gold Coast, Queensland — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/bec-zacher-photography ![Bec Zacher of Bec Zacher Photography](/_astro/bec-zacher-photography.G6HkuArY_uemp3.jpeg) # Bec Zacher Photography Gold Coast, Queensland Gold Coast photographer and visual storyteller behind the photographs of Alana and Nathan’s Currumbin Rock elopement. [Website](https://beczacher.com/)[@beczacherphoto](https://instagram.com/beczacherphoto) Bec Zacher is a Gold Coast photographer and visual storyteller. She photographed Alana and Nathan’s relaxed beach elopement at Currumbin Rock. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Bec Zacher Photography 1 wedding we've worked on together. - [ Photographer > "Josh married us on the beach in Currumbin in 2021. It was absolutely perfect for us, no fluff or long drawn out speaking. The whole process of paperwork was easy too. A great stress free elopement!" Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin, Gold Coast, Queensland ](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Jason Corroto — Sydney, New South Wales — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/jason-corroto ![Wedding photographer Jason Corroto](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jason_corroto_zVQo5LvXG?tr=w-96%2Ch-96%2Cf-auto) # Jason Corroto Sydney, New South Wales A Sydney wedding photographer available worldwide, known for candid, emotionally honest images with personality, heart and ease. [Website](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com/)[@jasoncorrotophoto](https://instagram.com/jasoncorrotophoto) Jason takes a calm, fly-on-the-wall approach that gives couples room to be themselves and the day to unfold naturally. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Jason Corroto 3 weddings we've worked on together. - [ Photographer > "He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural." Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ Photographer > "He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special." Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ Photographer > "You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day." Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Katie Palmer — Hobart, Tasmania — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/katie-palmer ![Katie Palmer Hobart Wedding Photographer](/_astro/katiepalmer.p9LdVY-i_2oplAJ.jpeg) # Katie Palmer Hobart, Tasmania Katie's a lovely photographer in Hobart, Tasmania, who believes the best moments aren't staged — they're felt. [Website](https://www.katiepalmerphotography.com.au)[@katiepalmerphotography](https://instagram.com/katiepalmerphotography) Wedding photographer based in Tasmania. Credited on ceremonies at Derwent Estate Wines and more. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Katie Palmer 1 wedding we've worked on together. - [ Photographer > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton, Derwent Valley, Tasmania ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Shannon Hope — Brisbane, Queensland — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/shannon-hope ![Makeup artist Shannon Hope](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/shannon-hope_J4Pt7BhQy?tr=w-96%2Ch-96%2Cf-auto) # Shannon Hope Brisbane, Queensland A Brisbane-based professional makeup artist creating polished, modern bridal looks for weddings in Australia and abroad. [Website](https://www.shannonhopemakeupartist.com/) Shannon is a Brisbane-based professional makeup artist known for polished bridal makeup and a calm, considered approach on the wedding day. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Shannon Hope 1 wedding we've worked on together. - [ Hair & Makeup > "He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special." Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # The Elopement Collective — Tasmania — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/the-elopement-collective ![Britt from The Elopement Collective](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/britt_7kOOrHeHy?tr=w-96%2Ch-96%2Cf-auto) # The Elopement Collective Tasmania A Tasmania-based elopement team creating carefully curated, intimate celebrations across Australia and around the world. [Website](https://elopementcollective.com/)[@elopementcollective](https://instagram.com/elopementcollective) Britt leads The Elopement Collective’s planning and brings together the location, ceremony and creative team for each couple. Weddings Together ## Weddings with The Elopement Collective 4 weddings we've worked on together. - [ Planner > "He brought such a relaxed energy to the whole day and made what could have been a nerve-wracking moment feel so natural." Tiegan & Michael Mandrakia Beach, Milos ](/wedding-testimonials/tiegan-and-michael-11bjzwb) - [ Planner > "He was so kind during the lead up to our day and on the day he made us feel so comfortable and special." Harry & Nayla Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) - [ Planner > "You created such a warm and relaxed atmosphere, and we’ll always remember the beautiful memories you helped create on our wedding day." Isabella & Matthew Vocabolo Moscatelli · Umbertide, Umbria ](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [ Planner > "Josh married us on the beach in Currumbin in 2021. It was absolutely perfect for us, no fluff or long drawn out speaking. The whole process of paperwork was easy too. A great stress free elopement!" Alana & Nathan Currumbin Rock · Currumbin, Gold Coast, Queensland ](/wedding-testimonials/alana-and-nathan-0w0hzql) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Tyler Hudson — Tasmania — Wedding Vendor URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vendors/tyler-hudson ![Tyler Hudson Hobart Wedding Musician in Tasmania](/_astro/tylerhudson.CUwipxQR_Z1CyVvO.jpeg) # Tyler Hudson Tasmania Tyler’s a force in the music scene but also on social media as an advocate for autism. He won my heart when he played Fooies at a wedding I was MCing. [Website](https://www.tylerhudsonmusic.com/music)[@tylerhudsonmusic](https://instagram.com/tylerhudsonmusic) Ceremony and reception musician based in Tasmania. Weddings Together ## Weddings with Tyler Hudson 1 wedding we've worked on together. - [ Music > "Josh has a rare gift for putting you at ease immediately, and we knew our day was in the best possible hands." Steve & Bec Derwent Estate Wines · Granton, Derwent Valley, Tasmania ](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) [All wedding vendors](/wedding-vendors) ## Want a ceremony like these? Tell me about your wedding and I'll let you know if I'm free. [Check my availability](/contact) --- # Vows in a Registry Office URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wedding-vows-in-registry-office Mar 5, 2025 · [Vows](/category/vows) · 4 min read # Vows in a Registry Office What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? ![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) When most people think about getting married in a registry office, they often picture the classic “I do” exchange portrayed in films and TV as a courthouse wedding, a shotgun wedding, or a legals-only paperwork-only wedding. But if you’re planning a registry wedding in Australia, you might be surprised to learn that the law works quite differently here. Unlike many other countries, Australian marriage law gives you considerable freedom in how you express your commitment, while still requiring certain elements to make it legal. The main elements of a legal marriage ceremony requires a Commonwealth Authorised Marriage Celebrant like myself, some words from me, and words from each of you. ## The legal foundation: Marriage Act 1961 The Commonwealth Marriage Act 1961 sets out exactly what needs to happen to make your marriage legal, whether you’re in a registry office or any other venue with a celebrant. After giving at least one month’s notice to get married, your ceremony can take place anywhere on, above, or below Australian land and sea. At this ceremony, certain words must be spoken - but they’re not what most people expect. ## What your celebrant must say In any civil ceremony (including registry weddings), a marriage celebrant like me must first say: > I am duly authorised by law to solemnise marriages according to law. They then need to remind you what marriage means legally: > Before you are joined in marriage in my presence and in the presence of these witnesses, I am to remind you of the solemn and binding nature of the relationship into which you are now about to enter. > > Marriage, according to law in Australia, is the union of two people to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life. This monitum (Latin for “warning”) establishes the legal framework for what follows. Interestingly, the Act includes the phrase “or words to that effect,” giving celebrants some creative flexibility while maintaining the legal meaning. ## The minimum legal vows YOU must say Here’s where Australia differs significantly from many countries: there is no required “I do” question and response. Instead, each of you must say (or repeat after the celebrant): > I call upon the persons here present to witness that I, \[your full name\], take thee, \[partner’s full name\], to be my lawful wedded wife/husband/spouse. That’s it - just these twenty words (give or take) breathe your marriage into legal existence. The federal Marriage Act again includes “or words to that effect,” allowing some personalisation while keeping the legal intent intact. ## What about “I do”? The Guidelines to the Marriage Act issued by the Marriage Law and Celebrants Section of the Attorney-General’s Department specifically addresses this common misconception: > A ‘question and answer’ form of the vows is not contemplated by the Marriage Act for non-religious marriage ceremonies. It should not be used as a substitute for the couple stating the vows set out in the Act. This means if you really want the “I do” moment, it needs to be in addition to the required legal vows, not instead of them. In my ceremonies, unless specifically requested, we typically skip the “I do” exchange as it’s not legally necessary and often feels like repeating ourselves. ## Can I add personal vows? Absolutely! While the guidelines suggest placing personal vows after the legal requirements (to avoid confusion), the law doesn’t mandate this order. Your personal vows can be as creative, meaningful, or unconventional as you like - they’re the perfect opportunity to express your unique commitment in your own words. Many couples I’ve married have written beautiful, heartfelt personal vows that truly capture their relationship, while still incorporating the required legal elements seamlessly into the ceremony. ## Making your registry office wedding personal Even in the most straightforward [registry office paperwork-only ceremony](/registry-office), your marriage vows can still be deeply personal. The legal requirements are minimal, serving as a foundation upon which you can build a ceremony that truly reflects your relationship. Whether you choose to keep it simple with just the legal wording or add your own promises, what matters is that your ceremony feels authentic to you both as you begin this new chapter together. After all, marriage isn’t just a legal status - it’s the bedrock of family, community, and society itself. Your vows, however simple or elaborate, mark the beginning of something truly transformative. ## Looking for a marriage registry office near you? I reccomend my friends at your local Marriage Office: - [Hobart Marriage Office](https://marriageoffice.org) - [Sydney Marriage Office](https://marriageoffice.sydney) - [Brisbane Marriage Office](https://themarriageoffice.com) - [Newcastle Marriage Office](https://newcastle.marriageoffice.net.au) - [Melbourne Marriage Office](https://marriageoffice.melbourne) - [marriage laws](/tag/marriage-laws) - [wedding vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [marriage ceremony](/tag/marriage-ceremony) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Minimum