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Hi, I'm Josh Withers! For 15 years I've flown, driven, and occasionally hiked to marry legends in every state and territory. I believe your ceremony should be the best part of your wedding – a clear, honest, slightly cheeky celebration of who you are. Paperwork-only marriages start at $700; personalised ceremonies are shaped and quoted around what matters to you, from intimate elopements to full MC + ceremony.








TL;DR
If you're looking for something heartfelt, real, and unforgettable — without the fluff, fake laughs, or recycled ceremony scripts — you've found your guy.
The wedding ceremony should feel better than it looks. It's not just something to 'get through' before drinks.
Every ceremony is created fresh — no recycled paragraphs, no weird stories, and definitely no pretending Josh knows you better than your besties.
Josh is approachable, grounded, and refreshingly direct. You won't get vague wedding jargon or airy waffle — just clear communication, quick replies, and genuine enthusiasm.
Josh works best with couples who value their time, want things done properly, and are curating a day that actually reflects them — not just ticking boxes.
My Approach
Since 2009 I've created bespoke ceremonies for couples from Broome to Bondi and everywhere between. This isn't a side hustle — it's my full-time craft.
Every ceremony is created from scratch because your story deserves more than 'insert couple here.' No reading from scripts — just authentic conversation that breathes your marriage to life.
Authorised under the Marriage Act 1961 and appointed to marry couples in the USA and Canada too. Paperwork done properly, zero stress.
I turn up with Bose speakers and Rode & Sennheiser microphones so every laugh, tear, and promise is heard — and captured cleanly by your videographer.
Think of me as your professional hype-man and steady hand. I'll read the room, hold space, and keep the whole show flowing without weird filler.
$700 is the paperwork-only minimum: the legal ceremony and administration, without a personalised ceremony. Elopements, full ceremonies, and MC services are quoted around what you actually need.
Around 18 minutes, shaped by years of professional speaking: long enough to mean something, short enough to keep your mates present and engaged.
We'll check your date and talk about what matters to you — via Zoom or over a flat white if we're in the same town. Then I'll recommend the right service and give you a clear quote.
At least one month before the big day we'll lodge the Notice of Intended Marriage. I guide you through every requirement so nothing gets missed.
Together we unpack your story, values, and vibe. I shape that into a ceremony framework that feels familiar to you and fresh to your guests.
I deliver your ceremony with presence, professionalism, and personality — setting the tone for an epic party to follow.

"First of all, a huge thank you for this unforgettable wedding. We are so glad we had Josh Withers as our Celebrant at Uluru. Before the wedding he was available to us at almost any time of the day or night. He guided us with a lot of patience in far away Germany through all the forms we had to fill out for our wedding. He also took time to address our fears and concerns that come with making such a decision. The wedding day itself was absolutely wonderful."

Eloped at Uluru
"Josh is a truly wonderful celebrant who will make you feel at ease from your first meeting. Josh has an exceptional way with words and delivered the ceremony of our dreams. It was heart felt and intimate (exactly what we wanted) and I would recommend him to anyone wanting a ceremony that is the opposite of cooker cutter style. His words come straight from the heart (and are not read from off an iPad!) and having him as our celebrant was the perfect intro into marriage. Forever grateful we chose Josh!"

Destination wedding
"Josh wonderful to work with in organizing our special day. Given neither of us had done this before he was helpful, kind and informative, Thanks Josh."
Hobart wedding at Frogmore Creek
Less "dearly beloved", more you. Let's create something meaningful together.
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