What is an elopement?

A Modern Guide to Intimate Weddings

Let’s clear something up right away: elopements aren’t just “tiny weddings.” They’re a whole different vibe. At The Elopement Collective, we believe elopements aren’t about the flowers, the cake, or appeasing a crowd of guests. They’re about you. Full stop. Your story, your love, your promises to each other—without the weight of expectation or tradition.

Here’s the simplest way to put it: at a wedding, you’re hosting an event. You’re creating a day that celebrates you—but for your guests. It’s a wonderful thing, but let’s be honest: there’s a lot of compromise, a lot of other voices in the mix. Aunt Margaret wants to bring her gluten-free cake. Your mum really thinks you should have a garter toss. You’re managing guest lists, seating charts, and the kind of pressure that can make your wedding feel like a performance.

An elopement flips that script. It’s not about hosting anyone. It’s not about making anyone else happy. Yes, you can have guests or witnesses, and it’s lovely if they’re there. But their presence isn’t the point, and their preferences don’t dictate your day. An elopement is about the two of you. Full stop. It’s a day where you get to say, “This is us, unapologetically, and this is how we want to start forever.”

Elopements give you permission to focus entirely on what matters most: each other. Whether you’re barefoot on a beach, standing on a mountaintop, or exchanging vows under the stars, an elopement strips away the noise and brings you back to the heart of it all—your love story.

So, if you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s more about vows than venues, connection over canapés, and meaning above tradition, you’re in the right place. Explore what’s possible with The Elopement Collective and start planning a day that’s 100% you. No compromises, just love. ❤️