legal marriage vows](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Samuel_Tegan.BulbCreative-20_websize_4IxhfMvmZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/legal-vows) ### [Minimum legal marriage vows](/legal-vows) The twenty words you need to say to get married in Australia, the minimum legal marriage vows the Marriage Act of 1961 requires you to say in your ceremony. - [![Marriage and just the legal bits](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20240905-136__gt28KrJz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-the-legal-bits) ### [Marriage and just the legal bits](/marriage-the-legal-bits) Ask anyone on the street and there's a bunch of things they think need to happen at Australian weddings - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) ### [Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](/what-does-a-celebrant-do) Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Petra— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0) - [Jessica & Clay— Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/jessica-and-clay-1qay5n2) - [Maddison— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/maddison-0y6ldto) --- # Wet weather wedding planning URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/wet-weather Jun 10, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Wet weather wedding planning Ignore this blog post if you'd rather get down to Milli Vanilli. But if you want some sage advice for wet weather backups, this is your jam. ![Wet weather wedding planning](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1537123650928-6680fa9b24a0?q=80&w=900&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506&fm=webp) Rain doesn’t have to ruin your wedding day – it can actually make it more memorable (and those photos? They’ll be epic). Here’s how to embrace the rain, roll with it, and still have the best day ever. #### 1\. **Forecast? Schmorecast!** Weather forecasts can be wrong. Don’t let a prediction stress you out. Plan ahead, of course, but remember: the sky might just surprise you. And even if the weather does act up, it doesn’t have to define your wedding vibe. #### 2\. **Umbrellas: Your New Favourite Accessory** Look, we’ve all seen those amazing wedding photos with couples sharing a romantic moment under a stylish umbrella. Plan ahead, grab some clear or aesthetic ones that won’t ruin your photos but will actually add a chic touch. You and your guests will stay dry – and your photos will look stunning. #### 3\. **Adapt the Ceremony, Not the Location** Maybe there’s a covered spot nearby at your venue. Gazebo? Big tree? Veranda? Chat with your [venue](/here) about these options, so you don’t need to move guests too far. Less hassle, more intimate vibes. #### 4\. **Consider Booking a Backup Venue** If you’re getting married in a season known for rain, it might be worth locking in a backup indoor space. Think cozy chapels, function rooms, or halls. It’s a plan B you’ll never regret having in your back pocket. Worst case? You end up with two beautiful spaces to celebrate in. #### 5\. **Compile a Backup List** Not sure about committing to a full backup venue? No worries. Reach out to a few possible spaces to see if they’re available as last-minute options. Then, if the skies open up, you’ve got options without the commitment of double-booking. #### 6\. **Keep Everyone in the Loop** Whatever your plan, make sure your guests know what’s going on. Share your wet-weather plan on your wedding invites or create a last-minute update via social media or your wedding website. It keeps things smooth on the day. #### 7\. **Make the Rain Work for You** Rain doesn’t have to ruin anything. Some couples fully embrace it – dancing, celebrating, and soaking up the moment, literally. Your wedding day is about the love, not the weather, so if the rain hits, roll with it and have fun! #### 8\. **Frizz Control for the Win** If you’re stressing about what rain will do to your hair, a de-frizz serum will be your best friend. Run it through damp hair and again once dry. Updos also tend to hold up better in wet weather, so consider a chic bun or braided style. You’ll look flawless, rain or shine. In the end, rain on your wedding day is just another layer of your story. Will you let it throw you off, or will you dance in it? Maybe it’s time to cue the Milli Vanilli – “Blame it on the Rain” – and get ready to enjoy every moment. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [rain](/tag/rain) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. I spoke with the Daily Mail about it. - [![The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](https://plus.unsplash.com/premium_photo-1732017764564-71edef4c76f0?q=80&w=2954&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D)](/getting-ready-right) ### [The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot](/getting-ready-right) Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos, choose accomodation that suits the vibe for the day - [![Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-venue-under-a-tree_TXIAvprIt?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) ### [Eight Must-Ask Wedding Venue Questions](/eight-must-ask-wedding-venue-questions) Your perfect wedding venue looks amazing in photos, promises everything you want, and the price is right. Ask these eight questions first. - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Lui— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lui-0g13a1y) - [Phoebe— Montalto](/wedding-testimonials/phoebe-0n0dyoz) - [Derek— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz) --- # What Are Weddings For? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/what-are-weddings-for Oct 2, 2025 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # What Are Weddings For? A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. ![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) What’s a wedding really for? Getting married doesn’t actually need much. Legally, it’s 120 words and five signatures. Done. So why do we do more? Because us humans are a beautifully odd lot that find beauty in the little weird things. Is a wedding - your wedding - for you as a couple? For your family? For the community around you? The answer matters, because if you skip that question, you end up planning someone else’s wedding instead of your own. Before you book a planner, celebrant like myself, [photographer](/friends), or [venue](/here), sit down together and ask: what is our wedding for? --- I like to think of it like a brand activation. ![Felix Baumgartner jumps from space for Red Bull ⌘](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/brand-activation-examples-redbull_dLSwTGA7C?tr=w-1024%2Cf-auto%2Cq-75) In marketing they hold brand activations as a moment where you stand up and show the world who you are. Red Bull is the best at them in modern years. They famously are always hosting or sponsoring extreme sports events, and giving away free Red Bulls everywhere. We all know that Red Bull gives you wings because of their brand activations. --- Your wedding can do that for you as a couple. If that thought makes you nervous because you don’t quite know who you are together yet, that’s fine—this process can help you figure it out. Here’s the simple rule: don’t add anything to your wedding just because a mate asked if you’d thought of it. Only do it if it fits what your wedding is for. If it screams from the mountaintops: “this is us, this is what is important to us, this is our marriage!” If your version of a marriage launch is dinner with eight people, that’s perfect. If it’s 200 guests and second cousins, also perfect. As long as it’s your choice. Because the only rip-off wedding is the one where you walk away not knowing what it was for. That’s when it just becomes another event with cake. And if that’s all it is, you may as well wear a wedding dress to the next burger night with your mates. Your wedding is your chance to step into your life together with intention. Make it yours. - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/withers-wedding-method) ### [The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method) The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! - [![A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-wedding-guests_3OH6jg0Bym?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) ### [A guide on how to attend a wedding as a guest](/how-to-attend-a-wedding) An open letter to all wedding guests on how to attend a wedding like a boss, how to be the best cheerleader, and a best friend! - [![Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/taste_in_weddings_1_zcBER7n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/choosing-taste) ### [Taste, is what you're choosing in a vendor](/choosing-taste) When you hire a wedding vendor you're not just booking a wedding vendor or creative, you're explicitly choosing someone's taste in their craft. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Petra— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/petra-1h32mr0) - [Leena— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/leena-09hobnr) - [Harry & Nayla— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/harry-and-nayla-1c4q71a) --- # What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/what-do-i-say May 24, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony? My philosophy of encouragement over education in your ceremony is about creating joyful celebrations that look forward to your married future ![What do I talk about in a wedding ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/20250516-18_xlek0sZNS?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) To encourage someone means to literally give them courage. And whilst I’m standing there creating a sacred space for two people to exchange vows, I’m also there to encourage them — to fill them with the courage to step boldly into marriage. Last night I found myself watching other celebrants on YouTube, because I realised I’ve never paid much attention to what others do. Turns out I do things quite a bit differently. So I thought it worth explaining what I actually talk about during a wedding ceremony. ## I’m an Encourager, Not an Educator I make the assumption that when you walk down the aisle, you already know what you’re getting yourself into. In the 18 minutes we’re standing in front of your nan, you don’t need relationship counselling or sex education. I believe you’re smart enough to figure that out for yourself and seek help if you need it. The ceremony isn’t the place for a marriage seminar — it’s the place to celebrate the decision you’ve already made. ## This Is a Happy Time, Not a Sad Time Wedding ceremonies should be joyful occasions. I’ll stay away from the difficult realities of life and focus squarely on the positives. We’re not here to discuss the statistics on divorce rates or the challenges that lie ahead. We’re here to celebrate love and commitment. There’s a time and place for serious conversations about marriage — your wedding day isn’t it. ## The Law Gets the Encouraging Treatment Too I do mention the few things the [law](/the-bare-minimum) requires me to cover, but I deliver them in an encouraging way. Rather than the robotic “this is what the law tells me to say” approach, I weave these legal elements into the celebration naturally. The monitum and legal vows don’t have to feel like a courtroom proceeding — they can be part of the joy. ## We’re Looking Forward, Not Backward A wedding ceremony is fundamentally forward-looking — it’s the opening ceremony of your marriage, not the closing ceremony of your dating life. We’re not ignorant of your past (how you met, where you’ve been together), but we’re heralding in an exciting future. Your wedding ceremony should feel like the beginning of an adventure, not a nostalgic look backward. ## Laughter and Tears Are Both Welcome I believe people should laugh during wedding ceremonies. And sometimes cry happy tears if the moment moves them enough. The goal isn’t to have everyone sit there silently and well-behaved like they’re in detention. Wedding ceremonies should be full of life, emotion, and authentic human responses. ## My Role Is to Create Celebration In summary: I’ll encourage you that you’re making an awesome decision. I genuinely believe you are. Then I’ll help everyone else encourage you, applaud you, and make you feel completely supported and celebrated. Because I’m a [celebrant](/wedding-celebrant) — literally a person who creates celebration. I’ll leave the marriage education to the marriage educators and focus on what I do best: creating a moment where love is celebrated, courage is given, and two people are sent off into married life with the wind at their backs. That’s what encouragement looks like in practice. That’s what I bring to your ceremony. --- Feature image by [George Bowden wedding photography in Rome](https://www.georgebowden.co) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [ceremony](/tag/ceremony) - [celebrant](/tag/celebrant) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matt— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matt-1jq286d) - [Scott— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/scott-0d3v82o) - [Charli— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/charli-018ikj2) --- # Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/what-does-a-celebrant-do Jun 28, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do? Aussie couples, here’s what a celebrant actually does, how it differs from a priest, and why 82% choose celebrants for their wedding day. ![Marriage Celebrant 101 – What Does a Celebrant Do?