· Wedding Planning  · 2 min read

The Secret Power of a Great Getting Ready Spot

Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos

Start your wedding day right for good vibes and good photos

If there’s one part of wedding day planning that people tend to overlook, it’s this: where you’re going to get ready. And too often, this sacred pre-wedding space turns into a cramped, poorly lit hotel room that’s bursting at the seams with bridesmaids, makeup artists, and a photographer trying to get the shot. It doesn’t have to be this way. In fact, it shouldn’t.

Imagine this instead: a light-filled room, big enough for you and your crew to move comfortably, with natural light flooding in, and a vibe that screams calm, not chaos. Because this isn’t just about logistics—it’s about setting the tone for your whole day.

The Why Behind the Where

Here’s the thing: your wedding day is a whole mood. From the vows to the dance floor, every part should feel like you. That includes the morning of. Choosing a thoughtful, intentional getting-ready spot can ground your day in calm energy, inject some joy into the pre-wedding jitters, and make those getting-ready photos absolute fire.

Plus, let’s face it, makeup looks better in natural light. Photographers love it. And you deserve it.

What to Look For

When scouting your ultimate getting-ready HQ, think about:

  • Light: Natural light is your best friend. It’s flattering for makeup, dreamy for photos, and just plain feels good.
  • Space: You’ll likely have a small army buzzing around. Make sure there’s room to breathe, move, and maybe even do a celebratory twirl in your robe.
  • Vibes: Does this space feel like home? Like you? If it doesn’t bring calm and happiness, keep looking. This is your first chapter of the day—write it in a place that feels right.

Ditch the “It’ll Do” Mentality

Getting ready isn’t just a means to an end. It’s part of the experience. Treat it like it matters, because it does. A beautiful, functional space isn’t an indulgence—it’s the launch pad for a day you’ll remember forever. And trust me, when you look back at your wedding photos, you’ll be glad you didn’t settle for that fluorescent-lit corner of the nearest chain hotel.

So, find the room that feels just as good as that dress looks on you. Because an epic day starts with an epic morning. And you deserve nothing less.

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