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Answering_the_questions_What_Does_a_Celebrant_Do_S_01Jp0T_?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Ever wondered what a marriage celebrant actually _does_? Aside from rocking up in a suit and saying a few words before the kiss? Here’s the truth: a celebrant is the one person at your wedding who can legally marry you in Australia _and_ make the moment feel like it’s actually yours. ## What’s a Celebrant’s Role? In Australia, a marriage celebrant is authorised by the Commonwealth (the federal government of Australia) to legally marry couples. That means we’re not just reading a script – we’re responsible for: - Handling the legal paperwork before, during, and after your wedding. - Making sure you say the legal vows (yes, there are actual words you must say). - Making sure that at all times the law is being obeyed, a good example is that we need to be checking consent all the time and that there are witnesses. - Lodging your paperwork with Births, Deaths, and Marriages so you’re legally married. We’re the ones ensuring your marriage is recognised under Australian law, so your wedding isn’t just a party, it’s the real deal. ## Celebrant vs Officiant vs Priest You’ll hear different terms tossed around: celebrant, officiant, priest, solemniser. Let’s clear it up. - **Celebrant:** In Australia, this usually means a _civil_ celebrant – someone who can legally marry you without religion, or with as much (or as little) religion as you like. - **Officiant/Solemniser:** Terms used in other countries for someone who conducts a wedding ceremony. Sometimes they can legally marry you, sometimes they can’t and they’re just doing symbolic or commitment ceremonies. - **Priest/Minister:** Leads a religious ceremony, following the traditions and requirements of their faith, usually appointed by a church. Put simply, if you want a wedding that’s personal, modern, and tailored to you – and legally binding in Australia – you hire a celebrant. ## Why Do Couples Hire Celebrants? Because you’re not like everyone else. 82% of Australian couples choose civil celebrants because they want flexibility and personalisation. You can get married in your backyard, on a mountain, or in a bar at sunrise. You can write your own vows, or you can lean on your celebrant to help you craft something that sounds like you (not like Google). And you get a ceremony that tells _your_ story, not a cookie-cutter template. ## Can Celebrants Do Other Ceremonies? Yep. Many celebrants also officiate: - Naming days - Funerals - Vow renewals - Commitment ceremonies Some celebrants specialise, but many are there for the big moments in life, not just weddings. ## Wrapping Up A good celebrant - like me - will legalise your marriage, yes. But they’ll also craft a ceremony that feels true, human, and memorable. They’ll help you tell your story well, making the ceremony the _best_ part of your wedding day. And that’s what a celebrant actually does. --- Photo for this blog post by my friend [Jason Corroto](https://www.jasoncorrotophoto.com) at an [elopement by The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com). - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [celebrancy](/tag/celebrancy) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Is your celebrant authorised?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/celebrant-police__ZcFx4Ul6d?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/authorised-celebrant) ### [Is your celebrant authorised?](/authorised-celebrant) It's quick and easy to tell if your Australian marriage celebrant is a fraud or legitimate. There's a government website to check. - [![Vows in a Registry Office](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding-vows-sydney_1_1cazlkjr2?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) ### [Vows in a Registry Office](/wedding-vows-in-registry-office) What are the wedding vows in a marriage registry office? What does Australian law require from a couple exchanging vows in a legal ceremony in Tasmania? - [![How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/choosing_a_celebrant_tMc64Yjfz?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) ### [How to Choose the Perfect Celebrant](/how-to-choose-a-celebrant) When people ask me what’s the most important part of a wedding, I always say the ceremony. It’s the bit that makes it real — and the person running it matters. - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Hannah & Ardy— Maleny, Sunshine Coast, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/hannah-and-ardy-0dyiv4e) - [Kimi— Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/kimi-1ii5ygc) - [Lisa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lisa-1hhsbsy) --- # What is an elopement? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/what-is-an-elopement Mar 9, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) · 2 min read # What is an elopement? FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment ![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) **A Modern Guide to Intimate Weddings** Let’s clear something up right away: elopements aren’t just “tiny weddings.” They’re a whole different vibe. At The Elopement Collective, we believe elopements aren’t about the flowers, the cake, or appeasing a crowd of guests. They’re about you. Full stop. Your story, your love, your promises to each other—without the weight of expectation or tradition. Here’s the simplest way to put it: at a wedding, you’re hosting an event. You’re creating a day that celebrates _you_—but for your guests. It’s a wonderful thing, but let’s be honest: there’s a lot of compromise, a lot of other voices in the mix. Aunt Margaret wants to bring her gluten-free cake. Your mum really thinks you should have a garter toss. You’re managing guest lists, seating charts, and the kind of pressure that can make your wedding feel like a performance. An elopement flips that script. It’s not about hosting anyone. It’s not about making anyone else happy. Yes, you can have guests or witnesses, and it’s lovely if they’re there. But their presence isn’t the point, and their preferences don’t dictate your day. An elopement is about the two of you. Full stop. It’s a day where you get to say, “This is us, unapologetically, and this is how we want to start forever.” Elopements give you permission to focus entirely on what matters most: each other. Whether you’re barefoot on a beach, standing on a mountaintop, or exchanging vows under the stars, an elopement strips away the noise and brings you back to the heart of it all—your love story. So, if you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s more about vows than venues, connection over canapés, and meaning above tradition, you’re in the right place. Explore what’s possible with [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com) and start planning a day that’s 100% _you_. No compromises, just love. ❤️ - [wedding-planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [eloping](/tag/eloping) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/why-elope) ### [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) ### [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [![All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne_wedding_celebrant_Josh_Withers_aEHhVFTAm?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-sizes) ### [All the different wedding sizes explained: Micro Wedding vs. Elopement vs. Wedding](/wedding-sizes) What’s the difference Between a Micro Wedding, Mini Wedding, Small Wedding, Intimate Wedding, an Elopement? What about a standard wedding size, XL, Galatic? - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Phillip— Freycinet, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/phillip-17g3ow2) - [Lui— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lui-0g13a1y) - [Shorey— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/shorey-1v063ve) --- # Who Pays for What in a Wedding? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/who-pays-for-the-wedding Aug 4, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 3 min read # Who Pays for What in a Wedding? Ever heard that the bride’s family pays for everything while the groom’s family just shows up with a cheque for the booze? Yeah, that’s old-school. ![Who Pays for What in a Wedding?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/bank_of_mum_and_dad_h-VuPdrOj?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) One of the quickest ways to drain the joy out of wedding planning? Talking about money without clarity. So, who actually pays for what in a wedding these days? Let’s clear it up. ## The Old-School Way Back in the olden days when the internet was the thing in-between your fishing net and a vape was something your stovetop did, it went something like this: - **Bride’s family** paid for the big reception, ceremony costs, flowers, and the bride’s dress. - **Groom’s family** paid for the alcohol, rehearsal dinner, and sometimes the honeymoon. - **Bridesmaids and groomsmen** paid for their own outfits. - The **groom bought the bride’s rings** (and sometimes vice versa). These “rules” came from an era of certain assumptions (and gender roles) that don’t fit many modern couples. ## The Modern Reality These days, most couples pay for the bulk of their wedding themselves, often from joint savings or shared funds. Parents might chip in, but it’s not a requirement. Here’s how it often breaks down now: ### Wedding Attire - Each person usually pays for their own outfit. - Some brides cover bridesmaids’ dresses as a gift, while others ask bridesmaids to buy their own. - Groomsmen typically pay for or hire their suits, but again, some couples cover this as a gift. This is a major reason that we’ve seen the decline of the bridal party. Because it’s a big expensive thing that doesn’t often mean a lot, and those people and yuor relationship with them can still be celebrated but they don’t have to wear a wedding uniform and go whole-hog on the expenses. ### Rings - Traditionally, each buys the other’s wedding ring. - Many modern couples simply pay from joint savings, especially if finances are already merged. ### Ceremony, Venue, and Reception - Typically paid for by the couple. - If parents are contributing, they might cover a specific element (e.g. catering, bar tab, or photography). - Best advice: have a clear chat with any family offering help to clarify exactly what they’re covering, so there’s no awkwardness later. Rememeber that whoever pays gets a say, so if that matters, consider not taking the money. ### Accommodation and Travel - Guests pay for their own travel and accommodation. - Couples sometimes pay for accommodation for important guests (like grandparents) or cover transport on the day (buses between ceremony and reception). ### The “Bride’s Family Pays” Expectation It still happens sometimes, but it’s far less common. There’s no rule that says parents _must_ pay – it’s a lovely bonus if they do, not an expectation. ### Cultural Variations Some cultures have traditions where the bride’s family hosts (and pays), while others have customs like a “money dance” or guests contributing in other ways. Do what works for your family and culture. ## What About Guests? Guests only pay for: - Their own travel and accommodation. - Their gift for the couple. In my humble little opinion they should _never_ be asked to pay a “ticket” to attend your wedding (cash bars are a separate thing, but even then, be upfront). Why? Because the very definition of a wedding is that you are playing host to these people. If you can’t afford to host them, don’t host them. ## Have the Conversation Early The key to avoiding stress (and potential resentment) is clear, early communication: - Sit down together and work out your [budget](/withers-wedding-method) first. - If parents have offered to contribute, chat with them about what they’d like to cover, and confirm it. - Decide if you want to split costs evenly with contributing parents, or have them take on specific vendors. - Remember there’s no one-size-fits-all. It depends on what works for your family, your finances, and your comfort. ## Do What Works for You There’s no award for sticking to outdated traditions, and no shame in paying for your own wedding if that’s your situation. If family wants to help, great. If not, you’re still getting married, and that’s the main thing. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [money](/tag/money) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The Wedding Tax](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/_S6A2254-Edit_bjgQFIFJU?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) ### [The Wedding Tax](/2025-02-06-the-wedding-tax) Publishing this for the next current affair TV journalist that comes to ask about why weddings are sooo expensive - [![No bridal party equals no stress](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Thalia-Haven-elopement-Bulb-Creative_L9q4SrPFr?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/no-bridal-party) ### [No bridal party equals no stress](/no-bridal-party) Express your friendship and relationship in a meaningful way, not a stressful way, by uninviting the bridal party and just have them as guests - [![How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/how_to_have_a_cheap_wedding_Q5By5l99m?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) ### [How to have a cheap wedding, by Josh Withers](/how-to-have-a-cheap-wedding) A beginners course in having a cheap and low-budget wedding that is still fun and perfect! - [![Wedding Gift Etiquette](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/100_dollar_gift_m01ammS1r?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-gift-etiquette) ### [Wedding Gift Etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette) How much should you give? A wedding gift should reflect your relationship and what you can comfortably afford, not an arbitrary price guide. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Madalyn— Victoria](/wedding-testimonials/madalyn-0pqt2pr) - [Lisa— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/lisa-0qvfgrq) - [Roz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/roz-0ovxbr0) --- # Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/why-bride-grooms-want-cash-gifts Jul 9, 2026 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 8 min read # Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts Cash gifts, smaller guest lists, and more intentional weddings are not a collapse of tradition. They're a sign that marriage itself has moved deeper into adult life. ![Why modern couples are asking for cash wedding gifts](/images/cody-jack-house-of-lucie-elopement-collective.jpg) Every few months, a [story](https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/stingy-costofliving-crisis-fuels-unusual-wedding-gift-trend/news-story/fee13a6be6b75543f573050aa06e0128) pops up about how weddings have changed. This time, it is wedding gifts. Couples used to ask for toasters, dinner sets, towels, and the sort of glassware that lived in a cupboard until someone’s parents came over. Now they ask for cash, honeymoon funds, house deposits, or help with the life they are already building. And yes, that is different but I don’t think the real story is that wedding gifts have changed. The real story is that marriage has changed. Not legally. Not in some dramatic culture-war way. But socially, practically, and emotionally. Marriage used to sit near the beginning of adult life. Now, for many Australian couples, it sits somewhere slightly deeper and more intentionally inside it. The [Australian Institute of Family Studies snapshot on couple relationships in Australia today](https://aifs.gov.au/all-research/research-reports/couple-relationships-australia-today) names a few of the quiet shifts underneath modern weddings: “people being older when they first marry”, “couples increasingly living together before they marry”, and marriage being seen by some couples as a “capstone”. That word matters. Because if marriage is not always the starting gun for adulthood anymore, the wedding probably won’t look like the weddings we grew up around either. ## Australians are getting married later The AIFS [Marriages in Australia](https://aifs.gov.au/all-research/facts-and-figures/marriages-australia-25) data puts numbers around what most of us can already feel in the room. In 2024, the median age at first marriage was 31.3 years for men and 30.0 years for women. My parents were 21 when they wed (and divorced a few years later). That matters because when people marry later, the wedding changes shape. A couple getting married in their early 30s is often not getting married so they can move out of home together. They have probably already done that. They are not getting married so they can buy their first kettle. They might already own three kettles, two air fryers, a suspiciously expensive coffee machine, and a drawer full of containers with missing lids. They are not getting married as the first big adult step after school, uni, or an apprenticeship. They are getting married after years of real life together. Jobs. Rent. Mortgages. Dogs. Kids. Blended families. Businesses. Grief. Moving cities. Changing careers. Knowing each other’s families. Knowing each other’s flaws. Knowing what life actually feels like on a Tuesday night when the bins need to go out. So of course the gift registry has changed but only because the couple and what “all of this” at a wedding has changed. ## The wedding is not always the start of the household For previous generations, a wedding often marked the beginning of a shared home. That is why the gift table made sense. You needed sheets, plates, towels, a toaster, and maybe an electric carving knife if someone’s auntie got excited at Myer. Today, most couples have already lived together before the wedding: 81% of Australian couples have cohabited before marriage. The wedding is no longer always the day you start a household, instead, it is the day you name and solidify and make official the household you have already been building. That is why cash gifts do not automatically mean people are rude, greedy, stingy, or unromantic. It can simply mean the couple already has the stuff. What they are asking for is help with the life. A home deposit. A honeymoon. A family trip. A renovation. A future. A little more breathing room in the middle of a cost-of-living mess. That is not less meaningful than a toaster. It’s probably even more meaningful. ## If you are giving a wedding gift, you are allowed to think differently now If you are going to a wedding and feel weird about giving money, I get it. For a long time, a proper wedding gift was something you wrapped, carried to a gift table, and hoped no one else had also bought. But the purpose of a gift is not to recreate the wedding customs of 2004. The purpose of a gift is to bless the couple in the life they are actually living. For some couples, that might still be a beautiful object for their home. Great. Buy the good sheets. Buy the handmade serving bowl. Buy the thing they will use and think of you. But for other couples, the most helpful gift is money towards something bigger than a cupboard full of appliances. That does not make the gift lazy. It makes it useful. A wedding gift does not need to prove you understand tradition. It should show you understand the couple. I have written more directly about [wedding gift etiquette](/wedding-gift-etiquette), but the short version is this: give what you can afford, give it with a full heart, and don’t turn someone else’s wedding into a tax audit with flowers. ## If you are hosting a wedding, you do not have to copy the weddings you grew up around This is the part I wish more couples heard: You do not have to build your wedding in the shadow of weddings from 20 years ago. You do not have to do a gift registry because your parents did. You do not have to invite 140 people because that is what a real wedding looked like when you were a kid. You do not have to have a bridal party, a receiving line, a garter toss, a seating chart full of diplomatic tension, or a cake cutting no one is emotionally invested in. You can, of course. Some traditions are beautiful when they mean something to you. But they are not compulsory. Modern marriage is often chosen with more thought, more heart, and more intention than people give it credit for. The AIFS snapshot says contemporary relationship choices are influenced by the “intentions of the people in couple relationships”. I think the same is true of weddings. Who do you actually want in the room? What do you want to say out loud? What do you want people to feel? What do you want to remember? What would make the day feel like the two of you, rather than a performance of what weddings used to be? Those are better questions than, “What are we supposed to do?” ## Marriage has moved from assumption to intention When marriage was the expected next step, lots of people got married because that is what you did. You dated, got engaged, got married, moved in, had kids, bought appliances, and tried to remember which cupboard the good glasses were in. That path still exists for some people. Good for them. But for many couples now, marriage is not automatic. It is chosen. The wedding is less likely to be a social conveyor belt and more likely to be a deliberate marker. A line in the sand. A public and legal way of saying: this is my person, this is the life we are building, and these are the people we want standing near us as we say it out loud. That shift makes weddings more serious, not less. Not serious as in stiff, formal, or joyless. Please no. Serious as in weighty. A wedding today often carries years of shared life into one moment. It is not the launch party for adulthood. It is a declaration made by adults who know what they are doing. Mostly. ## The guest list has changed too Once you understand this, the guest list starts making more sense. Couples are not always asking, “Who must we invite?” They are asking, “Who do we actually want around us when we make this promise?” That is a very different question. And it makes some people uncomfortable, because society is used to weddings being family events, community events, or big obligation machines. Invite this cousin. Invite that workmate. Invite that person because they invited you in 2016 and you still feel weird about it. But modern couples are often more honest than that. They know a wedding is not just a party. It is a room full of witnesses to their amazing life. The people present are not just there to eat canapes and comment on the flowers. They are there to hear the vows. They are there to bless, support, cheer, cry, laugh, remember, and say, “Yes, we saw that. We were there.” That is why [elopements](https://elopementcollective.com), micro weddings, restaurant weddings, backyard weddings, destination weddings, and deeply personal ceremonies have grown in appeal. Not because couples care less. Because they care more. They care who is there. They care what is said. They care how the day feels. They care whether the wedding actually reflects the marriage. ## The point was never the toaster So wedding gifts have changed nd the toaster has become a wad of cash. The department store registry has become a honeymoon fund. The crystal bowl has become a contribution to a home, a trip, or a future. But underneath that is a bigger shift. Marriage in Australia has become less of a default setting and more of a chosen act. It reminds me of the reason for gun violence in America dropped a few years ago, because people became more intentional about having children, so kids were growing up loved and wanted. People are getting married later. They are living together first. They are arriving at the ceremony with more life behind them, more clarity, and often more intention. That does not make weddings less traditional. It makes them more honest, and me? I’m the captain of Team Hoenst Weddings. --- _Feature photo by [House of Lucie](https://www.houseoflucie.com) for [The Elopement Collective](https://elopementcollective.com)._ - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [marriage](/tag/marriage) - [gifts](/tag/gifts) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/images/jason-corroto-elopement-collective-australian-wedding.jpg)](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) ### [How Many People Got Married in Australia in 2025? The Numbers Revealed](/how-many-people-got-married-australia-2025) Australia's crude marriage rate fell to 5.3 in 2025, even though registrations remained above 2019. Here is what that rate actually measures. - [![Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/freycinet-bulb_XaGok_GZZ?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) ### [Tasmania’s crude marriage rate just slipped again](/tasmanian-mariage-rate-drops) Why are less people in Tasmania getting married than the rest of the country and what does this trend mean for the Tasmanian wedding industry. - [![Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage-licence-ceremony-penguin_jSJdyZQJk?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/marriage-license-to-get-married) ### [Marriage licence to get married in Tasmania](/marriage-license-to-get-married) There's No Such Thing as a Marriage licence in Australia (and That's a Good Thing!) You don't need to seek permission, you just need to meet the mark. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Steve & Bec— Derwent Estate Wines](/wedding-testimonials/steve-and-bec-1whwnm4) - [Hamish— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/hamish-008kfs6) - [Derek— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/derek-006ortz) --- # Why do people elope? URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/why-elope Nov 2, 2024 · [Eloping](/category/eloping) · 2 min read # Why do people elope? It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. ![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Why do people elope? It’s a question I get asked a lot. And the answer is as varied as the couples I marry. But there’s always a thread running through the choice: the pursuit of simplicity, intimacy, and meaning over tradition and spectacle. Eloping is about stripping away the layers of a traditional wedding until you’re left with just the heart of it—two people committing to a life together. No production, no audience, just love and vows exchanged in a way that feels deeply personal. For some couples, eloping is about escaping the noise and the “shoulds” of wedding planning. They want a day that’s about their love story, not everyone else’s opinions. It’s about crafting a moment that’s authentically theirs—free from Aunt Susan’s seating chart dramas or the dreaded chicken-or-fish debate. Then there’s the allure of intimacy. When you elope, the focus shifts. It’s no longer about entertaining guests or managing a timeline. It’s about looking your person in the eye and saying, “It’s us against the world.” That raw, unfiltered connection? That’s the magic of elopements. Eloping also invites freedom—freedom to choose a jaw-dropping mountaintop, a quiet forest glade, or even your cozy living room as the backdrop for your “I dos.” The options are endless, and the only rule is there are no rules. And let’s not forget about stress—or the lack of it. Eloping is a rebellion against the anxiety and the dollar signs that come with a full-blown wedding. It’s about being present, soaking up every second, and remembering what matters most. For many, it’s the best of both worlds. You can still have incredible photos, stunning florals, and an unforgettable setting—without the fuss. It’s intimate, meaningful, and entirely your own. That’s why people elope. Because love deserves a spotlight, not a stage. - [eloping](/tag/eloping) - [elopements](/tag/elopements) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What is an elopement?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping_RJ4pLS-I_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-is-an-elopement) ### [What is an elopement?](/what-is-an-elopement) FOnly fools will think an elopement is just a small wedding, it's not a wedding at all, it's an intimate and intentional moment - [![Clearing the air on elopements](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/elopement-in-sicily-house-of-love_COVX42fj7?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) ### [Clearing the air on elopements](/clearing-the-air-on-elopements) After COVID there's a lot of confusion about how elopements and weddings differ and what an elopement is - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matthew— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-1wnucbn) - [Jodie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jodie-0gy2v1p) - [Scott & Rebecca— Canberra, Australian Capital Territory](/wedding-testimonials/scott-and-rebecca-192y7bm) --- # Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/why-valentines-day-is-a-great-day-to-marry Feb 14, 2022 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 1 min read # Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry Make Saint Valentine Proud and get married on the day he died trying to protect and celebrate marriage for all ![Why Valentine's Day is a great day to marry](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/valentines-day_60G4EA9MH?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Valentine’s Day is the best day to get married. Let me explain why. So many people comment on Valentine’s Day being cheesy, over-romantic, or a corporate scam to make boyfriends spend more on their girlfriends, but Saint Valentine’s Day carries a great message behind it. Saint Valentine was slain because he broke the law—a law forbidding men to marry. Marriage was outlawed in Valentine’s time because the emperor didn’t want men distracted by love (it’s so distracting, isn’t it?). Instead, he wanted them on the battlefield, fighting and dying for their country. Father Valentine, as he was then known, broke the rules and continued to marry people in secret. When he was found out, he was sentenced to death. We celebrate Valentine’s Day now because we believe that falling in love and getting married is a pretty wonderful thing. We also recognise that falling in love isn’t easy, so when it happens, it ought to be celebrated! So out of all the romantic, lovely days to get married, Valentine’s Day seems like a pretty good choice. You just might have trouble getting flowers. On the upside, you’ll never forget your wedding anniversary. - [dates](/tag/dates) - [wedding planing](/tag/wedding-planing) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why do people elope?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/eloping-in-tasmania_LDapyST3r?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/why-elope) ### [Why do people elope?](/why-elope) It's not the 50s anymore, eloping isn't jsut for the naughty ones, eloping is for intention and meaning, heart and soul. - [![I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/ANASTASIAandMATHEW_XqhqxaW7Y?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/18-minutes) ### [I think 18 minutes is the perfect wedding ceremony length](/18-minutes) If you think a wedding ceremony needs to go for an hour, this one’s for you. Meaning comes from intention, not duration. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. - [![5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/married-people_9JqdwqYCH?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) ### [5 Things No-One Tells You About Marriage](/5-things-no-one-tells-you-about-marriage) Marriage is Tough, Sister (or Brother). But it's supposed to be work, a work of art, your masterpiece. Get involved and make it awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Nicole— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/nicole-1tt55al) - [Shannon— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/shannon-1s7hzjr) - [Rebecca— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/rebecca-0q2vpoh) --- # The Withers Wedding Method URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/withers-wedding-method Jun 25, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 8 min read # The Withers Wedding Method The only wedding planning method you need and why everything you think you "must" have is optional. Welcome to the wedding revolution! ![The Withers Wedding Method](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/yosemite_elopement_with_josh_withers_IT91hyp3y?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I meet countless couples who start wedding planning by asking, “What do we need to have at our wedding?” The truth is, you need far less than you think. The other question they ask that makes life hard for them is “are you available?” I’m going to help you avoid both questions and bring joy to the process for you! Almost everything you’ve been told is “essential” for a wedding is actually optional. This is what I call the **Withers Wedding Method** – a way of planning that puts purpose before Pinterest boards and meaning before marketing hype. ## Know What You Actually Need to Get Married In Australia, getting legally married requires exactly five things: 1. **Two people** (you and your partner) who consent to marry 2. **A celebrant** (me, or someone like me) 3. **Two witnesses** (your mates, your parents, whoever) 4. **A place** we can identify as Australian territory 5. **Some specific words** – I tell you what marriage is, you say you take each other as spouses That’s it. Seriously. Outside of Australia, even less. Once I’ve said the monitum (the legal definition of marriage) and you’ve exchanged the required vows, you’re married. If the earth opened up and swallowed us whole at that moment, you’d have died a married couple. **Everything else – and I mean everything – is optional.** The flowers, the [photographer](/friends), the three-course meal, the string quartet, the vintage car, the favours nobody takes home – all optional. ## The Power of “Why?” Here’s where the method gets interesting. For everything you’re considering adding to your wedding, ask one simple question: **Why?** Not in a judgmental way, but in a purposeful way. Why do you want a photographer? Why do you want flowers? Why do you want a sit-down dinner versus cocktails? Your answers might be: - “Because we want beautiful photos to remember this day” - “Because I’ve dreamed of walking down the aisle with flowers since I was little” - “Because we love bringing people together over good food” All perfect reasons. But they might also be: - “Because everyone has a photographer” - “Because my mum says we have to” - “Because that’s what weddings look like on Instagram” Those aren’t reasons to spend money. ## The Five Elements of a Wedding I break weddings down into four categories. Each one is optional, but understanding them helps you choose with purpose. ### 1\. The Getting Married Bit Getting married exists on a spectrum of “people like us, do things like this.” Spanning from “the legal bit can take 30 seconds and happen over a cafe table” to “we invited everyone our family has ever known and filled a cathedral.” You get to choose how you mark and celebrate that moment. Every celebrant, priest, minister, or officiant will have a different opinion and vibe for this moment and that’s why you choose a certain celebrant - because their vibe matches your “people like us do things like this”. ### 2\. Capturing the Story This is your photographer, videographer, creator, painter, and anyone documenting your day. You’re not just buying photos – you’re hiring a skilled storyteller who’ll be present for every important moment, knowing when to capture your mum’s tears or your partner’s laugh. Good wedding photographers cost what they cost because they’re artists who genuinely care about your day. They’re not just clicking a button; they’re creating timeless images that will hang on your walls for decades. **Choose this if:** You value having beautiful, professional documentation of your day. Skip it if you’re genuinely happy with iPhone photos and your mate taking a few snaps. ### 3\. Making It Pretty This covers everything visual – your dress, suit, flowers, styling, decorations, venue choice. Pretty isn’t superficial; it’s how we show something matters to us. When we dress up for an event, we’re saying “this is important.” When we choose a beautiful location or add flowers to tables, we’re creating an environment that reflects our values. Your [venue](/here) isn’t just a place; it’s like a frame around a photo, it gives that image a place to exist and draws your attention to it. Your venue is a frame for your marriage celebration. Some locations naturally create the perfect atmosphere for a ceremony. Others might be Instagram-pretty but feel awkward when you’re actually trying to get married there. **Choose pretty if:** You want your day to look and feel a certain way. Skip elaborate styling if you truly don’t care about the visual elements. ### 4\. Entertainment This isn’t just your DJ or band – it’s everything that creates the vibe. Food, drinks, music, games, activities. The secret? Plan entertainment that **you** will genuinely enjoy. If you’re having a ball, everyone else will too. If you don’t dance, don’t book a DJ and expect people to dance. If you love board games, set up game stations. If you’re whisky lovers, have a whisky bar. A LAN party is as valid as a live band if that’s what you’re into. Create a wedding that is fun for you and your guests, not a wedding that looks and feels like one of those cool weddings on Pinterest. **Choose entertainment if:** You want to create a party atmosphere that reflects who you are as a couple. ### 5\. The Experience This includes transport, accommodation for guests, little touches that make the day flow smoothly. Again, it all comes down to purpose. Arriving in a vintage car because you love classic cars? Perfect. Hiring a car because “that’s what brides do”? Maybe reconsider. ## The Withers Wedding Method is: Choose Your Team, Then Choose Your Date Here’s where it all those decisions come together: instead of picking a venue, which means you then pick a date **and then** you start finding vendors; **instead**, choose your team that can make the kind of wedding you want, first, **then work together to find a date** that works for everyone, including your venue. Your photographer, celebrant, and other key vendors become your creative collaborators. When you find people whose work genuinely excites you, whose personalities click with yours, who understand your vision – work with them to find the perfect date. ![The Withers Wedding Method](/withers-wedding-method.svg) This approach means you get your first-choice team rather than settling for whoever’s available on your predetermined date. ## The Real Purpose The _Withers Wedding Method_ isn’t about having a minimal wedding or a lavish one. _It’s about having an intentional wedding_. Every element of your day should have purpose – whether that purpose is “because it brings us joy” or “because it’s meaningful to our families” or even “because we just bloody love good champagne.” When everything has a reason for being there, you won’t have regrets about overspending or feel like you’re just ticking boxes someone else created. ## Remember This Your marriage will be better than your wedding. Your wedding is just day one of forever – and what a beautiful day one it can be when it truly reflects who you are as a couple. When I create ceremonies for couples who’ve used this method, there’s a different energy. Everything feels intentional, authentic, and joyful. The couple isn’t stressed about performing someone else’s idea of a wedding; they’re genuinely celebrating their decision to choose each other. That’s what I want for you: a wedding day where every element serves the purpose of celebrating your love story, in your way, with your people. --- ## How to enquire without a date Most wedding vendors are probably waiting to play the “are you available” game, so here’s an example of an email you could write to find out about packages but without worrying about date availability. ``` Dear [Vendor or Venue Name], We're reaching out because we're planning our wedding differently than most couples. Rather than locking in a date and scrambling to find vendors who happen to be available, we're choosing our dream team first – the people whose artistry, values, and approach genuinely resonate with who we are as a couple. So we're not asking if you're free on a specific date. Instead, we're asking: are we a good fit for each other? And also, what packages do you have that suit our wedding? Do our values align? Does our vision for this day spark something in you? Would you be excited to be part of our story? If the answer is yes, then we'd love to collaborate with you and our other chosen creatives to find a date that works beautifully for everyone. We believe the best weddings happen when the right people come together with shared intention – not when couples settle for whoever happens to be available. We're looking for partners in this journey, not just service providers. We want to work with people who care as much about the meaning of our day as we do. Would you be interested in having a conversation about whether we're meant to work together? P.S. We know this approach might sound unconventional, but we've learned that the best things in life – including love itself – rarely happen by following the crowd. ``` - [withers wedding method](/tag/withers-wedding-method) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![What Are Weddings For?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/calile_wedding_55IXOoTyb?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/what-are-weddings-for) ### [What Are Weddings For?](/what-are-weddings-for) A practical essay on what weddings are really for, why the legal part is tiny, and how to plan a celebration that actually feels like you. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. - [![11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/kfc-withers-co_O2SjmGSw4?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) ### [11 herbs & spices for a finger lickin' good wedding](/11-herbs-spices-for-a-finger-lickin-good-wedding) I'm not going to lie. I was eating KFC and had a blog post idea. Here's my secret 11 herbs and spices for a great wedding. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Matthew— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/matthew-1wnucbn) - [Samantha— Sydney, New South Wales](/wedding-testimonials/samantha-14i7lnu) - [Chris & Melissa— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/chris-and-melissa-1hja5js) --- # Writing the best personal wedding vows URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/writing-awesome-personal-vows Nov 1, 2024 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 4 min read # Writing the best personal wedding vows The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows ![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=900&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=506&fm=webp) No fluff, just actionable, real advice to help you craft awesome wedding vows that will make your partner laugh, cry, and feel the depth of your connection. Writing vows can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Here’s the simple guide to nailing it. ### Step 1: Understand what vows are First up, let’s define what a vow actually is. It’s not a question, and it’s not a promise to _do_ something in the future like, “I will” or “I do.” A vow is a declaration of intent. It’s about what you _promise_ right here, right now. It’s a commitment to your partner. Your vows are for one person and one person only. Everyone else at the ceremony? They’re just lucky to get a front-row seat. Keep your focus on your partner—what do _they_ need to hear from you? Make your vows personal and intimate. ### Step 2: The Google Trap Please don’t just copy-paste vows from the internet. The vows you find online were written for someone else, about someone else’s marriage, and they won’t mean much for _yours_. Instead, use this guide to make your vows sound like you. ### Step 3: What should be in your vows? At the core, vows should be a response to the overwhelming moment of your wedding ceremony and a response to the person you’re standing across from. This day is massive—it’s one of life’s milestones—and you’re sharing it with your absolute favorite person in the world. That’s what your vows need to express. Think about these three things: 1. **How do they make you feel?** Be real here. Do they make you feel safe? Loved? Like you can conquer anything together? 2. **What do you admire most about them?** Mention the traits and qualities that you value in them, and why they matter to you. 3. **What are you promising?** This is the “vow” part. What are you committing to? To love them through thick and thin? To laugh with them every day? Be specific and meaningful. ### Step 4: No “Standard” Vows Forget about so-called “standard” vows or what tradition dictates. If you’re getting married in Australia, you’ve got some legal obligations for what you need to say, like identifying yourselves and confirming you want to marry. I’ll take you through them separate to your personal vows. But everything else? Totally up to you. ### Step 5: Craft the moment This is your moment to make your partner feel like a million bucks. Forget about everyone else watching and speak directly to the person who’ll be standing opposite you. For those few minutes, it’s just the two of you. Make sure they know exactly how you feel about them, how much they mean to you, and what this moment means. ### Step 6: Keep it honest, keep it real Your wedding day is full of beautiful chaos—flowers, outfits, makeup—but when it’s time to say your vows, everything pauses for a moment of raw honesty. These words are your truth to the person you’re choosing to spend the rest of your life with. So don’t overthink it. Be yourself. ### Step 7: The edit. Everyone worries about length, and no-one hearing vows is worried about size. They’re worried about how much you care and that together the two of you are breathing your marriage to life with these words. So make your vows as long as they need to be and no longer, and as short as they need to be, no shorter. If every word there is encouraging, lovely, and in aid of your marriage, then it belongs. --- Make your vows a reflection of your relationship, your love, and your future together. If you speak from the heart, you’ll never go wrong. Now go write something that’ll make your partner tear up in the best way possible! - [wedding-vows](/tag/wedding-vows) - [personal-vows](/tag/personal-vows) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) ### [Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful) Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. - [![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/one-word) ### [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Amy— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/amy-1h7ilas) - [Jemma— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jemma-033dyl5) - [Amanda & Anthony— Silent Hope House](/wedding-testimonials/amanda-and-anthony-0cfjc8h) --- # Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/writing-your-own-vows-and-making-them-meaningful Nov 27, 2024 · [Vows](/category/vows) · 4 min read # Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful Are you thinking about taking the personal approach to your wedding ceremony, writing your own vows? ![Writing your own vows, and making them meaningful](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Melbourne-wedding-celebrant-greta-harry_iBnIITKZ_?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Writing your own personal vows is something I recommend because it involves you and your partner in a very creative, personal and meaningful way in your ceremony. But many people get stumped as to what to say and how to say it. Here are six tips from the Reverend Laurie Sue Brockway: ### 1\. Open to the inspiration all around you Seek, and ye shall find sentiments that express your own thoughts. Look at wedding readings, poetry, [songs](/wedding-songs) and even greeting cards. Movies, [books](/books), shows, [podcasts](/podcast), blogs you both love. Pore over vow books featuring words of love used by others. Source ideas from the faiths or cultures you were born into or the spiritual traditions you love. Devour inspirational quotes on love and watch wedding movies. One couple I married met in a public school where he is a teacher and she was a visiting consultant. The groom came up with an awesome opening line for his vows: “To paraphrase a line in your favourite movie, Casablanca: ‘Of all the classrooms, in all the high schools, in all of New York City, you walked into mine.’ And I’m so lucky that you did.” ### 2\. Ask yourself these key questions Sit down with pen and paper, or at your computer, and jot down your thoughts as you consider these questions: - How did you meet and what made you fall in love? - What do you love about each other? - What does getting married mean to you? - What are some of your dreams and intentions for married life? - What story do you want to share about your love? Your answers can provide unique insights that can be blended into your vows. One example I will never forget involves a vegan bride who married a meat inspector. In doing this exercise they realised their shared love of animals transcended their political differences about food. Part of the vow the groom spoke was: “I love you because when you saw a hungry stray dog sitting by a hot dog truck, you bought it a meal — exactly what I would have done.” ### 3\. Connect to the feelings Before you write, take a moment to reconnect to the energy and magic that made you want to get married. Remember the moment you recognised your relationship was meant to be; reflect on the excitement of the day you became engaged. Think of the little things that your beloved does to make you happy. Let the feelings flow and the vows will likely flow out, too. Start writing down the thoughts that surface. ### 4\. Begin your first draft Think of your vows as a short love letter. You might open by sharing something about your first meeting. Then, share what you love about your sweetie (you can include cute and funny reasons) and how your beloved makes you feel. Highlight the things you look forward to experiencing and building together. Sprinkle in promises you want to make on your wedding day. Summarise by sharing how grateful you are for their love. Feel free to add your own unique touches. One bride, who first met her husband when she was a teen and married him 14 years later, included diary entries from her old journals in which she fantasised about being his wife. It was charming, and profound, because they had loved each other, lost each other, and found one another again. ### 5\. Revise and perfect You may have to sit with this for a few days, so don’t leave it until the last minute. When ready, go through the first draft; edit or add in new thoughts. Don’t be afraid to use humour if that’s your style. A British bride told her beloved that she loved his strength of character and warm heart, and decided to spice things up with: “And, I quite like watching you walk around in your towel in the morning.” ### 6\. Make sure you speak from the heart Let your sentiments come from deep within. Since it is your wedding, you are welcome to share whatever you wish, but your vows do not have to be long or entertaining. Just make them real and allow yourself to deliver them with the authentic emotion of the moment. Those are the best wedding vows. - [vows](/tag/vows) - [personal vows](/tag/personal-vows) - [writing vows](/tag/writing-vows) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Writing the best personal wedding vows](https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1628534323991-68d843531041?q=80&w=400&auto=format&fit=crop&ixlib=rb-4.0.3&ixid=M3wxMjA3fDB8MHxwaG90by1wYWdlfHx8fGVufDB8fHx8fA%3D%3D&h=225)](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) ### [Writing the best personal wedding vows](/writing-awesome-personal-vows) The number one tips from Josh on making your spouse cry in the marriage ceremony because you're exchanging personal vows - [![Making Your Wedding Day Special](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/lipstick_on_a_pig_at_a_wedding_P3TrCHFDq?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/lipstick-on-a-pig) ### [Making Your Wedding Day Special](/lipstick-on-a-pig) A wedding isn't an exercise of putting lipstick on a pig, it's the two of you getting married, and that's already awesome. - [![One word that makes your wedding vows better](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/exchanging_vows_in_umbria_MVOWlr2ah?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/one-word) ### [One word that makes your wedding vows better](/one-word) One little word can change the whole direction of your vows and make them more heartfelt, more pointed, and better received. - [![A Wedding Ceremony Outline](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/wedding_ceremony_by_melbourne_wedding_celebrant_josh_withers_zQNp3BCEM?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/wedding-ceremony-outline) ### [A Wedding Ceremony Outline](/wedding-ceremony-outline) If you’re researching wedding ceremony outline and trying to figure out what actually happens at a wedding, this is for you. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Chazz— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/chazz-15zkord) - [Isabella & Matthew— Vocabolo Moscatelli](/wedding-testimonials/isabella-and-matthew-1kd0ddg) - [Scott— Huon Valley, Tasmania](/wedding-testimonials/scott-1b9ujuv) --- # /yandex_d8b6eeeee001a08b URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/yandex_d8b6eeeee001a08b Verification: d8b6eeeee001a08b --- # Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/yoda May 8, 2025 · [Wedding planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing Discover why wedding ceremonies often go unheard and how to make yours memorable. Take wedding ceremony inspiration from Yoda's distinctive speech. ![Making Your Wedding Worth Hearing](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/star_wars_JXo8IlBZF?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) When I first pinned the (metaphhorical) celebrant badge to my lapel in 2009, one thought kept circling my mind: nobody’s actually listening to wedding ceremonies. We just sit there and smile through this thing, desperately hoping th bar opens directly after. It wasn’t that guests weren’t physically present - they were there, phones hopefully tucked away, perched on those uncomfortable white folding chairs we all know too well. But mentally? They’d checked out before the first “Dearly beloved” hit the air. Why? Because they’d heard it all before. ![Mawiwage](/_astro/mawwiage-the-princess-bride.cjRZquxH_Z1G8T4T.webp) The same tired phrases recycled at every ceremony: - “Dearly beloved …” - “We are gathered here today…” - “Love is patient, love is kind…” - “Two become one…” - “For richer, for poorer…” - “I now pronounce you …” - “You may now kiss the bride…” These wedding ceremony staples have become so commonplace that they’ve essentially turned invisible. When guests hear the opening lines, their brains subconsciously think, “I know this script,” and switch to autopilot. Recently in an [interview](https://edition.cnn.com/2025/04/26/entertainment/george-lucas-yoda-talks-out-order/index.html), George Lucas explained why he gave Yoda his distinctive backwards speech pattern in Star Wars: > “Because if you speak regular English, people won’t listen that much. But if he had an accent, or it’s really hard to understand what he’s saying, they focus on what he’s saying.” Lucas needed 12-year-olds to hear Yoda’s wisdom, so he made the wise Jedi speak differently. He disrupted expectations to command attention. This is precisely what I’ve aimed to do with wedding ceremonies for fifteen years. I don’t suggest speaking backwards like our little green friend (though I’d happily officiate a Star Wars themed wedding). Rather, I believe in creating ceremonies that wake people up because they don’t sound like every other wedding they’ve attended. When your celebrant says something unexpected, personal, or uniquely phrased, guests lean in. They tune back in. They actually hear the significance of what’s happening. Your marriage deserves that attention. Your ceremony deserves to be heard, not just witnessed. You invited these guests for a reason! The greatest moments in life happen when we’re fully present. A marriage ceremony marks one of the most significant transitions two people will make together. It deserves more than mumbled clichés and zoned-out guests. So when planning your ceremony, consider this: what will make your people truly listen? What words will cut through the wedding white noise? What will make this moment authentically yours? Because your love story isn’t a cliché, and neither should be the way it’s told. --- Photo credit to [Josh Kelly](https://joshkelly.com.au) - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [yoda](/tag/yoda) - [star wars](/tag/star-wars) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/_astro/mornington-peninsula-wedding-elopement-celebrant.q5Gh8b9c_25blks.jpeg)](/how-i-create-ceremonies) ### [Why I Create Wedding Ceremonies This Way](/how-i-create-ceremonies) I prepare deeply, speak naturally and centre the two people getting married because a ceremony is a living moment, not a script recital. - [![Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/sydney-wedding-celebrant_zTQGL_Bou?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/vows-outside-ceremony) ### [Can we exchange vows personally, outside of the ceremony?](/vows-outside-ceremony) More couples are choosing to save their personal vows for a private moment. As a celebrant, I understand the appeal but want to explore what this means. - [![I don't ask you to say I do, usually](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/marriage_ceremony_by_josh_withers_D4TqLJfnY?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-dont) ### [I don't ask you to say I do, usually](/i-dont) Cuties call the ceremony the "I dos" bit of the day, which is cute, but it's actually not required and in many of my ceremonies I don't do it. - [![Unnecessary things celebrants we say](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/Natasha-Michael-Married-42_Vk4SAr745?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) ### [Unnecessary things celebrants we say](/unnecessary-traditional-things-celebrants-say) Celebrants and officiants say the darnedest things that they don't have to say. This is the list of things celebrants could just stop saying. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Christie— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/christie-1k2v0j2) - [Chris & Melissa— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/chris-and-melissa-1hja5js) - [Ben & Teala— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/ben-and-teala-0zv4pdy) --- # You'll never have the perfect wedding URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/youll-never-have-a-perfect-wedding Jan 30, 2020 · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 2 min read # You'll never have the perfect wedding Waiting for a couple this afternoon, I feel down an Internet rabbit hole of wedding industry websites. ![You'll never have the perfect wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/xuZFDW9F1Y4_hV8NSAH_A?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) I’ll proofread and edit this article using Australian English spelling and conventions. Here’s the corrected version: I’m reading through so many different wedding blogs and wedding vendor websites, and this one word featured so much more prominently than any others: perfect. - Perfect day - The perfect wedding! - Your perfect day - Plan your one perfect day I’m not sure whose fault this is. It could be that life really throws people curveballs and it would be lovely, a romantic notion if you like, to enjoy at least one perfect day, making it the bride and groom’s fault. Or maybe the wedding industry is taking its cues from the health and wellbeing industry and is letting you know that your life could be a whole lot better, so let us help. Either way, there’s a problem with the perfect day being perfect. The problem with perfect is that perfection is an unreachable level of satisfaction. You’ll never achieve it, and if you’re expecting it, you’ll be disappointed. Unless your whole wedding is held in a robot-controlled or computer-simulated world, where uncles don’t get drunk and guests don’t turn up late, then you’re going to be in trouble. Celebrants get caught in traffic and photographers miss some shots. Venues miss cobwebs and stylists—well, stylists are perfectionists, but the rest of us are going to have problems. Just this week I talked to a bride and groom, and despite all of us double-checking everything both times we met and looked at paperwork, I had made an error in the marriage paperwork. I wrote a letter to the government letting them know I made an error, a typo. And then in that letter, I made another typo, because of course the universe needed to prove how human (read: stupid) I was this past Friday. You might think I’m a super-celebrant (please don’t think that) but I’m just human. And everyone else at your wedding is human, which is why perfection is the wrong standard. Of course, with all that said, there is hope, and Britt can vouch for me on this point: I personally lose sleep, work so hard, and go crazy in my endeavour to do the best job possible for my brides and grooms. And I’ve got a bunch of friends who do the same—feel free to [reach out](/contact) for a personalised recommendation. But please don’t expect perfection; you’re only going to be let down by someone, and I hope to God it’s not me! - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [perfect](/tag/perfect) - [expectations](/tag/expectations) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/melbourne-celebrant-withers-1_Qi77mDP_n?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) ### [A warning about Josh Withers, marriage celebrant](/a-warning-about-josh-withers-marriage-celebrant) A few reasons to not book me as your celebrant ... but also ... if you're ok with this I'd love to be your wedding celebrant in Australia! - [![How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/umbria_61BUMtZti?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) ### [How to Be a Celebrant - The 22 Rules](/how-to-be-a-celebrant) A rulebook for the weirdos, romantics, and professionals who believe the ceremony should be the best part of the wedding - [![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) ### [Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town) The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. - [![How to have a generic wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/generic_wedding_1AZjShTH1?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) ### [How to have a generic wedding](/i-cant-create-good-weddings) A text from a friend sparked my reflection on what actually creates a memorable wedding day. It's not the venue, styling, or even your celebrant. ## Ready for a ceremony your guests will remember and you'll feel comfortable in? Less 'dearly beloved', more _you_. Let's create something meaningful together. [Enquire with Josh](/contact) ## Subscribe The Rebels Guide To Getting Married is the ultimate wedding planning guide Real wedding stories ## Hear from couples I've married [All testimonials](/wedding-testimonials) - [Alex— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/alex-1p6i4m4) - [Anthony & Elena— Brisbane, Queensland](/wedding-testimonials/anthony-and-elena-08ka052) - [Jules— Wedding testimonial](/wedding-testimonials/jules-1atq4c8) --- # Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that URL: https://marriedbyjosh.com/your-favourite-people-are-already-in-town Mar 18, 2026 ·Josh Withers · [Wedding Planning](/category/wedding-planning) · 5 min read # Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that The single biggest regret couples share after the wedding isn't about the cake or the playlist. It's that the whole thing was over too fast. ![Your favourite people are already in town — don't waste that](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/winery_wedding_tour_3uedv8Wov?tr=w-900%2Cf-webp%2Cq-60%2Ch-506) Here’s something I’ve noticed after marrying thousands of couples all over the world since 2009: the single biggest regret couples share with me after the wedding isn’t about the cake, the playlist, or whether Uncle Steve’s speech went too long (it did). It’s that the whole thing was over too fast. You’ve spent months — sometimes years — planning this day. You’ve gathered your favourite humans from across the country, maybe across the world. People have taken time off work, booked flights, sorted babysitters. Your best mate from uni is in the same postcode as your cousin from Perth and your old work friend from London. That almost never happens. And then everyone goes home the next day. What a waste. ## Stretch the magic I’ve long believed that the wedding ceremony is the best part of the wedding day. It’s the moment where everything means something. But the days around the wedding? They can be pretty special too — if you let them. More and more of the couples I work with are building experiences around their wedding day, not just on it. A day or two before for the crew to arrive and settle in. A day after for everyone to decompress, eat well, drink something good, and actually have a conversation that isn’t shouted over a DJ. If you’re getting married somewhere worth travelling to — and if you’ve picked [Hobart](/hobart-celebrant), the Hunter Valley, the Barossa, [Sydney](/sydney-celebrant), or anywhere that makes your heart sing — you’ve already done the hard work. The destination is sorted. Your people are coming. Now give them a reason to stay a little longer. ## The pre-wedding tour Forget the sad bucks night at a generic pub in the CBD or the hens do that’s just a day spa and some awkward games. I mean, if that’s your thing, go for it. But there’s a better version of this. Imagine your closest mates on a private tour through Tasmania’s whisky distilleries the day before your wedding. Or your hens group doing a long lunch through the Hunter Valley’s cellar doors with a guide who actually knows what they’re talking about and a bus so nobody’s stuck being the designated driver. It sets the tone. It loosens everyone up. It gives people who don’t know each other yet a shared experience before the ceremony — so when they’re sitting next to each other during your vows, they’ve already got something in common. ## The post-wedding victory lap The day after your wedding is weirdly wonderful. The pressure’s off, you’re married (congratulations, it’s the best), and everyone’s still riding that high. This is where a post-wedding tour absolutely shines. Round up whoever’s still standing and take them on a proper day out. Wine tasting through the Coal River Valley. A harbour tour around Sydney. A long lunch in the Huon Valley where the cider is flowing and the views are absurd. It’s not another event to plan — it’s a gift to your guests and to yourselves. A way to say thank you for showing up, now let’s enjoy being together while we’re all here. ## Let someone else do the organising The last thing you need in wedding week is another logistical headache. This is where having someone who knows the area and can sort the transport, the itinerary, and the good spots makes all the difference. I’ve seen the team at [Dave’s Travel Group](https://daves.com.au/) do this really well. They run private charter tours that are built around your group — no fixed itinerary, no strangers, no tourist-trap nonsense. Just your people, a guide who knows the good stuff, and a bus so everyone can relax. If you’re getting married in Tasmania, their [bucks, hens, and wedding tours](https://daves.com.au/hobart-wedding-tours/) cover everything from whisky distillery crawls to vineyard days through the Coal River and Huon Valleys, with adventure activities like axe throwing if your crew’s into that sort of thing. Living down here in the [Huon Valley](/huon-valley-celebrant), I can vouch for the region — it’s genuinely special and it punches well above its weight. For Sydney weddings, their [bespoke private charter tours](https://daves.com.au/bespoke-private-charter-sydney-tours/) do the same thing — harbour days, coastal walks, food tours through the inner west, pub crawls with a purpose. They also cover the Hunter Valley, [Melbourne](/melbourne-celebrant), [Brisbane](/brisbane-celebrant), and more, so wherever you’re tying the knot, there’s probably an option. ## Marriage is the start, not the finish line I talk a lot about how marriage is personally powerful, how it’s the bedrock of great families, and how great families build great communities. I believe that completely. But I also believe that the gathering around a wedding — the bringing together of your people — is one of the most underrated parts of the whole experience. Your wedding day is one day. But the wedding _gathering_? That can be three or four days of your favourite people actually being present with each other. Not scrolling, not rushing, not squeezing in a quick catch-up between the ceremony and the canapés. Give your people the gift of time together. Extend the celebration. Turn the destination into the experience. You went to all this effort to get married somewhere beautiful. Don’t let everyone just drive past it on the way to the airport. - [wedding planning](/tag/wedding-planning) - [wedding tours](/tag/wedding-tours) Share: [Back to Blog](/blog) ## Related Posts [View All Posts »](/blog) - [![The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](https://ik.imagekit.io/withers/jess_jaimie-104_E1fQyVz7e?tr=w-400%2Ch-225%2Cf-auto)](/top-10-things-go-wrong) ### [The 10 Things That Will Go Wrong at Your Wedding](/top-10-things-go-wrong) There’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. Something will go wrong—probably. But none of them have to ruin your day. 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